Dee’s Statement on the Current Controversy About JD Hall and Braxton Caner’s Suicide

“Repentance is siding with God against self.” ― Todd Nibert link

(There will be other post this evening)

I will not be allowing comments on this blog post. Far too much has already been said and it’s causing tremendous pain for people who will not be named.

I am one of the few people on the planet who understands what happened during the time period surrounding Braxton Caner’s suicide and in the aftermath. I cannot say why that is since it would cause even more pain for others. And believe you me, what has been said and done in recent weeks has caused pain.

I was one of the ones who accused JD Hall of *causing* Braxton’s suicide.” I also denounced JD Hall for *theological thuggery.* I have not changed my mind on thuggery. If anyone out there thinks that I am now supporting JD Hall or Pulpit and Pen, be disabused of that notion.

However, it is equally abhorrent when people, years after the fact, begin to claim that they understand what happened and plan to *do something about it.*

In the aftermath of Braxton’s suicide, I spoke with some counselors and psychiatrists. A few even left messages on my blog post. Hall’s few comments on Braxton’s Twitter, while despicable, did not *cause* Braxton’s suicide. Did it contribute to the pain he was already dealing with? Yes. Do I know something about that pain? Yes but that is all I’m going to say.

This tragedy occurred in 2014. Did anything happen in the aftermath for the family and JD Hall? Yes. Do people really think that the final words and events happened in the days after the suicide?

One thing that happened is recounted in a blog post that I wrote shortly after this painful episode. Wade Burleson contacted me and asked me to speak with JD Hall. Hall wanted to speak with me and Wade wanted me to hear what Hall had to say. As you will see, I didn’t want to do it.  To be perfectly blunt, Hall scared me and I didn’t like his actions in other areas. Hall knew that then and he knows it now.

Wade was persuasive but he was not forceful or demanding. After a few days, I relented and contacted Hall. The following is an account of what transpired. I posted it in 2014.

You may not like how he says things. I wouldn’t say things in the same way. Hall is still Hall.

I am asking everyone involved in the current situation to back off because the pain for others is still raw. I wish I could say more. On one final note, I can also conffirm that Hall did reach out to the family with a personal apology.

PS: If anyone thinks this is an endorsement of Pulpit and Pen, I will hunt you down and slap you upside the head.

For the sake of the family, I am asking people to stop it!

JD Hall and Me: Discussions and a Statement on Brokenness and Repentance

“No, no, a thousand times no!”

That is what was going through my mind when Wade Burleson, acting as a go between, told me that JD Hall wanted to speak to me. This was not Wade’s idea and Wade didn’t tell me I should do it. He merely forwarded the request.

I didn’t want to speak with Hall. If truth be told, Deb and I have made it a goal to stay as far away from JD Hall and his pulpiteers as possible. They scared us and we don’t scare easily. I mulled over the request for two days.

During that time, I spent time contemplating the story of David and Bathsheba. David used his position of authority in order to sleep with Bathsheba. She became pregnant and David made sure that her husband, Uriah, was killed. David was eventually confronted and repented. However, the child from this ill-fated liaison died. From what I can tell, this story took place over the course of a year. Repentance and forgiveness came after much sorrow and pain.

With fear, frustration and, I must admit, a bit of curiosity, I made the call. I could tell that Jordan (he told me to call him that because that is what his friends call him) was quite nervous in speaking with me. We have since spoken three times. He repeated (at least 10 times) that he felt he needed to contact me because he wanted to reach out to his critics in order to express the depths of his brokenness. In our conversations he never once blamed me or anyone else for the events that have occurred or the things that have been written. He takes full responsibility for the inappropriateness of his conversation with Braxton and for the anger of many in the aftermath.

In my conversations with him, I became convinced that he is repentant and has begun the process of a life transformation. However, I know that many others will not take that at face value. He doesn’t expect it and neither do I (nor would I had I not spoken with him.) Only time will tell the full story; just as time told the full story of King David.

Jordan has some plans to change the trajectory of his life. He said he got caught up in the celebrity thing and that led to disaster. He wants nothing to do with that in the future. He said a number of times that he wanted to fade into the background, content that no one would know who he was except the small church of which he is a pastor.

I stand by the post(ed. note-the one after Braxton’s suicide.)  that I wrote. Jordan did not presume to ask me to change anything. I was waiting for that and was surprised that he did not. From our dialogue, I believe that his goal was to tell his critics that he is deeply sorry and that he takes responsibility for his actions.

So, as hard as it is for me to believe that I am saying this, I believe that Jordan is telling the truth. I believe that he is deeply sorry and ashamed of his actions. I believe him when he says he is no longer going to pursue anything to do with Ergun Caner. I believe him when he says his life is going to change. However, I do not expect anyone who is reading this to believe the same. I believe that time will demonstrate the sincerity of his conversations with me. I do know this. I am no longer afraid of JD Hall and that I am planning on praying for him and his family just as I have been praying for Ergun Caner’s family and friends.

Now, I am going to say something with which Jordan is uncomfortable but I think it must be said. He was quite upset that the news got out that there were death threats against his family. He said that it made him look like he was saying he was a victim. Jordan does not believe he is a victim. He says he brought this on himself and he will deal with it. I am bringing this up of my own accord and can truthfully say that Jordan did not ask me to do this.

Jordan is a husband and a dad. He has small children, including a baby and he fears for his family. It is despicable for anyone to threaten another human being with death or harm, no matter how mad they are. This blog stands against all kinds of abuse and such threats are abusive. This must stop.

What Jordan did was wrong. He should not have communicated with Braxton Caner via Twitter and he should not have spoken of it in a post or a radio show. He will live with that the rest of his life. Since I am now convinced that he is repentant, I know he will remember this with great sorrow until the day that he goes home to be with his Father. However, I am a believer in the God of King David. Jordan is not beyond redemption. None of us are.

Below is the reprint of Hall’s apology which was read on the air during his radio show and released to the ABP as well as to TWW. Jordan did make me laugh in one regard. He said he knew we would spend hours transcribing the radio broadcast so he wanted to make it easier on us. I can truthfully say we are grateful for that.

This was first read to his church on Sunday and Jordan will be undergoing church discipline. He called today to ask me what I thought about his confession. He was concerned that he got his message out. As you read this, please do so knowing that he really cares what TWW’s reading audience will think. I am sure he will be reading your comments.

The Bible tells us how to handle certain matters when there’s conflict or controversy. We’re not given multiple options for how to handle these things, and thankfully the Scripture lines out clearly how to deal with our differences. We’ve been well-instructed in these matters. As you know, the chief and core mission of this church is to glorify God, and the only proper method of accomplishing that goal is to do things in accordance to Scripture without hesitation or reluctance. So, although it is not part of our usual Lord’s Day routine, we need to deal with a matter in accordance with Scripture for the edification of the body. If you’re here as a guest and not a part of our fellowship, then please understand: We’re doing something churches are supposed to do.

This is my confession to you:

After being in this body for a number of years, I began to see corruption, sin, and cover-up in our denomination. I struggled immensely with this, especially in the relationship of our church with the state convention — beginning around 2010. Three years of frustration, disgust, heart-brokenness, and struggle in dealing with these various issues that I believed (and still believe) are a horrible reproach to Christ and his church. All of that struggle came out in a sermon I preached in Helena in 2013 called “Modern Day Downgrade.”

Within a few months that sermon had been heard many thousands of times and played on both conventional Christian radio shows and podcasts around the country. It clearly struck a chord. People began to call to see what I thought. They emailed to ask my advice. They began to download my sermons and quote me in their sermons. I was offered help to start and market my own program. People listened to it; many more than I thought would listen. All the while, I was trying to do the work of both a pastor and an evangelist.

I say all this because I’ve been fighting a war (a terrible, excruciating war, for about three years. I found myself in a movement calling for reform in the SBC. The next thing I knew people were listening to my concerns. People who shared my concerns listened and encouraged me. Again, there were many more like that than I ever imagined. But that came at a great price.

Locally, many may not realize that “JD Hall” became a household name in certain districts of the SBC or that I was often in the middle of skirmishes in faraway lands that most of you couldn’t care less about. Some of you may not even know I had my own radio program. Feedback from me was sometimes solicited by various media outlets around the country. I’ve tried to keep that to a minimum in my life and ministry, albeit without much success.

I also realize that this has been my fight. I told you this a number of weeks ago, prior to our celebration of the Lord’s Supper. I realize this has been my fight. The vast majority of you don’t care about the denomination that we are technically affiliated with; most of you weren’t even Baptists before arriving here, and some of you may not even know what denomination we’re in now because we don’t talk about it, and for the most part, we don’t let it affect what we’re trying to accomplish here.  So, feeling like this is my fight, I’ve tried to avoid bringing people who are trying to walk with Jesus and live their lives into something that doesn’t pertain to their existence.

In this part of my ministry over the last three years, I spent time on multiple issues including:

(1) the selling and marketing of religious goods that are spiritually toxic by our Southern Baptist publishing arm and bookstores — material that is Biblically inept and knowingly contrary to sound doctrine. They do this for reasons I can only perceive to be motivated by an obscene quest for profit. Some of the material promoted in our denominational bookstores is far more offensive than the moneychanging business in the temple. It includes material that if sold at Wal-Mart would be tragic, but the fact that it is being sold in Southern Baptist bookstores is downright traitorous to our calling.

I’ve simultaneously been embroiled in (2) a controversy at an SBC college in Louisiana dealing with the persecution of three professors who were dismissed for holding to Biblical beliefs in regards to soteriology, and some administrators who were fired for blowing the whistle on a related controversy.

And I’ve had a deep concern about the influence of (3) a college president in Georgia named Ergun Caner, who after 9-11 manufactured a false life story, claiming to have been born in countries he wasn’t born in, raised in countries he wasn’t raised in, speaking languages he does not speak, and a multitude of even more egregious falsehoods, all told countless times to various audiences. Through about ten years of embellishing his life story (not stretching the truth, but manufacturing lies with not the slightest basis in objective reality) he became one of the most prominent men in our denomination and president of the largest Christian university in the world. When his lies were exposed, he was quietly dismissed and our denomination went on the trail of cover-up and dismissal.

Of more urgent concern than the man’s lack of repentance, confession, or contrition have been (4) a number of key church leaders who have covered for him and continued to promote him aggressively, thereby making a mockery of the Gospel’s call for repentance, profaning their pulpits, and promoting a religion with a form of godliness while denying its power.

Finally, (5) I’ve tackled the refusal of the Christian press to report any of these issues.  I’ve sought to expose that and call us all to repentance—not only for the culture of corruption (because there will always be corruption), but more pointedly, for the wider culture of complicit silence regarding that corruption — a shameful silence that is egregiously defended in the name of “Christlikeness.”

I realized that I needed to back away from these conflicts through a number of loving brothers who saw the toll this battle was taking on me, my aging, my family, my sanity, my stress. They saw me reveal and speak truth, but sometimes be hard and speak too harshly. I candidly looked around and didn’t recognize what I had become.

Simultaneously, about a month ago, I was approached by these friends who said that I should pray about an exit strategy from that part of my life. Its toll was too costly. I was reminded that God says, “Vengeance is mine; I will repay.” And again, “The Lord will judge his people” (Hebrews 10:30). God will settle his own affairs. He doesn’t need me to fix everything that is wrong in the church today. My friends suggested that the over-zealousness of a reckless critic is ultimately no better than error. I believed them, at first reluctantly, but the Spirit led me to agree with them.

So, I came before you about seven weeks ago and said that I realized I’ve erred in how have gone about trying to bring about change. That was on Father’s Day, if I recall. I told you I would rebuke myself on account of that. Then, I gave a letter to the church council a few weeks later, suggested to me by no one but my own conscience, and said I would stop writing for my website or for other publications. I haven’t written any articles since then. I said that my radio show was going on hiatus for a few weeks, and might be canceled for good. Some were pressuring me to continue the program and make it more devotional — just do an easy, devotional commentary of Spurgeon’s Morning and Evening.

That’s the route that I took. I didn’t completely stop all engagement in these other affairs, but most. I spoke to those hosting my program and told them I was making these changes.

But before I took a break from the program, before I stated my conviction that I realign myself and ministry, I had an exchange with the son of Ergun Caner on Twitter. He had displayed various examples of public conduct that to me, at least, was clearly and plainly immoral, and I called him out on it. In regard to this young man’s public behavior, I had made a statement along the lines of, “The immorality surrounding [Ergun Caner] is astounding.” The son engaged me after that, and I asked him one question, and repeated it a second time, concerning a claim his father had made regarding him. I asked him if it were true. The third and last comment I made directly to him was that because of his age, I would discontinue the conversation but that he could email if he felt so led at a later time to seek or speak truth. He then continued to post rather terse comments on Twitter for some time afterward, but I didn’t respond. He didn’t seem terribly torn up over the incident; in fact, he seemed bolder and more defiant in his sin.

I received a considerable amount of pushback in the wake of that exchange. A few of my close friends told me that what I did wasn’t a sin, because public sin can and should be addressed publicly and there is, no doubt, Biblical precedent for this. (This is, by the way, why we are addressing this publicly here and now in spite of the abject awkwardness of doing it during our regular Sunday morning worship.) Other friends, though, asked me if my heart was right in calling him out. Could I have done the right thing for the wrong reason, making it the wrong thing?

Here’s the conclusion I came to:  From to time to time, I see the youth of this church say or convey something that is off track or ungodly. On those occasions I usually contact the mom or dad to say, “Hey. Are you aware of this?” One time I posted the expression “Jesus wept” when a young woman had exhibited profanity on her social media page. But in all those situations, my heart was for the person who needed rebuked. My aim was to reconcile them; to restore them. It was, at its heart, pastoral. Even though this young man’s sin was public, and we didn’t go looking for it (it wasn’t hidden, but laid bare for all the world to see), I confess I called him out for the wrong reason.

I posted an apology on my website within just a few days of that exchange. I acknowledged that it was wrong, sinful because my heart was wrong in why I did it, and I asked for forgiveness. I also sent an apology directly to Ergun Caner through a mutual acquaintance, who assured me he would receive it. I told him I was open to apologizing in person if he cared to call me. I also said I was wrong on something else that was gnawing at me but hadn’t received the kind of push-back this other issue did, which is that I gave credence to a rumor I had heard. I apologized for that also and asked forgiveness.

It was after this, but not merely because of this, that I decided to make changes in the focus of my wider ministry—especially the radio broadcast. (This was prompted by the godly concern of my friends.) I asked three men to hold me accountable to make sure my radio program was tempered with a new spirit and that my outrage be tempered. The last several weeks after making these changes have been like a vacation. They’ve been nice. I’ve been throwing my newly found spare time into personal evangelism, open air preaching, and even something I haven’t done in years — recreation. I felt back on track and in the Lord’s will.

But then nearly a month later, last Tuesday, Ergun Caner’s son committed suicide. I don’t believe my four-comment and rather cordial exchange with him had anything to do with it. (I don’t think any reasonable person would if they knew all the facts.) But frankly, we don’t know for certain what factors led to his suicide, and I’m not sure we ever will. (Apparently, the official cause of death has not yet been determined).

But in certain online forums, there was an immediate rush to tie the young man’s suicide to that brief social-media exchange with me more than a month earlier. One prominent commentator from a secular news network was asked by the Caner family to provide commentary within a few days of their son’s death. That writer blamed “cyber bullying” and “thuggery.” Some of the Caner’s associates have accused me of “cyber-stalking”; “harassing”; and “bullying” the young man. People are angry. They want someone to blame.

For the last week and a half, I’ve made no attempt to defend myself. The facts are a matter of public record, and even though the whole tragedy pains me deeply, I have made no attempt to erase the record of my exchange with the young man. I wish to be completely transparent. What I don’t want to do and what I refuse to do is minimize my own wrong.

It’s true, to my shame, that when I commented publicly about the inconsistencies in the young man’s testimony — and especially when I referenced my concerns about his father — I did not do it in the right spirit or out of the right motivation. It was sinful for me to challenge him publicly like that. I was not thinking or acting pastorally in how I addressed him. I certainly would have treated one of my own flock differently, albeit still directly. My heart leans strongly toward gentleness when dealing similar issues here. And yet when dealing with these issues out there, I have been too hard. I understand why some would say, “Why are you different out there than you are here?” I have been at war for three years. It is hard being both pastor and warrior. They don’t go well together. So I’ve kept them separate. That’s the best explanation I can give.

The irony is that about three weeks ago I made known to you, my flock, that I was walking away from these conflicts. It was too late to spare me from the consequences now engulfing me. In one sense, I am reaping what I sowed. When you live by the sword, you die by it .

Let me say this in all sincerity: I am profoundly sorry that Braxton Caner ended his life. Knowing now that this young man struggled with that level of despair, I am even more sorry that my interaction with him was adversarial rather than pastoral. News of his death hit me hard, and I was immediately smitten with shame for the lack of grace in my public interaction with him. All the combined invective that has been aimed my way in recent days does not even begin to equal my own grief and contrition. If these events (and my confession) ultimately end any influence I might ever have, I will accept that as our sovereign God’s perfect will.

I do realize that God never needed me to right every wrong in the denomination. He can settle his own accounts. His arm is long, both to save and to bring vengeance. In my zeal, there has been a disconnect between my theology and my methodology. I do know God is sovereign— and yet, I’ve relied too much on my own strength and not solely on the Spirit in my earnest desire to see justice prevail. That’s sin, even if the cause is right. I confess it.

Let me repeat: I never should have briefly interacted with that young man on the 2nd day of July, because my heart to him was not pastoral. Some have accused me of far worse things. Some seem determined to exploit a tragedy for theological and political gain. That’s wicked.

Nor do I wish to elicit anyone’s sympathy. Our prayers must be with the Caner family. Their grief can’t be overstated. And I sincerely grieve with them in their sorrow (Romans 12:15).

I do realize that I’ve been heading the wrong way in ministry, and I need to repent of that; to turn, to do an about-face, to come back. I once said (and someone made this comment into an Internet meme): “Every time we fail to repent, we fail to demonstrate a proper response to the Gospel.”

This is the best display of the Gospel, that I, in all my weakened, broken flesh can demonstrate for you. Right now, it’s all I’ve got. All I can do in the midst of the unbelievable heartache and sadness I feel for the Caner family and my own family and the giant disgrace this mess has become is demonstrate something that we’ve been praying that so many at the heart of this very controversy would do for over four years: repent. To confess sin, to change our minds in repentance toward our erred trajectory, and ask forgiveness for the ways we fall short of the glory of God.

Let me assure you of this: This terrible, terrible tragedy has accomplished two things (1) I am broken. I am unequivocally, completely broken. I am a crushed man. My spirit is crushed. I am sorrowful. I am hurting. (2) This has forever changed me, in more ways that I can currently comprehend.

With those two realities and everything that accompanies them (the arguments, the warfare, the ridiculous absurdities, sinful failures, fallacious allegations, hysterical reactionaries, capitalizing upon tragedy, and the tragedy itself) the things of the world grow strangely dim, and what seems to burst forth in high-definition clarity is a blood-soaked, rugged cross where all our sin was atoned for. At this point, to me, to this church, to this situation, I think that’s what matters most, and that’s certainly the only source of comfort: a blood-soaked, rugged cross and an empty tomb.

We don’t hide things here. We open up. We put it out there. We cling to the promise of Romans 8:1. We want to be real.

And so as my church, here’s what I need from you as I struggle with this. What I need is for you to preach to me. I’ve preached to you for more than seven years the depths, the heights, the width of God’s free grace to sinners on account of Christ’s blood upon the cross. I’ve preached to you a grace of unmerited favor as Christ Jesus died for our sins. I need you to preach to me, each and every one of you in the coming days, God’s grace that’s given to all who can say through the Spirit’s prompting, “I am a sinner.”


Dee’s Statement on the Current Controversy About JD Hall and Braxton Caner’s Suicide — 3 Comments

  1. Caner should have been responsible for Braxton’s mental health.

    Of course, we know in evangelicalism, you’re supposed to pretend you don’t have problems. I remember being at Liberty and being told never to get counseling if I wanted to have any sort of presence in ministry or as a missionary. Because getting counseling means you aren’t trusting Jesus.

    Hall may have done things wrong, but he was not the reason for Braxton’s suicide. I suspect Caner himself had a lot more to do with that. I’ve heard Caner’s jihad testimony in person several times now. If he lied about that, I don’t doubt he lied about other things in his life as well.

    I’m starting to wonder if I should start trying to count the number of celebrity evangelical men (ALL men) who lied about things in sermons I’ve heard at Liberty or SEBTS. Some of those even said things to me personally that I now know to be lies (looking at you Paige Patterson and KP Yohannan).

    Last week, I confessed to my pastor how some Sundays I just wanted to run out of church because of the horrible things I’ve seen done in the name of Jesus. Maybe it’s a type of PSTD. I don’t know if it will ever go away.

  2. My fault. The comment section was supposed to be closed. It’s closing now but those who got through will be allowed to stand.