“In the wake of numerous scandals among pastors in recent years, former megachurch pastor Tullian Tchividjian is making an appeal to churches: extend grace and forgiveness to disgraced leaders.”
Dee and I have been keeping up with Tullian Tchividjian from the time he was chosen to succeed D. James Kennedy at Coral Ridge Presbyterian Church. Tchividjian was officially installed as senior pastor of Coral Ridge on May 10, 2009. Here is a series of posts we wrote back in the early days of our blog discussing the controversy regarding Tchividjian.
Coral Ridge Presbyterian Church – Take Two
Tradition: Outlawed in the 21st Century Church
We were greatly concerned about Tullian Tchividjian back then – we call it The Warburg Tingle – and we are deeply disappointed with how he has conducted himself in recent years, particularly in his personal life.
Tchividjian resigned from the pastorate at Coral Ridge three years ago (June 21, 2015) after admitting to having an affair. He and his wife had been married for 11 years. It turns out he had multiple affairs. Then on August 11, 2015, Tchividjian was deposed by the South Florida Presbytery of the PCA, who ruled him “unfit for Christian ministry.” He has since divorced and remarried.
Tullian Tchividjian, whose grandfather was Billy Graham, has written numerous books. Also, his blog was featured over at The Gospel Coalition website until he had a falling out with TGC founders. On May 21, 2014, Don Carson wrote:
In Tullian’s case, it was obvious to observers that for some time there has been an increasingly strident debate going on around the issue of sanctification. The differences were doctrinal and probably even more matters of pastoral practice and wisdom. Recently it became clear that the dispute was becoming increasingly sharp and divisive rather than moving toward greater unity.
Tchividjian’s blog was then removed from TGC’s website.
This is just some of the background information regarding Tullian. He is once again in the news because of his insistence that disgraced leaders should be forgiven and extended grace.
Tchivjian’s latest book reflects his position regarding grace – that it should be inexhaustible. We are left wondering whether he has ever asked for forgiveness from those whom he has hurt so that he can then be extended this kind of grace.
Tullian Tchividjian’s pastor, Patrick Thurmer, has extended this kind of grace, as indicated by this excerpt from a post he wrote which was featured on Tchividjian’s blog. He explained:
I am a solo pastor of a small Lutheran church. Ever since arriving here just over 20 years ago we have been welcoming sinners, serving the Gospel to those that God brings our way, and functioning as a recovery place for those who have bottomed out. That’s what we at Living Faith Church are committed to being for the Tchividjians and anyone else who walks through our doors.
I can’t speak with authority about the man Tullian used to be. But I can speak with confidence about the man Tullian is now. And this I know beyond a shadow of a doubt: the work of God in his life is real. And I am furthermore confident that God has a useful place in His Kingdom for all of us, including Tullian.
I know there are many who will view our welcoming Tullian and his family, with joy. I am also aware that there may be others who will view it with disdain (which is very sad to me). But when it’s all said and done, my greatest comfort comes from Another who received sinners like me and ate with them and who promises to make all things new.
To be clear, this Lutheran church where the Tchividjians worship belongs to a very small Lutheran denomination – definitely not Missouri-Synod.
The Christian Post has just published an article challenging Tchividjian’s belief regarding grace. It is entitled Tullian Tchividjian calls on churchgoers to show grace to disgraced pastors
The sub-title is: It’s ‘Anti-Christian’ to Remember Them by Scandals
This article begins as follows:
In the wake of numerous scandals among pastors in recent years, former megachurch pastor Tullian Tchividjian is making an appeal to churches: extend grace and forgiveness to disgraced leaders.
“The cross of Jesus shows us that God is serious about sin and we should therefore take sin seriously. But (and this is the part that often seems missing when scandal in church leadership happens) the cross also shows us that God is serious about redemption, restoration, and forgiving sins and we should take that seriously too,” Tchividjian, who resigned as pastor at Coral Ridge Presbyterian Church in 2015 after admitting to an extramarital affair, said in a blog post written with Chad Bird.
Tchividjian and Bird, also a former pastor who committed adultery, clarified that the church should neither go soft on sin nor sweep it under the rug. But they emphasized that “real sin is also met with real forgiveness” and that pastors are sinners just like churchgoers are.
“The grace of God is not reserved for the ‘well-behaved.’
It then explains:
The two Christian speakers and authors noted that over the last five years, they have seen “more Christian leaders (including ourselves) exposed for their sin and deposed from their positions than at any other time in recent history.”
The article goes on to state:
“It is anti-Christian to remember people primarily by the scandalous things they’ve done. We love to whittle an entire life-story down to a single season. Then, with the authority invested in us by the state of self-righteousness, we proclaim, ‘This, and nothing else, is who you are,'” they argued.
“We have done very bad things, very good things, and plenty of cocktails of them both. Sadly, most people remember only the bad. Thankfully, we have a God who remembers only the good. And the only good he remembers is the good that Christ has done for us, in us, and through us.”
In their appeal to the church, the two authors clarified that they are “not talking about Christian leaders being restored to his or her position of leadership….”
The authors called on the church to stand “alongside the disgraced” if it really wants to “stand apart from the world,” and even risk being “falsely attacked as ‘soft on sin.'”
Please read the entire CP article to get the full gist of what Tullian Tchividjian and Chad Bird are promoting.
Other Christian leaders have taken issue with what Tchividjian and Bird are contending, and they are challenging their positions regarding forgiveness and grace. Dee alerted me that some Lutheran leaders are speaking up and she is making sure they are getting quite a bit of press via Twitter.
Pastor Joshua Scheer, Senior Pastor of Our Savior Lutheran Church in Cheyenne, Wyoming, wrote a post entitled: Great Stuff-Gottesdienst-Real Sin. Real Forgiveness. Real Faith. Real Fruits of Repentance
Scheer makes some extremely important points in his post, and here are Dee’s favorites:
1. “Consider for a moment what the families, the parishioners, the fellow pastors in the ministerium go through every time Tchividjian and Bird write a book, post an article, or are highlighted in the news or on social media for discussing the depths of their sin and how much they are forgiven. That is shameful and anti-Christian for a forgiven sinner to thrust forgiveness in the face of those abused so that they can profit from it.”
2. “While we have no authority over them, as Christians we call on them to stop and will continue to tell other fellow Christians that they should not follow men who have disqualified themselves in this way.”
3. “The fruits of the spirit and repentance spring forth therefrom. May it be also with these men for the good of those whom they have wronged, for the good of the church at large and its reputation in the world, and for their own good also. This is how they are to use their many and great gifts. They are to employ their gifts in the places where God has actually called and put them: in their homes to repair the ruins and limit the further harm they can do to those they’ve already abused”
We sincerely hope that more Christian leaders, as well as Christian laymen (and laywomen), will voice their concerns regarding Tullian’s Tchividjian’s position on forgiveness and grace. We don’t want our brothers and sisters to be misled on these extremely important Biblical principles.
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1st
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Yay, you beat Dr.Steve!
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Gotta rush off to school sports day now but will post proper comment later.
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Quote from Don Carson:
“In Tullian’s case, it was obvious to observers that for some time there has been an increasingly strident debate going on around the issue of sanctification. The differences were doctrinal and probably even more matters of pastoral practice and wisdom. Recently it became clear that the dispute was becoming increasingly sharp and divisive rather than moving toward greater unity.”
I get that poor theology can lead to poor behavior, but this is seriously weak. Let me get this straight: you didn’t kick him off TGC because he was authoritarian, slept with his parishioners, cheated on his wife, and was a general dirt bag. You kicked him off because you disagreed about a theology word. I enjoy a good theological discussion, but disagreement about theology shouldn’t be more likely to end a relationship than finding out someone is a creep.
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Estelle,
Have fun! Meanwhile, I’m crawling into bed. 🙂
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Ricco,
Tullian’s moral failings were revealed a year after he was booted from The Gospel Coalition website.
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Yes, and show grace to the repentant robber by handing him your house keys, your alarm code, and telling him when you’ll be away. Show grace by letting the doctor who botched your last operation, get a second or third chance to slice you open. Show grace…
But don’t worry, TT merely wants you to trust him with your soul. Sigh.
I don’t think “grace” means what he thinks it means. He seems to treat it like a Get-Out-Of-Jail-Free card from Monopoly: throw out that Grace card and I won’t need to pay any consequences for where I landed…
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Deb,
Ok, makes sense. Guess I got the timeline wrong. Still seems a little lame to me, but I guess they have a right to police their doctrine however they want to.
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Idea for TT: Get a job that isn’t funded by people giving their hard earned cash to you in hopes to please God. Be just a guy for the next decade and see what happens
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These guys are confusing mercy and grace. And the mercy they are talking about is being dragged through the mud. They are stepping all over the mercy of God. They just refuse to get out of the limelight or bring forth any real fruit of repentance. They are still pursuing the almighty dollar and calling it Jesus Christ. This is disgusting beyond words. There is a good video that talks about this hyper-grace bull. You can watch both parts from this link: https://www.morningstartv.com/prophetic-perspective-current-events/grace-hyper-grace-movement-part-1
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What a clown. I think he is putting this out there just to see if anyone will buy it.
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ION: Fitba’
Weirdly, Liverpool are actually playing on Saturday this weekend (at home to Brighton).
IHTIH
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Par for the course with TGC (and the YR&R in general) I’m afraid. Theology is all that matters.
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TT’s theology is a disaster. It can be interpreted as giving him the leeway to do just about anything and then expect grace (as he understands grace) to be his all purpose pardon and restoration.
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Deb
Thank you for posting this. I was delighted that a Lutheran entered the fray to speak truth.
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Perhaps a test of the sincerity of TT’s professed views on how grace should work in the life of local congregations would be how ordinary people at CRPC were treated when they were found to have transgressed biblical standards.
I have no information, but my intuition is that they were probably treated pretty strictly.
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I think they’re also confusing “forgiveness/reconciliation” and “renewed trust.”
One may forgive a transgressor in the sense of not demanding punishment or restitution, but that is not the same as ignoring what the transgression may reveal about the person’s character. Betrayed spouses know this all too well; renewed trust does not happen quickly.
I don’t know how influential it has been, but I think that the implication in Ken Sande’s “Four Promises of Forgiveness” that those transgressed against should not take past transgressions into account in their future dealings with forgiven transgressors is deeply unwise. It’s an invitation to serial transgression.
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Very good points. Yes there is forgiveness for Tullian but especially with his history is disqualified from ever being a pastor. After all in Tullian’s case he had multiple affairs and only after being discovered did he confess. It wasn’t like Tullian came out and admitted what he did.
Speaking of the number of affairs so far on Spiritual Sounding board Julie has been able to come up with 4. As the old saying goes that for every rat you trap you figure there were some that you didn’t trap. With Tullian one has to wonder just how many ACTUAL affairs he had. My guess is that there are more than 4.
The other problem that Tullian need to deal with and I am not the only one to make this observation is Tullian appears to be narcissistic. Listening to his most recent messages and they were all about him. If he ever wanted to get back in the ministry he needs to find a way to deal with his narcissism.
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I would also add that if Tullian needs money maybe he should work a secular job to support himself rather than trying to make a living by speaking and selling books. I imagine with Tullian being “Christian royalty” being the grandson of Billy Graham he has never had to work a real job. I am sure if he had to work a real job that might produce some character.
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Fixed it. “In the wake of numerous scandals among pastors in recent years, former megachurch pastor Tullian Tchividjian is making an appeal to churches: extend cheap grace and forgiveness without repentance to disgraced leaders.”
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“He who would be great among you must become the servant of all.”
If you want in the end to be exalted high, you have to humble yourself low.
What a Church it would be if the great majority of the people were attracted to that kind of leader. We seem to be heaping up to ourselves the wrong kinds of teachers.
There have been many schisms in the Body of Christ down the centuries. Perhaps we are seeing a new kind of schism, one that is not based on theology, but on the character of the leadership. Perhaps the church is schism-ing into a cluster of groups that, while theologically diverse, resemble each other in that they value narcissism in their leaders and another, equally theologically divers,e cluster of groups that more nearly value Christ-like character in leadership.
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I’d rather read a book by Ernest Angeley. Suggested title, “Still Perving after 97 Years.”
Re TT: Don’t Feed the Narcissist.
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Do not take the following literally.
I have figured it out. It was, in retrospect, a mistake for TT to have been a pastor in ordained ministry in the first place. However, if he is again put into that same of position that will solve everything.
Because:
If the first mistake of putting him in ministry had negative results,
And if two negatives make a positive,
Then repeating the negative by putting him back in ministry will turn out positively and all will be well.
Surely everybody can see that.
Do people get brain rot from too much time in church, or are they just born that way?
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___
“To disregard Scriptural Standards Is To Slap Jesus In The Proverbial Face, Perhaps?”
“In their appeal to the church, the two authors clarified that they are “not talking about Christian leaders being restored to his or her position of leadership….”
hmmm…
It has become a concern in recent years that the scriptural qualifications for elder have in increasing measure been summarily disregard in certain 501c3 religious circles. Apostle Paul presented these qualifications to Jesus’ church for a strict reason. These were rules the eldership of Jesus’ church were to be governed by.
Now today certain 501c3 religious professional individuals believe these rules for qualifications of elder can somehow be somehow diluted or even be blatantly disregarded .
Those who still respect the means and the order of scripture simply don’t think so.
The body of Christ is worth the extra mile both in scriptural application and the forgiveness extended to sinners.
Grace yes, forgiveness, yes. elder reinstatement under these type of circumstances, no. Their future books must now be appproaced with caution as well.
ATB
Sòpy
;~)
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Ricco,
Yes, it boggles the mind but that has been my experience with the Reformed in my neck of the woods. It also depends on WHO you are. Such as Patterson is evil but CJ Mahaney is good. Mind boggling.
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http://www.wadeburleson.org/2015/06/fight-it-back-tullian-tchividjian-this.html
I personally believe Tullians teaching since day 1, of cheap grace, was meant to provide him with cover knowing what everyone now knows. Sadly, his promoting cheap grace meant he had little “grace” for others such as his family or church. This is the sort of teaching that that throws victims under the bus, telling them to immediately forgive or they aren’t Christians and despises even basic justice…for some. I do have to wonder if the folks who teach this would rehire an embezzler? I stay out of these churches because I always end up as a wolf’s dinner!
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I don’t think we should be using the term “affair” to describe what Tullian Tchividjian did. It weakens for the victims the reality of what happened. These were not mere acts of sexual infidelity, they were clergy sexual misconduct with women he held a role of influence and authority as pastor, leader, speaker, writer, etc.
Go back and read the accounts on TWW and Spiritual Sounding Board of the women he victimized to see ways he “weaponized” personal information he found out about them to seduce them.
Look at the timeline post on Spiritual Sounding Board to see how there is evidence he was apparently working his wiles with multiple women *simultaneously*, with some in different stages: emotional/relational grooming, ongoing sexual infidelity, and dealing with his ex-wife while involved with his next wife — all while David C Cook publishers were pumping out his best-selling books.
Does God have grace and mercy for sexual predators who are power and attention mongers?
Yes.
Should they be unconditionally re-entrusted with any role of spiritual influence, just because they claim “repentance” and that they are now “post-scandal”?
Umm, no …
It’s an odd — perhaps even heretical — theology that wants “forgiveness” to mean not only cleansing from sin, but automatic clean-up and removal of all consequences from sins.
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Extend grace and forgiveness to disgraced leaders? Yes, if they possess godly sorrow for what they’ve done and their walk demonstrates the fruit of repentance. Restore disgraced leaders to positions of leadership, or at least to positions of public visibility? That’s another matter altogether, although that hasn’t stopped some fallen leaders from restoring themselves anyway. Mark Driscoll, Jim Bakker and Jimmy Swaggart come to mind.
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To me, the fact that the Driscolls, Bakkers, Swaggarts, Tchividians, etc., even want to return to public ministry after their disgraceful and criminal behavior was exposed, indicates to me their total unsuitability for the role. You would think they’d just slink away and move on, the way a normal person would. But no, these losers seem to think they have a permanent right to be ‘pastors’ (I’m so sick of the over use and abuse of that word). My advice to TT (and the rest of ’em): GO AWAY! Try to work out some repentance and restitution the best you can, and stay out of the limelight. If you are really Christian.
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Tullian has no other cash cow in his life but being a pastor. He himself should be calling himself unfit for ministry. He proved time and time again he isn’t fit for the high calling of that role. He just wants back “in” to make the benjamins.
Ask yourself, why can’t he just be the guy setting up chairs sunday morning?
He has too high of an opinion of himself.
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brad/futuristguy,
As a p.s., “Disgraced” is not the same as “disqualified.” The former can be redeemed, while reversal of the latter cannot be guaranteed.
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“What shall we say then? Are we to continue in sin so that grace may increase? May it never be! How shall we who died to sin still live in it?”
May I humbly suggest that Tullian has not, in any way, shape or form, ‘died to sin’? What does this reveal about his supposed relationship with God? A sham, I’m afraid.
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TT has to be a minister!!! Other than becoming a dictator in a 3rd world country (what are the odds of that???), there’s no other way he can have such easy access to money and women! (Sarcasm)
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To me, it’s also over theologizing. We all KNOW that cheating on your wife is wrong. It hurts her, your kids, you community, and you. Plus, it’s super creepy when you are a “spiritual leader.” We don’t need to reinvent the wheel with any of these things. So many of these counterintuitive theologies are just wrong whether we can articulate why or not.
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Yeah, I don’t buy his arguments for grace at all because he certainly doesn’t seem to extend it to those he has been so vocal in criticizing for not giving him what he wants. He’s just a selfish man-toddler who wants everything easily and with no consequences for his actions no matter how much those actions hurt anyone else.
I wish I knew how we could return to a culture that believes there are consequences for our actions. Maybe it never existed, I don’t know. Or at least more childhood/teen/pastoral tests for disorders like NPD.
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Flawed theology IMO rarely is the cause of sin. More often, I suspect, the bad ideas and bad behavior share a common root in evil desires. The flawed teaching serves an agenda that is expressed in the behavior.
And sound theology may not restrain evil behavior that proceeds from evil desires.
This is not to denigrate sound theology, only to not regard its absence to be the root of the problem or its presence a guarantee of rescue.
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Nancy2(aka Kevlar),
I was going to say actor with all the adulation and easy access to women and money.
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In other words, people create theology to let them do and get whatever they want most?
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Ricco,
Well yeah. But If you say “sorry” in a real sincere way and those mean victims aren’t buying then they are obviously unchristian. Sigh.
My favorite piece on forgiveness which is the smoking gun for cheap grace
http://www.nacr.org/resource-center-on-emotional-and-relational-health/the-f-word-forgiveness-and-its-imitations
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Ricco,
What if your theology teaches that you can’t help it? If you can’t help it, how can you be responsible? you are a perpetual sinner saved by grace which means you can’t help but perpetually sin so you need heaps of new grace daily! Not just from your Savior but all the people in your life? After being around this black hole for a long time now, I am convinced the over theologizing on what is sin is the root problem. It’s all wrapped up with bits of dualism from Greek philosophy. I started to focus on “good/evil” or “right/wrong” to help clear the cobwebs. Yelling at your kids one day is not the same as cheating on your wife. But, hey, it’s all sin! We are all sinners!
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ishy,
I’d agree with that!
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ishy,
Man-toddler. I am stealing that! Lol.
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Lydia,
A remake of Baywatch!
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Or to be prepared to justify or defend themselves after the fact.
This following is of the character of hypothesis, but I suspect that there is some value in it:
Everyone has a private, functional theology (often not explicitly articulated). How closely does this private/functional theology conform to the Scriptures? How does it come about? What values does it serve (“I want to please my Creator” versus “I want to please myself?”, for example)?
And I’m not suggesting that the formation of one’s private theology is usually a conscious, intentional process, as if a would-be sexual predator sits down in his study and labors over a Word document entitled “How to use the Scriptures to protect me from the consequences of the wicked acts I want to commit.”
Rather, I suspect that the self-protection and self-justification agenda is at work in the background and shapes the way one consciously interprets the Scriptures. It forms part of the bias that one brings to the text. That’s an hypothesis, admittedly. But there is certainly more going on in our minds than we are consciously aware of.
A functional conscience is going to warn you when the Scriptures are “hitting home”, and that can be an uncomfortable feeling. If can be comforting to build a theology that protects oneself from the Scriptures.
Of course, if the conscience is not functional (as in “sociopathy”) perhaps this process doesn’t need to be background; it can be foreground, conscious and intentional since one is not troubled by what one is thinking and doing. The protective orientation is then not inward, but outward, to protect oneself from the Scripture-informed consciences of others.
A prior commenter noted the desirability of testing for narcissism. I think we need accurate tests for functional conscience and empathy too. I’m sure it’s coming. Doubtless the churches will adopt these screens only after the secular world does (a scary thought, since that would for a while increase the number of conscienceless people seeking church office, not being able to find employment in secular supervisory roles).
This is very hypothetical, of course.
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Starting with Guess Who?
Looks like the heat’s blown over and Tee Tee’s hitting the Comeback Trail.
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And you DO know the Koine Greek word for “Actor”, don’t you?
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“I GOTTA BE MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!”
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Too Much Like “Work”.
And No 24/7 Praise and Adoration.
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Headless Unicorn Guy,
Someday the masks will all be removed.
Until then … “till we have faces”
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FEATURE, NOT BUG.
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“It is anti-Christian to remember people primarily by the scandalous things they’ve done.” (Tullian)
Tullian, you were a pastor when you did those scandalous things … a pastor! Christians have a right to to remember church leaders who have fallen morally, who forfeited the ministry to pursue desires of the flesh. Unfaithful leaders like you should be remembered, just like we remember faithful pastors who put their hands to the plow and didn’t look back – knowing that the Kingdom of God deserved their best. Forgive you if you are truly repentant? Certainly! Restore you to ministry? NO! (by the way, selling books to the Christian community is a form of ministry, IMO)
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Public figures develop public reputations.
It’s kind of anti-Christian to become a prominent ministry figure and then prominently give unbelievers grounds to blaspheme YHWH.
When David ben Jesse did that, it was foretold to him that the sword would not depart from his house, and it didn’t.
The fear of YHWH is the beginning of wisdom.
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singleman,
Jim Bakker wrote a book entitled I was Wrong. It is thick but an excellent read. I recommend it to anyone.
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Only in Reformed La La Land, where doctrine matters more than how you treat others. Apparently God can overlook adultery and abuse, but he never forgives having the wrong working definition of sanctification.
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Only, let their voices never be heard in public again. Let them demonstrate their repentance by spending the rest of their lives quietly serving God and others, rather than ever seeking the chance to get back in the limelight – and the moneymaking game.
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Pretty dang close. Then back it up with bit and pieces of scripture yanked out of context and cobbled together to create something that was never there.
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I’ll go one further. Cheating on your wife due to succumbing to an unintended but unresisted temptation is not the same as deliberately selecting, grooming and using countless women to secretly meet your personal sexual pleasure behind your wife’s and everyone elses’ backs. Both are sin, and both should land you outside of the ministry. But the former could be ‘forgiven’; the latter should lead to your being on permanent ‘watch’, however prettily you apologize.
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I’m not sure forgiveness is what Tullian is really after, either. It’s a return to being a public figure with cushy book deals and easy pastor jobs.
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Did he ever apologize? I thought he went straight to “Everybody is so mean because they won’t forgive me and let me do what I want!”
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It’s increasingly clear that many celebrity preachers have no fear of God … and, thus, no wisdom.
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Hmmmm … I wonder if Tullian ever heard of the “Billy Graham Rule”?
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Headless Unicorn Guy,
Yep. Hypocrite
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Max,
Lol
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From the article, and quoting the pastor in question:
And there will, and should, be many others who will view it with neither joy nor disdain.
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I’ve heard of the book but have never read it. Perhaps I will someday. Even with Jim Bakker’s admission of erroneous teaching, I still wish he wasn’t preaching and selling survival gear. I know the man’s got to make a living, but he should have found another line of work.
I was far more impressed with Richard Dortch, a former PTL Club official who also spent time in federal prison for his role in the scandal. He spoke at a nearby church a few years after his release and expressed genuine contrition and sorrow for his actions.
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Yes! This is the key! We know it will never happen, but he should never preach, teach or write a book again. He’s a whiny, little, manipulating brat that wants his way…and we’re just a big bunch of narrow-minded, unforgiving meanies when we don’t play along with him!
As Max already stated, Tullian was a PASTOR when all these affairs happened. He has disqualified himself, whether we ‘extend grace’ to him or not! Why can’t pastors seem to understand that people need to see a sermon rather than hear one? Tullian has ridden on his grandfather’s coat tails long enough—he needs to shut up and realize that sin has consequences.
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I refer to Tullian and many others in the New Calvinist movement as the grace-grace-grace boys. They believe in a hyper form of grace, which is cheap grace on steriods – a grace that covers past, current and future sins … holy living and repentance not necessary.
While Tullian was still pastoring and having affairs, he tweeted:
“One thing is certain: I am hyper about grace!” (17 June 2015)
He should have been more hyper about praying for grace to keep his pants on. Moral of the story: never trust a “pastor” with an over-the-top tan, who unbuttons his shirt down to his navel and wears skinny pants. What was Coral Ridge thinking?!
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Root 66,
all he needs to pastor or sell books in a free market are followers. Without them, it all goes away.
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Christian celebrities would have no stage if it weren’t for a gullible audience to cheer them on. If you are interested in supporting Tullian, click here: https://www.tullian.net/support
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In other breaking news:
John McCain passed away.
May he awake to a goodly inheritance in Olam Ha-Ba.
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Purity of Ideology, Comrades.
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Somewhereintime,
“Ask yourself, why can’t he just be the guy setting up chairs sunday morning?”
+++++++++++
no no no. that’s too easy. chair straightening is what the men took 45 minutes to do while the women cleaned the bathrooms and the kitchen.
but, boy, were those chairs straight!
(went over them time and again, as long as it took — for the women to do everything else)
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This is a very good point about Tullian. Calling what Tullian did an “affair” is quite an understatement. If nothing else Tullian used his position as Sr. Pastor to sexually harass women in the church he was Sr. Pastor of.
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Very good point.
My take on this is that too many people “value narcissism in their leaders” all while not realizing what it is that they value. There also is not enough awareness of what narcissism is and for people to recognize this in people including leaders. Thus perhaps without realizing that this trait exists in leaders they are attracted to they support leaders like this. Hopefully there will be more education so that people will be aware of what to look for. Also was interesting one denomination is starting to test prospective pastors to see where they are on the narcissistic scale.
Also many times there is an “inner circle” that knows about a leaders narcissism or at least their hypocrisy and shields it from regular members. Thus regular members for at least a period of time don’t really know what the leader is really like but only the persona this leader puts on when on stage. Thus regular members are deceived about some leaders.
From what I have read most cult leaders are narcissistic. It also wouldn’t surprise me if a significant number of mega church leaders who develop what some call “personality cults” are at least high on the narcissistic index.
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I remember reading somewhere that one of the major drivers for fallen leaders wanting to get back into the ministry was that they missed all the attention and admiration that one in leadership gets. In other words the “24/7 Praise and Adoration.”
If you look on Tullian’s Facebook page you will see all sorts of evidences of that where Tullian seems to want attention. Tullian should as one person wrote just drop out and fade into the woodwork but Tullian’s narcissism won’t allow for that.
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Muff Potter,
???
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TS00,
Only in Reformed La La Land, where doctrine matters more than how you treat others. Apparently God can overlook adultery and abuse, but he never forgives having the wrong working definition of sanctification.
This isn’t a fair comment. Tullian was kicked off of TGC before anyone knew he was having affairs. Dee notes that above.
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Robert,
It was written before she noted it, and I acknowledge that it appears to not define circumstances as suggested. I’m afraid it does fit much of my experience from over a decade in the Reformed world. You can sin in thought, word and deed all day long, and find grace – but if you do not support the orthodoxy, you are likely to end up on church discipline.
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Lydia,
Both comments are on point! That article I’ve seen before (maybe from you), and I’ve found it very helpful.
I completely agree with you on sin. It’s funny, there are lots of Christian words like “forgiveness” or “sin” that seem to have lost their meaning. It is really similar to some of the social justice words like “toxic masculinity.” People use these terms for so many different things that they kind of loose their meaning and we need to be more specific with how we describe problems.
The theology thing is weird. Some people are wonderful people in spite of what I consider a screwy theology. Others clearly embody their weird theology and become deeply flawed people. I jumped into Calvinism after a series of family tragedies, and now I’m finally leaving that church. I’ve been reflecting on how most of the people there don’t actually live out the screwy theology but are actually nice folks. I’ve been torn apart by it, and I think it’s because, in my struggles, I actually took them seriously and tried to live out what they said. I think that healthy people can contextualize some of these things, but damaged people end up trying to enact the whole program no matter what it costs. I’m just glad I woke up when I did and didn’t hurt those around me.
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Ricco,
Sorry for your experience. I would affirm that few, if any, in my Calvinist church lived out, if they even understood, the theology. On the one hand, it could be argued that we don’t need to worry so much about Calvinism, since few Calvinists really believe in it. 😉 On the other hand, as you suggest, anyone who seeks to genuinely live it out is in for some real heartache, despair and, often, a complete rejection of God.
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Noevangelical,
“Olam Ha-Ba” is transliterated from Hebrew for “the Age to Come”
MP was praying that JM may inherit the resurrection of the righteous in the Age to Come.
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Ricco,
I noticed that, too! And I saw many youth eventually become athiests. Even a rabid YRR pastor. Totally walked away. It’s interesting to read the trajectory of the NE Puritan descendants. Many became Universalist or transcendentalists.
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“extend grace and forgiveness to disgraced leaders.”
I’m figuring Tullian has not been refuses a seat in the pew along with everyone else so he evidently expects more. His ponderous sense of entitlement is sufficient reason to keep him away from the podium.
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A while back, I was reading theological forums. There was an extended discussion on what would happen if Calvin were to return to the living. Would he even be a Calvinist, as it’s defined today? Would he embrace TULIP? [That’s when I stopped reading those forums.]
A couple of people have mentioned that it might be really good for Tullian to work a regular job. Has he ever had a regular job? What job could he get? From the looks of his biceps, he could probably be a trainer in a gym. So many of these guys really have no experience or marketable skills.
But I think all of these T4G guys could really benefit from having a female boss in a non-church [secular] office who doesn’t take any nonsense, isn’t impressed with their celebrity, and gives them job assignments without wondering if she is assaulting their delicate manhood by being so assertive and exercising authority over them.
That would make a great reality show.
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Then they could do an Undercover Boss scenario. I’m not sure who would get anything good, though.
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ION: Fitba’
So, Liverpool ground out a home win over Brighton yesterday, with Mo Salah scoring the only goal. It was not a vintage performance by the Reds – arguably, that was down to Brighton’s organisation and work ethic – but more importantly, we were dropping points in games like that last season. The win puts us top with three wins from three though, as Jurgen Klopp pointed out, you don’t actually get anything from being top three games into a 38-game season.
Chelsea, Watford and Spurs – all with two wins from two – could all join us on 9 points either today or tomorrow, though it would take a fairly big win for any of them to leapfrog us on goal difference. At this very early stage of the season, it’s not uncommon for one or more teams to have identical records, in which case they are generally placed – for the time being anyway – in alphabetical order. Chelsea would have the advantage over us there…
IHTIH
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I think we’re basically saying the same thing with different vocabulary, but one might add, and a pain-free return to exactly the lifestyle they were living before.
It seems that what Mr Tchvidjian is really claiming is not that he and those like him are unconditionally entitled to forgiveness, but that they are unconditionally entitled to a particular lifestyle.
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“One thing is certain: I am hyper about grace!” (Tullian Tchvidjian, 17 June 2015)
I guess if you hold to hyper-grace, you can convince yourself as a pastor that multiple-affairs are covered.
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Apparently, that’s the way he reads “U” in the TULIP acronym for doctrines of grace.
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” … his blog was featured over at The Gospel Coalition website until he had a falling out with TGC founders.” (Deb)
It is my understanding that Tim Keller and Don Carson at TGC were concerned that Tullian was endorsing antinomianism in his TGC blog. Well, I’m not a fan of Keller, Carson or TGC, but they certainly appeared to have that right! Tullian, as demonstrated by his ministry lifestyle, came across as being released by “grace” from the obligation of observing moral standards for righteous living in a manner befitting of a Gospel preacher. I have long been concerned that many in the New Calvinist movement are antinomian in belief and practice – potty-mouth Driscoll certainly was a poster child for hyper-grace; Hybels apparently thought this way as well.
“For there are men who have surreptitiously entered the Church who … have no real reverence for God, and they abuse his grace as an opportunity for immorality.” (Jude 4)
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Max,
Truth is they are all antinomians to a certain extent. Especially toward other leaders until they get too uppity like both Driscoll and Tullian did with TGC. It fits the total depravity doctrine they embrace whether they realize it or not. (Note how they always trot it out to excuse the worst but never to defend the innocent who dare push back).
I could never understand how they could purposely ignore a lot of Matthew but most of 1st John, as a few examples. Believers still have “laws” so to speak, such as don’t cheat on your wife, don’t lie/deceive, etc, which are part of loving God and others. Jesus accused the Pharisees (of all people!), of being “antinomians”, for crying out loud!
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To “hyper” New Calvinists, total depravity really means total inability. In their version of total depravity, they have no will of their own … rendering them unable to make right choices, so they surrender to a hyper-grace which covers their sins. If left unchecked, the hyper-grace tribe within New Calvinism will create a generation of leaders and their followers which will redefine moral standards to the point that Tullian’s lifestyle won’t be considered all that big a deal. If Tullian can only hold on for a few more years …
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Yes I was. Jewish ‘heaven’ is not predicated on absolute perfection (Greek Platonism) as is the ‘heaven’ fundagelicals believe in.
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i.e. The ORIGINAL Christian afterlife, before its de facto replacement with Fluffy Cloud Heaven.
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Granting that humans are “image-bearers” and that, in some way or ways are visible representations of what God is like (Jesus being the perfect instance — the exact representation of the invisible God, Heb 1:3), then I think that it is valid to think of
“sin” as being “representational blasphemy” — action (visible in behavior or invisible in thought and desire) that communicates or implies things that are not true about God.
When we sin, we misrepresent what God is like. Verbal blasphemy is “speaking evil of God”; sin is “living/acting/thinking/being in ways that communicate/represent that God is evil.”
(“Misrepresent/communicate to whom?”, one might ask. Certainly to each other, but also to watching heavenly powers whom it seems God is instructing through what He is doing in the Church (Eph 3:10), and ultimately, to God Himself [this final thought is inspired by NT Wright’s view that part of the priestly function of sanctified humanity is to “reflect the praises of creation back to God”] )
This view of things perhaps increases one’s view of the gravity of sin — it is more than angering God by defying Him through breaking a rule, it is actually misrepresenting “who God is” in the sight of all creation.
The more traditional way of thinking about sin, as simply “lawbreaking”, can one into trouble on certain understandings of Christian release from the bonds of law, and into worse trouble if one combines that with a view of “grace” that does not keep as its central focus God’s ultimate intention of conforming His people to the likeness of Jesus.
In specific application to the case of TT, one could say that since God is not a covenant breaker, so we image-bearers should honor our marriage covenants (and other promises).
TT doesn’t seem to have much awareness of the gravity of his deeds.
The case of David ben Jesse and the way his misdeeds gave the gentiles grounds to blaspheme YHWH again comes to mind. I suspect that YHWH was compelled to severely chastise DbJ in order to publicly vindicate His Name.
Public figures commit notorious sin at great peril.
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“It’s all been Predestined and God Saith I CAN DO NO WRONG!”
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It’s said near the end of their lives, Karl Marx said “I am not a Marxist” and Charles Darwin “I am not a Darwinist”. Something about fanboys taking what they’d done and seeing how far (and how far-fetched) they could run with it.
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Agreed, that’s what should happen when it comes to post-greed.
Seems to me that the core qualifications for roles of public input and influence are based on consistency of character and service, as evidenced by everyday discipleship and living out the “one anothers” of the New Testament. Secondarily, spiritual gifts and developed skill in using them to advance the Kingdom and not self. Sadly, we’ve allowed spiritual giftedness instead of character to be the primary criterion for service.
So, when someone who’s been in roles of public note engage in patterns of DISqualifying sins — not just disgraceful — they can still always engage in the same everyday disciplines of one-anothering and service open to all who follow Christ.
That kind of lived-out repentance shows the redemptive side of disgracing one’s self — working out one’s sanctification with fear and trembling. What Tullian Tchividjian demands is WE — not HE — are responsible to remove his disgrace through forgiveness and restoring his role. Ironic that someone who has a strong pattern of overpowering others now acts as if we are the ones to re-power him …
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How does that differ from any Totalitarian Ideological regime?
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An Inner Ring of Courtiers and Court Favorites who themselves personally benefit from the arrangement. Their own positions, rank, and wealth dependent on those of Dear Leader; if he falls, they fall with him. And That Cannot Be Allowed to Happen.
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According to my Jewish sources, THAT was the original meaning of the Commandment about “Taking God’s Name In Vain” — doing evil and claiming God’s sanction as justification. Convenient how it’s been redefined to mean cussing and cussing alone, Eh, My Dear Wormwood?
As well as pushing you into a Lawyer-esque search for Loopholes. (“But everything we did was LEGAL!” … “I did not know that woman in a Biblical sense.”) And if you can’t find an existing Loophole to do What I Wanna, you’ll MAKE a new one!
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IIRC (and please correct, amend and/or amplify this thought as needed) from old NT background survey reading, there was in the early post-NT era a flavor of Gnosticism that posited an absolute matter/spirit dualism in which the only thing that mattered was what happened in the spirit realm and anything that embodied beings did in the material realm was of no real significance. This sounds a bit like the end-state Max is fore-seeing.
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One example would be Matt Slick’s (Slick is a well known calvinist apologist in reformed circles) own daughter who converted to atheism.
Another example, but in the other direction, would be a talk-show-radio-guy here in Southern Cal. who brags about how he used to be a new age practitioner, and who is now completely ‘on fire for the Lord’.
I’m thinking that personality types who have to be either/or, are naturally bent toward extremes; and that they also crave linearized boxes, no curves, straight lines only.
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= taking God’s name in vain.
If you do something in vain, you do not succeed in achieving what you intend. Tullian claimed to represent Heaven, but lived like Hell (one might wink at one affair, but multiple affairs?!). As a “pastor”, he bore God’s name in vain and did not succeed in achieving what he intended in Christian ministry. He’s still trying to wiggle back into Christian leadership by shaming those who won’t extend grace and forgiveness to disgraced leaders. He just doesn’t get it.
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ROFL!
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Headless Unicorn Guy,
Exactly.
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I suppose an argument could be made that certain corners of the new reformation could be called Neo-Gnostic Calvinism. As the elect, hyper-grace prevails and God loves them no matter what they do … which if played out to its logical end produces antinomian lawlessness. All of this is, of course, stinkin’ thinkin’- more philosophy than Christianity.
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I’m sorry, are we describing the church or the world? Ah, yes, makes little difference.
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That is IMO a very gracious interpretation of the data. Conceivably something more troubling is at work. There are multiple examples in current and recent news of other people who seem to have designed their ministries around an agenda of creating opportunities to engage in ‘extracurricular’ activities …. one might call this ” ‘ministry’ with ‘benefits’ “. The goal from the beginning may not have been “God’s glory” or “the good of God’s people”, but something entirely more self-oriented.
One earnestly hopes that in TT’s case, he simply “doesn’t get it”, and that someday he will.
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Glad to hear this. Came to this belief myself, as I saw how self-righteous hypocrites prided themselves on not using ‘vulgar’ language – all while treating people like disposable goods. The same people who get up in arms if someone says G*dd*mn, worship a God who tells helpless millions to ‘G* t* h*ll’ without so much as a blink of an eye.
It is my opinion that many other concepts have been similarly corrupted into legalistic pettiness.
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I regard that as a good thing, at least insofar as it means they’ll fully embrace gay marriage.
The downside, though, is that this acceptance won’t be effective until a prominent, rich, famous bookseller comes out as gay, to a standing ovation from a crowd of lackeys who throw themselves at his feet and weep over his tremendous bravery in coming out. And, of course, it won’t extend to victims of bullying or abuse from the evangelical clergy class.
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Tullian will find followers. If Driscoll can, Tullian with his Billy Graham pedigree for sure will.
This means he will be assured a tax free payday.
At one time you could say churches helped society to justify a tax exemption. Our city is replete with hospitals started by churches.
However except for some parachurch organizations like Salvation Army, I don’t see a lot of that happening.
What I see is people and organizations that take from a society that they ostensibly despise. A society that ironically has strived to better itself in line with the teachings of christianities founder. Our track record may be mixed but an example is the civil rights movement of the sixties.
Christians need to stop supporting these clowns.
Otherwise the long game will be a society that rejects the church (and Jesus with it).
I used to be a firm believer and I’m gone.
I suppose you could say “good riddance” but how likely is it my kids will be Christian, and their kids?
Now put that in the context of declining church attendance. Sure in our lifetime the church will be around in some way. With a billion followers worldwide it’s got a ways to go.
But what will that look like 100 years from now?
In north America Quebec & Newfoundland ( former Catholic provinces) are pitching religion. So’s Ireland. Northern Europe is more secular.
Just saying.
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Samuel Conner,
I’m inclined to agree here. Max – I realise what you meant, but technically, I think Mr Tchvidjian does get it, very well. He knows how gullible the religious market is; he knows there are thousands who are desperate to worship someone just like him; he knows exactly how to tap into that desire and become the object of their worship. He will live and die in luxury.
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Our comments passed in the mail, Jack!
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Samuel Conner,
I’m shocked, shocked that you would doubt that these serial abusers are sincere men of God. Surely their barns overflow due to their integrity, not merely because they are swine.
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TS00,
I have read that “deep ventilation” is good for one’s health. I good deep belly laugh does the job. Thank you for today’s belly-laugh, though perhaps it says something troubling about me that I am more inclined to laugh than weep over this.
I think that the news coming out of the churches is somewhat corrosive to the soul. Perhaps best to look away from it for a while.
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Guess what Satan’s game plan is?
And what these dupes never realize, until it is too late, is that he is an equal opportunity abuser. He has no more loyalty to them than the rest of mankind, whom he hates. The way I envision it, God is going to expose each and every one of these self-serving frauds, and their ‘institutions’ of organized crime. Just when the enemy thinks he is succeeding, by destroying ‘The Church’, the true, humble servants of God, that have been quietly washing feet all along, will be given their proper places at the head of the table.
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Oh yeah, he definitely “gets” marketing in the Christian industrial complex. He just doesn’t get what it means to surrender yourself to ministry – to represent God in a lost world.
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I know, I’m a heretic; but is this supposed to be a bad thing?
If you, and I, and our kids are decent, respectful people who seek to do what is right as best we can figure it and offer a helping hand to others along the way – I don’t really care what we are called. If this isn’t what being a ‘christian’ is all about, who wants to be one? Can’t we just be ‘human’?
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So many Christians (like my in-laws) just get mad about this and tell about “postmodernism” (even though they don’t know what that actually means). Seems like a response with a chance of working would be asking why and actually listening to the answers you hear.
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*yell about
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The more times I spend with people whom others call heretics, the more I realize that is where the good conversations are
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Emphatically, no! I’m a heretic and I love it.
I find it interesting to look at someone like [Tullian] Tchvidjian and his attempts to return to claiming Christian ministry while living exactly as he’s always lived. I am, in a sense, the inverse of that: I no longer have any desire to claim any allegiance to the christian myth and I want – as best I can – to wind the clock back over 30 years and become the best version I can be of the young man who was sucked into that that terrible philosophy as an undergraduate student.
I don’t want to be famous, or write books, or speak to an audience; I do want to find some way of making things better for those in the UK who are unwaged and can’t find work. This is because I am arrogant and presumptuous, as my evangelical colleagues tell me. But that’s great. It’s an affirmation of who I am, because the more I reflect on this, the more I realise that they have always hated who I am!
I’m with Ricco here; the best conversations really are with those that are labelled heretics.
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In the meantime, I went to church today and like a breath of fresh air, our pastor made clear we will be all about helping people and evangelizing, not following the powers that be’s latest reboot. We shared material goods with each other and with those with a need. We prayed for several recent horrific happenings in our town and came up with some concrete ways to prevent them in the future, and plans to work toward it. Folks in our church have served those with needs in many ways this week, and we took some concrete steps to help some more.
The gospel was preached–the bad news that God alone decides what is sin and what is not, and the punishment or consequences eternally of that sin. God alone also can supply the remedy and how that can happen was also preached.
There are pockets, but the church is still in business, souls are still being saved, lives mended, shut in’s visited, hungry fed, injured tended, folks educated, and the Great Commission being obeyed.
The church is still the church, and will survive.
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I am really tired of people who continually confuse forgiveness and trust (I’m thinking purposefully confuse in most cases). While it can be argued that we owe others forgiveness because Jesus forgave us so much, nowhere in scripture, at least that I know of, are we told that we have to trust anyone besides God Himself. Trust is earned!
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(put this on other post, as well)
advice anyone?
my husband is in one of his ‘quarterly’ (few times a year) funks — bored, depressed, all seems meaningless.
it comes down to work, of course. no thrill. interest is in waning mode (sometimes it’s in wax mode, though) he’s frustrated. it colors everything else. now nothing in is life is good. it’ll pass, but….sigh.
men, does this happen to you, too, from time to time? can you help me understand?
what can their partner do to help?
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Of course, I have no idea how your relationship works or your lifestyles or what-all, but…
Yes, it happens to me. Surely it happens to women, too?
For me, the best thing that a partner can do is gently show concern/recognition, be there, but let it play out – not pushing too hard. With me, it’s sort of like the weather – it comes, and I know perfectly well that it will pass. What’s helpful for me is when my partner just keeps the routine going, and doesn’t throw me any tricky emotional curve balls.
I do the same for her. It’s not always easy to know how much concern to express, how much to probe. I make it clear that I’m here for her and totally on her side. I just try to make things a bit easier and smoother and less surprising for her when she’s experiencing turbulent weather.
In my opinion/experience, when someone is going through a patch like this, the last thing they need is surprises and fresh ‘domestic crises’ or drama of any kind. It will pass, as you have experienced.
No, it’s not always easy, is it…
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Lydia,
AMEN. This is the key.
The Catholics have somewhat of a sense of it with their distinctions between “mortal” sin vs. “venial” sin.
Violations of the Ten Commandments are sins “unto death.”
(1 John 5:16 If any man see his brother sin a sin which is not unto death, he shall ask, and he shall give him life for them that sin not unto death. There is a sin unto death: I do not say that he shall pray for it.
1 John 5:17 All unrighteousness is sin: and there is a sin not unto death.)
All sins are clearly not equal. Not to God, and they shouldn’t be equal to us.
People who break the commandments can (obviously) be forgiven with deep and genuine repentance…but these sins are grievous and should be recognized as such.
Preachers get fired for smoking but not for adultery? Pssh.
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Greetings Earthlings!
Just a little perspective from Up Here…
Mr T (or maybe his friend) wrote:
“We have done very bad things, very good things, and plenty of cocktails of them both. Sadly, most people remember only the bad. Thankfully, we have a God who remembers only the good.”
Well, there’s a guy Up Here who did some very bad things (that’s if you call things like filling a city from end to end with innocent blood “bad”). His name literally means “forgive and forget”. And likely just a handful of people over the last 2700 years or so remembered he also did some good things.
BUT— when God had something to say about him a few years later, He remembered –the Bad!! And He blamed the guy personally for a disaster of Biblical proportions…
“I will make them abhorrent to all the kingdoms of the earth because of what Manasseh son of Hezekiah king of Judah did in Jerusalem.” Jeremiah 15:4
And this guy is one of the humblest around here (indeed, the ONLY person in the whole bamn Dible (pardon my French, kids) said to have humbled himself GREATLY, and he agrees with God remembering the bad.
No, Mr T and his friend are mistaken.
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“We have done very bad things, very good things, and plenty of cocktails of them both. Sadly, most people remember only the bad. Thankfully, we have a God who remembers only the good. And the only good he remembers is the good that Christ has done for us, in us, and through us.”
That sure is an interesting ploy for Tullian and those who seem to admire him. Similar to what Fred Rogers said if you read the Bible it sure seems like they focus at least as much on the bad certain leaders did vs. just the good. Thus interesting for someone to write that God only remembers the good.
One other thought on Tullian is that it really wouldn’t surprise me if he ends up falling again just like with Jimmy Swaggart. With Tullian showing such little if any concern for what he did to his victims and his not dealing with his narcissism I imagine it is just a matter of time I hate to say. Time will tell.
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Fred Rogers,
Another story like David. God forgives the king, restores the king to the throne, but the consequences do not go away. Somebody needs to preach that more in Hypergraceville.
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Whenever anyone whines on about how much they deserve to be forgiven, when they were the wrongdoer, I feel the same. I can imagine even now, that TT is in the beginning stages of text conversations with other women…old habits die hard.
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I know this is off topic, but my baby seems to be on the way home after a year in the Iraqi desert. He sent a message with picture of a bunch of soldiers who seem to be strapped in around the walls of a huge!! cargo plane with stuff in the central cargo area, and everybody grinning to beat all. “Out of Iraq and in Kuwait.” We have camps in Kuwait that seem to be people management and transportation centers. Young son spent a year at one of them a few years back. So, look out Ft Hood, here they come.
Just thinking, but perhaps being strapped into a cargo plane and being shipped out for a year in the ‘real’ desert might help TT. I mean, if Manasseh was helped by prison, and David was helped by public humiliation and the stern words of the prophet-surely TT would benefit from some real ‘hard times’ as opposed to just ‘sniff, sniff, you all need to be nice to me’. TT is being doofusoid; he seems to have no idea how to be a real man and live with his own consequences. Babies whine for their mamas. The church is not TT’s mama.
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okrapod,
Yayyyyy! I hope your baby is winging his way straight to your arms.
And yes, actual proper work & service would be a huge lesson to these whining ‘leaders’.
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elastigirl,
Not sure that this will help (and your specific situation may not accommodate this), but I have found working outside (gardening, weeding, tending living things) to be wonderful therapy. You create some beauty (or, in my case, ameliorate the chaos) and after a while get something useful out of it, food or flowers; attract butterflies and hummingbirds; minister to the pollinators that are under stress). I think there is even significant medical research that this is beneficial. And it gets one moving, which is always good. We are made of bone and muscle and are intended to move and interact with our environment.
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And everybody said AMEN! (or should have)
We cannot erase the consequences of sin. Tullian’s moral failures were multiple. As a pastor, the consequence of those sins was disqualification from ministry. I believe the Apostle Paul included sexual immorality when he talked about disciplining his flesh:
“I strictly discipline my body and make it my slave, so that, after I have preached [the gospel] to others, I myself will not somehow be disqualified [as unfit for service].” (1 Cor 9:27)
If a fallen pastor is truly repentant as evidenced by a godly sorrow in his life, I believe the church should restore him to fellowship, but not to leadership. We have too many examples in the American church of men who have committed gross sin, who disappear for a season to be counseled, and then return to the pulpit. IMO, restoring the disqualified to pastor again is an act of disobedience by the church. There are no examples in the New Testament of pastors who have fallen morally being restored to the pulpit.
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Unfortunately that many times can be the case IMO. The “lieutenants” many times only have their jobs and make the income they make due to the success of this charismatic leader. If this leader falls then they risk losing their job and associated income. Thus it becomes in their best interest to conceal or at least explain away hypocrisy and character issues with this leader.
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How is this for timing:
https://finance.yahoo.com/news/memoir-steve-jobs-apos-daughter-133000491.html
It says in the summary:
“His rotten behavior was enabled by his wife, his colleagues, and his business partners.”
I am sure people like Tullian exist and can do what they can and have done by people enabling him. The same for C.J. Mahaney and other narcissistic leaders.
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Tullian, if you are listening in … your crystal cathedral has collapsed; man-up and get over it.
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roebuck,
thank you, roebuck. good words.
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Samuel Conner,
thank you, Samuel.
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My approach exactly! When traumatized, stressed and needing to heal, I find that doing small tasks of stewardship for dependent living objects such as plants, bees, etc. gives me a sense of purpose and hope. Also, creating beauty, whether it is through art, music, creating a floral arrangement or simply organizing the garage can be very restorative. Some days, watering and pulling weeds is literally all that I have the emotional energy to do. The stresses of life can so enervate us that we are temporarily unable to function. We must give ourselves, and others, the time and opportunity to seek healing and restoration when necessary. I would encourage all who find themselves depressed or overwhelmed to allow themselves to slow down and focus on ‘unimportant’ things for a time, or learn how to make it a habitual part of life. I am slowly emerging from an extended period of doing just that, after an extremely traumatic and stressful time. I believe that we must allow ourselves the time to heal, so that we can be once again enabled to give to others and be once again productive.
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At one time I was in a state denominational position that worked with fallen ministers with the goal of helping them find grace and restoration in their faith and with their family. As to whether this ever led them back to active ministry was a question that was up to them, their walk with God, and mostly . . . trust. Grace is God’s unmerited love, but trust is man’s response to the fallen. Thus, all ministers experienced grace, but few were ever granted the trust to return to ministry. As for TT, I offer and pray that he experiences grace. As for trust in him as a minister, not there yet, if ever . . .
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Samuel Conner,
thank you, Samuel. yes, working with one’s hands, outside, soil, dirt, living things… good suggestion.
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To disqualify this guy from ministry is like chasing the money changers out of the temple of God in my view. I think someone else likened this to God cleaning house. This guy is no repentant sinner since he wants to rub everyone else’s nose in his sin, and the fact that he married one of the women he had an affair with tells me how little respect he has for his ex wife and kids as well his former congregation and church. Remarriage to an affair partner can cause a lot of problems for everyone involved especially the ex-spouse and kids.
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Especially when the NEXT affair partner comes along.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QgxRqUg4t_I
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The term is “Highborn of House Graham”.
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TS00,
Yes.
One of my siblings who is a much better gardener than I am (gets a significant portion of her family’s vegetables out of the back-yard in Summer; a goal I gaze at longingly) told me that she thinks people are meant to be gardeners. She’s not a believer and is not AFAIK familiar with the Genesis 2 story. But I suspect that she is right. There is something deeply satisfying about bringing order to chaos. Perhaps that’s part of the imago Dei.
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Fundamentalism is a state of mind that can glom onto anything to be Fundamentalist about.
In the words of the prophet Charles Schulz:
CHARLIE BROWN: What do you want to be when you grow up?
LINUS: A Fanatic.
CHARLIE BROWN: Uh… have you decided what you’re going to be fanatical about?
LINUS: No… I guess I’ll be a Wishy-Washy Fanatic.
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Cross-contamination with Platonic Dualism — the overarching theme of Christian Monist’s book Butterflies in the Belfry, Serpents in the Cellar.
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Make sure he stays well hydrated. I have at times unwisely “pushed through” weariness and symptoms that should have alerted me to dehydration; it can feel like “quitting” to take a needed break when you’re making good progress at a disagreeable ask.
Perhaps have “oral rehydration salts” on hand; these are more potent than the commercial prepared “electrolyte replacement” beverages and much cheaper if you are going to need many liters over a long job. OTOH, the package says to take under medical supervision. That alarms me and I dilute to a strength similar to that of the commercial beverages to avoid trouble.
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I highly recommend fly-fishing and nature hikes. You might just find those activities some of the most ‘important’ things you do! (if you’re an old guy, like me, there is nothing better than fishing with a 4-year old grandson)
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TS00,
I’m afraid it does fit much of my experience from over a decade in the Reformed world. You can sin in thought, word and deed all day long, and find grace – but if you do not support the orthodoxy, you are likely to end up on church discipline.
That’s interesting. From my experience in the Reformed world, it’s the sins like adultery that bring on the church discipline.
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And even then, only for the Lowborn.
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In a long-ago interview, Mormon SF author Orson Scott Card said that to him the Imago Dei is creativity — “We were MEANT to be Creators!”
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Headless Unicorn Guy,
I used to not understand, but that was because I was under the oppression of an authoritarian worldview. Now, I believe that the essence of our godlikeness is the ability to create. That is what thinking, individuality and choice are granted us to do – provide the tools to shape the materials God has given us into unique creations. Whether it is ourselves, our families, our yards or actual works of art, every time we create ‘order’ from chaos we have demonstrated that we are made in the image of the Creator God.
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There may be a bifurcation of practice in traditional Reformed versus the new-calvinists and the reformed baptists. A significant difference in my perception is that the traditional Reformed have serious church courts with real appeal recourse and the “discipline” process seems generally oriented toward restraint of actual sin as opposed to suppressing dissent. “Reformed baptists” seem to have much less accountability above the level of the local congregation. That gives the laity very little recourse if they are punished or otherwise treated unjustly; in a traditional Reformed denomination there would be a right of appeal to a Presbytery level church court, and even all the way to the denominational General Assembly if one felt unjustly treated by the Presbytery.
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I recall one apparently legitimate case among the many – and there were many for such a small church. Most were for charges like non attendance, refusal to take correction, deficiency in doctrine, etc. People were always asking, ‘What is the deal with ‘church discipline’ around here?’ Elderly widows were sincerely afraid of being disciplined; one was my mother. I finally realized that it was a tool used to frighten people into keeping their mouths shut and not making any waves. Shameful.
I once thought it was a unique situation with a one-off controlling, narcissistic pastor; but many on these pages have had similar experiences.
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Yeah, the praises I hear heaped on church discipline in New Cal churches is almost always from men, usually leaders. I’m pretty sure women are much more likely to be disciplined or threatened with discipline. Lots of examples on this blog already…
I’ve had at least three New Cals tell me I should be disciplined simply for not being married. I didn’t even go to church with them.
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Samuel Conner,
My experience was with a traditional, Presbyterian church. Only one case, which involved an elder, had the connections and courage to pursue it and have the charges dropped. Most simply leave, confused, scared, traumatized and wondering what in the world just happened to them. They are also told that other local churches will be warned not to accept them as members. Bullies masquerading as shepherds.
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TS00,
When I stopped attending, I got ‘the letter’ requesting my formal explanation to the elders. I laughed, and told them maybe I would send them a copy of my book someday.
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Did a quick Google search for Presbyterian churches in 9Marks. There’s quite a few. 9Marks is deadly focused on church disciplining members.
So I don’t think you can cleanly separated “Reformed” and “New Calvinist” in terms of church discipline.
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I wonder whether it might be that being excluded from communion with these groups on account of one’s conscience is actually a badge of honor and something that is praiseworthy in God’s sight. Blessed are they who are spoken evil of on account of their loyalty to Jesus.
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This may be a way that the neo-reformed are influencing the classical variety. A “normal” Presbyterian denomination will have a “Book of Church Order” which defines the duties of Teaching and Ruling Elders. These specifications tend to cite biblical sources and I think (correct me if this is mistaken) that harsh rulership is outside the defined parameters (that doesn’t prevent it from happening, but could create a cause for charges to be brought against an overbearing elder; laity have some rights under classical Reformed polity). Discipline of laity for “not getting with the program” or having private convictions that don’t conform scrupulously to the stated church confessional standards or the public pronouncements of the Teaching Office ought not to happen in the older-style Reformed groups. (It has been noted, for example, that many laity in Reformed churches don’t understand or even embrace Calvinism; this was my observation too and it was not an obstacle to lay membership in a very conservative Reformed denomination.)
But the times are changing; I don’t doubt that people who would like to rule harshly are present in the Sessions of classical Reformed churches. They would be a ready audience for views of church governance that advocate exercise of the “whip hand.”
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Tullian is even celebrating on his Facebook page his current marriage to the woman he had an affair with. Just unreal.
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The guy is a serial adulterer so I am guessing his current wife will someday be reading about her replacement on Facebook as well. Or maybe Tullian will be the one replaced. Then he will be crying about the wrong done to HIM. Unfortunately, he won’t learn from it. Narcissist all the way!!!
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Yeah, and he comments right under his “Happy Anniversary” post”:
“The deepest knowledge is the knowledge of grace — the seemingly cavalier nature of God’s too-good-to-be-true, one way love — the knowledge that we are inseparably connected to the God of repeat offenders.”
Hyper-grace allowed Tullian to be a repeat offender.
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Max,
This is a great comment. Thank you! I may quote you in the future.
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ROFL!
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Headless Unicorn Guy,
It depends on how you define “fundamentalist”. Clearly there are certain things in Scripture that, for Christian believers, are “black and white” (fundamental) while there are other areas that are either gray or not directly addressed. For the former, having a “fundamentalist view” would be appropriate, while for the latter, using Biblical principles to make an informed individual decision (understanding that others may not see it that way) would be the way to go. Where folks go wrong, in my view (be they fundamentalist or some othet persuadion), is when they become fanatical and controlling regarding the gray (or not addressed) areas.
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I have stopped laughing. I choked on my bacon! Could you please tell me the type of church it was? Reformed, Reformed SBC, SBC, PCA. Any ties to 9 Marks?Also, did you tell them this in an email? Do you know if they put you in church discipline even though you left?
I love to learn about these things.
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Samuel Conner,
It is my experience over the last 9 1/2 years that in fact people who have authoritarian tendencies and even abusive natures, tend to gravitate toward churches in which the pastor has control. It is also my experience that many churches, including those with spelled our churches order, can be reluctant to take on the complaints, and I mean valid complaints, agains ta pastor or leader.
I can point out traditional Reformed churches that have not responded well. Sadly, I believe this is human nature. Far to many people want to be *in charge* even if it is for a small church and a small group of people. Admirals in rowboatsare in every church group.
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Please feel free to do so. Anything we can collectively do to curb the proliferation of Hyper-Grace in the organized church would be a good thing. An emerging generation of grace-grace-grace boys within New Calvinism is a particular concern of mine. There are more Tullians lurking in their midst.
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In other words Tillian has turned the grace of God into licentiousness as Jude in his short book of the Bible wrote about,
For certain individuals whose condemnation was written aboutb long ago have secretly slipped in among you. They are ungodly people, who pervert the grace of our God into a license for immorality and deny Jesus Christ our only Sovereign and Lord. Jude 1:4
Also. II Tim 3:6-7
They are the kind who worm their way into homes and gain control over gullible women, who are loaded down with sins and are swayed by all kinds of evil desires, 7always learning but never able to come to a knowledge of the truth.
The “always learning”sure sounds like Tillian.
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“One thing is certain: I am hyper about grace!” (Tullian Tchvidjian, 17 June 2015)
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i.e. Those Who Get To Hold The Whip.
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dee,
If you tell me where to email you the information, I would be happy to share more details. For my family’s sake, many who remain within the denomination, I prefer to not share all publicly.
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I also believe that much of this religious narcissism, and perhaps all narcissism, arises from insecurity. A deeply insecure pastor, with controlling, perfectionist tendencies, convinces deeply insecure men that they are the ‘called ones’, anointed to ‘lead’ (by which he means rule over authoritatively) in their homes and in their churches. These mousy men, never part of the ‘in crowd’, all of a sudden become Lord and Master of their universes – for the first time in their lives. The pastor, like all successful narcissists, can persuade these men to do anything he wants, all while making them think it is completely their own idea. They are convinced that they model the only ‘True’ and ‘safe’ method of church leadership, via the much-vaunted ‘plurality of elders’. This phrase must be repeated weekly to reinforce the programming. But ‘plurality of elders’ doesn’t mean squat, when the elders are completely brainwashed and mind-controlled by an authoritarian pastor.
I recall well the day I read, here on this blog, (several years ago) someone’s statement that they truly believed their elders were so brainwashed that they would murder the congregation if the pastor recommended it. I caught my breath. I had used that exact expression to a close friend. I was not alone. Maybe this was not all in my head. Spiritual abuse was maybe, just maybe, not the sinful result of my ‘rebellious refusal to submit to my God-given authorities’.
Finding that others had experienced the same sort of mind-boggling nightmare that I was in gave me the courage to take the seemingly impossible steps to rescue myself and my immediate family from this toxic situation. And begin the process of healing, and reevaluating everything I believed about everything. Really, not such a bad idea, once you feel you are in a safe space.
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Type example: Womb Tomb Swanson. Always struck me as a “high school dork” who became Alpha Male (by Divine Right) and just HAS to throw his weight around HARD.
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“I kill my own mother and still they cheer me!”
— Lucius Domitius Ahenobarbus (Nero Caesar), in Paul Maier’s historical novel Flames of Rome
And didn’t Jack(?) Hyles order his elders to drink a glass of “poison” as a Loyalty Test?
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Headless Unicorn Guy,
Yep. Secretly jealous that they would never get chosen as a rockstar celebrity pastor, many of these scrawny underachievers find their ‘Alpha’ selves in the conservative, fundamental church. They appear to thrive on the power and praise of being looked to for all the answers from some small group of people. I mean, just take a look at photos of ARBCA leaders, and other Reformed groups – most wouldn’t be mistaken for former high school jocks. I’m not trying to be unkind; this seems to be a real factor in the type of people being drawn into these cults. My Calvie pastor used to scorn the ‘pretty people’ who would never come, or stay long, to his church. I kinda thought maybe I should be a little insulted?
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Absolutely true.
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TT: “The grace of God is not reserved for the ‘well-behaved.'”
Me: But the shepherding of God’s flock is.
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The closing comments by Pastor Joshua Scheer, Senior Pastor of Our Savior Lutheran Church in Cheyenne, Wyoming are especially interesting to me as he trolled on Facebook under a pseudonym of “Walt Longmire” of the book and television series.
When I confronted his actual Facebook account with the screenshot proof of this, the account disappeared within 12 hours.
It seems that even those who can formulate a Lutheran response can also be unwilling to hear those words when they are most needed.
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Some folks just need to keep their mouth shut, rather than opening it to reveal their ignorance. Soooo … Tullian is essentially saying “Behave badly and the grace of God will cover you.” This is Hyper-Grace at its worst.
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“What shall we say to all this? Should we continue in sin and practice sin as a habit so that God’s gift of grace may increase and overflow? Certainly not! How can we, the very ones who died to sin, continue to live in it any longer?” (Romans 6: 1-2 AMP)
Tullian as a purported preacher of the Gospel should know this. Of course, he filters everything through “Calvinism = Gospel” which distorts the meaning of grace.
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Nathan P Farkas,
I guess I don’t understand what happened here. Can you explain it to me?
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Steve240,
I totally agree.
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Ricco,
They kicked him off a full year before the affairs were made public, according to the article.
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I wonder what Uncle Franklin’s thoughts are on the matter? Or Aunt Anne? I hope behind the scenes his family is trying to counsel him.
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Indeed.
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Interesting