T4G2016 Features C.J. Mahaney Despite a Peaceful Protest and the PCA’s Strong Objection

"For the sake of peace of the Church, CJ Mahaney should not speak at T4G or any conference until his name has been cleared…"

Bobby Griffith – Vintage73, a PCA collaborative blog

http://vintage73.com/2016/04/pca-pastors-celebrity-christian-conferences-and-child-protection/Vintage73.com (PCA blog)

Please see an Update at the end of the post

Together for the Gospel 2016 got underway yesterday afternoon, and many of those filing into the KFC Yum! Center walked by a small group of protestors that was there to Stand with the SGM Victims.  Our friends Pam and Dominic Palmer drove all the way from Maryland to take part in the peaceful protest.  The group, comprised of 7 adults and 3 children, included a couple of representatives from SNAP. 

Yesterday morning Mark Dever sent out a Tweet to which Pam's daughter, Renee Gamby, responded in kind (see screen shot below).

https://twitter.com/MarkDever/status/719843463416717313?lang=en

Most T4G attendees didn't pay any attention to the protesters; however, around 10 of them paused long enough to listen to the dissenters.  One of those standing with the SGM victims lifted his voice and said:  "We are protesting one of the main speakers. Do you want to know who?"  Some standing in line had no idea.  One woman in the crowd yelled: "It's all lies!" and two young guys chanted: "We love CJ, We love CJ" as they passed by.

During the two hour protest, the group passed out around 200 flyers.  Here is the exact information that was distributed.


Mahaney Knew or Should Have Known…

What are we protesting? We are protesting against C.J. Mahaney/Sovereign Grace leaders speaking at T4G16.

Why are we protesting? Mahaney, as Senior Pastor of Covenant Life Church and President of SGM/SGC & many SGC leaders are credibly accused of sexual abuse cover-up. Mahaney knew or should have known about a multitude of sexual abuse cases and cover-ups by his staff:

  • 1980s and following, 5+ pastors under Mahaney knew and did not alert law enforcement of Nate Morales, former youth/worship leader at CLC – convicted for sex abuse in 2014.

  • 1997 and following, Mahaney/SGC pastors knew of multiple sexual abuse victims by a wealthy member in CLC, but covered up for him & went on an expensive vacation with all their families paid for by this wealthy, alleged abuser.

  • 1998, Mahaney allegedly blackmailed a co-founder of CLC/SGM, Larry Tomczak.

  • 2011, Mahaney temporarily resigns as SGM President because of blackmail, etc.

  • 2012, Mahaney, CLC & SGM sued by 11 sex abuse victims. (Dismissed on technicalities NOT on the merits of the case)

  • 2013, Mahaney resigned as President of SGM two months before lawsuit went to court.

  • 2014, Mahaney resigned from speaking at T4G14 because negative publicity one month before the Morales criminal case to start.

  • 2016, ANOTHER long-term CLC member & childrens ministry volunteer arrested for sex abuse, Larry Caffery, who was sexually abusing while Mahaney was in charge.

  • Southern Baptist Convention (2013) passed this Resolution on Child Sexual Abuse:

    RESOLVED, That we encourage all denominational leaders and employees of the Southern Baptist Convention to utilize the highest sense of discernment in affiliating with groups and or individuals that possess questionable policies and practices in protecting our children from criminal abuse…”

    Are Drs. Mohler and Dever following this crucial Resolution??

    There are many more alleged SGC sex abuse cases! ONLY men who are his friends and/or business associates have cleared Mahaney of these serious charges.
    MAHANEY/SGC LEADERS SHOULD NOT HAVE A PLACE OF HONOR AT T4G16.

    As a T4G16 Attendee, WHAT can YOU do??

    1. Express your concerns and/or displeasure over Mahaney or Sovereign Grace leaders speaking at T4G.

    http://t4g.org/logistics/contact-us/

    Al Mohler http://www.albertmohler.com/contact/

    Mark Dever (mark.dever@capbap.org)

    Ligon Duncan (info@ligonduncan.com)

    2. Consider boycotting these sessions:

    Main Session:

    Mahaney speaking on Sustained in Suffering by the Saga of Job

    Breakout Session I:

    Mahaney speaking on Creating a Culture of Joy in Your Church

    Breakout Session II:

    SGC Leaders recruiting pastors to join their ministry

    Who ARE these protesters?!

    Sex abuse survivors, parents of SGM sex abuse victims, former SGM members, SNAP members (Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests). (SNAP, the Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests, is the world’s oldest and largest support group for clergy abuse victims. SNAP was founded in 1988 and has more than 20,000 members. Despite the word “priest” in our title, we have members who were molested by religious figures of all denominations, including nuns, rabbis, bishops, and Protestant ministers. Our website is SNAPnetwork.org)

    For more information on the credible accusations, see

    http://thewartburgwatch.com/category/sovereign-grace-ministries/


  • So who are the Palmers and what happened to their daughter?  Dominic and Pam Palmer were members of Covenant Life Church (CLC) in Gaithersburg, Maryland.  As explained in The Washingtonian article The Sex Abuse Scandal that Devastated a Suburban Megachurch, one evening in 1993 the Palmers hired a teenage member of CLC to babysit their three year old daughter Renee. The Palmers soon discovered that the teenage boy had molested little Renee.  When they told one of their pastors what had happened to their daughter, he immediately told them not to call the police; however, the Palmers had already taken action and reported the molestation to the proper authorities.
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  • The teenager plead guilty and was sentenced to six months of court-ordered counseling.  Pastor John Loftness convened a reconciliation meeting between three-year-old Renee and her molester.  The meeting occurred over two decades ago, and Pam continues to be haunted by the memory of little Renee cowering under a chair when she laid eyes on her molester.  The Washingtonian article stated:

    Why had she and Dominic agreed to meet and forgive the young man, as the church taught? Why hadn’t she gone to any of his court hearings?Pam says another CLC pastor urged her to write a letter to the court requesting leniency for her daughter’s abuser, and she was upset that she had done so. What if these assaults were still going on? she thought.

  • In recent years Pam has become an activist and victims' advocate, and she is working tirelessly to bring about change in the Maryland legislature.  Specifically, she is advocating that the statute of limitations be extended for child sexual abuse.  Recently, Pam was interviewed by Kojo Nnamdi, an American radio journalist at WAMU 88.5, who did a program regarding child sex abuse charges involving members of Covenant Life Church (CLC) and Sovereign Grace Church Fairfax.

  • During that interview, Pam said that most child sexual abuse victims have just three years after turning 18 to bring forth a civil action.  She stated that the best way to prosecute an institution is civily since it is difficult to prosecute an institution criminally.

    The lawsuit filed in 2013 was dismissed on a technicality because the statute of limitations had expired.  Pam, S.N.A.P., and other activists are trying to extend the statute out.  At the end of the interview Tiffany Stanley, who wrote The Washingtonian article, explained that for 20 years some have been trying to get this Maryland law changed and each time the Catholic church sends representatives opposing it.  It is certainly worth noting that this year CLC sent two female members to oppose changes to the existing law regarding the statute of limitations with regard to child sexual abuse. 

  • We are grateful that WDRB 41 in Louisville covered yesterday's protest.  (see below) 

  • WDRB 41 Louisville News

    Not only are the protesters who stand with SGM victims speaking out, now some in the Presbyterian Church of America are taking a stand.  That would be the denomination to which Ligon Duncan and Kevin DeYoung belong.  Just as T4G was getting underway, a PCA collaborative blog published this post:  PCA Pastors, Celebrity Christian Conferences, and Child Protection

  • The photo of Mahaney at the top of the post came from this PCA post (I took a screen shot).  FYI – the PCA passed a child protection resolution back in 2014, and a portion of it is superimposed over the photo of Mahaney.  Regarding the Vintage73 post, here are the portions of that appeal that stood out to me (see screen shots below).

  • http://vintage73.com/2016/04/pca-pastors-celebrity-christian-conferences-and-child-protection/#disqus_thread

  • And this…

  • http://vintage73.com/2016/04/pca-pastors-celebrity-christian-conferences-and-child-protection/#disqus_thread

    Someone asked in the comments whether Bobby Griffith (who wrote the post) contacted Lig Duncan and Kevin DeYoung.  Bobby's response is included in the screen shot below.  Since there was no mention of their response, we assume that all he got from Duncan and DeYoung was silence.

    http://vintage73.com/2016/04/pca-pastors-celebrity-christian-conferences-and-child-protection/

  • As most of you know, C.J. Mahaney spoke yesterday afternoon on this topic — Sustained in Suffering by the Saga of Job.  His talk was based on Job, Chapter 3.  If you care to see a clip from it, you can access it on T4G's Facebook.  Al Mohler introduced C.J. Mahaney, and his braggadocian bravado was sickening.  Here are the words Mohler used to describe C.J. — grace, humility, patience, endurance, kindness, consistency, steadfastness, encourager, joy.  With regard to endurance, Mohler said that we know Mahaney has demonstrated endurance during an incredible trial.  Regarding C.J.'s 'kindness', Mohler assured the audience that he has NEVER heard C.J. say anything unkind about anyone.  Perhaps Mohler is correct with regard to 'kindness' because if ever there were a brown-nosing charmer, it would be Mahaney.  His flattering words drip off his tongue like honey from the comb.  Case in point:  Mahaney has publicly described his buddy Al as "the smartest man on the planet". 

  • Amy over at Watchkeep recorded perhaps the most inflammatory statement Mohler uttered in his introduction of Mahaney.  Here is what she wrote:

  • Mohler referred obliquely to the pushback in his introduction of Mahaney, getting laughs with the line: “I told C.J. that in getting ready to introduce him I decided I would Google to see if there was anything on the Internet about him.”

  • Update 4/14/16 1:10PM Here is a screen shot of the Baptist Press report of this joke.

  • Screen Shot 2016-04-14 at 1.05.43 PM

  • I watched the entire spectacle and vividly remember this portion of Mohler's introduction of Mahaney. 

  • The hard-heartedness and callous disregard for those who were hurt in Mahaney's former church and his church planting network is stunning.  We take solace in the fact that this is playing out before a watching world as well as Almighty God.  One day, perhaps in the not too distant future, He will have His way. 

    For those of you who are suffering, please know that we are praying for you.  May you be encouraged in the days to come….

    UPDATE (April 14, 2016, 1:00 p.m.)

    Another courageous Presbyterian pastor has chimed in with some powerful words (see screen shot below).  Thank you James KesslerPowerful words…

    https://www.facebook.com/james.kessler.9/posts/10153496789469109?pnref=story

Comments

T4G2016 Features C.J. Mahaney Despite a Peaceful Protest and the PCA’s Strong Objection — 265 Comments

  1. Thanks to those who participated on site, and for TWW posting this update, and especially for the texts of what information was available to attenders. Praying that seeds of truth were planted today …

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  3. Okay so I just watched part of C.J. preach and I think he’s going downhill. Either he is deteriorating or he feels the pressure of him being protested. Maybe he should look into some “Gospel Centered Xanex?”

  4. Janet Mefferd tweeted, in response to the pharisees Mohler, Dever, and Duncan:

    “The willful deafness of his gospel buddies to this outcry shows it’s not just Mahaney who should get off the stage.”

    T4G, what a sham.

  5. @ Todd Wilhlem:

    Thanks Todd. Janet Mefferd is right about T4G.

    They are making merchandise of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. As far as I'm concerned, they are modern day moneychangers.

    It's all about them books, 'bout them books, 'bout them books…  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F8sQ55NffE0

    Yeah, attendees get some free books.  Big deal!  I wonder how many resources the average attendee purchases at the bookstore.

    And, of course, the speakers who must be making a pretty penny from those registration fees.  I wouldn't be surprised if they get a cut from the meal plan they promoted.

  6. In the exalted world of their own minds, the chosen few “senior pastors” of the moment, with their “sanctified testosterone” bask in the roaring accolades of the wannabes, thus drowning out the cries of the innocent.

  7. Todd Wilhlem wrote:

    Janet Mefferd tweeted, in response to the pharisees Mohler, Dever, and Duncan:

    “The willful deafness of his gospel buddies to this outcry shows it’s not just Mahaney who should get off the stage.”

    T4G, what a sham.

    For what it’s worth, I believe this core issue of levels of co-responsibility will increasingly come up when there are questions about “systemic abuse,” which is what began with SGM — but now clearly seems to have dug its tentacles into T4G [as witnessed by the hero’s welcome given to C.J. Mahaney], and into the Presbyterian Church in America denomination and Southern Baptist Convention [as illustrated in Bobby Griffith’s blog post].

    Systemic abuse happens when it’s not simply about the actions of an individual or two or a few — but where organizational or network infrastructures are in place. Where there are those who protect and promote the people who are directly responsible for the abuse of power/authority. Where there are others who deflect and demote anyone who says, does, or identifies contrary to the accepted status. Where there are pawns — many ignorant of what’s really going on — who keep the system resourced.

    And so, the issue of responsibility in systemic abuse shifts from the alleged perpetrator or apex of the pyramid of power in the situation, to a whole crew.

    * Who is most culpable and should bear the highest amount of accountability?

    * Who is lower down on the pyramid, but still acts to keep the organization going, and so has a greater or lesser degree of complicity? (We get our English words complicit and accomplice from the same root.)

    * Who is mostly being milked for their money, presence [seat count], and volunteer time, and is more along the lines of an “accessory” rather than an activist or advocate, in terms of responsibility/accountability for the system?

    I think the tide turned on the public’s interest in probing the question of co-responsibility with the Penn State scandal. Think about how many different people, organizations, institutions, and media outlets were involved in that situation! I also believe this trend has been amplified to where the movie Spotlight could hold audiences’ attention for over two hours as they witness how long it takes the Boston Globe’s Spotlight team to investigate such a convoluted set of protective interconnections between church, police, judiciaries, media, philanthropic organizations, etc. (And according to reports I read, it took their team’s combined efforts for nearly a year, at an estimated cost of $1 million for their salaries plus legal matters and other costs.)

    At the T4G conference, the protectors were not silent – nor were the protesters. Both went public with their positions. Sadly, those who stood with Mr. Mahaney lost a prime opportunity for starting to make some things right toward those allegedly harmed by the SGM system. So, I would second what Ms. Mefferd suggests, that the involvement by those on the T4G stage is incompatible with being considered public role models of pursuing Christlikeness. It is past time for Together for the Gospel — and other Protestant churches, ministries, denominations, seminaries, and networks — to wrestle with the essential issues of accountability behind what the Dutch philosopher-theologian Erasmus said 500 years ago: “He who allows oppression shares the crime.”

  8. Deb wrote:

    Yeah, attendees get some free books. Big deal!

    “Free” probably means the books were leftovers from the juicing, i.e. already paid for with $200 grand in Tithe money to ResultSource.

  9. Remnant wrote:

    In the exalted world of their own minds, the chosen few “senior pastors” of the moment, with their “sanctified testosterone” bask in the roaring accolades of the wannabes…

    HUMBLY, of course.

  10. I am embarrassed for Mohler–his reference to the Internet was a passive-aggressive shot at those who have raised the accountability issues for leadership, both with Mahaney, and with T4G. I am embarrassed for CJ–the lust for attention and praise that would overrule the boundaries of decency are such a red flag for him personally.

    But, I am most embarrassed for those who chanted ‘we love CJ’ as an act of violence toward the protesters, embarrassed for those who cheered and applauded these men, this event. We mock virtue and wonder why there are thieves among us, (a rough paraphrase of a CS Lewis quote).

  11. Deb wrote:

    Yeah, attendees get some free books.  Big deal!  I wonder how many resources the average attendee purchases at the bookstore.

    They receive free books because they go back to their churches and promote them. Nothing beats a book recommendation from pastor, elder, etc.

  12. Dont the Presbyterians have a hierarchical process for pastor discipline? I wonder why Duncan and DeYoung don’t fear such a thing.

    When a Presbyterian group tried to use that process with Sproul SR, they found out his supposed Presbyterian Church was really independent and he was untouchable.

  13. Deb wrote:

    I wonder how many resources the average attendee purchases at the bookstore.

    If I could have been considered an “average” conference attendee, A LOT. Some of us attended these things just to raid the booktables.

    There was a lot of hero worship going on even then, 15-20 years ago. Judging from the reaction the protestors got, it’s still going on now…

  14. Lydia wrote:

    DI wonder why Duncan and DeYoung don’t fear such a thing.

    When a Presbyterian group tried to use that process with Sproul SR, they found out his supposed Presbyterian Church was really independent and he was untouchable.

    Lydia wrote:

    Dont the Presbyterians have a hierarchical process for pastor discipline? I wonder why Duncan and DeYoung don’t fear such a thing.

    I’d guess that they are too high up and too valuable to the organization to be touched. If they committed pedophilia themselves, that might do the trick, but sharing the stage with an accused Co-conspirator? Besides, if it did happen they would probably decamp (pun intended) to some smaller Presbyterian hardline denomination and carry on carrying on.

  15. Cousin of Eutychus wrote:

    I am embarrassed for Mohler–his reference to the Internet was a passive-aggressive shot at those who have raised the accountability issues for leadership, both with Mahaney, and with T4G.

    I am not embarrassed, I am alarmed and deeply concerned that these people are masquerading as followers of Christ.

    Hardened murders hate child molesters! But supposed Christians welcome them with open arms, and set up systems where they are allowed to roam free. This is maddening.

  16. And the world listens as Mohler mocks the abused. What an example of a shepherd he just showed to a watching world….the Hound of Heaven heard as well.

  17. “I told C.J. that in getting ready to introduce him I decided I would Google to see if there was anything on the Internet about him.” – Al Mohler

    I was watching it on the livestream, and I was stunned that he would reference the scandal at all, let alone as a throwaway joke.

  18. Edward wrote:

    “I told C.J. that in getting ready to introduce him I decided I would Google to see if there was anything on the Internet about him.” – Al Mohler

    That Mohler would say this is beyond comprehension. The man has no heart . . .

  19. Eeyore wrote:

    There was a lot of hero worship going on even then, 15-20 years ago. Judging from the reaction the protestors got, it’s still going on now…

    You wouldn't believe some of the tweets I've seen from the "men" in attendance. They remind me of a pack of teenage girls at a Beatles concert.

    This movement is very sick.

  20. Bridget wrote:

    The man has no heart . . .

    So many of them are like that.

    I repeat HARDENED criminals are repulsed by child molesters. WTH is wrong with these people, from the top down, who claim to be Christians and can’t seem to get that this is evil???

  21. Happymom wrote:

    And the world listens as Mohler mocks the abused.

    In the New Calvinist world, if Dr. Mohler endorses someone, that’s all the young, restless and reformed need. Mohler can do no wrong; when he blesses something or someone, the YRR tune out dissent. Ministerial integrity demanded that Mahaney not speak at T4G, just as ministerial integrity required T4G organizers not to give him a place of honor while dishonorable acts by his ministry were in the wind. For the good of the movement, the reformed who’s-who protect their own. Meanwhile, the world looks on in amazement, reads both secular and religious press regarding SGM & Mahaney, and says “I told you so – there’s nothing to it.” Things like this make religion a byword and reproach.

  22. Edward wrote:

    “I told C.J. that in getting ready to introduce him I decided I would Google to see if there was anything on the Internet about him.” – Al Mohler

    And 10,000 New Calvinists roared in laughter, as Jesus wept.

  23. I don’t endorse any of the Mahaney/SGM actions in the abuse coverup, their treatment of Larry Tomczak or any others abused by this gang of thugs.

    But, I do feel it’s important to look at the roots of some of CJ’s behavior as relates to Larry Tomczak.

    Larry picked CJ as a young disciple, way back in the ’80s…they were closely allied with Bob Mumford and the disastrous shepherding movement….where shunning was normal, heavy handed arrogant men attempted to regulate every part of a believers life….

    In fact, Larry was so arrogant that he was sued for slander by a popular author of the day, and paid a substantial penalty for that arrogance. (See NYTimes article http://www.nytimes.com/1983/09/10/arts/author-wins-judgment-for-slander.html )

    Larry’s extremely arrogant assertion that ‘Proper Parenting=Perfect Kids’ was a source of great misery for many many parents.

    In addition, he makes some truly horrifying recommendations in his books on Child Discipline, which to my certain knowledge, led to at least 1 couple in a local church to be charged and convicted of child abuse.

    So no, CJ has no excuse. But, the learner did learn well from his teacher.
    I’d like to see more acknowledgement of the roots (at least from 1970’s) of just how this got going….from people like Larry Tomczak, Mary Pride (homoeschooling guru) and Greg Harris–Joshua’s father..

  24. Bridget wrote:

    That Mohler would say this is beyond comprehension. The man has no heart . .

    This is what happens when someone feels 40 feet tall and bulletproof. I believe that both Mohler and Mahaney are experiencing that now, and given the teflon nature of Mahaney’s ‘revival’, it is understandable. However, history has proven time and time again that when people think they are the most secure is when they are, in reality, about to fall.

    Galatians 6:7 – Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap.

  25. I got to stop be even associated with the SBC…..those of you in the know, how hard is it to go ahead and convert to the Episcopal or ELC….
    I am too the point I am ashamed to be affilated with the Baptist.

  26. Todd Wilhelm wrote:

    You wouldn’t believe some of the tweets I’ve seen from the “men” in attendance. They remind me of a pack of teenage girls at a Beatles concert. This movement is very sick.

    Perfect analogy! Although I was thinking Justin Beiber.

  27. K.D. wrote:

    I got to stop be even associated with the SBC…..those of you in the know, how hard is it to go ahead and convert to the Episcopal or ELC….
    I am too the point I am ashamed to be affilated with the Baptist.

    Which is exactly why my family and I left a month and a half ago.

  28. @ molly245:
    Yes, we need to know roots so we stop repeating history. The only difference I would point out is how much social media/internet played a part in their reach for national celebrity within Christendom.

    How did Mohler,just an SBC entity employee, come to have so much power and influence? A legend was built around him early that has no root in fact checking. “He was a brilliant scholar”, etc. Some of the things people were told were ridiculous…as in how many books he read a week, etc. It was as if he had image crafters from the time he was in his 20’s, before social media. Maybe to explain being given such a big job at age 33 before such things were the norm?

  29. McArthur just preached from Revelation that churches need to repent. For once, I agree with Johnny Mac. Question is, repent from what?

  30. Todd Wilhelm wrote:

    You wouldn’t believe some of the tweets I’ve seen from the “men” in attendance. They remind me of a pack of teenage girls at a Beatles concert.

    Is that what a cork bobbing in a sea of testosterone looks like?

  31. Bill M wrote:

    Is that what a cork bobbing in a sea of testosterone looks like?

    Apparently it’s what a cork of testosterone looks like bobbing in a sea of estrogen 😉

  32. “Authority used rightly provides a special reflection of God’s character. The abuse of authority specially distorts it.”

    –Mark Dever/Johnathan Leeman, Don’t Be A 9Marxist

  33. NJ wrote:

    “Authority used rightly provides a special reflection of God’s character. The abuse of authority specially distorts it.”

    –Mark Dever/Johnathan Leeman, Don’t Be A 9Marxist

    I am so disgusted with Mark Dever here. Power attracts abusers. The more power you take for yourself, or your unvetted husbands and pastors, the more abuse you will have. The way to get less abuse is to fix the power dynamics, so the abused have a way to get out. Everything about the 9marx and complementarian systems set up a power dynamic that leaves people vulnerable. Stupid, stupid, stupid.

  34. @ Lea:
    The law of sowing and reaping definitely comes into play here. 9Marx has planted a crop of weeds, and now they are trying to apply weed control through a breakout session called ‘Don’t be a 9Marxist’.

    You reap what you sow, you reap it later than you sowed it, and you reap MORE OF IT!

    I predict that it will only get worse as time goes.

  35. Deb, I’m late to the game here and have been trying to find the actual video of Mohler’s introduction of Mahaney. I can’t find it on the T4g facebook feed or anywhere else. Perhaps it’s disappeared already?

  36. @ molly245:

    I absolutely concur with your commentary! We have written about the shepherding movement and Larry Tomczak in the past.

    Perhaps we need to revisit this topic soon. We could even re-post some of the information we shared when we were an obscure blog with very few readers. 😉

  37. Bill M wrote:

    Is that what a cork bobbing in a sea of testosterone looks like?

    Apparently it's what a cork of testosterone looks like bobbing in a sea of estrogen 😉

    NJ wrote:

    Authority used rightly provides a special reflection of God’s character.

    Does it? Did God explain that somewhere that they can point to? I've heard that "special reflection" phrase before.

  38. @ NJ:

    I don't think any of the messages are available right now. If I'm wrong about that, I hope someone will chime in.

    I would imagine they will get them uploaded to the T4G website in the coming days. I doubt Mohler's introduction will ever be made available. It was strictly for the lemmings who paid to be there and hang onto his every word.

  39. Deb wrote:

    I predict that it will only get worse as time goes.

    I’m sure. If they weren’t so eaten up with pride, they would go back and say ‘maybe this isn’t working’. Instead, they are trying to fix it by…telling abusive people not to be abusive! Smart. That will totally work.

  40. A fish rots from the head down, and so it is with this gospelly crowd.

    To me, the reason for the rot is simple – no empathy, not a trace, zip, zero, nada. Without empathy you cannot love your neighbor and if you cannot love your neighbor you cannot be a Christian. There is not one Christian among these pompous, narcissistic cronies.

  41. It is not stupid for the leaders!

    Lea wrote:

    NJ wrote:
    “Authority used rightly provides a special reflection of God’s character. The abuse of authority specially distorts it.”
    –Mark Dever/Johnathan Leeman, Don’t Be A 9Marxist
    I am so disgusted with Mark Dever here. Power attracts abusers. The more power you take for yourself, or your unvetted husbands and pastors, the more abuse you will have. The way to get less abuse is to fix the power dynamics, so the abused have a way to get out. Everything about the 9marx and complementarian systems set up a power dynamic that leaves people vulnerable. Stupid, stupid, stupid.

  42. I am grateful to molly245 for bringing up the destructive Shepherding Movement. It really is at the root of what we are seeing today in the Neo-Cal camp.

    If you have a little time, here are two of our very early posts, written just a couple of weeks after we launched our blog. I am including the last paragraph of each post below the link.

    http://thewartburgwatch.com/2009/04/09/the-shepherding-movement-%E2%80%93-reformed-revamped-reee-diculous/

    Unbeknownst to many Christians, shepherding has been “reformed” and “revamped” and may be coming to a church near you. Your church may even be putting it into practice – you just haven’t been able to recognize it. We are alarmed at this growing movement within Christian orthodoxy, and we can hardly wait to share with your our startling findings in some upcoming posts.

    http://thewartburgwatch.com/2009/04/14/the-shepherding-movement-reformed-revamped-reee-diculous%C2%A0-part-two-%C2%A0/

    What concerns us the most is that C.J. Mahaney has some degree of influence among those who label themselves as “Reformed”, namely: Al Mohler, John Piper, John MacArthur, Mark Dever, R.C. Sproul, Ligon Duncan, Mark Driscoll, and others. We know of some evangelical churches who are providing copies of the book, Humility, to all church congregants in leadership roles. Only time will tell whether the reformed and revamped shepherding movement of a bygone era will become the framework for reformed churches in the 21st century. So much for God’s sovereignty in the lives of those who claim to be Five-Point Calvinists.

  43. Neal wrote:

    There is a related proposed resolution at sbcvoices which may be of interest. http://sbcvoices.com/on-sexual-predation-in-the-southern-baptist-family

    I read and commented on the resolution. I pointed out (as did the leaflet distributed by T4G “protestors”) that a similar 2013 resolution on child sex abuse contained the following language:

    “RESOLVED, That we encourage all denominational leaders and employees of the Southern Baptist Convention to utilize the highest sense of discernment in affiliating with groups and or individuals that possess questionable policies and practices in protecting our children from criminal abuse … ”

    Southern Baptist leaders at the conference ignored that, as they will the new resolution, if it indirectly points to ‘certain’ folks. The 2013 resolution was written at a time when SGM and Mahaney were being investigated; Mohler knew that.

  44. Lydia wrote:

    Mohler is made of Teflon

    Yep. One of the definitions of teflon: “used to refer to someone able to withstand criticism or attack with no apparent effect.” That would be the good Dr. Mohler. He has extended his teflon armor to Mahaney. Why did Mahaney flee to Louisville? He knew Calvin would protect him in Geneva.

  45. “Some standing in line had no idea. One woman in the crowd yelled: “It’s all lies!””
    ++++++++++++

    the hurtfulness of this woman’s non-thinking response. what a stupid woman.

  46. @ NJ:
    Why is Jesus about authority instead of relationship? Besides, who gets to decide if the authority abuses his authority? The authority decides! What a gig!

  47. @ Max:
    The resolution is a joke. If they were manly men they would call for the state association to boot SGL from the convention. Yes. Embarrassing. So what?

    “Another” resolution is to look like they are doing something and can point to it but is meaningless as they already passed similar. All hat. No cattle. Hollow men. Either they more afraid of Mohler than they are compassionate toward victims or they really are that hard hearted.

  48. Deb wrote:

    The law of sowing and reaping definitely comes into play here. 9Marx has planted a crop of weeds, and now they are trying to apply weed control through a breakout session called ‘Don’t be a 9Marxist’.

    This is it.

  49. anon wrote:

    How would Al Mohler have felt if HIS DAUGHTER or SON were abused in church?

    OR GRANDSON…

    Mohler needs to get off his high horse and realize that those kids who were abused in his BFF's former church were somebody's grandchildren.

    I don't believe I have ever witnessed such a lack of compassion as Mohler demonstrated when he introduced Mahaney.

  50. Bridget wrote:

    NJ wrote: Authority used rightly provides a special reflection of God’s character.

    Does it? Did God explain that somewhere that they can point to? I’ve heard that “special reflection” phrase before.

    Practically speaking, a lot of their functional theology of authority comes from the Old Testament, especially Genesis and the Mosaic law. Those parts of the New Testament and the Gospels that upend those interpretations are marginalized or ignored.

  51. Eeyore wrote:

    Practically speaking, a lot of their functional theology of authority comes from the Old Testament, especially Genesis and the Mosaic law. Those parts of the New Testament and the Gospels that upend those interpretations are marginalized or ignored.

    I should have said, “Did Jesus explain that somewhere that they can point to?” Maybe by pointing to what Jesus said, they would also learn a few things . . . I can be hopeful . . .

  52. That obscenely tasteless “joke” by Mohler reminded me of something I heard a year or so ago regarding Bill Cosby. Apparently, during one of his one-man comedy shows, a woman in the audience got up (to use the restroom or something). As she was walking out, Cosby is reported to have said something like, “Watch your drink.”

    I find Mohler’s comment to be on the same level. Heartless and sick, sick, sick.

  53. Deb wrote:

    anon wrote:
    How would Al Mohler have felt if HIS DAUGHTER or SON were abused in church?
    OR GRANDSON…
    Mohler needs to get off his high horse and realize that those kids who were abused in his BFF’s former church were somebody’s grandchildren.
    I don’t believe I have ever witnessed such a lack of compassion as Mohler demonstrated when he introduced Mahaney.

    You that have not been to a seminary or served on a church staff don’t understand.
    I have been out of the ” business” for years now. 30+ years.
    It was bad then. I left because of stuff like this then….I can’t imagine with all the internet, TV stations, etc…and the possibility to make $$$ what it’s like today….
    It is all about $$$$ and power…..as someone wrote above, ” Jesus wept.”

  54. “Vengeance is mine says the Lord.” “When you have done all, stand.” I believe we will see T4G fall like a house of cards. God is giving these leaders time to repent, but His patience has a time limit. It’s never as swift as we wish it, but just you wait. It will happen. And, I will not be gleeful, but saddened that so many were so pridefully blind. Just you wait.

  55. Another Presbyterian pastor, James Kessler, has weighed in via Facebook. I have updated the post by including his powerful commentary:

    Look no one really wants to hear this, certainly not the 10,000 dutifully nodding through CJ Mahaney’s sermon or singing along with Bob Kauflin, one of CJ’s most steadfast supporters, not the men standing on the stage with CJ, who have chosen an unconscionable loyalty to a friend and encouraged him to take the horns of the pulpit to preach and to rip apart the wounds of so many abused under his watch. No one wants to hear this, not the men of my own denomination, who, make no mistake, will yet hear from their brothers over this awful sadness.

    No one wants to hear about it, and I suppose that is their luxury because they are not the wounded, they are not the abused who were told to forgive and not to call the police. They are not plagued by nightmares, they are more fully functional if not more fully human. That hardness of hearing is their luxury, but it is privilege taxed from the bent backs of the humiliated, it is an arrogance woven from bruised reeds.

    This is, of course, nothing new. The abuse began decades ago, but the new thing is the whitewash. The new thing is the happy embrace from supporters who know the record but have chosen to forsake the sheep who are harassed and helpless. New is the audacity of building a conference on the back of an abuser, inviting 10,000 Christians, many of whom teach the Scriptures on Sundays, and claiming the side of the King who loves the bruised reed, who loves the one caught among thorns, who hates the suffering of his little ones. This audacity is new. They know, but they do not care. It must stop. The men and women who believe they are graced by the aroma of heaven this week cannot smell, they cannot see, they cannot hear.

    The church has had to wrestle with unity since the beginning, since Judas, since James and John. Since African Americans were treated to the gospel at the crack of a whip, the glory hidden by the shawl of Jim Crow. The church has always sought unity but finds it elusive. Today, this week, is no different. There is no togetherness for the gospel when the victim stands alone.
    ‪#‎T4G2016‬

  56. @ Eeyore:
    I find it very confusing.they have a strange law/grace dichotomy that seems to fit whatever they need at the moment. Usually law for the victims. Grace for the perps and enablers.

    Where is plain old right and wrong? Being able to point to what is obvious evil and saying, “that is evil”? It is all a jumble mess.

  57. Janice McKenzie wrote:

    “Vengeance is mine says the Lord.” “When you have done all, stand.” I believe we will see T4G fall like a house of cards. God is giving these leaders time to repent, but His patience has a time limit. It’s never as swift as we wish it, but just you wait. It will happen. And, I will not be gleeful, but saddened that so many were so pridefully blind. Just you wait.

    I agree.

  58. @ Deb:

    Once more, the Perfumed Princes who Hold The Whip wipe their mouths and say "There's Nothing Wrong with The System! It's Working Just Fine (for MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE)!"

  59. Deb wrote:

    Another Presbyterian pastor, James Kessler, has weighed in via Facebook. I have updated the post by including this powerful commentary:
    Look no one really wants to hear this, certainly not the 10,000 dutifully nodding through CJ Mahaney’s sermon or singing along with Bob Kauflin, one of CJ’s most steadfast supporters, not the men standing on the stage with CJ, who have chosen an unconscionable loyalty to a friend and encouraged him to take the horns of the pulpit to preach and to rip apart the wounds of so many abused under his watch. No one wants to hear this, not the men of my own denomination, who, make no mistake, will yet hear from their brothers over this awful sadness.
    No one wants to hear about it, and I suppose that is their luxury because they are not the wounded, they are not the abused who were told to forgive and not to call the police. They are not plagued by nightmares, they are more fully functional if not more fully human. That hardness of hearing is their luxury, but it is privilege taxed from the bent backs of the humiliated, it is an arrogance woven from bruised reeds.
    This is, of course, nothing new. The abuse began decades ago, but the new thing is the whitewash. The new thing is the happy embrace from supporters who know the record but have chosen to forsake the sheep who are harassed and helpless. New is the audacity of building a conference on the back of an abuser, inviting 10,000 Christians, many of whom teach the Scriptures on Sundays, and claiming the side of the King who loves the bruised reed, who loves the one caught among thorns, who hates the suffering of his little ones. This audacity is new. They know, but they do not care. It must stop. The men and women who believe they are graced by the aroma of heaven this week cannot smell, they cannot see, they cannot hear.
    The church has had to wrestle with unity since the beginning, since Judas, since James and John. Since African Americans were treated to the gospel at the crack of a whip, the glory hidden by the shawl of Jim Crow. The church has always sought unity but finds it elusive. Today, this week, is no different. There is no togetherness for the gospel when the victim stands alone.
    ‪#‎T4G2016‬

    Wow. Good stuff.

  60. Lydia wrote:

    Where is plain old right and wrong? Being able to point to what is obvious evil and saying, “that is evil”?

    To quote the old Trekkie line, “WE’VE EVOLVED BEYOND ALL THAT!”

    And to paraphrase a line in Old Testament Star Trek’s second pilot:
    “Morals are for Men, NOT Gods (and their Anointed Elect)!”

  61. Deb wrote:

    This audacity is new. They know, but they do not care. It must stop. The men and women who believe they are graced by the aroma of heaven this week cannot smell, they cannot see, they cannot hear.

    Wow. Oh wow. This nails it. I thank him for his courage!

  62. I love it that they were there in protest!!! Thank you to everyone who went to this. I wish I could have been there standing with you. I am so grateful for the media attention it has drawn and maybe, hopefully by C.J.and these pastors being called out it might keep one family from not reporting the aubse or trusting these men to handle sexual abuse in the church when IT IS NOT THEIR JOB!!!! I think it’s time we take back our life’s decisions from pastors spiritual or otherwise and start with Christ and those who He has put in authority when crimes are being committed and lies being told! Men like C.J. and those who support men like him need their feet held to the fire. These men are more concerned with money and church membership than they are about sexual abuse well maybe members need to hold them accountable by leaving or not handing over their tithes to these men but rather give to those in need personally with their money. We may see just how quickly change will happen when they lose the funding for their buildings and pockets!

  63. Deb wrote:

    Mohler needs to get off his high horse and realize that those kids who were abused in his BFF’s former church were somebody’s grandchildren.

    Grandchildren of LOWBORN COMMONERS.
    Not his own HIGHBORN HEIRS.

  64. Lydia wrote:

    All hat. No cattle. Hollow men. Either they more afraid of Mohler than they are compassionate toward victims or they really are that hard hearted.

    Isn’t PASTOR(TM) one of the top ten professions for NPDs and Sociopaths?

  65. Max wrote:

    I read and commented on the resolution. I pointed out (as did the leaflet distributed by T4G “protestors”) that a similar 2013 resolution on child sex abuse contained the following language:

    “RESOLVED, That we encourage all denominational leaders and employees of the Southern Baptist Convention to utilize the highest sense of discernment in affiliating with groups and or individuals that possess questionable policies and practices in protecting our children from criminal abuse … ”

    And North Korea is always telling everyone how DEMOCRATIC their DEMOCRATIC People’s Republic is.

  66. Lea wrote:

    Everything about the 9marx and complementarian systems set up a power dynamic that leaves people vulnerable. Stupid, stupid, stupid.

    It’s not Stupid if You’re the one In Power, Personally Benefiting from it every step of the way.

  67. I just posted the following over at the voices site–I fully expect Miller to have a cardiac attack and delete my comment.

    Dave: Are you saying just because Mohler is so cozy with Mahaney that we as SB should just overlook the serious issues past and current related to Mahaney?

  68. Todd Wilhelm wrote:

    You wouldn’t believe some of the tweets I’ve seen from the “men” in attendance. They remind me of a pack of teenage girls at a Beatles concert.

    Or Harley Quinn in the presence of her Joker.
    “I WANT TO HAVE HIS CHILD!!!!!!!”

  69. Contrast Kessler’s Facebook post with the thread on SBCvoices where men won’t mention the obvious (except Louis-go Louis!) and the comments are mostly concering technicalities including NO retroactivity on the resolution.

    If you guys ever wonder why I am so hard on these men- these pastors -it is because of this sort of thing.

    I can’t prove this but I have been reading them long enough to know the patterns. (They of course trot out the old “you dont know my heart. Right. But i can track patterns of behavior!)

    The earlier resolution by Peter lumpkins dealt with SBC associations with groups and denominations who protected predators. This current resolution is about SBC churches and entities.

    Are you seeing how NO “retroactivity” is being used? Now that SGL is SBC, they would be untouchable. Don’t ever think they are not extremely politically clever. They are deceptive game players masquerading as reasoned men who care. They will trot out their resolution like they really care but they won’t lift one finger in action that would embarrass Mohler. Expect Moore to promote it in the media.

    This resolution is coming at a time when the media and more people are turning against Mahaney. In their minds they have dealt with it by this resolution. They will inundate dissenters with technicalities. It is a sick world of smoke and mirrors.

  70. Headless Unicorn Guy wrote:

    It’s not Stupid if You’re the one In Power, Personally Benefiting from it every step of the way.

    Sigh. I know, I’m just disgusted by it. I think some of them are willfully blind, because it benefits them, and some are have open eyes but are just callous unfeeling and evil. I don’t know which is worse, but I have at least some hope that the former will stop being blind at some point.

    Kessler is on point. I hope someone listens.

  71. @ Lydia:

    Lydia: I am often ashamed I am still a Southern Baptist. I just try my best to serve the Lord in my local church.

  72. Deb wrote:

    @ molly245:
    I absolutely concur with your commentary! We have written about the shepherding movement and Larry Tomczak in the past.
    Perhaps we need to revisit this topic soon. We could even re-post some of the information we shared when we were an obscure blog with very few readers.

    Well, I was a pioneering homeschooling mom in 1985….worked part time to set up a homeschooling section in the local “Christian” bookstore….I went to a lot of conferences, met some of these people personally & had a chance to really ask questions…this was allowed because I represented a vendor at the big Curriculum conventions.
    It was a crazy time of so many “Instant Experts”….such a wide open field that if you spoke with authority—often you became one. Few people checked references in those days…
    Also this coincided with teens who had been “Bill Gothardized” becoming of age and starting families. Add in Rushdoony et. al & it was a perfect storm of a situation ripe for abuse.
    And it happened….

  73. Lydia wrote:

    @ molly245:
    Yes, we need to know roots so we stop repeating history. The only difference I would point out is how much social media/internet played a part in their reach for national celebrity within Christendom.
    How did Mohler,just an SBC entity employee, come to have so much power and influence? A legend was built around him early that has no root in fact checking. “He was a brilliant scholar”, etc. Some of the things people were told were ridiculous…as in how many books he read a week, etc. It was as if he had image crafters from the time he was in his 20’s, before social media. Maybe to explain being given such a big job at age 33 before such things were the norm?

    Well, there was actually quite a social media then–it just looked a little different. From the pioneering homeschooling movement perspective…it’s hard to overestimate how hungry people were for direction, for authority, for reassurance that their parenting was ok….look at the rise of Dobson, Gothard, etc…
    While there was no internet, there was a massive amount of magazines, catalogs, conferences, conventions….word of mouth is still a huge factor & perhaps even more so then…..At least in the homeschooling part of this equation, anyone who put out a catalog or wrote some little ‘curriculum’ published it accompanied by lots of self-serving (usually) infomercials and some very dubious scholarship to back up their claims. But it was highly effective. It’s hard to realize how avidly we all traded books, magazines and catalogs amongst ourselves. Word spread quickly without the internet…

  74. @ molly245:
    You are right! I was not very plugged into that aspect of it. We were too busy trying to get positive secular coverage in the mega seeker world.

  75. Whoa guys…I wasn’t agreeing with Dever in that quote. I was highlighting that in contrast to everything that has gone down with Mahaney. These authority figures seem to have a wilful blindness when it comes to their friend; they won’t apply their own words to situations that require it.

    I’m not sure what it would take to wake them up. Maybe discovering that C.J. had molested kids himself?

    Deb, I agree with you about that video. It’s probably already disappeared down the T4g memory hole.

  76. Lydia wrote:

    (Remember, everyone is thinking CJ but not mentioning him over at Voices except Louis on the other thread. See, if you don’t mention CJ, you never have to deal with it. You lump him into a big bowl and mix)

    “If you pretend something bad doesn’t exist, maybe it’ll all go away by itself.”

  77. NJ wrote:

    Deb, I agree with you about that video. It’s probably already disappeared down the T4g memory hole.

    “As of now, IT NEVER EXISTED, Comrades.”

  78. While reading tweets on the T4G conference Twitter page, I was struck by the following Mark Dever quote:

    “If you look at the history of the church, her greatest enemies are not outside of but inside of it.”

    To which TWW readers would shout AMEN! Problem is, when folks make comments like this, they seldom personalize their remarks – it’s always the other guy, the watchbloggers, the non-Calvinists, etc. The greatest enemies of the Cross of Christ are those who preach that Jesus’ sacrifice was not for ALL men.

  79. molly245 wrote:

    While there was no internet, there was a massive amount of magazines, catalogs, conferences, conventions….word of mouth is still a huge factor & perhaps even more so then…..At least in the homeschooling part of this equation, anyone who put out a catalog or wrote some little ‘curriculum’ published it accompanied by lots of self-serving (usually) infomercials and some very dubious scholarship to back up their claims. But it was highly effective.

    “Open your workbooks and turn with Me
    To the chapter on Authority;
    Do you top the Chain of Command?
    Rule your family with an Iron Hand?
    Because a Good Wife learns to cower
    Beneath the Umbrella of Power;
    Under cover of Heaven’s Gate —
    I. MANIPULATE.
    — Steve Taylor, “I Manipulate” (1985)
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cKlZ7U67Uio

  80. Bridget wrote:

    I should have said, “Did Jesus explain that somewhere that they can point to?” Maybe by pointing to what Jesus said, they would also learn a few things . . . I can be hopeful . . .

    For them, Jesus is interpreted in the light of eternal covenants and principles derived from the OT, not vice versa. BTW, learning that it’s Jesus who interprets the OT, not vice versa, was one of my keystones on the way out of the TR universe.

  81. Lydia wrote:

    @ Eeyore:
    I find it very confusing.they have a strange law/grace dichotomy that seems to fit whatever they need at the moment. Usually law for the victims. Grace for the perps and enablers.

    Where is plain old right and wrong? Being able to point to what is obvious evil and saying, “that is evil”? It is all a jumble mess.

    “For my friends, everything; for my enemies, the law.” It’s an old old story, not limited to TR circles unfortunately…

  82. Todd Wilhelm wrote:

    You wouldn’t believe some of the tweets I’ve seen from the “men” in attendance. They remind me of a pack of teenage girls at a Beatles concert.

    Oh, yes. Yes, I would.

    I consider it a mercy of God that I drifted off from all this when I did. I only wish I was more understanding and proactive about pointing out the problems on my way out the door…

  83. Max wrote:

    Lydia wrote:
    Mohler is made of Teflon
    Yep. One of the definitions of teflon: “used to refer to someone able to withstand criticism or attack with no apparent effect.” That would be the good Dr. Mohler. He has extended his teflon armor to Mahaney. Why did Mahaney flee to Louisville? He knew Calvin would protect him in Geneva.

    Another aspect of Teflon is that one of its constituents, C8/PFOA, causes cancer at very low concentrations:
    http://www.nytimes.com/2016/01/10/magazine/the-lawyer-who-became-duponts-worst-nightmare.html?_r=0
    People can also be exposed by dry-heating a teflon pan…or armor

  84. Lydia wrote:

    http://sbcvoices.com/grace-sexual-predation-and-dealing-with-the-past/
    What is wrong with this post?

    I just read that. It seems like he wants the ‘old man’ pass I gave my 80+ grandfather.

    I left a comment saying basically that I’m only willing to give people ‘grace’ if they have actually 1. admitted what they did 2. apologized to people they’ve wronged and 3. changed (although I didn’t do a list, which I’m realizing now I should have!).

    Otherwise it’s just nonsense.

  85. @ Neal:
    IOW, the Holy Spirit was AWOL. They use the same argument for the likes of John Calvin and his tyrannical Behavior

  86. @ Neal:

    Well, he writes well, but he has left the path of common sense and basic human decency a time or two in that article. Compassion does not need some action plan before any decent human being can figure out that compassion is required of christians. Why excuse some actions just because there was not some policy in place at the time to tell the pastor and staff what to do? He has pastored 35 years or so, and he did not used to know what to do? Hogwash. That puts him back into the eighties. I knew what to do in the fifties because they taught us in nursing school for crying out loud. I heard tales of people reported to the authorities when I was in high school in the forties. He knew what to do, he just did not know if he could do it and keep his job. His plea that times were different back then has some plausibility but he takes it waaaaay too far. He seems to think that a pastor becomes excused from basic human responsibilities just because he is a pastor, unless of course his malpractice carrier told him something different and somebody wrote out a plan of some sort to tell him what to do.

    He is saying that there were no plans in place and therefore nobody should expect a pastor to defend the helpless without a written plan to protect him from the consequences of his actions. I suppose that would be because those guys corks have quit bobbing a long time ago.

  87. Dave Miller is a scoundrel in my books. He does not stand against evil for the leaders who commit it in Southern Baptist life–he gives them a pass. He was a foot soldier in the so called Conservative Resurgence. I shudder to think how many lives he ruined of Godly men and women who did not meet the CR standards and had to go. I fear he has no heart.

  88. mot wrote:

    Dave Miller is a scoundrel in my books. He does not stand against evil for the leaders who commit it in Southern Baptist life–he gives them a pass. He was a foot soldier in the so called Conservative Resurgence. I shudder to think how many lives he ruined of Godly men and women who did not meet the CR standards and had to go. I fear he has no heart.

    And the SBC is FULL of men just like him….these guys couldn't (ed.) care less about anyone but themselves and their so-called " equals."

  89. @ K.D.:
    They are very sick people and many of the commenters at the SBC Voices site are Pastors. I sincerely pray that they repent before it is too late.

  90. NJ wrote:

    Whoa guys…I wasn’t agreeing with Dever in that quote.

    I didn’t think you did. Your name gets copied along with the quote when you reply w/quote.

  91. “RESOLVED, That we encourage all denominational leaders and employees of the Southern Baptist Convention to utilize the highest sense of discernment in affiliating with groups and or individuals that possess questionable policies and practices in protecting our children from criminal abuse…” Al Mohler is one of several SBC leaders who spit in the eye of the people. He is blatantly violating this resolution. And he doesn’t care.

  92. Todd Wilhlem wrote:

    Janet Mefferd tweeted, in response to the pharisees Mohler, Dever, and Duncan:
    “The willful deafness of his gospel buddies to this outcry shows it’s not just Mahaney who should get off the stage.”
    T4G, what a sham.

    I agree. And I went to the second one. Maybe they even started out with good intentions. All I know is what Jesus said – you shall know them by their fruit. These men are only together for the Benjamins.

  93. Dr. Fundystan, Proctologist wrote:

    “RESOLVED, That we encourage all denominational leaders and employees of the Southern Baptist Convention to utilize the highest sense of discernment in affiliating with groups and or individuals that possess questionable policies and practices in protecting our children from criminal abuse…” Al Mohler is one of several SBC leaders who spit in the eye of the people. He is blatantly violating this resolution. And he doesn’t care.

    Potemkin Resolution, Tovarichi.

    Like the Tsar who Abolished the Death Penalty in Russia, substituting 1000 lashes with the Knout. A dozen with the Knout was always fatal, but the Tsar could point with pride and say “In Russia, we have NO death penalty!”

    Or the other Tsar who said “Is NO slavery in Russia! Here we call it ‘Serfdom’!”

  94. mot wrote:

    Dave Miller is a scoundrel in my books. He does not stand against evil for the leaders who commit it in Southern Baptist life–he gives them a pass. He was a foot soldier in the so called Conservative Resurgence. I shudder to think how many lives he ruined of Godly men and women who did not meet the CR standards and had to go. I fear he has no heart.

    Remember that Pastor(TM) is in the Top Ten for all profession having the highest percentage of NPDs and Sociopaths….

  95. Neal wrote:

    A new post at sbcvoices calls for amnesty for the likes of Mahaney. “Please hear me. I’m not arguing that the old ways were better. They weren’t. I’m simply saying that the pastors who handled things wrongly in the past were often good men with a bad battle plan.” http://sbcvoices.com/grace-sexual-predation-and-dealing-with-the-past/

    Translation: “BUT HE MEANT WELL!”

    JUDGE TIM: How far would “But He Meant Well!” go in your courtroom on a felony case?

  96. I've been quiet here for awhile (not feeling good), but as Dr.Fundystan said, you will know them by their fruits. He said just what I was thinking. The Bible says that the tree that is not bearing good fruit will be pruned. I think these guys need a huge pruning. I don't see any fruit of the Spirit evident in their lives or what they are teaching. (As a side, I have my 17th foot surgery on my left foot next Wednesday, April 20th).

  97. mot wrote:

    @ Headless Unicorn Guy:
    HUG I wonder which of the Gods these SBC pastor’s worship and which bible they read for spiritual guidance.

    The God of $$$…

  98. K.D. wrote:

    mot wrote:

    @ Headless Unicorn Guy:
    HUG I wonder which of the Gods these SBC pastor’s worship and which bible they read for spiritual guidance.

    The God of $$$…

    I believe the technical term is ‘Mammon’.

  99. Dave Miller, in his article, says that one of the ways “we’ve made tremendous progress in the last 10 years or so” concerning sexual predation is that “we understand that we must side with the victim, not the abuser.”

    That’s like saying that “we have discovered that water is wet.”

    Is he saying that pastors were essentially brain-dead, and that they had/have less discernment and mere common sense than people chosen randomly from a crowd? I think he IS saying that, but doesn’t realize it. Instead he thinks he’s saying, “Thank God, we now have guidelines to tell us that we should side with the victim instead of the abuser.” And that this is “tremendous progress.” And he isn’t shriveling with embarrassment.

    If the bar is set this low for pastors, they shouldn’t be trusted to do more than set up chairs, although they may need guidelines for this also.

  100. @ JeffB:
    Agree with your assessment. I also found this statement by Dave Miller highly offensive.

    http://sbcvoices.com/grace-sexual-predation-and-dealing-with-the-past/

    “I don’t know of a single pastor or denominational leader arguing for a return to the “good old days” when we swept things under the rug and blamed the victim for their abuse.”

    Praise God for the internet which I believe helped bring ungodly treatment of victims by pastors into the light.

  101. JeffB wrote:

    Is he saying that pastors were essentially brain-dead, and that they had/have less discernment and mere common sense than people chosen randomly from a crowd? I think he IS saying that, but doesn’t realize it. Instead he thinks he’s saying, “Thank God, we now have guidelines to tell us that we should side with the victim instead of the abuser.” And that this is “tremendous progress.” And he isn’t shriveling with embarrassment.

    Exactly. He is proud. He also made it sound like lawyers and insurance companies spiritually enlightened these pastors.

  102. Lydia wrote:

    He also made it sound like lawyers and insurance companies spiritually enlightened these pastors.

    That was really bizarre. If they proceeded from a loving place, a place of trying to take care of others, they might have made some stupid mistakes but they wouldn’t have made the worst ones.

  103. @ Lydia:

    Well there we have it folks! He just called all people who were pastors a while back illogical uneducated idiots. Good job, Dave. I also think he just cast more suspicion on the whole lot of CJ’s buds. I think CJ might have something on them because none of this makes sense, unless they have books to sell. Let them all off the hook, then. What Dave fails to recognize is that if it weren’t for the people he is attacking for drudging up old pastor stupidity, there would never be any smarts in the child protection area added to their church’s insurance policies today. And what thanks to the protestors get for that!

  104. @ okrapod:
    He has been with what is now called SGM since the beginning of thd 70s. He was Larry Tomczak’s protégé.

    He has no excuse whatsoever. Gor thst matter, imo, neither does Tomczak.

  105. One of my favorite pastors of all time is dr Martyn Lloyd Jones… It kills me that all of these guys have used his words and twisted them and battered people with the message …. They are so destructive

  106. Book give away? At T4G? I’ll say! I counted twenty books in the photo that a friend, an SBC pastor, posted as one of the “many blessings” of attending.

  107. Please add the list of defendants in the SGM lawsuit who have been convicted.

    I believe it’s up to four who have either gone through court or the juvenile system.

  108. CLC had two in the 1980’s
    Dave Adams
    Nate Morales

    One in the 1990’s
    Underage Babysitter

    Considering thousands of children came through the doors, it is remarkably safe.

  109. Yentl wrote:

    CLC had two in the 1980’s
    Dave Adams
    Nate Morales
    One in the 1990’s
    Underage Babysitter
    Considering thousands of children came through the doors, it is remarkably safe.

    How many children per defendent? And much untold? Not very safe when it is covered up?

  110. Yentl wrote:

    Considering thousands of children came through the doors, it is remarkably safe.

    First, nobody knows the body count when it comes to sexual predators. We do know that predators prey on the vulnerable.

    Second, to be sure you are not saying that it would be all right to ignore predation on just a few as long as the body count did not get too high. That sort of thinking is not to be found in anything Jesus said.

  111. Yentl wrote:

    Considering thousands of children came through the doors, it is remarkably safe.

    Just in this post, we have seen “denial” (‘it’s all lies!’) and “anger” (‘We love CJ!’). And now we see “bargaining” (‘Only three convicted pedophiles, that’s not bad odds!’) Is it too much to ask for that we will see some eventually get to “acceptance”?

  112. @ Eeyore:
    Oh. Was Yentl talking about conviction? The typical predator has an average of how many victims before they are usually convicted? 75-100, I think it is.

  113. @ Yentl:

    No one is expendable as damaged goods or collateral damage ever. Never heard of a reconciliation between a three year old and an youth or an adult. All the three year old child knows is that youth or child is pure and evil.

    As a believer in the inerrancy of Scripture you surely believe there are qualifications for pastors and elders within the Bible. If you state "we love CJ" you are affirming that pedophila enabling and pedophilia and the damage it causes is biblically sanctioned. I therefore believe you should be excommunicated and shunned. You do not believe in the inerrant Bible as you affirm it and you do not follow orthodox Christianity. (ed.)

    I hope anyone who knows you brings you to account before the elders of your church as this also biblical. The charge: Yentl believes pedophila is Godly behavior and must be sanctioned by the church, Shame on you! If that church court against you doesn't happen, it will happen at the end of the age. You will be one of those among who He will state: "I don't know you." Mock me all you want, like you mock the protesters and the victims!

  114. Sorry for my bad grammar. My blood was boiling. Second paragraph should read: if you state “we love CJ” you are affirming that pedophilia enabling and pedophilia and the damage it causes is biblically sanctioned.

    How can people choose to be ignorant on a topic like this? Shame on them! And this is all I will write.

  115. Lydia wrote:

    The typical predator has an average of how many victims before they are usually convicted? 75-100, I think it is.

    That would be 75-100 victims per abuser. I wonder how many parents and siblings and friends and maybe even teachers or neighbors of each victim knew about it and did nothing. What would be the probability that of that 75-100 victims absolutely nobody knew anything about it?

    This is a systemic national problem affecting all segments of our society. Why else would we have to pass mandatory reporting laws unless we knew that people knew and were hiding it with silence? Why else would we have to bring the weight of the law into play to make people report what they knew to be true? Because they know, and we all know they know; that is why we have to pass laws about it.

    And now we have the professionally religious saying for all to hear that we can’t expect anything better from them unless they have a piece of paper which says that they are required to report abuse. I think that said professionally religious know good and well about the frequency of abuse in our culture and know good and well how we have conspired together as a culture to ignore it, and I suspect that what they are saying is that they themselves should not be the ones who have to stand against this evil because the rest of the pack of those who tolerate it will at best drive them out of the pack and at worst devour them personally and professionally.

    This is not the only way that our culture neglects and abuses its children. This just happens to be the topic of the current conversation.

  116. As the author of the resolution that has received some mention in the comments, and as someone who apparently appears to be “All hat. No cattle” to Max, I thought I’d stop by and offer a thought or two.

    1. It seems to me, as a student of Church History, that there are those in the body of Christ who are more prophetic and those who are more professorial. I’ve lived a little in both worlds—sometimes it just depends upon the side of the bed from which I emerge in the morning, I suppose. But it seems to me that these two groups can both offer correction to one another’s excesses and can simultaneously appreciate what each side contributes. Too often the failures lie in our not appreciating one another. The more reserved people are often the ones who actually get accomplished what the firebrands can only talk about. A William Lloyd Garrison can write about or speak about the evils of slavery, but it takes a less-ideologically-pure Abraham Lincoln to make real change. On the other hand, those who are more diplomatic often wouldn’t actually get anything done if it weren’t for the stalwarts who hold their feet to the fire. Without William Lloyd Garrison, it’s doubtful that it all would have unfolded as it did. It appears to me as a student of history that we need one another. I just wish that we recognized it more often.

    2. Max, I notice that in your comment at SBC Voices I’m someone who offered a “great resolution,” while over here I’m a “hollow man.” I’d be more impressed with your zeal and determination if you spoke out of the same side of your mouth at both sites.

    3. I have offered reasons in the comment threads at both of the SBC Voices posts that have been linked here as to why (a) I’m offering a resolution rather than a motion, (b) I’m offering a different resolution rather than just reiterating what was passed in 2013, (c) I’m working more to establish a model going forward than to adjudicate past situations. Disagree with these reasons if you wish, but please note that they are grounded in an understanding of SBC polity. You may not care about SBC polity. Indeed, few do, and it is probably a mark of your sanity and normalcy if you find this topic to be pedantic or arcane. But I ask you to consider whether I’m totally off my rocker when I observe that zealots who disregard SBC polity often expend all their efforts with nothing to show for it but 30 seconds at microphone 8 venting their spleens before the Committee on Order of Business consigns them to die a death by committee. By all means, play to make yourself feel better all you wish. Play for backslapping comments on blogs all you wish. Play your role. I’m going to play mine. I think God can use both.

    4. For my part, my motivation for submitting this resolution (as a step toward further accomplishments down the line) does not start with CJ Mahaney. I have for a long time been someone who would have replied “CJ Ma-WHO-ney?” I live out West in Texas and rarely participate in “Eastern Mysticism.” I am not a Calvinist. I have never been to T4G. Rather, my motivation arises out of my own pastoral ministry to young adults (and I wrote another recent post at SBC Voices articulating this in more detail). Sexual abuse is, I think, growing exponentially. The churches must seek to rescue people. We are hindered in that by how poorly we have often handled sexual sin in our own ranks. It destroys our credibility and (but for the miraculous work of the Holy Spirit) irreparably harms the victims. Having come to the case of SGM and Mahaney, I can say that what I have (quite recently) read shocks and scandalizes me. I have therefore retweeted and supported calls to remove him from T4G conferences and I think that the sexual abuse scandals at SGM epitomize the sort of thing that, as I wrote above, destroys our credibility and harms victims. I was more bothered by recent travesties at Baylor University, since I am an alumnus and that strikes far closer to home for a Texan.

    This is, to my recollection, my first time to post anything at this site. Not knowing the site’s culture, if I have violated any of your site’s protocol in any way, it was inadvertent, and I hope that you will show me the grace due to the uninitiated. And to any reading who have been victims of these atrocities, let me say how much my heart goes out to you and how ashamed I am of those who claim the same biblical office that I hold but have acted in service of the enemy rather than the Master. I believe that what I am doing will mean that fewer people suffer the same violation in the future. Pray for me that my efforts will succeed in accomplishing precisely that, will you?

  117. I just watched a clip of C.J. preaching and I couldn’t even make it through the few minute clip. Bad memories! He should have majored in theater. Oh right – he didn’t go to college.

  118. Former CLCer wrote:

    I just watched a clip of C.J. preaching and I couldn’t even make it through the few minute clip. Bad memories! He should have majored in theater. Oh right – he didn’t go to college.

    Somebody posted the video he did the voice work on to girls at the seminary (?I think?) about being modest so 18-22 year old guys don’t get turned on by them…It was creepy.

  119. @ Bart Barber:

    Welcome to TWW and thanks for chiming in about your resolution. I first learned about it yesterday when one of our commenters brought it to our attention. I appreciate your heart and your great concern for victims of sexual abuse, which we are tremendously concerned about too.

    I have never heard “CJ Ma-WHO-ney?” Gotta remember that one!

    Hope you will check in from time to time.

  120. I think one of the most interesting things that can come out of this is for those who sit in the congregations of these ‘great (self-circle of acclaim) men’ for them to infer from Mohler’s comment what these men truly think of those that buy their books and embrace their teaching. Mohler and his buddies are the aristocracy–those that make their lifestyle possible are simply the chattel or serfs. Mohler’s open contempt in that statement serves two purposes–to exalt Mahaney and themselves and to warn that any who try to hole them accountable will be humiliated and attacked in ways, both aggressive and passive aggressive.

    Sickened and saddened by these ‘men’ though I think them quite cowardly in how they have handled themselves. That thousands, perhaps millions, are fanboys shows how far we have fallen from the Berean example of Scripture.

    Bart, thank you for engaging this community; it takes courage and grace on everyone’s part. Having been in leadership in what seems a past life, the awakening to the truth that we fall short is painful and difficult. Thanks for your vulnerability in telling us your about your journey. We do welcome you to this broken place we spill out our lives in–if I learned anything while in leadership, it was to appeal to God for the grace and wisdom first, to do no harm to those most vulnerable, and secondly, to be a shock absorber for the pain that many feel.

    This is a conversation–it demands much of all of us, but it is worth the cost.

  121. Lea wrote:

    Somebody posted the video he did the voice work on to girls at the seminary (?I think?) about being modest so 18-22 year old guys don’t get turned on by them…It was creepy.

    Another peek into a ManaGAWD’s personal sexual fantasies?

  122. Bart Barber wrote:

    You may not care about SBC polity.

    I am glad that someone cares about it, though. My main concern is how things play out in the ‘trenches’. If it leads to more protection for people who are being abused, that is a positive.

    You can’t fix the past, only the future. I work in the hospital world, and we do reviews of systems and of people when things go wrong because sometimes the problem is the provider, sometimes it’s the system, sometimes it’s both. I would like to see the churches do a lot more of that.

    I do think it’s strange that the sbc would bring someone like CJ into the fold, so to speak, after this stuff had already been to come out. (if I have the sequence of events down correctly – not an expert in this)

  123. Mark wrote:

    @ Yentl:

    No one is expendable as damaged goods or collateral damage ever. Never heard of a reconciliation between a three year old and an youth or an adult. All the three year old child knows is that youth or child is pure and evil.

    And that their Rapist is a WINNER, with grownups and GOD’s AUTHORITEH on their side.

    Their rapist is The WINNER and they are The LOSER.

  124. Bart Barber wrote:

    “All hat. No cattle”

    You’ll have to explain what THAT means to Easterners like me! 🙂
    Thank you for your resolution and for taking the time to come here and comment. I’m one of the parents of a sexual abuse victim from SGM. I am very blessed that so many people of varying denominations are standing up and saying we need to fix this problem in our ranks. I felt so discouraged during the past few years when man after man, pastor or theologian, whose sermons I had listened to and taken notes on or whose books I had bought – stood with CJ Mahaney and not in the ditch with the discarded abuse victims. I am very grateful that pastors like yourself are speaking out for the victims and trying to make change happen in the churches. Please contact me if there is anyway that my husband, Dominic, and I can help your efforts. We were both at the T4G protest this week. You can get my contact info from TWW. God bless.

  125. Sorry guys but Bart’s insult to our Max was unnessary. Everyone who has read over at SBCvoices for years know they only allow certain types of dissent and not usually from people known to have ” have gone to the dark side”. If they allow it it is to make a different poin than you might think. They become victims. If I decide to comment there, I try to be very careful. I can feel myself on guard. It is rarely worth it. They are extremely sensitive and see themselves as arbiters of tone and as pastor victims.

    There is a reason people refer to it as Pravda.

  126. Bart Barber wrote:

    “All hat. No cattle … “hollow man.”

    Dr. Barber, those were not my comments on TWW … they were the response of another commenter to my post about the resolution. My comment regarding your resolution can be found at 04/14 12:06 PM. You will note that I expressed concern that some SBC leaders have appeared to have ignored the “discernment” language in the 2013 resolution when it comes to SGM and Mr. Mahaney … I am pleased to hear that you supported removing him from the platform at T4G.

    I, do indeed, think your resolution is great and timely and hope the SBC approves it. No talking out of both sides of my mouth on this.

  127. Debbylynn wrote:

    One of my favorite pastors of all time is dr Martyn Lloyd Jones… It kills me that all of these guys have used his words and twisted them and battered people with the message …. They are so destructive

    This reminds me of a line in a poem: ‘If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools…’ (Kipling)

  128. @ Max:

    My apologies, Max. Unfamiliar with the site, I misread the comment. Thank you for your gracious correction. You could certainly have been more harsh.

  129. @ Bart Barber:

    Bart, reading the comments on SBCvoices, the resolution seems to actually work to protect Mahaney’s new SBC church. Sort of grandfathering in systemic cover ups of child molestations. We are not talking one event in one church when it comes to Mahaney’s shepherding cult. We are talking systemic. . The timing is interesting especially as great care is taken that Mahaney was never in mind even though so much media attention driven to his cover ups.

    I think Louis on the original thread made some great points. I wish the more well known leaders like you as a pastor and trustee were more like William Lloyd Garrison when it comes to the SBC as complicit in promoting and protecting Mahanet. . But it would mean risking those convention positions and respect of other leaders.

  130. This comment from a “Robert F” appeared in the comment thread at today’s Internet Monk, “Pastoral Care Week: It’s Not Just About The Pastor”. (I have boldfaced a part that has bearing on the subject.)

    I think your criticism of the current scene, the consumer power of laity squelching the authority of pastors, is apt. But I’m not sanguine about the way things were in the past, when pastors and priests had great authority and influence over their congregations. I think when we look back to that era as superior we are romanticizing or idealizing the pastors and their influence in a way that was not matched by the reality.

    The authority and influence of pastors and priests arose out the the same cultural matrix that propagated the general authority and influence of educated older men over others in society. When this started changing in the 1960s and 70s, when the clay feet of the authoritative castes were unveiled by the women’s movement, the rise of counterculture among young people, and other social changes in those decades, pastors/priests along with their authoritative peers in the rest of society started to lose their mystique as leaders and guides. As it turned out, in many, many cases, the clergy were the golden calves.

    Much of what is bad that is happening in evangelicalism is the attempt to reconstitute and revive just this mythical authority, to “get back” to an earlier time in church/society. As a result, the new golden calves are bigger than ever, by a huge factor; social movements in their death throes often stage a big firework show, a grand finale, before they burn out. But the genie won’t go back in the bottle; the gig is up, and we are going to need to find new, creative ways of balancing the influence and authority of the pastoral and congregational roles. God help us in this.

    Link to posting: http://www.internetmonk.com/archive/64431

  131. Pam Palmer wrote:

    “All hat. No cattle”

    You’ll have to explain what THAT means to Easterners like me! 🙂

    Texas regional expression:
    A lot of talk and posing with nothing to back it up.
    All surface, all for show, no substance.

  132. @ Lydia:

    Lydia, there’s nothing in the resolution that grandfathers anyone into anything, to my knowledge. Would you care to quote the specific part of the resolution that gives you that concern? I thought that it specifically called to repentance and apology those churches who had made mistakes in the past. Here’s the specific wording that I have in mind:

    “Resolved that we humbly and gently commend the way of apology and repentance to our sister churches and to various parachurch institutions who have failed to handle appropriately the discovery of sexual misconduct in their congregations or institutions.”

    Again, I am happy to consider specific wording in the resolution that you think might provide excuses to past misdeeds.

  133. Perhaps I am messed up in the head about this, but in a way I think it actually demeans this cause if I were to make it about one specific violator of these principles. There are people who oppose CJ Mahaney for reasons other than the sexual abuse. There are people who oppose Al Mohler for reasons other than his friendship with Mahaney. There are people who would gladly use the pretext of sexual abuse to take down someone they oppose for other reasons. I think that’s horrifically disrespectful toward the victims of abuse.

    So, I’m trying to avoid those factions and rivalries. I’m trying to draw the convention’s attention and resolve toward sexual predation for sexual predation’s sake, not for the sake of “I never did like that Mahaney fellow.” Because, really, this subject matter is important enough all by itself, and it shouldn’t carry water for other motives.

    Again, maybe I look at it the wrong way. But that’s my sincere feeling about it.

  134. Yentl wrote:

    Considering thousands of children came through the doors, it is remarkably safe.

    Do you have children …. grandchildren?
    Would you still say that if yours had been among those children who were abused?
    And, how many more abusers and abused do we not know about?

  135. Tree wrote:

    Book give away? At T4G? I’ll say! I counted twenty books in the photo that a friend, an SBC pastor, posted as one of the “many blessings” of attending.

    I’m not sure why these are called free books. There is a hefty registration fee, is there not? Wouldn’t the cost of books be calculated into that fee? Charging a big fee then giving away “free” books makes sure the books get into everyone’s hands more reliably than letting them choose to buy them one by one.

  136. Yentl wrote:

    CLC had two in the 1980’s
    Dave Adams
    Nate Morales

    One in the 1990’s
    Underage Babysitter

    Considering thousands of children came through the doors, it is remarkably safe.

    Really? Those are the ones we know about, the ones where people have come forward. How many are like what happened with Dennis Hastert (former speaker of the US House)? Thirty-five years after he stopped teaching high school phys. ed. to go into politics, five victims have been identified. One of those guys is dead (died in 1994) and we only know because his sister stepped forward. We have no idea if there are other and Hastert isn’t saying.

    You cannot be comfortable in thinking that there haven’t been other victims just because of the publicized victims. And I’d also point out that C.J. Mahaney’s brother-in-law knew about Morales when the assaults happened but did not bother to call the police. He covered up. Who knows how many other coverups there have been at CLC?

  137. @ Bart Barber:
    I think Lydia may be referring to a comment Dave Miller made:
    “We ought not be retroactive. If someone sinned, let them repent, but we need to change the mindset and behavior.

    Shaming and putting people on public display because of past mistakes ought not be the priority. Prevention of future sins should be. And helping current victims find freedom.”

  138. Bart Barber wrote:

    Perhaps I am messed up in the head about this, but in a way I think it actually demeans this cause if I were to make it about one specific violator of these principles.

    I don’t really agree, if that person brought to light a systemic problem. Sometimes we don’t realize how much something needs to change until we see one terrible example.

    Wasn’t there a pastor who counseled someone to go back to their abusive husband and then she was murdered? Changed his mind. It wouldn’t be disrespectful to her memory if it changed policy as well.

    I have a question about the pastors having affairs with people under their care…was it not already forbidden for them to have anything to do with people they are counseling? I honestly don’t know the answer. In the mental health world this is standard, and violators can lose their jobs and licenses.

  139. Bart Barber wrote:

    “Resolved that we humbly and gently commend the way of apology and repentance to our sister churches

    I don’t know what else you could have said dealing as SBC does with autonomous churches where there is no hierarchical denominational structure which could hold churches and individuals responsible for their actions. Unless they hire a woman pastor of course, but that would be a real sin and this is just the issue of child sexual abuse.

    But then the RCC does have such a structure and they dropped the ball on this so I guess everybody just does what they can with what they have to work with.

    Some of us here have nothing more to work with than grief for little victims and indignation for those who tolerate it. We do what we can.

    But don’t talk to me about mixed motives. I got my ‘motives’ on the job from the little bodies they threw on my x-ray table and said here you go doc, see how many fractures you can find and date them for us and then social services and the DA’s office will be in touch. That was not sexual abuse, but the good folks at TWW allow me to take the indignation and outrage that I feel about abused children and add my outcry to theirs about what is happening in the churches in the sexual abuse issue.

    I don’t know CJ from Adam’s goat cart and never heard him until a recent video here on TW. I do have a beef with Al over what he did with the old Carver School of Missions and Social Work, being an alum of that school as a missions major back in the day. But I am no longer a baptist of any sort and it is no longer my problem what they do or how they do it politically. Does any of all that mixed motive stuff outweigh the cry of those little people on my x-ray table? I think not.

  140. Lea wrote:

    I have a question about the pastors having affairs with people under their care…was it not already forbidden for them to have anything to do with people they are counseling? I honestly don’t know the answer. In the mental health world this is standard, and violators can lose their jobs and licenses.

    Pastors aren’t licensed by the state, nor by any authoritative, all-encompassing professional guild. Our church’s new Constitution & Bylaws require that we rescind the ordination of anyone whom we have ordained who has engaged in such shenanigans. More hierarchical denominations can take such action and affect more churches by doing so, but nobody can prevent someone from just leaving the sphere of your church’s authority and launching a new non-denominational church.

    In the thread over at the SBC Voices post I’ve weighed in about my opinion that any time any pastor has any sexual relationship with any person other than his wife, that’s sexually predatory. Most canons of ministerial ethics agree. None of them are enforceable beyond the cubbyholes I mentioned above.

  141. @ Bart Barber:
    Bart:

    What a bunch of malarkey. You want to make it about whether some like Mahaney or not. It is about child abuse. Why don’t you admit that you and Folks like Dave Miller are nothing but da m politicians. Yes, you are looking at it wrong.

  142. okrapod wrote:

    I don’t know what else you could have said dealing as SBC does with autonomous churches where there is no hierarchical denominational structure which could hold churches and individuals responsible for their actions. Unless they hire a woman pastor of course, but that would be a real sin and this is just the issue of child sexual abuse.

    There’s a difference between what an individual does and what a church does (or even what an individual does in the name of a church but without the church’s knowledge or consent). Individuals don’t belong to the SBC. The SBC can’t kick out an individual. President Carter’s efforts notwithstanding, an individual can’t leave the SBC. This is just part of the structure of the SBC.

    So, to improve your analogy, the SBC is full of churches that are full of members who DVR Joyce Meyer. The SBC has not taken action against them and has no way to do so. When a church calls a woman pastor, the church has taken official action.

    That’s why my resolution targets (as best as I know how to do so) the ways that a church by official action might be complicit in sexual misconduct. Generally speaking, individuals perform the sexual abuse; churches shush victims and suppress reporting. The SBC can try to address the shushing of victims and the suppression of reporting.

  143. Nancy2 wrote:

    Yentl wrote:

    Considering thousands of children came through the doors, it is remarkably safe.

    Do you have children …. grandchildren?
    Would you still say that if yours had been among those children who were abused?
    And, how many more abusers and abused do we not know about?

    JMJ over at Christian Monist mentioned a couple times that in the Bible Belt church he was raised in (presumably some sort of Baptist), it was an open secret that one of the senior staff (assistant pastor?) was a pedo. The Respectable Godly Ones in the congregation would guard their own kids by steering new members with kids to Pastor Pedo so that Pastor Pedo would molest THEIR kids, not Mine.

  144. Yentl, your response really depresses me. To me, and most posters on this blog all understand that bad thing happen, and people are people. The issues is the poor, dare I say corrupt response of leadership, including cover-ups, abuse of power, etc, etc… In case you have not noticed, child molestation is a BIG criminal offense. How can a “leader” tell people in the church to not go to police, etc? I could go on, but please explain what you are thinking…

    Mark wrote:

    Yentl wrote:
    CLC had two in the 1980’s
    Dave Adams
    Nate Morales
    One in the 1990’s
    Underage Babysitter
    Considering thousands of children came through the doors, it is remarkably safe.
    How many children per defendent? And much untold? Not very safe when it is covered up?

  145. mot wrote:

    You want to make it about whether some like Mahaney or not.

    No. I’m not saying it is that way for everyone, or even for most. I’m just saying that Al Mohler and CJ Mahaney do have some enemies who would latch onto this to advance their agendas.

    In application of the resolution by specific action, I’m happy to see the chips fall where they may. In promotion of the resolution’s adoption, I want to talk about ALL sexual predation in churches, and not just about polarizing personalities.

  146. Bart Barber wrote:

    Our church’s new Constitution & Bylaws require that we rescind the ordination of anyone whom we have ordained who has engaged in such shenanigans.

    Thanks. That’s what I was curious about.

  147. I am thankful that the PCA and some pastors in similar doctrinal camps are starting to speak up. It engenders a little bit of hope. But for now, those voices are in the minority. How typical and also horrific for those who perpetrated the abuse or those who supported the perpetrators to achieve “victim” status aka taking the position of “Job.” And when the church at large supports the abusers or those who cover abuse or makes snide remarks like Mohler about those who take it seriously, it makes it that much harder for the victims to believe that God is a God of justice. Like it or not, the behavior of the Church affects people’s perceptions of God. This was highlighted in the movie Spotlight. I can’t quote it, but one of the victims said not only was his sexual innocence taken away, but also his faith. Thank you to the Deebs, SNAP, other bloggers, and to the few pastors and denominations that have spoken up. You are representing the character of God.

  148. I’m not for rape and child sexual abuse.

    But, if the focus of all of this was spiritual abuse, you would have 2000 CLC people protesting at T4G. If the focus was calling out hypocrisy, you would have 2000 CLC people at T4G. If the focus was calling out men who abandoned their flock when confronted, you would have 2000 CLC people protesting. If it was about divisiveness, they would all be there.

    Sexual abuse just does not characterize the primary issues at CLC and everyone at CLC knows that. How they treated sexual abuse victims was characteristic of how they stomped on all people. But, the place didn’t have any more sex abusers than any other church in America. In fact, contrary to what people say here, it probably had significantly less.

    Also, there is much sympathy among CLC members for the men who were falsely accused in the lawsuit and how it has completely destroyed their lives.

    I’m sure any of those men at T4G with churches with thousands of members have had a handful of child molesters come through and like most churches in the 1980’s, they may have not reported to police. Child molesters prey on these sorts of open gatherings. As far as anyone knows, Nate Morales was the only serial pedophile who sought out numerous children while employed by a different church and school.

    What the people at T4G need to understand is the unique abusive practices of SGM leadership and the spiritual impact of men “speaking for God” out of one side of their mouths and “stomping on God’s people” out of the other.

    I’m afraid the sexual abuse issue is a distraction from the greater issue of spiritual abuse. And because of how it has been misrepresented in the media, it leave victims of spiritual abuse without a voice.

  149. Yentl wrote:

    I’m afraid the sexual abuse issue is a distraction from the greater issue of spiritual abuse. And because of how it has been misrepresented in the media, it leave victims of spiritual abuse without a voice.

    1. I don’t agree and
    2. Sexual abuse is illegal, spiritual abuse is not.

  150. Nancy2 wrote:

    Shaming and putting people on public display because of past mistakes ought not be the priority. Prevention of future sins should be. And helping current victims find freedom.”

    You cannot help any victims ‘find freedom’ at the same time as covering up the crimes of their abusers! How could anyone even think that?

  151. Bart Barber wrote:

    @ Lydia:

    Lydia, there’s nothing in the resolution that grandfathers anyone into anything, to my knowledge. Would you care to quote the specific part of the resolution that gives you that concern? I thought that it specifically called to repentance and apology those churches who had made mistakes in the past. Here’s the specific wording that I have in mind:

    “Resolved that we humbly and gently commend the way of apology and repentance to our sister churches and to various parachurch institutions who have failed to handle appropriately the discovery of sexual misconduct in their congregations or institutions.”

    Again, I am happy to consider specific wording in the resolution that you think might provide excuses to past misdeeds.

    Nancy had it right. You guys worked that one out in comments, if I recall correctly. It stood out to me, at least. It stands to reason that any resolution would be in effect(whatever that means) when passed so it would not be hard to explain the Mahaney new SBC church away.

  152. elastigirl wrote:

    “Some standing in line had no idea. One woman in the crowd yelled: “It’s all lies!””
    ++++++++++++

    the hurtfulness of this woman’s non-thinking response. what a stupid woman.

    Mind numbingly stupid.

  153. @ Bart Barber:

    Like I said, you seem to be doing what you can with what you have to work with. That’s all you can do.

    Let me ask this, however, about rescinding ordination. It used to be that a person did not have to be ordained to pastor a church affiliated with SBC; some were merely ‘licensed to preach’ by some church. Is this still the case? And it used to be that ordination was something a church did, not something the convention did, though you seem to be saying otherwise? Perhaps I am misunderstanding the current situation. How can the convention rescind ordination which was done by an autonomous local church? And if they can would not this be de facto hierarchical?

    BTW, I have no idea what DVR means. What are you talking about?

  154. @ Bart Barber:
    What “cause”? Peter’s similar resolution a few years back was totally ignored by some entity leaders. And they are employees with no excuse of autonomy!

  155. @ mot:

    That has been a deflection for a long time in that world. And some do operate that way when it comes to Paige Patterson or AL Mohler. But as bad as some people have behaved in the past such as Patterson, the Mahaney/SGM situation is an over-the-top heinous Scandal of perversion that was/is systemic.

    They tend to fear Al Mohler to the peril of their own soul. If you can find one SBC Pastor, entity leader or trustee who has spoken out about AL Mohlers promotion and protection of Mahaney, let me know.

  156. siteseer wrote:

    You cannot help any victims ‘find freedom’ at the same time as covering up the crimes of their abusers! How could anyone even think that?

    Exactly. Victims are not good for business.

  157. Lydia wrote:

    systemic

    This is the part I don’t feel like people are getting. Instead, the systems are getting more authoritarian, not less. That will only lead to more abuse.

  158. @ Yentl:
    You do understand that children are not the same as adults who voluntarily put themselves under pastor/elders control? Many of us have done that and take responsibility for getting sucked in. Children?

  159. Yentl wrote:

    What the people at T4G need to understand is the unique abusive practices of SGM leadership and the spiritual impact of men “speaking for God” out of one side of their mouths and “stomping on God’s people” out of the other.

    The problem with this is that many of the men that lead churches and/or seminaries at the T4G conference partake of these same abuses. Why would they call out Mahaney for something many of them have done as well? They instead cover for their own. And the physical and sexual abuse of children and adults is worse than spiritual abuse in my book, with spiritual abuse close behind.

  160. Bart Barber wrote:

    In application of the resolution by specific action, I’m happy to see the chips fall where they may. In promotion of the resolution’s adoption, I want to talk about ALL sexual predation in churches, and not just about polarizing personalities.

    Being a Christian Celebrity with a polarizing personality gets them a pass because one does not want it to look like they have an agenda?

    Where is the concern for normalizing someone like Mahaney in ministry whose system covered up so much damage done to children? Yes, that is a good agenda.

    Yes, it is a lot to risk when you are a pastor and trustee speaking up
    for the right thing to do in the SBC. You were outspoken about Baylor.

  161. Lea wrote:

    It’s a recording device, like a vcr

    So based on what BB said I am thinking how does anybody at the convention level know what recordings the individual members of individual churches have or do not have? How is that information collected and what is done with the information once they have it? And if there is some collection system of what would otherwise be private information what else might they be looking for besides Joyce Meyer?

    This is potentially really intrusive and scary stuff.

  162. okrapod wrote:

    @ Bart Barber:
    Like I said, you seem to be doing what you can with what you have to work with. That’s all you can do.
    Let me ask this, however, about rescinding ordination. It used to be that a person did not have to be ordained to pastor a church affiliated with SBC; some were merely ‘licensed to preach’ by some church. Is this still the case? And it used to be that ordination was something a church did, not something the convention did, though you seem to be saying otherwise? Perhaps I am misunderstanding the current situation. How can the convention rescind ordination which was done by an autonomous local church? And if they can would not this be de facto hierarchical?
    BTW, I have no idea what DVR means. What are you talking about?

    Actually the convention has taken action against churches that don’t follow its doctrinal standard. I believe in past local associations or state conventions or the national level convention have kicked out churches over issues such as women preachers and some other issues. It is an unusual structure where the churches are autonomous but work with each other in association with the state conventions and the national convention. Being kicked out of the convention can mean a great deal. Yes there are baptists who listen to Joyce Meyer. But she may not be any more doctrinally suspicious than Steven Furtick. I don’t personally have a problem with a preacher such as Beth Moore if she is preaching the Word of God. There are some gifted female preachers out there, even though they call themselves teachers, Ordination can be man made when a person, regardless of sex, has a calling.

  163. Mark wrote:

    Being kicked out of the convention can mean a great deal.

    Perhaps so. Here in my town three of the four largest SBC churches packed up and left SBC and do not seem to have suffered ill effects. One has grown to about double in size, another is increasingly involved with the homeless problem locally and the third is just same old same old. So I guess it all depends.

    I am however concerned about what BB said about concern over what individual people are doing since I remember way back in the day the freedoms of being baptist, and that seems to be vanishing if I understand what he said.

  164. @ Mark:
    I think it is local associations and/or state conventions who do the kicking out. Two such instances come to mind. I think one was in Georgia for hiring a woman pastor (name ofPennington, I think..it was on the internet) and another in Dallas or Ft Worth that allowed homosexuals to become members.

    But you can systematically cover up child molestation and become an SBC church in KY. You just need to know the right people.

  165. __

    Q. Is there bigger 501(c)3 pastorial ‘fish’ for The Almighty to fry than “CJ Ma-WHO-ney” ™ ?

    The Almighty is certainly not slow about keeping His word, as some count slowness, but is patient toward folk, not wishing for any to perish but for  ‘all’ to come to repentance…

  166. Bridget wrote:

    Yentl wrote:
    What the people at T4G need to understand is the unique abusive practices of SGM leadership and the spiritual impact of men “speaking for God” out of one side of their mouths and “stomping on God’s people” out of the other.
    The problem with this is that many of the men that lead churches and/or seminaries at the T4G conference partake of these same abuses. Why would they call out Mahaney for something many of them have done as well? They instead cover for their own. And the physical and sexual abuse of children and adults is worse than spiritual abuse in my book, with spiritual abuse close behind.

    That is EXACTLY why we need to find a voice for spiritual abuse and call attention to the devastating spiritual consequences in the lives of those who experienced it at CLC. These guys walk on by because they know the lawsuit contains lies and they know it was common practice not to involve authorities 30 years ago.

    But T4G is gaining in popularity because entire movements are ATTRACTED to abusive authoritarian leadership. These guys want to learn how to turn the table and attack a member for questioning them. They WANT the right to excommunicate nay-sayers.

    The members of CLC are paying dearly for this terrible social, spiritual experiment. We need to stand there with pictures of people who committed suicide, children who rejected the faith, families that are split over their actions. EVERYONE has a story. They aren’t all child sexual abuse, although that is much more horrific.

    As long as they think it is about child sexual abuse, some of which may be outrageously untrue, they are going to dismiss us.

    But, let them see the consequences of leadership practices to which they are attracted.

    That’s where the abuse stops.

  167. About this issue of there are some people in some baptist churches who listen to Joyce Meyer first let me say that I have never listened to nor attended one of her appearances at the local coliseum, but a lot of people have. I know next to nothing about her. I literally cannot tolerate Beth Moore but I only know enough about her to avoid the whole issue. So what I am about so say has nothing to do with either of them. Nothing. Not because they are female but only because I have not been interested enough to investigate at this point. But I do believe in people exploring other ideas including other philosophical and theological ideas on a wide range of subjects.

    Does everybody know that the RCC quit publishing the Index Librorum Phohibitorum back in the sixties I think. Prior to that the baptists of my youth used to criticize the RCC long and loud about censorship and declare the conscience of man to be free of such a thing. What I am hearing seems to be that this has changed among the baptists and there is now an idea that mind control of the pew persons is a good thing. Be sure they don’t get exposed to other ideas apparently. Keep them ignorant of anything beyond the local church doors. And apparently this is widespread if people at the convention level know what people are doing in private?? I can’t even believe this.

  168. Yentl wrote:

    But T4G is gaining in popularity because entire movements are ATTRACTED to abusive authoritarian leadership.

    There is your issue. Why are free Americans attracted to cult of personality authoritarians? This covers proper education, personal responsibility, critical thinking skills, Independence (which is taught as a sin) etc, etc.

    There will always be charlatans looking for suckers who will admire, obey and pay them for it.. Why do they get so much business?

  169. It’s easy for us all to jump on the “child sexual abuse” cause because we all get that. And, everyone in the world agrees it is wrong. It’s easier to explain.

    But, we need to find the words to explain the devastating impact of spiritual abuse. We need to talk about the conflict when leaders you believed were hearing from God turn on you and mistreat you behind closed doors. We should talk about how it affects us when thousands of Christian leaders gather to affirm them. What does it say if it appears God is on their side? We should talk about shunning and favoritism and nepotism and learning your “station” in the kingdom of God. We should be taught about the dangers of “distrusting our own hearts” and embracing proclamations that contradict the still small voice within us.

    We should talk about the breech of contract when we signed up to be members and entered into a covenant with them and they have since embraced a theology that is completely contrary to what we signed. We should say how that forces us as members to have to leave the body and family we have known for decades or sit before teaching that makes our hearts and souls dreadfully sick.

    Let’s talk about cognitive dissonance that occurs when we are taught to reject our gut feeling as deceitfully wicked and instead embrace something that seems worldly and wrong.

    We should tell those guys at T4G how one man’s selfish refusal to acknowledge ANYTHING he has done has caused an entire generation AND THEIR PARENTS to fall away. This was a generation who were lovingly homeschooled and trained and taught by their families. One action by one man destroyed the Gospel for hundreds if not thousands.

    I fear for him. This man, as he has often said, will one day have to stand and give an account for how he pastored his sheep. Terrifying.

  170. okrapod wrote:

    What I am hearing seems to be that this has changed among the baptists and there is now an idea that mind control of the pew persons is a good thing.

    Yes. It blows my mind.

  171. If God were speaking to these leaders, He would be telling them they are wrong.

    Therefore…

    Let’s all come to grips with that for a second.

  172. Lydia wrote:

    Yes. It blows my mind.

    Words like thought reform come to mind. So we have some elements in the larger culture trying to control thinking and we have some elements in churches trying to control thinking. Somebody asked if this looks like the end, and somebody replied that it is the end of something but it remains to be seen what.

  173. @ okrapod:
    This is a huge concern of mine. Even to the point that I am concerned about the effects of teaching my children as my parents taught me to question what I was taught, politely, as a kid, to think through issues, be independent, etc. It will be harder for them to function in this culture. Conformity to a group (the collective) is the way things function now whether politics or religion. Even some workplaces that seem to think they must organize people’s social life, too. Even i got sucked in for a while knowing better at megas.. education has become like this. Academia has become ridiculous with everyone offended all the time. People end up not speaking truth and going along because it might offend the collective. And then where will they go if the collective is offended?

    Liftons Thought reform is a good thing to teach our kids. When you are around situations where Conformity is a peer pressure it becomes harder to see what is really going on. People fear not being liked or part of the group if they dare disagree. We are certainly not going to get better as a nation in that environment. And it is positively ridiculous in the body of Christ. That should be a place where we discuss all sorts of positions, ideas and philosophies. But we are too busy listening to one guy week after week from whom we seek truth. Strange that. Another reason I am drawn to liturgical now.

    I am not in agreement with pastors who teach the subjugation of women but I can also make a good case against it. but i also agree they are free to believe and practice what they want if they can get adult customers. But I am outraged at the organized systemic cover-up of molested children. I can’t live peacefully with that. Or those who participate with such.

  174. Mark wrote:

    Actually the convention has taken action against churches that don’t follow its doctrinal standard.

    My old church got kicked out a few years ago for this reason.

    okrapod, I think Bart was mentioning DVR’ing as some sort of point about going against individuals (I guess in this he meant people who are listening to a woman preach? Which is a whole nother issue I’m not getting into right now) versus churches. In this, I think he’s saying that individuals like people in the church who do something bad are sort of beyond his reach. Of course, we are talking about pastors and staff (of course, every male on staff at a Baptist church seems to be a pastor now. What’s up with that?) here mostly.

    And that leaves off the systemic issues, which really have to be addressed. Bad people are going to be around, but how do you deal with them? How do you react to a crisis? You cannot plan for every crisis that will happen, sometimes you have to act based on what is right and decent. I find it disturbing that pastors cannot be counted on to at least try to do this.

  175. @ okrapod:
    This is a huge concern of mine. Even to the point that I am concerned about the effects of teaching my children as my parents taught me to question what I was taught, politely, as a kid, to think through issues, be independent, etc. It will be harder for them to function in this culture. Strict Conformity to a group (the collective) is the way things function now whether politics or religion. It might have to do with less care for privacy? Even some workplaces seem to think they must organize people’s social life, too. I got sucked in for a while, knowing better, at megas.. Education has become like this. Academia has become ridiculous with everyone offended all the time. People end up not speaking truth and going along because it might offend the collective. And then where will they go if the collective is offended?

    Liftons Thought reform is a good thing to teach our kids. When you are around situations where Conformity is a peer pressure it becomes harder to see what is really going on. People fear not being liked or part of the group if they dare disagree.

    We are certainly not going to get better as a nation in this environment. And it is positively ridiculous in the body of Christ. That should be a place where we discuss all sorts of positions, ideas and philosophies. But we are too busy listening to one guy week after week from whom we seek truth. Strange that. Another reason I am drawn to liturgical now. Less pulpit time.

    I am not in agreement with pastors who teach the subjugation of women but I can also make a good case against it. but I also agree they are free to believe and practice what they want if they can get adult customers.

    But I am outraged at the organized systemic cover-up of molested children. I can’t live peacefully with that. Or those who participate with such.

    But I can see the conformity to Thought Reform in people who go along.

  176. okrapod wrote:

    And if there is some collection system of what would otherwise be private information what else might they be looking for besides Joyce Meyer?

    What I meant above is that I don’t think he’s actually talking about collecting this information, just that the convention can only go after churches not individuals. (it’s probably not the example I would have used for this)

  177. @ Yentl:

    I have taken action. I do not go to an institutional church. I refuse to be “under authority” that is not required biblically. And this does not mean I do not believe in mutual submission in the body.

  178. Lydia wrote:

    Yentl wrote:
    But T4G is gaining in popularity because entire movements are ATTRACTED to abusive authoritarian leadership.
    There is your issue. Why are free Americans attracted to cult of personality authoritarians? This covers proper education, personal responsibility, critical thinking skills, Independence (which is taught as a sin) etc, etc.
    There will always be charlatans looking for suckers who will admire, obey and pay them for it.. Why do they get so much business?

    Excellent question… It is even worse growing up in it… You are told to “obey your elders”, yet what do you do when what they tell you, and what they do not equate? Or, you learn scientific info which shows them to be dead wrong…

  179. @ Yentl:

    I am sorry. You had me scared. Child sexual a use becomes the ultimate in spiritual abuse because it really messes with the minds of innocents. Having that 3 year old child participate in a reconcilation with a perpetrator is unbelievable.

    Spiritual abuse is very common in these authoritarian cult like churches and sometimes people are falsely accused of child sexual abuse.

  180. Neal wrote:

    A new post at sbcvoices calls for amnesty for the likes of Mahaney. “Please hear me. I’m not arguing that the old ways were better. They weren’t. I’m simply saying that the pastors who handled things wrongly in the past were often good men with a bad battle plan.

    (Bolding above mine)

    So, which stance does he want to take? We CAN judge motive or we CAN NOT judge motive?

    The above quote makes it clear that HE thinks their motives were good, they just had poor application.

    Further down below his article he posts the following in one of his replies:

    ” It deals with the intents of the heart. Two people do exactly the same thing – one out of confusion and the other out of ill-will.

    Here’s my question – how does any of us know which is which?

    My question to you is this: how are we to judge what a man’s motives were?
    Is that not better left to the Holy Spirit?”

    Evidently Mr. Miller doesn’t believe that such should be left to the Holy Spirit – since the underlying foundational point of his article is the assertion that THESE PEOPLE MEANT WELL.

    I guess HE found the way “how” to judge such and therefore proceeded to publicly offer his judgement of their motives?

    However, the reality is – turning away from the *facts* of what happened in order to focus on *motives* is just obfuscation.

    In his article, his summation is:

    “To prosecute leaders for actions in the past based on the mindset of today is unfair.

    Mindset? The world’s or the Lord’s?

    Following is an example of the Lord’s:

    30 Jesus replied, “A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, and he fell among robbers, who stripped him and beat him and departed, leaving him half dead.

    31 Now by chance a priest was going down that road, and when he saw him he passed by on the other side.

    32 So likewise a Levite, when he came to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side.

    33 But a Samaritan, as he journeyed, came to where he was, and when he saw him, he had compassion.

    34 He went to him and bound up his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. Then he set him on his own animal and brought him to an inn and took care of him.

    35 And the next day he took out two denarii and gave them to the innkeeper, saying, ‘Take care of him, and whatever more you spend, I will repay you when I come back.’

    Please note – Jesus didn’t address the MOTIVES of any of them.

    He describes their *actions*.

    Their *actions* revealed their motives.

    Which one had a compassionate heart?

    The one who stopped.

    The one who used his own supply of oil, wine and cloth to bind the wounds.

    The one who got off his own ride, and put the wounded on it.

    The one who interrupted his own schedule and plans in order to get the wounded to a safe place.

    The one who paid for a roof over the wounded’s head and food for him to eat.

    The one who took care of the wounded all night.

    The one who paid with his own money for room and board for the wounded so that there was time and supplies for the wounded to heal.

    The one who told the innkeeper that he would pay for whatever additional expenses were incurred.

    Now, bring all that forward to the evidence we have seen of the mindset of churchianity…

    They have no compassion.

    They are not moved by the wounds and suffering of those in their care.

    They do not offer anything beyond some of their time and a lot of their words.

    And even their time and words are available for a very limited period – because their resentment soon begins leaking through when the wounded don’t heal and shut up fast enough.

  181. For what it’s worth, I watched as much of T4G as I could stand. Just from a content standpoint, I can’t figure out why someone would spend hundreds of dollars to be there in person, when the live feed was free. Even without the cognitive dissonance and moral ambiguity, the messages were depressing, the humor was forced, and the singing was sanctimonious. It’s not that I don’t like male voices or hymns, but the lack of female voices reminds me of the implicit “No Girls Allowed” on the building.

  182. GSD wrote:

    McArthur just preached from Revelation that churches need to repent. For once, I agree with Johnny Mac. Question is, repent from what?

    Well, based on their general focus, and keeping in mind that in this case “church” is likely being defined as being the pew peons – not the leaders.

    Repent from disobedience to the leaders.

    Repent from lack of submission to the leaders.

    Repent from every discussing or questioning the leaders’ teachings or life.

    Repent for ever doubting the leaders.

    Repent for ever blogging about the leaders.

    Repent for ever asking questions of the leaders.

    Repent from failing to support the leaders’ casted vision.

    That’s off the top of my head.

    See, if we pew peons just stopped doing all that kind of stuff – churchianity would have absolutely NO problems!

  183. Homeschool Leader Rick Boyer, Sr. Accused of Sexual Harassment, Grooming
    https://homeschoolersanonymous.org/2016/04/15/homeschool-leader-rick-boyer-sr-accused-of-sexual-harassment-grooming/

    Snippet:

    Last year he [Boyer, Sr.] made news for his statement that, “‘Abuse’ is the new ‘racism.’ As soon as you’re accused of it, you’re considered guilty.” This came in the context of Boyer publicly defending Josh Duggar, the oldest son of Jim Bob and Michelle Duggar, after it came to light that Josh was engaged in child sexual abuse and incest. Boyer has also defended Bill Gothard… also accused by over 30 women of sexual abuse and harassment.

  184. Daisy wrote:

    Have You Been Sexually Abused? You Can’t Work In This Church
    http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2016/04/15/churches-ask-job-seekers-were-you-sexually-abused-as-a-child.html
    “Church job seekers are being asked if they were sexually abused as children based on the false belief that victims will become abusers. The worst part —this discrimination is legal.”

    Insurance companies are driving this. In order to get the discount rate, churches have to agree to ask that question. From the article: “If a predator is looking for a way to get to kids, he would very likely lie and say he never abused,” Clohessy said. “So all it would really do is screen out people, who through no fault of their own, are victims of horrific crimes.” Exactly. Doesn’t help. Hurts people who were victimized as children.

  185. BL wrote:

    Please note – Jesus didn’t address the MOTIVES of any of them.
    He describes their *actions*.
    Their *actions* revealed their motives.

    Thank you! Watch what people do.

  186. siteseer wrote:

    elastigirl wrote:

    “Some standing in line had no idea. One woman in the crowd yelled: “It’s all lies!””
    ++++++++++++
    the hurtfulness of this woman’s non-thinking response. what a stupid woman.

    Mind numbingly stupid.

    Stimulus –> Response, like Pavlov’s dogs.
    No higher brain functions involved at all.

  187. GSD wrote:

    For what it’s worth, I watched as much of T4G as I could stand. Just from a content standpoint, I can’t figure out why someone would spend hundreds of dollars to be there in person, when the live feed was free.

    For all the free books.

  188. BL wrote:

    However, the reality is – turning away from the *facts* of what happened in order to focus on *motives* is just obfuscation.

    I loved your entire comment. I just cannot operate in the cognitive dissonance that was so evident in that post. It shows me how careful we must be to not get sucked into such thinking patterns. But week after week of this sort of cognitive dissonance in what is supposed to be “Christian biblical worldview”does a number on people. They stop being able to tell right from wrong, a pattern of behavior becomes judging motives yet only motives count– which means no one can ever know anything or call evil, evil.

  189. I know. Here is my two pence worth. If CJ Mahaney is truly humble and godly, why would it matter so much to him and them to continue preaching with unresolved relational and legal business outstanding? The stubborn stonewalling of victims actually makes him look more capable of coverup, not less. And the choice of intro and topics he taught on are nothing less than an attempt to rehabilitate his image and silence critics. How is any of that consistent with dealing with multiple charges against an elder in the way TGC types churchdiscipline their subjects? I use that word (subjects), because this whole mess shows us how they view those under their perceived authority. Fact is, they lost all respect from many Christians nation and worldwide over this, because it’s more and more obvious they could care less about the many families exposed to abusers. For example Nate Morales who was known to SGM while leading in a church in Vegas. If it is correct that investigations were underway in five states about him, that shows what SGM leadership are responsible for. And that is just one abuser. He was convicted and in court testimony states leadership knew and yet didn’t report. Another news report suggests that SGM leaders heard Nate Morales was in leadership in Vegas but decided against action. More children were harmed by this one pedophile because of their desire to cover their brand. And my military family lived in Vegas for seven years. Thank God my children were barely born when Morales was caught. Thank God we didn’t end up at his church. Because we never would have known, because of SGM leadership’s systemic failure to report abuse. And that convicted pedophile was just one abuser. There are fifteen abusers connected to SGM per SNAP. Anyone who thinks that is ok needs to repent and go work at McDonalds. These arrogant callous prideful booksellers have no business leading the people of God.
    @ Todd Wilhlem:

  190. Hello everyone! Long time reader, first time commentator. I am glad to’ve been one of the 10 that stopped to listen, and as well hopefully encouraged some of the protesters there at the recent T4G. I did take a flyer to share with others, but thanks to sites like TWW, I was already well informed of the circumstances.

    I’m an SBC Calvinist church planter, and while I don’t agree with every point of doctrine and practice espoused here at TWW, I have indeed learned much from people like Dee, Deb, and Wade Burleson how to think and shepherd in the mold of Micah 6:8 “to do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God”.

    I wholeheartedly concur with Todd Pruitt’s incisive charge to action for T4G. I’m a very, very minor figure in SBC and Reformed circles, but many of those I surround myself with were at least loosely familiar with this circumstance surrounding SGM and C.J. Mahaney and most agreed that it would’ve been best to’ve stood aside until truth could emerge and either convict or exonerate. I truly am flabbergasted at the Top Men™ and their perceived lack of concern for the victims and possible tacit enabling of further behavior given their pervasive influence over this swath of Christendom. At the very least, this should be a prime opportunity for public dialogue by all on the matter, and not by just those on the edges or outside looking in.

    Thank you for what all of you do here at TWW and beyond to stand for the Truth — you have informed me and many others of much hitherto unaware surreptitious happenings to the “least of these” in our very own churches and backyards. May none of us be ignorant or calloused against the schemes of the enemy, for we all will to one degree or another (especially pastors, cf. James 3:1) have to give an account for those under our care AND influence.

    May this all be our charge to action — be it abortion, abuse, authoritarianism, or anything else preventing God’s sheep from growing into the image of Christ:

    “If you faint in the day of adversity,
    your strength is small.
    Rescue those who are being taken away to death;
    hold back those who are stumbling to the slaughter.
    If you say, “Behold, we did not know this,”
    does not He Who weighs the heart perceive it?
    Does not He Who keeps watch over your soul know it,
    and will He not repay man according to his work?” —Proverbs 24:10-12

  191. Exactly. I kept hoping I’d hear JMac called out the hypocrisy and coverup directly. Then I read what Phil Johnson said on FB. Those guys are irrelevant. They chose to love words not the Word and His people. It’s pathetic really.
    @ BL:

  192. Melody wrote:

    For example Nate Morales who was known to SGM while leading in a church in Vegas. If it is correct that investigations were underway in five states about him, that shows what SGM leadership are responsible for.

    “Whatever happens in Vegas stays in Vegas.”
    — O.J.Simpson (who ended up staying in Vegas…)

  193. Abi Miah wrote:

    GSD wrote:

    For what it’s worth, I watched as much of T4G as I could stand. Just from a content standpoint, I can’t figure out why someone would spend hundreds of dollars to be there in person, when the live feed was free.

    For all the free books.

    Gotta build a bigger book stack than Mohler or Piper…

  194. Melody wrote:

    There are fifteen abusers connected to SGM per SNAP.

    And at 75 to 100 unknown victims for every known one…

    I am so glad SNAP branched out and didn’t develop tunnel-vision about the RCC.

  195. Harley wrote:

    I don’t see any fruit of the Spirit evident in their lives or what they are teaching. (As a side, I have my 17th foot surgery on my left foot next Wednesday, April 20th).

    1) Exactly. In fact, in many cases I see clearly “the works of the flesh” in their “ministries.
    2) Oh good lord! I hope it is successful, and that you recover fully and quickly!

  196. Tree wrote:

    Book give away? At T4G? I’ll say! I counted twenty books in the photo that a friend, an SBC pastor, posted as one of the “many blessings” of attending.

    Except, not really. The only decent book I get when I attended was the ESV study Bible, which of course isn’t much more valuable that a regular Bible, since the commentary is lightweight and one-sided. The rest were all trash. I mean at the time – when I was drinking the koolaide – I thought they were trash. Complete fluff with virtually no thought behind them. Pop theology bullspit. Nothing a thinking person would even waste their time on. So not a blessing, and in my honest opinion, not even books.

  197. @ Chris Dean:

    Thanks so much for your comment, and welcome to TWW! I am grateful that as a T4G participant you stopped to chat with some of the protesters. If 10 out of 10,000 took the time to listen to what these dear people had to say, then you are rare indeed!

    Best wishes with your church planting efforts, and we hope you will dialogue more with us.

  198. Chris Dean wrote:

    I’m an SBC Calvinist church planter

    Chris,
    I mean this question sincerely and not the least bit sarcastically: What qualifies you to be a church planter with the SBC?

  199. @ Dr. Fundystan, Proctologist:

    “Complete fluff with virtually no thought behind them. Pop theology bullspit. Nothing a thinking person would even waste their time on.”
    +++++++++++++

    some years ago my family & I went to a Christian conference center (in a redwood forest) for a week during the summer. I had gone there many times as a kid, had fabulous experiences. I was so surprised, this time as an adult. I was completely bored. there was nothing the speakers said that was interesting, or insightful. devoid of any shred of inspiration.

    is it that these speakers/pastors/turned-book-writers are so conditioned to believe that they are so exalted that anything they communicate (even threadbare material) is automatically marvelous and inspired?

    or is it that they don’t care any more, beyond fulfilling publishing contracts and accumulating speaking fees?

    or is it that people are conditioned to have a happy, engaged deer-in-the-headlights look, which feeds the ego of the speaker and makes him feel significant, and no one realizes the lack of substance? a synergistic feed off each other thing.

  200. Very interesting. Bob Mumford was a major influence on the predominantly Catholic (but ecumenical) “charismatic covenant community” my goddaughter belonged to for 23 years. I had never heard of the guy before. He sounds like a real charmer. :p

    molly245 wrote:

    I don’t endorse any of the Mahaney/SGM actions in the abuse coverup, their treatment of Larry Tomczak or any others abused by this gang of thugs.

    But, I do feel it’s important to look at the roots of some of CJ’s behavior as relates to Larry Tomczak.

    Larry picked CJ as a young disciple, way back in the ’80s…they were closely allied with Bob Mumford and the disastrous shepherding movement….where shunning was normal, heavy handed arrogant men attempted to regulate every part of a believers life….

    In fact, Larry was so arrogant that he was sued for slander by a popular author of the day, and paid a substantial penalty for that arrogance. (See NYTimes article http://www.nytimes.com/1983/09/10/arts/author-wins-judgment-for-slander.html )

    Larry’s extremely arrogant assertion that ‘Proper Parenting=Perfect Kids’ was a source of great misery for many many parents.

    In addition, he makes some truly horrifying recommendations in his books on Child Discipline, which to my certain knowledge, led to at least 1 couple in a local church to be charged and convicted of child abuse.

    So no, CJ has no excuse. But, the learner did learn well from his teacher.
    I’d like to see more acknowledgement of the roots (at least from 1970’s) of just how this got going….from people like Larry Tomczak, Mary Pride (homoeschooling guru) and Greg Harris–Joshua’s father..

  201. @ Chris Dean:

    “I’m an SBC Calvinist church planter, and while I don’t agree with every point of doctrine and practice espoused here at TWW”
    +++++++++

    Thanks for commenting, Chris. And for your support at the T4G thing. Just curious — I don’t see doctrine espoused at TWW — if anything, it’s more in the un-doctrine direction. less embroidery, less convolution, less formula, less rules, less must’s and must not’s.

    if there is a ‘doctrine’ espoused at TWW I imagine it would be kindness, compassion, and justice, not necessarily in that order. what doctrine do you see here at TWW?

  202. @ Catholic Gate-Crasher:

    An elderly friend of mine (who was raised Catholic and then became an evangelical) knew Bob Mumford personally. I believe he lived in Raleigh for a time. When we first started our blog (2009) I began learning about the shepherding movement. Praise God it had fizzled out when I was still fairly young. She shared some invaluable information with me about Bob, his apology, and the failed shepherding movement.

    She died several years ago, and I miss her. We had some great conversations.

  203. This is what I want to know. But what is horrific is his family is likely far less vulnerable than many ordinary families or children in vulnerable situations. He simply does not care about other people’s families and that grieves me. It grieves me because that’s what I’m hearing by implication from Grace to You, Ligonier, and TGC too. Wickedness.
    One good result of the exposure of their callousness is I have no more illusions of them being godly men. Therefore I could care less what they say or think about me or any others. I can think for myself thank you very much. They are not “good men deceived”, they are willfully and actively complicit in supporting covering up abusuve and destructive felonies. That’s reality. What’s even more reality is that they could not have cared less about the families of victims in and after SGM. I wonder how many families have been harmed by their own ministries therefore. These men were warned multiple times by fellow Christians, but they thought themselves superior and more discerning than us layfolk, especially if we were female/moms, so now this is exposed to the world, and the world will hold them accountable. So be it. Sow, reap. It’s time for judgement and I have no pity. Only way I will have anything to do with any of them now is if they step away from ministry and get help to help those they’ve harmed. But that would be a long road and a lot of hard humiliating work with no recognition or popularity.
    anon wrote:

    How would Al Mohler have felt if HIS DAUGHTER or SON were abused in church?

  204. Abi Miah wrote:

    Insurance companies are driving this. In order to get the discount rate, churches have to agree to ask that question.

    I’m not certain why Dr. Anna Salter, author of Predators, and an expert in sex crimes wasn’t consulted about questions that churches should ask. From her research she found that most sexual predators will claim that they were sexually abused as children but when told that they will be subjected to a lie detector test they later recant.

    Dr. Salter’s 5-part interview on Tier Talk, a show for the corrections industry:
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cRtccELtlJw

    More importantly, churches should have rooms with windows, multiple adults supervising children, make sure that no adult is ever left alone with a child or children, etc.

  205. Hi all

    First time commenter from Down Under, but have been reading for a couple of months. Really good work here and I commend the two D’s and your faithfulness in keeping on with this sorely needed voice. Like the discussions and different viewpoints. Agree with some, disagree with others – hey, iron sharpens iron and I think it’s important to make the effort understand a contrary viewpoint.

    On topic, I am a husband of one and father of two. Absolutely disgusted with these ‘great’ so-called theological heavies closing ranks to laud and protect the vile CJ Mahaney and completely ignore the victims of systematic sexual abuse. A good beating – forgive me but I speak as a dad of young children – is what these bloody idiots need. They are without love for the little ones, all their theology and teaching is like clanging cymbals as Paul says. I’m no Calvinist and I disagreed with these guys on those doctrines but I thought they were honourable otherwise.

    Won’t make that mistake again.

    I repeat, in my opinion, these men need a good kicking to knock some sense into them. I simply can’t understand how you can read and study God’s word and remain completely devoid of integrity in this manner – but clearly it is most eminently possible. Together for the gospel indeed….what gospel can these charlatans possibly have to offer anyone? Love of money and power perhaps….

    PS. In case anyone’s wondering what sort of Aussie last name I have, I’m an African-born Aussie…of South Asian ethnicity. Hope that makes me a citizen of the earth….

  206. Deb wrote:

    IS GOD SOVEREIGN OR WHAT???

    God is indeed sovereign! We are seeing His hand move in the church to expose darkness. There should be no statute of limitations on child abuse; there certainly isn’t with God.

  207. @ Ron Oommen:
    Welcome to TWW! Thanks for your kind words. I especially appreciated this portion of your comment:

    “…in my opinion, these men need a good kicking to knock some sense into them. I simply can’t understand how you can read and study God’s word and remain completely devoid of integrity in this manner – but clearly it is most eminently possible. Together for the gospel indeed….what gospel can these charlatans possibly have to offer anyone? Love of money and power perhaps….”

    We have other readers/commenters from Down Under. Please continue to comment when you have time.

  208. Lydia wrote:

    Where is plain old right and wrong? Being able to point to what is obvious evil and saying, “that is evil”? It is all a jumble mess.

    “Woe to those who call evil good, and good evil; Who substitute darkness for light and light for darkness …” (Isaiah 5:20). It’s bad enough when this goes on in the world, but much of the church has also become confused when it comes to right vs. wrong.

  209. Deb wrote:

    On the same day that Al Mohler introduced C.J. Mahaney with his mocking words about the internet, the Pennsylvania House passed legislation eliminating the criminal statute of limitations in cases of child sex abuse. It now moves to the Senate.

    It’s been a long time comin’
    It’s goin’ to be a Long Time Gone.
    And it appears to be a long,
    Appears to be a long,
    Appears to be a long
    Time, yes, a long, long, long ,long time before the dawn.

    — David Crosby 1969 —

  210. Headless Unicorn Guy wrote:

    siteseer wrote:

    elastigirl wrote:

    “Some standing in line had no idea. One woman in the crowd yelled: “It’s all lies!””
    ++++++++++++
    the hurtfulness of this woman’s non-thinking response. what a stupid woman.

    Mind numbingly stupid.

    Stimulus –> Response, like Pavlov’s dogs.
    No higher brain functions involved at all.

    Most likely, because no higher brain functions were present. Typical Mahaney &Co worshipper: No brain, loud mouth.

  211. Melody wrote:

    There are fifteen abusers connected to SGM per SNAP. Anyone who thinks that is ok needs to repent and go work at McDonalds.

    I don’t want them at McDonalds either. I want them working in the kitchen at the prison nearest their homes. Where (unlike all-too-many-churches) people know how to deal with child molesters & their protectors.
    I’m sorry, but these people are way, way, beyond the pale.

  212. Here is The Daily Beast link for today’s story on the protest: http://thebea.st/1W83Lkf. TWW is mentioned for its coverage as well as a quote from Dee.

    “Al Mohler called Mahaney kind and humble today. Victims are invisible in their conferences,” tweeted Dee Parsons, co-editor of The Wartburg Watch, a blog that tracks “disturbing trends within Christendom” and which has followed the scandal.

    I also like this quote in TDB article:

    “There is no togetherness for the gospel when the victim stands alone,” responded James Kessler, senior pastor at New City Presbyterian Church in Hilliard Ohio.

    Bravo. Real Christians standing for truth. Loving what God loves, and hating what God hates.

  213. zooey111 wrote:

    Most likely, because no higher brain functions were present. Typical Mahaney &Co worshipper: No brain, loud mouth.

    It’s called doubleplusgoodthinker, doubleplusduckspeaker.

  214. Velour wrote:

    I’m not certain why Dr. Anna Salter, author of Predators, and an expert in sex crimes wasn’t consulted about questions that churches should ask.

    She wasn’t a Liability Lawyer.

  215. @ Chris Dean:

    Chris was asked two simple questions following this post. Neither have been answered. The question I asked could be asked of any school teacher, lawyer, IT person, banker, baker, professional athlete, brain surgeon, etc. and you would get a quick and exact answer. But ask a church planter?! Everyone is planting a church. And not for the noblest of reasons. I know of a young man right now who was just dismissed from his youth ministry job at a local church. He's taken to the internet and is moving 3000 miles to the west coast to plant a church. (I'm fearful that his dismissal was for reasons all too common today and much discussed here at TWW). We need a moratorium on church planting.