Today is ‘National UnFriend Day’

"A friend loves at all times." Proverbs 17:17 (ESV, NASB, NIV) Happy November 17th everybody!  Did you know that today is National UnFriend Day or "NUD"?  If you're not on Facebook, then you probably have no idea what the term 'unfriend' means.  Those with Facebook accounts have a cadre of friends that can sometimes number into the hundreds or even … Continue reading

Continue reading

Helicopter Parents on Steroids

"I think with many more of today's parents than in the past, the "helicoptering" is more about over-protecting them from what they perceive to be this dreadful, dangerous, terror-filled world and not realizing that kids need to be able to take educated risks, make independent decisions and take consequences for their actions."   Jean Walker Flags Flying in Normandy, France … Continue reading

Continue reading

Sovereign Grace Ministries Boasts About Its Pastors College

  "Oh yes, I'm the great pretender, pretending that I'm doing well…"  The Platters  Photo by Deb Despite the firestorm that is engulfing Sovereign Grace Ministries, it appears the Board is pretending everything is just fine. In case you haven’t been reading SGM’s most recent blog posts (the last three to be specific), the Pastors College is back in session. … Continue reading

Continue reading

Sovereign Grace Ministries Captures the Media Spotlight

Le Mont Saint Michel (taken by Deb) “We as a family experienced a pattern of spiritual abuse, hypocrisy, harshness, deceit and some unfortunate threats that were not righteous for Christians and need to be repented.” Larry Tomczak in a Washington Post article published on September 6, 2011 Since morphing themselves into Sovereign Grace Ministries, C.J. Mahaney and his lieutenants have … Continue reading

Continue reading

Ambassadors of Reconciliation: Let’s Take A Closer Look

As many of our readers know, the Ambassadors of Reconciliation have just released their Consultation Report to the Board of Directors of Sovereign Grace Ministries. (link) The report was prepared by Ted Kober and Ed Keinath. According to Dave Harvey, "this plan includes three areas where they and others will be involved in helping us: 1. Adjudication of allegations against … Continue reading

Continue reading

Do Calvinista Bloggers Truly Believe God Is Sovereign?

  Big Ben (taken by Deb) "The LORD has established His throne in the heavens, And His sovereignty rules over all." Psalm 103:19 (NASB) Allow me to make an observation, to use SGM’s loaded language. Comments are mysteriously disappearing from several Calvinista blogs. Don’t these bloggers believe in the sovereignty of God? If so, then why are they micromanaging their … Continue reading

Continue reading

Sinfully Craving Truth: Families of SGM Abused Children Respond

“Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most massive characters are seared with scars.” Kahlil Gibran Cat's Eye Nebula-Hubble Telescope   I am leaving to bring my final child off to college. It is a bittersweet time. I wanted to continue in the series on psychology and the church but I have received some correspondence and would like … Continue reading

Continue reading

The Washington Post Investigates Sovereign Grace Ministries

“Every time a newspaper dies, even a bad one, the country moves a little closer to authoritarianism." Richard Kluger   The London Eye   Michelle Boorstein The Washington Post 202-334-4451 (direct line).   Once again, TWW must apologize to the people who have asked us to write about the aversion to clinical psychology in today's post-evangelical church. Lord willing, we … Continue reading

Continue reading

The Devolution of SGM: Repudiation of Hyper-Authoritarian Leadership?

You do not lead by hitting people over the head. That's assault, not leadership. Dwight D. Eisenhower   I was planning on doing a series on how the church views psychological counseling after receiving two very interesting emails, back to back, on the subject from two unconnected people. However, once again, events at SGM intrude and demand coverage as the … Continue reading

Continue reading

Breaking News: Mahaney’s Sons-In-Law Resign From CLC

As if things couldn't get messier, tonight, CJ Mahaney's son-in-laws, who were pastors at Covenant Life Church (the mothership), have resigned their positions in what appears to be a protest in how the church has handled the Detweiler documents and CJ Mahaney's "sabbatical." For new readers, CJ Mahaney has three daughters. All three of their husbands have been given pastor … Continue reading

Continue reading

Is C.J. Mahaney Fit For Ministry?

“A friend is someone who understands your past, believes in your future, and accepts you just the way you are.” Unknown   freefoto.com   Dave Harvey, Acting President of Sovereign Grace Ministries, announced two weeks ago that the SGM Board established a preliminary panel to help them “evaluate C.J. Mahaney’s fitness for ministry”, as stated in this post.  At the … Continue reading

Continue reading

Confessions of an SGM Pastor

“The person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing, is nothing, and becomes nothing. He may avoid suffering and sorrow, but he simply cannot learn and feel and change and grow and love and live. "                 Leo Buscaglia   sunset over the Sahara (NASA)   Sovereign Grace Ministries has been experiencing tremendous … Continue reading

Continue reading

SGM – Just “Business” As Usual

Pride meets covetousness, and compliments it as wise, thrifty, and prudent. Charles Spurgeon   freefoto.com   Well folks, based on Dave Harvey’s update, it appears to be just “business as usual” in SGM land. While I sit here wondering what it’s going to take for God to get the attention of the powers that be in Sovereign Grace Ministries, Harvey … Continue reading

Continue reading