David French Unleashed a Conservative Firestorm by Supporting the Respect for Marriage Act. Why I Think We Should Listen to Him.

A spiral galaxy falling into a black hole. James Webb/NASA

“If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” Romans 12:18 NIV


Today I want to stir the pot a bit. Please state your point of view kindly. The argument you have in mind is likely, not new and that Christians of goodwill can disagree on how we interact with the subject at hand.

Before this gets started, let me remind anyone who reads this that I am a conservative Christian and I am a member of an LCMS church. I take the subject of marriage, within the Christian context, quite seriously. I believe in a covenant marriage in the sense that it should not be broken without abuse, desertion, or adultery. I also think forgiveness can be extended to those who divorced in other circumstances.

Even within churches and denominations, there is disagreement on this subject. However, I approach this subject as a conservative Christian with moderate leanings. That should cause a discussion, and I will explain that if necessary.

C.S. Lewis kicks off this discussion on church marriages versus civil marriages

Before leaving the question of divorce, I should like to distinguish two things which are very often confused. The Christian conception of marriage is one: the other is quite the different question-how far Christians, if they are voters or Members of Parliament, ought to try to force their views of marriage on the rest of the community by embodying them in the divorce laws. A great many people seem to think that if you are a Christian yourself you should try to make divorce difficult for every one. I do not think that. At least I know I should be very angry if the Mohammedans tried to prevent the rest of us from drinking wine.

My own view is that the Churches should frankly recognize that the majority of the British people are not Christian and, therefore, cannot be expected to live Christian lives. There ought to be two distinct kinds of marriage: one governed by the State with rules enforced on all citizens, the other governed by the church with rules enforced by her on her own members. The distinction ought to be quite sharp, so that a man knows which couples are married in a Christian sense and which are not.

I will admit, with trepidation, that I read this quote a long time ago and found myself agreeing with Lewis and have used this reasoning in how I approach the public square. I shrink from all forms of political discourse, especially on social media. I think this discussion emerges from all sorts of Christian theologizing, and I am shocked at the outright exhibition of angry expressions directed toward those Christians who view things differently. That is what I am addressing today. Can we, as Christians, discuss this subject without throwing bombs of “You’re no Christian!”

David French has changed his mind about gay marriage in the civil/state arena.

David French, a conservative Christian, caused an uproar in the Christian community with a simple, well-thought article: Why I Changed My Mind About Law and Marriage, Again.:
“Walking through my flip, flop, flip on one of the toughest issues of our time.”

…declaring that religious belief is not the same thing as declaring civil law. Outside of the most hard-core integralists or dominionists, there is broad and wise consensus that importing divine standards whole cloth into civil law can be a recipe for division, oppression, and ultimate harm to the church itself. Our nation possesses an Establishment Clause for a reason.

What is the Establishment Clause? Essentially it prevents the government from establishing a religion. In other words, the Lutheran Church is not the state’s official religion like it has been in Norway and Sweden. Even there, things are changing. In the US, the Lemon test states: 

Under the “Lemon” test, government can assist religion only if (1) the primary purpose of the assistance is secular, (2) the assistance must neither promote nor inhibit religion, and (3) there is no excessive entanglement between church and state.

After Obergefell v. Hodges in 2015, He was initially concerned that any religious objection would be treated as intolerant by those who do not hold to a covenant marriage POV. He gives examples of this in the article.

it’s plain that there are progressive Americans who most assuredly do not believe there are good faith objections to same-sex marriage, even on religious grounds. They view any objection to same-sex marriage as inherently and purely bigoted, and want the law and culture to punish orthodox Christians for upholding the teachings of their churches.

He felt that the legal response had effectively protected religious liberty and gave examples of the cases that won.

…since Obergefell, both LGBT Americans and people who uphold orthodox Christian teachings on marriage enjoy expanded individual and institutional liberty. That doesn’t mean there aren’t issues left to resolve—and it certainly doesn’t mean that parts of the left aren’t keen to reverse religious liberty’s legal advance—

Thus, he decided to support the Respect of Marriage Act which has since been signed into law.

I wrote Friday in The Atlantic in support of the Senate’s version of the Respect for Marriage Act

The act contains “important protections” for religious liberty, including “an explicit statement by Congress that ‘diverse beliefs about the role of gender in marriage’—including the belief that marriage is between a man and woman rather than between persons of the same sex—’are held by reasonable and sincere people based on decent and honorable philosophical premises’ and that such beliefs ‘are due proper respect.’”

…I don’t want the law to discriminate against those Americans who sincerely hold different views of sexual morality, sexuality, and marriage and organize their lives and their institutions accordingly. I want aggressive secular culture warriors to stand down, and if they choose not to, then I want the law to block their efforts to roll back the First Amendment.

David French is then accused of not being a Christian.

This is the part I hate. Christians accuse progressives of ill intentions. Christians themselves can also wear that label.

The culmination of the critiques came from Al Mohler, president of the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary, who took to the pages of World Magazine to pen a piece called “The Parable of David French.”

One Christian claimed he should be subject to church discipline. Another suggested his stand was like supporting slavery. French, who signed the Nashville Statement, states:

Marriage is the “covenantal, sexual, procreative, lifelong union of one man and one woman, as husband and wife, and is meant to signify the covenant love between Christ and his bride the church.”

He points out that the Nashville Statement does not realistically define the view of marriage in the public square. He signed this statement which I believe has some difficulties, but that is for another time.

Under this legal regime, civil marriage was a quasi-contractual relationship between a man and a woman, provided they were of proper age and not too closely related. It was breakable at will. In fact, civil marriage is a less binding legal arrangement than your typical commercial contract. It’s not a true contract. It’s a quasi-contract.

In civil marriage, individuals can and do break their marriage quasi-contract for reasons that range well beyond the small number of defined justifications (such as adultery or abandonment) for a “scriptural” divorce. Then, once a civil marriage ends, the law allows a person to enter into any number of additional civil marriages provided that they are serial and not simultaneous.

In other words, folks, divorce is rampant in the public square. Yet the church is not out there protesting lenient divorce laws. Is that because there are lots of divorced people in churches, and that is somehow overlooked? Some people cohabit without marriage, and laws have been passed. When was the last time someone suggested a protest regarding that law? French then goes on to make the “Ouch” point.

One of our local conservative “marriage activists” had been married three times.

There are lots of people like that hanging around the church. Many have not “repented” either. I know a number of stories like this in local conservative churches.

You keep saying the word “marriage.” I don’t think it means what it used to mean.

So the word “marriage” has been messed with, inside and outside the church. Attempts to reclaim a pan-societal view of marriage are naive at best. Statistics appear to indicate that the majority of people in the US, including 52% of evangelicals, support the Respect for Marriage Act.

I don’t think Al Mohler, Carl Truman, or Russell Moore, along with us, will be able, with fancy rhetoric, to change the minds of society in general. That ship has sailed. But faithful churches can change the mind of some of those inside the church to accept that point of view. That is where the rubber meets the road. If churches would get out of the Christian politics game and focus on the individuals in their churches, maybe the word “marriage” might mean something to those in the pews.

Years ago, I talked with a neighbor who asked me why I was pro-life. I pulled out all the stops, pamphlets, documentaries, etc., and got nowhere. Instead, I began to discuss my Christian faith when she showed interest. To my surprise, she talked to my pastor and became a Christian. She joined my church, and over time, she became pro-life herself and began volunteering to support women with complex pregnancies.

Why do we expect people to understand our views if they don’t adhere to our faith in our church community? Isn’t that in the realm of what Christians believe is “the conviction of the Holy Spirit?”

CS Lewis’ view of two types of marriages.

At this point, I find myself leaning towards French’s position. There should be recognition of two types of marriages. Many do not view marriage in the same way that the conservative church sees it. At the same time, I believe that all people, regardless of beliefs or practices, should have the protection of the law in their relationships. The granting of the legal status of committed couples outside of the conservative church is easily achieved by legalizing civil unions. But wait! Even that ship sailed because too many  were sitting on their butts and protesting “homosexuality.” The gay community and their friends have changed the meaning of marriage to mean committed relationships. So, I believe the argument is done. The Christian community, with its high divorce rates, can’t even use its own church marriages as an example of covenant marriages. I can assure you that there are not many people who look at these churches and see those marriages as an example of Christ’s relationship to the Church, as some of the gospel boys like to tell us should happen. (It doesn’t happen very often at all.)

Also, there are a number of denominations and churches which ordain gay marriage. The church community is split, meaning the conservative church will need to work harder to get its message out within their local church communities.

I think Lewis had it right. (Yes, I know a letter was found to Lewis from Tolkien disagreeing with him, but it was never sent.” So just how significant was the disagreement to Tolkien?) The government and progressive churches, as well as the conservative church, grant marriages. It is confusing. So, I would suggest they come up with a better term than “covenant marriages” since I have heard some progressive churches are now using that term.

Judgment is one day coming. Do we know what that might mean for us?

I have a gay friend, and I suspect he is reading this post. We shared dinner one night, and he asked me a difficult question. “What do you think of me as a married gay man?” I asked him, “Have you read your Bible?” He said he had, and I had reason to believe him. He said he disagreed with those passages in the Bible relating to gay relationships. I told him we are given free will in this world, which extends to his view of the Bible and faith issues. I said, “You know, one day, I will have to stand before God and give an account. I am more worried about how that’s going to go for me than I am about convincing you why I’m right.” He laughed, we clinked glasses, and went on to enjoy our dinner. The conservative church has matched the progressive community in word, thought, and deed. Conservatives think the progressives are killing America and are planning to “save America.” Some progressives believe that religion is to blame for many problems and plan to do “something” about it. Maybe it’s time to redirect our efforts into reforming the church. Wait, that’s already happened, hasn’t it?

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David French Unleashed a Conservative Firestorm by Supporting the Respect for Marriage Act. Why I Think We Should Listen to Him. — 277 Comments

  1. Secular marriage is a contract that protects both people in a relationship.

    Biblical marriage is also a contract. I firmly believe that Jesus injunction against divorce had more to do with keeping commitments to family (aimed mainly at men, being a patriarchal society). Divorce could be a death sentence for women & children.

    But in the secular realm, the Christian definition doesn’t apply and it’s a good thing given what the “god solution” would be.

    Anyways those patriarchs with their many concubines and wives would be a divorce lawyers dream!

  2. Jack: I firmly believe that Jesus injunction against divorce had more to do with keeping commitments to family (aimed mainly at men, being a patriarchal society). Divorce could be a death sentence for women & children.

    I agree with you.

  3. Separation of Church and State was a principle that ordinary Scots fought and died for and this principle has developed into the current view that each has its own jurisdiction, as described by C S Lewis. But it is easily forgotten that there is only “One Kingdom under God” as Thomas Halliday reminds us in his book of the same name, an exposition of Romans 13:1-6.
    In his introductory remarks he writes -“ The representative assemblies of the mightiest nations that ever existed possess no legislative powers but what they derive from Jehovah, and beyond His commandment they have no authority to do less or more. The king upon the throne, however unlimited the power which his own usurpation may have acquired him, or a thoughtless nation committed to his hands, tis still but a dependent subject of the King of Heaven–and so far are the splendor of his rank, and the extent of his power, from derogating from his subjection to the Governor of the universe that they rather increase his responsibility, and stamp additional aggravations on his guilt so often as he presumes to transgress the Divine Law. That magistrates and subjects, in their respective stations, are subject to the authority of God, and that He claims a sovereign right to prescribe the duties of both, are truths, we believe, which all admit, and which it is impossible to deny, while such passages as the one before us remain in the Bible. The most superficial reader of the scriptures must have observed, that among the extensive range of subjects to which they direct our attention, they contain not a few directions on the duties connected with civil government–a circumstance which clearly proves1 that the authority of God extends to men in their political transactions, and that his law is to be their rule in every department of society….. When they enjoin things of a moral nature and previously required by the Divine Law, the duty of obedience is undeniable. Even when their commands refer to things of an indifferent nature, a regard to peace, and respect for a character so exalted as that of one who is God’s minister, are sufficient reasons for a quiet and dutiful submission…… Should they, however, so far depart from their duty as to command things of a sinful nature, however legitimate their authority be in other respects, these commands convey no obligation, and are entitled to no obedience. In all such instances, therefore, subjects must commit the consequences to God, and refuse submission. “We ought to obey God rather than man,” is a principle on which we are at all times to act, even though it should lead us to set at defiance the command of the greatest, or even the best magistrate that ever existed”.

    He does realise that he subject has a tendency to inflame passions (even in the 18th century) and he urges caution -“ The diversity of opinion, however, that has prevailed on the subject, and the danger to which we are exposed of being warped by prejudice, or misled by party spirit, loudly inculcate the greatest caution in our investigation, and an implicit reliance upon the teaching of the Holy Spirit, whose work it is to guide into all truth.”

    It should be an interesting discussion.

  4. Dee, I love you, but as long as Evangelical and many other churches consider LGBTQIA+ people to be the worst sinners ever, they’re not going to change their mind on marriage. Also, according to some legal scholars that I trust, the Respect for Marriage Act actually doesn’t stop the Supreme Court from overturning Obergefell. It may actually take a Constitutional amendment to guarantee marriage rights.

    That said, I’m old enough to remember when Loving v. Virginia (1967) was decided, and 20-odd states with anti-miscegenation laws had to scrap them. It’s also worth remembering that the very devout antebellum Christians weren’t out there agitating for their enslaved human property to have the right to marry. That’s because they were just that, *property*. Which is one reason why the ceremony of “jumping the broom” as part of a wedding is so important in Black communities. It was the way enslaved people attempted to solemnize a marriage among their community in a society where enslavers could and did break up families in the pursuit of monetary gain.

    So my point is that even within my lifetime, marriage has been expanded to include interracial marriage, and within the history of the USA, marriage was extended to newly freed people. I scowl when I see people claim marriage has never changed. Why yes, yes it has, and it’s been restricted too based on some people’s religious beliefs. I am so tired.

  5. Dee wrote: “In other words, folks, divorce is rampant in the public square. Yet the church is not out there protesting lenient divorce laws. Is that because there are lots of divorced people in churches, and that is somehow overlooked? … French then goes on to make the “Ouch” point. ‘One of our local conservative “marriage activists” had been married three times.'”

    This is the crux of where I am at. If you believe that gay marriage is a sexual sin, then what are you doing about the other sexual sins? If you are not taking a similar approach to adultery, fornication, etc, etc, then you are singling out gay people for a reason…and there are a host of problems with that.

    BTW, since when has it become a negative thing to learn, grow, and change?

  6. Susan, you raise some of the same questions I’ve had–why single out gay people? Or, why not single out other specific sins not just sexual sins.
    I’m also a strong proponent of separation of church and state. If I remember correctly (and I could be very wrong here), Germany still has people indicate which church they attend, and they need to pay a small tax. If they are “evangelical,” there’s a different sort of tax.
    What about the UK where I have friends? They are baffled why the US didn’t allow “courthouse marriages” that are not bound by clergy or religious rules. It’s still a legally binding marriage, minus the blessing of clergy. Why not allow those kinds of unions here, instead of demanding people have a religious ceremony? Do nonbelievers have to follow the norms of churches? I don’t think so.
    And Muslin, I too, remember Loving v. Virginia. I had friends with interracial unions, and even into the 1980s, they felt extremely uncomfortable living in the South due to prejudice towards their union.
    Dee, I’m sure your comments will upset many, but I’m squarely in your court.

  7. David French is occasionally correct on some topics but is a largely a CINO (conservative in name only).
    He actually usually sides with or promotes liberal and progressive perspectives.

    In the meantime, the percentage of single adults continues to grow and grow.
    But does anyone (especially churches) care about ministering to singles? No.

    Everyone remains obsessed with marriage, marriage, marriage and sometimes with falling birth rates
    (nobody cares about the single and childless / childfree, unless it’s a pastor shaming them about being single and childless / childfree)

    Rising Share of U.S. Adults Are Living Without a Spouse or Partner
    https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2021/10/05/rising-share-of-u-s-adults-are-living-without-a-spouse-or-partner/

    October 2021
    A new Pew Research Center analysis of census data finds that in 2019, roughly four-in-ten adults ages 25 to 54 (38%) were unpartnered – that is, neither married nor living with a partner.
    This share is up sharply from 29% in 1990.
    Men are now more likely than women to be unpartnered, which wasn’t the case 30 years ago.

    The growth in the single population is driven mainly by the decline in marriage among adults who are at prime working age.

  8. Muslin, fka Dee Holmes: Dee, I love you, but as long as Evangelical and many other churches consider LGBTQIA+ people to be the worst sinners ever, they’re not going to change their mind on marriage.

    Love you, too! Thank you for your comment.

  9. Susan: BTW, since when has it become a negative thing to learn, grow, and change?

    I certainly have changed in the last 20 years. I think it has been a good thing.

  10. “You know, one day, I will have to stand before God and give an account”

    I think you are off on this

    No need to give an account

  11. Old Timer: Dee, I’m sure your comments will upset many, but I’m squarely in your court.

    Thank you for easing my mind. I had a feeling I would be roundly excoriated.

  12. There a whole lot to chew on here. But for brevity’s sake I will break this up into pieces. And old friend of mine many years ago bemoaned conservative Christians who are far more concerned with legislating morality into the legal code than getting people saved. He did not understand it. That just gets people to pretend that they are moral Christians when many are actually neither. This is what has happened for centuries in the past. He thinks the emphasis is upside down. Catch the fish first. Then clean them. This is one element here and I also agree with CS Lewis for this reason and others.

    Also what good does it do to force people into morality and yet when they die they go to hell? The same place that those who had no morality go. It is about knowing Jesus, not just holding to this or that moral code.

  13. Thanks, Dee; this is helpful.

    The thought occurs that the churches might do well to take a long break from arguing about marriage and use the time to figure out how to persuade christian husbands and wives to be kind enough to each other that they want to stay together.

  14. I have little respect for religious conservatives who fight so vehemently against gay marriage (in the the name of defending biblical marriage) and then give abusive men (who are desecrating their biblical marriages) a pass, while church “disciplining”the women who decide they’ve had enough and courageously divorce their abusers.

  15. Samuel Conner,

    Having led divorce recovery groups in churches 10-12 times I would say that there are probably too few divorces amongst Christians these days. People use their self-serving interpretation of scripture to abuse each other instead of lifting them up. Then they double down on the abuse by insisting the marriage must be saved in in order to preserve the image of the bride of Christ.

  16. Old Timer,

    Just a couple points of clarification…

    One does not need a religious ceremony to marry in the USA. Weddings can be presided over by a judge at the courthouse. My nephew got married this way.

    And in Germany, people can get out of paying the church tax by officially leaving “the church.” As it becomes more socially acceptable, more people are doing it. I imagine there are religious leaders here salivating at the idea of the government collecting monthly tithes from people’s paychecks. Kind of ironic, that on the one hand Germany is such a secular nation, but on the other hand the government is collecting churches’ tithes for them.

  17. I think the church should spend more time and energy improving the quality of marriages within the church and less time sticking their noses into other people’s relationships. Allowing spouses to have reasonable expectations of each other. Encouraging emotional maturity in both parties. Not excusing affairs, addiction, or abuse.

    I also like the idea of having both civil and religious ceremonies. If you want the legal and financial benefits, do a civil ceremony. If you want the clergy blessing, do a religious one, as well.

  18. Back in the 80’s and 90’s there was much wringing of hands about civil unions for LGBT. Attempts to allow those were shot down by many state legislatures.

    I wonder where we would be today if LGBT folks had been allowed legal civil unions 30 or 40 years ago. Especially if those unions provided and protected health and inheritance benefits for their partners.

    Perhaps marriage might be an excusively Christian thing with everyone not Christian simply being in a civil union.

    But that is not how things transpired. We will continue to wrangle with this because of one group’s insistence on enforcing only their view (the “correct” one in their mind) on every one else.

    We were instructed to go and make disciples of all men. Not go and enforce, and force upon, evangelistic ideals on all peoples.

    I may be Christian, but I would not want to live in a land ruled by Christians. Especially not after the last several years of so much abhorrent behavior that has been on display by so-called Christians both inside and outside the church.

    ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

  19. I agree with Dee, too.

    The USA is a republic, not a theocracy.
    Though, I’ve little doubt that Al Mohler has vivid daydreams of the USA being a Calvinistic SBC theocracy.

  20. To enter into the kingdom of heaven / household of God = to supplicate / to trade with each other in Holy Spirit gifts, having found out what the whole of the gospel is. This is why Ascension isn’t a quaint eccentricity but the only worthwhile central event we’ll have.

    Christians won’t be salt and light if they don’t supplicate as that is what worship is – including proxy repentance for their elders, betters and forebears who preached prayerlessness. Will they be found (on a difficult day) to have no more than an irrelevant mini-salvation?

    Eschew slogans about changing the city / nation / world (“for” some cause): Holy Spirit doesn’t manoeuvre people like blocs. Who is going to demonstrate an example of seeking providence?

  21. Do people not realize that for a marriage to be legal in the US the couple needs a marriage license from the state? They can then be married by a judge or a religious person who is licensed (by the state) to marry couples. The church does not dispense marriage licenses.

    A couple can have a ceremony at a church, according to that churches rules, but it means nothing to the state without a marriage license. The state, by way of the marriage license, does more to protect the rights of people (including children) in a marriage than religion does, or even can.

  22. Nancy2(aka Kevlar): I agree with Dee, too.

    The USA is a republic, not a theocracy.

    Yes. But this is exactly what many conservatives are trying to change on a state and national level. I pray to God it never happens.

  23. Thank you, Loren Haas,

    > Then they double down on the abuse by insisting the marriage must be saved in in order to preserve the image of the bride of Christ.

    One of the things that motivated my departure from present-day institutional christianity was the evidence that the gospel, in the hands of these people, doesn’t seem to actually work to change people. And the emphasis on preserving an appearance of righteousness while tolerating hidden harms suggests that the people in charge recognize this and don’t know how, or don’t want or don’t care, to correct it.

    > People use their self-serving interpretation of scripture to abuse each other instead of lifting them up.

    And so they (or “we”, noticing the thumb pointing back at myself) sanctify sin rather than repenting of it. I would think that has to be considered quite close to a violation of the third Commandment, to not misuse the Name of YHWH.

    My interpretation of this is that the deficiencies of the Church at Ephesus, that it did not love God or neighbor as it ought, are widespread and the Spirit is grieved and is functionally absent, sort of the way the Spirit was driven out of the Jerusalem Temple by the things that were being done in it. Paul wrote that the churches are temples, built of ‘living stones’, in which God dwells through the Spirit. But if what happens in these living temples is grievous to the Spirit, might that drive the Spirit out? Perhaps we are, at an institutional level, “putting God to the test”.

    I hope that something better is possible and that it will emerge in the future. The world needs communities of people who encourage one another to love and good deeds.

  24. The fruits of the Spirit listed in Gal 5 (the real 9 marks of a healthy church) don’t seem to require any particular view of marriage…

  25. My take on the subject is this, and it is two fold. First and foremost, as a conservative Christian I do not believe there is any such thing as a gay marriage. Marriage was created by God, and is clearly in both the OT and NT for one man and one woman, for life with notable exceptions given by both Christ and Paul. So there is that. I believe when someone who is either XY or XX has sex with someone of the same sex, it is sin. I also believe it is sin when they have sex with the opposite gender to whom they are not married. I agree wholeheartedly abuse is a sin.

    I cannot in good conscience support the respect for marriage act, and that does not make me a bigot who hates gay people. That dog don’t hunt.

    I believe lots of things are sin, and still love people. I believe stealing is a sin, and I don’t stop saying that just because murder is also a sin and I have not been able to stop people from murdering.

    All that said, while I reserve the right to vote my conscience I don’t get really torqued over whatever marriage laws the state passes. We live in an era of many given over to reprobate minds, which covers both sexual and non sexual ground, so spare me remarks about conservatives being hyper concerned with pelvic sins. Not so. Concerned with all sin.

    But here is where I come done to the rubber meeting the road. If I had the power to instantly stop all sexual sin, gay and straight, it would have no eternal weight.

    People don’t go to heaven because they did not sin sexually. People go to heaven, gay or straight, because they admitted to themselves and God their sins are sins and repented (which does include the effort to turn and amend the life). They then must put their faith in Jesus to forgive their sins and understand He is not going to celebrate their sins or leave them happily in them. And this applies to both pelvic and non pelvic sin.

    Since I do not suffer with same sex attraction I freely admit I cannot understand fully how difficult it would be to turn from that. But I also am not asexual, and so do understand how deeply tempted straight people can be to sin sexually. Deeply tempted is not a free pass saying I then get to sin and call it not sin because I am just wired that way. Straight single people also suffer the same sort of deep temptations gay people do, and often also have no realistic hope of marriage to ease the situation.

    The church loses its way when it is focused on the culture wars, or theological wars, or anything else than seeing sinners born again.

    There is simply no way we can do our job as the church and fail to label sin, of ANY kind, as sin. And that will hurt somebody’s feelings, but better that than to be lost for eternity.

  26. Dee,
    1)I figured you would get there sooner or later.
    2) Your reader base has moved to the left theologically and politically as have you. I doubt you have many avid readers left who would vehemently disagree with David French’s take on civil unions.

  27. “… the majority of the British people are not Christian and, therefore, cannot be expected to live Christian lives …” (C.S. Lewis)

    I would modify Lewis’ words in the context of 21st century American culture to read “the majority of the (American) people are not Christian and, therefore, (do not and will not) live Christian lives.” Thus, religious and political systems are under increasing pressure to adapt to the demands of the culture. The Church used to be counter-culture to the world; it is now a sub-culture of it. What was once wrong is now right; “every man does what is right in his own eyes.”

  28. senecagriggs,

    You are one of my oldest readers. So, would you do me the favor of defining your terms? How do you define “left?” Is it politically or Biblically? Since I try to stay within the pale of orthodoxy, I would be interested in what it is that takes me out of the “pale?” As for politics, you would be hard-pressed to prove me either a liberal or conservative since I do not speak on that subject.

  29. Max: he Church used to be counter-culture to the world; it is now a sub-culture of it. What was once wrong is now right; “every man does what is right in his own eyes.”

    Well said, as always.

  30. linda: There is simply no way we can do our job as the church and fail to label sin, of ANY kind, as sin. And that will hurt somebody’s feelings, but better that than to be lost for eternity.

    I have a few questions
    – I have no problem with any entity defining sin as the ysee it.Recently some church leaders have focused on this issue. They have ceded on the issue of divorce in general with some folks like MacArthur and Piper as outliers.Should they give equal time to other sins and, if so which ones?
    -Do you think that pastors should spend more or less time in the church, on the issue of sin?
    -Do you think that the conservative church should accept that most people are not Christian? If so, do we demand that the culture live as Christians? Is there a way to do this well?

  31. Loren Haas: Then they double down on the abuse by insisting the marriage must be saved in in order to preserve the image of the bride of Christ.

    I believe that Christ is quite able to take care of the Bride of Christ.We do not need to likes of MacArthur abusing women by forcing them to stay in terribly abusive marriages.

  32. Bridget: A couple can have a ceremony at a church, according to that churches rules, but it means nothing to the state without a marriage license. The state, by way of the marriage license, does more to protect the rights of people (including children) in a marriage than religion does, or even can.

    Graet summary.

  33. David French Unleashed a Conservative Firestorm by Supporting the Respect for Marriage Act.
    i.e. the Christianese muscle-memory reflex of “GAWD H&S FAGS!!!!!”
    And Trans is the new Fag.

  34. Nancy2(aka Kevlar): I’ve little doubt that Al Mohler has vivid daydreams of the USA being a Calvinistic SBC theocracy

    with him sitting on the throne and robotic followers bowing to 5-points and beyond

  35. Bridget: Do people not realize that for a marriage to be legal in the US the couple needs a marriage license from the state? They can then be married by a judge or a religious person who is licensed (by the state) to marry couples. The church does not dispense marriage licenses.

    In our jurisdiction there’s also “common law” marriage without ceremony or license by either state or church.

    Basically you live in as a relationship for a period of time, in court it’s treated as a legal marriage. Here’s a link to more info.

    https://www.gov.mb.ca/familylaw

    In this post, I’m not sure what the controversy is.

    I’m not Christian, so do “non Christian” unions face barriers since a marriage license is issued by the state?

    Are there no common law provisions in the US?

    From the post, if CS Lewis position is supported, then where is the big deal? Christianity stays in its lane.

    Is TWW advocating that the Christian view of marriage (specifically the Protestant view) be the default for all Americans? It didn’t seem so.

    I can’t access French’s article from where I am but it seems that he doesn’t want secular society to intrude on the Church’s right to define its version of marriage. Which is fine. Churches should also give up their tax free status as well.

  36. Wild Honey: I also like the idea of having both civil and religious ceremonies. If you want the legal and financial benefits, do a civil ceremony. If you want the clergy blessing, do a religious one, as well.

    I understand this two-ceremonies arrangement was the custom in Continental Europe.

  37. Jack: Are there no common law provisions in the US?

    I think it varies from state to state. Some do, some don’t.

  38. Muslin, fka Dee Holmes: Also, according to some legal scholars that I trust, the Respect for Marriage Act actually doesn’t stop the Supreme Court from overturning Obergefell.

    You mean our CHRISTIAN Supreme Court?

  39. senecagriggs: Your reader base has moved to the left theologically and politically as have you. I doubt you have many avid readers left who would vehemently disagree with David French’s take on civil unions.

    Oh boy! If this forum is “the left” in any sense of word, then I’m an absolute communist!

  40. Nancy2(aka Kevlar): The USA is a republic, not a theocracy.
    Though, I’ve little doubt that Al Mohler has vivid daydreams of the USA being a Calvinistic SBC theocracy.

    It (a christian theocracy) would be as brutal as any regime the world has seen.

  41. Max: with him sitting

    Al Mohler…… Ferdinand II and Pope Innocent VIII, all rolled up in one…….creating the Holy Office of Inquisiton and issuing papal bulls.

  42. On a slight tangent – or rather, perhaps, zooming in on one aspect of Dee’s post – I’ve often been struck in recent years by the ways in which religion influences American politics. In practice, “religion” in this context typically means quite a specific flavour of evangelical Christianity (though, equally, the church of Rome is not without influence). There’s a fascinating contrast/comparison to be made with the ways in which religion influences British politics. (And that of other countries with some form of “State Church” as well, but I’m less familiar with them.)

    So, in the UK, the monarch – now Charles III, but for some 7 decades, Elizabeth II – is the titular head of the Church of England; formally speaking the monarch is the “Supreme Governor” of the Church of England and is also entitled “Defender of the Faith”. Senior Anglican bishops sit in the house of Lords, thereby exercising some influence over the nation’s laws. But that stick grasps the nettle at both ends, because the serving Prime Minister also has a hand in appointing the bishops. Obviously, this is a crudely-potted summary of around 5 centuries of history. But “Church” and “State” are not separate here. By contrast, the legislature in America is banned from making any law either establishing a religion or prohibiting the free exercise of one.

    It seems to me that both of these ideas has had unintended consequences. In a sense, the Church/State relationship nowadays actually blunts the power of the Church to impose “Christian” laws (accepting that there are various reasonable definitions of a Christian law here). By contrast, while the First Amendment prohibits Congress from using religion, it doesn’t prevent religion from using Congress.

    Anyway, that’s me off to do the next stage of the lamb curry. I’m up for further discussion later if anyone’s interested, though!

  43. Jack: senecagriggs: Your reader base has moved to the left theologically and politically as have you. I doubt you have many avid readers left who would vehemently disagree with David French’s take on civil unions.

    Oh boy! If this forum is “the left” in any sense of word, then I’m an absolute communist!

    I have to agree. David French (and Dee) may be to the left of some people, but, he (and presumably she) are still quite a bit to the right by the standards of most on the left. Just look at the reaction to David French becoming an op-ed writer for the New York Times.

    I note that the US also recognizes marriages done outside the US as long as they were legal in the countries they took place and do not violate US law (e.g., not polygamous except for the first marriage).

    I also know many same-sex couples who are deeply loving and caring and would hate to see their legal marriages rendered legally gone without their consent.

    BTW those using XY or XX to determine maleness and wanting only opposite-sex marriages to exist should ask what should happen if a DNA test shows that one partner in what looks like an opposite-sex marriage has Swyer Syndrome or Morris syndrome.

  44. Okay, here I go…. off on a tangent again. Dee’s post and some of the comments have sent my imagination spiraling into the world of what-ifs. I know this is “out there”, but crazier things have happened.

    What if the USA was a Christian nation with no separation of church and state. There are so many varieties of Christianity with varying beliefs in our nation……which faith would be king of the hill (Capitol Hill?)……. Southern Baptist? General Baptist? Methodist? Lutheran? Catholic?……..
    Could disagreements evolve into a “holy war”?

    What would become of non-Christians, atheists, agnostics, Jews, Muslims, Hindus….
    Would citizenships be revoked? Would people who resist be thrown in gulags and concentration camps? Would people be exiled?

    Would a “Christian” nation reverse the progress that has been made towards treating all people as equals in the eyes of God? Would we go back to “separate but equal”?

  45. Headless Unicorn Guy: I understand this two-ceremonies arrangement was the custom in Continental Europe

    Still is. And the Lutheran church in the German-speking countries will not perform a church marriage ceremony if the couple don’t first go to the registry office to be legally married.

    The rationale being that if you can’t be bothered to get legally married, how can we know you are serious? (There are more theological reasons as well.)

    Also, religious marriage ceremonies did not exist for most “small people” untill the 1400s or 1500s. Only princes got bishops to perform, but then again, those marriages were affairs of state and dynasty, which were always done “with the blessing of the church”.

    The American conservatives who want the government to get out of the marriage business don’t understand that the church was rather a late-comer to the festivities.

  46. Your occasional reminder: civil marriage was the only kind in Plymouth Colony in the 1620s.

    Of all people, the Mayflower passengers wanted civil marriage.

  47. linda: I cannot in good conscience support the respect for marriage act, and that does not make me a bigot who hates gay people. That dog don’t hunt.

    I believe lots of things are sin, and still love people. I believe stealing is a sin, and I don’t stop saying that just because murder is also a sin and I have not been able to stop people from murdering.

    This compares the institution of same-sex marriage with stealing and murder. Although perhaps you did not intend to do so, this line of thinking therefore compares same-sex couples with murderers and thieves. Given a choice, I’m pretty sure which humans I would feel most comfortable inviting into my home.

  48. Gus,

    I believe that there are similar laws in Norway and Sweden but things are changing fast so it’s hard to keep up.

  49. Nancy2(aka Kevlar): Would a “Christian” nation reverse the progress that has been made towards treating all people as equals in the eyes of God? Would we go back to “separate but equal”?

    Many of the so called “Christian nationalists” are less about what I think you would consider “Christian” (tolerance, love, service to others) and more interested in creating an America that never really existed. The “father knows best” America where there were only two genders, one religion, mom wore heels and an apron, and “ethnics” were only seen at the local Chinese restaurant. And blacks had their place…just ask aunt Jemima & uncle Ben.

  50. Friend,

    And in England marriage was a bit unregulated and mostly under the control of the Church of England via canon law. The pilgrims on the Mayflower did not approve of the Church of England. There were two ways of getting married in the CoE. The most common was by banns where the upcoming wedding of a couple was announced for several Sundays during the service before the wedding took place (this was to allow anyone who knew of why the couple shouldn’t get married to protest [e.g., one person was already married or underage and didn’t have consent of a guardian]). The second was by license from the bishop where the parties swore there was no problem, paid a fee, and put up a bond to be paid in case there actually were problems.
    In the mid 1700s an act was passed governing weddings in England and Wales. They had to done following the Church of England rules (banns or license); in addition they had to take place in certain daylight hours in a church of England church which had to be open to the general public during the wedding. Two groups of people, Quakers and Jews, were exempt from having to follow these rules. This meant that Catholics, Baptists, Unitarians, etc had to go through the CoE wedding or else go outside the country to get married. The law was modified in the 1830s to allow secular weddings at a registry office and also weddings for other religious groups (with certain restrictions on where and when).
    Scotland was probably the most convenient for couples who couldn’t get married under the Church of England since Scotland took common law marriage to extreme; the couple just had to present themselves in public as married and they were married (barring one of them already having a living spouse). The age of consent was also lower so Scotland was also popular for elopements.

  51. senecagriggs,

    “Your reader base has moved to the left theologically and politically as have you. I doubt you have many avid readers left who would vehemently disagree with David French’s take on civil unions.”
    +++++++++++++++

    no, powerbrokers have moved the moderate middle off to the right and many conservatives have simply drifted there, too, like leaves and twigs carried down the current of a stream.

  52. Jack: an America that never really existed. The “father knows best” America where there were only two genders, one religion, mom wore heels

    A strictly suburban America, to boot ……. a woman would have had a mighty hard time going down to the barns to milk the cows, slop the hogs, fix barbed-wire fences, stack hay bales in the loft …….

  53. Muff Potter:
    Nancy2(aka Kevlar),

    we don’t have a State religion, and why the Founders made damn sure we didn’t establish one.

    Mostly resulting from English history and the reason people boarded the Mayflower……..Henry VIII, Bloody Mary, civil war, political upheaval, and lots of bloodshed …….. all revolving around religion.

  54. Headless Unicorn Guy: I understand this two-ceremonies arrangement was the custom in Continental Europe.

    It still is. My wife of 31 years is German. It’s a long story, but we were married in Holland. Only civil judges can marry people there, so we had our court wedding followed by a church wedding. They were on different days, so we have two anniversaries.

  55. “Christians accuse progressives of ill intentions.”

    (from dee’s piece)
    +++++++++++++++++++++

    when i was in a high school history class, we learned about McCarthyism.

    this is like McCarthyism.

    although all it takes is for someone to have a perspective that’s simply different.

    “SHE’S A PROGRESSIVE!! SHE’S A PROGRESSIVE!!”

    “How do you known she is a progressive?
    “She looks like one!”
    “Well, she turned me into a newt!……I got better.”
    .
    .
    good grief…

  56. Erp: BTW those using XY or XX to determine maleness and wanting only opposite-sex marriages to exist should ask what should happen if a DNA test shows that one partner in what looks like an opposite-sex marriage has Swyer Syndrome or Morris syndrome.

    True. (Was wondering when someone was going to bring this up so Thx.)

    Theology sans science is ignorance: in print it’s not worth the paper it’s printed on; from a platform or pulpit it’s crazy talk or gibberish. Talk is cheap.

    Before God was the God of the Covenant or of Prophesy or Revelation, He was first and foremost the God of Creation. Science.

    Denying physical reality is a sign of at the very least arrogance, but perhaps even an indication of insanity.

    Sound mental health doesn’t dismiss reality. A lot of theology, (published, taught, preached, discussed, and argued) dismisses blatant facts. It would not be surprising to discover severe lack of sound mental health in our so-called “Christian” institutions, including among leaders and namebrands.

    The questions that Dee and French raise are serious and complex, touching the core of lives, our most intimate relationships. Shallow, pithy, aggressively arrogant wide swathe answers do not seem obvious, even with all the Greek, Hebrew, and historical knowledge in the world.

    We just read the Abraham, Lot, and Sodom/Gomorrah account in our Bible study. Serious stuff. The men seeking to assault men were violently evil. So are men violating women, and women murdering male partners. Datelining, if dateline was a verb.

    Anyway, I don’t have any answers. Except to add that these are very complex and important issues that involve real people, their very real lives, as well as real science, thus facts.

  57. Ava Aaronson: The men seeking to assault men were violently evil. So are men violating women, and women murdering male partners. Datelining, if dateline was a verb.

    Which is to say that people violating each other is simply evil, therefore NOT complex. Simply evil. Adults engaging intimately with minors is also always evil, via the power dynamic.

    However, consensual adult intimate relationships are complex, when all are treated with dignity and respect.

    Civic parameters can be drawn with justice, fairness, dignity, and respect.

    What are God’s parameters beyond respect, justice and dignity?

    I don’t know. But theology that:

    1. Dismisses science realities
    2. Dismisses CSA and DV realities

    is worthless and has nothing to say.

  58. linda: But here is where I come done to the rubber meeting the road. If I had the power to instantly stop all sexual sin, gay and straight, it would have no eternal weight.

    People don’t go to heaven because they did not sin sexually. People go to heaven, gay or straight, because they admitted to themselves and God their sins are sins and repented

    Amen, Linda, amen.

  59. Gus: government

    “Government” as solely neutral regulative administration (e.g impartial magistrates / registrars) is the exact opposite of politicised politicians.

    Muff Potter,

    Calvinism, like the jesuitism it copies so exactly, was founded specifically as a state religion.

    The only times it exists outside that framework e.g as in India, it constitutes the sort of fatalism that afflicted the tragic Zacharias family.

  60. Nancy2(aka Kevlar),

    An astute comment, one which is not academic for me but quite personal as I comfort friends this week who are mourning the recent martyrdom deaths of their colleagues in India.

    Under the Modi BJP Hindu government people across that nation have become emboldened to persecute anyone who leaves the Hindu faith. And when do they do it? Every December 25th. Yes, on Christmas day across India every year, including this past year, Hindu BJP and other radicals go searching for Christians to “bring them home”. Homecoming day to return to Hinduism. If Christians don’t renounce their faith they will face consequences, in many cases mob violence and severe beatings. No one will stop them because the ruling BJP will not bring them to justice. Right now brothers and sisters are in ICU’s across India from the last “homecoming” day. One sister died last week from her wounds.

    The same thing happens through radical Islam. One has only to read headline news from Afghanistan or Iran.

    When people of any religion impose religious inspired views on an entire society everyone suffers. It’s far too easy to move from “It’s the law” to “You don’t deserve compassion- I’m going to beat or kill you.” And then no one blinks an eye because they feel self righteous in the name of their god.

  61. dee,

    I have thinking about this as well.. I can understand how Dee and those that mostly post on TWW could be “labeled” as “left” and/or “progressive”…. It does seem common to label any person or organization that questions established “authority” with these labels.
    But, given the focus of TWW is to support those that are abused by the church, it would seem to me that striving for righteousness, supporting the powerless, and just plain saying our “Christian” leaders should do the same is just trying to be “orthodox” followers of Christ…
    Note, when I say “righteousness”, I am thinking of the definition used in the Beatitudes…

  62. linda: Marriage was created by God, and is clearly in both the OT and NT for one man and one woman, for life with notable exceptions given by both Christ and Paul.

    Abraham had a slave girl, Solomon had 900 concubines. The patriarchs loved being “the one man” but god seemed pretty cool with however many women they stuff in a harem.

    But leaving that aside, the whole idea that same sex marriage is sin comes from God’s explicit (and barbaric) command on what should be done about it.

    One of the first nails in my faith coffin was the lead pastor in my wife’s church stating “love the sinner hate the sin” talking about that same subject. Using the word “hate” in a sermon ironically called “Love Won Out” nearly had me walking out of that sermon.

    But when selling Christianity to the Romans, one of the first things that went out the window was the dietary laws. Come for the hate, stay for the bacon.

  63. Jeffrey Chalmers,

    Thank you for this comment. It is frustrating that those who don’t know us fall back to a convenient and highly inappropriate label of “leftist.” The disciples were viewed in a similar fashion since they care for the poor and sick. Odd, isn’t it that caring for those harmed is labelled leftist?

  64. Wild Honey,

    Exactly what I said in comment way above probably no one saw. Know Jesus, love Jesus by obeying his commands. Learn fear of God. All sin including all sexual sin brings death. Death not good…

  65. Jeffrey Chalmers: I have thinking about this as well.. I can understand how Dee and those that mostly post on TWW could be “labeled” as “left” and/or “progressive”…

    What do those on left actually do? Spend much time criticizing those on right for obvious and real hypocrisy? What does this blog and their commenters, and me too, spend most of their time doing? Criticizing those on right for hypocrisy. How much time here do we spend criticizing left for obvious hypocrisy? What is the ratio? 10:1 posts on sin on right? Do we mostly ignore hypocrisy on left? Does that make us hypocrites? Perhaps we should embrace the label. Is it a pejorative or is it reality?

    When we act like progressives why are we so surprised we are labeled that way? They proudly wear the label. If we do not want the label then Dee and company need to write equal amount of posts about hypocrisy on left. Otherwise we look biased because: we are? Logic? Or are we just as blind as those we criticize?

  66. dee: It is frustrating that those who don’t know us fall back to a convenient and highly inappropriate label of “leftist.”

    Indeed! Frequent visitors to TWW should know that you and most commenters speak with knowledge and wisdom. As Scripture clearly notes, only the wise lean to the right: “The heart of the wise inclines to the right, but the heart of a fool to the left” (Ecclesiastes 10:2) … 🙂

  67. Probably the clearest teaching I have ever heard that relates to this is an old Charles Stanley sermon on youtube titled The Privilege Corrupted. I strongly recommend it followed by Taking Advantage of the Privilege.

    Sometimes our opinions simply do not matter. Only His opinion matters.

  68. dee,

    Actually, I do not think it is that odd… when ever a person, or entity, challenges the establish power structure, the power structure will react… Easiest way is to “label” its critics…
    For the 100 years in America, calling your opponent/critic, etc, a leftist, or red, or pinko, has been a great line!

    The other great line, when it comes to scripture, is that your opponent is not “biblical”

  69. Jeffrey Chalmers,

    What I do find surprising, is how often evangelical leaders circle the wagons around their “bad boys”, until the heat becomes unbearable…. Falwell Jr, Drisol, RZ, , McDonald come to mind…
    Growing up in fundyworld, purity and honest was drilled into us, much like how the Pharisees drilled Christ… and then keep their mouths shut when their buddies dot..

  70. Jeffrey Chalmers: For the 100 years in America, calling your opponent/critic, etc, a leftist, or red, or pinko, has been a great line!

    The GOP actually stated its official strategy for 2020 was to go full-honk John Birch Society: “THE COMMUNISTS! THE COMMUNISTS! THE COMMUNISTS! THE COMMUNISTS! THE COMMUNISTS!”

    COMMUNISTS under every bed and in every closet just like WITCHES in The Burning Times. Everyone who denies the existence of the Vast COMMUNIST Conspiracy are themselves COMMUNISTS; again just like WITCHES in The Burning Times.

    Just yesterday I heard another example that these days China is always to be pronounced “COMMUNIST China” or “Chinese COMMUNISTS”. Sometimes you hear current Code Words such as “The Left”, The Libruls”, “The Global Left”, “The Radical Left”, “The Global Radical Left”, but it all comes down to “The Vast COMMUNIST Conspiracy”.

    The other great line, when it comes to scripture, is that your opponent is not “biblical”

    There has been a tie-in between the BIrdhers and Real True Christianity(TM) for a LONG time. When Bircher John H Schmitz took up George C Wallace’s mantle in 1972 (Wallace’s American Independent Party), his campaign ads were in the form of Jack Chick tracts, Bible Verse Quotes/Zip Codes and all. And proto-televangelist Billy James Hargis always started his radio show (clear into the Seventies) with “BILLY JAMES HARGIS – FOR CHRIST AND AGAINST COMMUNISM!

  71. dee,

    “It is frustrating that those who don’t know us fall back to a convenient and highly inappropriate label of “leftist.” The disciples were viewed in a similar fashion since they care for the poor and sick. Odd, isn’t it that caring for those harmed is labelled leftist?”
    ++++++++++++++++++++++

    it’s nonthinking.

    i’ll add this to the conversation:

    the right needs the left. (and vice versa)

    it is a mistake to be afraid of “leftist” (let alone turn it into a nasty name, a conversation stopper, a trump card for the win).

    it is stupid & unconscionable to make right/left a litmus test for ‘christian’.

    in fact, everyone here (and in other christian environments) has values and convictions that are left of center. if we were honest with ourselves. and our christian fellows.

    sometimes i’m left. sometimes i’m right.

    we all are. except for those intentionally headed for totalitarianism.

    so what if it’s castigated “left” or “right” (as if we should be afraid of either).

    If one’s views are left of center, own it and say it.

    those who reject you for it are nincompoops worthy of a fahrt in their general direction.

  72. Ava Aaronson: Before God was the God of the Covenant or of Prophesy or Revelation, He was first and foremost the God of Creation. Science.

    Denying physical reality is a sign of at the very least arrogance, but perhaps even an indication of insanity.

    It’s now the very definition of FAITH FAITH FAITH.
    “Vain Imaginings of Men or WORD! OF!! GAWD!!!”

    Sound mental health doesn’t dismiss reality.
    But Christians DO.
    “SHOW ME SCRIPTURE! SCRIPTURE! SCRIPTURE!”
    — PastorRauLReesCalvaryChapelWestCovina (all one word) any time someone tried to reason with him

    Shallow, pithy, aggressively arrogant wide swathe answers do not seem obvious

    But they seem RIGHTEOUS, and that’s all that matters,
    “RIGHTEOUS and PIOUS Are We, Are We,
    The Moral Majority…”

    The men seeking to assault men were violently evil. So are men violating women, and women murdering male partners. Datelining, if dateline was a verb.

    And such Datelining does not build trust between men and women.

  73. Jack: Many of the so called “Christian nationalists” are less about what I think you would consider “Christian” (tolerance, love, service to others) and more interested in creating an America that never really existed.

    Stephanie Coontz deals with this extensively in her book The Way We Never Were.

  74. Nancy2(aka Kevlar): Mostly resulting from English history and the reason people boarded the Mayflower……..Henry VIII, Bloody Mary, civil war, political upheaval, and lots of bloodshed …….. all revolving around religion.

    Why do you think the First Amendment and its corollary the Separation of Church and State were there in the first place? Institutional Memory of all the above when Politics revolved around Religion and Righteousness.

    But these days among Christians the only Amendment is the Second Amendment.
    (Praise Be to ZARDOZ!)

  75. elastigirl,

    since the lever on this right/left thing is moved by the loudmouths and powerbrokers (like a plastic game piece from Milton Bradley), it’s all sort of meaningless anyway.

    i challenge any christian to read the book of Luke in one sitting and not come away seeing Jesus as slotted into the artificial category of “leftist” and being hurled insults by the people who claim him as their mascot just like mickey mouse.

    (or really, who use him for their own purposes and paranoias)

  76. dee:
    Jeffrey Chalmers,

    Odd, isn’t it that caring for those harmed is labelled leftist?

    Nah, I think it’s pretty much run of the mill, nowadays.
    It’s fairly common for certain people to accuse anyone who’s concerned for the rights, welfare, or safety of people they disapprove of or have no respect for of being a “leftist”.

    You’ve been called…..what was it…….a “daughter of ‘Stan’” in the past?

  77. Whether you have church/state separation or not, both are under God. The OPC considered this relationship many years ago and John Murray wrote “The church is not subordinate to the state, nor is the state subordinate to the church. They are both subordinate to God, and to Christ in his mediatorial dominion as head over all things to his body the church. Both church and state are under obligation to recognise this subordination, and the corresponding co-ordination of their respective spheres of operation in the divine institution. Each must maintain and assert its autonomy in reference to the other and preserve its freedom from intrusion on the part of the other. But while this diversity of function and of sphere must be recognised, guarded, and maintained, the larger unity within which this diversity exists must not be overlooked. The principle that defines this unity is the sovereignty of God, and the obligation emanating from it is the requirement that both church and state must promote the interests of the kingdom of God….While the church is not to discharge the functions of other institutions such as the state and the family, nevertheless it is charged to define what the functions of these institutions are, and the lines of demarcation by which they are distinguished. It is also charged to declare and inculcate the duties which devolve upon them. Consequently when the civil magistrate trespasses the limits of its authority, it is incumbent upon the church to expose and condemn such a violation of its authority. When laws are proposed or enacted which are contrary to the law of God, it is the duty of the church to oppose them and expose their iniquity.” (Collected Writings of John Murray, vol.1:The Claims of Truth,p253-259).

    In that respect C S Lewis is wrong in his view that godless men cannot be expected to live godly lives, as is David French when he seeks to maintain that “ there is broad and wise consensus that importing divine standards whole cloth into civil law can be a recipe for division, oppression, and ultimate harm to the church itself.” In my opinion, that is.

  78. Jeffrey Chalmers: The other great line, when it comes to scripture, is that your opponent is not “biblical”

    Always, always.
    It’s one of the most used shutdowns in any type of dialogue with zealots.

  79. Headless Unicorn Guy: Why do you think the First Amendment and its corollary the Separation of Church and State were there in the first place?

    I’m also of the opinion that “Separation of Church and State” gets carried to extremes when groups of zealots get their undies in a dither over whether or not school kids are holding Bible studies or prayer meetings on campus.
    So long as Congress has enacted no law establishing a State religion, what kids do on campus on their own time, should not be prohibited.

  80. Jack: Are there no common law provisions in the US?

    Some states have common law provisions, some do not. It is a state by state provision.

  81. “My take on the subject is this, and it is two fold. First and foremost, as a conservative Christian I do not believe there is any such thing as a gay marriage. Marriage was created by God, and is clearly in both the OT and NT for one man and one woman, for life with notable exceptions given by both Christ and Paul. So there is that. I believe when someone who is either XY or XX has sex with someone of the same sex, it is sin. I also believe it is sin when they have sex with the opposite gender to whom they are not married. I agree wholeheartedly abuse is a sin.” Linda

    So here are my concerns about gender being a black and white issue.

    Nothing in the human make-up is black and white. When problems arise with genes, alleles, chromosomes, etc. we end up with all kinds of physical anomalies and diseases. We only need to look around us to see these things.

    We readily accept, help and encourage humans born different than us because we live in an imperfect, broken world. But why do so many religious people among us not want to accept the people who have different realities when it comes to gender? Just because someone looks a certain way on the outside, doesn’t mean they fall into my or your reality on the inside.

    Someone please explain why, in many religious groups, being born different than what we call the “norm” is okay in every instance except when it comes to gender? Why is it sinful concerning gender, but not any other difference in a person? God created us all ‘as we are’ did he not?

  82. Lowlandseer,

    This is why good standards should be argued for on honest agnostic humanistic grounds, and I think that is what Lewis and Murray meant (and I do).

    I.e not overtly hogging goodness all to the church or religion but commending it to all. The opposite from what French’s opponents are alleging. “Cloth” is presumably French’s metaphor for dressing.

    I suppose by “godly” Lewis meant certain things in conformity to faith. I’m not a fan of his waffle but that’s just me.

  83. Lowlandseer,

    Rule of Law.
    Common Good.

    The Bible and Jesus’ life go beyond these. For example, the Abrahamic Covenant mandated circumcision for males. Strictly for Abraham’s community.

    However, the Rule of Law and the Common Good, civilly, should allow for a variety of religions, including Christians, to be in agreement, reach consensus, living together, under the same national flag.

    Unfortunately, the public track record of Christians in the US evidences far LESS civility than the Rule of Law and the Common Good, with regard to Domestic Violence and Clergy Sexual Abuse. Clergy (some, every day) break the law and are brought to account via LE and the DOJ but NOT church institutions.

    Question for every person occupying a pulpit today: What are you proactively doing about the other pandemic: rampant Domestic Violence among church people and Clergy Sexual Abuse? Nothing? Then sit down. You have nothing to say. (See the Houston Chronicle’s Abuse of Faith, for one. Secondly, follow the public record daily of DV & CSA.)

  84. Max: Indeed! Frequent visitors to TWW should know that you and most commenters speak with knowledge and wisdom. As Scripture clearly notes, only the wise lean to the right: “The heart of the wise inclines to the right, but the heart of a fool to the left” (Ecclesiastes 10:2) …

    That certainly explains why I’m an apostate. A socialist like me was never meant to be Christian. 30 odd years, time well wasted…

  85. Bridget: Marriage was created by God, and is clearly in both the OT and NT for one man and one woman, for life with notable exceptions given by both Christ and Paul. So there is that. I believe when someone who is either XY or XX has sex with someone of the same sex, it is sin. I also believe it is sin when they have sex with the opposite gender to whom they are not married. I agree wholeheartedly abuse is a sin.” Linda

    So here are my concerns about gender being a black and white issue.

    Nothing in the human make-up is black and white. When problems arise with genes, alleles, chromosomes, etc. we end up with all kinds of physical anomalies and diseases. We only need to look around us to see these things.

    Genesis describes God’s intended creation. Man and woman. No disease. No anomalies. Science evidences that creation exists, (although not perfect). With faith (beyond science) we believe that God designed and intended Creation to be perfect.

    Things went awry when the man and woman sinned, and they were cast out of the Garden. Physical things. Science. With faith we believe this is how the anomalies breached God’s perfectly designed Creation.

    I asked a friend today if her husband, a longtime family practitioner, had ever dealt with infants born with a mixture of physical gender attributes. She said he had never. So this is very very uncommon but it does occur. Fact.

    This is NOT an adult claiming their real gender does not match their physical body – and they are trapped in a body that is the wrong gender. This is an infant, created by God, born with a variety of both gender physical attributes. Fact. By faith we love that child as a created-by-God dignified normal human being. Civil law requires we treat them with respect, dignity, justice, and care.

    What do theologians know? What do civic lawmakers know? If they dismiss facts when putting forth their mandates for sacred and civil community life, they have nothing to say.

    What about same sex intimate partnerships?

    Many years ago, Walter and Ingrid Trobisch presented a theory of the three stages of love relationships. A child learns to love self first as a child. Then the child matures and learns to love others like their self: girls BFF girlfriends, boy BFFs boyfriends. Finally, a person matures to love a person different from their own self & others like them: the opposite sex, boy & girl attractions. The Trobischs thought that homosexual love was arrested development. (Following this thread, it would seem that the theobros have arrested development as they click together in a pack with little esteem for and understanding of the dignity of women. Again following this thread, it would be no surprise that guys like Ted Haggard would end up seeking intimacy with guys, being an ultimate theobro leader; loving a woman as self would be degrading since a woman is lesser.) None of what the Trobischs taught would be politically correct, and they are long gone now. Neither Walter Trobisch nor Ingrid Trobisch were medical doctors, so the anomalies of chromosomes and gender were not mentioned in their works we have studied.

  86. Lowlandseer: “… While the church is not to discharge the functions of other institutions such as the state and the family, nevertheless it is charged to define what the functions of these institutions are, and the lines of demarcation by which they are distinguished. …”

    So the church has the power to define everything about the state and the family. That does not strike me as particularly limited power.

  87. Muff Potter: carried to extremes when groups of zealots get their undies in a dither over whether or not school kids are holding Bible studies or prayer meetings on campus.
    So long as Congress has enacted no law establishing a State religion, what kids do on campus on their own time, should not be prohibited.

    Ok, I’ll get my 14 year old son to start a “Satan is Your Pal” club and we’ll see how well that boat floats. He’d probably do it too. He had a hoot when the Sunday school had a lesson called “Cooking with Jesus”. He connected it to communion and apparently couldn’t stop laughing. Told his mom “I guess he’s not just for breakfast anymore”, much to her horror.

    Mind you when he was 7 he heard the pastor say “Investigate Jesus!”, And asked me “why? What did he do?”

  88. Bridget: Someone please explain why, in many religious groups, being born different than what we call the “norm” is okay in every instance except when it comes to gender? Why is it sinful concerning gender, but not any other difference in a person? God created us all ‘as we are’ did he not?

    Because god said so.

    He also dictated the same punishment for disobedient children & women who don’t cry out when being abused.

    Don’t know why he sent a dream of surf and turf food that abrogated the dietary laws but here we are…

  89. Ava Aaronson: None of what the Trobischs taught would be politically correct, and they are long gone now. Neither Walter Trobisch nor Ingrid Trobisch were medical doctors, so the anomalies of chromosomes and gender were not mentioned in their works we have studied.

    Sounds like they made it up to fit their pre established worldview – current science begs to differ.

  90. Friend: linda: I cannot in good conscience support the respect for marriage act, and that does not make me a bigot who hates gay people. That dog don’t hunt.

    I believe lots of things are sin, and still love people. I believe stealing is a sin, and I don’t stop saying that just because murder is also a sin and I have not been able to stop people from murdering.

    This compares the institution of same-sex marriage with stealing and murder.

    I was thinking along the same lines. Murder, stealing, and many other sins harm someone else – taking their property or life or other harms (which is why they are also crimes). Who is same-sex marriage hurting? It is giving civil rights to people in committed relationships that happen to be of the same gender. Provides financial and legal protections by the state, as someone noted above. And I admit that my views on this have also changed a lot over the years.
    On the other hand, I also don’t think that churches should be forced to marry couples who don’t meet their particular definition of “marriage”. Maybe keeping the labels separate, i.e. “civil union” (by the state, with all the legal ramifications intact) vs. “marriage” (by the church) might be of help??

    I wonder, don’t know the answer, if much of the objections come from still viewing homosexuality as a “choice” of lifestyle. I think most homosexuals would say that’s just who they “are”, not what they “chose”. Part of their being.

    Have to say, the movie “Boy Erased” with Nicole Kidman was pretty sad. (based on true story about forced gay conversion camp, won’t give the ending away)

  91. The main two useful things that 25 years of psychiatric nursing taught me are
    1. Never accept a police caution (in the UK)
    and
    2. Make a will. You can add to this that you could also make an advanced directive/decision and appoint an attorney. Families can be great but you have to make sure they’re legally bound to do what you want, particularly if you’re not married.
    I don’t think anyone has mentioned yet that the way countries treat married people can frequently look like preferential treatment to unmarried people.

  92. Jack: That certainly explains why I’m an apostate. A socialist like me was never meant to be Christian.30 odd years, time well wasted…

    Jack, I am afraid I wasted 48 years of my life with church, etc. I have lots of regrets over this.

  93. Ava Aaronson: I asked a friend today if her husband, a longtime family practitioner, had ever dealt with infants born with a mixture of physical gender attributes. She said he had never. So this is very very uncommon but it does occur. Fact.

    This is NOT an adult claiming their real gender does not match their physical body – and they are trapped in a body that is the wrong gender. This is an infant, created by God, born with a variety of both gender physical attributes. Fact. By faith we love that child as a created-by-God dignified normal human being. Civil law requires we treat them with respect, dignity, justice, and care.

    It is somewhat rare. But what you explain is not the only issue. There are other anomalies that do not present as dual gender physically. There are as many anomalies as there are genes and alleles. So to state the issues in such simple terms is not the reality that people deal wirh.

  94. Tom Parker: I am afraid I wasted 48 years of my life with church

    Tom, it appears that a lot of us Wartburgers have spent too much time in the institution of “church” rather than living in the Kingdom of God in the here and now … there’s a big difference! While there are members of the Body of Christ in every church, not every church is a functioning member of the Kingdom of God … TWW documents that every day! Aberrant theologies and abusive pulpits would not be included in the Kingdom. In my humble (but accurate) opinion, the American church needs desperately to reset/reboot back to the first century model of doing church.

  95. Jack: Sounds like they made it up to fit their pre established worldview – current science begs to differ.

    Here’s a recent example of current science tangentially related, which does not seem comfortably nor monolithically settled. Interesting how this peer-reviewed article touches on pre-established worldviews potentially playing into what has been viewed as “current science” for the past couple of decades:

    https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/0092623X.2022.2150346

    “Two Dutch studies formed the foundation and the best available evidence for the practice of youth medical gender transition. We demonstrate that this work is methodologically flawed and should have never been used in medical settings as justification to scale this “innovative clinical practice.” Three methodological biases undermine the research: (1) subject selection assured that only the most successful cases were included in the results; (2) the finding that “resolution of gender dysphoria” was due to the reversal of the questionnaire employed; (3) concomitant psychotherapy made it impossible to separate the effects of this intervention from those of hormones and surgery”

    “This highly politicized and fallacious narrative, crafted and promoted by clinician-advocates, has failed to withstand scientific scrutiny internationally, with public health authorities in Sweden, Finland, and most recently England doing a U-turn on pediatric gender transitions in the last 24 months (COHERE (Council for Choices in Health Care), 2020; Socialstyrelsen [National Board of Health and Welfare], 2022; National Health Service (NHS), 2022a).“

  96. Existential angst!

    Conservative hypocrisy… Driving me crazy… Must find release…

    Solution? Go to Watch and lodge complaint! Feel better then…

    Write long paragraph… Others like! Done… Feel better now? Check back later…

    Wrote small essay on Watch with multiple comments! Everyone like… Go to bed…

    Wait… Mind restless… Can’t sleep… Maybe not enough comments…

    Wake up… Good sleep? Not quite…

    Damn! Existential angst back… World not changed… Sunday…

    Mark’s still hold church… Driscoll… Dever… All the same…

    Solution? Go to Watch and lodge complaint! Feel better then…

    Sleep better if more comments… Sleep better if longer comments…

    Write… Write… Write… Write… Write… Write Write… Write…

    New person show up and comment… Judge… Judge… Agree with echo chamber?

    Not agree… Cannot leave alone! Angry… Put them in place…

    New person never comment again! Mission accomplished…

    Me not like Mark’s… Pat myself on back…

    Me good person today… I should sleep well…

    Toss… Turn… Look at clock… Curse time on clock…

    New day! Sleep well? I wish…

    Damn! Angst still not go away!

    Mark’s writing new books, blogs… Raising millions of dollars…

    Solution? Go to Watch… File complaint… Others like!

    Rinse… Repeat… Day after day… Month after Month… Year after year…

    Max! Sound familiar? Must repeat same comment… Feel better then…

    Wait… Neo-Calvinists… Gift of gab… Beat dead horse… Feel better then…

    Wait… New post… Not about hypocrisy on right… Put on ignore…

    Days past… Angst building… Need new post about hypocrisy on right…

    Post up about right wing A@hole! Celebrate… Express outrage… Me good person!

    Did Einstein say, “Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again always expecting different results?”

    Maybe… Maybe not… If so, me smarter than him…

    Me not hypocrite! Others A%@holes… Me never like that!

    Damn! Angst still existential… Maybe Jesus help? No…

    Hypocrites talk about Jesus! Me talk to Jesus? Make me hypocrite?

    Make new comment… Same as old comment… Insanity? Of course not…

  97. Bridget: what you explain is not the only issue.

    Pardon the unclarity. Not trying explain all or anything. Nothing exhaustive here. Just to say there are a variety of realities dismissed in theologies and policies. Real people, real situations.

    Realities dismissed being the point about those claiming to be leaders, setting standards, and telling others what to do.

  98. JDV,

    Ok. This article has to do with youth gender transitions, it doesn’t state that homosexual adults are stunted in some way. It’s apples and oranges.

    There’s a gender spectrum and those on that spectrum are not defective.

  99. Max:
    Jack,

    if you go left far enough, you circle back to the right

    Or if you far enough right you circle back to the left.

    Ultimately, human decency isn’t left or right. Both “conservative” and “liberal” have been hijacked by people who are neither.

    I believe some things like medicine should not be run by corporations but I also don’t think a free market is evil.

    I don’t advocate the owning of assault weapons but don’t think all gun owners are evil.

    I believe men and women being equal has nothing to do with left or right. My wife earns more money than I do, but I worked and we both alternated shifts while she upgraded. That’s teamwork that has nothing to do with right or left

  100. Jack: There’s a gender spectrum and those on that spectrum are not defective.

    with.
    Exactly. Nor are they in sin because their reality is different than JFV’s.

  101. Ava Aaronson: Realities dismissed being the point about those claiming to be leaders, setting standards, and telling others what to do.

    … what to think, what to feel, how their bodies should be, etc.

    Why don’t they do this with all people who are different. Why only pick on Gender issues?

  102. Jack:
    JDV,

    Ok. This article has to do with youth gender transitions, it doesn’t state that homosexual adults are stunted in some way.It’s apples and oranges.

    There’s a gender spectrum and those on that spectrum are not defective.

    Spoke to current science and the influence of preestablished world views, so not apples and oranges on that.

  103. dee:
    – I have no problem with any entity defining sin as the ysee it.Recently some church leaders have focused on this issue. They have ceded on the issue of divorce in general with some folks like MacArthur and as outliers.Should they give equal time to other sins and, if so which ones?

    This reminds me of when recent SBC president JD Greear contended regarding an issue related to this discussion:

    https://jdgreear.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/01/Copy-of-4-Romans-1-24-32-Judgment.pdf

    “Jen Wilkin says we should whisper about what the Bible whispers about and shout about what it shouts about. The Bible appears more to whisper on sexual sin compared to its shouts about materialism and religious pride.”

    I’m not sure why Wilkin, who has been covered here, was cited, but Greear appeared to be using the above assertions towards a metric for sin emphasis and focus if you will. How someone in his position could contend the Bible whispers about sexual sin given the number of times that it is discussed seems to be quite something. One wonders if they would say whether Paul whispered or not when he shared the following, a passage that seems to note an additional issue with sexual sin unlike every other sin:

    1 Cor. 6:18-20 — “Flee sexual immorality. Every sin, whatever if a man might do, is outside the body, but the one sinning sexually sins against the own body. Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit in you, whom you have from God? And you are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body.”

    What seems to mark this entire thing is plenty of people playing political football and leveraging power dynamics one way or another, over and over again. As with many that engage in such back-and-forth, so many on both sides can carry baggage and questionable agendas.

  104. Bridget,

    The God given science of hermeneutics was brought in by the sociologist Schleiermacher who (according to my tertiary sources) happened to focus on our feeling of dependency (in the same way as Girard centres on scapegoats and Durkheim on social glue).

    It was de rigueur then to call oneself a christian so he was thought to cause a more negative stir than say locomotive engineers – though a pope of the time did call railways “chemins d’enfer” (roads to hell / play on fer = iron)!

    (BTW Genesis ch 1 doesn’t describe evolution, it describes a reappearance.)

    In misplaced reaction the Fundamentals (originally devised as a manoeuvre to dilute competition among protestants) get increasingly imposed as maximum belief for all christians (the reason why I was more at ease with 30,000 honestly distinguishable denominations where I could go cafeteria).

    One result is that well nigh all christians are convinced, as core doctrine, that God endorsed the worldly detractive male against female idea. In “male and female He made them” it means together, jointly.

    Obviously this goes for metaphorical attributes within our personalities as well as among individuals. How many people realise that men are “daughters of Jerusalem”?

    God made wordings in Genesis deliberately similar to (though different from) other peoples’ fables as a challenge to the church to interpret in the light of Holy Spirit experience activated since Ascension and the cry of children in Isaiah and Jeremiah. Who would want to believe the talents are about this though?

    How many people think that Holy Scripture – let alone secular texts – would have any meanings? Corner cutting in secular affairs got entrenched once it was apparent that was already the case in sacred ones: James, Dewey and Rorty abolished all semiotics, investigation and inference.

    Hence big christian movements increasingly abandoned prayer since mid 20 th century and became showy power blocs, Bismarck style. In apologetism, “theism” is no different from non-agnostic atheism.

  105. Jack: Sunday school had a lesson called “Cooking with Jesus”. He connected it to communion and apparently couldn’t stop laughing

    A C of E church I once frequented used to hold a cake break around tables after the “address”, before recommencing the rest of the “service”. Honest!

    Mr. Jesperson,

    Apologies for omitti ng link to your comment from mine offered at 01:21 a.m.

  106. JDV: your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit in you, whom you have from God

    The purpose of ordinary children and their genuine adult carers in defending the personal boundaries of others will prove providential.

    I am eyewitness to how in my classroom it was proposed we 14 year olds should predate and be preyed upon, and that was AFTER the triumphal and prayerless “aggiornamento” in the churches. Not all of you lived through that in your neighbourhoods.

    Headless Unicorn Guy,

    Not quite all the details you mention are cases in point. What some people I know of have witnessed demonstrates how untenable it is to adhere to the paradigm of the package dealers in your denomination or their secular equivalent. I sincerely recommend you go cafeteria.

  107. Lowlandseer: While the church is not to discharge the functions of other institutions such as the state and the family, nevertheless it is charged to define what the functions of these institutions are, and the lines of demarcation by which they are distinguished. It is also charged to declare and inculcate the duties which devolve upon them.

    This is not only bad theology (“my kingdom is not of this world”), but also terrible statecraft.

    Who defines the demarcation defines the rules. Who defines the rules can change them. This would mean that the church defines which things the government is allowed to regulate, and which it can’t.

    This might even work in a country with *one* predominant church. The church tells the government what it can do, what the rules are for public and private lives, and everyone has no choice but to follow them. This is similar to the dreams of the “Christian nationalists” in the news recently, like the author of a new book on christian nationalism, Stephen Wolfe, and his friend and podcast co-host, Thomas Achord, whose vilely racist and misogynist half-anonymous twitter account created quite a stir. Stephen Wolfe, in his own twitter interactions, was not even ready to affirm the right to vote of every citizen, male or female. Also, he said that heretics need not be punished by a death sentence, jail or fines should probably be enough.

    For the church, this will lead to a lot of outward compliance because people are too scared to dissent. It will not lead to a christian society (whatever that is. I don’t know, why anyone would want to live in this kind of society. In a country like the US, with its many religions (even christian religions) I cannot imagine the various denominations even agreeing on the most basic practical consequences of this. Calvinists and arminians, catholics and pentecostalists, John MacArthur and Paule White? This could be fun to watch, if it wasn’t so dangerous to everyone’s freedom.

    Max always says, and I completely agree with him, that you need to read the epistles in light of/filtered by the gospels, Paul in light of what Jesus says, not the other way round.

    James Murry, as quoted by Lowlandseer, turns it around, and adds another filter, that of the lawyer. Much as I appreciate good laws and lawyers, I think
    this is putting the cart before the horse. And it would lead to a society that would look a lot like Calvin’s Geneva or Oliver Cromwell’s England. Or, if you prefer more contemporary comparisons, today’s theocratic Iran.

  108. Gus: For the church, this will lead to a lot of outward compliance because people are too scared to dissent.

    Hypocrisy, anyone?

  109. Lowlandseer: In that respect C S Lewis is wrong in his view that godless men cannot be expected to live godly lives,

    Who gets to define what is godly and what is not?

  110. Bridget: … what to think, what to feel, how their bodies should be, etc.

    Why don’t they do this with all people who are different. Why only pick on Gender issues?

    There are many opportunities for overreach and some leaders are eager to cover them all.

  111. Getting back to “Marriage in the biblical sense is between one man and one woman”… this seems straightforward in Creation.

    However, after the Fall, one might ask: How does one define Man, how does one define Woman? The physicality seems to be in question. There are variations at birth, among humans.

    Christians who study the Bible have the biblical accounts of Creation and the Fall, as well as science and history to grapple with.

    Theology that lies about or ignores history and science while cherry picking or doing the Twist and Shout with the Bible, is ignorance. Best to avoid.

    Another reason why Kristin DuMez’s work and Beth Allison Barr’s work became best sellers. They set a few things straight historically. Perhaps more than a few.

  112. Ken F (aka Tweed): Who gets to define what is godly and what is not?

    God, of course. Which begs the question, “When did God change His mind?”. In which century of man’s existence did He change His holy standard for man to live by? Did He change His mind to adapt to demands of 21st century culture? Or have we changed ours in an effort to mold God into our image?

  113. Gus: you need to read the epistles in light of/filtered by the gospels, Paul in light of what Jesus says, not the other way round

    If you don’t, you could very well read Jesus wrong! If you read the Gospels first, the writings of Paul come into perspective.

  114. Ken F (aka Tweed): Who gets to define what is godly and what is not?

    I grew up in a community that was horrified by gambling, and yet people were generally comfortable joining the local segregated swimming pool. Yes, there were Bible verses about both of those things, and the verses are still in the Bible. But people have moved on and decided that something else is both ungodly and completely different from all the ungodly things they railed against in the past.

  115. Max: If you read the Gospels first, the writings of Paul come into perspective.

    Does anybody truly start reading the Bible with the Epistles? Is this a New Calvinist thing?

    Maybe I’m just a naive lil lifelong Christian, but I think most Christian denominations and traditions place strongest emphasis on the Gospels. Any church with a lectionary, for example.

  116. Ken F (aka Tweed),

    Amen to this, Ken.

    what is a real ‘spouse’ in any transcendent age, but this:
    ‘heaven’s last best gift’ 🙂

    Marriage these days as a ‘wedge issue’ in the ‘culture wars’
    Please, no. It’s meant to be so much more than this.
    In a land where persons are to be respected as ‘made in the image of God’ and ‘deserving of dignity as human persons’, sad to see statistics and gender issues rise up as ‘the real problems’ when the real problem is lack of respect for any person’s dignity and the loss of love when it is most needed among people

    Marriage? I don’t ‘define’ it for others, but I recognize the real thing when it comes before me, a widow from a marriage of 51 and a half years and 3 days . . . something of the ‘either to other’ hope seen from ancient days, yes;
    but more than that, something to be hoped for, even in the midst of trials and difficulties, something of love that death can’t erase and not even the culture wars has the power to reduce to a ‘wedge’, no.

    I see the essence of ‘marriage’ even in this poem, yes:

    “Quarantine” by Eaven Boland

    “In the worst hour of the worst season
    of the worst year of a whole people
    a man set out from the workhouse with his wife.
    He was walking – they were both walking – north.

    She was sick with famine fever and could not keep up.
    He lifted her and put her on his back.
    He walked like that west and west and north.
    Until at nightfall under freezing stars they arrived.

    In the morning they were both found dead.
    Of cold. Of hunger. Of the toxins of a whole history.
    But her feet were held against his breastbone.
    The last heat of his flesh was his last gift to her.

    Let no love poem ever come to this threshold.
    There is no place here for the inexact
    praise of the easy graces and sensuality of the body.
    There is only time for this merciless inventory:

    Their death together in the winter of 1847.
    Also what they suffered. How they lived.
    And what there is between a man and woman.
    And in which darkness it can best be proved.
    ( Eavan Boland)

  117. Ken F (aka Tweed): Who gets to define what is godly and what is not?

    Whoever Seizes POWER, of course.

    “There are those who say what we do is illegal. Before that can happen, make sure WE are the ones who define what is legal and what is not.”
    — L Ron Hubbard

  118. christiane: Marriage these days as a ‘wedge issue’ in the ‘culture wars’
    Please, no. It’s meant to be so much more than this.

    It is a Political Agenda Matter, nothing more.
    Just like everything in the old USSR.

    “Everything’s Political these days. I’m going down the hall to the restrooms. I’m going to choose the Men’s Room. THAT’S MAKING A POLITICAL STATEMENT.”
    — Morning radio drive-time

  119. Gus: This might even work in a country with *one* predominant church.

    Like Holy Russia?
    “Z! Z! Z!”

  120. Jack: Sounds like they made it up to fit their pre established worldview – current science begs to differ.

    “Science” Falsely SO-Called or WORD! OF!! GAWD!!!?

  121. Jack: Because god said so.

    My writing partner once said the most terrifying Christian Nationalist/Reconstructionist website he had ever come across was titled “GOD HATH SAID”.

  122. Bridget: Someone please explain why, in many religious groups, being born different than what we call the “norm” is okay in every instance except when it comes to gender? Why is it sinful concerning gender, but not any other difference in a person?

    Because Christians are as obsessed with Pelvic Issues as any nymphomaniac.

    Christians are just as screwed-up sexually as everyone else, just with a Biblical coat of paint.

  123. Headless Unicorn Guy: Whoever Seizes POWER, of course.

    Exactly. Once I seize power, I, and I alone, will tell you all the correct behaviors and thoughts for you. My appointed “elders” will lovingly help you conform to the right standards. It will be utopia. What could go wrong?

  124. Max: In which century of man’s existence did He change His holy standard for man to live by?

    God is the same.

    However, our understandings (for theology, public policy, Common Good/Rule of Law civility) should change with the times, always moving forward. Why? Because of scientific discovery and historical record clarification.

  125. Friend: Does anybody truly start reading the Bible with the Epistles? Is this a New Calvinist thing?

    I know young men who attended SBC seminaries in recent years. They testify that the emphasis for systematic theology is indeed placed on the epistles of Paul, rather than the Gospels. SBC seminaries are all now controlled by NeoCal leadership. In the hands of crafty seminary professors, the epistles are twisted to support reformed theology … the words in red get in the way of that, so they avoid the Gospels.

  126. linda: Deeply tempted is not a free pass saying I then get to sin and call it not sin because I am just wired that way. Straight single people also suffer the same sort of deep temptations gay people do, and often also have no realistic hope of marriage to ease the situation.

    I agree.

    I agree in my faith POV.

    I also think civil unions between two consensual adults should be respected in our society, and the church should concur regarding the legallty while plainly stating the sin aspect. Adultery or cheating on a partner is legal but ungodly (and unwise), IMHO.

    Sinful and illegal/legal are separate, IMHO.

    1 Corinthians 5 seems to indicate separation of church and state regarding consensual sexual sin among adults.

    The text advises NOT fellowshiping with Christians in sexual sin, but it’s not an issue with those in the world not claiming to be Christian.

  127. linda: The church loses its way when it is focused on the culture wars, or theological wars, or anything else than seeing sinners born again.

    The culture part is how we live out our faith:

    1. As disciples in fellowship.
    2. As citizens of a free and open society.

    Thus two distinct cultures, that IMHO, need not be at war.

    For example, in our community, families choose their school culture for their children: parochial, public, magnet, charter, homeschool, etc. Without war. These schools compete in tournaments, peacefully.

  128. Ava Aaronson: change with the times

    “I consider the chief dangers which confront the coming century will be religion without the Holy Ghost; Christianity without Christ; forgiveness without repentance; salvation without regeneration; politics without God; and Heaven without Hell.” (Gen. William Booth, founder of The Salvation Army).

  129. There have always, always, always been non-heterosexual people in churches. Double the always when the state requires universal membership.

    What are they to do? Lie, stay in the closet, wait to be exposed and expelled? Shunning does not strike me as a loving answer. Neither does the current fad of yelling “Groomer!” at anybody and everybody.

    Celibacy might look like a handy answer, but I was most certainly celibate at age 12 when the kids at school called me various LGBTQ slurs, over and over, with no basis in my actions or thinking.

    We need to stop dehumanizing humans.

  130. linda: There is simply no way we can do our job as the church and fail to label sin, of ANY kind, as sin. And that will hurt somebody’s feelings, but better that than to be lost for eternity.

    True.

    In Paul’s NT, Christians dickered over what he deemed unimportant, including regarding the Abrahamic Covenant: “For in Christ Jesus neither circumcision amounts to anything, nor uncircumcision, but faith working through love.” Gal.5. WEB, public domain.

    Paul goes on to describe two distinct cultures:

    “Now the deeds of the flesh are obvious, which are: adultery, sexual immorality, uncleanness, lustfulness, idolatry, sorcery, hatred, strife, jealousies, outbursts of anger, rivalries, divisions, heresies, envy, murders, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these; of which I forewarn you, even as I also forewarned you, that those who practice such things will not inherit God’s Kingdom.

    “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Those who belong to Christ have crucified the flesh with its passions and lusts.”

    Paul’s concern is for our citizenship in Heaven, NOT the reign of Christian values in a civilized society.

    Orgies (consenting adults) are legal but ungodly.

    Do we really think God will bless us if we legislate morality among consenting adults while providing Epstein’s Island Hunting Grounds with minors violated in our churches? Including youth pastors right in the youth room on the youth room couch having sex with minors?

    The church culture war with regard to predators and minors is THE church culture war.

    A close second is domestic violence among Christian couples.

    One side wants the truth. The other side, in power, enforces cover-up; good luck being blessed by God by covering up the violation of minors in churches.

    Every time a religious leader blames a catastrophe on the gays, maybe they ought to look at their BFFs in their communities that are violating minors. That’s sin wholly cursed by God … on the predators and those who protect this evil.

    God rescues and blesses survivors and truth tellers.

  131. Friend: There have always, always, always been non-heterosexual people in churches. Double the always when the state requires universal membership.

    There have always been heterosexual adulterers in churches. Not visible. (Or covered up even when truth is told, like Ravi Z. – and he was a predator which is not even really an adulterer but a criminal.)

    Same with obesity and gluttons (although there are many reasons for being overweight, some due to no fault of the person). Visible.

    Same with alcoholics and substance abuse. Not always visible.

    Same with greedy corporate leaders. Not visible, but the working class without a living wage would know.

    Etc.

    1 Cor. 5 gives some indication of what sinful practices/lifestyles to disallow in a church fellowship, probably since these are social behaviors that impact others in a group.

    IAC, “always present” is neither a dealmaker nor dealbreaker for me.

    IMHO, churches and fellowships *always* have to grapple with lifestyle issues, sin issues, and consensus about overlookables as well as confrontables, and disfellowshipables.

    Seems to pop up often in the NT churches. The disciples didn’t always agree on stuff.

    In these times, can we agree that DV and CSA do NOT belong in church institutions and DO need LE with the DOJ intervention?

  132. Max: “I consider the chief dangers which confront the coming century will be religion without the Holy Ghost; Christianity without Christ; forgiveness without repentance; salvation without regeneration; politics without God; and Heaven without Hell.” (Gen. William Booth, founder of The Salvation Army).

    Perfectly describes the religious elite of Jesus’ day who executed the Son of God.

    Not new.

    Like Jesus, following him will bring about the same: a religious elite that is wholly against the remnant disciples.

    Be aware and beware.

    We watched “Harriet” on HBO. She followed God’s leading, rescued 100’s of slaves with a posse after her the whole way. 1800’s. Christians without Christ aimed to execute her. She never gave this pause.

  133. Ava Aaronson: these are social behaviors that impact others in a group.

    The Bible does have some verses against homosexuality. One argument against trying to apply these verses to our society: the ancient peoples of the Holy Land did not have our notions of consent.

    The adult married gay couple in my neighborhood is not affecting me or exploiting or assaulting each other or anyone else. Are they still sinning? Should I stop saying hi to them? What if they show up at my church?

    These are challenging questions, but I do want to understand how your beliefs would work in a neighborhood or town.

  134. Max: They testify that the emphasis for systematic theology is indeed placed on the epistles of Paul, rather than the Gospels.

    From reading and comparisons that I have done, I believe most, if not all, of the changes and additions that were made in the BF&M2000 are from the Pauline epistles.
    I have not examined the changes in their entirety, but it looks to me like the Apostle Paul has begun to have a greater influence on the SBC than Jesus.

  135. Nancy2(aka Kevlar): changes and additions that were made in the BF&M2000 … the Apostle Paul has begun to have a greater influence on the SBC than Jesus

    Mohler (on the BFM2000 revision team) must have felt it would be safer to twist what Paul was saying rather than Jesus … even Pope Mohler wouldn’t dare to do that. The BFM2000 ushered in SBC Calvinization by subtle and not-so-subtle changes to long-standing Baptist doctrines, beliefs and practices.

  136. Friend: how your beliefs would work in a neighborhood or town

    Civic community: work together for the Common Good and Rule of Law, socialize, love, accept and respect as legal civic unions, pluralism of beliefs and practices.

    Church fellowship: work together for a biblically healthy community of believers. There will be disagreements, like in the NT, so work on this together as a community.

    Do evangelism outside the church. Do discipleship and fellowship in the church community.

    2 communities, 2 cultures. A Christian is hopefully in good spiritual health and standing, a part of both.

    IMHO, today US churches overreach in dictating morality in their civic communities while covering up criminality in their church communities. Always easier to point the finger at others’ splinters while harboring a deadly log in one’s own eye.

    We would definitely socialize with your neighbors. Sound like good neighbors.

    We would share the Gospel, if led (instead of welcoming them, as is, to our church fellowship).

  137. Thank you, Ava.

    We do disagree on this, but I appreciate your honesty.

    To be clear, I would not belong to a church that denied fellowship or membership to legally married people—or to any person just living life and seeking God.

    Of course churches should oppose crime, and they should certainly not conceal it. If they flout the law, they lose moral standing too.

  138. Ava Aaronson: IMHO, today US churches overreach in dictating morality in their civic communities while covering up criminality in their church communities.

    This!

  139. Max: They testify that the emphasis for systematic theology is indeed placed on the epistles of Paul, rather than the Gospels.

    Neo-cals are not the only ones who camp out on Paul.
    Plenty of non-reformed outfits do it too.

  140. Ava Aaronson: Twist and shout. A lot of biblical expounding does the dance while bellowing.

    Reminds me of of the old tv commercials for the Milton Bradly game, Twister………. “Twister ties you up in a knot.”

  141. Muff Potter: Neo-cals are not the only ones who camp out on Paul.

    Paul would be astounded at his popularity … he desired nothing but to glorify Christ. Neo-cals (and some others) talk more about Paul than they do Jesus!

  142. Ava Aaronson: Twist and shout

    “distort” would have been a better word for me to use … didn’t mean for the older among us to think of Chubby Checker 🙂

  143. Max: Paul would be astounded at his popularity

    Astute point, Max! I think he would have little patience for a lot of his devotees.

    He might even wonder why we’re reading only his half of the correspondence.

  144. Friend: I think he would have little patience for a lot of his devotees

    The early church pointed to Jesus … the 21st century church points to celebrity preachers

  145. Mr. Jesperson:
    Existential angst!

    Conservative hypocrisy…Driving me crazy…Must find release…

    Solution?Go to Watch and lodge complaint!Feel better then…

    Write long paragraph…Others like!Done…Feel better now?Check back later…

    Wrote small essay on Watch with multiple comments!Everyone like…Go to bed…

    Wait…Mind restless…Can’t sleep…Maybe not enough comments…

    Wake up…Good sleep?Not quite…

    Damn!Existential angst back…World not changed…Sunday…

    Mark’s still hold church…Driscoll… Dever…All the same…

    Solution?Go to Watch and lodge complaint!Feel better then…

    Sleep better if more comments…Sleep better if longer comments…

    Write…Write… Write…Write… Write…Write Write…Write…

    New person show up and comment…Judge… Judge… Agree with echo chamber?

    Not agree…Cannot leave alone!Angry…Put them in place…

    New person never comment again!Mission accomplished…

    Me not like Mark’s…Pat myself on back…

    Me good person today…I should sleep well…

    Toss… Turn…Look at clock…Curse time on clock…

    New day!Sleep well? I wish…

    Damn!Angst still not go away!

    Mark’s writing new books, blogs…Raising millions of dollars…

    Solution?Go to Watch… File complaint… Others like!

    Rinse… Repeat…Day after day…Month after Month…Year after year…

    Max!Sound familiar?Must repeat same comment…Feel better then…

    Wait…Neo-Calvinists…Gift of gab…Beat dead horse…Feel better then…

    Wait… New post…Not about hypocrisy on right…Put on ignore…

    Days past… Angst building… Need new post about hypocrisy on right…

    Post up about right wing A@hole!Celebrate…Express outrage…Me good person!

    Did Einstein say, “Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again always expecting different results?”

    Maybe… Maybe not…If so, me smarter than him…

    Me not hypocrite!Others A%@holes… Me never like that!

    Damn!Angst still existential…Maybe Jesus help?No…

    Hypocrites talk about Jesus!Me talk to Jesus?Make me hypocrite?

    Make new comment… Same as old comment…Insanity?Of course not…

    Hmm… seems like the spirit of a perverse Cookie Monster has possessed you. Way to break it down for all the kindergarteners reading the blog.

  146. dee,

    Where is this coming from – “most people are not Christians”? Dee, I respect you and your views, but whose standards are being applied in this statement? As a longtime member of the ELCA, I do see people whom many would probably say are “not Christians,” yet they’re devout.

    So where is the line being drawn on “not Christians” and who is drawing it?

    Also, I think it’s vitally important to be upfront about the fact that this country has never been populated solely by Christians. During the Revolutionary War, many members of the Jewish community in New England and the NYC area backed Washington and were actively involved in political organizing – and fighting. Prominent rabbis of the day endorsed the independence of the US.

    And yet, a great many Protestants in most of the original 13 colonies viewed Roman Catholics as “not Christian.” Insofar as that view is still held in many fundagelical circles, we continue to play out the English Reformation, which got very, very ugly (on all sides).

    I also think that we must accept and acknowledge that this country is very pluralistic per religion – this is especially true since longtime quotas and bans on immigrants from East and South Asia were lifted during the 1960s. “Conservatives” (not you, Dee!) in general seem to get their knickers in a twist over this, yet ethics per marriage in other faiths are very similar. People need to be educated or educate themselves about this, but sadly, not many will. (Within “conservative Christian” circles, that is.)

    I don’t see Jesus or Paul saying anything about a two-tiered system of marriage, either – I find the idea very hard to stomach myself. Marriage is, well, marriage – and people can choose to live out their understanding of what that means to them. But one kind of marriage for Xtians and another for “non-Xtians”? No. It’s too much like “separate but equal.” (As Muslin mentioned upthread, per Loving v. Virginia and the overturning of anti-miscegenation laws.)

    Besides all that, there are certainly a lot of LGBTQ+ folks out here who are serious about their own religious beliefs and are married. Who gets to draw the line segregating them from heterosexual couples? Who can possibly sit in judgment per who gets a pass and who doesn’t?

    Our society is meant to be built on the separation of church and state, as you said in your post. Legislation is intended to apply to everyone in this country, not just those who follow the “right” beliefs (or say that they do). Peter’s vision of so-called “unclean” animals comes to mind. Per Acts, that was about gentiles. Perhaps today, it’s about many “other” people – very much including everyone who is LGBTQ+.

    I’ll just mention that back in 2008, when I was going through both personal and family crises, the folks who *really* had my back were a small group of Xtian women who just happen to be lesbians. They invited me to join a private forum as a straight ally. All have experienced a tremendous amount of rejection and hatred (in many cases, their own blood relatives are the worst offenders) – they all come from evangelical backgrounds. Yet the grace and mercy I have had extended to me by these women is far greater than anything I ever experienced within evangelical churches. (As many of you know, I was kicked out of the last evangelical church I was in, back in 2002.)

    Maybe we’d be better off ditching tiers, lines, and all the rest of it.

  147. Ava Aaronson,

    Actually, a variety of biological conditions that are often referred to as “intersex” exist, and a number of them are pretty common. (I’m not talking about ambiguous genitalia, which is indeed rare.)

  148. Jack,

    I think the Trobisches are a mixed bag at best, not least b/c they came from another era entirely, one where DNA hadn’t yet been discovered. Many of their ideas seem – to me, at least – to be based on outdated and erroneous and/or questionable research, in science as well as psychology.

  149. Nancy2(aka Kevlar): Paul has begun to have a greater influence

    A meaningless alleged “Paul”. Paul more than anyone, wrote and spoke with meanings. I bet the SBC don’t know their Isaiah or Jeremiah.

    numo: psychology

    Our individual emotional development is not a matter for public authority, it belongs completely in the private forum.

  150. Ken F (aka Tweed): Who gets to define what is godly and what is not?

    It would appear that CS Lewis thought that he could and he skilfully avoided some moral issues by saying that as he had no personal experience of them, he couldn’t comment.

    Michael in UK
    “ I suppose by “godly” Lewis meant certain things in conformity to faith. I’m not a fan of his waffle but that’s just me.”
    I agree. I don’t understand the evangelical fascination with him. To enter Narnia through the wardrobe, rather than through the door into the sheepfold, says it all for me.

  151. Ava Aaronson: However, after the Fall, one might ask: How does one define Man, how does one define Woman? The physicality seems to be in question. There are variations at birth, among humans.
    Christians who study the Bible have the biblical accounts of Creation and the Fall, as well as science and history to grapple with.
    Theology that lies about or ignores history and science while cherry picking or doing the Twist and Shout with the Bible, is ignorance. Best to avoid.

    And yet the Incarnate Son of God came after the Fall and, among other things, endorsed the Creation account of man and woman and defined their relationship (as well as coming into the world to save sinners).

    As for your other stuff, Einstein also said that Science without Theology is lame – you only gave half the quotation in your earlier remarks. My suggestion would be that any “scientifically minded” person who calls into question the mental health of those who hold different views or implies that they are lying is the one who should be avoided.

  152. Lowlandseer: It would appear that CS Lewis thought that he could and he skilfully avoided some moral issues by saying that as he had no personal experience of them, he couldn’t comment.

    Here is what he said about people ruling in the name of good:
    “Of all tyrannies, a tyranny sincerely exercised for the good of its victims may be the most oppressive. It would be better to live under robber barons than under omnipotent moral busybodies. The robber baron’s cruelty may sometimes sleep, his cupidity may at some point be satiated; but those who torment us for our own good will torment us without end for they do so with the approval of their own conscience.”

  153. Lowlandseer: As for your other stuff, Einstein also said that Science without Theology is lame – you only gave half the quotation in your earlier remarks. My suggestion would be that any “scientifically minded” person who calls into question the mental health of those who hold different views or implies that they are lying is the one who should be avoided.

    Actually the quote has “religion” not “theology” and the fuller context includes a description of religion that would allow one to say those who hold different views are flat out wrong even if they claim theological reasons.

    At first, then, instead of asking what religion is I should prefer to ask what characterizes the aspirations of a person who gives me the impression of being religious: a person who is religiously enlightened appears to me to be one who has, to the best of his ability, liberated himself from the fetters of his selfish desires and is preoccupied with thoughts, feelings, and aspirations to which he clings because of their superpersonalvalue. It seems to me that what is important is the force of this superpersonal content and the depth of the conviction concerning its overpowering meaningfulness, regardless of whether any attempt is made to unite this content with a divine Being, for otherwise it would not be possible to count Buddha and Spinoza as religious personalities. Accordingly, a religious person is devout in the sense that he has no doubt of the significance and loftiness of those superpersonal objects and goals which neither require nor are capable of rational foundation. They exist with the same necessity and matter-of-factness as he himself. In this sense religion is the age-old endeavor of mankind to become clearly and completely conscious of these values and goals and constantly to strengthen and extend their effect. If one conceives of religion and science according to these definitions then a conflict between them appears impossible. For science can only ascertain what is, but not what should be, and outside of its domain value judgments of all kinds remain necessary. Religion, on the other hand, deals only with evaluations of human thought and action: it cannot justifiably speak of facts and relationships between facts. According to this interpretation the well-known conflicts between religion and science in the past must all be ascribed to a misapprehension of the situation which has been described.

    For example, a conflict arises when a religious community insists on the absolute truthfulness of all statements recorded in the Bible. This means an intervention on the part of religion into the sphere of science; this is where the struggle of the Church against the doctrines of Galileo and Darwin belongs. On the other hand, representatives of science have often made an attempt to arrive at fundamental judgments with respect to values and ends on the basis of scientific method, and in this way have set themselves in opposition to religion. These conflicts have all sprung from fatal errors.

    Now, even though the realms of religion and science in themselves are clearly marked off from each other, nevertheless there exist between the two strong reciprocal relationships and dependencies. Though religion may be that which determines the goal, it has, nevertheless, learned from science, in the broadest sense, what means will contribute to the attainment of the goals it has set up. But science can only be created by those who are thoroughly imbued with the aspiration toward truth and understanding. This source of feeling, however, springs from the sphere of religion. To this there also belongs the faith in the possibility that the regulations valid for the world of existence are rational, that is, comprehensible to reason. I cannot conceive of a genuine scientist without that profound faith. The situation may be expressed by an image: science without religion is lame, religion without science is blind.

    From his essay Science and Religion (https://www.sacred-texts.com/aor/einstein/einsci.htm)

  154. Lowlandseer: My suggestion would be that any “scientifically minded” person who calls into question the mental health of those who hold different views or implies that they are lying is the one who should be avoided.

    I’m not Ava, so forgive me for weighing in.

    Shouldn’t this be a two-way street? Mental illness and lying are things that exist in the world. If people are too mentally ill to make sound judgments, that needs to be pointed out. Likewise if they are simply dishonest.

    This goes beyond the supposed dichotomy between science and religion. We need enlightenment and critical thinking. Pointing out flawed ideas is crucial.

  155. Ken F (aka Tweed): “… The robber baron’s cruelty may sometimes sleep, his cupidity may at some point be satiated; but those who torment us for our own good will torment us without end for they do so with the approval of their own conscience.”

    This just looks like two flavors of sociopathy to me. C. S. Lewis suffered throughout his life in a hidebound, rigid society of Empire. Oxford University was an exceedingly narrow place during his many years on the faculty. His faith was mocked.

    Lewis himself had a conscience, just not a sadistic one.

  156. Friend,

    And women had no place, really, in the Oxford of his day. The Inklings were all men, and I doubt they’d have welcomed women guests/members in their regular pub nights….

  157. Friend,

    I have the impression that a lot of men in the British universities at that time were very emotionally immature – and no wonder, after being shipped off to all-Male schools at a very young age. I think the Dockery was schoolboyish bullying by supposed “grownups.”

  158. Lowlandseer,

    But the Narnia books are *stories.* Fun and imaginative.

    Myself, I’d take the wardrobe any day. There’s a but of allegory there, for those who are able to see it.

  159. Mr. Jesperson: Learn fear of God. All sin including all sexual sin brings death. Death not good…

    And who determines what sexual sin is? Maybe the greater part of humanity have been the whitewashed tombs. Many look at the outward appearance of man/woman and judge what that means. There are internal workings of men/woman that are not in alignment with their physical attributes. I wonder how God judges people . . . by their outward appearances or otherwise? Do they love God, their neighbors, do they murder, steal, commit adultery, love their parents, etc.

  160. Ken F (aka Tweed): Headless Unicorn Guy: Whoever Seizes POWER, of course.

    Exactly. Once I seize power, I, and I alone, will tell you all the correct behaviors and thoughts for you. My appointed “elders” will lovingly help you conform to the right standards. It will be utopia. What could go wrong?

    Citizen Robespierre’s Republique of Perfect Virtue, baring her breasts and beckoning seductively from the other side of the “Regrettable but Necessary” Reign of Terror.

  161. Mr. Jesperson: Learn fear of God. All sin including all sexual sin brings death. Death not good…

    All sins deserve hell?
    Should we execute a jay-walker just the same as a mass murderer?

  162. numo: Yet the grace and mercy I have had extended to me by these women is far greater than anything I ever experienced within evangelical churches.

    Numo,
    I loved your comment. Yes, often it is those who are persecuted and rejected who ‘understand’ what it is like not to be loved for who they are;
    and they know the importance of treating others with kindness so as to put a ‘stop’ to all the mean-spiritedness that they have endured.

    The persecuted who return only love and kindness to their enemies are especially close to the Holy Spirit of Whom it is said, this:

    “The Holy Spirit teaches us to love our enemies in such way that we pity their souls as if they were our own children.”
    — Silouan the Athonite

  163. Max: Neo-cals (and some others) talk more about Paul than they do Jesus!

    This is true.
    I briefly attended a church in my area where Paul is like a new Moses to the gentiles so to speak. Every jot and tittle (Paul’s writings) carries the same weight as Torah does to ultra-orthodox Jews.

  164. Friend: Does anybody truly start reading the Bible with the Epistles? Is this a New Calvinist thing?

    Maybe I’m just a naive lil lifelong Christian, but I think most Christian denominations and traditions place strongest emphasis on the Gospels. Any church with a lectionary, for example.

    There are some denominations that don’t actually call themselves a denomination a lot of times but call themselves “Grace” churches with “grace believers“. They have also been referred to as hyper-dispensationalism or ultra-dispensationalism from outside.

    You may come across the names Scofield and his widely-used study Bible, Bullinger, Stam, or O’Hair. Some of them arguably use a prooftext of 2 Timothy 2:15 and “rightly dividing the word of truth” to divide everything that came before Paul’s arrival and everything after until the end of the time of the Gentiles. Some then appear to use some or all of Paul’s epistles as the prism through which church doctrine is to be learned and established and modern belief, profession, and practice is to be primarily seen, studied, and observed.

    Some of their conclusions seem to be devoid of proper contextualization within Scripture but dependent on proof texts. In that vein, some (under which seems to be problematic assertions and conclusions) put baptism as a Jewish rite that should not be observed in this “dispensation“, specifically targeting the Great Commission as only going out to the “apostles” of the previous dispensation that some assert only applies to Jews. (Never mind Paul’s words about how he had baptized some and the recording of baptisms post-Acts 15, nor how reaching the uttermost parts of the earth per Acts 1:8 would fit with their view.)

    Then, there’s the arguable proof-texting of the use of the word “mystery“ and Paul using the term “my gospel“ to actually assert that Paul brought a different gospel then what was brought by Peter and the other apostles. Much murkiness as far as assertions conclusions as to what constitutes the Gospel of the kingdom appears to be employed towards bolstering that contention. The “rightly dividing“ doctrine (sic) reportedly emphasizes what Paul says in Galatians 2 about Peter and the rest of the apostles going to the Jews and Paul going to the Gentiles towards the same end. Some of them actually appear to assert that the Jews had to be saved through the law.

    Even what Paul says about hearing from Jesus directly from above seems to be used to emphasize the difference. Of course, everything in Acts 10 and 11 – – where Peter hears from above and is chosen to share with the Gentiles (also noted in Acts 15:7) – – and Acts 15 – – where Peter emphasizes in verse 11 that “we believe that through the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ we shall be saved, even as they” – – seems to be largely overlooked in order to draw the above conclusions.

    Paul also preached to both, “earnestly testifying both to the Jewish and to Greeks repentance in God and faith in our Lord Jesus” (Acts 20:21), which arguably points to what occurred in Galatians 2 as more of a specification of the area of ministry concentration for particular ministers rather than to rigidly restricting their focus according to supposedly different gospels for different people and dispensations.

    Despite what is noted in the preceding verse and where it occurs, some of them actually assert that the preaching of repentance was something restricted to the previous dispensation. Also, rather than the “mystery“ being that Paul was given a different gospel than the apostles had received that had previously been hidden but then would go to the Gentiles starting with Paul’s unique ministry, the “mystery of revelation” described in Ephesians 3:2-7 indicates “that the Gentiles are joint-heirs, and a joint-body, and joint-partakers of the promise in Christ Jesus, through the gospel” (Eph. 3:6) – – something that evidently had been pointedly emphasized and specified in Acts 10, 11, 15, etc.)

    Reportedly, some of the hyper-dispensationalists deem all of Paul’s words to be taken as “commandments of the Lord”, others emphasizing his “prison epistles”, and still others something in between. Some apparently put their “rightly dividing” line on modern relevance and applicability of Scripture at Acts 2, others at different junctures of Paul’s ministry such as Acts 9, others Acts 13, others solely the prison epistles, and so forth.

    Along those lines, I recall from an interwebs blog comments section where someone evidently from one of these perspectives could seem to have an issue when others would post relevant Scripture from anywhere but Paul’s epistles — even Paul’s own words from the book of Acts — to counter some of these assertions. And perish the thought that someone would cite the Gospel accounts and even the words of Jesus, which may be countered with an assertion that He was speaking to Jews alone during His earthly ministry, was only sent to the lost sheep of Israel, and other claims that seemed to call for proper contextualization — such as the context of what was said to the Syro-Phoenician woman and potentially allowing for a greater point to be made there related to those to whom Jesus would offer salvation, etc.

    Some pointedly refer to “Pauline authority“ and Christendom’s general rebellion against that in what seems an “us versus them” divide concerning doctrinal truth, pointing again and again to the uniqueness of Paul’s ministry and “his“ gospel. The reported remedy according to some of them is to primarily study Paul’s epistles – – though again, you have to figure out which individual part of them a particular group of adherents will specify / rightly divide (sic). Never mind what Paul himself said about the “holy scriptures” / “sacred writings” and “all scripture“ / “every scripture” in 2 Timothy 3:14-17.

  165. It has been interesting to see the various evasions employed to avoid discussing the existence of sin in all our lives and to try to justify the benefits of the Marriage Act in an effort to promote whatever ideal you hold to, contrary to the teachings of God. Some of you might think today is different from the past and that the specifics mentioned n the blog are new and unique. But they are not.

    The following was written 484 years ago. “ But I would have you not to think it enough to be Christians in your dealing, according to the Act of Parliament, but according to the word of God.“ (Rev Alexander Henderson, COMMUNION SERVICE OCT. 21, 1638   AT SAINT ANDREWS, OCTOBER 21, 1638, WHEN THE COMMUNION WAS GIVEN THEREj.

  166. numo,

    Autocorrect put “the Dockery” in my reply and I have no recollection of the word(s) it’s replacing. My apologies!

  167. Wondering if 1638 marked a time when Christianity was clear to everyone involved. According to Wikipedia:

    February 28 – The Scottish National Covenant is signed in Edinburgh, Scotland, in opposition to changes to the Church of Scotland proposed by King Charles I.

    March 3 – Thirty Years’ War: Battle of Rheinfelden – A mercenary army under Bernard of Saxe-Weimar, fighting for France, defeats forces of the Holy Roman Empire.

    March 22 – Anne Hutchinson is banished from the Massachusetts Bay Colony for heresy and goes to Rhode Island.

    April 3 – Preacher John Wheelwright is banished from Boston and founds Exeter, New Hampshire.

    June 27 – Patriarch Cyril of Constantinople is deposed for high treason, strangled and thrown into the sea by Janissaries, on Ottoman Sultan Murad IV’s command.

  168. Lowlandseer: It has been interesting to see the various evasions employed to avoid discussing the existence of sin in all our lives and to try to justify the benefits of the Marriage Act in an effort to promote whatever ideal you hold to, contrary to the teachings of God. Some of you might think today is different from the past and that the specifics mentioned n the blog are new and unique. But they are not.

    Some of us don’t seem to understand how radical Jesus really is, or believe that he was actually God in the flesh. Some of us seem to believe we know exactly what God is, and what he would do, and how he will judge, and confine His being to what’s in a book.

  169. Friend:
    Wondering if 1638 marked a time when Christianity was clear to everyone involved. According to Wikipedia:

    February 28 – The Scottish National Covenant is signed in Edinburgh, Scotland, in opposition to changes to the Church of Scotland proposed by King Charles I.


    March 3 – Thirty Years’ War: Battle of Rheinfelden – A mercenary army under Bernard of Saxe-Weimar, fighting for France, defeats forces of the Holy Roman Empire.

    March 22 – Anne Hutchinson is banished from the Massachusetts Bay Colony for heresy and goes to Rhode Island.

    April 3 – Preacher John Wheelwright is banished from Boston and founds Exeter, New Hampshire.

    June 27 – Patriarch Cyril of Constantinople is deposed for high treason, strangled and thrown into the sea by Janissaries, on Ottoman Sultan Murad IV’s command.

    Chrystal clear 😉

  170. Friend,

    Although I’m very curious as to why Sultan Murad IV accused the Ecumenical Patriarch of treason.

    * Note: this execution is *exactly* like many that were carried out by minions of the (supposedly Xtian) Byzantine emperors, and is actually a lot more humane than the majority of those. So many executions of the emperors’ immediate family were murdered, over the course of many centuries, so that sons/brothers/nephews etc. wouldn’t seize the throne. If and when they did, they had no hesitation about killing the deposed emperor(s) by very violent, bloody, gruesome means.

    Reading Western and Eastern Xtian history isn’t for the faint of heart, that’s for sure.

  171. Lowlandseer: It has been interesting to see the various evasions employed to avoid discussing the existence of sin in all our lives and to try to justify the benefits of the Marriage Act in an effort to promote whatever ideal you hold to, contrary to the teachings of God. Some of you might think today is different from the past and that the specifics mentioned n the blog are new and unique. But they are not.

    Hey, whatever floats your boat. But if you think the rest of our pluralistic society will go along with it then it’s a delusion.

    What we have today is better than your “auto de fe” Christian worldview.

    “Burn baby burn) burn that mother down
    (Burn baby burn) disco inferno
    (Burn baby burn) burn that mother down”

    – the Traamps

  172. Bridget,

    Short version of why Ecumenical Patriarch Cyril I died: he.was.a.Calvinist.

    Not joking. See his bio. at the Wiki link. Many Eastern Orthodox Xtians wanted him gone. He even sent theological students to Geneva and the Netherlands. Although he’s listed as a martyr by the EO churches, if someone with his views became Ecumenical Patriarch today, he would be forced out of office. No question.

  173. Mr. Jesperson: When we act like progressives why are we so surprised we are labeled that way? They proudly wear the label. If we do not want the label then Dee and company need to write equal amount of posts about hypocrisy on left. Otherwise we look biased because: we are? Logic? Or are we just as blind as those we criticize?

    So basically any tolerance is “the left”.

    I didn’t stop being Christian because of Jesus.

    But because of this mainly.

    Sorry, I can’t hate people and eat bacon at the same time.

    Jesus? Ok, but like the band Sloan said in their 1994 song “Coax Me”

    “It’s not the band I hate, it’s their fans…”

  174. numo,

    You can’t make this up. You just can’t.

    This man’s convictions fly in the face of everything I thought I knew about the Eastern Orthodox chirches.

    I suspect many former Protestants today – those who’ve converted to one or another of the EO churches – might well experience a crisis of faith if they knew about Cyril I, along with other folks along the way who defied what the Orthodox churches claim about themselves and their history.

    Cyril I also corresponded with at least one of the Archbishops of Canterbury. Communications appear to have been quite cordial.

    Meanwhile, my head is still spinning over the notion of the EO churches coming *this* close to Protestant-style reforms during the early-mid 1600s. The world might look very different today if that had happened.

  175. numo,

    Gosh, lots of people hated him!

    From Britannica:

    Lucaris was forced to resign five times through the interventions of French and Austrian ambassadors to the Ottoman sultan Murad IV (reigned 1623–40). His return to patriarchal office was effected on each occasion by the help of British and Dutch diplomats. He was ultimately denounced before the sultan as a traitor attempting to incite the Cossacks against the Turks, and Lucaris was condemned to death and strangled by his Ottoman guards.

    https://www.britannica.com/biography/Cyril-Lucaris

  176. Ava Aaronson,

    Yes, people “seeking to violently assault” *anyone* is wrong. We agree on that much.

    How, then, do you understand Lot’s response? He offered the mob his daughters, after all.

    *

    Ava, I understand that you are presenting the 2 creation accounts in Genesis as *you* interpret them. You have a good deal of company on that, but really, many Xtians do not look at these texts and see a textbook lesson on marriage in them. There are many possible interpretations of said texts within both Judaism and Xtianity, and they cover many different facets of these undoubtedly ancient texts. There is no single reading of Genesis 1 and 2 by Xtians, across many denominations. And Judaism prizes diversity of opinion – as in the Talmud.

    No doubt many people look at these texts as a blueprint for everything, including marriage. But 1) the texts are not “about” marriage, really, and 2) the reasons that two distinct and often very contradictory stories (not historical accounts) about creation are in the canon has very little to do with the interpretation you seem to favor.

    Note also that the serpent in account no. 2 is nowhere equated with Satan in the text itself. That’s very much a Christian interpretation of the nature of the text, one that evolved over the course of many centuries.

    Judaism doesn’t – as a whole – view it that way. At all. If you can set aside what you believe about that text for a minute or two, this story – like so many from around the world that include animals – has 2 humans and a talking reptile. Nowhere is it represented as being a personification of what Xtians view as Satan/the devil.

    Then again, there is a clear understanding of wrongdoing in both Judaism and Islam. What they exclude: the “fall of man” interpretation of Genesis 1-2 that developed *over centuries* within Xtianity. (Western Xtianity, to be specific. The Eastern churches have no single stance on this, unlike the churches of the West, nor do they believe we have inherited the consequences of Adam and Eve’s actions in the same ways as both Roman Catholics and Western Protestant churches do.)

    So while you’re starting from a certain point, please understand that not every Xtian in this world – or in the small sample of us who comment on this blog – agree with you on what those texts mean. I’m not criticizing you, but I am trying to say that your stance is by no means the only one to be found among Xtians. Truly devout Xtians at that.

  177. Friend,

    Cyril I was being used as a pawn by the Great Powers of the West, in their own religio-political wars. The 1st two nations mentioned were Roman Catholic (well, France had its fair share of Protestants – the Huguenots – until a bit after Cyril died), while the other two mentioned were overwhelmingly Protestant, except that Dutch independence from Spain was achieved by both Protestants and Catholics. Catholicism was never expunged from the Netherlands, although it’s generally been restricted to certain parts of the country.

  178. Friend,

    There’s *so* much to this, as per what’s said about Cyril I’s having absorbed many ideas from the Reformation (although Calvinism seems to have been his main go-to) that it’s pretty mind-boggling.

  179. Friend,

    Note: I inadvertently addressed one of my replies above to Bridget, but it was intended for you.

    And if Cyril I really *was* attempting to bring any of the Cossacks into these internal conflicts, then yes, the charge of high treason is correct. Whether he actually did that, or the case was made on trumped-up evidence, I have no idea. Either way, high treason = death, in the Ottoman Empire, in the Byzantine Empire, and in Western and Central Europe. Also in Russia.

  180. numo: Meanwhile, my head is still spinning over the notion of the EO churches coming *this* close to Protestant-style reforms during the early-mid 1600s. The world might look very different today if that had happened.

    Maybe they rejected Calvinism for very good and solid reasons.

  181. Ava Aaronson,
    However, the men who sought to assault the angels were *not* gay men. Rape isn’t just something that men do to women. They do it to other men, especially in war. It shouldn’t take more than a cursory search to turn up a number of countries where rape has been used against men, as a weapon of war, in the very recent past + currently.

    Rape is a violent crime. Humiliation is one of its purposes.

    In Ezekiel, the prophet says that the “sin of Sodom” was greed and not caring for widows, orphans, etc. That the Genesis text is being used as a “clobber” passage by those who are anti-gay is inconsistent with how that same text was interpreted in ancient times, several millennia prior to the development of heterosexual v. homosexual as categories of humans, during the late 19th c. Prior to the widespread acceptance of that idea, sexual acts weren’t viewed as indicative of sexual orientation, since the concept as we know it now didn’t exist. People were viewed as having preferences, not labeled with something as burdensome as “sexual orientation.”

  182. Ken F (aka Tweed),

    I think it’s more along the lines of their rejecting Reformation Protestant ideas – Lutheran, Calvinist, Church of England – than anything tied to Calvinism per se.

    In France, before the Huguenots were slaughtered (and driven out, but an awful lot of them were killed in highly violent ways), there were also Catholics who had much in common with both Cyril I and the Huguenots, in that the believed major reforms were needed within Catholicism. This group of people is usually called the Jansenists. Am afraid I don’t have any further info. ATM. The Huguenots were Calvinists, but I *really* think there’s a whole lot of nuance here – and in the Europeans wars of religion as a whole – than it might appear.

    I do understand why so many posters here react to Calvinist/Calvinism very negatively. But what I think most are reacting to isn’t Calvinism as it was (pretty diverse) in the 16th and 17th centuries. You folks are mainly reaction to contemporary neo-Calvinism, including the practices of many Orthodox Presbyterian and similar denominations.

    FWIW, Calvinism as Xtian belief does not compute f8r Lutherans, which I am. But we’re talking about history, plus there’s no single way to *be* Calvinist. There are many interpretations of John Calvin’s views; ditto for those of his followers.

    Cool?

  183. A whole lot more nuance…

    FWIW, Anne Boleyn, who was Protestant, was referred to by her enemies as “Lutheran.” B/c of the time frame, basically.

    To this day, the Church of England has folks who are moderate Calvinsts in its ranks. The opposite end of the spectrum are the Anglo-Catholics. But all of them, plus everyone in between, are still part of the C of E.

  184. numo: So while you’re starting from a certain point, please understand that not every Xtian in this world – or in the small sample of us who comment on this blog – agree with you on what those texts mean. I’m not criticizing you, but I am trying to say that your stance is by no means the only one to be found among Xtians. Truly devout Xtians at that.

    “So while you’re starting from a certain point” Everyone does.

    “please understand that not every Xtian in this world – or in the small sample of us who comment on this blog – agree with you on what those texts mean.” Obviously, various POVs weigh in.

    “I’m not criticizing you, but I am trying to say that your stance is by no means the only one to be found among Xtians. Truly devout Xtians at that.” Who in this world has the only stance? “Devout”? – what does that even mean – never used that language.

    LOL: We work across denominations in ministry, (without salary) and don’t all agree. We share the work, NOT interpretations, in fellowship with Messianic Jews & several Christian denoms, with input from Talmud, Torah, OT, NT, as well as the various Bibles, without expectations of others while we study and work to show ourselves approved by God.

    Psalm 62: My expectations are from God alone, my salvation comes from him. My soul confides in God alone. POV. Choice.

    Regarding DV & CSA? Criminal as LE & DOJ agree. Do Christians? Whatever.

  185. christiane,

    christiane – thanks so much for your reply! I missed it earlier, or else I’d have written back sooner.

    And yes, people who have been treated very badly (like the women I was referring to) often have far more compassion than those who have never suffered rejection and worse for being “different” – in any way at all.

    Thank you for speaking in a compassionate and kind way. I’ve never known you to *not* do so, really.

  186. numo:
    Ken F (aka Tweed),

    I think it’s more along the lines of their rejecting Reformation Protestant ideas – Lutheran, Calvinist, Church of England – than anything tied to Calvinism per se.

    In France, before the Huguenots were slaughtered (and driven out, but an awful lot of them were killed in highly violent ways), there were also Catholics who had much in common with both Cyril I and the Huguenots, in that the believed major reforms were needed within Catholicism. This group of people is usually called the Jansenists. Am afraid I don’t have any further info. ATM. The Huguenots were Calvinists, but I *really* think there’s a whole lot of nuance here – and in the Europeans wars of religion as a whole – than it might appear.

    I do understand why so many posters here react to Calvinist/Calvinism very negatively. But what I think most are reacting to isn’t Calvinism as it was (pretty diverse) in the 16th and 17th centuries. You folks are mainly reaction to contemporary neo-Calvinism, including the practices of many Orthodox Presbyterian and similar denominations.

    FWIW, Calvinism as Xtian belief does not compute f8r Lutherans, which I am. But we’re talking about history, plus there’s no single way to *be* Calvinist. There are many interpretations of John Calvin’s views; ditto for those of his followers.

    Cool?

    Yes. My experience with EO is they strongly reject changes of any kind, Calvinism or otherwise. It seemed like the comments here focused on Calvinism specifically, and I do know they made a formal rejection of Calvinism (I need to refresh my memory). EO never had inquisitions indulgences, crusades, and other types of activities that led to the reformation. They had issues, but different issues. I wonder how the protestant reformation could have been different if the reformers had looked further east.

  187. numo: Actually, a variety of biological conditions that are often referred to as “intersex” exist, and a number of them are pretty common. (I’m not talking about ambiguous genitalia, which is indeed rare.)

    And biology is science. The study of life, of living things. By faith I believe that God created the world, created life.

    By faith, I also believe that God guides us in how we should live our best lives.

    IMHO, theology that mandates how we should live, but dismisses or denies science … well, let’s just say that I am in no way interested in that theology. POV.

  188. Ava Aaronson,

    I think it’s best that we agree to disagree. B/c we do disagree, and I can’t imagine that arguing about it here or anywhere else will cause either of us to change our minds on these issues.

    But truly, you are at one point on the spectrum within Xtianity. I’m at another point. Everyone who reads and comments here – likewise. But when someone (hypothetically) insists on having the single “right” understanding of something, it’s pretty much not OK. I mean, I can do that, too, and there was a time when I’d have agreed with you 100%.

    That time is long past. In the midst of anguish per being kicked out of the last evangelical church I attended (for reasons that weren’t right), there was and is something that I found very freeing. That is being able to use my mind and think for myself once more. Like a grownup. Sadly, far too many evangelicals dictate what everyone e should believe. If anyone is perceived as stepping out of line (or being at a different point on the spectrum), the consequences can be very severe. In my 30+ years’ time inside evangelical churches,we were dictated to as if we were little kids in matters of belief. Thinking for oneself and publicly holding a different opinion was anathema.

    So…you are where you are. All the rest of us are wherever we are, individually and, sometimes, collectively. I do not think it’s OK to speak to others as if my POV is exactly “right.” But we *can* discuss things, so long as we each understand that no single person has the lock on true things, let alone that their beliefs are exactly “what God wants.”

    Also, I have a couple of replies to you that got caught by the spam filter. Am sure they’ll be available tomorrow.

    Best regards,
    numo

  189. Some churches loudly denounce LGBTQ+ people and their lives, but also conceal domestic violence and sexual abuse. It’s almost as if they wanted to distract people from their own crimes. It’s almost as if hostility toward marginalized people came in handy.

    Consensual and legal LGBTQ+ relationships exist between adults.

    These relationships should not be conflated with criminal assault or abuse.

    I can tell the difference between the happily married gay couple in my neighborhood and the abusive guy who slapped his wife around. It’s not hard. And yes, in fact, the abusive guy and his wife and their children all went to church three times a week. Yet the gay couple are the “sinners,” and the abusive guy is the “Christian in a traditional marriage.”

    Yes, I know, the abusive husband needed to be arrested. But he had the full protection of the church, extended family, traditional gender roles, all of that. He got away with it. That is both sin and crime.

  190. Ken F (aka Tweed),

    Ken – yes, different issues. As to what might have happened, there’s nomtelling. Except that, based on the Russsian history courses I took back in the 70s, I doubt it would’ve been any better. People were executed as heretics within Russia for disagreeing with the liturgical reforms instituted by Patriarch Nikon, many centuries ago. The issues seem incredibly trivial to us. One is the “correct” way to make the sign of the cross. The Old Believers (the groups who were persecuted) stuck with using two fingers, symbolizing that Christ has dual natures, divine and human. Nikon and the rest of the Russian Orthodox church said: no, you *must* use 3 fingers, symbolizing the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.

    The other main controversies in this were equally (imo) trivial, even ridiculous. But many, many people died b/c they refused to accept the changes. After Russians got hold of Alaska, different groups of Old Believers fled there, then spread further out, into both what are now Canada and the US. B/c nobody persecuted them here. There are still Old Believers in our country.

    As to EO and its views of itself, well… at best, we (Catholic and Protestant) are what Catholics sometimes refer to as “separated brethren.” In countries where the EO churches predominate, both Protestants and Roman Catholics are seen as heretics. There’s no way to soften that particular blow, I’m afraid, though in the US, many cradle Orthodox (priests and laity) aren’t that harsh. Others really, really are. And then there are the many converts from Protestant churches. As with any other converts, they do tend to be much more hardline than those born into the faith. In that sense, they’re still extremely Protestant.

  191. Ava – please slow down. I used the term “devout.”

    Your use of “LOL” in your reply to me is pretty darned unfriendly as well.

    I think I will just avoid replying to you further in this thread, b/c it’s just not working out in anything like a kind manner.

    Ok… do keep in mind that the replies caught by the spam filter were written prior to our latest exchange. Or I wouldn’t have written them.

    Cool?

  192. numo: “LOL”

    LOL – again at us – the motley crew we make, as we work together as volunteers, focusing on the work, from different POVs. Probably doesn’t make sense – but we get stuff done.

  193. Friend,

    Not only that… there’s too much mischaracterization of things like the infamous “sin of Sodom.” The prophet Ezekiel famously (infamously?) said that it was greed + the refusal to care for widows and orphans.

    The mob outside Lot’s house were intent on violent assault for reasons that have nothing to do with LGBTQ+ people who are in consensual relationships.

    They intended to use said assault as a weapon – something that’s a weapon of war, against other men, and has been from ancient times right up to the present. (It’s easy enough to find horrifying contemporary examples via Google.)

    Lot – such a prince of a guy! – offered to throw his daughters to the mob instead. Quite a fellow, that Lot. /sarcasm

    In other words: that mob was bent on harm, and Lot saw *nothing* wrong in sluging his daughters to those men.

    It really isn’t about adult men and women having consensual relationships, I clouding lifelong patnerships.

    OK, I quit for tonight.

  194. numo: And women had no place, really, in the Oxford of his day. The Inklings were all men, and I doubt they’d have welcomed women guests/members in their regular pub nights….

    “Respectable” women didn’t go to pubs back then and many pubs refused to serve women at the bar (something they could legally do until 1982). This excluded them from a lot of shop talk since the Inklings weren’t the only group that had regular get togethers in pubs to discuss work or hobbies (e.g., gatherings of journalists, solicitors, bankers, etc).

    However the Inklings are somewhat associated with Dorothy Sayers.

  195. numo,

    Ack! I messed up per dates. The St. Bartholomew’s Day Massacre (of Huguenots in France) happened in 1572.

    My apologies for the error!

  196. numo: “devout.”

    No idea what this means, by whose measure? We neither use that term nor assess the faith of others, regardless of agreements or disagreements about faith issues.

    The only measure of faith we see is when Jesus separated sheep and goats – which he will do one day himself in the hereafter. The sheep and goats assessment that Jesus talks about, in our experience, is not the measure of theologians and apologists (again, in our experience, what we hear from theologians and apologists).

    Moreover, only God knows (we believe) what individuals are actually doing, since Jesus also advises not to brag about or parade righteousness or good deeds. The Sheep vs Goats in the Hereafter may come with lots of surprises (but not to Jesus).

  197. “You may come across the names Scofield and his widely-used study Bible, Bullinger, Stam, or O’Hair.”

    I have heard that some faith communities have used ‘footnotes’ from the Scofield bible to form a cultic view of end-times, indeed to form ‘another gospel’ . . . .

    It seems that people can so easily wander away from the ‘simplicity which is in Christ’ by focusing elsewhere . . . walking away from His Words and His example and His teachings and especially His parables;
    but to focus on FOOTNOTES that are not a part of the ‘canon’ of sacred Scripture ?

    Is that not the worst of removing Christ as ‘the lens’ through which all of sacred Scripture is to be interpreted?

    The whole Pressler-Paige thing also was to ‘remove’ Our Lord as the lens through which scripture was to be interpreted and then having people ACCEPT new interpretations that were NOT inspired but were man-made interpretations that were ‘enforced’ in the SBC especially in terms of the misogyny of how women were to be treated – Our Lord’s Words were dismissed. And then the two originators of a new gospel were to eventually have stained-glass windows of themselves installed in a seminary chapel . . . .

    ?

    honestly,
    taking our focus off of Jesus Christ Crucified and Risen From the Dead
    and focusing on some man-written footnotes instead did lead to some really strange teachings indeed. And a lot of people bought into it . . . a.k.a. the ‘left behind’ movement . . . so much fearfulness . . . so much avoidance of Christ as The Revealer of God

    no wonder so much of evangelical-fundamentalist culture is cultic and abusive to ‘those other sinners’

    no wonder

  198. numo: as a weapon of war,

    Yes, it is used as a weapon of war. Was there a war going on in this account? Was that the motivation behind the attempt to assault Lot’s house guests, take them by force? Why specifically the men and not the women? Did the community Live and Let Live, leave Lot and his people alone and at peace, until the two house guests show up – and why?

    So many questions. In any case, a theology cannot be built on a single account, although every account in the Bible, we believe, has some merit. What’s the point here? I don’t have answers and I’m not sure I buy into the status quo about this narrative.

    Serious stuff. Apparently the level of violence in these communities was such that God chose drastic consequences. You mention not caring for widows and orphans – that would not be surprising with the level of violence in this story.

  199. dee,

    Matthew 28:18-20

    Linda is correct. So, Dee, what does a society look like when Christians reflect their values in the civil realm? Why shouldn’t Christians make laws that reflect the mind of the God of the Universe, if God, Himself, said these things are best for humanity? There is no neutral ground. I am forced to subsidize abortions and birth control through my taxes and joining insurance companies that support those values. It is very, very difficult for me to find alternatives. The secular humanists currently have the upper hand. But I am not free in this society. I am free to believe, but when it comes to my money, I am FORCED to pay for secular humanists solutions to problems. Another one is half my property taxes are for the rotten public school system. I don’t want to pay for it.

    I say I’m better off with the Christians and even some of the Muslim sects rather than the religion of the secular humanists. They aren’t really bringing justice to earth, either.

  200. Ava, please quit prodding me with your various recent posts. They aren’t going to get any responses from me except those that I stated last evening –

    – agree to disagree

    – no more responses/replies to your posts from me

    So.

  201. freemarketmises: Christians … There is no neutral ground

    “Be either cold or hot”

    “Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers”

    “How can light have fellowship with darkness?”

    “Whatever God does endures forever; nothing can be added to it, nor anything taken from it”

    “We must obey God rather than men”

    “Every one of your righteous rules endures forever”

    etc. etc.

  202. linda: The church loses its way when it is focused on the culture wars, or theological wars, or anything else than seeing sinners born again.

    Amen, Linda!

    The American church has spent so much time in the world and of the world, that it has lost sight of the great mission given to it … the Great Commission.

  203. A lot of the disagreement comes from different people and churches deciding which rules and laws 1) belong to God, 2) are eternally unchanging, and 3) bind all of humankind, not just Christians. Meanwhile, in Christianity, people have major disagreements about mundane things, such as how often to attend church, and what to wear.

    Here on TWW, I have sometimes been criticized for going to church! Some Christians think that is morally indefensible, or at least inferior to staying home. Seems to me that we are better off with many voices instead of an insistence on one, or on silence.

  204. Sitting here in my home that meets state building code and passed county inspection, typing on a device that adheres to FCC standards, communicating on a network originally built with Department of Defense funds. Later on I might write a check from my FDIC-insured account to pay my mortgage, which could be a VA or FHA loan… hmm, I’ll have to look that up. Might walk to the store via state and county roads and sidewalks, or hop on the big road, formally part of the Dwight D. Eisenhower National System of Interstate and Defense Highways. At the store, I’ll buy items from an employee who learned to read, write, add, and subtract in the county schools.

  205. Muff Potter: All sins deserve hell?
    Should we execute a jay-walker just the same as a mass murderer?

    GAWD HATH SAID(TM).

    “Show Me SCRIPTURE!”
    — PastorRaulReesCalvaryChapelWestCovina (all one word), when anyone tried to reason with him

  206. freemarketmises,

    “what does a society look like when Christians reflect their values in the civil realm? Why shouldn’t Christians make laws that reflect the mind of the God of the Universe, if God, Himself, said these things are best for humanity? There is no neutral ground.”

    problem here is ‘control’ versus ‘moral conscience’ – how far do we ‘legislate’ morality when ‘we the people’ are so diverse that we cannot agree at all on what is ‘the mind of God’

    do we enact laws in our own image? and impose these laws on others whose moral compasses are not in sync with our own? Look at the new state laws banning abortions and the resulting refusal of physicians to treat women who have toxic pregnancies . . . that is a deadly result where a woman can die from the resulting poisons. . . the doctors don’t want to be ‘charged’ as ‘law-breakers’ so the women are left untreated or must go to another state for care.

    We can take stands according to our OWN moral consciences and we need to do this before God, yes;
    but is it right to ALWAYS attempt to impose our personal stands on the lives of others, regardless of consequences to them? That term ‘no exceptions’ can be problematic in toxic situations, yes.
    Freedom? Imposing our will on others as God’s will? We need to be way more humble before God than that, if we are to serve Him.

    (Anne Lamott)
    — ‘You can safely assume you’ve created God in your own image when it turns out that God hates all the same people you do.’

  207. freemarketmises: Why shouldn’t Christians make laws that reflect the mind of the God of the Universe, if God, Himself, said these things are best for humanity?

    Hmm.

    Deuteronomy 23:19-20
    19 “You shall not charge interest on loans to your brother, interest on money, interest on food, interest on anything that is lent for interest. 20 You may charge a foreigner interest, but you may not charge your brother interest, that the Lord your God may bless you in all that you undertake in the land that you are entering to take possession of it.

    So ban interest on loans? Admittedly it doesn’t forbid charging foreigners interest so I guess Christians could charge non-Christians interest (and vice versa non-Christians could charge interest to Christians [unless their own law forbids it, e.g., some Muslims]).

    There are other bits of the Bible that also frown upon interest.

  208. Erp,

    Leviticus 25:8-13
    World English Bible
    8 “‘You shall count off seven Sabbaths of years, seven times seven years; and there shall be to you the days of seven Sabbaths of years, even forty-nine years. 9 Then you shall sound the loud trumpet on the tenth day of the seventh month. On the Day of Atonement you shall sound the trumpet throughout all your land. 10 You shall make the fiftieth year holy, and proclaim liberty throughout the land to all its inhabitants. It shall be a jubilee to you; and each of you shall return to his own property, and each of you shall return to his family. 11 That fiftieth year shall be a jubilee to you. In it you shall not sow, neither reap that which grows of itself, nor gather from the undressed vines. 12 For it is a jubilee; it shall be holy to you. You shall eat of its increase out of the field.

    13 “‘In this Year of Jubilee each of you shall return to his property.

    I wonder how this would go over with certain groups in our current culture…..

  209. numo: And then there are the many converts from Protestant churches. As with any other converts, they do tend to be much more hardline than those born into the faith. In that sense, they’re still extremely Protestant.

    My only reason for commenting was my perception that EO should also have gone through a reformation that should have involved Calvinism. But it’s not clear to me what exactly they should reform from and to. I am not aware of any widespread practices such as indulgences that needed reformation. I am not surprised they rejected a bishop who tried to push them in that direction. The fact that there are corrupt RO bishops is not surprising, but RO does not rule over all of EO. I personally find EO theology and anthropology very compelling, but I am not ready to embrace all the practices, and their politics stink just as badly as any other major group/denomination.

  210. freemarketmises: I say I’m better off with the Christians and even some of the Muslim sects rather than the religion of the secular humanists. They aren’t really bringing justice to earth, either.

    Ugh…words fail me.

    Muslims won’t let you eat bacon….

  211. Max: “Be either cold or hot”

    “Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers”

    “How can light have fellowship with darkness?”

    “Whatever God does endures forever; nothing can be added to it, nor anything taken from it”

    “We must obey God rather than men”

    “Every one of your righteous rules endures forever

    Pork chops and shrimp cocktails delivered by talking wombats….

  212. Jeffrey J Chalmers: I wonder how this would go over with certain groups in our current culture…..

    Not well at all.
    Ours is a culture based on unlimited consumerism with no thought for tomorrow.
    So how could such Jubilee nonsense even be considered when there’s even more money to be made by ignoring sustainability?

  213. Nancy2(aka Kevlar): Would a “Christian” nation reverse the progress that has been made towards treating all people as equals in the eyes of God? Would we go back to “separate but equal”?

    You can bet yer’ sweet bippy they’d erase the gains human freedom has fought for.
    Like I’ve said before, it would be as brutal a dictatorship as any that’s come down the pike.

  214. freemarketmises: Why shouldn’t Christians make laws that reflect the mind of the God of the Universe, if God, Himself, said these things are best for humanity? There is no neutral ground. I am forced to subsidize abortions and birth control through my taxes and joining insurance companies that support those values. It is very, very difficult for me to find alternatives.

    But which Christians? The RCC? The EO (I think there are 3 of them that don’t really mingle)? The RO? SBC? Methodist (they are splitting in two about this issue)? Lutherans (there were 4 at my last count)? How about the Anglican Communion (there are at least 3 of them in the US just now and they do NOT get along with each other)? And so on.

    Your statement assumes all people of the Christian faith (or even just those with a strong Christian faith) agree on these things. They don’t.

  215. Ken F (aka Tweed),

    OK – gotcha. And honestly, I don’t know all that much about the EO churches. My impressions of them (as opposed to facts) are heavily influenced by interactions that I’ve had with former Protestantd who converted to one or another of the EO churches.

    I don’t know that their claims of being the sole, unchanged for of Christianity are accurate. They do lean quite heavily on that.

    The schism (they call it the Great Schism) with the Western (Roman Catholic) church happened in 1054 –

    https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/East%E2%80%93West_Schism

    Which is why many, even one of the recent Ecumenical Patriarchs, have referred to Catholics as “heretics.” For those on both sides of the divide who are trying to bring about reconciliation, this is a very difficult hurdle to h as ve to jump.

    What got me interested in EO beliefs, etc. actually is related to stuff I had to study in grad school, specifically, religious art of the Byzantine Empire. They were the center of the EO world for many centuries. These controversies and splits are part of the background to what we were studying.

    Anyway!

  216. numo: I don’t know that their claims of being the sole, unchanged for of Christianity are accurate. They do lean quite heavily on that.

    Are there any groups of Christians who believe they are wrong and everyone else is right? Every group’s solution to the various schisms is to become just like us, because if you are not very much like us you are obviously heretical. I don’t see any solution to the schisms because the disagreements are deep and no one wants to give up enough of their own beliefs and practices to bridge the gaps.

    Converts to any new group will end up going through a cage stage. The bigger the change the more likely the cage stage will be noticable. Some never get out of the cage stage. Converts have to prove their loyalty to the new group.

  217. Friend: A lot of the disagreement comes from different people and churches deciding which rules and laws 1) belong to God, 2) are eternally unchanging, and 3) bind all of humankind, not just Christians. Meanwhile, in Christianity, people have major disagreements about mundane things, such as how often to attend church, and what to wear.

    ….criticized for going to church! Some Christians think that is morally indefensible, or at least inferior to staying home [and vice versa]. Seems to me that we are better off with many voices instead of an insistence on one, or on silence.

    That.

  218. Friend: At the store, I’ll buy items from an employee who learned to read, write, add, and subtract in the county schools.

    And / or perhaps they learned ESL (English as a Second Language) from any number of places – public, private, religion-based (not necessarily Christian), etc..

  219. Muff Potter: Ours is a culture based on unlimited consumerism with no thought for tomorrow….when there’s even more money to be made by ignoring sustainability

    That.

  220. Ken F (aka Tweed),

    Agreed!

    Though I think there are also some personal reasons for that cage phase. One is to reinforce, emotionally and mentally, the individual’s choice to convert. For those who came from fundagelical backgrounds, it’s a huge leap. And I think that plays into why some former Protestants who convert to Orthodoxy fight so hard. Anyone would, understandably, have doubts about such a big change, whether consciously or subconsciously.

    Agreed that it’s all part of converting to anything at all – like former smokers who go a bit wild with trying to make others quit, rather than just being there for friends and relatives who want to quit themselves.

  221. Muff Potter: Like I’ve said before, it would be as brutal a dictatorship as any that’s come down the pike.

    I agree with Muff. I’m thinking: Republic of Gilead on steroids

  222. Friend: better off with many voices

    Individually prioritising by your degrees of your inference is what true agnosticism is, as well as true belief and true trust.

    numo: “sin of Sodom.” The prophet Ezekiel famously (infamously?) said that it was greed + the refusal to care for widows and orphans

    At the Ezekiel level the critique by Ezekiel is against church leadership that don’t respect Holy Spirit in ordinary fellow believers: who blaspheme them and render them fruitless by their high handedness (which James, Paul, Isaiah, Jeremiah, Jesus talk about extensively: Peter comments that this is deep). Reading the Bible is about how to draw the several meanings both from what Ezekiel looks like he is saying AND what he is talking about, not ONLY one or the other.

    ** trigger ** Concretely at the time, Sodom happened to have adopted mutilation from the Assyrians whom they had not long been saved from (Gen 14). ** end of trigger **

    Also concretely, God sees whether there is a large meteorite coming or not (archeologists studied the impact, at tea time, the sun having been on the way down as well as “gone up” – it took most of the day to walk to the renamed Zoar). The actual intervention consisted in helping Lot get rescued. All miracles are relative as Dee pointed out the other week.

    Assyria repented for a whole generation’s length of time (I think Jonah’s message was in his appearance). When christendom re-enters into belief in continual supplication like Daniel’s in ch 9 vv 3-21 the public of goodwill can be providentially helped to try to put certain areas with ills onto a better footing.

    God sees what will be coming on a difficult day and that we’ll be saved by some sort of inner integrity that will come from having been built up (fruits traded with us in the spiritual kingdom of our gifts) by our peers, not stolen by superiors.

  223. Michael in UK: render them

    p.s This interrelates with why Paul uses the figure of speech that he wishes the superapostles in Gal 5: 12 would inflict “the whole hog” on themselves.

  224. numo: bring about reconciliation

    Reconciliation should be in personal relating as far as appropriate and not in format or form.

    Some EO have pointed out that many westerners adopted wrong ideas of ordination and initiation pre Augustine so that the effort of some EO to get their peers to conform to the west would not be authentic.

    It is far safer to be frankly different and to go cafeteria not only between denominations but even within one’s own (e.g I sit out from all “lord’s tables” for appearance sake).

  225. Hey folks this is a peach:

    http://thechristiancurmudgeonmo.blogspot.com/2013/07/mrs-howes-hateful-hymn.html

    In my young day at secular schools in south-east England, we used to chant the couplet about teacher hitting us with the ruler. Also the actual hymn was occasionally sung at the same school(s) as hymn, but only in a highly figurative sense similar to “Stand up, stand up for Jesus”. We enjoyed the advantage that our politics was totally secular (millenial aspirations were called “white heat” then).

    Given that dominionists don’t recognise figurative usages anywhere, this excellent piece of blog writing and research proves that in fact dominionism (i.e materialist Swedenborgian Manifest Destiny like Falwell Senior’s) is “liberal” in the sense of huge portions of Scripture meanings annulled. (It also squares with naive monism which is what most of the so called “theism” that is getting bandied around seems to boil down to.)

    The author of this blog piece is calling them out because it doesn’t make honest sense for leaders calling themselves “conservative” to discredit Holy Spirit gifts in children, providence, prayer and the parables of Jesus (leaving us only with browbeating) and deny Ascension and the present eschaton. Besides undermining methodical realism in all other fields of knowledge as well, they thereby impose on christendom – and through christendom the world – the Fundamentals * and Two Point Calvinism as mandatory maximum belief and irrelevant mini-salvation.

    { * Tim Gloege in Guaranteed Pure chronicles how these were designed simply to dishonestly deny what had been complementary perspectives among protestants who, competing to eliminate each other, decided to eliminate by absorption }

  226. dee: senecagriggs,

    Seneca, what you are referring to is because those who adopt the same paradigm as bad religious leaders (as the materialist, Manifest Destiny pretend “conservatives” whom they claim to criticise) undermine their own intuition. Christ gives us our own degrees of our own inference and our own Holy Spirit gifts, to help each other break out from that prison and to go cafeteria in our template, like the Bereans did. You could whet their appetites to articulate their gut feelings more effectively if you could explain actual meanings of Scriptures.

    Daniel’s prayer follows the lament of Jeremiah over the fake revival under Josiah: that is the stuff the Bereans were reading. Josiah’s henchpeople carelessly neglected Scripture, but thought it politic to pretend to come round, and after that any sincere helpers found the cause intended for the poor hijacked and kicked into the long grass.

  227. Mr. Jesperson: love Jesus by obeying his commands. Learn fear of God. All sin including all sexual sin brings death

    Exactly. Whatsoever was not of faith that Falwell Senior taught, dishonouring Holy Spirit in children, set the children’s teeth on edge. Leaders who went that way were as St Paul put it, dead in the water, dead hands, dead weight, dead wood, dead on their feet, unable to bear fruit in the kingdom, like Bismarck’s god whom Nietzsche sought to discredit.

  228. Lowlandseer: charged to define what the functions of these institutions are, and the lines of demarcation by which they are distinguished. It is also charged to declare and inculcate the duties which devolve upon them. Consequently when the civil magistrate trespasses the limits of its authority, it is incumbent upon the church to expose and condemn such a violation of its authority. When laws are proposed or enacted which are contrary to the law of God, it is the duty of the church to oppose them and expose their iniquity.

    (above from J Murray)

    start of quote could better read “is charged to propose a definition” or “to define a proposal”, then the remainder reads well. Freedom for all to challenge disrespect of children and the poor.

  229. Muff Potter: You can bet yer’ sweet bippy they’d erase the gains human freedom has fought for.
    Like I’ve said before, it would be as brutal a dictatorship as any that’s come down the pike.

    After one or two generations of having to live in such a Godly CHRISTIAN Nation, the name “Jesus Christ” will acquire the exact same baggage as the name “Adolf Hitler”.

  230. Jack: socialist … Christian

    There were Christian Socialists at one time: look up Arnold Toynbee (the uncle).

  231. Old Timer,

    No state requires a religious ceremony. In most states, a valid marriage certificate signed by two competent witnesses and properly notarized constitutes a legal marriage. The notion that it requires a religious ceremony is fiction.

  232. dee: senecagriggs,

    You are one of my oldest readers. So, would you do me the favor of defining your terms?

    Seneca’s back?
    Looks like he got tired of trolling Wondering Eagle and came back here to Virtue-Signal.