Breaking News: Mahaney’s Sons-In-Law Resign From CLC

As if things couldn't get messier, tonight, CJ Mahaney's son-in-laws, who were pastors at Covenant Life Church (the mothership), have resigned their positions in what appears to be a protest in how the church has handled the Detweiler documents and CJ Mahaney's "sabbatical."

For new readers, CJ Mahaney has three daughters. All three of their husbands have been given pastor position within SGM. Two were at CLC and the other, I believe, is a pastor at SGM Fairfax. The Fairfax pastor has not resigned. This is certainly a family affair.

A major rift seems  to be occurring between Joshua Harris and the CLC church versus SGM. Please go to SGM Refuge to read the letters. More in the AM.

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Breaking News: Mahaney’s Sons-In-Law Resign From CLC — 105 Comments

  1. Paraphrased: Dear CLC, If Daddy ain’t happy, nobody’s happy. If Daddy ain’t king, we ain’t princes.

    Blood — even by marriage– is thicker than water.

  2. Nickname,

    Agreed.

    Go. Let them follow and support CJ. One can only imagine the kind of pressure his family felt to support him, seeing as how he primed the church to bow to his will.

    I have visited the girltalk blog of the Mahaney women on occasion and lately its been obvious the wife and daughters of CJ are completely committed to the SGM system of belief. It’s like a club. If you don’t join, then tough. That’s your problem.

    Seems to be the prevailing attitude. If anyone even suggests breaking away from the mindset of the club, then they’re gone. They take their marbles and go home. That’s what Nicole and Kristen’s husbands have done. I also noticed Gary Ricucci’s name wasn’t on the list. No doubt Betsy Ricucci (CJ’s sister) is part of the club. I have wondered who the pastor was who was involved in SGMnot’s story. I have a guess.

    So let them go and stick together. Who cares. They obviously have been more into themselves and their family than anything else. Everything gets shouted from the rooftops in the end. Some choose to plug their ears.

  3. I just laughed out loud about them being mad that Josh told all the heads of households to read Brents docs… What is this? Ancient Egypt or Babylon? He fell shortvof telling them to swipe blood over the doorposts! These people kill me! Man! You can’t make ths ish up, can you? Mmm mmm mmm (SMH) heads of households… Eh. Psht! Talk to the hand. You have been dismissed little pesky weasel. Did they really blatanty disregard all the women in that room.

    I’m glad those dudes resigned. Their FIL owns them and has them by the twig and berries. They have no real manhood. We knew it. They just confirmed it. They’re drinking some special edition Kool-Aid we haven’t even been offered yet… Blind Punkhead Mountain Berry with Sparkling Cowardice for that extra zing!

  4. Not nepotism — it’s taking dominion and enjoying the providence of God. Or is it survival of the spiritually fittest.

    This is so sad. How complicated it all becomes.

  5. Here are the resignation letters of Mahaney’s sons-in-law, along with an explanation written by the Covenant Life Church pastors.

    C.J. Mahaney’s Sons-In-Law To Leave Covenant Life Church

    No wonder Ken Sande came to do damage control by speaking at CLC last Sunday morning.

    One of the most interesting comments I have read over at SGM Survivors indicates that the mothership was forking over $800,000 a year to SGM.

    http://www.sgmsurvivors.com/?p=2716&cp=1#comments

    “dk
    August 9th, 2011 at 8:25 pm

    At one of the CLC family meetings, it was stated that CLC tithes $800,000 per year to SGM.”

  6. As explained by the CLC pastors in their letter to the congregation, the Family Meeting to discuss these resignations must be delayed until Saturday evening because the show must go on… Kauflin’s Worship God show, that is. The conference kicks off this afternoon and ends Saturday morning.

    WorshipGod11 Schedule

  7. I’ll go on record once again and say that nepotism is a terrible thing in the church. I don’t know why so many evangelicals don’t see this.

    It must be so tempting for a father to help his son or his son in law get into the ministry if there is a desire on the part of the son or son in law. But these arrangements rarely work out.

    I have 2 stories that are anecdotal. My brother in law went to college with a well known Baptist speaker and writer’s son 20 or so years ago. They were roommates. Both really loved to party. In the famous speaker’s son’s senior year he said to my brother in law something along the lines of, “Well, I am getting ready to graduate soon, and I need to start thinking about a job. My dad says that I can get in the ministry, so I am going to have to clean up my act a bit to get ready to go to seminary so I can be a pastor.” Don’t know whatever became of this guy. Haven’t seen his name surface in the religion world, so hopefully, he found a calling that was true to his desire and giftedness. Maybe he’s a sales rep for Coors or something. That would be better than getting into the ministry because it’s the family business.

    On the other side of the coin there is Andy Stanley. Another dear friend who became a Christian in high school with the DTS and met Andy 25 years or so ago. He told me then that he thought Andy was the real deal, that Andy was truly interested in spiritual things, and that Andy had insights and a way of presenting them that made him a true leader at the seminary among the students. So, there are cases on the other side. But I think that Charles Stanley would have been better to let Andy make his own way. I think it is much better for Andy to be in his own place than to be “groomed” for the pastorate of First Baptist Atlanta.

    Interestingly, my friend who went to seminary with Andy Stanley has been a youth pastor at a large church in Charlotte, NC. Even though he is 50, he is into youth culture, and still relates well to youth. A couple of years ago, the pastor of the church moved my friend out of the youth ministry to make room for his son in law to be the youth pastor. It really hurt my friend. The church kept him on, and has put him in a position where he is thriving. The pastor has even apologized since, recognizing that he did not do the right thing.

    I am glad my pastor has daughters. Our church believes in male ordained leadership, so we don’t have to worry about nepotism. My pastor is wiser than that anyway.

    Evangelical lay people really need to speak up about this, in my opinion. It is not good for the church.

  8. Evie

    A Gumshoe who couldn’t write a coherent sentence late last night. Sorry about the dropped words. I was tired and read about the brouhaha while lying in bed and decided to try to post something.

  9. Anonymous

    Sorry about your limitation to “male ordained leadership”. Patriarchy is a result of sin and is a penalty on all of us because of sin. Nepotism is a form of patriarchy. When you deny that women can be called to leadership, you starve the kingdom from half of the potential it could have.

  10. Anonymous,

    You said “I am glad my pastor has daughters. Our church believes in male ordained leadership, so we don’t have to worry about nepotism. My pastor is wiser than that anyway.”

    Uh, NLR thinks your pastor ISN’T WISE, and that your church has bigger problems than nepotism. See Arce’s post above.

  11. Lin

    Thanks for bringing up the other family members. So, here’s the count.
    3 son in laws- pastors – 2 resigned from CLC and one still, I think, pastor SGM Fairfax
    2 Brother in laws on staff-one is exec at CLC
    Carolyn-wife-books+blog-speaking within SGM and outside-
    3 Daughters-blog+book- all very, very recommended within SGM

    So, do ya think gifting for ministry is genetic? One i could see but ALL of them?

  12. Theodorus

    Why do they think nepotism is Biblical? There is very little example of it in Scripture. The major example was the passing of the right of kingship to sons. The majority of those kings “did evil in the sight of the Lord.”

  13. Deb–

    I’m so disgusted by these people. It blows my mind every minute something else comes out of the works with this group, and then to see how they are STILL MANIPULATING their congregation. You are right, how timely it is that Sande spoke at CLC last week. I am becoming outraged. You know, before, I thought hmmmm… maybe SGM is going to make some changes. Maybe SOMEBODY, Josh, or someone is going to fight for this congregation.

    I’m done. They need to be shut down. They need to exist no more. This infuriates me that they thought they needed this guy to come preach a message to their congregation about this ish. I am so freaking mad.

    When does the manipulation stop?
    When do the calculating moves stop?
    When do they just let these people rest, recoup and think for themselves?

    You know what’s sooo horrible, and it’s this: The fact that they have chosen in such a time of much grief, confusion and brokeness they continue to cover their asses and explain away their actions, and keep trying to pull the shades over people’s eyes with these sermons they run to and fro to give to keep manipulating and controlling. Rather, there are at least 20 chapters I could pick in Psalms by opening my Bible and simply pointing my finger and wherever it landed, they could preach on.

    What about messages of comfort? Of God rescuing His people. Of God hearing the hearts of the brokenhearted and binding up their wounds? Where’s the salve? The healing balm? They don’t give a crap about these people, their congregation. They coudln’t care less about them. They’d rather continue trying to control and conform them, and stop dissent and keep their own image rather than doing their best to apply the balm and bind up wounds. What about Isaiah? What about stories of Gods redemption and care for his people? My word, how they must grieve the Lord.

    They can’t possibly know Christ. And they can’t possibly know God’s Word which is rich in healing and ministry to the brokenhearted. This is outrageous and these people deserve hell. I’m sorry, but they really do. I know my words are strong. But there it is. Somebody needs to just go and post Icabod over the door of that place. The Holy Spirit can’t possibly be present in that ministry with these conniving evil men. And then to put more salt in the wounds of this time, they continue to have their conferences and concerts? I. AM. OUTRAGED.

    SGMers, y’all need to wake up and run for the hills. This place is going to eat your soul alive.

    WTFreak!

  14. NLR

    Yep-heads of households could read the documents. The little woman is not capable because she is gullible and easily deceived. Seems like this debacle proves there is plenty of deception within the male gender as well.

  15. Cindy

    You hit the nail on the head as usual-taking dominion. This dominion stuff reminds me of Mormonism.

  16. Deb

    Read that myself. $800,000. If it is true, then I wonder who will get canned if CLC leaves the protection of SGM

  17. …you know, maybe they’re not going to preach on Isaiah or Psalms because not only do they bring healing and restoration to the brokenhearted, the abused, the manipulated, the brainwashed, but they promise wrath and punishment for their enemies, their abusers, their manipulators.

    Maybe they don’t want to preach that because their congregation will realize that their enemy is standing right before them continuing to make them all puppets and confuse them and abuse their goodwill and goodhearts even more. This is so terribly sad. All the confusion they have created in their attempts to continually deceive these people. This is just sad.

  18. Anonymous

    Loved you Coors sales rep comment. Could we say he was “gifted” for beer distribution?

    As for Andy Stanley, I think it is sad that some famous pastors want their sons to follow in their footsteps. I believe that we are to follow in the footsteps of Jesus. Nepotism could be man’s way of stifling the spirit of God. God called Billy Graham to his ministry. There will never be another Billy nor should their be. We need to be who we are called to be and not take the easy way out by taking daddy’s position. But, too few out there are willing to take risk. It’s a lot easier to be handed a nice paycheck and a ready made group of eager listeners. The megas have changed the game into big money and it is rare pastor who can ignore that and do the harder thing.

    Your youth pastor friend is most interesting. It is my observation that the “youth pastor” job is often viewed as a stepping stone into a pastorate. You friend was in the way of the son in law who needed that position in order to “proceed.” I am happy to hear that the pastor has apologized. Apologies are very rare in the world of the mega, anointed pastor world.

    Finally, I would be rather amused if your pastor’s daughters decided that they were called to ministry. Talk about an uproar. You know that Billy Graham has said the best preacher in his family is Anne Graham Lotz and she believes women can be called to be pastors. That part is always downplayed because the SBC likes the Grahams so she can get away with saying it.

  19. Dee–

    That made me think… I wonder if the fact that men do that has to do with their idea that ministry isn’t so much as about gifting as it has more to do with MEN being the leaders and the ones who should preach? Maybe it doesn’t make sense. But if they thought and believed clearly that ministry is based on gifts, not sex, maybe you’d have more truly gifted ministers who are truly called to preach–and that naturally would include women. If we understand preaching and teaching to be about giftedness and nothing else. Hmmmm…? Makes me wonder.

  20. NLR
    The real problem at the base of this thing is a misconception of grace. Far too many people believe that if you try hard enough, you can somehow “make it” spiritually. That is unfortunately become the burden of SGM pastors. They must maintain their spiritual anointing while, deep down inside, they know that they are failures, just like the rest of this. This puts all sorts of pressure on them to “look good” and it takes a toll on them trying to maintain a “spiritually mature” demeanor.

    I wonder if deep down inside, if Mahaney struggles with his true self. He is no different than the rest of us but he has had to maintain his spiritual “authority” by acting as if he is a true role model while at the same time declaring himself the “worst sinner in the world.” I wonder if, deep down inside, he knows he can’t keep it up. This has gone on for so long. I wonder if he tires of the game.

  21. Dee–

    Hmm… true. true. I think I understand that exhaustion too. especially since being in a graceless environment, works-centered and sin-sniffing. I have felt like I have been two different people for the past two years. I told a friend right when I left that I no longer had the energy to play this game anymore. That I was who I was and I didn’t have time to fake it for folks. Truth is, when you create an image that’s not you, that want others to embrace–they do embrace it. But you still remain behind that image, the real you, and remain unloved, unknown and empty. The fake you is receiving all that you really want for youself.

    You can’t experience authentic real love which is necessary and cheats you out of a much needed experience. When you know how imperfect you are and yet others love you, care for you, accept you, sacrifice for you, suffer hardship because of you or with you, and forgive you–then and only then can you even grasp what Christ has done for you. Then and only then can you experience real love–none of which any of us deserve, but yet God deems us worthy of love and acceptance.

    It’s just not real and teaches you nothing, leaves you empty, when you allow people to embrace some fake exalted self you’ve created.

    When a friend loves me and forgives me, or does something for me, or makes a sacrifice for me–even after I have been rotten or treated them mean, or had a bad day, or just know I don’t deserve that kind of love and kindness, I am overwhelmed and I feel deeply loved and accepted as I am. That’s so important for me. I don’t feel the need to put on a show or expend energy faking it, I can relax and I can just be myself.

  22. Question:

    Did anybody else notice all the “instructions” for the families in those letters on how to tell their kids what’s going on, what to do with this and that?

    SMDH. They are still at it. Uh oh! I feel a film short coming on…

    * * *

    Scene opens… Mike Bradshaw preaching…

    MB: …Heh. And so when your kid asks, Mommy, Daddy, why is everybody at church mad at each other? Why is everyone leaving? All the heads of the house, you are to tell them…

    Enters NLR, non-member, professional stage crasher. Running up on stage and out of breath. It’s a megachurch. Kinda big. Breathing hard.

    NLR: (Runs up on the mic, pushes dude over and holds him at arms length by the forehead. Yells.) Stop telling us what to do, dammit! WTF is your problem?? Oh and will the real Slim Shady please stand up? Um… Your car is blocking mine, therefore, I can’t leave this controlling hell hole fast enough. Peace! And I’m out!” (holds up the peace sign, looks dude in the eye and give him the evil side eye and points at his eye and back at mine like “I see you! I see you!” Shoves his Bible in his chest, punches him in teh back and tell him to read it sometimes. Throws he mic down–and the audience overcome by the loud screeching sound of a dead mic).

    NLR marches off stage singing What a Friend We Have In Jesus.

    Exit scene.

    “This message brought to you by Aggravated Christians for Righteous Indignation. Going strong since Moses crossed the Red Sea.”

  23. You hit the nail on the head as usual-taking dominion. This dominion stuff reminds me of Mormonism.

    Dee,

    This is an old feature of shepherding, but it tends to be a feature of spiritual abuse, closed groups, and idealistic totalism. Power is a reward, and it also creates the illusion within the group that certain people are more “anointed” or have a more divine connection to God and should thus be obeyed. (You can see this in the corporate world, too. Middle managers are often appointed not for their skill but for political reasons that serve the needs of the top management. Appointees become tools.)

    This “inner circle” within the group can be nearly impossible to pierce, and entry usually comes through invitation that is extended to trusted people who will play by the rules of the system at all costs. Though this can backfire royally if people decide to buck the system, a good guru will pick people that he can manipulate. A skilled manipulator can use those family connections for enhanced emotional blackmail. And there’s more manipulation punch if one of these top leadership draftees depends on a paycheck from the group, a nearly guaranteed way of owning their loyalty.

    These coveted inner circle positions enhance the impression that followers have that the leader is on a higher divine plane through greater anointing. Someone with a familiar connection to the guru not only proves that the guru is powerful, but they get the benefit of being special because they were invited into the tight-knit group, borrowing from the power of the leader.

    Anyone else who pierces through the inner circle membership barrier is also seen as a bit more divine and anointed than even the middle managers. And those who are in that inner circle are sometimes considered closer than actual family members. You become part of the real, divine family, but blood and marriage helps. You get extra star status, and it enhances control, because people want to get into these slots so that they can feel better about themselves — proof that they are honored by God, too. Some are desperate for it, just for the validation factor.

    But for the leader, they see this kind of spread of their power as reinforcement of their own success — God’s favor. God has blessed us, proof that he’s blessed me. Most need to believe that they are more special than everyone else, so they interpret their power in this light, even though it may have come to them through the traditions of men and authoritarian control.

    It is sad, and it’s quite dramatic if not violent when the system of control begins to fail. It “breaks many covenants,” and it is a violent thing within the central group. So unnecessary.

  24. Glad you all picked up on the “women not being able to read the documents” thing. In the midst of all the other garbage, that was actually the thing that stood out to me the most.

  25. Pam,

    That’s a sure sign that they really don’t understand the Bible. Patriarchy (aka, masculinism) is part of the penalty from the fall, imposed on Eve for her part in the sin. Now that we are post-incarnation and resurrection, we should put sinful things like patriarchy behind us.

    And I am a man.

  26. Pam–

    It made me feel like it was some decree from Caesar sent out to all the land and the heads of households had to read it and tell the others–you know, cause women weren’t permitted to learn how to read either. That or feeling like I’m Don Draper’s wife in 1966 and have no other use other than making babies and staying home all day looking VERY pretty. (I secretly love Madmen. It’s quaint and disturbing all at the same time).

  27. Arce, I like the way you don’t mince words or pussyfoot around the subject, attempting to surround a divisive issue with comfortable words. Instead you say, “Patriarchy is a result of sin.”

    Those are fighting words.

    In my opinion, strictly complementarian organizations like SGM, which pride themselves on excluding women from ministry and preach it as part of the “gospel,” aren’t even on the battlefield.

    If CJ Mahaney were a true Christian and had built a church on the foundations of the true gospel, then no doubt he would face some real persecution and fight against it like with the virtues of “manlinee he espouses to possess. Virtues like courage, bravery, strength, and a willingness to fight to the death for something he believes in.

    Instead, when the times get tough, where does his man – who has stood before thousands of people for years, boasting of his leadership skills and preaching a “gospel” that made him a man’s man – go when a storm hits the church and organization he founded?

    He goes into hiding. And from behind the scenes we now see him influencing his son-in-laws to resign in a display of solidarity.

    Does anyone else besides me think this is more a display of cowardice?

    The people of CLC have long supported the Mahaney’s and their family. They have for decades encouraged them, fawned over them and gladly “served” them. They have swallowed the bitter pills when they have been told to be perfect when bringing any correction to those in leadership, and treated CJ and his family with deference and respect.

    Obviously that’s been a one-way street. CJ isn’t interested in submitting himself to anyone, especially to the members of CLC. He plays by his own rules. The fact his son-in-laws have left the church, in my opinion, sends the clear message:

    CJ Mahaney is showing no signs of contrition.

  28. Dee,

    I thought the scripture verse you posted, “They have also healed the hurt of My people slightly, Saying, ‘Peace, peace!’ When there is no peace.” (Jeremiah 6:14) was spot on.

    There is no peace!

    Using “Peacemakers” only serves to give the impression of peace.

    What do you predict will happen?

  29. Jesus said that those who would lead must first (and foremost) be servants of all. The very role of shepherd in agriculture is to tend the lowliest and foulest (except for pigs) of livestock, and to care for them at the risk of one’s life.

    Similarly a pastor (shepherd) is to be a servant of all.

    All of the passages in the Bible on submission are specific that submission is to be mutual. Even the verse on wives being submissive immediately follows a verse on mutual submission, and is followed by a command that a husband should love his wife to the point of being willing to climb on a cross and die for her. If you love someone that much, you don’t insist that they submit unilaterally.

    So a pastor is to be a model of submission.

    The concept of the priesthood of each and every believer makes all of us on the same level. All Christian men can be called “a man of God” and all Christian women “a woman of God”. There is no hierarchy in the Bible among believers because we are all part of one body.

    The problem with pastor as boss of the church is that it is anti-Biblical and therefore unChristian, and thus sin. And the consequence of sin is death, even death of a church or a pastorate.

  30. Nepotism wouldn’t be an issue for churches if not for the paid professional clergy system.

    If churches followed the New Testament model of every member ministry according to gifting (raehter than a professional minister class), with elders/bishops/pastors as servants of the body (rather than lords over it), and financial support provided to missions and the needy (rather than to salaried staff and support of “progams that benefit the membership), then money and power woud not be at the center of church life. With every member of every family on equal footing and serving one another, it wouldn’t matter who was who’s daddy or son or in-law or whatever.

    As Elvis sang, “If I can dream…”

  31. Junkster

    In some of these churches the pastors sing Elvis’ ” You Ain’t Nothing But a Hound Dog.”

  32. Dee:

    Thanks for the comment on the Coors sales rep. I bet he would have been great at that.

    Arce and NLR, I have heard that before. Thanks for your concern, but we disagree on this issue. Anyway, my post was about nepotism, not the gender issue or my church. I used it to demonstrate why I don’t have to worry about that issue.

    Dee, his daughters agree. One is in the restaurant biz, and the other is studying for some other profession.

  33. @ Cindy K: totally with you on the dominion/dominionism issue. (have seen it 1st-hand in some New Apostolic Reformation/Third Wave/etc. circles, and it’s scary.)

  34. Anonymous on Wed, Aug 10 2011 at 07:47 pm

    And my point was not gender issues, but on the proper role of the pastor, being the one member of a congregation who is in mutual submission to all the other members in the congregation and is to be the servant of them all. That is what Jesus taught.

  35. Numo,

    If we ever have the chance to meet, I bet we could swap similar stories for at least a full day! If NLR joined us, we’d probably need another two, just to get through the good ones.

    And encouraging thought springs to mind, too. When you’ve cycled in and out of more than just a single group or two, there is at least a little benefit from the bad previous experience (thought they are so often mingled with good, making them harder to work through). At least you have a developed frame of reference! You can say, “I remember when this happened…” And if you’ve figured out the true nature of the experience (using others to exonerate or accommodate the needs of the group/leader at your expense), your better judgment can kick in to remind you, “You know what they’re pulling here. You’ve seen it before.”

    But, thanks to the common tendencies of human nature, I’m still amazed at how the same things end up playing out, no matter what setting you’re in. The apostolic movement does this well and seems to be more obvious, but even the post-or amillenialists are militant about the same thing on the opposite side of the Holy Ghost spectrum.

    Then there are those in between. In my old New Covenant group, it was on a small scale, almost as if they were trying to recreate an idealized moment from the past, making the church a pocket of reality where it was the 1950s again, with a little of the ’70s mixed in. I guess it all depends on the target of your “dominion.” Some are just looking to make a living or set up jobs for their kids.

  36. Arce,

    Your comment touches on the whole reinterpretation of headship in many Calvinist circles as a despot or ruler as opposed to headship as a source and foundation. It touches on both gender, authority, and leadership.

    Man is the head/kephale of woman, and Christ is the head/kephale of man. But everywhere else that kephale is used to describe Christ, it refers to him as the chief cornerstone (the kephale of the corner). It is a sure point of orientation for other foundation stones — stones that bear up the structure built upon it (not a stone that is balanced on top of those underneath it. That speaks of great responsibility for self and others, for direction, nourishment, and support. You walk on top of the foundation.

    If you want to consider the pastor as a leader that helps influence the direction of a church, those living stones who are built together, pastors may view themselves as a cornerstone for a local church, oriented off the chief cornerstone of Christ whose orientation as the chief stone is sure and secure. They serve to bear the load of the weight of the building. The building and those other stones do not exist to bear them up, financially or in any other way.

  37. Lew

    Women in the pastorate is a secondary issue. There are people who visit this blog who would say that it is OK for a woman to be in the head pastorate and others who would vehemently disagree. There is a good book called Why I Changed My Min About Women in Leadership written by a number of prominent evangelical like Jill and Stuart briscoe. Here is a link to amazon http://www.amazon.com/Changed-Mind-about-Women-Leadership/dp/0310293154

    I was privileged to attend church at Bent Tree Bible Church in Texas in which the Briscoe’s son Peter was the pastor. He now has a woman who is an associate pastor and she is very conservative.

    Anne Graham Lotz has also said that she believes that women can be pastors.

    Now, I understand the controversy and realize that good Christians disagree on this issue. I see the side for no women in the pastorate and get the Scripture. I also get the Scripture stated by those in such groups as the Council On Biblical Equality.

    I vehemently disagree with the Council of Biblical Manhood and Womanhood which has stated that women are gullible and easily deceived. I think this blog has adequately presented a whole bunch of men that fit that category as well.

    I enjoy the discussion of the pros and cons in this area and believe that we can discuss this with charity. Those who cannot and get very, very upset are those who have made this secondary issue into primary importance and that’s when I get very touchy.

    Today, in a post, I will make the point that the SBC is far more concerned with women in the pastorate than with pedophiles in the church.

  38. Anonymous

    Show my a head pastor in the NT who was making bank off his position. Show me youth pastors of churches, executive pastors, etc.

  39. Dee, your example would be loved by the Family Integrated Church. They say youth pastors and Sunday School turn the hearts of children away from their fathers and are not listed in the NT either. They also have elders instead of pastors (though it is clear who pastors those churches, and it is not a shared duty in most cases).

    To them, I would say that indoor plumbing was neither noted in the Bible nor to be had in the First Century AD, so maybe restrooms inside the church building are not Biblical either. But I’m sure they’d come up with some obscure proof text… Probably about being clean.

  40. Lew,

    The role of pastor was not an office in the NT nor was the pastor “in charge” of the church. And there clearly was no such thing as a senior pastor or a “head” pastor. Those ideas and the concept of a church hierarchy come post the Constantine, and resulted in the Roman church structure, which was taken from the structure of the empire.

    The passage where Paul is mistranslated as saying that he (Paul) permits no woman to have authority over a man, does not use a common word for authority (there are two clear alternatives that would clearly mean authority) and the word so translated would not have been used to mean authority in the way we think of it in the modern era.

    So yes, I believe it when Paul says “In Christ, there is neither . . ..” Patriarchy, male dominance, etc. are not consistent with being “in Christ”, which means that those who practice those things are also not “in Christ”, ergo, in sin.

  41. Anybody see the new post up at Survivors about the letter sent out about CJ going to CHBC and Josh’s response? Check it out.

  42. Hmmm? Todays “Pastor/leader?” Is this a “Title” or “Position” in the scriptures?

    Makes an interesting study. Where are “pastor/leaders” in the Bible?

    Here’s some questions to ask as you check out the Bible for pastors.

    In the Bible, How many people are… called pastor?
    In the Bible, How many people have… the “Title” pastor?
    In the Bible, How many people are… ordained as a pastor?
    In the Bible, How many people are… hired, or fired, as a pastor?
    In the Bible, How many congregations are… “led” by a pastor?

    And every pastor I’ve met also has the “Title” Reverend.
    Can’t seem to find anyone with the “Title” Reverend in the Bible either.

    Why would someone, male or female, take a “Title” NOT found in the Bible?

    Doesn’t anyone read The Bible?

    In my experience with “pastor/leaders” and having been in “Leadership” shows me…

    No matter how loving… eventually…
    No matter how humble… eventually…
    No matter how much a servant… eventually…

    “Pastor.leaders” – will “exercise authority” and “lord it over God’s heritage.”
    That’s always the beginning of “Spiritual Abuse.”

    “Pastor/Leader” = exercise authority = lord it over = abuse = always

    And other sheep I have, which are not of this fold:
    them also I must bring, and they shall “hear My voice; “
    and there shall be “ONE” fold, and “ONE” shepherd.
    John 10:16

    One Fold – One Shepherd – One Voice – Jesus

    Be blessed in your search for truth… Jesus…

  43. I have to admit, I’m not interested in what others like Briscoe, Rick Warren, Piper, Joel Olsteen or anyone else has to say about it. These are the qualifications.

    Qualifications for Elders
    5 This is why I left you in Crete, so that you might put what remained into order, and appoint elders in every town as I directed you— 6 if anyone is above reproach, the husband of one wife,[c] and his children are believers and not open to the charge of debauchery or insubordination. 7For an overseer,[d] as God’s steward, must be above reproach. He must not be arrogant or quick-tempered or a drunkard or violent or greedy for gain, 8but hospitable, a lover of good, self-controlled, upright, holy, and disciplined. 9He must hold firm to the trustworthy word as taught, so that he may be able to give instruction in sound[e] doctrine and also to rebuke those who contradict it.

    10For there are many who are insubordinate, empty talkers and deceivers, especially those of the circumcision party. 11They must be silenced, since they are upsetting whole families by teaching for shameful gain what they ought not to teach. 12 One of the Cretans,[f] a prophet of their own, said, “Cretans are always liars, evil beasts, lazy gluttons.”[g] 13This testimony is true. Therefore rebuke them sharply, that they may be sound in the faith, 14 not devoting themselves to Jewish myths and the commands of people who turn away from the truth. 15 To the pure, all things are pure, but to the defiled and unbelieving, nothing is pure; but both their minds and their consciences are defiled. 16 They profess to know God, but they deny him by their works. They are detestable, disobedient, unfit for any good work.

    Qualifications for Overseers
    1The saying is trustworthy: If anyone aspires to the office of overseer, he desires a noble task. 2Therefore an overseer[a] must be above reproach, the husband of one wife,[b] sober-minded, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, 3not a drunkard, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money. 4He must manage his own household well, with all dignity keeping his children submissive, 5for if someone does not know how to manage his own household, how will he care for God’s church? 6He must not be a recent convert, or he may become puffed up with conceit and fall into the condemnation of the devil. 7Moreover, he must be well thought of by outsiders, so that he may not fall into disgrace, into a snare of the devil.
    Qualifications for Deacons
    8 Deacons likewise must be dignified, not double-tongued,[c] not addicted to much wine, not greedy for dishonest gain. 9They must hold the mystery of the faith with a clear conscience. 10And let them also be tested first; then let them serve as deacons if they prove themselves blameless. 11 Their wives likewise must[d] be dignified, not slanderers, but sober-minded, faithful in all things. 12Let deacons each be the husband of one wife, managing their children and their own households well. 13For those who serve well as deacons gain a good standing for themselves and also great confidence in the faith that is in Christ Jesus.

  44. Lew,

    Looking at the Scripture you cite, the “husband of one wife” addresses men but does not specifically prohibit women from this office. It is argued that at the time, a woman would not be recognized because of the society of the day, but as the work of the Gospel unfolded and affected society, women were accepted by Judeo-Christian societies. You could understand women in ministry and leadership as one aspect of how God’s plan influenced society for the better, interpreting it as what God had in mind all along.

    I respect that others hold to different views and personally maintain that the ideal pastor in the NT seems to be male, but again, it is not prohibitive. I also respect those who do not read the original language and interpret 1 Tim 2 in the KJV as arguing that women should never teach men (as opposed to a specific woman who was in doctrinal error). The English text fails to note when a single woman is mentioned and when all women are mentioned. But if that’s the best interpretation you have and accept, that’s fine.

    What is difficult to accept is the forcing of this intramural issue that differs between denominations as an essential doctrine that all Christians are required to observe. There are many here that don’t interpret these gender passages in the same way as other Believers, and I think that they are happy to agree to disagree.

    Complementarianism as promoted by CBMW exceeds these traditional patriarchal views as held by people like John R. Rice and creates new doctrines that I think people like me and like Dee reject. And we know that SGM ascribes to the beliefs of CBMW, for the most part.

    I think that with the understanding that these gender issues concerning ministry are intramural and are still within the pale of orthodoxy, we can affirm one another as Believers who do want to seek God’s highest and best as written in the Word, living that to the fullest of our ability, by His grace.

  45. Lew

    I want this comment to be limited to this one point. I will write another in short order to discuss other points. To place Stuart Briscoe in the same category as Joel Osteen is so far off base that I find it difficult to respond to you. He is a wonderful pastor who loves the Lord and has had significant impact throughout the world. His wife, even more so.

    I love the Briscoes. Their son, Pete, profoundly impacted my life as a Christian. And if you don’t think they know about the passages you have quoted, and have a Scripturally based response, then you have firmly stuck your head in the sand.

  46. A Amos Love

    Well stated. Today’s mega church “anointed” pastor would be unrecognizable to Paul and Peter. Paul supported himself by making tents. He seemed to have no problem impacting the world, did he?

  47. Lew
    You quoted Scripture “if anyone is above reproach, the husband of one wife,[c] and his children are believers and not open to the charge of debauchery or insubordination. ”

    Mark Dever has said his adult children have not been baptized. Should he step down?
    Calvinists proclaim that our salvation is predetermined before creation. So why should an elder be responsible for the fact that his kids are not Christians? Isn’t that God’s fault? So why is it in Scripture?

    Billy Graham’s son, Franklin, admitted to living a less than stellar life at one point. Should graham have stepped down from preaching? I know some pretty famous pastors whose kids would fit the insubordination clause. They don’t step down.

    How about Mark Driscoll and his famous mouth? Is he “above reproach?” How about pastors like Mac brunson who lives a lavish lifestyle in a fancy home and has used church money to build himself and his spouse fancy offices at the church. Is that above reproach? How do you define above reproach? Can it vary from church to church?

  48. Cindy

    Actually, that is why I didn’t get all bent out of shape at him. However, Piper would commend his premise.

  49. NLR

    My cohort, Deb, has been waiting for this. She has been dying to do a post on Dever’s ties to Mahaney and plans to do so on Monday.

  50. Cindy
    The FIC model is also built on the new Calvinista trend of patriarchy. They use different names but still do the same old things. A rose by any other name…

  51. Dee,

    When the legalism’s thick, you’ve got to cover a lot of angles!

    Just giving you a hard time as a sign of affection. And I’m supposed to be doing a CEU that’s a snore, and it’s much more interesting over here.

  52. @ Cindy K: Yep (on “dominion” also being an attempt to recreate some supposed lost paradise, complete with Barbara Billingsley moms wearing pearls).

    And yes, we could swap stories!

  53. Dee–

    I can’t wait to see how Deb will enlighten us on that commentary. I’m sure it will be golden.

  54. Arce:

    I was talking about nepotism. I would enjoy talking with you about that.

    You and I are firmly planted in different camps on the gender and leadership issue. Arguing with each other would be a waste of time.

    Dee, same answer.

    But I thought the point of the post was interesting. There is way too much nepotism in some places. It’s understandable why people want to do it. It’s natural to help one’s offspring.

    But the lay leadership in the congregation should understand the nepotism issue and help guide the churches they oversee.

  55. Lew, If you look closely at the Greek in both the Titus and Timothy passages, it uses “tis” which means “anyone” but was translated man. Also “wife” in that passage can be translated as “woman”. Also, women in that culture did not have more than one husband so it was not a problem. But many men (mainly converted Jews) had more than one wife. And that could cause problems in the Body if they were overseers.

    If we take your interpretation we must conclude that overseers must be married and have children. And we know that is not true.

  56. And Lew, they tried for centuries to make Junia a man. When that did not work, they tried to say she was just thought highly of “by the apostles”. But neither is true. Chrystostem, a patriarchal church father, discusses her in his homily written back in the 3rd Century as a respected apostle…little “a” as in sent out one.

    She was planting churches.

    The Joel Prophecy in Acts was for the church age, my friend. And scripture does not contradict itself. We just insitutionalized the body of Christ and added words to scripture like “office” that are not in the Greek.

  57. Arce and as you stated earlier, patriarchy is rooted in sin. I cannot think of any of other front burner issue for Christians to confront than the issue of sin as it affects the church. Jesus is coming back for a church that is cleansed of sin (no spot or wrinkle), and how will this take place if sin is allowed to characterize our relationships within the church?

    Like other issues that have sullied the church like slavery, it must be confronted and steadfastly resisted. Personally I am completely confident that this important issue will become a litmus test, and those who pass will enjoy a greater degree of His favor.

    What is your perspective. Do you sit back and allow these things to sort themselves out? As an academic, are there examples from history we can draw upon for instruction as how to position ourselves for the conflict between those who believe the scripture, when properly interpreted, encourage and support all believers, regardless of gender, from full participation in every aspect of church life? (trying to avoid words like complementarianism & egalitarianism)

  58. “Nepotism is a side effect of patriarchy”

    Yes! As we see over and over after the fall. In fact, God turns it on it’s head and does not use “first born son” on most occassions for His purposes. As in David, Solomon, Joseph, etc. the list is long.

    Patriarchy is a result of sin. Yet many teach it as virtuous!

  59. Again, please do not bring anyone else into this situation. I don’t care what Dever, Chystostem, or anyone else says.

    Who wrote the text? It was given to Paul by God. Mark Dever was NOT given ‘revelation’ on marriage. Paul was. Paul is the writer of cannon, not Dever, Not Briscoe. Nobody else.

    The bible is EXPLICIT in what it says. HE shall be, He shall be. He has not. He shall be the HUSBAND. He shall be. He shall not

    Go outside of scripture at your own peril.

  60. Dee.. and everyone else. So, is Mahaney right? Or, is Mahaney wrong? Since you USED to like him and the church/denomination, but you don’t not now do you? At one point you THOUGHT, he was all that and a bag o chips. I have read a book of his and watched video’s along with Briscoe, Dever, Mohler, and others. However, that doesn’t mean they’re scriptural all the time as your OWN arguments for Mahaney state. In fact, I would agree with you on the assessment of Mohler on this whole issue if all is true!

    So, can a woman lead a woman’s ministry? Sure. Can a woman be a deacon as in a helper? Sure.

    However, scripture is clearly, clear and it is SUFFICIENT in the case of whom is to be lead pastors, teachers, elders. Unless you can change each mention and transpose husband/wife, etc… I don’t see it.

  61. Lew, the “translators” wrote the text you are using. Look at the Greek. Do you think the translators were all inspired by the Holy Spirit? If they were, I can give you quite a few examples to prove they were not.

    Chrysostom was much closer to the Greek than we are today. And he was patriarchal and still wrote that about Junia!

    He also wrote in Homily 10 that a man should not “authenteo” his wife! And that turns 1 Tim 2 totally around from what we are normally taught by the masculinists about women teaching men. Autheteo does not mean “authority over”. Even Calvin translated it as domineer. A bad thing. A thing it is bad for men to do, too. In 1 Tim 2 she (a woman as in singular) was teaching false doctrine. (The whole book is about that and starts out in chapter 1 concerning that issue)

    It is our job to dig and the Holy Spirit will put it in our hearts to do so when we totally erase our man taught filters and allow the Best Teacher to teach us..and what a joy it is.

  62. By the way.. on nepotism.. Not that they were ‘blood’, but Jesus’ mother and siblings along with other ‘relatives’ started the church if I’m not mistaken. Surely, that would be considered neopotism wouldn it not?

    No, I’m not for nepotism run amok, but let’s face it, friends and relatives tend to stay true don’t they? You go to churches and your brother is a pastor, or a friend, or another relative. Things happen, sin happens, maybe it’s slid under the rug? Then, maybe because you don’t want feelings hurt, nothing is said, or it’s not ‘big’ enough.

    We’re all sinners. I hope that the issue with CJ and everyone else is resolved and God heals all your hearts.

  63. “Who wrote the text? It was given to Paul by God. Mark Dever was NOT given ‘revelation’ on marriage. ”

    True Lew. In fact, the ONLY place Paul uses clear “authority” Greek words for marriage is in 1 Corin 7 and it relates to both husband and wife.

    the Holy Spirit could have inspired clear words for authority over in Ephesians but did not. 1 Corin 7 is the only place. And in the Greek, there are several VERY CLEAR words for authority over. “kephale” is not one of them.

    I wish more people would study on their own.

  64. Lin,

    I suspect that since you can’t trust translations you can’t trust ANY translations. And since you can’t really trust ANY translations, you can’t really trust the bible!

    Again, that’s a slippery slope, nor bunny trail I’m not going.

  65. “Not that they were ‘blood’, but Jesus’ mother and siblings along with other ‘relatives’ started the church if I’m not mistaken. Surely, that would be considered neopotism wouldn it not?”

    Lew, Jesus’s half brothers did not come on board until after the Cross. At the cross, we know that Jesus asked John to care for his mother, Mary.

    So they did not help “start” the church but came on board soon after. We know James was an elder in the Jerusalem church because of the Jerusalem council. If you notice, Jude does not claim to be a brother of Christ. He said he “serves Jesus” and then is a brother to James.

    It had nothing to do with their blood but their conversion.

  66. Lew,

    You miss the point that the HE is an english insertion at translation. The english equivalent of ONE is included in the verb form, and the translation to the Latin and then the KJV forced the masculine pronoun. So the entire argument you are making is based on a bad translation by a “divine right” king’s panel of sycophants.

    If you are going to make the argument, you need to go study the Greek, the culture of the day and the history of how we got from the inspiration of Paul to the text in hand, and its manipulation by sinful men trying to support a male king’s execution of his female competitors for power.

  67. “I suspect that since you can’t trust translations you can’t trust ANY translations. And since you can’t really trust ANY translations, you can’t really trust the bible!”

    Lew, when scripture appears to contradict itself as it does from the Joel Prophecy in Acts to Ephesians, it is ignorance not to check the Greek. We have the tools to do so easily. Just to give on you one example, the KJ was translated to give King James much need credibility as a Protestant. It was politically motivated and has a church/state mentality slant.

    We have no excuses to be ignorant. We can easily research to see, for example, that the word (teshuqa) “desire” in Gen 3 was actually translated as “turning” up until 1300’s when a monk named Pagnini changed it to desire in his translation. It changed the meaning and has done some harm. This is a fact that is easily researched if one cares enough.

    One area the translators have not touched (almost… except in Phil 2…where they play with it to teach ESS) is Messiah as God in the flesh. His death on the Cross and resurrection.

    The cultural aspects they played with. For women as with slavery to condone slavery as God’s intention.

  68. If the Joel prophecy is for this age, then the NAR is for this age isn’t it! lol

    Actually, drawing a conclusion that a pastor has to have a child vs. whether a man of woman is allowed is a red herring. You know that.

  69. A history of translations is very interesting, too. When all is said and done, the Holy Spirit is Who teaches us by the Word. Otherwise the bible is just a history book or a giant baseball bat to keep some people in line like women the pew sitters who are told they are not “God’s anointed” or as we all know…. it used to slaves.

    Without the Holy Spirit, the Word is meaningless. (shock!)

  70. LIn,

    If the Holy Spirit teaches then maybe Oral Roberts was right about that 900 foot Jesus right?

  71. Yes, and Oral was right about the hospital and the 8.7M, and a boatload of farcical things wasn’t he? Maybe Eddie Long is right too? Or, Todd Bentley, or maybe the pastor at my Saturday morning breakfast who said there WAS someone who had a word, yet… there was no word.

    This list could go on forever

  72. ‘Actually, drawing a conclusion that a pastor has to have a child vs. whether a man of woman is allowed is a red herring. You know that.”

    No Lew, You are not using logic or looking at the Greek and grammar. “tis” is used in both passages and means “anyone”. It speaks to males concerning more than one wife and children must be behaved. If I take your interpretation, the man must have a wife and children.

    Just as the passage in Tim 2 is taught so that a work of salvation is taught for women. They must bear children. What the comp scholars do not tell you is that “childbearing” in that passage is a noun and refers to “the childbearing” as in Messiah. Women are NOT saved by bearing children. God is not that cruel to barren women who love Christ.

    There is a lot of works salvation taught out there disguised as “roles” that is insidious. And not of Christ.

    The Joel Prophecy is for the church age. Why else would Peter through the Holy spirit have changed the first words in the prophecy from “after this” to “it came to pass in the last days”. The “last days” always refer to the church age….until Messiah comes back. The prophecy is for NOW.

  73. Lew, if you want to converse with content and examples from the Greek word meanings, let me know. I don’t do silly when it comes to the Word. Oral Roberts and many others mock God with their extrabiblical silliness.

    I am sticking with the Word, Greek word range of meaning and basic hermeneutics they teach in seminary.

  74. Lew

    Fight smart. Your arguments are silly and you know it. Also, be careful There are Biblical scholars who stand on authority of Scripture and disagree with your proof texting.”The Bible said it, I believe it, and that’s that” is not a good argument. The Bible also says the earth stands on pillars, so it must-right?

  75. Lew

    In several places in the Bible, the Hebrew word translated in Genesis as helpmate is used in the form that God is our helpmate. Surely you do not believe that that means He is subservient to us! It is somewhat akin to rescuer or strengthener. Be careful how you proof text, you just contributed to our side of the argument that women and men are equal, since the word you cite shows woman in a role to the man as God is in that role elsewhere in the Bible.

    Patriarchy did not exist in Eden, but is a result of the fall and is part of the punishment of the human race for sin. Now that we are post-resurrection, we should be moving again toward the perfect circumstance of the era that will follow the second coming. “In Christ there is neither male nor female.” If you are in Christ, you cannot be patriarchical for that is sin. Or you can insist on patriarchy and be outside of Christ. Your choice.

  76. Woman and men are equal depending on what the issue is. We’re to treat others equally. We’re to be equally nice, equally give the gospel, equally chew the fat, equally love each other, equally cry, equally laugh, equally do a range of issues.

    There are equally, a boatload of items where men and woman are NOT equal. One would be child birth. One would be personality. One would be bodies, hormones, muscle strength and mass, etc… etc… etc…

    So, what that means is that we are equal in some things and just as UNEQUAL in others.

    Also, please don’t tell me to not use someone who thought they were filled with the spirit. I know it doesn’t help the cause, but the facts are that those people THOUGHT that they were in the spirit at the time of what they said. You’re sure enough ready to give him some slack on the 900 foot Jesus, but maybe not so quick to give him slack on his other foibles. Along with the others. No pun intended.

    As far as scholars are concerned, Bart Ehlman is a reknown biblical scholar. Not sure I can agree with him though. I think both groups can put scholars on who give credit to one side of the argument.

    From what I’ve read men and woman are just not when it comes to elders/pastors.

    Have a nice night and I mean that sincerely.

  77. Lew

    Cut our the nonsense. Comparing the good people on this blog who have thought through this issue in fear and trembling to Bart Ehrman is ridiculous.These are Christians, not atheists.

    And then to compare them to Oral Roberts? Are you that entrenched in some system that you cannot see the difference between those two and the people who think that women can be in a position of leadership?

  78. Lew
    There are Biblical scholars who believe that women can be in a position of leadership. You have a problem. If a scholar agrees with you, they are right. If they don’t, they are not Biblical. I, at least, give credence to both perspectives. I think this also proves that the subject is not cut and dry. Too many good Christians, who believe in Biblical authority, do not agree with you. Others do not agree with me. It is a secondary issue.

  79. Anyone… I was wondering…
    Where are you with the use of the word “leader” for a“Disciple of Christ?” 😉

    Jesus always took and recommended the **low place.** Yes?
    The word “leader” seems like a “high place.” Yes?

    Seems Jesus has a unique take on “Leaders” for **His Body.** “ONE”

    As man – Jesus humbled Himself, made himself of NO reputation,
    and took on the form of a **Servant.** Php 2:7-8. 😉

    Why would anyone, male or female, want to be known as a “leader?”
    Jesus taught “His Disciples” NOT to be called “leader?”

    Jesus, in Mat 23:10 KJV, told **His disciples** “NOT” to call themselves
    “Master / Leaders,” for you have “ONE” “Master / Leader” “The Christ.”

    King James Version –
    Neither be ye called masters: for “ONE” is your Master, even Christ.

    The Interlinear Bible –
    Nor be called leaders, for “ONE” is your leader the Christ.

    Phillips Modern English –
    you must not let people call you leaders, you have only “ONE” leader, Christ.

    Today’s English Version –
    nor should you be called leader, your “ONE” and only leader is the Messiah.

    Jesus told **His disciples** NOT to be called **leaders** and NONE did.

    Rom 1:1 Paul, a servant of Jesus Christ,
    Php 1:1 Paul and Timotheus, the servants of Jesus Christ,
    Col 4:12 Epaphras, who is one of you, a servant of Christ,
    Tit 1:1 Paul, a servant of God,
    Jas 1:1 James, a servant of God
    2Pe 1:1 Simon Peter, a servant

    **His Disciples** all called themselves **Servants.**
    None called themselves “Leaders.” None? None.
    None called themselves “Servant-Leader.” None.

    If Jesus instructed **His Disciples** NOT to call themselves “leaders”
    and someone calls them self a “leader” or thinks they are a “leader;”

    Are they a “Disciple of Christ?”

    Why isn’t what Jesus said important? 😉

    And other sheep I have, which are not of this fold:
    them also I must bring, and they shall **hear MY voice;**
    and there shall be “ONE” fold, and “ONE” shepherd.
    John 10:16

    One Fold – One Shepherd – One Voice – One leader

    {{{{{{ Jesus }}}}}}

  80. Amos,

    I love your post. Pastor means shepherd, which was a follower of the flock, not a leader in any usual sense. Jesus the Christ is our only leader.

  81. Arce

    Seems today’s type of pastor/leader is non-exsistent in the NT.

    Pastor today is always a high place.

    Shepherd in the NT is always a low place.

    I’m Blest… I’ve returned to the Shepherd and Bishop of my soul… Jesus…

    P.S. How can I receive automatic emails when a new comment is posted? Thanks.

  82. A Amos Love

    I just spoke with my geek guy. He said to tell you that he will work on it but it will take about “40 days and 40 nights” because he is redoing some formatting stuff under the hood-so to speak.

  83. AALove

    There is much discussion going on around this issue of pastor. One place to start is a book called Pagan Christianity. I recommend that book a lot because it gets pastors of the megas really bent out of shape. That, for me, is an endorsement.

  84. I find it interesting that a person would make synonymous biological makeup and composure, such as hormones, sexual organs and reproduction with that of equality and justice.

    Hormones, childbearing, having breasts, penis or vagina is purely biology. It is not a matter of justice and human rights., or biblical equality. To say that I am unequal, as in a matter of justice and in relation to religious practice, to a man because of our sex organs makes an incomparable argument. There appear to be confusion between functional biology and the inherent inalienable rights of a soul, which have never been given any measure of difference in value in ALL of Scripture. And come to think of it, neither has functional biology and tge differences that exist between men and women physically have been given prescribed differences in value.

    It’s a truer statement to say that men and women are equal in all things, including their biology which is a unique expression of God in either male or female . Difference does not imply a change in value. And being that God is fully male and female in image, part of his imagine cannot have a sub level of equality than the other. There are simply no lesser forms of God within God, I.e. No eternal subordination of the son.