Crossway to Release New Book in 2014: Points Are Being Made

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Yesterday I spoke about the close ties between big business and ministry. Financial ties should be disclosed in order to separate out business and ministry statements. Refer to yesterday's post if you do not see the correlation. Thanks to a sharp eyed "Eagle," I found out about a new book that is to be published in April 2014 by Crossway. The full title of this word is The (Unadjusted) Gospel (Together for the Gospel). The authors are (in same order as on the book cover)

  • Mark Dever
  • Ligon Duncan
  • Al Mohler
  • CJ Mahaney

​Contributing authors are:

  • Thabiti Anyabwile
  • ​John MacArthur
  • John Piper
  • R.C. Sproul
     

Here is part of the summary at Amazon:

the contributors draw on their extensive ministry experience to offer readers a thoughtful plea for safeguarding the message of the gospel in the midst of our pluralistic world.

For once, I am not going to pontificate except to say that one of my points in yesterday's post defintely has some play. I shall leave the commentary on this book, published by Crossway, in the hands of our able readers.

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Crossway to Release New Book in 2014: Points Are Being Made — 254 Comments

  1. At this point, what new content are they even coming up with? They go on and on about the same generic points in books, blogs, podcasts, sermons, etc. I think the church will survive without additional calvinista materials and literature urging Christians to make sure our gospel is gospelly enough so that, through the gospel, we can live the gospel.

    (No disrespect to the actual good news of Jesus…just poking fun at the Calvinistas’ overuse of the term that has made it virtually meaningless).

    In all seriousness, most calvinista literature is too abstract to benefit me practically. Modern day Gnosticism, in my opinion.

    Give me a couple of good historical-grammatical commentaries and a Bible and I’m happy.

  2. What’s with all the Reformed luminaries continuing to defend and work with the unrepentant C.J. Mahaney? Does Mahaney have pictures of some of these guys (ed. ) ? What a brood of vipers.

  3. This book looks to be a rehash of the 2010 T4G Conference:

    http://t4g.org/t4g-year/2010/

    Neither the Crossway or the Amazon page have any information on the chapters of the book, but I would guess they will be edited transcripts of the subjects they spoke on at the conference. I am left to surmise why this book and why now? I can only surmise that some of the powerful leaders (Mohler and Dever?) have exerted their influence on Crossway to publish this book as another step in reviving the flailing career of C.J. Mahaney. I imagine the loyal sheeple can be counted on to shell out the money to get yet another gospelly book from their dear leaders so Crossway is only too happy to publish this book.

    I would think MacArthur and Sproul might have some issues with being linked in a book with Mahaney. Neither of them participated in the last T4G event and they seem to want to distance themselves from the King of Humility. I was wondering if perhaps by speaking at the T4G conference they signed some consent form for their material to be rebroadcast or published? In my opinion anyone who is featured in a book with Mahaney should be ashamed of themselves. Just one more sign of the Evangelical Industrial Complex running roughshod over victims in order to make money. Piper and Dever already have shown their lack of compassion for the victims of sexual abuse in Mahaney’s church by speaking at his church. Mohler has done the same by speaking at his recent leadership conference with Mahaney as a co-star, now the rest of these men have also sullied themselves with their joint book venture. I wrote to Crossway protesting the fact that they had Mahaney endorsing their newest ESV bible; I received a form letter in response and of course nothing changed. I believe I will now cease purchasing anything published by Crossway.

    “If I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but do not have love, I have become a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy, and know all mysteries and all knowledge; and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing.” 1 Corinthians 13

  4. As if it’s needed – further evidence of the incestuous relationship between the celebrity conference speakers and the book publishers – I just saw this comment on Crossway’s Facebook page:

    “Why should I come to CROSS if I don’t feel called to missions?” Trip Lee answers: http://cway.to/1aDvBN1

    We have had a few leaders and journalists calling these guys out, but we need more! Time for a concerted effort to drive the money-changers out of the temple.

  5. On the other hand, maybe there is a message many, many people want to here.
    *
    NOTED: not only C.J. Mahaney but all the other contributors are sinners too. If we limit book publishing to the sinless, there will be no more books. (Even God used sinful men to give us His perfect Word.)

  6. JeffT wrote:

    (ed. )

    Whoops, got a little too carried away again. Sorry.

    Seriously, I just can’t understand why so many of the Reformed big shots defend and promote Mahaney. It’s dumbfounding.

  7. In other news:

    India’s Mars Orbiter Mission probe has, as far as I can gather, successfully completed a 23-minute engine burn which has placed it in a Hohmann transfer orbit – in layman’s terms, it’s caught the train to Mars. At a cost which, as a fraction of India’s GDP, is about equivalent to me driving to the Isle of Skye for a day’s hillwalking. Good luck, guys…

  8. Nick Bulbeck wrote:

    In other news:

    India’s Mars Orbiter Mission probe has, as far as I can gather, successfully completed a 23-minute engine burn which has placed it in a Hohmann transfer orbit – in layman’s terms, it’s caught the train to Mars. At a cost which, as a fraction of India’s GDP, is about equivalent to me driving to the Isle of Skye for a day’s hillwalking. Good luck, guys…

    Thank you for sharing this, Nick! This is much better news than the same ole, same ole circle the wagons and let’s make money for our friends.

  9. @ TW:

    In the wake of MacArthur’s Strange Fire conference I would say that MacArthur has lost all credibility with his teaching. All this effort, hype, attention to charismatics and the problems they pose and how they teach another Gospel (if my memory serves me correct)…and then John MacArthur is going to contribute to a book with CJ Mahaney. This is a Whiskey Tango Foxtrot if there ever was one.

    The Grace to You ministry should close shop and head home. The last one out turn off the lights and pay the electric bill please!!

  10. @ TW:

    You know what I don’t get…. There is a Survivors blog for Sovereign Grace, Acts 29, Mars Hill Seattle, Harvest Bible Chapel, and the Patriarchy movement. I’m baffled that there is not a Survivors blog for Capital Hill Baptist Church or 9 Marks. The stories are there… I wonder how long it will be before there is a blog dedicated to the problems associated with CHBC/9 Marks.

  11. Mr.H wrote:

    At this point, what new content are they even coming up with?

    Mr H, you have the position in a nutshell. The Gospel whereof they aim to speak is not a set of theorems on the nature of God, but a set of hearts that (impossibly) love both their neighbours and their enemies as only God can.

  12. Eagle wrote:

    … MacArthur has lost all credibility with his teaching

    Depends on with whom. But having read a few things of his, I’m increasingly coming to the conclusion that he and I place our hopes for relationship with God in completely different things. (Which is a roundabout way of saying that we follow different faiths/religions.) I believe God became a Man; he believes God became a book.

    What God thinks about John MacArthur, on the other hand, is not within my ambit. My faith doesn’t need him to go to hell, certainly.

  13. @ Nick Bulbeck:

    BTW Eagle – I wasn’t aiming that last sentence to argue with you (I didn’t compose my last comment all that well!); it was more in response to MacArthur’s own inappropriate “barely Christian” description of a whole load of Christians.

  14. This is all big business with Jesus stamped on it. Stop buying what they are selling and read the only Book able to save your soul.

  15. JeffT wrote:

    What’s with all the Reformed luminaries continuing to defend and work with the unrepentant C.J. Mahaney?

    Birds of a feather flocking together.
    .

  16. @ Eagle:

    Eagle, what is the Harvest Bible Chapel survivors’ blog called? A good friend of mine is attending one of their churches and I am concerned for her – it appears extremely conservative and legalistic.

  17. @ Eagle

    hmmm…

    It is readily apparent that Mark Dever is (more than likely) the proverbial “Gríma Wormtongue” (1) who seduced, ahem! overture’d DaCeege away from his “charismatic” persuasion(s). ; possibly to jump in bed with the Neo-Cal’s as well. Looks now like Ligon Duncan and Al Mohler were in the wings as well, seeing the birds of a feather connections in retrospect. Subscribing to the Westminster Confession Of Faith, (their form of christian orthodoxy) each of these “God Fearing” men believed/believes they were/are doing “the right thing”, – a grand rescue effort, as it were. Once committed, they needed a new encapsulated delivery system to make their “brand x” religion more palatable to the christian masses. Reverend Charles Joseph Mahaney could simple be “Reformed” progressively “in place”. They were/are not responsible for ‘the predicament’ PDI/SGM was in, just the progression to Reformed Orthodoxy. It is believed that they hedged their bets with Pastor Mark Driscoll, later with the current Acts 29 leader, Matt Chandler. Others possibly as well. It is all win-win with these guys. Column Right, March!  One, Two, Three, Four…your left, your left, left right, left…”We know what we believe…”

    -snort-

    ___
    note(s):
    (1) Gríma, called (the) Wormtongue, is a fictional character in J. R. R. Tolkien’s “The Lord of the Rings”. He appears in the second and third volumes of the work, The Two Towers and The Return of the King, and his role is expanded upon in Unfinished Tales. He is introduced in The Two Towers as the chief advisor to King Théoden of Rohan and henchman of Saruman. Gríma serves as an archetypal sycophant, flatterer, liar, and manipulator. The name Gríma derives from the Old English or Icelandic word meaning “mask”, “helmet” or “spectre”. It is also possible to link the name to the English word “grim”, which among other characteristics means “ugly” in Old English. ~WikiP
    Reference:: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gr%C3%ADma_Wormtongue

  18. __

    @ Nicholas

    Ultimately, it is believed “their” Orthrodoxy finds its ‘roots’ (or is derived ultimately from the same source as) produced in the Westminister Confession Of Faith.

    “Birds of a feather…”

    …care to add your thoughts?

  19. Mr.H wrote:

    just poking fun at the Calvinistas’ overuse of the term that has made it virtually meaningless

    I had this conversation with a fellow student at SBTS. I’m not sure how the gospel became a brand, but we both agreed that within 20 years evangelicals will be avoiding the word gospel in much the same way as modern evangelicals avoid the language and marketing of the 80s.

  20. @ Anon:
    Oh, well, according to them CJ did nothing wrong and was victim of a smear campaign. Wasn’t someone on TWW who said psychopaths are adept at getting people to pity themselves?

  21. @ Eagle:
    Maybe they broke away to protect financial assets, not because they were against CJ, but in collusion with him? One wonders…

  22. @ Eagle:

    Eagle give it time. The 9 marks thing just took over my old church unbeknownst to the congregation. I was around serveral of my fellow parishoners and they were in tears about how bad things have gotten. The arrogance wafting off the pastor now that he has been programmed with the elder board at CHBC is staggering. Many people feel like the church they have gone to for 20+ years no longer exists and they feel like they are strangers in their own church. I am glad I jumped ship when the sermons slowly changed and started to piss me off.

  23. It really isn’t that $urpri$ing to see the$e men coauthor a book like thi$. In some ways it is good that they did in that it shows just how interrelated these men are. They want people to think it is for the “gospel” when it really is for the almighty dollar though I am sure they even believe themselves into thinking they are doing it for the “gospel.”

  24. Val wrote:

    @ Anon:
    Oh, well, according to them CJ did nothing wrong and was victim of a smear campaign. Wasn’t someone on TWW who said psychopaths are adept at getting people to pity themselves?

    If you read the book titled “The Sociopath Next Door” you will see this as one attribute.

    http://www.amazon.com/Sociopath-Next-Door-Martha-Stout/dp/0767915828

    Using this author’s definition of what a sociopath is, IMO C.J. Mahaney is a sociopath. Just hearing some of what C.J. recently has taught on in light of his past actions indicate this. One commenter left this at the above link:

    As Stout (The Myth of Sanity) explains, a sociopath is defined as someone who displays at least three of seven distinguishing characteristics, such as deceitfulness, impulsivity and a lack of remorse. Such people often have a superficial charm, which they exercise ruthlessly in order to get what they want.

    That sure sounds like they are talking about C.J. Mahaney.

  25. When ministry becomes big business it ceases to be ministry. We are to be sold out for the Gospel, not sell out ourselves for profit. Any man who seeks financial gain at the expense of the Gospel, is a hireling. Jesus said that the hireling does not care for the sheep. Apply displayed by these men begging for money while living in million dollar homes. There will be an accounting. I wouldn’t want to be in their shoes. God have mercy.

  26. Nick Bulbeck wrote:

    I believe God became a Man; he believes God became a book.

    Which makes one wonder why JM has no problem publishing God’s book with his own name printed twice as big as the word “Bible” on the cover.

  27. Seneca wrote:

    On the other hand, maybe there is a message many, many people want to here.
    *
    NOTED: not only C.J. Mahaney but all the other contributors are sinners too. If we limit book publishing to the sinless, there will be no more books. (Even God used sinful men to give us His perfect Word.)

    Blimey, off topic again Jimmy. No-one disputes that people need to hear the gospel, or that we are all sinners. There is another point in this post….can you find it?

  28. In other news: Manchester United’s opponents (who, for today, are Spurs) have just scored. Though the second half is yet young, I think that’s something we can all be pleased about.

  29. I appreciate the stance this blog takes against clergy sexual abuse but I must say I am disappointed in the attitude expressed here towards the Reformed crowd. I frequently attend one of the largest Acts 29 churches but I won’t name names because that Pastor does not need me to defend him. Everything is about the gospel there, I know sorry some of you seem to hate that “buzzword” but I believe it’s true. I believe that Pastor is first and foremost concerned with shepherding his local congregation and leading people to authentic faith. In short, I trust him based on what I have observed up close, not from afar. The group on this site seems to have grown very critical, cynical , and even self righteous. Reading through these posts I am amazed at the confidence with which any of you reveal the motives and intentions of others. Only God knows the heart. I’m not saying don’t judge but I am saying many of you take it too far when you state as absolute fact things that nobody can know. I’m not a great writer and I’m sure someone will pick apart my words to expose some apparent contradiction or hypocrisy. That seems to happen whenever I post like this on a blog and especially on this topic. Bottom line, the tone of this thread and this site do not glorify God in my humble opinion.

  30. @ Headless Unicorn Guy:

    Nick: “I believe God became a man. He believes God became a book.”
    +++++++++++++++++++

    Yes that IS a great line! I’ll have to remember that one. Keep it in my back pocket. Very handy.

  31. __
    @ Seneca

    Thank you for reminding us that the victiums of religious tyranny no longer matter.

    Whom do the bus wheels toll, they roll for thee?

    (sadface)

    Sopy

  32. @ April:

    April….keep drinking the kool aid!! The less you think for yourself the more the theology makes sense. Just as Jesus drove out the money changers this bull%&*% also reeds to go. But April keep buying their stuff CJ needs people like you to subsidize his trips to Disneyworld!! The “happyiest place on earth!”

  33. @ Eagle:

    Wait!! Which place is the happyiest place on earth for the “Dear Leader?” Sovereign Grace? Disneyworld? Or Pyonygang perhaps ? 😛

  34. April wrote:

    can you not see that you are presuming to judge people’s hearts and motives?

    We are judging them by their actions. We are knowing them by their fruit. Their fruit is rotten. Their water is bitter. Though I hear their Kool Aid it quit sweet. You would do well to stop eating and drinking at their table.

  35. Where is my post from earlier? Certainly not censored I hope. It does seem others have been posted since then.

  36. @ April:
    God bless you for speaking up April! I noticed your comments were quite general but still hit the nail on the head in my opinion. The one response on the other hand is a perfect example of exactly what you said. This person sure assumed a lot about you, your motives, and your allegiances. They also managed to display the poor grammar you eluded to. I’m not sure why I’m even writing this. Maybe Dee, Deb or whoever will surprise me and actually post it. After all, they did allow yours to go through.

  37. Eagle wrote:
    @ TW:
    You know what I don’t get…. There is a Survivors blog for Sovereign Grace, Acts 29, Mars Hill Seattle, Harvest Bible Chapel, and the Patriarchy movement. I’m baffled that there is not a Survivors blog for Capital Hill Baptist Church or 9 Marks. The stories are there… I wonder how long it will be before there is a blog dedicated to the problems associated with CHBC/9 Marks.

    Eagle, and others reading here,

    First of all, Eagle, congratulations on your recent baptism! When I read that you were going to be baptized, I rejoiced about it and posted a short comment at TWW, but up to now, I had not congratulated you personally, so I want to do so here! Thanks be to God for His loving work in your life and for your witness to His love.

    As to the point in your post above– believe me, brother, I have wondered the exact same thing. I’m a former member of Capitol Hill Baptist Church, *and,* after my time there, I was a member of another, similar, 9 Marks-affiliated church in another state.

    From my understanding, the 9 Marks ministry was founded as a sort of “para-church ministry” to encourage “healthy, Biblical churches”– BUT it was founded by Mark Dever and Matt Schmucker of Capitol Hill Baptist Church, so whenever one reads official “9 Marks” material, one is basically getting the thinking that one finds articulated at CHBC. This link is helpful: http://www.9marks.org/about/who-9marks/

    Being a member at CHBC, I was basically at Ground Zero for “9 Marks thinking” on theology, preaching, eccesiology, church discipline, etc. At the time, I thought it was wonderful, because it was being presented to me and the other members as “This is simply what the Bible teaches about these matters. It’s not ultimately about our *interpretations* of the Bible. It’s about being faithful to what the Bible teaches.” For better and for worse, I bought into and accepted those claims, for reasons that I will describe below.

    Mark Dever is a very gifted preacher, and his general approach is that of verse-by-verse exegetical preaching through entire books of the Bible. I didn’t simply accept whatever he said at face value; I listened carefully to his preaching, and, at the time, it seemed to be consistent with Scripture, or, at least, with what I *understood* of Scripture. (I now think that I *misunderstood* some important things in Scripture during those years, but that’s another, much longer, story). The other elders preached quite often too, sometimes on Sunday mornings instead of Mark D., and, more regularly, at the Sunday evening services (which members were strongly encouraged– all but required– to attend, and I did, willingly and happily). Their preaching was basically along the same lines as Mark’s– verse-by-verse and exegetical. There was a seemingly solid (at the time, to me) Biblical basis for everything that was taught, so I accepted it.

    When I first came to CHBC (from a more broadly evangelical Baptist church), I didn’t realize it, but in a good bit of that “strong exegetical preaching,” I was hearing, and taking in, some specifically anti-Catholic interpretations of Scripture. Again, I thought that I was simply hearing “what the Bible teaches,” and I loved the exegesis that seemed to be so careful, because through it, I thought that I was coming to know more about God and what He has revealed to us in Scripture. In many ways, even now, I would say that that was true. I *did* learn a lot about God and Scripture at CHBC. Much of what I learned was/is accurate and positive. Some of it, though, I now see as mistaken– sincerely mistaken but still mistaken–, and the anti-Catholic exegesis and the exegesis regarding Scriptural passages on “church discipline” are some of the most profoundly “off” examples.

    Prior to coming to CHBC, I had not been strongly anti-Catholic. I had actually been a Catholic convert, at one point earlier in my young adulthood, from a largely Godless background, but I did not have the best catechesis in my conversion process, and I ultimately left the Church for despairing agnosticism. Later, I came back to God as an evangelical Protestant. I had had my bad experiences with the Catholic Church, but I would not have dreamed of saying that Catholics are not Christians. I would have said that Catholics believe in some Scripturally inaccurate things, and that some of their practices are “Biblically off,” but I would not have said that they are not *Christians*, period. It was not until CHBC that the concept of “The Catholic Church doesn’t teach the Biblical Gospel” was introduced to me. Over time though, Mark and the other elders’ exegesis of Scripture convinced me of that very claim. I then became the “former Catholic who wanted to Catholics to hear the true, Biblical Gospel.” To my very serious regret now, I remained in that “exegetically driven” anti-Catholic mode and way of thinking for years– including after I left CHBC and moved to New Mexico, where I soon joined another 9 Marks-affiliated church where CHBC and its thinking were highly respected.

    For about a year and half, I was a happy, enthusiastic member of this congregation in New Mexico. I became highly involved there, to the point of spending many, many hours volunteering at the church, all completely of my own volition. I continued with my attempts to “share the Gospel with Catholics” and with many other people too. Along with the Bible itself, Mark Dever, John Piper, Michael Horton, and Mark Driscoll, and others of a Calvinistic exegetical bent comprised the reading material of my pastors/elders, myself, and many other members of the church, including the younger Reformed men on staff there.

    However… some of these younger Reformed men were taking classes, long-distance, from a Reformed seminary, and as part of these classes, there was mention of reading some of the “early Church Fathers.” This was a bit unsettling for me.

    At CHBC, we had basically been exposed to the Bible (in the preaching and teaching of the elders, and in our own study) and to Reformed authors. There was very little mention of the writings of the early Church Fathers, other than to say that some of them were more “Biblical” (i.e. CHBC-like!) in their thinking, on certain matters, than others– but the clear impression was sent to us, as CHBC members, that basically all of the early Fathers were not as “consistently Biblical” as Luther and Calvin and the Puritans… and their contemporary theological heirs, such as Mark Dever, John Piper, R.C Sproul, Ligon Duncan, C.J. Mahaney, and so on. Therefore, almost all of the CHBC members, from what I could tell, simply stuck to reading the Bible and Reformed books. I certainly did so, both while I was a CHBC member and at the subsequent church in New Mexico. My time at CHBC had been so strongly focused on Biblical exegesis (with a Reformed slant, but, again, I didn’t see it for what it was then) and on the “great Biblical heritage of the Reformation” that I didn’t even realize I was not being exposed to most of the Christian thinking of the 1, 500 years *before* the Reformation! It seems crazy to me now, but I pretty much looked at the pre-Reformation church, after about 100 A.D., as being basically lost to “unBiblical heresy” until the Reformation. Lamentably, my earlier, pre-Protestant catchesis in the Catholic Church had not prepared me well to address this sincere but mistaken view… Thus, I continued in it.

    I was even so disconcerted by the fact that some of the “seminary guys” at the church in New Mexico were reading the early Church Fathers– and, gasp, openly *blogging* about it, which was a scandal to my CHBC-formed “Biblical” mind!– that I talked to some of them about it. They patiently explained to me that they only accepted the aspects of the Church Fathers’ writings which were “Biblical” (i.e. in line, seemingly, with the exegesis of our Reformed heroes). I was comforted by this but still read little of the Fathers myself. The entire period of Christian thinking and writing from approximately 100 A.D. until the Reformation was a largely unknown entity to me– although I heard, from time to time, that many of the Fathers tragically accepted “Catholic heresies,” as opposed to our “faithfully Biblical” theology and ecclesiology. I continued to champion this thinking, because I thought that, in doing so, I was faithfully serving God by being true to what the Bible teaches.

    As of December 1, 2013, I have now been back in the Catholic Church for over three years. Whoah, some of you might be asking! 🙂 How did you go from believing that the Catholic Church doesn’t even teach *the Biblical Gospel* to actually being convinced to *return to* the Catholic Church??? It’s a very long story– much, much longer, even than this comment!–, and it doesn’t really fit the mission and purpose of this site, so I won’t go into it here.

    I will say that I have lost most of my friends from CHBC. The reaction from those quarters, has been, largely, shunning. The reaction from the church in New Mexico has actually been less severe, even as they “disciplined” me in a process that began as soon as I announced my intention to return to the Catholic Church. To their credit though, they did *not* shun me. This is important. They earnestly engaged me, because many of them truly believed that I was on a path to damnation. Even after I moved back to the D.C. area, the elders and some other members continued to be in discussion with me, even after I had been back in the Catholic Church for some months. Finally, I was warned of my “apostasy from the Gospel” and exhorted to “return to a Biblical church,” and I was officially removed from their membership roles. I don’t mind that the elders proceeded as they did, because I know these men, and I know that their actions were out of a sincere and earnest concern for my soul. To this day, some of them still engage with me on Facebook. They believe that I have made an eternally grievous mistake, and they tell me so– but they do care about me. That is actually why they are so brutally honest with me. It’s partially an intuitive thing, on my part, but I can tell that they truly care.

    My experience (re-acquaintance) with the CHBC world has been less warm. Out of all of the elders and members there, three people have contacted me to express concern for my soul– and none of them was an elder. Mark Dever unfriended me on Facebook without one word to me, privately or publicly. A few of the members, still on my friends list on FB, have talked to me, on very rare occasions, on Facebook– never calling me a “brother,” which at CHBC, is common language for “fellow Christian” (yet never mentioning my Catholic “reversion,” which is surreal to me, given that their church preaches that the Catholic Church’s “Gospel” is a false, damning one!). At least they have talked to me though. Those few have not shunned me. From all of the CHBC elders though, and most of the members, I have been either received utter silence, or FB unfriendings, without a word. Many of the silent ones are still on my friends list. I can’t bring myself to unfriend them– because I still care about them, even with their shunning of me. I still hope that one day, they will see that shunning is unBiblical.

    The ironic thing is, shunning is not even taught as being part of “church discipline” at CHBC! Mark Dever taught me and the other members that if a Christian seemingly “abandons the Biblical (i.e. Reformed Protestant) Gospel,” his/her fellow Christians and church members should earnestly engage him/her in love and concern for his/her soul. However, Mark Dever himself didn’t do that, and very few of the CHBC members did that… to this day, years later.

    To be clear, I was in New Mexico, well out of the geographical area of D.C., when I returned to the Catholic Church. I was still friends with Mark Dever on Facebook though… and I never heard from him. Just an unfriending. Maybe, in his thinking, I was under the pastoral care of the elders in New Mexico, and he needed to be attending to his congregation in D.C. Yet I had sat under his preaching for years. I had had mutually enthusiastic, affectionate conversations with him, in Christian brotherhood, as a member of CHBC. I had recommended his writings and talks to so many people. His silent unfriending of me still hurts… not least because it is inconsistent with the “loving, concerned engagement” which is preached at CHBC. Again though, perhaps, in his mind, I’m not a member of his congregation anymore, so my return to the supposed “false gospel” of the Catholic Church is not his problem. Apparently, to most of my old (former?) CHBC friends, it’s not their problem either, because only a few even have mentioned it to me, and most of the rest have just been completely silent to me… even while their church teaches that I am on a road to Hell. I truly don’t understand it. If they care about my soul, why the silence? It’s not even a part of what their elders teach about how to engage with “apostates.” (For the record, if I still believed their claims about the Catholic Church and her teachings, I would not returned to the Church. A deep and agonizing time of Biblical and church-historical study and re-examination eventually compelled me to return. That’s not for this site though.)

  38. Oops! I messed up on the quoting of Eagle at the beginning of my comment above! Sorry about that! 🙂

  39. April wrote:

    log in your eye, speck in theirs–can you not see that you are presuming to judge people’s hearts and motives? Only God can do that.

    With all due respect, April, I think you’ve taken Jesus’ speck/plank analogy out of context. In Matthew 7 Jesus is cautioning against self-righteous judgment of others, not against humbly holding brothers accountable. I’m not a trained bible scholar, so anyone here who is one please feel free to correct me on this.

    To the best of my knowledge, the men being discussed here have been privately and publicly corrected by many brothers and sisters in Christ. They have not apologized, they have not made amends, they have not turned. Scripture is replete with instructions as to what we the Church are to do with such men as these.

    I agree with you, April, that we do occasionally wade into deeper snarkiness than we should when we discuss those who are fleecing God’s lambs. I confess to you that I have done this, especially when discussing the leaders under whose authority I once sat. However, our tone doesn’t negate the fact that these men are complicit in abuse within the Church, they are preying upon the fears of the flock for profit, and they have not repented. In such cases, as far as I can tell from Matthew 18 and other Scriptures, it is proper to tell it to the Church. We’re not judging their hearts – we’re holding them accountable for their actions. Woe to us if we were to remain silent in light of what we see.

  40. April wrote:

    You do nothing but hunt the web for the supposed sins of others and post them for all to see.

    If the sins or controversies are already published on other blogs and news sites, it doesn’t make sense to criticize the people of this blog for “post[ing] them for all to see.”

    There are other spiritual abuse / discernment blogs out there discussing the very same personalities or scandals that this blog does. Do you leave posts at all of them scolding all of them?

    I don’t see a whole lot of snark at this blog, but I do see people mistaking humor interjected into a discussion as being snark.

    Sometimes people go looking for snark where it does not exist.

    For instance, some lady on here the other day under another thread misunderstood my “Duggar family have 45,323 kids” comment as being ‘snark,’ when in reality it was just me being too lazy to google to find out exactly how many kids they do have.

    It was a short hand way of me saying ‘they have a lot of kids.’ Someone chose to misread that as snark and got offended.

    The Bible says Christians are to judge those within the church.

    IMHO, one reason for this is that if Christians do not police their own, it turns off outsiders to the faith, or it turns off those who used to be Christian, can turn them into being Non Christians.

    1 Corinthians 5

    But now I am writing to you that you must not associate with anyone who claims to be a brother or sister[c] but is sexually immoral or greedy, an idolater or slanderer, a drunkard or swindler. Do not even eat with such people.

    12 What business is it of mine to judge those outside the church? Are you not to judge those inside? 13 God will judge those outside. “Expel the wicked person from among you.”

    It sounds as though you are asking Christians to disregard this teaching of 1 Cor 5, and remain silent, or look the other way, if they see Christians acting contrary to biblical teachings.

  41. John A wrote:

    Where is my post from earlier? Certainly not censored I hope. It does seem others have been posted since then.

    You are a new commenter therefore your comments went into a special screened area for new commenters. We all go to church on Sunday mornings (EST) and then we often go out to eat with friends. However, today, we went to get our Christmas tree. Once you have made it past the “new commenter” screen, the commenting process goes much more quickly unless you fall into a screening which is the”uh oh, bad word possible”screen and then you get thrown into the “must look carefully at this comment” area.

    Since you are new, let me explain something. TWW has one of the most liberal comment policies in the Christian blogosphere. We attract a wide variety of readers which include people from within the Christian faith and without the Christian faith. We hope that this openness will lead to understanding on all sides of the fence.

    We post our articles with our views and perspectives. We allow divergent opinions and even allow your two adorable blog editors to be called all sorts of nasty names. If we had a problem with your comment,we would either alert you via email (if you have left a legitimate email) or will make a comment on the blog in which we alert our readers that a comment will be withheld. Sometimes, after I get to know you, I will edit a comment to remove an offensive word but will so note that I did so. All of these actions are open to discussion offline.

    Please understand that we do not take advertisements which means we are actually paying out of our own pockets to allow people to deeply disagree with us and even call us names.

    Hope tis helps.

  42. @ April:

    What seminary training did CJ Mahaney have April? From my recollection he didn’t even finish high school. I have an advanced graduate degree in History from a prestigious university. Can I recommend removing the IV…you’ve had enough kool aide.

  43. April wrote:

    I’d like to know where you got your seminary training, because it’s not what’s taught in any reputable seminary anywhere.

    So one must go to seminary to be “biblical ©”? Missed that one somewhere. April wrote:

    og in your eye, speck in theirs–can you not see that you are presuming to judge people’s hearts and motives?

    I never speak to motives and you would know that if you read did not judge my motives. In fact, I shall say something my pastor always says and which I quote ad nauseum :
    “Even on my best days, my motives are mixed.”
    I often add that I leave up judging motivation to Someone who has a higher paygrade.

    Not only do I believe that I can never fully plumb the depths of my motivation for any action, neither do I think you can as well.

    So, I talk about what people do and say.

  44. Eagle wrote:

    What seminary training did CJ Mahaney have April? From my recollection he didn’t even finish high school. I have an advanced graduate degree in History from a prestigious university

    Funniest comment of the day.

  45. After my lengthy comment above (sorry for all the typos therein!), I want to say that I agree with Jenny that the some of the comments at TWW can sometimes “wade into deeper snarkiness.” I don’t want to do that, and I hope that I have avoided snarkiness in writing about my experiences with CHBC and the other church. I love all of those brothers and sisters in Christ. I mean that.

    I love the ones who “disciplined” me, and I love the ones who are still in touch with me, albeit rarely, and I love the ones who have been, and are, silent to me. In Christ, I still love Mark Dever, even as I lament his silent unfriending of me! I have no desire to engage in snarkiness about any of the people from my former churches.

    I’m just sad about the seeming loss of so many friends who once truly seemed to love me, even to the point of once making genuine sacrifices, in their own lives, to show me love… and, more importantly, I think that, for any people reading, perhaps silently, here, they need to be warned about how they *may* be treated at a “9 Marks-friendly” church, if they eventually come to different Christian theological/eccelesiological views (i.e. Catholic or Eastern Orthodox) and are compelled to act on those views.

  46. April wrote:

    To many, you come off as ridiculously more evil than those you seek to vilify (and to many others, as a bunch of theologically illiterate [and grammatically challenged] whiners).

    You are seriously comparing the posters here, and ladies who own this blog, to…
    child sexual abusers, or
    greedy preachers, who basically swindle church members out of their money, or
    egotistical preachers who feel it’s fine to plagiarize?

    How does one ‘villify’ a child rapist, plagiarizing preacher, or greedy preacher, or church people who excuse child sexual abuse and domestic violence?

    Perpetuating abuse against people, or covering it up, and other such topics discussed on this blog, are already evil, one does not have to make those things look evil.

    It reminds me of the time my sister told me a few years ago that she asked her vet for advice how to get one of her dogs to stop eating all the other dog’s poo (and the cat’s poo).

    He gave her a bottle of liquid stuff.

    My sister asked, “What is this for? Do I feed this to the dog?”

    He said, “No, you pour it over the dog / cat poo to make the poo unappetizing and to taste bad to the dog.”

    My sister to me:
    “Isn’t poo ALREADY unappetizing???? Why would you have to make it look or taste bad, it’s already bad to start with???”

    “Grammatically challenged”. Yes, I own that one. My subject- verb agreement has always sucked lemons. 😆

    “Theologically illiterate.” No, I don’t accept that label.

    I don’t know how you approach theology. Are you a Neo Calvinist? Many of them I’ve seen tend to assume all other Non- Neo- Cal- Christians are theologically ignorant.
    ————–
    I bet this post ends up in moderation. 🙂

    Surely some word in here, such as “poo,” will trigger the mod function, which isn’t my intent. I’ll be surprised if this post go through the first time is all 😆

  47. John A wrote:

    They also managed to display the poor grammar you eluded to. I’m not sure why I’m even writing this.

    Let me explain why this sort of comment drives me batty. And then end it with a zinger.

    I spent 5 years reading extensively on atheist website-most often at Ex Christians. Net. I tried to understand, from their words, why they left the faith. I am grateful for their education. But, one thing always drove me nuts. Someone would leave a great comment and misspell aa word or screw up the grammar. More often than not, it was due to fast typing which happens to me all the time. I am the worst offender of this.

    The people on that site would pounce on the individual, especially if they still held to a belief in God. They would go on and on about grammar, spelling ,etc and never get to the heart of the matter. So, one day, the blog editor misspelled several words in a strong response to a person who had misspelled some words. I pointed it out and was banned for a short time. (Promise-it is a true story)

    So, in keeping with my response to them let me correct your sentence. I would not have done so unless you had decided to make it an issue. You should have written the above quote thusly:

    “They also displayed poor grammar to which you alluded.”

    Now, can we get back to the real discussion?

  48. April wrote:

    Yes, Christians are called to judge other Christians, but only after taking the very big log out of their own eye–and part of that log is the pride of passing judgment from a position of relative ignorance. And, Daisy, your “we can do it because others did it first” just sounds childish.

    No, there’s nothing childish about my point. You contradicted yourself, and I pointed that out.

    Jesus warned against hypocritical judging… I myself don’t molest children, swindle people out of money, and I don’t cover up abuse or plagiarize material in books I sell for profit.

    April said,

    History is not theology. Most in the Reformed camp have multiple degrees from a variety of solid schools.

    I’m not impressed by how many degrees they have, or from what schools.

    The Bible says that all believers are priests to God, and that believers should be as little children when approaching God. The Bible does not say God respects people more based on how many degrees they hold and from what colleges, nor does the Bible teach that one must hold multiple PhDs to enter the kingdom. Several of the Apostles were not educated… they were fishermen.

    God is not opposed to education, certainly, as a few of the biblical writers apparently were educated, such as Paul and Luke. But God does not require a higher education of those who follow Him.

  49. John A wrote:

    Reading through these posts I am amazed at the confidence with which any of you reveal the motives and intentions of others. Only God knows the heart.

    OK-show me where I have judged the motives of an individual. If I did so, it would be unintended since I have a saying which I just quoted to April

    Even on my best days my motives are mixed.

    I can’t even fully understand my own motives since they are always a mixed bag. In fact, I would love to meet people who actually believe they have “pure” motives.

    Let me give you a case in point. I received a call from a reporter from World Magazine a couple of weeks back. He quizzed me about my opinion of the motives behind Steven Furtick’s church in donating money to the Charlotte community. I laughed when he asked me the question and quoted him that quote. I have no idea of Furtick’s motives in either the donations or the mansion but I can be sure of one thing. His motives are mixed.

    So, since you are the one who says I am judging the motives of people, why don’t you show me where I did so and I will apologize. But make sure you know that I am discussing the motives and not the history of actions/words of church leaders.

  50. dee wrote:

    Did you read about the baptism?

    Maybe I will be wrong, but I feel either this person is trolling, or…

    If given she is serious (and not trolling), she’s out to crucify everyone at this blog no matter what.

    No matter how many instances you point out of good that has come from this blog, it won’t register with her, or she will be hesitant to concede it, because she is on her own witch hunt, all the while accusing this blog of being on a witch hunt.

  51. April wrote:

    You do nothing but hunt the web for the supposed sins of others and post them for all to see

    April, both Jesus and Paul corrected erroneous teachings and did so strongly and publicly. When some present doctrine that oppresses, excludes, and/or marginalizes others, it needs to be corrected and exposed as false.

  52. John A wrote:

    I am disappointed in the attitude expressed here towards the Reformed crowd

    If this is about the Reformed crowd, then why do we have a pastor who is Reformed in much of his thinking do our E Church every week?!! In fact, we are roundly criticized by some websites for doing so. We have also expressed strong opinions of Ed Young Jr., Benny Hinn, Paige Patterson and on and on. So, we are equal opportunity offenders. We also wrote an awesomely nice post about David Platt.

    Oh yeah, and to which Reformed theology are you referring? It is my understanding that the theology of John Piper is not the theology of many other Reformed individuals. I know this because I have received a bunch of phone calls from Reformed seminary professors who tell me this NeoCalvinist crowd is not even Reformed in the traditional sense of the word. Roger Olson says the same thing.

    However, we thank you for letting us know about your pastor.

  53. Victorious wrote:

    You do nothing but hunt the web for the supposed sins of others and post them for all to see

    April, did you hunt the web to find us?

  54. April,

    I don’t take pleasure in hearing (or writing) about the sins of any Christian leaders (whether those sins are “public” and widely known, or “private” and lesser known, or somewhere in between). Writing about my experiences is painful, and I wish that there was no need to do it.

    People should be warned, though, about what actually happens, down on the ground, in *some* (not all!) “9 Marks-friendly churches.” They need to be warned, at the very least, that on certain matters of “church discipline,” the practice *may* contradict the preaching.

  55. @ dee:

    I notice this comes up a lot on other Christian oriented blogs too, and I cannot totally understand why Christians always feel it is wrong to judge motive.

    I can see cases where it can be harmful to do so at times. But I don’t feel it’s always wrong or improper.

    I don’t know about “judging” motive, but I sometimes wonder and speculate about motive, because I am curious as to what drives a preacher to do “X”
    (e.g., X being have an affair, be a con artist, whatever).

    I sometimes wonder and think aloud about possible motive, but only out of curiosity, not necessarily out of judgment.

    It sometimes strikes me that people who say things such as “don’t judge motive” (even if motive is not even really being judged) are doing this to shut down all criticism and discussion.

    Much like in heated political debates, inevitably, someone will bring up the “Hitler” or “Nazi” label to shut down all discussion (referred to as ).

    On some political blogs, I’ve seen this approach done by some, using the words or charges of “racism” or “homophobia.”

    On Christian blogs, the equivalent to all that is to say Christians are “judging motives,” being unloving, or are being judgmental, divisive, etc.

  56. @ April: Solid by whose definition April? If Carson overlooks Driscoll's plagiarism as a tenured prof …then the academic quality of Trinity is suspect. What about the SGM Pastors College? That's not even accredited. Current reformed theology is corrupt and it reeks of the corruption you'd find in a militaire junta in Africa or some Noriega like dictatorship in Latin America. All this corruption does is destroy faith and give atheists like Dawkins an issue. How could people who so claim to love the Gospel destroy so many people in the process?

  57. April wrote:

    Maybe I will be wrong, but I feel either this person is trolling, or…
    And that’s the whole thing in nutshell, Daisy– you feel. Much woe would be avoided if people would only think before they feel.

    I think, feel, and believe and strongly suspect that April may be trolling.

    (You are nit picking over my word choices).

  58. dee wrote:

    Anyway you can get them to change the term “complementarianism?” It is way too long and often misspelled.

    Yes, I wish they would change their label to something else. I hate typing out “complementarianism.” 😆

  59. April wrote:

    That’s what this site is all about. Interesting how no one has responded to my comments about the biblical call to seek reconciliation and to apply Paul’s words in 1 Corinthians 13. Yes, Christians are called to judge other Christians, but only after taking the very big log out of their own eye–and part of that log is the pride of passing judgment from a position of relative ignorance.

    This really works with child sex abuse. Get rid of our log in order to confront others. So, since you are quite taken with theological experts why don’t you read D A Carson(He is Reformed and has multiple degrees) who has degrees and says that we can respond publicly to those who speak publicly?

    “The sin described in the context of Matthew 18:15-17 takes place on the small scale of what transpires in a local church (which is certainly what is envisaged in the words “tell it to the church”). It is not talking about a widely circulated publication designed to turn large numbers of people in many parts of the world away from historic confessionalism. This latter sort of sin is very public and is already doing damage; it needs to be confronted and its damage undone in an equally public way.”

  60. One of my posts above is in moderation.

    My link in that post is not appearing in preview…

    Where I said, “label to shut down all discussion (referred to as ).”

    The “referred to as…” should be followed with a link to Wiki’s page about “Godwin’s law.”

  61. Just thinking…but since Mahaeney is a high school dropout and my family’s German Shorthair Pointer has finished obedience school and graduated …can one say the dog has more education than CJ ? Just asking…

  62. Eagle wrote:

    Just thinking…but since Mahaeney is a high school dropout and my family’s German Shorthair Pointer has finished obedience school and graduated …can one say the dog has more education than CJ ? Just asking…

    Yes, yes, you can! 😆

  63. April wrote:

    Still no response to my question about the biblical call to love and seek reconciliation. Telling, indeed.

    You haven’t responded to a few points I raised with you above, but you did respond with… snark. And vast amounts of condescension.

    In order for there to be reconciliation, the sinning parties would have to make amends for their sins, apologize, acknowledge them and so forth. I don’t see that happening with many of the guys discussed at this blog. Driscoll so far has not owned up to his Plagiarism, for example.

  64. April …..by all means please stick around we’d love to have you. I’ll write a longer response when I get home.

  65. April wrote:

    Still no response to my question about the biblical call to love and seek reconciliation.

    These are public matters. That is akin to saying that I did not like something Obama did, spoke about publicly and the needed to seek a meeting to seek reconciliation. Public matters can be commented on publicly. Oh, and you are doing precisely that. You are commenting on our style publicly. And I don’t feel the love so you probably need to catch the next flight to Raleigh for reconciliation. I recommend a chocolate offering.

    Pastors jump up and down, asking for us to notice them. They do not get to tell us what we notice. I look and tell you what I see. They are a “light” on a hill but sometimes that light is flickering.

  66. __

    April: “I remember just camping out Thanksgiving weekend at what appeared to be an Anti-T4G blogsite and smacking them with a word editor until my fingers were blistered and bloodied, I felt nothing….Absolutely nothing.”

    ;~)

  67. Daisy wrote:

    Maybe I will be wrong, but I feel either this person is trolling, or…
    If given she is serious (and not trolling), she’s out to crucify everyone at this blog no matter what.

    We have obviously touched on a sore spot. In fact, we have probably stepped on a sacred cow.

  68. @ Daisy:

    I also wanted to add that sort of word nit- picking reminds me of the old days when I used to talk to KJVO (King James Version Only) IFBs (Independent Fundamentalist Baptists).

    I remember telling one KJVO IFB one time,

    “So you’ve never actually read an NIV yourself, you are just trusting what Gail Riplinger and Peter Ruckman’s characterizations of it?
    “I bet if you actually read one for yourself, you’d see that the NIV is not a Satanic Bible version that omits stuff that the KJV has.”

    The KJVO IFB reply?

    His reply was along the lines of,

    “You said ‘bet.’ You bet? You support betting? You gamble??? Gambling is a sin, missy!”

    Yes, I suppose it’s very handy to focus on minor details in someone’s word choices to let their main point fly over one’s head. 🙄

    Of course my use of the phrase “I bet” had nothing to do with gambling proper and was just an expression I was using to convey my idea.

    The KJVO guy chose to focus on the “I bet” in my post and blow off my thoughts.

  69. Christopher Lake wrote:

    I’m just sad about the seeming loss of so many friends who once truly seemed to love me, even to the point of once making genuine sacrifices, in their own lives, to show me love… and, more importantly, I think that, for any people reading, perhaps silently, here, they need to be warned about how they *may* be treated at a “9 Marks-friendly” church, if they eventually come to different Christian theological/eccelesiological views (i.e. Catholic or Eastern Orthodox) and are compelled to act on those views.

    Christopher, you can add Anglican to that list. 😉 I’ve had a similar experience, though not as blatantly obvious because I couldn’t give a fig about facebook. The cessation of communication from my “friends” at my old church, once they learned of my having ambled back down the Canterbury Trail, was sobering and humbling, but it helped me in the long run. I can see now where I myself have fallen short as a friend in many regards, and I have resolved to be a better one in light of what has happened to me. I still love my old friends and former pastors, and I look forward to spending eternity with them worshiping the Lord.

    I join my warning with yours, brother. Dear ones, be mindful of the foundations of your friendships, inside and outside of the Church. Consider why others have befriended you, and examine your own heart often regarding your reasons for befriending others. In all honesty I agree with Dee that my own motives are mixed on even my best days. May God’s grace and love continue to burn away the dross.

  70. Jenny, amen and amen, on all that you wrote, sister.

    After personally experiencing both 9 Marks-style “church discipline” *and* shunning (which are actually contradictory in theory, but which sadly can coexist in practice!), I was convicted about how I could have reached out more lovingly to CHBC members whom I had witnessed undergoing the church discipline process, when I was still a member of that congregation. I didn’t go completely silent on them, but I could have reached out much more. I was wrong. Mea culpa.. Kyrie eleison.

  71. April wrote:

    Daisy wrote:

    Maybe I will be wrong, but I feel either this person is trolling, or…

    And that’s the whole thing in nutshell, Daisy– you feel. Much woe would be avoided if people would only think before they feel.

    Does it really matter if you feel before you think or think before you feel? My goodness, no one here is a robot. How do YOU know who is doing what first or second? Maybe you think Jesus handled his day at the temple turning over tables badly? Or, maybe the day Jesus wept over Lazarus he showed what an emotional mess he was?

    Please forgive me in advance if my grammar and/or spelling isn’t up to your sensibilities . . . I’m ever so thankful that God doesn’t judge anyone on their grammar or spelling!

  72. Dr. Fundystan, Proctologist wrote:

    Try being a West Ham fanatic in a country that barely knows what real football is.

    Try being a Liverpool fan (who remembers the 70’s and 80’s) in any country. It’s like following England – it’s not the despair that kills you, it’s the hope…

  73. dee wrote:

    And I don’t feel the love so you probably need to catch the next flight to Raleigh for reconciliation. I recommend a chocolate offering.

    What, no Cheetos? 🙂

  74. April wrote:

    log in your eye, speck in theirs–can you not see that you are presuming to judge people’s hearts and motives? Only God can do that. To many, you come off as ridiculously more evil than those you seek to vilify (and to many others, as a bunch of theologically illiterate [and grammatically challenged] whiners).

    Welcome to TWW, April, and I hope you don’t feel too out of place.

    You have here a very diverse audience, and a freedom to post counter-groupthink comments that will not be deleterated. I urge you to take every opportunity, therefore, to show us all how it’s done in God’s Kingdom.

  75. O.K. I expect perfect grammar from everyone from this point forward. Watch those split infinitives, run on sentences, misspelled words, and dangling participles! 😆

  76. dee wrote:

    Pastors jump up and down, asking for us to notice them. They do not get to tell us what we notice. I look and tell you what I see. They are a “light” on a hill but sometimes that light is flickering.

    “Let not many of you become teachers, my brethren, knowing that as such we will incur a stricter judgment.” James 3:1

    These pastors/authors/conference speakers/showmen cannot say they weren’t warned.

  77. dee wrote:

    We have obviously touched on a sore spot. In fact, we have probably stepped on a sacred cow.

    Sacred cow sounds yummy after three days of turkey leftovers. 😉

  78. In exposing crimes of child sex abuse & injustice within churches, sadly, April’s attitude is all too common. It’s this misguided view of “don’t judge others” that perpetuates the silence and enables the abusers and those that cover up the abuse. Protecting kids is a public matter, a public mandate in fact. That’s why there are mandated reporting laws to report even the suspicion of abuse. Pastors, churches and Christians are not excused legally because they feel they shouldn’t point out the “speck.” If you saw someone get mugged in a church parking lot, what’s your first response? Call the pastor and request a meeting to discuss the sin of the robber and how the church should handle it? Heck no! You call 911 because you saw/know about a crime. Crimes of child sex abuse by clergy should not be handled by church authorities. These are not spiritual matters. These are crimes.

    So speak out, blog, write and expose the darkness to the light of truth. That’s the best disinfectant. (Justice Brandeis)

  79. April wrote:

    Still no response to my question about the biblical call to love and seek reconciliation.

    April, the reason you find preachers criticized here is because it is THEY who have demonstrated a complete lack of Christian love and have made no effort to reconcile with those who they disagree. It is they who have acted with unrepentant greed and hid behind a wall of financial secrecy, refusing to tell their parishioners where their donations given in the name of God are going. It is they who have covered up sexual abuse in their churches and treated the victims as lepers. It is they who have demanded unquestioning obedience to their every word. To them, the only type of ‘reconciliation’ that is acceptable is that of obedience to them.

    April, if you can get Mark Driscoll, CJ Mahaney, et. al. to meet with Dee and Deb, or even engage in an honest give and take on TWW, to discuss reconciliation, I know you would a more than willing audience here. It is they who have no interest in reconciliation, not TWW.

  80. Deb wrote:

    dee,
    I wonder why this post in particular struck a nerve…

    Well . . . there are eight names on that book to defend 😉

  81. @ Bridget:
    There is no defense for the behavior of those people on the two lists. What they preach/teach is false and abusive.

  82. John A wrote:

    I frequently attend one of the largest Acts 29 churches but I won’t name names because that Pastor does not need me to defend him. Everything is about the gospel there…

    … which is great. I have no issue with those who are content to pastor the church sub-groups where they work. And even Driscoll’s “pastoral” methodology is ultimately the responsibility of the Mars Hill leadership and wider membership.

    This blog, however, was not started to comment on those who are content to pastor where they are, but on those who are not content to do so. That is, those who either abuse (and not all abuse is sexual) and prey on those entrusted to them, and then try to silence them; or those who want authority over the entire body of Christ.

    I will be glad to learn whatever I can from you while you’re here; but I do trust that you and April (with whom you seem to’ve formed a team of sorts) will start to prioritise more important things than grammar and seminary training. At least one of them has proven to be a development area for both of you. Besides which, some of those who actually authored the New Testament demonstrated a conspicuous lack of learning. If, like them, you have been with Jesus, it will show.

  83. @ dee: I live in a dairy farming area, and smiled at the image of stepping on a cow, if only because it’s a lot easier for them to step on us than the other way ’round!;-)

  84. @ dee:
    Thanks for the explanation. @ dee:

    I also admitted I’m not a great writer so it should be no surprise that I constructed a sentence incorrectly.

    Good luck April. I’m not gonna try to duke it out with the folks here any longer. We are out numbered and they seem to have their minds made up. They say they don’t judge motivations of others, they are judging the fruit. They have answers for everything and they seem to gang up on dissenters. It’s not worth it. I respect some of the posters here. I have had private conversation with some of them and shared very personal information, you know who you are. I would just say that the broad brush of condemnation to the “calvinistas” is unfair and not very Christlike. I pray for healing for victims, justice for offenders, and grace and mercy for all of us.

  85. John and April,

    The “judging motives” shitck is getting old. It might work in the cults but not here for the most part. There is plenty to discuss with the very public words and actions of what passes for “servants” in Christendom these days.

    Perhaps like many in these cultic followings of the gurus you are outraged that any would dare to have a serious problem with your favorite guru. I get that. It is everywhere. Lots of following man out there instead of Christ. Wjy on earth did He promise the Holy Spirit if your guru is acting as HS for you?

    The biggest danger to your soul in drinking the kool aid is enabling evil. When you support T4G you spit in the face of those who were molested at SGM and say they do not matter. You are endorsing blackmail and also making bank off Jesus. And yes, we will answer for that enabling evil big time. You have been charitably warned.

  86. April, John, appreciate your comments.

    I’ll share a bit of my experience and how TWW is having the opposite effect it strains for on me.

    Until quite recently I was part of a church that was a very conservative church in a liberal denomination. A few weeks ago the church went into discernment to see if we should do something expressly forbidden by God in the Bible. The thinking there seems to be that we get to pick and choose, and if we think God didn’t have all the facts 2000 years ago, or if we think what God said is “unkind” we just dispense with it.

    We left, unwilling to do that and amazed anyone would think that way. Now, disagreeing about what the Bible says is one thing, just chucking it if we have a better idea (we think) is another.

    So today I was in one of those overtly conservative Wesleyan Holiness churches. Wonderful people, truly serving God. And then came the sermon. UM, really, dude? Telling us NOT to use scripture passages with seekers that actually give the simple gospel? Not to tell them all of us are sinners and need saving from hell because “most people today find that offensive?” Just invite them to come to church, be our friends, and join the church?

    It hit me like a ton of bricks between the eyes what many of those branded “evil” on TWW are talking about. Oh sure, some of them may be just plain nutso but so are some Arminians, believe me!

    But ignoring the nutso folks on both sides, we seem to have only the Reformed crowd still unwilling to bow to “keeping everyone happy.” I’d rather hear the truth–even if it hurts and offends me–than wind up in a sinner’s hell.

    And that, in a nutshell, seems to be the issue. TWW started out with noble intentions to aid victims of toxic churches and spiritual abuse. It has morphed into just about the most toxic and abusive site around in the comment stream. The noble goal of letting all have a fair say has become a site where so many seem to want to top the others in just plain old rank meanness.

    I wonder how many would stand and read their comments about others to Christ?

    But TWW has done something wonderful for me: it has pulled off the blinders, challenged me to study harder than I ever have before, and shown me the Reformed crowd are the ones, IMHO, getting it right. When we buy the idea salvation is not ALL of God and His grace, we soon get caught up in trying to be popular with everyone. We try to happy them into heaven.

    UM, no. We aren’t so gosh darn neato God owes us a place in His heaven. We are truly vile in comparison to His holiness and have nothing to plead except the shed blood of Christ.

    And that Christ did indeed tell us that what is in the heart comes out of the mouth. Frightening thought if that includes sarcastic, cynical, snarky comments about people we have never met on internet websites.

    But I’m grateful for the eye opening!

  87. @ linda: I think you might be misunderstanding most of us here – and maybe what was being said at the church you visited today, but then. I’m not exactly convinced that hellfire and brimstone are the basis of the Gospel. cf. Jesus’ words on the two greatest commandments (and much else). ironically, Pope Francis just took on some of the same topics, calling the church to love and serve before all else.

    as to the ELCA, I think you and all the rest of us need to follow our consciences. though I disagree with you on some issues, I respect your decision to leave.

    best to you,
    numo

  88. @ linda: I was unduly sharp in my reply to you yesterday, I think.

    sometimes the best thing is to agree to disagree and follow one’s convictions. I genuinely wish you well.

  89. @ linda:

    You said,
    “The noble goal of letting all have a fair say has become a site where so many seem to want to top the others in just plain old rank meanness.”

    I find this terribly ironic.

    I have perceived your attitude towards me, and unmarried adult women in general, to be very rude, condescending, catty, mean, and supportive or sympathetic to, insulting stereotypes against single women.

    You also have misconstrued a comment or two by me as being “snarky,” when they were not; you just took them the wrong way.

  90. @ Nick Bulbeck:
    Fair enough Nick. Maybe I’ll stick around for a while. I have indeed “been with Jesus” and I hope it shows. I of course am a work I progress.

    The Acts 29 Pastor I spoke of is fairly prominent. He is an author and frequent conference speaker. Despite his high profile I am convinced his flock is his top priority. I also believe he lives a humble lifestyle. If I named the name I believe many here would express negative opinions of him. I may be wrong about all that. This man may disappoint me someday but I have no reason to think that at this point.

    I also believe he plans to scale back his speaking schedule and distance himself from some of the more questionable elements of that crowd.

    There is much to be concerned about in reformed circles, fundamentalist circles, and every other circle. To make blanket statements about “Calvinistas” just seems misguided and unfair.

  91. __

    “Watz Da Beef?” (Live@7)

    hmmm…

    Deb: “I wonder why this post in particular struck a nerve…”

    Bridget : “Well . . . there are eight names on that book to defend.”

    ____

    Proverbial summary:

    The Wartburg blog seen as Having Singled Out C. J. Mahaney For Harsh Treatment.

    The Wartburg Watch blog seen as Having A Disappointing Attitude(s) Toward(s) The Reformed Crowd.

    The Wartburg Watch blog seen as Presuming To Judge People’s Hearts And Motives.

    The Wartburg Watch blog is seen as Da Sin Police While Sitting In Smelly Poo…

    The Wartburg Watch blog is seen as Just About The Most Toxic And Abusive Site Around In The Comment Stream.

    (Fill in the blank…)
    (Fill in the blank…)
    (Fill in the blank…)
    (Fill in the blank…)
    (Fill in the blank…)
    (Fill in the blank…)

    -snicker-

    *

    Whew! (did somebuddy say burgers…I’ze a hungry!)

    —> praying for ‘healing’ for da church victims, ‘justice’ for dem peskey pastoral offenders, and ‘mucho grace’ and ‘splendid mmmercy’ for all of ‘rest’ of us?

    Yehaaaaaaaaa!

    *

    and now for da Sports…

    (grin)

    hahahahahaha

    Sopy

  92. linda wrote:

    we seem to have only the Reformed crowd still unwilling to bow to “keeping everyone happy.

    Only the Reformed crowd is not bowing to the culture at large??? Oh good night! You have got to be kidding. Plagiarism, affairs, money, patriarchy…you are so wrong. They bow and act just like everyone else.The problem is not “correct” theology. It is a sinful heart which affects the Reformed crowd just as much as anyone else.

  93. @ dee: but they get (and generate) more media attention than 99 & 9/10ths per cent of the rest of us, so they *must* be right! (by the Almighty Market’s standards, anyway…)

    /sarcasm

  94. @ linda:

    Thanks Linda! I appreciate your comments and I am praying that you will continue to grow in your faith as you pursue God thru his word. Please pray the same for me.

  95. @ Sopwith:
    You are far too clever for me but I get the feeling you take issue with something I wrote. Your gonna have to spell it out for me a bit more clearly. I don’t speak or read “sop”.

  96. linda wrote:

    We aren’t so gosh darn neato God owes us a place in His heaven. We are truly vile in comparison to His holiness and have nothing to plead except the shed blood of Christ.

    Never, ever forget that He loves that *vile* you very, very much. You bear His image. He wants you to be in heaven. He is in the business of offering a way for you to be with Him. He is definitely not in the business of finding ways of keeping you out.

  97. @ numo: That is the case. Today has been interesting on this blog. We have two new commenters who suddenly showed up and pitched the same fit with some of the same words. Then, there is the “Reformed” as the only true church not bowing to culture. Interesting how Acts 29 came into the picture in it all.

    We did say something about doing a post on a tragic fail of an Acts 29 takeover. The people involved are willing to go on record with their names. We even have access to church credit card charges that are simply amazing.

    I wonder if this has something to do with the coming story. Marginalize us as awful people who do not understand the true godliness of this group of people? But, of course, we are just mean, vile snarky, unbiblical people who simply do not *understand* as deeply as they do. Yawn…we have been called worse. Still waiting to be called an Amalekite.

  98. @ Sopwith: I could use a hot fudge sundae just about now. Yep-TWW is just getting too big for its britches. Mean, nasty awful, awful, awful……???

    Is it Acts 29 or SGM or a little of both. Same tactics, same words, same old, same old.

  99. numo wrote:

    I think you might be misunderstanding most of us here – and maybe what was being said at the church you visited today

    How kind of you to only suggest that she MAY have misunderstood something considering the fact that you weren’t there! I think this is progress and a great example for much of the WWW group. I mean you almost gave her the benefit of the doubt!

  100. @ dee:
    I assure you it doesn’t. You give me far too much credit. I do not speak for Acts 29 or represent them in any way.

  101. King David is a perfect example of a biblical leader who had great theology and a rotten life: cover-up artist, liar, adulterer, murderer, etc.

    God raises up prophets who stood tall against the kings in the Bible, both the good ones and the bad ones, to hold them accountable. David got an earful from Nathan and did the right thing, but his life went downhill from that time on. There aren’t a lot of inspiring sermons on David’s old age, loss of “abilities,” and death.

    In the Bible, we see a lot of leaders who started with great intentions and did not finish quite so well.

    The Lord knows that leaders cannot be given carte blanche. It’s clear in both Old and New Testament that we must speak up and hold them accountable.

  102. linda wrote:

    It hit me like a ton of bricks between the eyes what many of those branded “evil” on TWW are talking about. Oh sure, some of them may be just plain nutso but so are some Arminians, believe me!
    But ignoring the nutso folks on both sides, we seem to have only the Reformed crowd still unwilling to bow to “keeping everyone happy.” I’d rather hear the truth–even if it hurts and offends me–than wind up in a sinner’s hell.

    Linda, I’m curious– do you think that all Christians necessarily must be either “Reformed” or “Arminian”? From your comments above, that appears to be your view. Please correct me if I’m wrong about that.

    I am neither Reformed nor Arminian. I have actually been each at different points in my Christian life– first, an “Arminian” Baptist, and then, a “Reformed” Baptist. However, there is a very big world of Christianity outside of the categories of “Reformed” and “Arminian.” Those are specifically Protestant categories, and many, many millions of Christians, in America and around the world, do not fit into those categories– and those Christians, too, believe that salvation is “all by God’s grace.”

    As a Catholic, I believe that salvation is all by God’s grace. The Catholic Church teaches it. I was told otherwise as a Reformed Baptist. I was told that the Church teaches Catholics to “trust in their own righteousness to save themselves,” and for a long time, I believed what I was told. However, I eventually learned that I had been given misinformation (by pastors whom I choose to believe don’t know any better). There is a big, big world of Christianity outside of the “Reformed” and “Arminian”– and that world is *not* completely comprised of people who are just teaching what itching ears want to hear. My priest is definitely not doing that.

  103. Janey wrote:

    King David is a perfect example of a biblical leader who had great theology and a rotten life:

    David wrote Psalm 51 after that incident. I’d suggest you read it.

  104. Deb wrote:

    @ Eagle:
    Just for clarification, Mahaney did earn his high school diploma and attended college briefly I believe.

    Deb…thanks for calling me on this error. I appreciate it. I don’t want to repeat a falsehood or say something that is untrue. Since CJ graduated from high school I guess he’s one up on my family’s German Shorthair Pointer. Now what happens however if the dog goes to training school for hunting and graduates. Is that a tie between CJ Mahaney and Liesel?

  105. John A wrote:

    David wrote Psalm 51 after that incident. I’d suggest you read it.

    John A,
    I’ve read that Psalm many times. What’s your point?

    King Dav

  106. John A wrote:

    To make blanket statements about “Calvinistas” just seems misguided and unfair.

    John, the blanket criticisms you read here are directed at “Calvinistas”, please note that those in this group a only a subset of Calvinism, it is not directed at the whole. Here’s Dee and Deb’s definition from The Basics section of TWW:

    Calvinista: These are Calvinists gone wild. They are self-important, self-assured, and absolutely convinced that they know what the Bible says on every subject. They also believe anyone who doesn’t agree with them is utterly wrong. They spend lots of time running around to conferences, getting together with other guys (women have no place in this discussion) who also agree with them 100%. In fact, they spend more time speaking at conferences than pastoring their churches.

    TWW calls out greedy and abusive non-Calvinist preachers with equal fervor.

  107. John A wrote:

    David wrote Psalm 51 after that incident. I’d suggest you read it.

    You have just made my point. David had Nathan who confronted him. His theology was good but in spite of his good theology, he had an affair, an illegitimate child and killed Uriah. Thanks to those who called him on it, he had to repent, even more so after God ordained for the infant to die.

    So, when pastors plagiarize, hurt other people, hide pedophiles, build mansions while insisting the little guy tithe, and they do all of this in full view of the public, then we have something to say.

    I am sure you have a great church and that your have a fine pastor who might one day give up the conference circuit. Good for you. Perhaps you can read the stories of others who have not been so blessed by a wonderful pastor and pray for them.

  108. John A wrote:

    Janey wrote:

    King David is a perfect example of a biblical leader who had great theology and a rotten life:

    David wrote Psalm 51 after that incident. I’d suggest you read it.

    I don’t understand your response to Janey. There is nothing in the Psalm that contradicts what she wrote. Most people have read that Psalm. You never know, she may have even read it more times than you and I put together.

    I do hope you can judge those on this blog as individuals and not as one mass.

    I must say that some of your comments come across as condescending. That is just one person’s (me) feeling.

  109. Okay the meatloaf from Wegmans is in the oven.

    Linda, April, John A…. I would say that the mess in The Neo-Reformed camp is awful. Its sad because it could have been something helpful, authentic and beautiful. SGM could have been a healthy magnificent ministry. Many Acts 29 churches could be helpful and beautiful. Plus…the spiritual condition of the country is a mess. You have networks like Trinity, false faith healers, and then you also have the Emergent crowd. So the faith system is a mess. Trust me on this…I spent years as a raging agnostic (some say atheist) talking about how Christianity is a cancer. I went to the Reason Rally on the National Mall and listened to Hermant Mehta(Friendly Atheist) Greta Christina and Richard Dawkins to name a few.

    But lets be honest. The reformed camp has blown it! BLOWN IT! What could have been beautiful and healthy instead became the Reformed Industrial Complex. You have pastors who plagiarize (Driscoll) and others who led an organization who covered up sexual abuse with a history of blackmail. And when it comes to the sexual abuse please don’t give me the CJ didn’t know crap. He ran CLC and SGM in the same way that Brigham Young ran Utah. In both situations you couldn’t tie your shoe without his permission.

    My recommendation for you guys is to save face and confess. None of the Reformed leaders have a Nathan. Actually what has happened due to the lack of a Nathan is that corruption has become enabled and a sacred cow. At least in Kenya, Bolivia, Mexico, Afghanistan, etc… when corruption is practiced its transparent. You don’t see the President of Kenya claiming how much he is sanctified while engaging in some aspect of corruption.

    So you could have had something beautiful, refreshing, and healthy. Instead you have something ugly, corrupt and decadent. In my good conscious I can not overlook the rape of a child just so I can be around a few cool people my age. Likewise I can not overlook spiritual manipulation and abuse. The stories of repeated and horrific abuse at SGM Survivors is unbelievable. And to the Happymoms, Noels, and others…I will not be their Judas.

    But before you guys engage culture and the faith…why don’t you clean up your house first. Harvest Bible Chapel, SGM, etc.. should not be run like Tammany Hall or Mayor Daley’s Chicago. Act like Christians and mature. I would have a difficult time being involved in a faith network which was founded by a guy in a prolonged 30 case of puberty. Mark Driscoll needs to grow up. He’s a fraud…just like Mark Dever and CJ Mahaney.

    When I was in agnosticism/atheism your camp is what I thought of when I raged about Christianity being a cancer.

  110. @ linda:

    It hit me like a ton of bricks between the eyes what many of those branded “evil” on TWW are talking about. Oh sure, some of them may be just plain nutso but so are some Arminians, believe me!

    FWIW I don’t remember anyone here ever claiming that there was no such thing as a nutso Arminian and only Calvinists are the problem. Granted neo-Calvinists are the focus here, and there’s a legitimate problem in the comments with pile-ons on Calvinists. But no one’s ever said that Arminianism had no problems.

    We aren’t so gosh darn neato God owes us a place in His heaven. We are truly vile in comparison to His holiness and have nothing to plead except the shed blood of Christ.

    True, but all strains of orthodox Christianity teach this, even classical Arminianism (note I said classical Arminianism, not the “Jesus-shaped-hole-in-your-heart” version). I second the commenter above who issued the reminder that Christendom is not divided into Calvinists and Arminians.

    But TWW has done something wonderful for me: it has pulled off the blinders, challenged me to study harder than I ever have before, and shown me the Reformed crowd are the ones, IMHO, getting it right. When we buy the idea salvation is not ALL of God and His grace, we soon get caught up in trying to be popular with everyone. We try to happy them into heaven.

    Glad you’ve come to your own conclusions, but what happened to me in the neo-Calvinist-influenced Reformed church was that I discovered you couldn’t beat and guilt people into heaven with a cat-o-ninetails, either, and over secondary issues at that. After 3y of that, I seriously needed to be told that Jesus loved me and died for me, which is something I never doubted growing up in the Lutheran church. When your church makes you question whether Jesus loves you, it’s time to find a new church. Which is exactly what I did (went back to the LCMS). (And BTW I grew up ELCA so I get where you are coming from on that front, if the issue you alluded to above is the one I suspect.)

    Not sure I can get behind the idea that the neo-Calvinists are the only ones not bowing to culture, and I think “toxic and abusive” is going too far, but maybe YMMV. Personally I think the comments section has improved greatly since the filters were put on. TWW has pointed out lots of valid issues with these guys, it isn’t all just snark. Not saying TWW is perfect, not by a long shot. But the legitimate issues cannot be ignored.

    There is also the perennial problem (on both sides) of “snark” and condescension being in the eye of the beholder, depending on who’s being criticized. If anyone, on either side, can propose a solution to this or a surefire way to discern the difference, then you will win the genius prize of the universe.

  111. __

    @ dee

    Yup. You got it:

    http://ts1.mm.bing.net/th?id=H.4775029887076975&pid=1.9&m=&w=300&h=300&p=0

    hmmm…

    Jesus said where ever two or more are gathered in His name, there He is.

    *

    top of the fifth…

    Batter up!

    (grin)

    “As for those pastors who persist in sin, coddle them in the presence of all, so that the rest may stand in awe.”

    -Calvinesta  SOP?

    (sadface)

    Sopy
    __
    Comic relief: Abbott & Costello,  ‘Who’s on first?’
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J_gSWTQKE-0&feature=youtube_gdata_player

  112. @ John A: You misconstrued that comment. I have been trying to “talk” with Linda for many months now, but we never seem to get anywhere. My mention of the ELCA is part of that ongoing conversation.

    which you, not having been here, did not know about.

  113. @ John A: err, make that deliberately misconstrued.

    I find the sudden influx of negative comments “interesting,” too – “interesting” in the sense of the chines proverb (more like a curse), “May you live in interesting times.”

    Hmm.

  114. @ Christopher Lake: iirc (from previous convos), linda is – or was – a member of the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America, which is neither Calvinist nor Arminian. (am a member myself, though I must confess to having some leanings toward the Church of England….)

  115. @ Eagle: I have thought several times of starting a Capitol Hill Baptist Church blog to warn those who might get sucked in there and to encourage those who have made it out by the grace of God and those who need to make it out by that same grace. However, I’m just one little lady, and I wouldn’t know where to begin… Thanks for your thoughts, by the way!

  116. John A wrote:

    David wrote Psalm 51 after that incident. I’d suggest you read it.

    Wow. Self-righteous much?

    Sheesh. Get a grip and make your arguments and whatever points you think you may have. Otherwise you just sound like a vindictive dweeb who has no real point at all except be ugly to people you don’t agree with.

  117. @ John A:
    Oh, John, snarky, rude, condescending AND with acronym mistake as well as missing punctuation. We need April back to remind you of those things on which you completely agreed with her earlier in this thread. April? Paging April!

    Funny thing, being human, isn’t it?

  118. Patrice wrote:

    Oh, John, snarky, rude, condescending AND with acronym mistake as well as missing punctuation. We need April back to remind you of those things on which you completely agreed with her earlier in this thread. April? Paging April!

    Still trying to figure this one out. Acts 29? SGM?

  119. @ Eagle: I’m new here- sorry for my green, but I’d love for any input as I am trying to find an online place for me right now. Online in the sense of a community much like this one (SO glad I found you all!!!). I’ve heard of SGM Survivors, and you mentioned a couple others in these posts, but has anyone heard of a group or blog for survivors of the current Together for the Gospel movement and all of its branches (including 9Marks, etc., etc.)- survivors who would still ascribe to what often passes as reformed theology? No offense intended to any of the posters here, and I’m watching myself to make sure I don’t sound condescending (because, believe me, I’m *probably* for real the chief of sinners), but I interpret the bible in a way that probably most aligns with evangelical, paedobaptist, reformed believers …. Yes, a lot like Ligon Duncan and the Presbyterian Church in America (PCA), but I’m very distressed at his extremely uncritical continuing association with Together for the Gospel folks. In fact, my ideal church would be a combo of the PCA and an evangelical Anglican church, but I really digress (sorry). Anyway, so yeah, if anyone on here can suggest outlets for me as someone who would love to work from within a generally reformed perspective to try to “reform” the supposedly “reformed”, please let me know. Blessings to all, and thanks for your consideration!

  120. @ dee: Sorry, I don’t know how to make a general comment to all people, so I made the comment below as a reply to Eagle (which was not appropriate, probably). Maybe you can help me- original comment from me below:
    I’m new here- sorry for my green, but I’d love for any input as I am trying to find an online place for me right now. Online in the sense of a community much like this one (SO glad I found you all!!!). I’ve heard of SGM Survivors, and you mentioned a couple others in these posts, but has anyone heard of a group or blog for survivors of the current Together for the Gospel movement and all of its branches (including 9Marks, etc., etc.)- survivors who would still ascribe to what often passes as reformed theology? No offense intended to any of the posters here, and I’m watching myself to make sure I don’t sound condescending (because, believe me, I’m *probably* for real the chief of sinners), but I interpret the bible in a way that probably most aligns with evangelical, paedobaptist, reformed believers …. Yes, a lot like Ligon Duncan and the Presbyterian Church in America (PCA), but I’m very distressed at his extremely uncritical continuing association with Together for the Gospel folks. In fact, my ideal church would be a combo of the PCA and an evangelical Anglican church, but I really digress (sorry). Anyway, so yeah, if anyone on here can suggest outlets for me as someone who would love to work from within a generally reformed perspective to try to “reform” the supposedly “reformed”, please let me know. Blessings to all, and thanks for your consideration!

  121. JeffT wrote:

    Calvinista: These are Calvinists gone wild. They are self-important, self-assured, and absolutely convinced that they know what the Bible says on every subject. They also believe anyone who doesn’t agree with them is utterly wrong.

    “In the Devil’s theology, the most important thing is to be Absolutely Right and to prove everyone else to be Absolutely Wrong.”
    — Thomas Merton, “Moral Theology of the Devil”
    http://thegroundoffaith.net/issues/2008-10/Merton.htm

    Also contains this gem (remind you of anybody?):
    “The devil has a whole system of theology and philosophy, which will explain … that God created evil and that He directly wills that men should suffer evil. According to the devil, God rejoices in the suffering of men and, in fact, the whole universe is full of misery because God willed and planned it this way.”

  122. @ JeffT:

    Thanks for sharing what appears to be TWW’s official definition of “Calvinista”

    I quote:

    “These are Calvinists gone wild. They are self-important, self-absorbed, and absolutely convinced that they know what the Bible says on every subject.”

    I’ll give you self assured but what is your method for determining if someone is self important? Seems quite subjective to me. Also how do you know they are absolutely convinced they know what the bible says on EVERY subject? This type of over generalized language seems common here.

    “They also believe anyone who doesn’t agree with them is utterly wrong. ”

    Now we get into what they believe but don’t necessarily say, is that right? Again, how can you possibly know this? At the very least you should consider modifying the language of this definition to reflect the subjectivity of it.

    “They spend lots of time running around to conferences, getting together with other guys (women have no place in this discussion) who also agree with them 100%.”

    So does this apply to anyone who does a lot of conferences or only if they do them with guys they agree with 100%? What if it’s 99%? Or 37%? Driscoll for one often disagrees with his “buddies” at these conference. Take the Elephant Room for example. There was open disagreement on various issues.

    “In fact, they spend more time speaking at conferences than pastoring their churches.”

    Literally more time or is this exaggerated language? How about a guy that speaks at a conference in Canada on a Saturday morning then returns to his home church 1000 miles away that afternoon then preaches 4 services on Saturday night and Sunday morning combined. Does that sound like a Calvinista?

    My point is that your criteria is subjective, unverifiable, exaggerated, and absurd.
    I know some are tired of the argument but you cannot judge the hearts motives or intentions of these men with such a broad brush approach.

  123. John A wrote:

    I know some are tired of the argument but you cannot judge the hearts motives or intentions of these men with such a broad brush approach.

    Some judgment of motive may come in play. But mostly it’s judgement of wrong actions and shady dealings.

  124. Mara wrote:

    criteria is subjective, unverifiable, exaggerated, and absurd.

    Actually, the posts here stick to the issues (unlike you), and well documented, and a breath of fresh air in comparison to the stale hot air blown about by Calvinistas.

  125. I do not believe that the recent new commenters missed all of the commentary here on Furtick and the earlier comment on Young, Jr., neither of whom are reformed, Calvinist or neo-Calvinist! TWW is equal opportunity. Dee and Deb publish posts on malfeasors and misfeasors in all stripes of Christianity, wherever abuse occurs, whether it is “If you don’t agree with my theology, you’re going to hell.”; tolerance of sexual abusers of children, mistreatment of abused children, abuse of “church discipline”, abuse of the church budget to create a life-style like the CEOs of Fortune 100 companies for a controlling pastor (btw an oxymoron — if the person controls the church, they are by biblical definition not a proper pastor!!!), and, finally, “if you don’t agree with my understanding of scripture, you don’t believe the Bible”, which is arrogant, unChristian, and contrary to the teaching of the Savior.

    And Dee and Deb, as well as commenters here, have all welcomed those who disagree, so long as they are polite and don’t condemn people for disagreeing. There are few Christian blog sites that allow for disagreement. Check out the TWW blog section on “my comment was deleted” which applies to blogs that refuse to allow comments that disagree.

    So exercise the freedom that TWW provides, within some rules of decorum — don’t condemn people for disagreeing, and don’t defend pastors who abuse or coddle abusers and expect not to be challenged over what flavor of kool aid you have been being served by such abusers/coddlers of abusers.

  126. mimi wrote:

    group or blog for survivors of the current Together for the Gospel movement and all of its branches (including 9Marks, etc., etc.)- survivors who would still ascribe to what often passes as reformed theology?

    mimi – You sound a lot like me-me! 🙂 Sorry, but I couldn’t resist. As a former SGM’er and most recent drop-out of a 9Marks knock-off in Dubai I would say you have probably found the place.

    I would also like to mention that I can second what Christopher Lake stated earlier in his dealings with 9Marks/Dever. Much of what he wrote sounds eerily familiar to me. I emailed the elder board at United Christian Church of Dubai in early March 2013 advising them I was resigning my membership due to issues of conscience having to do with their continued support of Mahaney. Prior to that email I had frequent email exchanges with the senior pastor (a former associate pastor at CHBC) and met him for lunch several times. Since my resignation I have had zero communication with the senior pastor, he has dropped me as a friend on FB and he has avoided me in public. Perhaps this type of behavior is taught by Dever to his interns??? Similar to what Mr. Lake encountered, I still have a few friends from UCCD, and am happy to see our friendship had roots that couldn’t be severed by my church choice. I also found it disturbing that it took 6 months for UCCD to remove me from their membership roster. They take membership very seriously, but apparently not so serious that they bother notifying you when they finally get around to approving your removal. I received word of my removal from a friend who was at the membership meeting – to date nobody on the church staff or elder board has told me! I am now attending an Anglican church and find it refreshing. It is evident the pastor loves the Lord. If I were in the USA I would probably be attending a Presbyterian church as my views of polity and baptism have evolved into the positions they hold, but there are no Presbyterian churches in Dubai. I am quite soured on the whole “membership” thing as portrayed by 9Marks devotees. I believe in the importance of being part of a local body, but not membership as portrayed by 9Marks. And I should add that Dever and Mahaney both push formal membership, one of the reasons is for accountability and church discipline. We saw a clear demonstration of how that plays out when Mahaney fled his church and was embraced at CHBC. A classic example of do what I say, not as I do.

  127. Christopher Lake wrote:

    There is a big, big world of Christianity outside of the “Reformed” and “Arminian”– and that world is *not* completely comprised of people who are just teaching what itching ears want to hear. My priest is definitely not doing that.

    Right you are, Christopher. I was relieved to finally realize that God is much bigger than the box I’d learned to put Him in. (Yep, ended that one with a preposition. English degree = license to twist grammar rules at will).

    At my old church we were taught that there are only two ways of looking at the sovereignty of God: their way and the wrong way. In the NC camp gray doesn’t exist. They never consider that anything could be “both/and”. If they admit that there are any gray areas their belief system falls apart. I personally know several young people from this church who are currently going through major faith crises because they’ve discovered the world isn’t as black and white as their parents and their church taught them it was.

    And before April, John A. or Linda jump all over me let me just say that I sat for nearly twenty years under the teaching of a man whose name is on the cover of that book at the top of this page. Oh, and I knew his father, too. Just because I have grown to disagree with some of his teachings doesn’t mean I’ve abandoned Christian orthodoxy or orthopraxis and trotted off to join a pagan drum circle.

  128. @ John A:

    numo: I think you might be misunderstanding most of us here – and maybe what was being said at the church you visited today

    John: “How kind of you to only suggest that she MAY have misunderstood something considering the fact that you weren’t there! I think this is progress and a great example for much of the WWW group. I mean you almost gave her the benefit of the doubt!”
    ++++++++++++++

    John A,

    why so mean? you don’t even know numo. i’m a bit taken aback. you seem polite in some comments, but to show up out of the blue with something like this?

    i somehow think you’re better than this.

  129. Jenny & TW-

    Your posts caused me to reflect on something I had not thought of before. The harm that Mark Dever/9 Marks poses to evangelicalism is deep. I’m trying to say this in a way that makes sense and its not insulting to either of you. Beyond people like yourself being hurt the problems that are being created can be devastating in many ways. There are pluses and minuses to both Catholicism/Anglicanism and Catholic centered faith systems. Evangelicals have their pluses and minuses. Having grown up Roman Catholic when I reflect on it the strengths of Catholicism are

    1. Lack of celebrity preachers
    2. Worship services that are balanced between Eucharist/Homily/Readings
    3. Less legalism in regards to alcohol, tithing, etc…
    4. Faith practice that is very inclusive (except closed communion…I consider this to be a major downfall to Catholic forms of faith) that allows people of all ages and stages of faith to gather together for worship.

    That’s all fine and dandy and some people like that kind of worship. And for many it works well. But it also needs to be acknowledged that this style of worship is not for everyone. One of the things that drew me to Evangelicalism that I still like is good preaching. It could be expository to good laid out sermons. The Roman Catholic church is not known for sermons or teaching from the pulpit in the same way that Protestants are known. Despite all the wonderful benefits the Catholic church has this area is a major weakness. Please understand…I have deep respect for the Catholics and look at them firmly as brothers, but this is a weakness that the Catholic faith has.

    So what happens if you like preaching, or that style of worship but you find yourself in a manipulative, harmful church that forces you out the door? Or puts you in a situation where you have to choose between staying or leaving? So this situation is created that results in people leaving maybe a form of worship they like for something they may not enjoy as much. Or perhaps out the door to practice nothing.

    This is the reason why I get so angry over how this crap has affected the Evangelical Free Church of America. Because if I had my way the EFCA is where I would prefer to engage but due to how some of this crap has affected the EFCA on the Virginia side of the Washington, D.C. area I realized that this was not a viable option.

    So you force people away into traditions that maybe they don’t want to be in, but have little choice or they decide to practice nothing. This is a harm that evangelicalism is needlessly doing to itself. So in addition to Mark Dever harming good folks like yourself, it also is deeply destructive to evangelicalism. And that division is so needless and unnecessary.

    I don’t know how else to say it….Mark Dever is a fraud. The do as I say not as I do bull&&^%$ that he teaches is awful. And for all the crap that comes out of CHBC it begs the question…for all the “Biblical” knowledge they have…how can they glance over James 3:1.

  130. @ Eagle:

    eagle — one of the biggest surprises of my life was to discover that people who practice no religion or other religions are kinder, better at friendship, more honest, more generous, are much better at being contributing citizens of their communities, have happier marriages than those who go to church and call themselves Christian.

  131. Jenny wrote:

    Right you are, Christopher. I was relieved to finally realize that God is much bigger than the box I’d learned to put Him in. (Yep, ended that one with a preposition. English degree = license to twist grammar rules at will).

    Hmm… I only have an English “O”-level, but it seems to me that “in” is equivalent to “into” and would be an adverb in this context. So you were safe.

  132. dee wrote:

    Still trying to figure this one out. Acts 29? SGM?

    SGM/Acts29 are like tweedledee&tweedledum to me, I’m sure because I’ve never been a member in either group, nor known any who were until I met TWW and commentariat. These two have the manner of Seneca.

    In my book, condescension is never ok and it’s inherent in hierarchical belief systems. Bah

  133. John A wrote:

    My point is that your criteria is subjective, unverifiable, exaggerated, and absurd.
    I know some are tired of the argument but you cannot judge the hearts motives or intentions of these men with such a broad brush approach.

    OK-now I am getting weary of your statements like this. Either put up or shut up. Tell me exactly where I have judged the motives of people. I have asked this of you already and I am not going to start off my week with you starting up with this again.

    I have said it before, and I will say it again one more time, I don’t judge motives because it is impossible. Only God can do that. I look at words that people say and actions that they take. Frankly, none of us can fully judge our own motives, including you.

    You are beginning to sound like a broken record, repeating the same thing over and over. Such repetition either involves an agenda, an inability to clearly communicate, or something that I, who have been blogging for awhile, cannot figure out for the life of me. Please answer my questions or clearly state your case. Let this serve as a warning. Either you give us examples or you will go into permanent moderation. Your comments will be approved, but in my own good time.

  134. linda wrote:

    . A few weeks ago the church went into discernment to see if we should do something expressly forbidden by God in the Bible. The thinking there seems to be that we get to pick and choose, and if we think God didn’t have all the facts 2000 years ago, or if we think what God said is “unkind” we just dispense with it.

    They went into “discernment to see if we should do something expressly forbidden by God in the Bible”?

    How does a church ‘go into discernment’? What on earth did they decide to do?

  135. @ dee:

    For example, I do not know why so many Calvinista/YRR/Neo Cals have promoted and defended Mahaney/SGM. Each most likely has their own reason and peer pressure could play into it for some. Who knows?

    That is NOT what is important. What is important is what has happened over the last 2 years in that movement concerning Mahaney and what they have done. Some of it is so obvious as to be embarassing for their followers to be so naive.

    Motives do NOT matter one bit. But what is DONE and said matters. And we have every right to judge it. The difference is caring about children being molested or NOT. The difference is enabling sin so one can follow their guru.

  136. Patrice wrote:

    These two have the manner of Seneca.
    In my book, condescension is never ok and it’s inherent in hierarchical belief systems.

    I do not ind people coming here and totally disagreeing with a particular stance that we take. That is one of the reason we blog. Our thoughts are open to the entire world to critique.

    However, there are some people who troll the internet, trying to disrupt communication by making broad based comments designed to inflame. Also, there was a little exchange yesterday that caused me to surmise that some visitors might be here to disrupt. I was talking with some internet savvy folks last night about the little dustup regarding grammar and spelling. This should have raised red flags immediately. This is a typical tactic which is designed to raise hackles and get the conversation off subject.

    The subjects which they discuss are amorphous “You have a log in your eye” “You are mean.” “You judge motives.” They never give an example. It is a form of labeling that is utilized by some who cannot defend their ideas or their affiliations so they stomp their feet and try to make something stick.

    Si, I have decided to intervene and cut this nonsense out now. I call it “death by moderation.” They will get approved after I do my laundry, make turkey soup and play with my pug dogs.

  137. Anon 1 wrote:

    Motives do NOT matter one bit. But what is DONE and said matters.

    I have been trying to say this. Who cares what motives Driscoll had for lifting D A Carsons words. Did he or didn’t he? Apparently Mefferd has some more examples which she will share on air today.

  138. Anon 1 wrote:

    They went into “discernment to see if we should do something expressly forbidden by God in the Bible”?
    How does a church ‘go into discernment’? What on earth did they decide to do?

    She wrote off an entire movement with one visit to a Wesleyan church? She should come to Raleigh. I can show her 3 such churches which toe the line. Now, they are not Reformed which, for some, means they are not Christians. They may not call people vile or compare them to worms since they know that God loves His children. But, they understand sin and preach the Gospel.

    Her final remarks betrayed her thinking. Only Reformed theology is standing up to the culture. Every one else is screwed up and not biblical©.

  139. elastigirl wrote:

    John A,
    why so mean? you don’t even know numo. i’m a bit taken aback. you seem polite in some comments, but to show up out of the blue with something like this?
    i somehow think you’re better than this.

    He does. But, he is going to be put in “death by moderation.” he will be approved but when I get around to it unless he settles down.

  140. __

      T4G is implying by their blatant actions that their Scriptural criteria is subjective, unverifiable, exaggerated, and absurd.

    What?

    …tired of the arguing for the ‘truth’?

    huh?

      Supporting C.J. Mahaney (AS A PASTOR OF THE BODY OF CHRIST) is no longer scriptural. This support is a blatant violation of Holy Scripture. 

      You can determine these ‘so-called-proverbial-T4G associated pastors by their actions; that they have missed the proverbial scriptural boat by their support of ‘those’ pastors who blatantly violate the sensibilities of Jesus, and His written word; with His Father in Heaven concurring; – also by His written word. 

      Dr. Devil may give these proverbial-501(c)3-snakes-in-da-bloomin’-grass, a free-pass-o-sortz, but God’s written Word simply and equivocally, does not!

    (…ask JonnyMack, he will tell you!)

    (sadface)

    Sopy

  141. Patrice wrote:

    In my book, condescension is never ok and it’s inherent in hierarchical belief systems. Bah

    I don’t know Patrice. Sometimes it is the only language some understand. In my experience at ground zero, it is the language of the YRR/Calvinista crowd coming out of SBTS. It is all they know and understand. It is how they have been indoctrinated. They, for the most part, do not handle disagreement well. Not a lot of critical thinking skills in that movement. It works well. Convince someone you have the “true Gospel” (works to convince them that others think they know the gospel but really don’t) This puts you in a special club. And it is a great movement of peer pressure and appeals to psuedo intellectualism across many lines from Piper to T4G to TGC to fringe wackos like Doug Wilson/Doug Phillips.

    But in reality, it makes very little sense in practical application unless you are willing to concede that your thoughts/actions are not your own but controlled by God. That is why it is doctrine over people and condescention is a must. It is the only way it works. It does not do well in practical application.

    If you read Quiet Revolution by Ernest Reisinger, you will see what I mean. Pay attention to chapter 4. Most YRR have not heard of this book but it’s principles have permeated the YRR movement for 30 years. Its tactics are one reason that movement is so prevelant now.

    The entire neo Cal movement was built on deception and indoctrination. The internet helped it take off and is now helping to bring much to light as people analyze the behavior and the teaching coming from not only the leaders but the followers, too.

  142. @ Anon 1:

    Good comment. I feel a litter better about my once in a while condescending tone. It seems that when I ever do it in return to the leaders in question it seems the that the lesson I learn is that condescension is only wrong on my end because I don’t have the ‘authority’ to use it.
    Speaking of condescension someone commented that they think TWW is acting the part of the sin police. I think that TWW discusses those who claim to be the sin police. TWW to me discusses abuse, a type of sin of course. I believe ALL human beings no matter what the religion should be abuse police.

  143. John A wrote:

    My point is that your criteria is subjective, unverifiable, exaggerated, and absurd.
    I know some are tired of the argument but you cannot judge the hearts motives or intentions of these men with such a broad brush approach.

    John, all you’ve done so far is nitpick, claiming TWW paints with a broad brush. Yet, you never interact with the interact with the specific criticisms made by TWW against specific individuals. If what TWW stands for is so wrong, then its specific criticisms of specific individual celebrity preachers should be faulty, yet you fail to point out any specific instances where TWW’s criticism of a particular individual is wrong.

    Instead, you try to deflect by treating a general definition of “Calvinista” as some sort of detailed checklist used by TWW. For example, you stated:

    “In fact, they spend more time speaking at conferences than pastoring their churches.”

    Literally more time or is this exaggerated language? How about a guy that speaks at a conference in Canada on a Saturday morning then returns to his home church 1000 miles away that afternoon then preaches 4 services on Saturday night and Sunday morning combined. Does that sound like a Calvinista?

    No it does not, so point me to an instance where TWW has criticized an action like this as being Calvinista.

    If TWW’s definition of “Calvinista” is so flawed, then please point me to specific criticisms of specific individuals made by TWW that were wrong based on this ‘faulty’ definition.

    More to the point, you obviously are defending some particular unnamed individual who you somehow believe fits into TWW’s definition of “Calvinista”. Yet your description of this individual would lead one to believe that is not the case. That may very well be so, and I haven’t seen where anyone has made the charge that your unnamed individual is a ‘Calvinista’ based on your description. If there is an individual who you believe is falsely labeled as a ‘Calvinista’ by TWW, then quit beating around the bush and say who it is you’re talking about and why you think they are maligned by what is said on TWW. I think most of us that interact here on TWW would be happy to engage in a rational discussion of the issue.

    Finally, you play the old “you cannot judge the hearts motives or intentions of these men” card. The fact is it can be done “‘Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing but inwardly are ravenous wolves. You will know them by their fruits”. (Matthew 7:15-16)

    So when a celebrity preacher travels with an entourage, shows up at a rival conference and records video of himself delivering a load of his books (then claiming they were ‘confiscated’ by security), and criticizes radio interviewers who raise difficult questions of attempting to ‘exercise authority’ over him, if that’s not evidence of self-importance, I don’t know what is.

    TWW is about exposing spiritual and financial abuse by specific persons who claim to be Christian ministers. So let’s get down to cases and discuss specific individuals who you claim are unfairly treated by what TWW posts.

  144. Eagle, Jenny, TW, and mimi,

    It’s interesting.. I still have *some* good memories of my time at Capitol Hill Baptist Church, and I still care about the people there, as much as their shunning of me hurts… but the more that I reflect on certain things that are taught and/or lived out there, I’m coming to see that there was (and maybe still is), at least sometimes, a cult-like mentality at CHBC.. When one finds oneself being utterly ignored (or even “unfriended”) by supposed friends, because one has had a sincere change of theological/ecclesiological conviction, after a time of serious prayer and study, that is not a good sign. I know that, in their eyes, because I am Catholic, I am just as much of a “mission field target” as a Muslim or an atheist, but in a way, that makes my point. If they truly love me, shunning is not the answer. I would rather have conversations in which I am strongly challenged than to be shunned. Challenge, and even rebuke, can be forms of love (sometimes)… Shunning is just unloving, especially when I haven’t harmed any of them. Why not engage the poor lost Catholic “revert”? (I joke, but I’m only half-joking.) Perhaps one answer is that some of them don’t want to have to be faced with a Catholic who knows the Bible, and has studied church history, and who can challenge *them* on certain aspects of *their* belief and practice? I don’t know… but I wonder about it sometimes.

    Jenny, it absolutely blows my mind that so many of your old friends would drop you because you became *Anglican*! I have never heard anyone say that Anglicans are not Christians… what an extreme viewpoint! So sad.

    Everyone, I’m going to be out of town for most of this week and may not have much access to the internet. Take care, and I’ll try to catch back up when I can! Have a good week! God be with you all!

  145. Patti wrote:

    It seems that when I ever do it in return to the leaders in question it seems the that the lesson I learn is that condescension is only wrong on my end because I don’t have the ‘authority’ to use it.

    Bingo. They are big on “authority”. Without it, they have no doctrine over people. And let’s face it, when one trots out the bible as their authority, one is merely saying ‘my interpretation’ or my guru’s interpretation.

    No, the key is the indwelling Holy Spirit that puts love for people first, always. And Justice is loving. And we CAN have justice here and now for those who have been spiritually abused and for those children molested at SGM. Where are those who hate such things instead of sweeping them under the YRR rug? Where is the love for those so used and abused by the great ones?

    Note that in their dogma it is believed that those children who were molested at SGM were just as big of sinners as the molesters. That is the fruit of this movement. In fact, note what some of the commenters here really think: speaking of these evils is more sinful than the evils done to others. How about that one. I hear this all the time at ground zero.

    Driscoll was honest enough to call it “sinning by questioning”.

  146. dee wrote:

    Her final remarks betrayed her thinking. Only Reformed theology is standing up to the culture. Every one else is screwed up and not biblical©.

    “Hooray, hooray for the One True Way,
    The One True Way, the One True Way,
    Hooray, hooray for the One True Way,
    It’s the song of lobotomized fandom!”
    — local D&D filk song from a Seventies flamewar

  147. @ TW:

    So, you think Truman is trying to rehab his image after proclaiming Mahaney fit for ministry? Why not just admit he was wrong publicly?

  148. P.S. “WE are the Only Ones standing up to The Culture” adds Star Wars: The Roleplaying Game to the D&D reference. (West End D6 or WotC D20 system, take your pick.) The Truly Reformed as Luke Skywalker, leading the Rebel Alliance against the Evil Empire. With all the rest of us as Stormtrooopers, Red Shirts, and other mobs of arcade targets.

  149. @ Amy Smith:

    Amy, It is a shame Jared Moore has not the integrity to ask Mohler or even Mahaney “a few questions”. But he would not dare. They get the YRR pass.

  150. Anon 1 wrote:

    So, you think Truman is trying to rehab his image after proclaiming Mahaney fit for ministry? Why not just admit he was wrong publicly?

    I wonder the same thing as well. Trueman has made it a hallmark of his teaching to warn against the dangers of celebrity ministry, the dangers of preachers who lack adherence to any kind of formal creed they are bounded by, and now plagiarism. Everything that he’s said on these subjects is excellent and very worthwhile advice. Yet in declaring CJ Mahaney to be fit for the ministry is completely contrary to everything he has said on the topic and makes him look like a hypocrite. I too would very much like to hear him defend his report on CJ Mahaney and how that squares with what he has taught.

  151. Anon 1 wrote:

    @ Amy Smith:
    Amy, It is a shame Jared Moore has not the integrity to ask Mohler or even Mahaney “a few questions”. But he would not dare. They get the YRR pass.

    And it’s a shame no one among the SBC buddies of Jack Graham will ask him any questions either about Langworthy and other perps he has failed to report. Peter needs to apply the same standard to his SBC buddies as he does to Mahaney. Or is this not really about wanting to protect children? There are many stories of abuse within the SBC, not just with SBC ties like SGM.

    From SNAP:

    http://www.snapnetwork.org/mo_abusive_baptist_preacher_goes_on_trial_snap_responds

    At least four girls say Rev. Travis Smith of Stover (near Jefferson City) molested them. Smith goes on trial today. We hope his victims get justice and we hope Smith is convicted and imprisoned so that kids will be safer.

    http://www.connectmidmissouri.com/news/story.aspx?id=978162#.UpyPe8RDuDp

    http://www.stltoday.com/lifestyles/faith-and-values/fate-of-baptist-pastor-accused-of-abuse-is-in-the/article_f4f2f71c-b0cf-555f-94b1-76d79cc191c3.html

    Shame on the misguided and reckless members of First Baptist Church of Stover who are choosing, despite four alleged victims and six felony charges, to keep Rev. Smith on the job. This is stunningly callous behavior. It’s also a severe misreading of the notion of forgiveness. We can forgive wrongdoers without putting others at risk.

    Forgiveness is a private decision. Paying a credibly accused serial child molesting cleric is a public act, and one that is inexcusable. The two should never be confused.

  152. Anon 1 wrote:

    Patrice wrote:
    In my book, condescension is never ok and it’s inherent in hierarchical belief systems. Bah
    I don’t know Patrice. Sometimes it is the only language some understand. In my experience at ground zero, it is the language of the YRR/Calvinista crowd coming out of SBTS. It is all they know and understand. It is how they have been indoctrinated. They, for the most part, do not handle disagreement well. Not a lot of critical thinking skills in that movement. It works well. Convince someone you have the “true Gospel” (works to convince them that others think they know the gospel but really don’t) This puts you in a special club. And it is a great movement of peer pressure and appeals to psuedo intellectualism across many lines from Piper to T4G to TGC to fringe wackos like Doug Wilson/Doug Phillips.
    But in reality, it makes very little sense in practical application unless you are willing to concede that your thoughts/actions are not your own but controlled by God. That is why it is doctrine over people and condescention is a must. It is the only way it works. It does not do well in practical application.
    If you read Quiet Revolution by Ernest Reisinger, you will see what I mean. Pay attention to chapter 4. Most YRR have not heard of this book but it’s principles have permeated the YRR movement for 30 years. Its tactics are one reason that movement is so prevelant now.
    The entire neo Cal movement was built on deception and indoctrination. The internet helped it take off and is now helping to bring much to light as people analyze the behavior and the teaching coming from not only the leaders but the followers, too.

    Interesting you refer to Ernie Reisinger. I have not read that book of his – what’s the jist of chapter 4?

    We spent several years with his brother, John (and his wife), in a small fellowship about 10 years ago. From what I remember, Ernie thought John went off the deep end because John believed Christ was our Sabbath rest and didn’t hold to the ideas of Law like Ernie did. He basically refused to discuss these issues with John. Pretty closed-minded about it. Both were madly in love with Christ and his Gospel of grace, though. No doubt.

    I’m not sure either would agree with your ideas that God “controlled” their thoughts and actions. From what I’ve heard/read – they seemed to uphold personal responsibility. That each of us are responsible and held accountable for our own actions, without holding God liable, in any way shape or form, for our sinful choices.

  153. Anon 1 wrote:

    So, you think Truman is trying to rehab his image after proclaiming Mahaney fit for ministry? Why not just admit he was wrong publicly?

    Anon – I don’t know. I like what Jeff said in the comment just above this. Trueman has a very sharp mind and I love what he says on most things, but I too have problems with his taking part in that panel of three and the ensuing declaration that Mahaney had done nothing to disqualify him from the ministry. I certainly wish he would never had signed on to that and I wish he would revisit the issue now.

  154. Eagle wrote:

    Christopher …..did you get an email from Dee?

    I got the e-mail and tried to reply. I hope that it worked; my e-mail has been having issues. Dee, please let me know if you and Deb received my reply! Thanks! 🙂 I’ll be back later this week, Lord willing!

  155. JeffT wrote:

    Everything that he’s said on these subjects is excellent and very worthwhile advice. Yet in declaring CJ Mahaney to be fit for the ministry is completely contrary to everything he has said on the topic and makes him look like a hypocrite.

    Rank Hath Its Privileges.
    Especially when you factor in Correct Doctrine (i.e. Purity of Ideology) and Predestination.

  156. @ ken:

    Ken, read the book. I think you can find it for free online. Most likely Founders website. If Chapter 4 does not bother your sense of integrity then we have nothing to discuss further. I had heard the brothers had a huge falling out.

    And most Neo Cals preach/teach/believe total Sovereignty controlling every molecule 24/7 but then say they don’t when questioned closely saying we just do not understand. We were not given the decoder rings to understand them.

  157. @ dee: Your friends are right, and you’re wise to let these sort of commenters stew in their own juices while you get on with your life!

  158. @ dee: Shew wrote off the ELCA, dee. She’s been very upfront about her problems with the ELCA over the past few months.

    As a lifelong member of the ELCA, I have to say that using phrases like “go into discernment” is entirely alien to the denomination – iirc, she came from an evangelical (low church) background prior to joining the ELCA.

    But that’s neither here nor there; writing off an entire denomination on the basis of something that’s left up to each individual congregation is (imo) not a good idea – even if the matter in question tends to be divisive. There are likely other ELCA churches that would “work,” and certainly more than a few congregations have left the ELCA entirely and set up their own “Bible-believing” synod over the past few years.

  159. @ dee: It’s really odd for someone from a Lutheran background to divide up the world into Calvinists and Arminians. Looks like Kool-Aid drinking is involved.

  160. I have been aware of this site for several years but don’t visit often. I may have commented once or twice in the past. Recently, someone I follow on Twitter shared a link to this article. of the 8 men named on the cover of that book I admire and respect several of them. In my previous visits to this site I noticed the use of the term “calvinista” and also noticed that some (many) here often criticize men I respect.

    I am not up to speed on the CJ Maheny issue. I don’t know much about the man and I haven’t followed the story closely. I say that because I want to make it clear I am not here to defend him.

    I am also quite dismayed at the recent antics of Mark Driscoll including the Strange Fire incident which I can only conclude was a publicity stunt and now the accusations of plagiarism.

    Mohler is a bit too stuffy for me, and MacArthur is too dispensationalist. I’m very familiar with Piper and to a lesser extent Sprohl and I respect them greatly. I don’t have strong opinions about the other 3 but may follow them on Twitter.

    I have my own story of church abuse. I have shared my story privately with a frequent poster here, the same person who tweeted the link. That person has encouraged me to share that story publicly. While I do believe my family and I have been wronged by a powerful celebrity Christian I have decided not to air that dirty laundry for various reasons.

    If I defend the “calvinistas” it is because I have found refuge in a local Acts 29 church that is led by one of the men that has at times been criticized here. He is apparently not at the top of TWW’s radar but I’m pretty sure many here would lump him right in with Driscoll etc.

    I find the approach of this church refreshing in comparison to the SBC megachurch. I trust the Pastor based on close observation of his preaching, leadership, and even his social media presence.

    I think many here are too quick to put labels on people and to lump them all together. Just my opinion I guess.

    As for my story, maybe I can tell it without too many details. I was away from the Lord for over 20 years. Raised in the IFB churches and I rebelled against that and all that it entails. Upon moving across the country then returning to the faith I was enamored with the local SBC megachurch. It served it’s purpose and as I grew in faith I began to have questions and I wasn’t always satisfied with they way they were received or addressed. I began to question some actions of the leadership. I met with a minister for a while and things settled down. We became friends but got to the point where I think we just couldn’t trust each other enough to speak our minds. Several months later a fellow church member gained media attention for his attempts to ask questions, that story was covered here. This issue was the last straw in many ways. I gave this a lot of thought and concluded that my issues with this SBC church fall into 4 main categories, money, politics, theology, and “member relations”. I have tried to express my concerns in various ways and just keep running into brick walls. Fellow members seem to be drinking the kool aid and don’t want to here it. I have been labeled a troublemaker. I have managed to get blocked by my own Pastor on Twitter with no explanation or offer to discuss it. I admit I have made mistakes in the way I have tried to express my concerns and ask questions but the questions remain.

    As I said earlier, I have found refuge in a Reformed Acts 29 “Calvinista” church and I love most everything about it. No church is perfect of course but this is the right one for us right now.

    Some of the ways we were hurt at the megachurch are too personal to share here. Suffice to say that we have seen the ugly side of organized religion. I’d like to think that I am more aware that the typical church goer at this point so accusations of being a kool aid drinker or blind apologist hit hard.

    I am working through forgiveness. I could make blanket statements about my previous Pastor. I could say he is power hungry, selfish, arrogant, stubborn, in bed with the GOP etc. I could say he only cares about this or that and he doesn’t care about ordinary members. The thing is, I don’t believe that and I can’t know his heart. I want to believe it when I’m angry, but the truth is probably more complicated. Only God knows his heart. I believe he is a sinner like me. I believe he has a tough job. I believe he has probably compromised in ways that he isn’t proud of. I believe the temptation to enjoy the finer things in life is powerful and easily justified. I believe he experiences pressures that I can’t imagine. I am convinced the man loves the Lord and his primary goal is to make him known. We disagree about tactics, style, theology, politics, but I cannot make him out to be a villain but I also cannot sit under his teaching. On one level I have lost respect for him, on another level I can relate.

    I hope this helps explain where I am coming from and why I have responded the way I have to some of the comments here.

  161. numo wrote:

    @ dee: It’s really odd for someone from a Lutheran background to divide up the world into Calvinists and Arminians. Looks like Kool-Aid drinking is involved.

    I don’t deal well with that dichotomy at all. It seems to be a way to frame the convo/debate. You HAVE to be in either camp. It is myopic to say the least.

  162. @ JeffT:

    Sorry, I won’t name him because he deserves a better defense than what I can provide. I respect the man that much. See my previous post for more information.

  163. @ dee: Hitting people over the head with Chick-tract-like discourses on eternal damnation doesn’t strike me as typical of Wesleyan approaches to telling people about the basics of the Gospel.

    In fact, I’d venture to guess that maybe the church in question was attempting to get people to back down from that kind of thinking, but hey… I could be wrong! 😉

  164. Jon A

    You continue to make comments without examples. You claim TWW is judging the motives of people. If I did, then tell me so I can apologize because I have no idea why someone does wht they do. When I ask for an example, I do so with a purpose. I tire of generalized criticism. When I write, I give specfics along with links, etc. You did not give us any-just expressed “feelings.” You are guilty of what you say we do at TWW. 

    I do expect an answer to my questions. This is a moderation rule. I don’t do it to embarrass you. I do it because I am concerned about your comments. If you do not wish to give me the answer, then there is little reason for you to continue to comment.

  165. Anon 1 wrote:

    @ ken:
    Ken, read the book. I think you can find it for free online. Most likely Founders website. If Chapter 4 does not bother your sense of integrity then we have nothing to discuss further. I had heard the brothers had a huge falling out.
    And most Neo Cals preach/teach/believe total Sovereignty controlling every molecule 24/7 but then say they don’t when questioned closely saying we just do not understand. We were not given the decoder rings to understand them.

    Found and read chp 4 online, like you said. Thanks. Brought back memories (bad and good) of when we were in that circle.

    I was several years into questioning that style of leadership at the time (had gotten all of Searching Together’s back issues), and remember asking John at lunch about how leadership in Scripture seemed to be very different than what the Reformed Baptist taught and practiced. His response was something along the lines of “there will always be a pecking order and a big dog in the family of God”. Now, he didn’t come across as being a big dog by any means, but, imo, a lot of the people he associated with did (in their own circles of fellowship).

    Thankfully, I can look back now and see how that deviation from the truth wreaked havoc on body-life in many of those churches. Yes, it was often “my way, or the highway”. Lots of people got the life sucked out of them. Lots of form without life. Lots of bruised egos of those in leadership.

    Having said that, I still am thankful for the years we spent there with John as we grew more in love with Christ in more ways than one. We were just a handful of misfits getting together in order to know Christ more.

  166. John A (and other similarly-frustrated readers),

    I understand why you feel your hair raised a bit. The actions, motivations, and associations of your pastor (who is the same as mine, in John A’s case…he hasn’t said who, but I can tell) are challenged by someone who you may think “has it all wrong.” It hurts you. It confuses you. To some degree, you may feel that your entire “belief system” is challenged by guilty association. Those were some of my initial reactions as well.

    But iron sharpens iron, right? And the sharpening process causes sparks, right? Please remember that the sparks are a very good thing.

    In my case, this blog has been extremely valuable and edifying, and here’s why: I came to understand that there has been legitimate hurt and pain caused by some of the “targets” of criticism. Is all of the hurt and pain caused by malicious intent? Perhaps not, but there is an awful amount of smoke for there to be no fire. And, in my opinion, some of the fires are obviously burning in confirmation of the smoke.

    So the more I thought about it, the more I concluded that the hurt and pain caused to those who are yearning for Christ bothered me much more than my initial feelings of defensiveness. And I have felt so guilty and shamed that I didn’t feel that way in the first place.

    John A – I share your opinion that our pastor is a good and sacrificial man who loves the Lord deeply. I have known him (not closely, but also not from afar) for a long time, and have witnessed this to be true in both private and in public. His life bears the fruit and evidences of his beliefs. I believe this is also generally true of the staff and leadership at our church (at least those with whom I have had contact).

    BUT

    Don’t let this blind you. I have learned things on this blog (and others similar to it) that have opened up my eyes to things that I was previously unaware of. Things that have been given more prominence in my prayer life, such as the sexual abuse cover-ups in SGM and at Prestonwood, the unbelievable treatment of dissenting voices at various churches, and the incredible amount of decisions and life-choices that seem to be driven by greed (just to name a few).

    So here is where I have landed:

    I want to ask our pastor about some of these issues. I would like to know why there has been no public condemnation of some of these events. I can understand that there may be a desire to keep reproach private. I can understand where there might be concerns of immediate lines being drawn between previously-unified groups. BUT – I have become convinced that the truth is more important than any of that. At the very least, I would LOVE to hear a declaration that sounds something like this from our pastor:

    “Yes, I am aware of [insert the topic]. I have been aware of it for some time, actually. The details provided by those who have been hurt are alarming and concerning, and I cannot stand the fact that proclaimers of God are causing the people of God to feel pain, grief, and despair. While I don’t know all the details of the situation, since I’m not directly involved, it does weigh heavily my heart. I urge [offending Pastor X] to address this matter publicly, since the concerns and accusations against him are also public. More harm is being done by silence on this matter than by direct response. If there truly is no malice, then it should become evident as details emerge. But if there are sinful underpinnings, then the cause of Christ will be exalted by the truth shining through. Until the matter is addressed, I feel that it would be wise and prudent for me to hold back from appearing at conferences and events with [Pastor X] – not because I am convinced that he is guilty, but because I am more concerned with Christ’s reputation than I am concerned with his.”

    I know that it is much more complex than I’d like to think. I don’t expect to ever hear this. But the one thing I’d like to at least hear is “why not?” Why the silence? What are the reasons that everyone charges onward together, pretending (publicly at least) that none of this is happening? In my opinion, this shrouds all of the organizations involved (T4G, Acts 29, the Reformed community, SBTS, the Gospel Project, just to name a few) in a cloud of distrust and concern. And that’s not fair to the lives and ministries of those who are involved with those groups that are NOT guilty.

    Above all, John A (and others), don’t give up, and don’t stop reading and learning. God LOVES you. He also LOVES everyone on this blog. He certainly loves those who have been hurt by his church! Be open-minded and truthful to your faith, and seek to have a heart like Christ.

    Sincerely and whole-heartedly,
    A Fellow Brother

  167. ken wrote:

    His response was something along the lines of “there will always be a pecking order and a big dog in the family of God”. Now, he didn’t come across as being a big dog by any means, but, imo, a lot of the people he associated with did (in their own circles of fellowship).

    Thanks for sharing your experience, Ken. I fear what you wrote above became the most important thing in that movement all these years later. And worse, deception became institutionalized in that movement if you read the counsel of chapter 4. Deception FOR God. Think of it. The blasphemy of it.

  168. John A wrote:

    I am working through forgiveness. I could make blanket statements about my previous Pastor. I could say he is power hungry, selfish, arrogant, stubborn, in bed with the GOP etc. I could say he only cares about this or that and he doesn’t care about ordinary members. The thing is, I don’t believe that and I can’t know his heart. I want to believe it when I’m angry, but the truth is probably more complicated. Only God knows his heart. I believe he is a sinner like me. I believe he has a tough job. I believe he has probably compromised in ways that he isn’t proud of. I believe the temptation to enjoy the finer things in life is powerful and easily justified. I believe he experiences pressures that I can’t imagine. I am convinced the man loves the Lord and his primary goal is to make him known. We disagree about tactics, style, theology, politics, but I cannot make him out to be a villain but I also cannot sit under his teaching. On one level I have lost respect for him, on another level I can relate.

    John, I am sorry to say but if that is your belief after what you claim about the mega pastor guy then you are ripe for another even more cultic type of situation. And yes, Mega churches have tons of thought reform tactics that are cultish.

    If you cannot make him out to be a villian using Jesus to gain fame and fortune after what you said then pray tell, what all can we do in the Name of Jesus? Sheesh! I know you think what you are saying sounds loving but I think it sounds “enabling”.

  169. @ A Fellow Brother:

    Thank you for your comment. We are here to proclaim the truth to the very best of our understanding. It has not been easy, but Dee and I believe with all our hearts that we are doing what God would have us to do. She and I could be doing so many other things, but we believe our Heavenly Father has called us to this task.

  170. John A wrote:

    I hope this helps explain where I am coming from and why I have responded the way I have to some of the comments here.

    John:

    I appreciate your heart-felt response. Your experience at your previous church are what TWW is all about – warning people about churches who demonstrate that authoritarianism, greed, and extreme doctrines have resulted in the oppression of its members and wealth and power to the celebrity preacher. For those Calvinist preachers TWW labels them as ‘Calvinistas’, and non-Calvinists who demonstrate the same behavior have been equally criticized here – although they have not yet been given a label.

    Driscoll’s antics and position as founder of Acts 29 does raise red flags. But the fact that Driscoll is no longer head of Acts 29 may mean that Acts 29 has distanced itself from him – I don’t know and have no opinion one way or another on a particular Acts 29 church, I just haven’t looked at the issue that closely. Thus, I, myself, have no opinion on your particular church and do hope you have found one where your spiritual growth is nurtured in accordance with what Jesus teaches us and does not demonstrate the greedy and abusive practices talked about here. That’s really all any of us here are looking for.

  171. @ Deb:

    Deb/Dee – please know that there is much gain from what you are doing. You may not receive much thanks, not that you are looking for it, but it is my opinion that your intentions are pure in trying to serve our God. It is certainly not always pretty, and there have been a good array of cringeworthy comments, but I have come to realize that it doesn’t have to be pretty to be useful – in fact, it’s usually the opposite. Truth is hard sometimes, and we are all so good at constructing idols that we hate to see destroyed.

    I pray that Christ is at the forefront of our discussions – thank you for your dedication to His children.

  172.   __

    (Live@3) “How To Kill a TWW Blog Conversation In Just A Few Easy Lessons?

    What?

    Just spread the following proverbial ‘ideas’ in the blogosphere? :

    (the following taken here from a proverbial summary of a few ‘insightful’ drive-by well-meaning comenters: 

    hmmm… (might wanna put your coffee down…)  -snort-

    ____

    Proverbial summary: (to date…)

    The Wartburg Watch blog seen as Having Singled Out C. J. Mahaney For Harsh Treatment.

    The Wartburg Watch blog seen as Having A Disappointing Attitude(s) Toward(s) The Reformed Crowd.

    The Wartburg Watch blog seen as Presuming To Judge People’s Hearts And Motives.

    The Wartburg Watch blog is seen as Da Sin Police While Sitting In Smelly Poo…

    The Wartburg Watch blog is seen as Just About The Most Toxic And Abusive Site Around In The Comment Stream. 

    The Wartburg Watch blog is seen as promoting an easy beleiveism, come join us, come to  our e-church, be our friends…

    The Wartburg Watch blog is seen as Arminians Nutsos.

    The Wartburg Watch blog is seen as an Anit-Reformed, Hate Group.

    The Wartburg Watch blog is seen as Willing To Bow To Modern Culture to “Keeping Everyone Happy.”

    The Wartburg Watch blog is seen as Opening The Gatz-O-Hell Swallowing Up Proverbial Ignorant Sinners Like So Many Jellybeans.

    The Wartburg Watch blog is seen as A Waste Facility Full Of Vinous and Moral Toxins Abusing Internet Sensibilities.

    The Wartburg Watch blog is seen as Just Another Proverbial Religious Dog-Pile.

    The Wartburg Watch blog is seen as A Competition In Just Plain Old Rank Meanness.

    The Wartburg Watch blog is seen as Saying Things That Would ‘Offend’ Christ Himself.

    (to be continued?)

    *

    …stat tuned, hellfire n’ brimstone @ five.

    (grin)

    hahahahahahaha

    Sopy

  173. @ Anon 1:
    I think it’s forgiveness. I’m not saying everybody should immediately advance to the same level or forgiveness I have reached regardless of what they have suffered through. I do understand how it could be perceived that way and to Fellow Brother’s point I will be more sensitive to those who are hurting. I do think we are called to forgive, even if the offender doesn’t apologize. Forgiveness is a process but “vengeance is mine says the Lord”. If I somehow have that wrong please explain.

  174. @ A Fellow Brother:

    “It is certainly not always pretty, and there have been a good array of cringeworthy comments, but I have come to realize that it doesn’t have to be pretty to be useful – in fact, it’s usually the opposite. Truth is hard sometime”
    ++++++++++++++++++++++

    a Spinal Tap moment:

    “We’re very lucky in the band in that we have two visionaries, David and Nigel, they’re like poets, like Shelley and Byron. They’re two distinct types of visionaries, it’s like fire and ice, basically. I feel my role in the band is to be somewhere in the middle of that, kind of like lukewarm water.”–Derek Smalls (Harry Shearer)

    –Derek Smalls has many philosophical companions in Christian culture. i’ll take fire and ice any day.

  175. moelastigirl wrote:

    I feel my role in the band is to be somewhere in the middle of that, kind of like lukewarm water.”–Derek Smalls

    I think he also said he is the glue that holds the moving parts together. Most people don’t get that one, I love it.

    BTW the nice thing about being in moderator prison is I get a chance to correct my typos. Post this version and not the previous one please : )

  176. @ dee:

    Only Reformed theology is standing up to the culture. Every one else is screwed up and not biblical©.

    The more I thought about this today after checking in with this thread this morning, the more it got under my skin. (God bless my poor mother who was trapped at the lunch table with me during said process.) Not only is the world not divided into only Calvinists and Arminians, the idea that only the Reformed are the True Guardians of the Gospel and everyone else is preaching some namby-pamby watered down version, is a patent falsehood, but just about every Calvinist I know in person believes it in some form. Thank goodness I know other Calvinists through TWW and other sites who do not, or I would have been sorely tempted to write them all off.

  177. Anon 1 wrote:

    And worse, deception became institutionalized in that movement if you read the counsel of chapter 4. Deception FOR God. Think of it. The blasphemy of it.

    I must be extra slow today, but deception as it relates to his ideas and teachings of “reforming” a church? Sorry I missed it. I appreciate your insight.

  178. __

    “The Day the ‘Church’ Stood Still?”

    hmmm…

    Khristós… Khristós..

    ahem! (…what were those words anyway?!?)

    “Khristós barada nikto…”
    “Khristós barada nikto…”
    “Khristós barada nikto…”

    Whew… (dat was close…).

     -snicker-

    ;~)

    But the kind folk  marveled, saying, What manner of Man is this, that even the winds and the sea obey’d him, the dead hear His voice and arise, even the bowels of death could not keep him…

    What?

    (fastforward)

    …And he was clothed with a vesture dipped in blood: and his name is called The Word of God.

    huh?

    …And He shall rule the Nation(s) ; the angel of light subdued under His feet.

    Yahooooo!

    Whoooooo is this man?

    Sopy 

  179. dee wrote:

    You continue to make comments without examples. You claim TWW is judging the motives of people. If I did, then tell me so I can apologize because I have no idea why someone does wht they do. When I ask for an example, I do so with a purpose. I tire of generalized criticism. When I write, I give specfics along with links, etc. You did not give us any-just expressed “feelings.” You are guilty of what you say we do at TWW.

    I do expect an answer to my questions. This is a moderation rule. I don’t do it to embarrass you. I do it because I am concerned about your comments. If you do not wish to give me the answer, then there is little reason for you to continue to comment.

    dee, I’m sorry but if you want me to name his name I won’t. He deserves a better defense that what I could provide. I’m not gonna drag his name into the mud.

    My comments are not necessarily directed at you, I am mostly referring to some of the posters. However,I think the “calvinista” criteria is one example of judging the motives of others. Much of the criteria is subjective and impossible to know or verify.

    I also saw a recent post that used the term calvinista then proceed to name conference speakers. Although that article is highly critical of only 2 specific pastors it does not say anything positive about any of the other guys and guilt by association seems implied. I hope these examples are specific enough. Going forward I will be sure to point it out as I see it.

  180. John A wrote:

    dee, I’m sorry but if you want me to name his name I won’t.

    I did not say that and I am getting annoyed. I asked you to give me specific examples of how I judged a person’s motives. John A wrote:

    guilt by association seems implied

    This is not it. Implied? That is your proof?

    And you will need to see the definition of “calvinista” in action in order to see if I judge motives. I always provide links as proof.

  181. ken wrote:

    deception as it relates to his ideas and teachings of “reforming” a church

    It happens alot. A pastor is hired on, denying he subscribes to a particular theology and then proceeds to endorse said theology.

  182. John A wrote:

    I am working through forgiveness. I could make blanket statements about my previous Pastor … We disagree about tactics, style, theology, politics, but I cannot make him out to be a villain but I also cannot sit under his teaching. On one level I have lost respect for him, on another level I can relate.

    John, thank you for this. My heart goes out to you. I will pray for you.

  183. dee wrote:

    It happens alot. A pastor is hired on, denying he subscribes to a particular theology and then proceeds to endorse said theology.

    I’m familiar with that scenario (which I would call deceptive as well), but am pretty sure it’s not what being promoted in this case.

  184. @ John A:

    i love Spinal Tap, too. All things Christopher Guest & co., actually.

    glad you’re still around. i assure you, there is friendship to be found here (as well as good grammar and writing) amidst frank discussion. but first, you do owe numo an apology. perhaps an amended response to janey’s very neutral comment, as well.

    as i see it, at least.

  185. Eagle wrote:

    So what happens if you like preaching, or that style of worship but you find yourself in a manipulative, harmful church that forces you out the door? Or puts you in a situation where you have to choose between staying or leaving? So this situation is created that results in people leaving maybe a form of worship they like for something they may not enjoy as much. Or perhaps out the door to practice nothing.

    Eagle, first let me say how happy I am to see what the Lord is doing in your life. May the love, grace and peace of Christ be with you always.

    I actually made a 360-degree journey over 30 years. A balance between liturgical tradition and rigorous Bible teaching suits me now, but YMMV. I don’t feel like I was ever forced to settle for an inferior worship practice. I think God allowed circumstances that prompted me to discern, evaluate and adjust accordingly.

  186. @ John A:

    Sorry John, It is NOT vengence to speak of negative truths about the behavior/words of public “christian” leaders. You are not on some higher plane of “forgiveness”. Ignorning evil deeds that hurt others is not a higher plane of forgiveness. It sounds pious but it enables more evil. Shameful. I realize that is not what is taught out there anymore. But think who is teaching. Those who habve a stake in being followed and believed. Their fame and income depend upon it. You act as if forgiveness means you never speak out about abuses. That is ridiculous. Only Christians give each other that latitude. We are much harder on non believers, ironically., but refuse to clean up our own house. The world most definitely sees it and wonders why we ignore the shenanigans and even more blatent evil such as promoting those who protect child molesters.

  187. Anon 1 wrote:

    Patrice wrote:

    In my book, condescension is never ok and it’s inherent in hierarchical belief systems. Bah

    I don’t know Patrice. Sometimes it is the only language some understand. In my experience at ground zero, it is the language of the YRR/Calvinista crowd coming out of SBTS. It is all they know and understand. It is how they have been indoctrinated.

    I’m all for solid witty snark when civil disagreement doesn’t suffice. And occasionally, plain rudeness suits perfectly, especially as a response to cruelty or blatant aggression.

    But I don’t think I’m superior to others, even when I see them acting foolish, ignorant or nasty.

    I refuse condescension from others and I refuse to indulge it myself. Some people come here truly believing they are better than the rest and I simply will not accept that, not anywhere from anyone.

    It’s a personal peeve.

  188. dee wrote:

    Si, I have decided to intervene and cut this nonsense out now. I call it “death by moderation.” They will get approved after I do my laundry, make turkey soup and play with my pug dogs.

    Perfect response, IMO.

  189. @ Anon 1:
    While perusing Chap 4 of Reisinger, I read this, “Oh, how I thank God for the “buts” in the Bible. We were by nature children of wrath…” and I remembered when my sibs and I were young, our church had a (now rewritten) form for infant baptism that contained this statement, “We are conceived and born in sin and therefore are children of wrath.”

    After a baptism, we would arrive back home before Mom/Dad, and rampage through the house, yelling that phrase at the top of our lungs and then follow it with “Indubitably!” (another word in the form), which would plunge us onto the floor in giggling hysterics. At bottom, none of us believed it…or maybe we simply had a wild hope that it wasn’t true, not sure.

    What other way would normally healthy people want to accept such a harsh god except through subterfuge and fear, really?

  190. __

    “We Have Sonship in Christ Jesus?”

    @ Patrice

    hmmm…

    “…Now I say, as long as the heir is a child, he does not differ at all from a slave although he is owner of everything, but he is under guardians and managers until the date set by the father. So also we, while we were children, were held in bondage under the elemental things of the world.

    But when the fullness of the time came, God sent forth His Son, born of a woman, born under the Law, so that He might redeem those who were under the Law, that we might receive the adoption as sons.

    Because you are sons, God has sent forth the Spirit of His Son into our hearts, crying, ‘Abba! Father!’

    Therefore you are no longer a slave, but a son; and if a son, then an heir through God. “~Apostle Paul

    …whoa!

    We marvel at your work on our behalf, Jesus!

    …it is simply marvelous in our eyes!

    Sopy

  191. @ Patrice:

    Patrice, that makes me want to weep. I was told I was beloved by God and he wanted me for his own precious child. What a contrast. It was not until I was much older I started hearing about us all being children of wrath….mainly out of SBTS starting in the late 90’s. They sure can take metaphorical language of man talking to God and make it into a doctrine that turns God into an unloving meanie.

    I pray for my children that God will protect their hearts from lies about Him. And, I read something very interesting the other day from a Rabbi who was saying the Hebrew in the commandment is “not to carry God’s name in vain” and it means not to do evil/wrong hiding behind God’s name. Sometimes I am overwhelmed with the lies about God and Who He is. He has gotten a horrible rap throughout history. Makes me quake and want to be very careful not to even accidently attribute evil to Merciful, loving Yahweh.

  192. Anon 1 wrote:

    Sometimes I am overwhelmed with the lies about God and Who He is

    Like I said, I’m not the brightest pup in the pack, so is your concern of deception with Ernie along the lines that he was indoctrinating people with false ideas/lies of/about God, i.e. that all of us were children of wrath from birth?

    Per what Dee suggested…I have not seen evidence that Ernie was espousing deception regarding your doctrinal stance before you are taken on as a pastor.

  193. IF you read the chapter you know it is recommended they NOT tell the church their beliefs up front. They should not use certain words to give it away, etc, etc. It is all there. Total deception. And all because they think people are ignorant. The goal is to take the church Calvinist without them realizing it for a long time.

    They are teaching deception as a virtue from God. They believe God wants them to do this because they consider it His truth. Yet they have to deceive to teach truth. They are recommending evil in the Name of God. It is ok, Ken. I don’t expect you to see it.

    Why not be honest and say they are Calvinists who believe in a determinist god who chose some but not others for salvation. Cals don’t like it when you speak the end result of their beliefs. No wonder Quiet Revolution (ergo the name fits the teaching in teh book) recommends stealth take overs.

  194. @ Anon 1:
    I agree with that rabbi, the heart of the commandment is never to say things about God that are not Him/Her. Makes sense to me—if I were God, I’d get angry over people misrepresenting me, too.

    And yeah, I believe that the “children of wrath” meme is deeply damaging because it is a lie. Our God doesn’t make beautiful artworks (us!) and then go into a perpetual snit because we are broken. That is a childish God. So I, too, think this belief breaks that commandment.

    @ ken:
    Ken, God doesn’t play games with us. S/He comes to us openly, offering love and redemption. A pastor who wanted to change what seemed to be a group that had become slothful, would walk through the doors with his vision of God in hand, honestly and clearly.

    It’s not that maturing the congregation wouldn’t take time, or that they wouldn’t need to be fed some milk before meat, etc, etc. It’s that he came in with a theory of God that he felt he had to insinuate into the church. That’s deceitful.

    And I became teary when I read the sad letter written by one of Reisinger’s elders, about rejecting the Bible and God. I suspect that he was rejecting the view that God was wrathful and judgmental, which IMO, was a proper rejection. But because it had been taught to him as scriptural, he believed his only choice was to accept or reject God altogether. I pray that the man later discovered the true God of love and justice and became able to read the Bible more wholesomely.

  195. Anon 1 wrote:

    IF you read the chapter you know it is recommended they NOT tell the church their beliefs up front. They should not use certain words to give it away, etc, etc. It is all there. Total deception. And all because they think people are ignorant. The goal is to take the church Calvinist without them realizing it for a long time.
    They are teaching deception as a virtue from God. They believe God wants them to do this because they consider it His truth. Yet they have to deceive to teach truth. They are recommending evil in the Name of God. It is ok, Ken. I don’t expect you to see it.
    Why not be honest and say they are Calvinists who believe in a determinist god who chose some but not others for salvation. Cals don’t like it when you speak the end result of their beliefs. No wonder Quiet Revolution (ergo the name fits the teaching in teh book) recommends stealth take overs.

    Ok, you have to realize that you’re dealing with someone who often needs to read a book 6 times before he really understands the author’s perspective.

    So, I’ve read chapter 4 approx. 3 times and skimmed the rest of the chapters. BTW, I didn’t realize Ernie was key in creating the Reformed Baptist element of the SBC.

    Unfortunately, I don’t see any clear evidence of him recommending deceiving a church by hiding one’s doctrinal stance. He seems like he felt he was dealing with multitudes of unsaved individuals in the SBC. Have you read it recently? If so, could you copy and paste the portion, please?

    Here’s the section you referenced above under “Clarity” :

    “In the pulpit, don’t use theological language that is not found in the Bible. Avoid terms such as Calvinism, reformed, doctrines of grace, particular redemption, etc. Most people will not know what you are talking about. Many that do will become inflamed against you. Teach your people the biblical truth of these doctrines without providing distracting labels for them.”

    I take that as him saying don’t speak “Christanese” or else they won’t understand the concepts you’re trying to teach. Granted, I realize you don’t agree with what he’s teaching, but to imply he’s trying to deceive the people in keeping the real concept from them seems to be your wrongful projection of his motive.

    If Ernie was as full of integrity as his brother John (to the extent that I knew him), then I’m willing to give him the benefit of the doubt and be charitable here. Most of the time when I’ve read someone’s books or articles and had issues or wanted clarification, I’d contact them and ask if I could visit and chat over the phone or in person….has taken me to all sorts of places in the States and Canada.

    In fact, I think I remember meeting John for the first time at a restaurant after I read through his “Abraham’s Four Seeds” book (multitudes of times). He was in the middle of a move, but was very gracious to take the time out to meet up and chat (with a nobody). 🙂

    I think if you were able to spend some time with John, you’d most likely come away with different ideas – you speak blanketly of their theology, namely “Cals don’t like it when you speak the end result of their beliefs”. Seems like you’ve possibly have got him pigeonholed.

  196. Good grief – in my reading of what I just posted…I see the sentence I missed so many times: “Many that do will become inflamed against you”.

    I see how that can be taken as being deceptive to some degree or another. Told you I’m slow sometimes. 🙂

  197. @ Patrice:
    Thanks for your thoughts! We’ve headed in a different direction than the RB circles we were in as far as what constitutes “church” and leadership. Still hold to what they refer to as the “doctrines of grace”, but the Lord may tweak that as sees fit – he has allowed my wife and I to drop a lot of baggage from the past. Feels good! 🙂

  198. Sopwith wrote:

    We marvel at your work on our behalf, Jesus!
    …it is simply marvelous in our eyes!

    Amen, Sopy! Beautiful comment!

  199. @ ken:

    Ken, I do not know anything about John and am only referring to Ernie’s book. As I understand it, they had a big falling out as brothers. I know NO details. Just that they did. Whether they are nice or not as personal acquaintances has nothing to do with what he teaches in the book about taking over churches to make them Reformed.

    You and I simply have different standards for what is considered deception. If a new pastor comes to a church with the goal of making it reformed when it is not, I believe he is a deceiver if he did not tell them that UPFRONT. And yes, it would most likely mean he would not get the job. So be it. Honesty and integrity are still virtues even for Christians, right?

  200. “Dear Al” by Christa Brown http://stopbaptistpredators.blogspot.com/2011/12/dear-al.html#.Up1OnECDO1w.twitter

    The whole thing is spot on but here’s an excerpt:

    So this is the reality of what I see in your deeds. When Southern Baptist church leaders keep quiet about clergy sex abuse, you speak at their churches and you invite them to speak at your seminary. You are not part of any system by which Southern Baptist clergy colleagues will hold one another accountable. To the contrary, you’re part of a consequence-free system of cronies promoting cronies.

    “Any failure to report and to stop the sexual abuse of children must be made inconceivable,” you said. But here’s the thing, Al. If there are no institutional consequences for failure to report, then failure to report will not be made inconceivable within the institution.

    Without institutional consequences, we will continue to see the pattern of Southern Baptist leaders – leaders such as Philip Gunn, Jack Graham, Greg Belser, Steve Gaines and many more – who weigh each scenario for themselves and conclude (for whatever rationalized mess of a reason) that their particular scenario is somehow exceptional and that reporting isn’t necessary.

    And without institutional consequences, this pattern will continue to allow accused clergy predators to church-hop through the Southern Baptist Convention, just as John Langworthy did from Prestonwood to Morrison Heights.

    When I see you publicly addressing that case, and calling your own fellow Southern Baptist colleagues to account, then maybe I’ll begin to believe your words mean something.

    But until then, Al, your words are nothing but talk. And that’s a crying shame. Because this isn’t about the mere hypocrisy of your words. It’s about the safety of kids.

  201. John A wrote:

     

    The fact that your comment is so "pastor-centric" indicates that your church is less about the gospel than you realize.

  202. Anon 1 wrote:

    And most Neo Cals preach/teach/believe total Sovereignty controlling every molecule 24/7 but then say they don’t when questioned closely saying we just do not understand. We were not given the decoder rings to understand them.

    Isn’t the requirement for decoder rings to truly understand the mark of a Mystery Cult with Inner Mysteries?

    “Occult” = Hidden, Speshul Sekrit “understood” only by an Elite Few.
    “Gnostic” = He Who KNOWS this Speshul Sekrit Knowledge.

  203. Sorry last comment was in response to this post.

    John A wrote:

    I appreciate the stance this blog takes against clergy sexual abuse but I must say I am disappointed in the attitude expressed here towards the Reformed crowd. I frequently attend one of the largest Acts 29 churches but I won’t name names because that Pastor does not need me to defend him. Everything is about the gospel there, I know sorry some of you seem to hate that “buzzword” but I believe it’s true. I believe that Pastor is first and foremost concerned with shepherding his local congregation and leading people to authentic faith. In short, I trust him based on what I have observed up close, not from afar. The group on this site seems to have grown very critical, cynical , and even self righteous. Reading through these posts I am amazed at the confidence with which any of you reveal the motives and intentions of others. Only God knows the heart. I’m not saying don’t judge but I am saying many of you take it too far when you state as absolute fact things that nobody can know. I’m not a great writer and I’m sure someone will pick apart my words to expose some apparent contradiction or hypocrisy. That seems to happen whenever I post like this on a blog and especially on this topic. Bottom line, the tone of this thread and this site do not glorify God in my humble opinion.

  204. The only people remaining in SGM are the fully integrated sheep that have been there for decades. Who cares what they put out? Do you think the Lord is going to bless this mess? I personally don’t think so. It’s really much to do about nothing.