Part 1: The Back Story on Former SBCV Employee and Thomas Road Baptist Church Pastor Sergio Guardia’s Stalking of Marie Columna.

“Stalking is a complex crime that often co-occurs with other forms of victimization, including sexual violence. Offenders may use sexual violence as part of a stalking course of conduct,
and recognizing this connection can help service providers and legal professionals provide more comprehensive responses to more effectively serve victims and hold offenders accountable.” link


Many people have followed this story. I had a chance to speak with Marie Columna, who contacted me about telling her story. Believe it or not, the focus of this story is not the stalked but the response of Pastor Jonathan Falwell and leaders of the 24,000-member Thomas Road Baptist Church in Lynchburg, Virginia, which is a member of the Southern Baptist Convention. Before we deal with the brain-dead response of the church to one of their pastors, Sergio Guardia’s abusive stalking of Marie, I want to fill in some background on what happened. This will be a two-part story since I have too much information to share in one post. The worst part of this story was the response of the church.

Marie said, “Sergio was good at grooming me.”

Marie, her baby, and her now ex-husband moved to Lynchburg in 2007. Her husband was from Colombia, and they started attending the Hispanic ministry of Thomas Road Baptist Church. They became friendly with Sergio Guardia, the pastor of that ministry, and helped out at various events.

In 2009, her husband lost his job, and they moved to Florida. Unfortunately, Marie’s husband became abusive. Around 2011, she left her husband and brought their two children to Lynchburg. She struggled to get on her feet financially, but could finally move into a house. Sergio’s wife encouraged her to return to the Hispanic ministry at Thomas Road.

Sergio began to act like her big brother and got bossy. He told her not to date for at least a year after the divorce, even though she was not dating and had not yet divorced. He got upset if she talked to men and told her to delete them from her Facebook page. In 2015, she divorced her husband. Sergio would show up to any Bible study in which she was present. He brought groceries to her house in the middle of the day, even though she didn’t need groceries since she had started a photography business. She wondered if he used church funds to buy those unneeded groceries.

She lived on a busy street and was upset he would show up so frequently at her house. She thought it was unethical and felt he lacked proper boundaries. He was a pastor, and she tried to treat him respectfully, but was growing uncomfortable. He asked to show her how to set up her business on her laptop, and she realized later that he had probably gotten the password for her computer. He got his mother-in-law to organize her house and even asked if his sister-in-law could live with her, to which she said firmly, “No.”

She changed the locks on her house. But when she came home, she often found him standing outside. He began to complain about his wife to her, saying she had mental health problems. Marie did not believe this was true.

(@2015-2016) Things deteriorated. He told her he was in love with her and asked her to tell him nice things about himself. He gave her a DVD on sex and dating. She told him he needed counseling and asked him to leave and not come back. She told him they had “no relationship.” He returned a few weeks later, and she said she would leave unless he got out of the house. He grabbed her, forcibly kissing her, and put his hand up her shirt. She yelled at him to get out and never return, or she would call the police. She had left Thomas Road Baptist Church(TRBC) by this time, but reported him to the TRBC Pastor Pablo Claros, who claimed he had told everyone in leadership. Did he?  According to The Roys Report, Claros would come to Guardia’s trial to support him. Did the church try to contact Marie and offer her help? On Wednesday, I plan to discuss what happened with TRBC.

She decided to move to a townhouse where she felt safer. Unfortunately, this did not last long. One day, she came home in the middle of the day, and he was in the house using her laptop, although he denied using it. She told him she was calling the police, and he left. She later found that a new device was logging onto her computer. She said it was from a Liberty-owned computer. She called him, and he denied it.

She stopped attending church altogether. In 2018, her children’s father started attending TRBC Hispanic ministry and got into a leadership position, so she decided to move one more time.

Silence ensued for about 6 years.

Sergio Guardia: Night stalker x2 (That we know about.)

Marie finally began to relax. She would run into him at Kroger’s from time to time, but nothing happened. She was swamped during this time as a single parent, dealing with custody issues and her job. She did not have a strong support system. She forgot to get her computer to see if Sergio was accessing it. However, given her history, she installed some Ring cameras upstairs in their house and backyard to feel safer. In November 2023, she travelled to Pennsylvania with her kids to see friends. Her daughter lived in the basement of their home and often left the door unlocked so her friends could come in and visit.

The first time

At 11:30 that evening, she got a notification and saw Sergio entering her daughter’s bedroom and coming up the stairs, where he saw the active camera. I have the video posted below. She called the police, but it was too late. He had already left, and they took a report. She told the police she was afraid of him and wanted to press charges. She told them she was scared of him, and well, she should be! There is no question in my mind that this man has a serious obsession.

The second time

He showed up the next night at 6:30 PM and was caught on camera again! Sergio and the police are shown in the first video at the end of the post.

She was afraid. She wondered how often he could have been in her house without a camera and what he had been doing in her daughter’s bedroom for such a long time.

A neighbor called the police and reported seeing Sergio in the house two nights in a row.

Sergio was arrested.

He was arrested for stalking and two counts of breaking and entering. She could not press for assault due to the Statute of Limitations. (Marie, keep an eye on these. Many states are changing their laws in this regard.)

She believed that five pastors from TRBC attended the preliminary hearing. Pastor Falwell was present, and TRBC Pastor Matt Wilmington was a witness of character.

The judge certified a protective order for Marie and her kids.

He asked for a plea deal.

He asked for the charges of trespassing to be reduced. Marie refused any such deal. At the last minute, he finally asked for a bench trial. During the trial, Marie said he claimed that Marie had pursued him! The trial in March 2025 resulted in a conviction.

Sergio Guardia, former pastor of the Spanish-language campus of Thomas Road Baptist Church in Lynchburg, Virginia, and  a former employee of SBC Virginia, was convicted of two felony counts of burglary, court records show. He also was convicted of one count of stalking, a first-degree misdemeanor.

The charges against Guardia carry a penalty of two to 10 years in prison and a fine of $7,500, at the discretion of the court.

The sentencing will be in August. TWW wants to know which pastor will be begging the judge for a reduced sentence, but that is the story for Wednesday.

The rest of the story is even worse, according to Marie (and I concur.)

On Wednesday, I am going to discuss how TRBC responded to Marie’s abuse of the hands of one of their pastors. Would you believe that the church leaders seemed to care more about Sergio than Marie and her children? Of course you would. Stay tuned. I have a great video on Wednesday. What happens when they turn the cameras off and think no one is watching or listening?


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Part 1: The Back Story on Former SBCV Employee and Thomas Road Baptist Church Pastor Sergio Guardia’s Stalking of Marie Columna. — 47 Comments

  1. At 11:30 that evening, she got a notification and saw Sergio entering her daughter’s bedroom and coming up the stairs, where he saw the active camera. I have the video posted below.

    This same video showed up in my YouTube feed late last week. Creeper shows up in the frame, the camera auto-tracks him, then he notices the camera tracking him, gives a great poleaxed freakout expression, then gets out of Dodge real fast. Just the moment where he notices the camrea auto-tracking him… “It was at that moment, he knew, he F’ed up.”

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  2. What happens when they turn the cameras off and think no one is watching or listening?

    When JMac of Chicago was in the same off-the-record situation, he talked about uploading CP onto the personal laptop of his enemy, the editor of Christianity Today. While his Yes-Men Elders cheered him on.

    Hell hath no fury like a Mancow who just realised he’d been used.

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  3. Max: Yeah, but why do they all have to be church members!

    Because, I think, traditional Christian theology and practice requires the absurd conversion of mythological stories into literal facts. “If you swallow THAT we can get you to swallow anything.”

    This absurd conversion turns people into sheep.

    Ideally I think Christianity would require the hard work of directly experiencing Christ in everything.
    This builds the necessary muscles of skepticism and discernment.

    The Quakers have embraced this view, some of them.

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  4. dee: He was the “See, we care about Hispanics. They hired me.”

    A dangerous strategy. As we’ve learned on TWW over several years covering these bad-boys, anyone (anyone!) with a touch of charisma, a gift of gab, and a gimmick can become a successful “pastor” in the American church. When race is used as the gimmick, as a token to fill a slot, it makes the whole thing sicker. I know Hispanic pastors who are the real-deal … this one was not.

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  5. Sandy: Because, I think, traditional Christian theology and practice requires the absurd conversion of mythological stories into literal facts. “If you swallow THAT we can get you to swallow anything.”

    And swallowing Absurdity as FACT is one step off from committing Atrocity.
    (Remember the Thule Society and its Aryan Master Race Theory?)

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  6. Muff Potter: What ever happened to JMac?
    Has been able to mine the gold fields of Coronado Isle? (San diego)

    Dunno.
    Last time anybody heard anything was that Road Rage Assault (fortunately he left his 9mm Emotional Support Companion in his bubba truck) and his social media posting of him cosplaying a Hell’s Angel, Andrew Tate-sized Alpha Male cigar and all. “ME TOUGH! SEE? SEE? SEE?”

    Guy really needs to be made to pedal a tricycle around the Chicago Loop with a circus midget balanced on his shoulders. He’s already dressing the part (see above).

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  7. Sandy: “If you swallow THAT, we can get you to swallow anything.”

    While the phrasing is harsher than I might use:) There is a critical truth at its core.

    The foundation of all Christian churches that I know of is “Belief,” accompanied by an I/We believe statement. Then, we have a series of shared behaviors that put those beliefs into practice.

    I don’t mean to challenge those beliefs or practices, but I do think it is important to acknowledge that they can cause problems in other places within a church.

    Inclusion in the groups requires two components. The congregation must believe their leaders, and the leaders must lead their congregation in a direction in which they are willing to go.

    As bizarre as it might seem, it becomes nearly impossible to question our shared beliefs after extended participation in a group. It is just the way our brains work; by way of example, try learning a second language as an adult 🙂 After 50+ years, our neural pathways have formed to hear certain sounds in a specific order. Changing those sounds and their ordering takes significant effort and focus.

    There is an awesome example of this phenomenon at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vJG698U2Mvo&t=32s

    So, when a religious leader does something bad, it can be very hard for the congregation to believe it. We do all sorts of mental gymnastics to resolve the conflict. The most common is to say. “Shhh, we don’t talk about that….” in formal terms, this is called cognitive dissonance; other readers might find value in a quick Google search to grasp the key principles and responses we as people have when we experience cognitive dissonance.

    An effect of this is that it can be easy for church leadership to avoid responsibility for bad behavior.

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  8. davewis: The congregation must believe their leaders, and the leaders must lead their congregation in a direction in which they are willing to go.

    Too often these days, church leaders take the stance with their congregations “Tell me which way you want to go and I’ll get out in front to lead.” Bill Hybels’ seeker-friendly way of doing church did just this. It mattered not how far off course a church group got in terms of true Gospel ministry, as long as church growth was the focus and the nickles and noses kept coming in. The result has been Christianity Lite where pretty much anything is passed off as “Christian” … and trusted church leaders with wicked hearts can get away with bad behavior.

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  9. Max: Too often these days, church leaders take the stance with their congregations “Tell me which way you want to go and I’ll get out in front to lead.”Bill Hybels’ seeker-friendly way of doing church did just this.

    An analogy I like to use is that of a parade leader.

    We like to think of the leader as one who show initiative and sets the direction for the group due to their superior intellect or understanding.

    As your example shows, many times, leadership involves finding a parade and getting in front of it. Once someone is in front, their primary concern becomes staying in front.

    Were you able to count the correct number of basketball passes?

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  10. Sandy,

    I think that there may be further reasons that church members are vulnerable to being deceived about the true character of bad actors in their midst.

    In the bits of the Evangelical movement I have observed, there is a belief that conversion results in profound change in a person’s character. The evidence by which of conversion is assessed to have taken place is, however, not the character change that conversion is thought to produce, but the more superficial test of verbal confession, doctrinal conformity, and a pretty minimal set of behavioral conformities to group expectations.

    I do think that it is possible for deep change to happen in a brief period of time after a change of allegiance from “self” to “Christ”, but I think that such profound change may be a lot less common than the mainstream theology (or at least the way that is understood by “the people in the pews”) of regeneration at conversion would lead one to expect. Typically, people will continue to struggle with the same character issues that characterized them prior to conversion.

    I think it is unwise to assume that because “this person talks the way I expect a righteous person to talk”, it follows that “this person is a righteous person.” (This is closely connected with the problems in present prevailing practices of pastoral selection — it seems to me that they are selected largely on “how they talk.”)

    It’s unfortunate that it is prudent to start with a hermeneutic of suspicion toward other people, but that is where we are, IMO.

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  11. davewis: As your example shows, many times, leadership involves finding a parade and getting in front of it. Once someone is in front, their primary concern becomes staying in front.

    Depending on what kind of group it is and what the purposes of the group are, this leadership style may be more appropriate than a “top down/follow me” style. For example, if “internal peace” and “group cohesion” are important values of the group (in church context, I think these are valid and important values), then sensitivity to what the group wants or is willing to do is pretty important. If the leader assesses that the group consensus is flawed, he can still attempt to influence the consensus through means such as persuasion — “let us reason together.”

    This works better in smaller groups. I doubt that larger groups can be led in this way — too difficult for consensus to emerge in a large group and the only effective structure is hierarchical, which suits the preferences of people who want to be in charge.

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  12. Samuel Conner: I think it is unwise to assume that because “this person talks the way I expect a righteous person to talk”, it follows that “this person is a righteous person.” (This is closely connected with the problems in present prevailing practices of pastoral selection — it seems to me that they are selected largely on “how they talk.”)

    TWW archives are loaded with accounts of church leaders who talked the talk but did not walk the walk. Just because a man has a gift of gab and a working knowledge of the Bible does not necessarily mean he has been called by God to preach. Pastoral selection by mere men is a world of difference from pastoral calling by God. Most churches don’t have the spiritual wisdom to know the difference, so they are easily deceived when selecting a new pastor.

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  13. Max: It should be clear by now that SBC leadership don’t have a lick of discernment about a lot of things these days.

    Oh but they DO have Discernment!
    The Holy Spirit has them on 24/7 speed dial “discerning” all those DEMONIC Jezebel Spirits in all those Uppity Femoid 304s!

    (And don’t forget all those DEMONS! and WITCHES! under every bed and in every Goodwill sweater, all after YOUR Children! Yes, I am a survivor of The Satanic Panic; however could you guess?)

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  14. Where is this guy’s wife in all of this? Is she just standing by submissively, as the pastors tell her that her husband is a good guy, what he did wasn’t wrong, but divorcing his ass would be the ultimate sin? I thought the older women were supposed to teach the younger women, so why was this “pastor” helping (or his idea of helping) her? Were there no older women in the congregation to do that, if indeed she needed any help or guidance? Maybe he never read the book of Titus. I cannot wait for part 2 of this circus.

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  15. I think it is unwise to assume that because “this person talks the way I expect a righteous person to talk”, it follows that “this person is a righteous person.” (This is closely connected with the problems in present prevailing practices of pastoral selection — it seems to me that they are selected largely on “how they talk.”)
    Samuel Conner,

    Evil off-Broadway actors that have all of their lines memorized.

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  16. Headless Unicorn Guy,

    “What happens when Christianity has made you incapable of “experiencing Christ”?”
    ++++++++++++++++

    What a question.

    indeed.

    i think a viable option is to scale everything back to a benevolent higher power, one which loves it’s creation so much as to become one of them.

    i think God understands and hears a prayer that starts out with, “God, whose name i’m not sure about because christians make their version of you impossible,…”

    i think God/Jesus/Holy Spirit are entirely findable in this paradigm. Perhaps it’s better for the person to to keep things anonymous.

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  17. Max: Christianity Lite

    Punched-card Fundamental minima become maxima a la Nicholas Cardinal Cusanus (a neo-gnostic) ensuing in jettisoning “most of” pneumatology of One Holy Spirit and all actual eschatology – both highlighted in the same Ascension – who is really “Sovereign” now?

    Convenient vacuum for invented machinations; even polite ones are considered cool.

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  18. Samuel Conner: I think it is unwise to assume that because “this person talks the way I expect a righteous person to talk”, it follows that “this person is a righteous person.”

    What do you think that Rabbi from Tarsus was saying when he wrote “For Satan Himself can transform Himself to appear as an Angel of Light”? A Spiritual Warfare green light to “discern” DEMONS in anyone you don’t like?

    I grew up with a sociopath manipulator in my family.
    They are Absolute MASTERS of camouflaging what they really are.
    Except for their chosen target, all anyone else can see is their Angel of Light mask.
    And Christians are the easiest of easy marks.

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  19. Michael in UK: Punched-card Fundamental minima become maxima a la Nicholas Cardinal Cusanus (a neo-gnostic) ensuing in jettisoning “most of” pneumatology of One Holy Spirit and all actual eschatology – both highlighted in the same Ascension – who is really “Sovereign” now?

    I have absolutely NO idea who or what you’re talking about.
    You are using references and dropping names that may be very familiar and obvious to you but mean nothing to the rest of us. No context, no foundation.

    Like the bugaboo of historians researching the past: basics that were never written down because “everybody knows that”.

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  20. Headless Unicorn Guy,

    Pneumatology = Holy Spirit lore, excised by the early promoters of the Fundamentals (logically, the Comforter was given in fulness from Ascension, as our Samuel C pointed out not many years ago, and the New Testament models BOTH one-stage AND two-stage initiation).

    Eschatology = the teaching on the period from Ascension to when Jesus shall return, excised by the early promoters of the Fundamentals, during which all the gifts are meant.

    These are the areas where you, and also I, have witnessed craziness and slipperiness. Hal Lindsey, Kenneth Copeland, Macarthur-style heavy handedness, Piper-ish weirdness, a Torrey-like sense of indispensibility. Then placing themselves in our eye like they were some pope?

    Some of the mild-mannered (followers of J I Packer maybe) say that the best antidote to bad teaching is no teaching.

    They are the ones that are saying “everybody knows” when there was nothing to know because we weren’t being told (except to make our eyes skip bits when we read a normal Bible).

    Enter into the resultant void, things equally weird, only slightly rebadged (Wimber, Bruce Ware). Age and sex cohorts aren’t meant to have any sense of comparison with what others have witnessed, or with any residual skill in reading and thinking others might have.

    No, the best antidote is the real and most plain long term teaching (taught or not), I don’t call it “biblical” because that word got stolen.

    The early promoters of the Fundamentals and their recent successors couldn’t achieve unity because there was insufficient content or value of inference to their level and sort of belief (and they were fixated on their idea of “ordinances”): we have asked them for bread and they have given us a stone. The Fundamentalists are new-agey (functional dispensationists) and are theological “liberals”.

    Bait and switch-switch-switch, we don’t remember what the bait was nor what it has been switched to. Originally, as foreseen by good prophets, Jesus promised us providential salvation from the ravages of codependency on slippery characters.

    There is more woo-woo in “conventional christianity” than some religion bosses would be comfortable having us realise. This is the breeding ground in which we don’t notice “doctrinally” when bullies arise.

    Ps 22:22, “I shall tell of Your name”. They might recite this! Then they shouldn’t give us or the secular world half-truths.

    Cusanus taught that nothing and everything are the same thing. He is part of the same general trend as Faustus in legend (which I haven’t read yet), Dee and Fludd * (connected with the Thirty Years’ War and Archbishop Laud), and sorcerers’ apprentices. But the issues are the same as they always have been.

    Punched card sorting was explained to me when it was being phased out. Something like: if you hold cards up to the light or try to push a rod through (I can’t remember how that happened), only holes representing “search terms” work, unless all cards also have other terms in common for an unrelated reason. Much “authoritative” religion consists of taking away from God’s “search terms” while (the actual) St Paul says, “love believes ALL the things” and, “ALL Scripture is beneficial”.

    { * Frances Yates wrote about them but I gave away her book }

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  21. Michael in UK,

    Headless Unicorn Guy,

    These trends resulted in many churches retaining a dumbed-down impression of “God’s sovereignty”, their managers convinced that christians are solely material beings to be manoeuvred, thus they can’t use conscience, initiative and justice when their personnel are in the wrong. Meantime “prayer”, by which the gospel will stand or fall (because by it the existence of providence can somehow be shown), got turned into a weapon or black magic, or something embarrassing (Jesus didn’t say we should await their permission to get on with it).

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