Are Grace Based Legalism, Hyper-Grace and the Doctrines of Grace Really Grace?

The heavens will not be filled with those who never made mistakes but with those who recognized that they were off course and who corrected their ways to get back in the light of gospel truth.” ― Dieter F. Uchtdorf link

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I know this blog post may seem like another I wrote recently. However, I wanted to deal with hyper-grace in the context of other definitions of grace. I also have found some new illustrations.

Recently I had a discussion with a woman on Twitter. It helped me to see the struggle we all have the theology of grace. I do not have all the answers and am convinced that there are few people who do. Nonetheless, one can see what is wrong with some theories of grace which may help us all to understand grace better in our own lives. I anticipate that some of you will disagree with my understanding of the matter.  I am looking forward to a lively discussion on this matter.

How does one define grace in it's simplest form?

From a broad perspective, there are three types of grace.

1. Common Grace link:

Common Grace refers to the grace of God that is common to all humankind. It is "common" because its benefits are experienced by the whole human race without distinction between one person and another, believers or unbelievers. It is "grace" because it is undeserved and sovereignly bestowed by God.

Think about the sun which rises and sets on all. 

2. Grace link:
The other day I picked up some coffee and donuts for my mother at Dunkin Donuts in the drive thru. When I got to the window and attempted to hand my money to the server, she said the woman in the car that just drove away paid for my order. I didn't know her and as far an as I know, I did nothing to earn that payment. So, I did the same for the car in back of me. Pass it on and all that!

Grace is unmerited favor.

3. Grace in its most simplistic form as it applies specifically to the Christian faith link:

I really liked the wording of this definition.

In the New Testament grace means God’s love in action towards men who merited the opposite of love. Grace means God moving heaven and earth to save sinners who could not lift a finger to save themselves. Grace means God sending His only Son to descend into hell on the cross so that we guilty ones might be reconciled to God and received into heaven. ‘(God) hath made him to be sin for us, who knew no sin, that we might be made the righteousness of God in him’" (2 Corinthians 5:21).1 

When grace morphs into legalism

We see this sort of legalism in two camps. The old time Baptist who had rules about dancing, movies, and dress codes. Today we can see this in hardcore Calvinist churches which have turned grace into the freedom to be obedient. In Failure Is Not a Virtue, Jen Wilkin, writing for The Gospel Coalition, had this to say:

Obedience is only moralism if we believe it curries favor with God. The believer knows that it is impossible to curry favor with God, because God needs nothing from us. He cannot be put in our debt. Knowing this frees us to obey out of joyful gratitude rather than servile grasping.

Do I believe that an alcoholic can obey and stop drinking? Yes, but it is difficult. Do I believe that I can be patient, one of the fruits of the Spirit? I am more patient now that I was 30 years ago. But, am I perfectly patient? No, I have worked on this for much of my Christian life. So when Wilkin says that I am free to obey, I look at my struggle with patience and say it is a continuing battle and rises and falls like the stock market. I believe that I will not totally conquer patience in this life.

Those who are part of Wilkin's tribe are full of all kinds of rules and regulations since we ae are supposedly free. Recently, The Cripplegate, a Calvinist website posted Reasons We Miss Church (But May Not Need To) by Eric Davis. David had lots of ideas on how to avoid missing church services. Unfortunately he strayed into motherhood and suggested that a woman should be ready to return to  church within a week of giving birth. Needless to say there were some disagreements. But Eric wasn't backing down because his wife did it. (Bless her heart.)

Recent birth of a child.

The joy of adding a family member can be a tad tricky logistically. Labor, hospital stays, and medical attention can prevent us from gathering. However, we need not prolong absence from gathering once those things conclude. It certainly will be more difficult to attend with an infant, but, as we trust, and seek the help of, our powerful God, we can be sure that he will help us stay plugged in.

If we are uncertain about logistics in attending, we can approach our elders for assistance. Perhaps our church has a nursery/cry room. If not, we can ask if it’d be possible to create one. If we are concerned about our child crying, and there is no cry room, perhaps we could stand in the back of the gathering area. If we need help getting the family together to attend, we could ask individuals in our small group for assistance. If we are concerned about our infant getting sick, we could ask our elders for suggestions for that, too.

Here are a few responses.

The men then respond. One claims that the Bible made a woman bring a baby to the Temple for circumcision after 8 days and they didn't have cars then so women should be able to get  to church. If it was good enough for the women of the Old Testament, it is good enough for women today. A one week rule is born!

Other men simply said " My wife did it." So now some churches have rules that women should be in church within 1 week and I bet there are women who will pull themselves together just to live up to the rule. 

When grace morphs into Hyper-Grace.

Sam Storms wrote HYPER-GRACE AND REPENTANCE. He admits that there are those who are overly sin conscious and seem to forget that God grace is sufficient for our salvation. However, he believes that hyper-grace adherents are too quick turn a blind eye to the need for repentance.

.But what they fail to recognize is that it is precisely because of the wonder and majesty of God’s saving mercy in Jesus that we should be sensitive to our sin and quick to repent of it. We do not repent in order to curry God’s favor or to make it possible for us to be reconciled to him. But repentance is absolutely necessary if we hope to live in the daily delight that comes with being reconciled to God.

He claims that those who believe in hyper-grace have an alternate view of repentance. It's merely changing the way people think about sin.

Several Hyper-grace authors contend that the only sense in which a Christian is required to repent is to change his/her mind or to rethink regarding sin and our relationship with God.

Cheap Grace

I was recently tagged on Twitter by a woman who believed that I needed to give Pete Wilson *grace* after I tweeted that he had not told his church not did he seek help from his church regarding his legal separation while a pastor. I have said similar things about Tullian Tchividjian.

Note how she uses the wrd grace. It is in a stand alone sentence and seems to assume that there is only one way to view grace which is her way, whatever that is. I thne brought up the concept of cheap grace.

She sharply disagreed with the concept of cheap grace. I mentioned the need for repentance and truth.  Here is her response.

I then quoted from Dietrich Bonhoeffer.

“Cheap grace is the grace we bestow on ourselves. Cheap grace is the preaching of forgiveness without requiring repentance, baptism without church discipline, Communion without confession…Cheap grace is grace without discipleship, grace without the cross, grace without Jesus Christ, living and incarnate.”


At this point I was stunned and said that it takes a lot of guts to disagree with Bonhoeffer in this matter. I realized that she was operating on a different definition of grace that I. I asked her if this is the sort of grace that Pete Wilson taught at the church but she would not answer me. I mentioned to her that we might be on different pages.

So, she then responded in a way that made me think that she believed that she was too intellectual for me. I realized that the conversation was going nowhere. 

At this point, I removed myself from the conversation. She appeared irritated and said it wasn't fair that I raised the issue of repentance when I was discussing grace. Grace is part and parcel with repentance, especially in the context of the Christian narrative.

The Bible is quite clear that few shoulde seek to be teachers since they will be held to a higher standard.

Not many of you should become teachers, my fellow believers, because you know that we who teach will be judged more strictly. James 3:1 NIV Bible Gateway

This means that they, above all should be the first to repent and the first to live lives openly. If they truly understand the message of the Gospel then they should confess boldly to those who have supported them. It is truly sad when that role model runs from accountability and even sadder that the people who attended their churches and hung on to their teachings do not believe they are owed an answer. The pastor is treated no differently than the person who bags your groceries. When they no longer show up, you ask, Why?" and are told that he was tired of his job and went elsewhere. 

The Doctrines of Grace are not probably not what you mean when you use the term "grace."

In the past we have written about seminaries which train their pastors to not admit to being Calvinists since there is often a negative connotation to the term. So, when asked, they are told to say that they believe in grace and to turn the question back to the questioner by asking if they believe in grace. What the are not saying is that they believe in the doctrines of grace. This is playing games with people in churches and it is unbecoming to those who claim to follow the one who is "The Truth."

The Doctrines of Grace explain an entire theological framework. In this paradigm, God has predetermined that only a finite number of people will be saved. Man does not have free will in the sense that he/she can reach out to God of their own accord/ Therefore, God, who only wishes to choose some, must make those people want to follow Him since they cannot choose to do so on their own. 

Total Depravity – As a result of Adam’s fall, the entire human race is affected; all of Adam’s descendants are spiritually dead in their trespasses and sins (Ephesians 2:1, 5). Calvinists are quick to point out that this does not mean that all people are as bad as they could be. Rather, this doctrine says that, as a result of man’s fall in Adam, all people are radically depraved from the inside and that their depravity affects every area of their lives.

Unconditional Election – Because man is dead in sin, he is unable (and stubbornly unwilling) to initiate a saving response to God. In light of this, God, from eternity past, mercifully elected a particular people unto salvation (Ephesians 1:4–6). These people are comprised of men and women from every tribe, tongue, people, and nation (Revelation 5:9). Election and predestination are unconditional; they are not contingent on man’s response to God’s grace (Romans 8:29–30; 9:11; Ephesians 1:11–12) because man, in his fallen state, is both unable and unwilling to respond favorably to Christ’s offer of salvation.

Limited Atonement – The purpose of Christ’s atoning death was not to merely make men savable and thus leaving the salvation of humanity contingent on man’s response to God’s grace. Rather, the purpose of the atonement was to secure the redemption of a particular people (Ephesians 1:4–6; John 17:9). All whom God has elected and Christ died for will be saved (John 6:37–40, 44). Many Reformed Christians prefer the term “particular redemption” as they feel that this phrase more accurately captures the essence of this doctrine. It is not so much that Christ’s atonement is limited as it is particular, intended for a specific people—God’s elect.

Irresistible Grace – God has elected a particular people to be the recipients of Christ’s atoning work. These people are drawn to Christ by a grace that is irresistible. When God calls, man responds (John 6:37, 44; 10:16). This teaching does not mean that God saves men against their will. Rather, God changes the heart of the rebellious unbeliever so that he now desires to repent and be saved. God’s elect will be drawn to Him, and that grace that draws them is, in fact, irresistible. God replaces the unbeliever’s heart of stone with a heart of flesh (Ezekiel 36:26). In Reformed theology, regeneration precedes faith.

Perseverance of the Saints – The particular people God has elected and drawn to Himself through the Holy Spirit will persevere in faith. None of those whom God has elected will be lost; they are eternally secure in Him (John 10:27–29; Romans 8:29–30; Ephesians 1:3–14). Some Reformed theologians prefer to use the term “Preservation of the Saints” as they believe that this choice of words more accurately describes how God is directly responsible for the preservation of His elect. It is clear in Scripture that Christ continues to intercede for His people (Romans 8:34; Hebrews 7:25). This continues to provide believers with the assurance that those that belong to Christ are eternally His.

How do I view grace?

I have said this before but I cannot stress it enough. There lives a tension between understanding my sin and my need for repentance and the freedom from the guilt of sin that grace affords me.

This quote by CS Lewis sums it up for me.

“You come of the Lord Adam and the Lady Eve," said Aslan. "And that is both honour enough to erect the head of the poorest beggar, and shame enough to bow the shoulders of the greatest emperor on earth. Be content.”― C.S. Lewis, Prince Caspian link.

My church does a spoken confession of sin each week prior to communion. During that time I have sorrow for what I have done and not done. However, the pastor then proclaims that our sins, both known and unknown, are forgiven and we are invited to share in communion. In the course of about 10 minutes I feel guilt, i repent and then I feel free. That is the tension that should exist in all of us. "Bowed shoulders" and "erect heads" – not one without the other.

Grace is a tricky word. Always ask what the person means when they use it. Robyn used the word grace like this *Grace.* Yet grace and repentance are inextricably linked. Each of us must work this out for ourselves without resorting to legalism or hyper-grace. 

I am interested in hearing how you all have worked this out or if you totally disagree with me. In the meantime, I often wonder if some people, who use the word, do not know what it really means.

Comments

Are Grace Based Legalism, Hyper-Grace and the Doctrines of Grace Really Grace? — 423 Comments

  1. Although my church background is generally Calvinist/Reformed, I can still see the obvious inconsistencies. Ask those who preach unconditional election, limited atonement and irrestable grace why they believe people end up in hell, and the answer will usually be pretty simple: It is their fault because they choose to go there.

    This answer comes despite the fact that a sovereign God chose their existence, chose their birth, chose the circumstances of their life that shaped them into the person they became yet also chose not to elect them (meaning Christ’s sacrifice through His death, burial and resurrection wasn’t for them) and did not offer irresistable grace.

    Just some thoughts, I’m sure this has been debated for two milleniums already. 😛

  2. Grace is free but it isn’t cheap–from Brennan Manning (something like that).

    This is like the tension between God’s love and God’s righteousness. God is both loving and just. It is not resolved by obliterating one side or the other. That just leads to heretical distortions.

    Yes, God freely and graciously extends the gift of eternal life through His Son. However, such a gift is useless unless we repent. What good is present to a person if it is not received that person? That is why repentance is needed. Someone who refuses to repent is running away from the gift. He or she has their fist closed and are shaking it at God claiming to be their own god. They cannot receive the gift as God is ultimately the gift of grace.

    That’s my opinion.

  3. Wow dee! This post of yours is a can of fishin’ worms and a Bosnian mine field all rolled into one. I’m bettin’ it’ll be a barn-burner with the comments exceeding…

  4. Looking at comments on grace above….I think there is often some confusion about the grace that is expended to a person in terms of salvation//and the outworkings of that grace once we are saved but before we reach Heaven…

    Cheap grace is a term that’s thrown frequently to those who eschew lists and schedules on ‘discipleship programs’ or ‘spiritual formation’. That confuses the practices, such as reading, memorizing, praying, which are of course helpful….with the sanctification or growth in our Christian maturity which comes only from the Holy Spirit working within us.

    IMO, Cheap Grace is cheap because it assumes that our works here in any shape or form, can earn our SANCTIFICATION or in any way contribute to the overwhelming gift of totally unmerited favor. If we accept the fact that salvation is totally a gift, then it makes no sense to turn around and say to exhausted believers..”But now you have to follow these rules and schedules and do work work work to get sanctified.

    I’d write more but I do think that Wade Burleson has written an excellent book on this subject…He clearly delineates the difference between the 2 covenants.

    His book boggles me in one sense that he is reformed, but he really makes this clear and I highly recommend it to you. It is “Radically New: The New Covenant Will Change the Way You Think and Live: and I have seen it on Amazon.

    I’m sure I won’t change any ones mind on this subject but I did find so much clarity in this book.

    Not sure what I’d call myself doctrinally now; I studied in Baptist Dispensational circles and now at my retirement I find myself as a lay preacher in a small Lutheran Church…

  5. I am certain that there is a deep connection between humility before the Lord and the ability to receive and harbor grace, together with the comfort and the peace it brings.

    I’ve experienced grace in my own life while in the midst of deep grief. ‘Thankful’ does not even begin to describe my reaction to this gift at that time. There are no words. 🙂

    A quote from The Tree of Life:
    “no one who loves the way of grace ever comes to a bad end”
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z28Mi6mUyKo

  6. First, I do not think legalism is grace of any type. It sounds as though these churches are terrified that the woman might *gasp* get corrupted by having too much time away from the church. That’s pathological control, not grace.

    Second, I guess my grace is as cheap as it comes, I do good things because it’s the right thing to do. I’m don’t consider myself any better than others, certainly I don’t consider myself “sanctified” or “chosen” in any way shape or form. I don’t really consider whether I’m serving God when I give to charity or volunteer with a kids sports team or even let the waitress know she forgot to put my coffee on the dinner bill, I certainly don’t expect an eternal reward for doing those things.

    When it comes to the TULIP grace, I genuinely don’t get the point. If God already knows who’s to be saved and who’s not then why have Jesus come at all? What’s the point of creation? Are we just in a movie that will run to predetermined end? Maybe because I’m not an elect I don’t get it. I don’t feel irresistibly drawn to faith.

    That being said, I have let go of much antipathy towards faith that I was feeling in the last year or so, is that grace?

  7. Christiane wrote:

    I’ve experienced grace in my own life while in the midst of deep grief. ‘Thankful’ does not even begin to describe my reaction to this gift at that time. There are no words.

    “There is nothing that can replace the absence of someone dear to us, and one should not even attempt to do so. One must simply hold out and endure it. At first that sounds very hard, but at the same time it is also a great comfort. For to the extent the emptiness truly remains unfilled one remains connected to the other person through it. It is wrong to say that God fills the emptiness. God in no way fills it but much more leaves it precisely unfilled and thus helps us preserve — even in pain — the authentic relationship. Further more, the more beautiful and full the remembrances, the more difficult the separation. But gratitude transforms the torment of memory into silent joy. One bears what was lovely in the past not as a thorn but as a precious gift deep within, a hidden treasure of which one can always be certain.”
    (Dietrich Bonhoeffer)

    To be enabled by God to bear searing grief and realize that it is because we loved and because we still love the one who has gone ahead … that we realize we are being ‘sustained’, that we are experiencing being ‘hugged’…. grace that comes when we are heart-broken can be a powerfully strong entity indeed.

  8. IMHO, grace deals with the “me and God” relationship. It has zero to say about removing any consequences of my behaviour to other humans. “Render unto Caesar that which is Caesar’s.”

    The description of grace/faith based on the original usage of the words in the Greco-roman patronage system (see Misreading Scripture Through Western Eyes) really changed my understanding of how Paul viewed grace/faith. Patrons could navigate the Byzantine social/business system – average Joes could get nothing done on their own. You asked a patron for their help – that help (which you could not command) was “grace”. In receiving that “grace” you took on an obligation to support the patron, be a good client, help on their projects, etc. – this was “faith”. I’m still reading on this concept, but Paul’s original hearers would definitely have resonated with this language, as the patronage system dominated their lives.

  9. Grace-base legalism is all about control.
    The Doctrines of Grace say God just made humans so he would have some things with which to play eeny meeny miny moe.
    Hyper-grace is what certain church leaders and certain husbands use as an excuse when they behave badly.
    Cheap grace is what certain church leaders and certain husbands demand from us when they get caught behaving badly.

  10. I’m stunned at the legalism that demands women to put church attendance above their own and their infant’s health! That is seriously messed up priorities!

    The comment about the church having a crying room is instructive- the concern is for the noise that would bother the church, not the mother or infant’s well-being.

    And the fact that some were bragging of their or their wives’ ability to do this shows that legalism leads to pride: taking credit for their good fortune to have been granted strength and an easy delivery and healthy infant, as though it was of their own doing.

    John 4:22-24
    You worship what you do not know; we worship what we know, for salvation is from the Jews. But an hour is coming, and now is, when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth; for such people the Father seeks to be His worshipers. God is spirit, and those who worship Him must worship in spirit and truth.”

    You do not have to be dressed up and present in a certain building to worship God in spirit and truth.

    The writer of Hebrews encouraged us not to forsake “our own assembling together, as is the habit of some.” This one small comment is not a description of what we have come to call “church” and “church attendance” today. There are no rules or guidelines given, nor a place we must go to. It simply says, keep getting together and encouraging one another. Making this encouragement into a harsh demand for conformity that can’t even respect a woman or infant’s health and well-being is worlds away from the picture of Jesus the New Testament gives us.

    The OT law regarding the temple and circumcision has nothing to do with the church today! The desire to go back to the OT law seems like the ultimate disrespect of Christ, to me. I suggest a thorough reading of Galatians for these people. “For as many as are of the works of the Law are under a curse.”

  11. My thoughts about cheap grace –

    Romans 6:1-3,5
    “What shall we say then? Are we to continue in sin so that grace may increase? May it never be! How shall we who died to sin still live in it? …For if we have become united with Him in the likeness of His death, certainly we shall also be in the likeness of His resurrection”

    In a union of love, a spouse doesn’t need a list of rules to follow- they are crestfallen when they realize they’ve hurt the one they love. The law of love governs their behavior, it motivates them to act in a way that values and respects the object of their love.

    If a person has no sensitivity to the effects of their sin, I have to wonder if they are really united with Christ. It’s like a marriage where there is no true union, no love. The spouse has no concern for the pain his/her unfaithfulness causes to the other spouse- it doesn’t matter to them because they are joined in word only, not in heart. In a case like this, all the rules in the world won’t make up for the core issue: there is no union of mutual love.

    To the people who live an ongoing pattern of disregarding Christ and disrespecting him, I would say,

    2 Corinthians 13:5
    Test yourselves to see if you are in the faith; examine yourselves! Or do you not recognize this about yourselves, that Jesus Christ is in you— unless indeed you fail the test?

  12. I always found this rather strange but I became a “Christian” when I was 21 and I jumped in with both feet. Despite my rants and raves I still hold a deep and sincere love for Jesus and for the Gospel. I could not say that when I was in the evangelical mechanism I almost started hating God or what I saw as God. One thing that was really made clear, one thing a follower of Jesus in the evangelical religion should not ever need, ever hope for, even dream of getting is grace, for any reason for any length of time. Ever. That did not apply to leadership or mid-level management. Grace is a weakness it is seen as pathetic and even disgusting, we are to be autonomous and anonymous. I mean we say it because that guy in the gospel jabbered on about it or because it sounds good in a song or its something you can put in front of some pious rhetoric but to actually need I mean really gut level have nothing left type of grace. Never. I know this may sound strange but it was so prominent.

    I became a Christian and I really did love Jesus I did and do. If you want to know what many of these Gospel groups lack it is true God-honoring grace.

  13. David wrote:

    Although my church background is generally Calvinist/Reformed, I can still see the obvious inconsistencies. Ask those who preach unconditional election, limited atonement and irrestable grace why they believe people end up in hell, and the answer will usually be pretty simple: It is their fault because they choose to go there.

    This answer comes despite the fact that a sovereign God chose their existence, chose their birth, chose the circumstances of their life that shaped them into the person they became yet also chose not to elect them (meaning Christ’s sacrifice through His death, burial and resurrection wasn’t for them) and did not offer irresistable grace.

    Just some thoughts, I’m sure this has been debated for two milleniums already.

    David, that is curious because all the Calvinists I’ve ever known stress the sovereignty of God and the doctrine of election. In other words, they would always say that no-one gets to chose their eternal destiny – it is determined for them by God.

  14. Dee wrote, “We see this sort of legalism in two camps. The old time Baptist who had rules about dancing, movies, and dress codes.

    I find all this a difficult concept. There must be things which amount to sin. In the examples quoted, there have to be types of dancing, certain movies, and styles of dress which are off-limits for a Christian.

    So, to chose a non-contentious subject, I can’t imagine any Christian saying it’s OK to watch porn. But there are obviously lots of things which are more debatable – eg nudity and sex scenes in regular movies, violence, bad language, etc. Where do we draw the line?

    There has be a place for freedom of conscience – people deciding what is right and wrong for them – but there also has to be a place for the church teaching on matters of conduct and lifestyle.

    In case people are wondering, I did grow up in a Baptist church, yes, an English one, but still Baptist 🙂

  15. Christiane wrote:

    I am certain that there is a deep connection between humility before the Lord and the ability to receive and harbor grace, together with the comfort and the peace it brings.

    This is key. If whoever you’re talking to about grace, the sovereignty of God, ad inf., doesn’t come off as humble… run, don’t walk, in the opposite direction. “Grace”/Calvinism in the hands of a proud person is like a live chainsaw in the hands of a toddler – somebody’s gonna get hurt.

  16. Difficult passages of Scripture:

    Jesus: Come to me…
    Jesus: No one can come to me…

    Jesus on repentance: Do you suppose that these Galilee were greater sinners than all other Galileans because they suffered this fate? I tell you, no, but unless you repent, you will all likewise perish.

    When they heard this [Gentiles coming to faith] , they quieted down and glorified God, saying, “Well then, God has granted to the Gentiles also the repentance that leads to life.”

  17. Grace is a word that always feels airlifted to me. Discussion needs to happen in order to ground it so you know what’s going on. Especially as it is usually said in the context of a traditional/historical orthodox theological statement or a cliche church catch phrase everyone from all over the theological spectrum uses.

    Similar reaction to the word sovereignty. When a person says “God is sovereign over all” or “by grace we have been saved” they are often simultaneously making one or (usually) many philosophical statements and claims. There are often philosophical assumptions going on about cause and effect and determinism or compatibilism and free will and personal responsibility and certain assumptions about humanity and God’s nature or what have you and so on and so on.

    I feel standoffish to the words grace and sovereignty because I want to know what people mean behind the words, first. They could be figuratively theologically tripping others with it or using it to harm and confuse or it could be a warm hug or comfort they are offering depending on its function and context or usage and philosophical assumptions and coherency of thought behind it.

    Most important of all, what kind of God do you mean when you use those words?

  18. Well, it’s an old problem. Whoever defines the words gets to control the narrative. Now thanks to a century of ad men and propaganda, most folks are pretty savvy to this, but especially in the religious world people still get sucked in. John MacAurthur is probably foremost in this group, using words like love and grace and redefining them to mean “my status quo”, but there are others as well. Heck, he even calls his website “grace to you” despite the fact that he is about as gracious as a pregnant hippopotamus! I don’t actually think the issue is reformed doctrines, even if I do think Calvin’s system cherry picks the Bible (most systems do). I think the real issue is with wicked men who take advantage of faith to gain power and wealth.

  19. Nancy2 wrote:

    Grace-base legalism is all about control.
    The Doctrines of Grace say God just made humans so he would have some things with which to play eeny meeny miny moe.
    Hyper-grace is what certain church leaders and certain husbands use as an excuse when they behave badly.
    Cheap grace is what certain church leaders and certain husbands demand from us when they get caught behaving badly.

    You said it for me, Nancy2. Also, Calvinistas (and Calvinists) hide their illogical, man made philosophies behind the phrase “doctrines of grace” because it sounds nice and pious and theologically deep. Well, it ain’t grace at all.

    I have some reservations about the term “common grace” and rather see it as a common favor. Grace is something deeper than just rain that falls for everyone (except those in the deserts, of course. They are not sharing in common grace, it seems).

    TULIP is certainly the most offensive thing I have ever encountered, as it (if you sit and actually THINK about it for yourself), reduces the biblical God to a vengeful, sadistic, strange, unloving monster who simply watches us as we act out the “play” he has written, mere puppets on weird strings. Oh, and who gets the “glory” when a disaster happens.

    TULIP and what it represents also exclude people from finding God; as a matter of fact, it has done its best to chase people away from Jesus Christ (dear souls who cry to be saved but who are told they are not of the supposed ‘elect”). And it continues to do so via the plethora of churches in that tribe and their ridiculous man made rules and commands, and unloving attitude. There’s indeed a new rule born every week, plucked out of nowhere.

    When I left such a “church”, my name was blackened in meetings and I was called numerous times by the “pastor” and told that I’d not survive without THEM. Yes, of course, no mention of the Lord Jesus Christ, because in that movement men are the gods.

  20. Jesus is king of kings; he turns their hearts like water.

    Take warning, Or judges of the earth. Worship the LORD with reverence and rejoice with trembling. Do homage to the Son, that He not become angry, and you perish in the way, for His wrath may soon be kindled.

    And as many as we’re appointed to eternal life believed.

    The secret things belong to the Lord our God.

    I think God’s sovereignty and human responsibility are one of these “secret things.”

    The LORD has made everything for its own purpose, even the wicked for the day of evil.

  21. On the topic of “hyper-grace,” I recently finished writing “UN-accountable: Case Study in Systems Analysis and Ministerial Accountability,” using the immense amount of information and documentation that became public between March and December 2016 about Tullian Tchividjian’s reported serial grooming/seduction/adultery. Yes … a semi-boring title, but it’s descriptive. I identify various institutions and individuals that played a major role in promoting and/or protecting Mr. Tchividjian, and analyze some of his articles and apology statements. Here are three paragraphs that tie in with a main conclusion, that “grace” as he applies the term consistently involves no taking of responsibility and therefore additional people harmed.

    So, excluding the social media fans/followers [120,000+ on Twitter plus Facebook], there were over 150 individuals in at least 10 institutions who had direct connections with Tullian Tchividjian as his superiors, peers, or subordinates. And yet, it seems nobody could keep Tullian Tchividjian from his two adulterous relationships he has already admitted to (after they were discovered or disclosed), or from his reported predatory/seductive behavior patterns, or from his reported multiple failures to tell the full truth.

    Why? What was happening (or not happening) here with accountability? What dynamics were going on with the individuals and institutions involved, such that someone with what turned out to be such distinctive (in my opinion) patterns of deception, manipulation, and seduction could get by for so many years before his sins were evident?

    […]

    As a sidenote on theological issues, I can’t recall seeing anything from Tullian Tchividjian in any of his statements or quotes about the Holy Spirit as a means of grace in empowering us to resist temptation as prevention and interception. He seems only to emphasize grace and mercy and forgiveness after the fact of sin. In his own case, this often means after disclosures are drawn out by others rather than confessed by himself, which means that any attempted interventions failed.

    Perhaps others who’ve studied Mr. Tchividjian’s theology more intensively can comment about his views on the Holy Spirit in the life of a Christian. But lack of presence or emphasis on the Holy Spirit’s empowerment does seem to be a pattern in the law/grace/hyper-grace systems. In my thinking, when the Holy Spirit is left out, you have a “closed system” where nothing and no one can break in to stop the cycle of sin-forgive-grace-temptation-sin-[repeat ad infinitum]. So, this kind of irresponsible, unaccountable, and unresponsive pattern of living means anything goes under the banner of grace — which is just as damaging to self and others as is the behavior modification for conformity of the hyper-legalism end of the spectrum.

  22. To add to my earlier comment, here are some of the definitions I use in that case study. They’re relevant to my impression of hyper-grace as *refusal* to take responsibility and *refusal* to be held accountable for wrong-doing and its destructive impact on self and others.

    So, there is no such thing as either intervention to stop someone’s sin patterns that harm others, or prevention through equipping to live a different life through the power of the indwelling Holy Spirit. It’s just sin-forgive-repeat and there may be apologies, but no real change in trajectory … in other words, *repentance* seems to be equated with acknowledging sin and not making any course corrections. From *UN-accountable* case study …

    The way I see it, there is a difference between being responsible (causing something to happened), versus taking responsibility (owning our part in what happened and/or making things right where things went wrong, even if we were not responsible for the actions that resulted in the problems). There is also a difference between being accountable (having responsibility to give an accounting of actions), versus holding someone accountable (having the relationship or role that gives the authority of moral, legal, regulatory agency, or professional association to force someone who is responsible for actions to also be accountable by taking responsibility for them). This case study involves relative successes and failures in carrying out all four of those terms.

  23. It is so sad that the word grace has become a word that means any thing but grace to certain people. When I see the name Grace in a churches name I shudder because it usually means legalism and other unhealthy items.

  24. Found a song this morning with lyrics based on a poem by Miller Williams which made me think that the ability to have compassion and empathy for others comes more easily to people blessed with grace.

    “Grace is not part of consciousness; it is the amount of light in our souls, not knowledge nor reason.”
    (Pope Francis)

    “Isaiah 42:16
    “I will lead the blind by a way they do not know, In paths they do not know I will guide them. I will make darkness into light before them And rugged places into plains. These are the things I will do, And I will not forsake them.”

    Those song lyrics by Miller’s daughter Lucinda?
    Here are some excerpts:
    ” Have compassion for everyone you meet
    Even if they don’t want it
    What seems conceit
    Is always a sign

    For those you encounter
    Have compassion
    Even if they don’t want it
    What seems bad manners
    Is always a sign

    of things no ears have heard

    of things no eyes have seen

    You do not know
    What wars are going on
    Down there, where the spirit meets the bone”

  25. “Yet grace and repentance are inextricably linked”

    I agree.

    Except, I don’t agree with the translation of metanoia into repentence which is a derivative of penance. It doesn’t even scratch the surface of new life. So many have termed that into sinless perfection as to make it impossible to seek to do good and yet excuse evil done to others…. because of grace. In some ways those who teach this do us a favor. We know not to trust them.

  26. Boston Lady wrote:

    I have some reservations about the term “common grace” and rather see it as a common favor.

    I have problems with the concept, itself. It presents God as this monster who still wants to wipe us out but instead, kindly, provides common grace that even believers are wiped out in tornados and unbelievers also benefit from much needed rain. I think all humans carry more responsibility on earth than what is taught in most churches.

  27. The very idea that I had to go to church one week after my children were born, is beyond my scope of comprehension. First of all, the needs of newborns need to be taken into count. Newborns need constant feeding and care. Mom also needs a lot of care. What about the women who have c-sections? They have stitches and can’t move about too much. A lot of doctors recommend not taking newborns out in public for several weeks due to their immune system which is not fully formed and they can catch things quite easily. I worked in the church nursery for many years during Sunday School. I would see some new moms bring their babies to church that were just a week old. These moms spent most of their time in the church nursery rather than in the actual church services. So my answer to Davis is that when my kids were newborns I did what I thought to be best for the health of my babies and myself. I don’t owe anyone an explanation. That is between God and me.

  28. Lydia wrote:

    I don’t agree with the translation of metanoia into repentence which is a derivative of penance. It doesn’t even scratch the surface of new life.

    I’ve always thought about it more like “surrender”, in the sense that I am agreeing with God to take on His mind and not my own. Literally, it means “change of mind”, but I guess I see it as giving up my own mind, soul, and spirit to take on God’s. And that surrender doesn’t first lead to good works. It leads to love. Love then leads to good works.

    I think the neo-Cal leaders really don’t understand what they are saying when they say for others to “submit”, because they imply others should do it “joyfully”, but it doesn’t apply to them as “husbands”,”pastors”, and “elders”. Or, as I’ve surmised before, they want to be God, so try to take the job of leading from Him. But they can’t offer the Holy Spirit to help, so they try to force people by coercive means. We don’t have to submit to anyone but God, and God has offered us a means to not only love Him, but love others as well.

  29. One thing that I think is worth noting: a lack of cultural knowledge has skewed our interpretation of the temple codes. Following the birth of a son, a mother was ritually impure for 33 days, following the birth of a daughter, a mother was ritually impure for 66 days. I doubt very much that on the eighth day after giving birth the mother would actually be present when her son was taken to be circumcised. Daughters, obviously, were not circumcised. While women are ritually impure, they have to follow specific codes. (Leviticus 12)
    And looking up the ceremony itself, it seems that the role of the women is limited. On the eighth day, the mother hands her son to her son’s godmother, who takes the child to the door of the room where the ceremony will take place and hands the child off to the child’s godfather, who takes the child to the guy who will perform the ritual. Daughters, obviously, were exempt.

  30. Harley wrote:

    I don’t owe anyone an explanation. That is between God and me.

    The strange thing about the Judeo part of Judeo-Christian tradition is that the events surrounding the ‘day of rest’ allowed for taking the time to care for those in need instead of following the usual customs of the day ….. the idea that mercy and kindness towards someone who was physically compromised was a higher form of service to God than any ritual scheduled to honor Him on the Day of Rest (Sabbath).

    Somehow, the neo-Cal folk got separated even from the Judeo-Christian tradition so that they no longer recognized the IMPORTANT things of the faith and were instead clinging very hard to rigid structure with no thought to helping someone who required special care.
    If there are any ‘signs’ of trouble in a faith community, one that usually screams ‘HELP’ is when the leadership demands the sacrifices of people who are already suffering, instead of honoring the Royal Law of Christ and helping those in trouble to bear their burdens.

    Instead of the demands, why not take food to the mother, and offer to shop for groceries, diapers, etc.?
    Why make it harder for women in this world as a way of showing how ‘strong’ you are as ‘men’????? Our Lord and the Holy Family were visited by those bringing gifts. The only people who made trouble for them were murderous and evil.

  31. The summation of Calvinism into Five Points is not new. The Synod of Dort in 1618-19 issued a doctrinal statement in five points (aka canons). The Canons of Dort was a response to the Five Remonstrances of the followers of James Arminius (d. 1609). The synod that produced this confession was attended by Calvinists from several nations.

  32. In terms of the neo-cal view of church attendance, I keep thinking back to Piper’s “feminine feel” comments. For me, the most disturbing part of his description of how masculine and feminine “feels” fit into the Sunday meeting is the line, “…and then a voice from God is heard.” In context, it sounds like he’s referring to the sermon.

    No church attendance, no hearing a voice from God.

    Reading the Bible yourself isn’t good enough. Podcasts? Puh-lease. Doing something to help someone? Seriously? You need to be here, dressed to the nines, where we can control… I mean, BLESS you with a voice from God.

    Great info from Jamie Carter on the role of women in circumcision. We often don’t understand how marginalized women were in the Judaism of Jesus’ time.

  33. David wrote:

    It is their fault because they choose to go there.

    I really liked how you structured your comment. For a long time, I would argue that predestination in regards to heaven was also predestination to hell. I would have Calvinists spin circles telling me that I was wrong since they chose to go there. So, I would bite my tongue. However, Roger Olson and the Arminian Society has helped me to understand that my argument is not stupid and that I understand the difficulty in the debate.

  34. Divorce Minister wrote:

    Yes, God freely and graciously extends the gift of eternal life through His Son. However, such a gift is useless unless we repent.

    The Reformed argument claims that we are unable to repent until God first changes us. So, only those who can repent are those chosen by God. There is no credence given tp the possibility that God created us with an ability to choose so that we can say it is freely chosen.

    This does not mean I am the author of my salvation. I can choose to be the Queen of England but I cannot make that happen. Choice does not equal saving myself. The salvation part is totally in the hands of God.

  35. I have come to the conclusion that “Grace” in a church’s official name means the same as “Democratic” in a country’s official name:

    The more adjectives about Democracy there are in a country’s official name, the nastier a dictatorship it is.

  36. David wrote:

    Just some thoughts, I’m sure this has been debated for two milleniums already.

    Yes, except the last few decades the debate moved out of academia and now includes the peasants using the internet. Interesting times!

  37. @ Becky Thatcher:
    I know this is a can of worms. My intent in this is to help others who have felt the same was as I have. For years, I read and read and prayed that God would help me to understand Calvinism in a personal way since I had been told by so many that it is the *correct* way to view God and his sovereignty. Deb can attest to that since she knew me when I was trying so hard to understand.

    It has only been in the last year or two that I have been to feel more comfortable in my questions and with an Arminian approach. This does not mean that I am opposed to those who believe differently in the matter. But I am beginning to feel that I can stand toe to toe with Calvinists and feel that I am theologically and logically on solid ground.

    I know many folks here have been hurt and told that they are nominal Christians if they believe in the existence of free will in the matter of salvation. I am here as one who says “I do as well, I have studied it extensively, prayed really hard and here I stand, unconvinced of the basis of salvation and Reformed theology.”

    But I love all Reformed people so long as the respect my decision and stop telling me to read this book or that is merely a repeat of all that I have read. I am getting bored with the same arguments. I have read the hot books, Piper, Sproul, et al, the Puritans, Spurgeon, Edwards and even lots and lots of the Institutes of Calvin. If someone has a great book that presents any new ways to approach this, go ahead and let me know. I will consider it but I think all that needs to be said has been said and I have yet to be convinced.

    Yet, I know I am a Christian since my whole life centers around the core in my soul.

  38. Molly245 wrote:

    If we accept the fact that salvation is totally a gift, then it makes no sense to turn around and say to exhausted believers..”But now you have to follow these rules and schedules and do work work work to get sanctified.

    I am not real into the stark contrast of the terminology anymore but I don’t think it is the work that sanctifies but sanctification causes us to not want to harm others and to seek good for them. The free gift had a condition, beluef and metanoia. what we call repentance. The problem with “belief only” is the demons believe, too.

    I guess the question is whether what we call sanctification is synergistic or not. If not, then my part is navel gazing on whether God forces me to change or not. I would not really have a part in that change. I don’t view that as legalism because I must find my own way and not with lists from others. I am not clear on what others see as human responsibility within the cheap grace-deterministic paradigm.

  39. @ Molly245:
    As everyone know, I love Wade. He and I have discussed this in depth. But here is where I cannot jump over. I talk to Wade about the murder little Jessica Lunsford. It is gruesome and she suffered greatly

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Jessica_Lunsford

    I cannot believe that God ordained that specific event. Wade is comfortable with that belief. He claims I have a problem with my perspective but I am more comfortable with it. I believe that God allowed sin in response to our wish to run loves in our own way. I do not believe that God ordains specific acts of cruelty. I think He allows us to run things in our own way. God works within our pain in this fallen world.

    I cannot conceive holy God specifically ordaining the specific acts that led to Jessica’s death. Due to my daughter’s illness, I spent way to much time on the oncology floor of Dallas Children’s Hospital. Once again, I cannot see God specifically ordaining tiny children to such suffering.

    It boils down to this difference. I do not think God ordains each and every act of cruelty. Calvinist do. Both os us believe in a just and loving God.

  40. Christiane wrote:

    I’ve experienced grace in my own life while in the midst of deep grief. ‘Thankful’ does not even begin to describe my reaction to this gift at that time. There are no words.

    I have as well. I still remember crying myself to sleep one night, believing my daughter was at death’s door. I woke up a few hours later and felt an incredible peace and light surrounding me. It was kind of like getting hugged by God if that makes any sense.

  41. ishy wrote:

    I’ve always thought about it more like “surrender”, in the sense that I am agreeing with God to take on His mind and not my own. Literally, it means “change of mind”, but I guess I see it as giving up my own mind, soul, and spirit to take on God’s. And that surrender doesn’t first lead to good works. It leads to love. Love then leads to good works.

    Yes. Thank you. It’s simple but not easy, for sure!

  42. Jack wrote:

    Are we just in a movie that will run to predetermined end? Maybe because I’m not an elect I don’t get it. I don’t feel irresistibly drawn to faith.

    This is a logical view of Calvinism. Do not let them tell you that you just don’t get it and you probably aren’t one of the elect. I have yet to see Calvinist behaving any better or loving than nonCalvinists. Somehow, it doesn’t make a difference in their approach. One only has to look at Frank Turk and John Piper to get it.

  43. GreekEpigraph wrote:

    You asked a patron for their help – that help (which you could not command) was “grace”. In receiving that “grace” you took on an obligation to support the patron, be a good client, help on their projects, etc. – this was “faith”. I’m still reading on this concept, but Paul’s original hearers would definitely have resonated with this language, as the patronage system dominated their lives.

    But the person could freely ask for that patronage. On the calvinist point of view they are unable to do even that. Interesting comment BTW. I had not heard of that before.

  44. Nancy2 wrote:

    Hyper-grace is what certain church leaders and certain husbands use as an excuse when they behave badly.
    Cheap grace is what certain church leaders and certain husbands demand from us when they get caught behaving badly

    Great comment.

  45. siteseer wrote:

    The comment about the church having a crying room is instructive- the concern is for the noise that would bother the church, not the mother or infant’s well-being.

    I hadn’t thought of that! Good point.

    siteseer wrote:

    And the fact that some were bragging of their or their wives’ ability to do this shows that legalism leads to pride: taking credit for their good fortune to have been granted strength and an easy delivery and healthy infant, as though it was of their own doing.

    I hadn’t thought of this either. I bet some wives forced themselves to go to avoid lectures from their *holy* husbands.

  46. @ Jamie Carter:
    I am so glad you brought this up. It was a barbarian culture God was working through. And another reason I don’t view God as all determistic directing humans as pawns. Some listened, some did not.

    One Ancients scholar said the longer time for the birth of a daughter was because husbands wanted male heirs and would be more likely not to wait to try for a male

    Circumcision is more complicated but I think worthy of study from an Ancients view. It’s really scary what some teenagers are being taught about it in youth. and even scarier when teenage girls start asking you questions about it. :o)

  47. Where is Chris LeDuc getting this idea that “God commanded” mothers to travel to the Temple to have the circumcision done? Is that in the Bible?

  48. Ian wrote:

    There must be things which amount to sin. In the examples quoted, there have to be types of dancing, certain movies, and styles of dress which are off-limits for a Christian.

    I think those things are outlined in Scripture. One has to be careful in imposing one’s set of standards on how that is lived out. For example, what constitutes acceptable dress varies from cutter to culture.

    For example, some cultures coverup the female form under long dresses and head coverings. Others see no issue with skimpy dress. Just look at the beaches in the Middle East and compare them to the beaches of Brazil. Can you truly say one is godly and on is not?

    Some believe that women should only way “female” clothes. I am one who almost always wear pants and leggings albeit cute pants and leggings.

    Ian wrote:

    there also has to be a place for the church teaching on matters of conduct and lifestyle.

    This is a most difficult problem. Do you want to be the one to determine which R rated movies one can see? Do we really need lectures on not attending adult porno film festivals?

    Sovereign Grace Ministries, according to attendees, used to say how many buttons needed to be buttoned on a woman’s shirt. They even allegedly said that women should not wear cross body purses since they emphasized the breasts. Seriously? Women have breasts-get over it. Cross body purses are convenient for shopping and leaving hands free.

    I wold not want to be the one in charge of making up these rules. Would you?

  49. I heard Amy-Jill Levine say that the idea of grace is much present in Jewish thinking way before Jesus and Paul.

    Paul certainly knew this and spoke in terms understandable to his audience of Jews, hellenized Jews and Greeks. I am a bit wary of seeing too much Greek pagan influence in his thinking as disproportionate to Jewish thinking. Paul certainly preached to one and all, but he was not himself from a pagan background and he never renounced his own Judaism regardless of his comments about his understanding of the law. Think, some of what is being discussed in the new perspective on Paul conversation.

  50. Eeyore wrote:

    humble

    The believe they are humbles since they always talk about being worms in God’s eyes. They can be mean as all get out worms though.

  51. emily honey wrote:

    I feel standoffish to the words grace and sovereignty because I want to know what people mean behind the words, first

    Great point. I think we should always ask what someone means by such words.

  52. Boston Lady wrote:

    When I left such a “church”, my name was blackened in meetings and I was called numerous times by the “pastor” and told that I’d not survive without THEM.

    What kind of a church was this? Had you asked them not to contact you?

  53. Dale wrote:

    The LORD has made everything for its own purpose, even the wicked for the day of evil.

    Do you think he created them to be evil or gave them the free will to be evil?

  54. brad/futuristguy wrote:

    Perhaps others who’ve studied Mr. Tchividjian’s theology more intensively can comment about his views on the Holy Spirit in the life of a Christian. But lack of presence or emphasis on the Holy Spirit’s empowerment does seem to be a pattern in the law/grace/hyper-grace systems.

    Intersting point.

  55. mot wrote:

    When I see the name Grace in a churches name I shudder because it usually means legalism and other unhealthy items.

    You are not the only one who has said this.

  56. Harley wrote:

    The very idea that I had to go to church one week after my children were born, is beyond my scope of comprehension

    Don’t you know that you must be there to listen to the most important event in the Christian world-the pastor’s sermon, you heathen

  57. dee wrote:

    As everyone know, I love Wade. He and I have discussed this in depth. But here is where I cannot jump over. I talk to Wade about the murder little Jessica Lunsford. It is gruesome and she suffered greatly
    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Jessica_Lunsford
    I cannot believe that God ordained that specific event. Wade is comfortable with that belief. He claims I have a problem with my perspective but I am more comfortable with it.

    Does God ordain abortion on demand, too? What’s the diff?

  58. emily honey wrote:

    I feel standoffish to the words grace and sovereignty because I want to know what people mean behind the words, first. They could be figuratively theologically tripping others with it or using it to harm and confuse or it could be a warm hug or comfort they are offering depending on its function and context or usage and philosophical assumptions and coherency of thought behind it.

    I had to learn the hard way to insist on definitions first! Example, My view of Sovereignty is totally different than the typical New Cal definition which basically means that even God is not Sovereign over His own Sovereignty! :o)

  59. okrapod wrote:

    I heard Amy-Jill Levine say that the idea of grace is much present in Jewish thinking way before Jesus and Paul.

    I agree with this which is why I do not really subscribe to the whole law/grace dichotomy that is so prevalent today. I just don’t see it as either/or.

  60. The men then respond. One claims that the Bible made a woman bring a baby to the Temple for circumcision after 8 days and they didn’t have cars then so women should be able to get to church. If it was good enough for the women of the Old Testament, it is good enough for women today. A one week rule is born!

    That example blew me away. There are a lot of women who I’m sure didn’t make it to temple, since they died in childbirth, or were probably too ill to come. And most women make it to the doctor in a week, but that doesn’t mean they need to be in church, and bringing a baby to soak up germs. (Someone over at SSB brought up a bible verse from somebody who stayed home to counteract that Mary one, too.) That whole thread just seemed ridiculous. We are talking about adults. They don’t need a sick note, they need to be left alone to make their own decisions.

    I feel bad for all these wives who seem to have been dragged to church immediately.

  61. For myself, I have greatly benefited from looking at some Jewish ideas about law and grace, among other things, it being that both Jesus and Paul lived and died as Jews who were each recognized during their lifetimes as being people who informed (if not conformist) in Jewish matters.

    I have also greatly benefited from looking at Roman Catholic ideas of grace/faith/justification as well as some related issues, and how they perceive that. Ideas do not spring de novo or ex nihilo but rather are built on prior ideas one way or the other, and our ancestors were all a part of the ancient church and its ideas up until 1054 AD at least and some all the way to the protestant reformation. Those ideas did not magically go away; one needs to be aware of them, and aware of what developed of those ideas in Roman Catholicism post reformation, because this is the counter balance to how various protestant ideas developed post reformation.

    I highly recommend that people do this, but with the warning that perhaps people who do that might end up with some different perspectives than if they never did that.

    Like a chemistry prof of mine used to say when he hurled himself around chem lab declaring his own theories of mostly everything, “It is all grist for the mill, grist for the mill.” Bless him. I really liked that man and his idea that minds need all the stimulation and challenge they can get. Just a side thought.

  62. Headless Unicorn Guy wrote:

    I have come to the conclusion that “Grace” in a church’s official name means the same as “Democratic” in a country’s official name:

    The more adjectives about Democracy there are in a country’s official name, the nastier a dictatorship it is.

    Ha ha. Beatings will continue until you view them as grace!

  63. Lea wrote:

    The men then respond. One claims that the Bible made a woman bring a baby to the Temple for circumcision after 8 days and they didn’t have cars then so women should be able to get to church. If it was good enough for the women of the Old Testament, it is good enough for women today. A one week rule is born!

    That example blew me away. There are a lot of women who I’m sure didn’t make it to temple, since they died in childbirth, or were probably too ill to come. And most women make it to the doctor in a week, but that doesn’t mean they need to be in church, and bringing a baby to soak up germs. (Someone over at SSB brought up a bible verse from somebody who stayed home to counteract that Mary one, too.) That whole thread just seemed ridiculous. We are talking about adults. They don’t need a sick note, they need to be left alone to make their own decisions.

    I feel bad for all these wives who seem to have been dragged to church immediately.

    Women and husbands and children of all sorts get the heck out of these control factories. They are not churches.

  64. Hi Dee. I was confused by something and was wondering if you could clarify for me.
    You wrote.

    How does one define grace in it’s simplest form?

    And then you give three definitions. Which one is the definition in the simplest form? I’m not sure and I want to be sure I understand.

  65. dee wrote:

    What kind of a church was this? Had you asked them not to contact you?

    Dee, it was a “church” (with a silly, self-important name) pastored by a MacArthurite, and which today is totally “lead” by a Master’s Seminary product. He would call and told me I would not make it out there without his church, that I would not survive if I don’t come back, and that I did not have permission to leave. He meant there was nowhere else that I could go; nowhere else where I could find “the truth” (isn’t that what they all say? The funny thing is that I was never even a member of said establishment (long story; husband; trouble). When the “pastor” called a third time, he screamed at me, and I told him that they would not see me again and that I was not afraid to leave or to find another place or people to worship with. I simply put the phone down while he was screaming. Done. He did not call again, but then the rumors, gossip started. This “pastor” even showed my emails to him to all and sundry (which, I thought, was unethical).

    While still there and having been called a “passenger” from the holy pulpit, a church founder asked why I had not joined, and I said I was feeling uncomfortable with the weird teaching and “rules” and “commands.” For instance, we were emailed and told to prepare food on Saturday, so that we did not have to “work” on the Sunday, weird, cult-like stuff like that. So, this cocky guy (pious beyond belief during church time but super rude in private) told me that I was under this church’s authority regardless. After that comment, the wheels came off very quickly; thank God.

    They even went as far as to blame my divorce on NOT heeding to their superficial and unbiblical counseling (and that coming from someone who was married for the second time. Can you spell hypocrite?).

    Recently, this same church gave every member a lecture and notes on how to defend TULIP/Calvinism. Yes, not to defend Christ, or present the gospel (which they simply cannot do, as Jesus did not die for anyone who turns to him), but to defend the weird teachings of men.

    Salem? Some irony there, Dee, as that’s where the Puritans (Calvinists) committed their “noble” deeds (I’m sure you are aware of that?). This is nothing new, this “control” thing.

    No, there was zero “grace” in the church I left. None whatsoever.

  66. @ Albuquerque Blue:
    Great question nods great to hear from you I still miss Alburquerque. There are many words in the English language which have different meaning when used in different contexts. Bark and nails are two such words. Grace means different things when used in different settings. I could have added that it is a popular name. Does this make sense.

    However, the more I think about it, it means unmerited favor in all contexts.

  67. dee wrote:

    Boston Lady wrote:
    When I left such a “church”, my name was blackened in meetings and I was called numerous times by the “pastor” and told that I’d not survive without THEM.
    What kind of a church was this? Had you asked them not to contact you?

    Dee, oh, and there was “no excuse” for not coming to church or whatever meetings they dreamed up. Because I did not conform or bowed down to their authority, they would openly ignore me after Sunday services. What a friendly and loving bunch…not!

  68. Boston Lady wrote:

    For instance, we were emailed and told to prepare food on Saturday, so that we did not have to “work” on the Sunday, weird, cult-like stuff like that. So, this cocky guy (pious beyond belief during church time but super rude in private) told me that I was under this church’s authority regardless.

    Yeah, I’m pretty sure that’s not a church of the Body of Christ.

  69. Nancy2 wrote:

    Hyper-grace is what certain church leaders and certain husbands use as an excuse when they behave badly.
    Cheap grace is what certain church leaders and certain husbands demand from us when they get caught behaving badly.

    Brilliant.

    This may be somewhat off topic, but it appears that church leader Doug Wilson has officially decided to drop the Federal Vision label in favor of…he doesn’t yet know what. Reading between the lines, I’ve got my own ideas as to what he’s really doing here. https://dougwils.com/s16-theology/federal-vision-no-mas.html

  70. Lydia wrote:

    My view of Sovereignty is totally different than the typical New Cal definition which basically means that even God is not Sovereign over His own Sovereignty! :o)

    At which point, the “typical New Cal definition” becomes Socratic Atheism:

    Since God can only will what He hath been Predestined to Will, God is NOT God, Predestination/Fate is.
    “Eh, Kismet…”

  71. dee wrote:

    Dale wrote:
    The LORD has made everything for its own purpose, even the wicked for the day of evil.
    Do you think he created them to be evil or gave them the free will to be evil?

    Ask the Joker as done by Heath Ledger.

  72. Lydia wrote:

    The free gift had a condition, beluef and metanoia. what we call repentance. The problem with “belief only” is the demons believe, too.

    Dusting off that paraphrase of Babylon-5:

    “You say you BELIEVE;
    We also have a saying: PUT YOUR MONEY WHERE YOUR MOUTH IS!”

  73. Dale wrote:

    Jesus is king of kings; he turns their hearts like water.
    Take warning, Or judges of the earth. Worship the LORD with reverence and rejoice with trembling. Do homage to the Son, that He not become angry, and you perish in the way, for His wrath may soon be kindled.
    And as many as we’re appointed to eternal life believed.
    The secret things belong to the Lord our God.
    I think God’s sovereignty and human responsibility are one of these “secret things.”
    The LORD has made everything for its own purpose, even the wicked for the day of evil.

    Acts 13:48 according to Ellicotts Commentary:

    “As many as were ordained to eternal life believed.—Better, as many as were disposed for. The words seem to the English reader to support the Calvinistic dogma of divine decrees as determining the belief or unbelief of men, and it is not improbable, looking to the general drift of the theology of the English Church in the early part of the seventeenth century, that the word “ordained” was chosen as expressing that dogma. It runs, with hardly any variation, through all the chief English versions, the Rhemish giving the stronger form “pre-ordinate.” The Greek word, however, does not imply more than that they fell in with the divine order which the Jews rejected. They were as soldiers who take the place assigned to them in God’s great army. The quasi-middle force of the passive form of the verb is seen in the Greek of Acts 20:13, where a compound form of it is rightly rendered “for so he had appointed,” and might have been translated for so he was disposed. It lies in the nature of the case that belief was followed by a public profession of faith, but the word “believed” does not, as some have said, involve such a profession.”

    Your quote from Proverbs 16 does not say that God made them to be wicked. It means that he has a purpose for all things but that does not preclude choice. God has no pleasure in the death of the wicked (Ezekiel 18).

    The proverb about a king’s heart is more about governing a nation than about personal salvation. Please examine the context of all your quotes.

    Now some opposing Scriptures:

    God so loved THE WORLD that he gave his only son that WHOSOEVER believes in him shall not perish but have everlasting life (John 3:16)

    God desires ALL MEN to be saved and come to a knowledge of truth (1 Timothy 2:4)

    God is not willing that ANY should perish (2 Peter 3:9).

    God IS love (1 John 4). His authority and power operate interdependently with that attribute, as well as his attributes of justice and truth. God cannot lie and he cannot be unjust or unloving. So this notion of “ABSOLUTE sovereignty” (as passionately expressed by my former Calvinistic pastor) is unbalanced and false.

  74. @ ZechZav:

    Speaking of words that might be translated a different way did you see about the Israeli scientists who have come up with a theory about Joshua’s incident with the sun. Apparently they have identified a solar eclipse at that time, and they are saying that the word ‘dom’ (I think it is) which is usually translated stood still could also be translated became dark. Sooo…..

    Have to wait and see on that one, but it is interesting.

  75. @ okrapod:

    From the link you indicated (Holcomb on grace):

    A shorthand for what grace is – “mercy, not merit.” Grace is the opposite of karma, which is all about getting what you deserve. Grace is getting what you don’t deserve, and not getting what you do deserve. Christianity teaches that what we deserve is death with no hope of resurrection.

    There was time when I signed onto these strict binaries with no reservation whatsoever. That time is past. I now see ‘karma’ and ‘grace’ as inextricably linked, both of them as valid operators on the operands of life.

    I’ve done some bad things in my life and times, but none of them deserve* torture by fire for eternity, so grace ensures that I get hell anyway? Even though I don’t deserve it? Karma argues that I don’t get hell because my good qualities outweigh my bad. Do you see the cognitive dissonance in Holcomb’s thesis?

    *when you (generic you) control the term ‘deserve’ at the outset, you control the narrative, and you can shut down any objections rooted in ‘fairness’, or real world jurisprudence. From there it’s easy to assert that a jaywalker deserves the same punishment as a mass murderer.
    Dr. Fundy pointed this out quite nicely up-thread.

  76. @ okrapod:

    That is very interesting. It is often the case that word’s get lost in translation. One that is not very significant is that Joseph actually had a coat with long sleeves, not a coat of many colours. That means that the musical Joseph and the Technicolour Dreamcoat is based on a mistranslation but I still enjoy it 🙂

  77. Clarification on my last post: The traditional translation has been challenged but I am not sure which rendering is correct, but interesting nonetheless.

  78. ZechZav wrote:

    Please examine the context of all your quotes.

    The commentary you quoted was interesting. I can see some of where the Calvinist thought comes from, but I was raised Baptist and don’t truly feel it.

    As for quotes, I was scrolling down facebook the other day and someone had a list of times when you should not speak, and I fact checked one of them and the quote was just something about wicked people. It didn’t mean no one should speak. I feel like you have to doublecheck everything now.

  79. Dee – you bet I was a heathen. I gave birth to an 11 pound 9 ounce baby. I don’t think any many could or would want to do this. It was several weeks before I made it back to church. Then we traveled 900 miles to have her dedicated at my home church. So maybe it was ok after all.

    Boston Lady – these same men who tell you to prepare the food on Saturday so you don’t have to work on Sunday, sure don’t mind all the women cooking on Sundays for special dinners at the church, as in a big Thanksgiving meal, etc. Let him who has no sin throw the first stone.

  80. Harley wrote:

    Boston Lady – these same men who tell you to prepare the food on Saturday so you don’t have to work on Sunday, sure don’t mind all the women cooking on Sundays for special dinners at the church, as in a big Thanksgiving meal, etc. Let him who has no sin throw the first stone.

    They’re probably not the ones doing the cooking or anything else on Saturday either.

  81. ishy wrote:

    They’re probably not the ones doing the cooking or anything else on Saturday either.

    @ Harley:

    Yes, you two, it was the church of contradictions aplenty. There is a song from the 80s, the “Church of the Poison Mind” (singer and band unknown to me) that I still hear in certain (weird) places. Anyhow, when I hear it, it serves as a mocking reminder of the cult days and how I’d somehow managed to pass that time without losing my composure or my dignity or my sanity, but Jesus is faithful, and on many occasions I and another could almost physically feel a gentle push on us to get up and leave the church. We had an idea it was the Holy Spirit strongly indicating to us to leave. And as you know, we did. God knew we were in the wrong club, and after a few firm pushes, I agreed.

  82. I really think the whole focus on grace by the neo-Calvinists is their attempt to redirect focus away from Christ and the Holy Spirit. They don’t use Jesus as the center of their theology, so they had to come up with something else to talk about.

    They want to attract Christians (which I don’t think they are as they minimize Christ), and they want to seem like they have the answer. Their constant prattling about grace is a way to get people to come, but then you find out there’s really no favor with God unless you obey them. They decide who is Elect, and they can remove you from God’s favor if you think for yourself or do anything that they don’t like.

    The problem is that in the Christian faith, there is no grace without Christ, and there is no new life or true understanding of Scripture without the Holy Spirit. To minimize Christ is to minimize grace, so neo-Calvinists do not have either Christ or grace. And no Holy Spirit means they do not understand the Bible. They are just lying to themselves and everyone else.

    “But the anointing that you received from him abides in you, and you have no need that anyone should teach you. But as his anointing teaches you about everything, and is true, and is no lie—just as it has taught you, abide in him.” – John 2:27

    Remember how Paul closes his letters?

    “May the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ, and the love of God, and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit be with you all.” 2 Cor. 13:14

  83. If we go to the other side of hyper-grace, honestly, I think it’s just an excuse to get away with whatever and still make money off gullible people. I don’t think there’s any deep theology or thinking at all involved. Guys like Tchividjian want instant grace for themselves while continuing to show utter disdain for the rest of humanity, and they’re just spoiled toddlers.

  84. I noticed this sentence under the heading, “When Grace Morphs Into Hyper-Grace.”

    “He admits that there are those who are overly sin conscience and seem to forget that God grace is sufficient for our salvation.”

    Is it possible that the word you mean is *conscious*, as in “overly conscious of sin”?

  85. Tina wrote:

    Is it possible that the word you mean is *conscious*, as in “overly conscious of sin”?

    You are absolutely correct. I changed it.

  86. @ ZechZav:

    It’s so important to remember that we’re not reading the original words of the Bible in English, but someone’s translation. The sad awakening I’ve had over recent years is how much politics and preconceived beliefs have corrupted translation work. In the past, I had faith in the neutrality and professionalism of translation teams, whereas today I am cynical (thanks, in large part, to Mr. Grudem for opening my eyes). I wonder how many of the concepts that are commonly accepted are based on mistranslations.

  87. okrapod wrote:

    You must have one heluva résumé.

    I don’t do resumes. I believe in W Y S I W Y G (what you see is what you get).

  88. Dee,

    Jen Wilkin’s article is titled “Failure Is Not A Virtue,” not “Failure Is Not An Option.” She’s not teaching perfectionism.

    Thank you for your clear and accurate presentation of the Doctrines of Grace.

    Since you (reluctantly) asked for a book recommendation, I will yet again mention Michael Horton’s “For Calvinism,” the companion book to Roger Olson’s “Against Calvinism,” both of which I read.

  89. One thing I never understood was that if by God’s grace alone could the elect be saved, nothing they could do or not do could change that – then why were they also such devout workers since they believed that their works couldn’t save them. It seems that the early Calvinists believed that while they couldn’t know for sure if they were elect or not, their lifestyle could bear the fruit of being saved – hard work and frugality were considered marks of the elect. So from the Calvinists, the Protestant Work Ethic was born. Since Grace is only effective for the elect, then only frugal hard workers are elect and have experienced God’s grace. I know, we’re not talking about works, but grace and works are generally two sides of the same coin.

  90. dee wrote:

    I cannot conceive holy God specifically ordaining the specific acts that led to Jessica’s death. Due to my daughter’s illness, I spent way to much time on the oncology floor of Dallas Children’s Hospital. Once again, I cannot see God specifically ordaining tiny children to such suffering.

    I too have oceans of respect for Pastor Burleson, but I cannot and will not sign onto any such thing, my conscience will not let me.
    The gods of Egypt and the gods of the Canaanites? Yeah I can see them engineering and ordaining cruelty to the weak and the helpless. But the God of Abraham? No way in hell. He’s not anything like them.

  91. dee wrote:

    Dale wrote:
    The LORD has made everything for its own purpose, even the wicked for the day of evil.
    Do you think he created them to be evil or gave them the free will to be evil?

    Well, I just got back in from playing a round of golf. I tried to will myself to shoot a 59 like the pro Justin Thomas did last week, but I just wasn’t able. Shot a 95. I guess it just isn’t in my nature to play excellent golf.

    When it comes to our human faculty known as our will, we have a similar problem to my inability to effectively hit and putt a golf ball. The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak. Of course, we are free to choose our actions – that is the definition of a “will” – but what kind of will do we have? One that is always able to choose correctly and never sin? No, that would be Jesus’ will. We have a “sin nature” that the Bible says we inherited from our forebear, Adam.

    Repentance is an act of the will. Esau sought repentance with tears, but it just wasn’t in his nature. I believe that there is an ontological change that occurs when one is “born again.” And the Bible confirms to me that God effects this change in a person. So, no, I do not believe that our natural-born will is free – we are constrained by our sin nature.

    But Dee this does not answer your question completely. When it comes to the source of evil, I have to say that is above my pay grade. Dt. 29:29 says that the “secret things belong to the LORD.” I do not understand the interaction between an omnipotent God and the presence of evil. At best I can push it down a level to Satan. And I do not comprehend the interaction between a sovereign God and a responsible humanity. Clearly both are taught in Scripture. I am comforted, though, that God somehow has a purpose for the evil that exists in the world. If there was no rhyme or reason behind evil, then an omnipotent God presents a serious problem.

    I think that God wants us to live in such a way as to let Him run the show. What got our forebears in trouble was thinking they could be like God, knowing good from evil. So I refuse to answer your question regarding man’s will and the existence and purpose of evil. Because I have no idea. Calvinists who seek to answer the problem fail. Arminians do no better, in my opinion.

  92. @ brad/futuristguy:

    Of the Tchividjian books I have, only one, “Jesus + Nothing = Everything,” has an index; the Holy Spirit is mentioned on six pages. This passage is revealing:

    “It is the Spirit of Christ who daily bears testimony with our spirit that we are ‘in’ forever – that it is finished! It’s the Spirit that preaches the gospel to our weary spirits when we need it most, reminding us that everything we need and long for is already ours *in Christ*. It is the Spirit that daily reorients us to the liberating reality that there’s nothing left to do. It’s done! The Spirit’s *subjective work in me* consists of his constant, daily driving me back to Christ’s completed *objective work for me*.” (p. 137; * = italics.)

    Interesting: Two of his books are titled “Glorious Ruin” and “It Is Finished.”

  93. JeffB wrote:

    Interesting: Two of his books are titled “Glorious Ruin” and “It Is Finished.”

    The gift of Prophecy…

  94. Beware the neo puritans who define repentance as changing your actions. Nope, it really is changing your MIND. Being able to agree with God that your pet sin is really sin.

    Of course, once He changes your heart following that kind of repentance and forgiveness, He has a habit of beginning a lifetime of cleaning up our acts.

    I’m going to disagree with Bonhoffer. Grace is free, not cheap. And you don’t buy it by being good. You receive it because you cannot be good, not on your own.

    And yep, definitely recommend Pastor Wade’s lifechanging book.

  95. brad/futuristguy wrote:

    Perhaps others who’ve studied Mr. Tchividjian’s theology more intensively can comment about his views on the Holy Spirit in the life of a Christian. But lack of presence or emphasis on the Holy Spirit’s empowerment does seem to be a pattern in the law/grace/hyper-grace systems. In my thinking, when the Holy Spirit is left out, you have a “closed

  96. Dale wrote:

    Dt. 29:29 says that the “secret things belong to the LORD.” I do not understand the interaction between an omnipotent God and the presence of evil.

    Dt 29:29 in context is nothing to do with some supposed divine decree to salvation, or about the general existence of evil. It doesn’t specifically say what the secret things are, but from the context it is talking about God’s judgements upon Israel and the surrounding nations for forsaking him.

    Another question: if God had a “secret will”, something that Calvin and many of his followers teach, how did they find out about it?

  97. ZechZav wrote:

    Another question: if God had a “secret will”, something that Calvin and many of his followers teach, how did they find out about it?

    Hee hee.

  98. Dale wrote:

    We have a “sin nature” that the Bible says we inherited from our forebear, Adam.

    That is a very common misconception. Nowhere does the Bible say we inherited a sin nature from Adam. It says we inherited mortality (“and so death spread to all men”). This is a big difference. Also, nowhere does the Bible say we have a sin nature. It says we have flesh (sarx in Greek). Some translations incorrectly translate sarx as sin nature. But that is interpreting the Greek rather than translating it. Interestingly, Jesus came in the sarx and suffered in the sarx. But I don’t think anyone would go so far to say that Jesus came in the sin nature or suffered in the sin nature.

  99. Many very interesting comments here about sovereignty vs free will. I think I am safe in stating that Calvinists believe that God’s attributes are infinite in the sense that they are unlimited and boundless. Unless I am wrong, they believe his sovereignty is infinite. They also seem to believe that humans having free will somehow diminishes or limits God’s sovereignty.

    The problem with trying to think of infinity is our normal sense of math breaks down. For example, infinity plus or minus X equals infinity for all finite values of X. Think of the largest imaginable number, then multiply itself as many times as you can imagine, and subtract that ginormous number from infinity. The result will be infinity. There is no possible way to add to or subtract from infinity in a way that will make it anything other than infinity.

    So if God’s sovereignty is infinite, no amount of free will exercised by humans can diminish it in any way. The only way human free will can diminish God’s sovereignty is if his sovereignty is finite.

    The same principle applies to his infinite glory. Calvinists teach that the reprobate must suffer in hell for all of eternity because if not then God’s glory will not be fully displayed. His goodness and grace can only be appreciated in the positive sense if his justice and wrath is demonstrated in the negative sense. I guess the idea behind that is it increases the magnitude of his glory. But we know that we cannot make an infinite value any more or less than infinity. The only way the Calvinist view can make sense is if God’s glory is finite. Their view of God must be very limited indeed.

    It’s too bad that seminaries don’t do a better job at teaching basic math skills.

  100. @ JeffB:

    That quote sounds to me like it confirms my gut feeling that “sanctification” is merely walking in the truth of “salvation.” It’s all about knowing objective truth, feeling the freedom from the weight of it — but what about practicalities of living it out? But what happens to undo harm that has been done? Or to warn and prevent us from inflicting damage? Or is everyone else just supposed to live in whatever mess I/we create for others by our actions? What about fruit of the Spirit?

  101. Ken F wrote:

    Nowhere does the Bible say we inherited a sin nature from Adam. It says we inherited mortality (“and so death spread to all men”). This is a big difference. A

    Bingo

  102. Ken F wrote:

    Many very interesting comments here about sovereignty vs free will. I think I am safe in stating that Calvinists believe that God’s attributes are infinite in the sense that they are unlimited and boundless. Unless I am wrong, they believe his sovereignty is infinite. They also seem to believe that humans having free will somehow diminishes or limits God’s sovereignty.

    The problem with trying to think of infinity is our normal sense of math breaks down. For example, infinity plus or minus X equals infinity for all finite values of X. Think of the largest imaginable number, then multiply itself as many times as you can imagine, and subtract that ginormous number from infinity. The result will be infinity. There is no possible way to add to or subtract from infinity in a way that will make it anything other than infinity.

    So if God’s sovereignty is infinite, no amount of free will exercised by humans can diminish it in any way. The only way human free will can diminish God’s sovereignty is if his sovereignty is finite.

    The same principle applies to his infinite glory. Calvinists teach that the reprobate must suffer in hell for all of eternity because if not then God’s glory will not be fully displayed. His goodness and grace can only be appreciated in the positive sense if his justice and wrath is demonstrated in the negative sense. I guess the idea behind that is it increases the magnitude of his glory. But we know that we cannot make an infinite value any more or less than infinity. The only way the Calvinist view can make sense is if God’s glory is finite. Their view of God must be very limited indeed.

    It’s too bad that seminaries don’t do a better job at teaching basic math skills.

    Another sad part is that these seminary trained fellows will want to pastor a church. I feel very sorry for their congregants!

  103. @ siteseer:
    I can relate to this myself. The more I dug in, the more I had to consider other meanings, etc. The one thing that helped me was to keep an overarching broad theme of the consistent message within many sepeeate books, their literary devices, historical contexts, etc: God’s provision for our Rescue.

  104. The picture in the Bible that best illustrates grace for me is the story of the prodigal. When did the father forgive the younger son? The Bible does not say, but it appears to be before the younger son changed his mind and returned. The father disregarded his glory by running out to shower his love on a son who had insulted his father in the worst way. He did not even let the son say his prepared speech. The grace was abundant and available (probably even before the son left), but the son had to go through the metanoia process to receive the grace. Contrast that with the older son. The older son had contempt for his father and would not enter the party. He hated his father’s grace, perhaps because he did not know that it was available for him as well. We don’t know if the older son ever went through the metanoia process – the story ends with the older son banishing himself to the outer darkness because of his contempt for grace and his refusal to change his mind and return.

    The father in that story is nothing like the god of the Calvinists.

  105. @ Ken F:

    I think many Calvinists are so hung up about “God’s glory” and “God’s sovereignty” that they ignore his other attributes. I believe that God has all power and authority but the Bible also tells us that God is love, that he is just and that he is faithful and true.

    When I challenged my former Calvinistic pastor he kept reverting back to “God is sovereign”. I asked “if God has decreed whether someone is going to be saved, then is the offer of the gospel to the non-elect sincere?” He said “I don’t know, I just trust in his sovereignty and can’t answer”. He was so hung up about God’s sovereignty that he denied his faithfulness to do so. The Bible is clear that God CANNOT LIE. He cannot “deny himself” and act contrary to his own nature.

    Relentless logic doesn’t help, it just gets us deeper into trouble.

  106. The answer to the rhetorical nature of the title, “Are Grace Based Legalism, Hyper-Grace and the Doctrines of Grace Really Grace?” is obviously, “Of course, not!” But as I read, it seemed clear to me that any discussion of the doctrine of grace that did not include a good dose of repentance, behavioral change, sorrow over sin, etc., would simply be outright rejected, and perhaps described by the pejorative terms; “hyper,” “easy,” “cheap,” etc., and would be considered deficient. I love Bonhoeffer, too, but don’t think he was right about everything he wrote, and in the end, he answers to Scripture, too, doesn’t he? Rather than studying Free Grace theology (the underlying topic of this post) by consulting its enemies, critics, or its perverters, shouldn’t we begin by hearing what its own theologians have to say about it? The Free Grace Alliance makes a good presentation of its beliefs on its website: http://www.freegracealliance.com/ I can tell you one thing that is certain about (free) grace–it doesn’t make light of sin, or dismiss repentance and obedience. It simply does not make those things a requirement or indicator of a person’s salvation.

  107. brad/futuristguy wrote:

    Perhaps others who’ve studied Mr. Tchividjian’s theology more intensively can comment about his views on the Holy Spirit in the life of a Christian. But lack of presence or emphasis on the Holy Spirit’s empowerment does seem to be a pattern in the law/grace/hyper-grace systems. In my thinking, when the Holy Spirit is left out, you have a “closed

    Tchividjian’s theology is in line with that of my former pastor; my former pastor spoke at Tchividjian’s conference in 2015 so one might surmise that they are essentially on the same page, theologically. When one attends a supposedly “Calvinist” church with a “grace boy” as pastor, the emphasis as far as my experience lies, is on justification. Christ’s rightousness is imputed to us, and He bears the punishment we deserve on the Cross. All well and good. However, these pastors fail to move beyond justification to our sanctification, a working of the Holy Spirit in the life of the believer making us more and more like Christ throughout the rest of our lives. Thus, at least in my experience, one hears practically nothing about the Holy Spirit. More problematic, nee deadly for unbelievers hearing what I sincerely believe is a false gospel, grace boys are quite reluctant to mention sin or repentance. Critics have labeled this “grace” emphasis antinomianism, against the laws [of God], a very old heresy.
    Someone above mentioned how translations of scripture have skewed meanings of essential doctrines; I read last week that the Greek word for antinomian was all through the original Greek text but has since been mistranslated as darkness, among other meanings. The verse that caught my eye was Matthew 7:22-23. ….depart from me, you who practice lawlessness… In the greek, which is supposedly the inspired Word of God, that word is antinomian.

  108. ZechZav wrote:

    Relentless logic doesn’t help, it just gets us deeper into trouble.

    I’m coming to the conclusion that earlier ages of Christianity embraced mystery before going very far any of these paths. The Calvinists headed pretty far down some logic trails but then ended up at the same point: mystery. The difference is the Calvinists caused a lot of damage along the way and lost sight of beauty. The branches of Christianity that embraced mystery earlier caused less damage and got to retain beauty.

  109. @ Rhonda Montgomery:

    That’s *very* helpful, Rhonda — thanks! And this overemphasis on imputed righteousness and justification is where the horrible cliche of it meaning “just as if I’d never sinned” may be twisted to refer to objective positional truth — but the consequences in the lives of others of those sins don’t self-erase because of “grace.”

    Ironic, it’s all forensic/accounting terminology and position truths related to sealing by the Holy Spirit — but nothing about walking by faith and being accountable, by means of the Holy Spirit. So, it’s all individualized and there is no recourse theologically to make things right in community.

  110. More than a year ago I read “Chosen But Free: A Balanced View of God’s Sovereignty and Free Will” by Norman L. Geisler. He calls himself a moderate Calvinist, but he destroys the typical interpretations of all the go-to verses used by Calvinists, such as Romans 9. He comments on MANY passages, which can make the 352 pages seem like a long read at times, but I highly recommend it.

  111. brad/futuristguy wrote:

    And this overemphasis on imputed righteousness and justification is where the horrible cliche of it meaning “just as if I’d never sinned” may be twisted to refer to objective positional truth — but the consequences in the lives of others of those sins don’t self-erase because of “grace.”

    This article is one of the first I read from an Eastern Orthodox perspective: https://oca.org/reflections/fr.-john-breck/gods-righteousness. It addresses imputed righteousness in a way I had never heard. I am not EO, but I am finding their theology very compelling. It predates the Reformation by more than 1200 years (their theology was locked down in 787).

  112. One common thread I’ve noticed in Reformed churches is the emphasis on the idea (often explicitly stated) that “You don’t want to take grace too far, otherwise people will take it as a license to sin.” A similar idea (again, often explicitly stated) asks, “If you take away the fear of divine punishment, what will keep people from sinning?”

    I think those two ideas (one might even say axioms of the Reformed) are the sources of Grace-Based Legalism, Hyper-Grace, and the Doctrines of Grace. It is the human obsession with divine punishment that leads to such systems, emphasizing external human performance instead of the internal personal transformation of which Jesus and Paul spoke so often.

    The answer to both ideas (“Grace taken too far is a license to sin,” “Freedom from the Law removes deterrence to sin”) is laid out quite succinctly in Romans 6 and Galatians 3. For most of the encounters I have had with Reformed church members that raised these objections toward freedom in grace, the passages mentioned above were enough to persuade my audience that I was not, in fact, a heretic for believing we are set free from the Law through Christ.

    However, for those more entrenched in the Reformed tradition who placed more emphasis on human reasoning, here are my answers to the objections that “Grace taken too far is a license to sin,” and “Without the Law there is nothing to stop people from sinning.”

    I ask them, “Why do you refrain from hurting your spouse? Is it because you are afraid of federal punishment, or is it simply because you love your spouse?” That normally does the trick.

  113. @ Ken F:

    There is a good book by a Brethren author called “The Faith of God’s Elect” by John F. Parkinson. He re-introduces the teaching that Romans 9 is rabbinic midrash to demonstrate that God saves on his terms – by grace through faith. Ishmael is a picture of man trying to gain God’s favour by human works whereas Isaac was the means that God has chosen. Esau represents the one with “the birthright” who was rejected – which corresponds to the Israelites who did not believe. The point being that God does not regard works of the law, works of the flesh or being born an Israelite automatically puts you in God’s favour. You have to come to him by faith.

  114. Ken F wrote:

    The father in that story is nothing like the god of the Calvinists.

    In discussing this parable Amy-Jill Levine said that the Jews of that day would not have thought that the father in the story represented God. Her take on it is that we have misunderstood the parable. She says (in my words) that the story is of a father who did a very poor job of fathering having one son which he favored and with whom he was too lenient while neglecting the other son. She says it is about counting, that is to say a man who had two sons and forgot he had two while doting on only one. That, she says, is how the target audience of Jews at the time would have understood the parable. Apologies to A-J if I have bungled the explanation.

    She talks about a lot of the parables and how they would have been understood by the Jews of that day. I find it interesting.

  115. @ ZechZav:

    Jacob was chosen over Esau while still in the womb. Isaac was chosen by the proclamation of God and announced before Sarah got pregnant with him. How is that faith? Do the unborn and even the not yet conceived have faith?

  116. @ okrapod:

    Not to forget John the Baptist who allegedly leapt for joy when Mary was talking to Elizabeth. Who told that fetus how to believe?

    Now perhaps the stories are incorrect, but I do believe this is how the stories were told.

  117. Eric Davis’s selfish, thuggy, heartless, self important, know nothing misogyny is the reason I have not been to church since I was fifteen and find atheist men a million times more loving, respectful, and compassionate towards women and little girls.

  118. @ okrapod:
    I have read that, too, in another Rabbinical context somewhere along the way which also included the inheritance tradition, etc, and made me think twice about the meaning. It’s so against the typical Christian interpretation one hesitates to bring it up. You are brave. :o)

    I do think Western Christianity could do with more Rabbinical scholarship as background to what we are reading in the NT.

  119. JeffB wrote:

    Jen Wilkin’s article is titled “Failure Is Not A Virtue,” not “Failure Is Not An Option.” She’s not teaching perfectionism.

    I’m kind of confused what she’s teaching.

    These days, obedience has gotten a bad name. And failure has gotten a make-over.

    Interestingly, Jesus battled legalism in a different way than the celebratory failurist does. Rather than tossing out the Law or devaluing obedience to it, he called his followers to a deeper obedience (Matthew 5:17-48) than the behavior modification the Pharisees prized. He called for obedience in motive as well as in deed, the kind of godly obedience that is impossible for someone whose heart has not been transformed by the gospel in the power of the Holy Spirit. Rather than abolish the Law, Jesus deepened his followers’ understanding of what it required, and then went to the cross to ensure they could actually begin to obey it.

    Has obedience really gotten a bad name? What does that exactly mean?

    She seems to be saying that the new testament message is that we now must obey in motive as well as deed (motive wasn’t important before?) and that we are now able to do so through the Holy Spirit. Rather than setting us free from law, Christ came to deepen our obligation to it? As Miles Stanford used to say with a chuckle, “Try away, try away!”

  120. okrapod wrote:

    She says it is about counting, that is to say a man who had two sons and forgot he had two while doting on only one.

    What is her take on the point of the story. Taken in context with the other parables around it, what point was he making by telling it?

  121. Ian wrote:

    The old time Baptist who had rules about dancing, movies, and dress codes.

    I find all this a difficult concept. There must be things which amount to sin. In the examples quoted, there have to be types of dancing, certain movies, and styles of dress which are off-limits for a Christian.

    So, to chose a non-contentious subject, I can’t imagine any Christian saying it’s OK to watch porn. But there are obviously lots of things which are more debatable – eg nudity and sex scenes in regular movies, violence, bad language, etc. Where do we draw the line?

    There has be a place for freedom of conscience – people deciding what is right and wrong for them – but there also has to be a place for the church teaching on matters of conduct and lifestyle.

    In case people are wondering, I did grow up in a Baptist church, yes, an English one, but still Baptist

    Ahem. These are things that SOUTHERN Baptists had/have a rules. We somethings assume all Baptists are SBC, well, because if you’re not then you’re not really …

    Card playing is also on the list. Luck is depending on the devil to bring you good fortune. (Maybe playing Poker is ok, since many call it a game of skill. At least draw poker.)

    In the 60s don’t mow your yard or rake your leaves on Sunday.

    My wife and I know people who have stated that a good Christian will not watch an R rated movie. Because we all know the MPAA applies good Christian values in determining their rating.

    Rules make life easy. You don’t have to think. Nuff said.

  122. Ken F wrote:

    Dale wrote:
    We have a “sin nature” that the Bible says we inherited from our forebear, Adam.
    That is a very common misconception. Nowhere does the Bible say we inherited a sin nature from Adam.

    “For as by the one man’s disobedience the many were made sinners…” – Rom. 5:19.

  123. Ken F wrote:

    What is her take on the point of the story. Taken in context with the other parables around it, what point was he making by telling it?

    She did not get into that in what I heard. There is a lot of stuff by her on youtube including a lot about parables, so maybe she discussed that elsewhere. However, of what i have heard, like the workers in the vineyard parable she just talks about what the parable said, not why he said it.

    But about the grouping of the sayings of Jesus in the gospels, are we not just assuming that the groupings have specific meanings based on groupings. After all, it was the authors of the gospels who did the literary presentation. We have no evidence that I know of that the groupings were done by Jesus. For example, the sermon on the mount which some say was not a sermon and not on a mount but was rather a literary device to create a setting for some of the collected sayings of Jesus. For instance, did Matthew who did grouping ever say that the reader should understand that not only the content itself had meaning but also there was another layer of meaning in how they were grouped. I know people do assume that-the lost coin, the lost son, the lost whatever-but I do not see where the gospel authors said that themselves. And I do not see in the gospels themselves where there is consistency in talking about settings. For example the incident in Jesus’ home synagogue is placed in the home synagogue and that forms part of the story. But the feeding of he five thousand does not say what he preached, or how the people responded to his preaching, or how many were healed or how it came to be that those people were away from home without lunch boxes and I always wonder how they went to potty all together out there like that. But none of that is pertinent to the story, and none of that is discussed. So we have that sort of thing in the gospels sometimes-a parable here, an incident there, a reported conversation with the disciples, all with no apparent context given or necessary.

  124. siteseer wrote:

    She seems to be saying that the new testament message is that we now must obey in motive as well as deed (motive wasn’t important before?) and that we are now able to do so through the Holy Spirit. Rather than setting us free from law, Christ came to deepen our obligation to it? As Miles Stanford used to say with a chuckle, “Try away, try away!”

    And who would know your motive if you are doing the right things? The thought police? Then, New Calvinism is also riddled with dualism teaching that you can’t really know yourself at all because you are unable. Catch 22.

    Some folks think Calvinism uses logic/reason. I think just the opposite. I think it is total cognitive dissonance.

  125. Entering this comment stream late, after celebrating my wife’s birthday today. By God’s grace, we have come a long way together. I was young and now am old, here’s what I’ve come to know about God’s Grace. It cannot be reduced to a theological doctrine, a system of interconnected doctrines, or religious laws of men. It is spiritual in nature. It cannot be learned or earned. It cannot be bought or caught. It is dispatched into a believer’s life from God through Jesus by the Spirit. The humble and repentant are best positioned to receive it. Lots of church folks talk about it, but few experience it.

    A.W. Tozer defined it this way: “Grace is the good pleasure of God that inclines him to bestow benefits upon the undeserving. It is a self-existent principle inherent in the divine nature and appears to us as a self-caused propensity to pity the wretched, spare the guilty, welcome the outcast, and bring into favor those who were before under just disapprobation. Its use to us sinful men is to save us and make us sit together in heavenly places to demonstrate to the ages the exceeding riches of God’s kindness to us in Christ Jesus.”

  126. @ okrapod:
    It sounds like you are saying that the Gospels were randomly arranged with no rhyme or reason. That’s possible, but it does not seem likely. If in fact Jesus spoke that parable, even if it has no context with any of the parables around it in the book of Luke, the parable still must have a point. If the point is not somehow related to grace, I am wondering what it is.

  127. @ Dale:
    That verse does not say that we have a sin nature. It says that we are sinners. Something I learned from EO theology is the reason for our sin: fear of death (see Heb 2:15). If my understanding is correct, EOs do not believe in original sin in the sense of it being an inherited nature passed on like genes. They teach that our problem is we are all born as mortals. It is our fear of death that makes us slaves to sin, which makes each of responsible for our own sin. It’s not a sin nature that we inherited, but a death nature. Consequently, the solution is new life, not some kind of legal remedy. EO theology has forced me to re-think quite a lot – I’m still a work in progress.

  128. Ken F wrote:

    It sounds like you are saying that the Gospels were randomly arranged with no rhyme or reason.

    No, I said some of it has been said to be due to literary reasons-how to assemble some unrelated incidences in a readable presentation.

    As to what the meaning is, why would there need to be more meaning than what she said. It could well have been about poor fathering and a dysfunctional family. How a family ought to function, at least in one aspect, is even one of the big ten. I am thinking this would be a not unusual subject for them, issues of family (let me first go bury my father) were real issues.

    But if you want another example there is the parable of the workers in the vineyard which she says is about economic injustice. Again, the issue of the poor and the foreigner are seen in the OT, so why would he not perhaps have meant that.

    Now, I have no inside information as to whether or not she is correct, but it does seem possible to me, because like she has said about Jesus that he was just so Jewish and what she sees in him is that.

  129. Boston Lady wrote:

    ishy wrote:

    They’re probably not the ones doing the cooking or anything else on Saturday either.

    @ Harley:

    Yes, you two, it was the church of contradictions aplenty. There is a song from the 80s, the “Church of the Poison Mind” (singer and band unknown to me) that I still hear in certain (weird) places. Anyhow, when I hear it, it serves as a mocking reminder of the cult days and how I’d somehow managed to pass that time without losing my composure or my dignity or my sanity, but Jesus is faithful, and on many occasions I and another could almost physically feel a gentle push on us to get up and leave the church. We had an idea it was the Holy Spirit strongly indicating to us to leave. And as you know, we did. God knew we were in the wrong club, and after a few firm pushes, I agreed.

    Church of the Poison Mind was a Culture Club song, from the same album as Karma Chameleon.

  130. @ Dale:
    Sigh. . Proof texting Romans.

    Acts 18 gives a bit of historical context to Romans

    “After these things Paul departed from Athens and went to Corinth. 2 And he found a certain Jew named Aquila, born in Pontus, who had recently come from Italy with his wife Priscilla (because Claudius had commanded all the Jews to depart from Rome); and he came to them. 3 So, because he was of the same trade, he stayed with them and worked; for by occupation they were tentmakers. 4 And he reasoned in the synagogue every Sabbath, and persuaded both Jews and Greeks.”

    Claudius kicked the Jews out of Rome. This included the converts and even Gentile converts to Judaism. The Jews come streaming back about 5 or so years later. By that time, the Christians in Rome are now all Gentiles operating in a totally different manner from when it was mostly Jewish converts. (Suetonius, Claudius)

    Paul’s letter arrives several years later trying to deal with the schism of Jew/Gentile believers. He is making an argument for both sides to consider. It is not wise to proof text Romans. And if we must….at least copy the entire verse. :o)

  131. @ Ken F:
    And there is the metaphorical aspect of death as sin. Death ias condemnation. Juxtaposed with conquering death so we have new life now and eternally.

  132. Dee,

    I’ve really appreciated these posts lately where you are discussing theological truths that you struggle with. Sounds like you are struggling with some of same topics that I do. The nature of God’s grace, our identity in Christ, and a believer’s responsibility concerning sin is a topic I’ve pondered a lot lately. I’ve also listened to 4 sermons by Jeff VanVonderen on the gospel that really set me to thinking about it (much of the material is found in his book “Tired of Trying To Measure Up”).

    The tension caused by our freedom in Christ and God’s grace toward us is reflected in Paul’s writing even during his time. For instance Gal 5:13 – “You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh; rather, serve one another humbly in love.” If the natural objection isn’t raised in our minds “Won’t this grace and freedom be used as an excuse for sin?” – we really haven’t grasped fully what God has done for us in Christ. The grace really is that great, but it is not an excuse or cover for sin either.

    As far as the environment of legalism in neo-Calvinist churches, I’ve been convinced lately that neo-Calvinists just have a different set of rules from the fundamentalism that I left behind. Unfortunately it’s taken me years to realize that. They’ve managed to throw off the weird rules about Bible versions, music, and dress . . . but they’ve only replaced them with new rules. They are the fundamentalists of our time, only they preach in jeans and have a cool coffee shop in the foyer.

  133. @dee dee wrote:

    When grace morphs…

    IMHO “morphs” is the operative word.
    – The Torah morphed into the Talmud.
    – The Gospel morphed into many different “isms” – Lutheranism, Methodism, Calvinism, Presbyterianism, Anglicanism, Catholicism, etc.

    – “Every word of God is tested; He is a shield to those who take refuge in Him. Do not add to His words or He will reprove you, and you will be proved a liar.” Proverbs 30:5-6 NASB

    From a dictionary: Grace – (in Christian belief) the free and unmerited favor of God, as manifested in the salvation of sinners and the bestowal of blessings.

  134. Former Fundy wrote:

    They’ve managed to throw off the weird rules about Bible versions, music, and dress . . . but they’ve only replaced them with new rules. They are the fundamentalists of our time, only they preach in jeans and have a cool coffee shop in the foyer.

    Good observation.

  135. Ken F wrote:

    ZechZav wrote:

    Relentless logic doesn’t help, it just gets us deeper into trouble.

    I’m coming to the conclusion that earlier ages of Christianity embraced mystery before going very far any of these paths. The Calvinists headed pretty far down some logic trails but then ended up at the same point: mystery. The difference is the Calvinists caused a lot of damage along the way and lost sight of beauty. The branches of Christianity that embraced mystery earlier caused less damage and got to retain beauty.

    yes, there is a definite difference in how Eastern Christianity is more comfortable with the mystery of God;
    and how Western Christianity seeks to sometimes ‘know’ that which we may not have the ability to understand.
    Would that we in the West thought more along the lines of our Eastern brothers and sisters and celebrated the ‘uncreated Light’ of God with the same reverence.

  136. @ dee:

    “…the murder little Jessica Lunsford. … I cannot believe that God ordained that specific event. Wade is comfortable with that belief. He claims I have a problem with my perspective but I am more comfortable with it.”
    ++++++++++++

    whoa… holy smokes…. He is comfortable with that belief? Not troubled by it? Not even a bit? And he thinks the problem is with your perspective??

    Wade, this is what you really, honestly think??

    i think you’re an outstanding human being. But blimey, please explain how you can be comfortable with/not troubled by God ordaining the torture & murder of a child.

    my honest feeling is that a person has to give up some normal mental/emotional health in order to be able to embrace this perspective. and they do this because they have made the bible of supreme importance — it is so important that they re-wire or turn off portions of their normal & healthy mental/emotional self (common sense, kindness, compassion, empathy, understanding of human beings) so it accepts this bible interpetive system.

    and my even more honest feeling is that in the process they congratulate themselves to some degree — they see themselves as something of a faith superhero, for it surely must require advanced spirituality and faith to be able to accept that God ordains such a thing. those who have difficulty with it, well, too bad — unfortunately such people are stuck in remedial God class, and are a bit slow. they’re not really capable of higher thinking.

    Wade, i believe you to be humble & very kind, compassionate and empathetic. but if you are truly comfortable with the proposition that God ordained a child’s torture and murder, I do think you’ve lost a good many of your healthy human marbles and replaced them with overspiritualized ones.

  137. Dale wrote:

    Well, I just got back in from playing a round of golf. I tried to will myself to shoot a 59 like the pro Justin Thomas did last week, but I just wasn’t able. Shot a 95. I guess it just isn’t in my nature to play excellent golf.

    I must not have hit the enter button because I cannot find my comment on this. Or it is there and I am too tired to see it.

    The reason why this doesn’t work in a Calvinist paradigm is this. You WANTED to play well and attempted to do so. Within Calvinism it is said that we do not WANT to seek God because of our depravity. God must make his elect WANT to be saved which is part of the regenerating process.

    Calvinists say that wanting to be saved is participating in our own salvation. Arminians do not believe that. I can want to do something, like you want to play golf like a pro, that doesn’t mean I can do so. I may want to be saved but it is Jesus that does the saving and it is 100% God’s doing.

  138. Former Fundy wrote:

    They’ve managed to throw off the weird rules about Bible versions, music, and dress . .

    Well, they are pretty big into the ESV. Boy do they ever have rulesThat is why I read TGC website every day to see what they have come up with now. The lice example was posted just a few days ago.

  139. brad/futuristguy wrote:

    On the topic of “hyper-grace,” I recently finished writing “UN-accountable: Case Study in Systems Analysis and Ministerial Accountability,” using the immense amount of information and documentation that became public between March and December 2016 about Tullian Tchividjian’s reported serial grooming/seduction/adultery. Yes … a semi-boring title, but it’s descriptive. I identify various institutions and individuals that played a major role in promoting and/or protecting Mr. Tchividjian, and analyze some of his articles and apology statements. Here are three paragraphs that tie in with a main conclusion, that “grace” as he applies the term consistently involves no taking of responsibility and therefore additional people harmed.

    So, excluding the social media fans/followers [120,000+ on Twitter plus Facebook], there were over 150 individuals in at least 10 institutions who had direct connections with Tullian Tchividjian as his superiors, peers, or subordinates. And yet, it seems nobody could keep Tullian Tchividjian from his two adulterous relationships he has already admitted to (after they were discovered or disclosed), or from his reported predatory/seductive behavior patterns, or from his reported multiple failures to tell the full truth.

    Why? What was happening (or not happening) here with accountability? What dynamics were going on with the individuals and institutions involved, such that someone with what turned out to be such distinctive (in my opinion) patterns of deception, manipulation, and seduction could get by for so many years before his sins were evident?

    […]

    As a sidenote on theological issues, I can’t recall seeing anything from Tullian Tchividjian in any of his statements or quotes about the Holy Spirit as a means of grace in empowering us to resist temptation as prevention and interception. He seems only to emphasize grace and mercy and forgiveness after the factPerhaps others who’ve studied Mr. Tchividjian’s theology more intensively can comment about his views on the Holy Spirit in the life of a Christian. But lack of presence or emphasis on the Holy Spirit’s empowerment does seem to be a pattern in the law/grace/hyper-grace systems. In my thinking, when the Holy Spirit is left out, you have a “closed system” where nothing and no one can break in to stop the cycle of sin-forgive-grace-temptation-sin-[repeat ad infinitum]. So, this kind of irresponsible, unaccountable, and unresponsive pattern of living means anything goes under the banner of grace — which is just as damaging to self and others as is the behavior modification for conformity of the hyper-legalism end of the spectrum.

    dee wrote:

    brad/futuristguy wrote:

    Perhaps others who’ve studied Mr. Tchividjian’s theology more intensively can comment about his views on the Holy Spirit in the life of a Christian. But lack of presence or emphasis on the Holy Spirit’s empowerment does seem to be a pattern in the law/grace/hyper-grace systems.

    Intersting point.

    If everything is predestined, God’s will from the beginning, why do you need a Holy Spirit? Moreover, why do you need Jesus? If God decided before you were born if you are going to heaven or hell, then that a priori knowledge is a salvation in and of itself.

  140. Lydia wrote:

    I have read that, too, in another Rabbinical context somewhere along the way which also included the inheritance tradition, etc, and made me think twice about the meaning. It’s so against the typical Christian interpretation one hesitates to bring it up. You are brave. :o)

    I do think Western Christianity could do with more Rabbinical scholarship as background to what we are reading in the NT.

    Agreed (about Rabbinic scholarship). But it ain’t gonna happen anytime soon. And especially if it’s in conflict with long held paradigms and belief systems in Western Christianity.

  141. @ dee:

    “…I woke up a few hours later and felt an incredible peace and light surrounding me. It was kind of like getting hugged by God if that makes any sense.”
    ++++++++++

    dee, what a moment you describe. I can’t imagine the turmoil you were feeling. How totally awesome that God was as present as you describe.

    (it makes sense to me in that it is shades of what corporate worship can be like — a hug from God to us, from us to God. peace, joy, totally life-giving. but i know this is a totally different topic.)

  142. okrapod wrote:

    Jacob was chosen over Esau while still in the womb. Isaac was chosen by the proclamation of God and announced before Sarah got pregnant with him. How is that faith? Do the unborn and even the not yet conceived have faith?

    Are you suggesting that that God chose Jacob to eternal life and chose Esau to the alternative? The text doesn’t say that and neither does the historical narrative on which it was based. Not all points in an analogy/allegory fit, sometimes it just uses one point of similarity to teach something.

    It says that the elder will serve the younger. Isaac was not chosen for salvation whilst Ishmael was rejected from it – in fact God promised to bless him somewhere in Genesis. The point is that “not done good or bad” means that works are not a factor. Isaac and Jacob picture God’s chosen channel of blessing as opposed to man’s own effort or ancestry. These are the points he is leading to:

    It does not, therefore, depend on human desire or effort, but on God’s mercy (v16).

    What then shall we say? That the Gentiles, who did not pursue righteousness, have obtained it, a righteousness that is by faith; 31 but the people of Israel, who pursued the law as the way of righteousness, have not attained their goal. 32 Why not? Because they pursued it not by faith but as if it were by works. (NIV)

    I would really recommend John Wesley’s commentary on this, he exposits the chapter at length: http://www.biblestudytools.com/commentaries/wesleys-explanatory-notes/romans/romans-9.html

  143. @ dee:
    @ dee:
    That God initiates in all mankind the desire to be ‘saved’ is not something that would mean He also deprives mankind of the ability to choose, to turn towards Him, or to turn away from Him ….

    there is in the heart of every human person a ‘conscience’ that urges them to do what is right …. sometimes severe abuse and evil interventions in a person’s life affect the right working of their conscience, but on the whole, we humans ‘arc’ towards justice and goodness …. even in the darkness we will tend to go towards the Light

    being ‘made in the image of God’ grants that we are made ‘for Him’, but not as ‘robots’ without our own will, no

    He calls us all and He will provide help for those who respond, but He has given us to choose between ‘life’ and ‘death’ and advises us to ‘choose life’

    Now THAT’s a ‘sovereign’ God, one Who went to the greatest lengths possible to save us from ourselves, but we have to ‘come’ to Him, we have to ‘knock’ at the door, we must want the better way, even if all we can do is to crawl towards, or reach out a hand, or to ‘fall forward’ which is all some of us can manage at times:
    going ‘towards the Light’ is our sojourn and ‘salvation’ IS the Name of the Good Way

  144. @ Kemi:

    “If everything is predestined, God’s will from the beginning, why do you need a Holy Spirit? Moreover, why do you need Jesus? If God decided before you were born if you are going to heaven or hell, then that a priori knowledge is a salvation in and of itself.”

    God chooses among the unregenerate whom He will regenerate. He does this by giving them the Holy Spirit. When they are spiritually alive, they choose Jesus. (e.g. John 3:3-8)

    No one receives salvation except by faith in the death and resurrection of Jesus in payment for the penalty of our sins (His Atonement). (e.g. 1 Peter 3:18)

    So each Person of the Trinity has His part to play in salvation.

  145. Former Fundy wrote:

    As far as the environment of legalism in neo-Calvinist churches, I’ve been convinced lately that neo-Calvinists just have a different set of rules from the fundamentalism that I left behind.

    I disagree that they are just a new kind of fundamentalist, as they not only rewrite the Bible as they see fit while leaving out large portions of it, but they minimize Christ to a large degree. They not only minimize Christ in their theology of the eternal subordination of the Son, and do so just to put themselves in the place of God the Father on earth, but they also just don’t talk about Christ except as a sacrificial lamb. Their “bible” basically is the Old Testament and a few Pauline verses in the New Testament. I would argue they are not even Christians. While many fundamentalists have a rigid view of the Bible, and are very legalistic (and miss the many points in the New Testament about our freedom in Christ), I believe they still hold a high view of Christ, His ministry, and His death and resurrection.

    I do think the neo-Cals are very good at hiding the fact that they aren’t Christians. They use much of the same vocabulary as fundamentalists, but they’ve attached wholly different meanings to those words. And I think it’d be really hard to notice that they just don’t talk about Christ or anything from the gospels if you weren’t looking for it. The leaders know Christianity well, and what appeals to the type of members they want. I’m not even sure some of the leaders believe what neo-Cals believe, but they use it to get power and money for themselves like con-men.

  146. okrapod wrote:

    She says it is about counting, that is to say a man who had two sons and forgot he had two while doting on only one.

    ‘She’ being Amy Jill Levine.

    But how DOES the ‘inheritance’ theme show up in the parable? One way to see it is as a lesson in grace being ‘unearned’, because that grace is not a commodity to be exchanged economically, no …. it is something so much more than that that it defies our human ability to comprehend …. does the parable help explain it? I think it does:

    ‘slaving’ for his father, trying to ‘earn’ his father’s affection? The older son didn’t understand that was not how to gain the love of his father; he didn’t understand that his father’s love was always there for him, not something to be ‘gained’ in a trade-off as in getting something in exchange for something else

    The parable is about grace, not about ‘inheritance’; but it uses the inheritance theme to explain the concept of grace as coming to those whose humility has made room for it ….. the younger son took his ‘share’ and no longer needed his father and went out into ‘the great empty’ and having squandered his material wealth, found a greater treasure in reaching a state of humility being empties of pride …. and being desperate and hungry, he chose to go back to his father with the hope to work in exchange for some food ….

    I think we know the power of this story, if we have EVER received ‘grace’ as gift from God, at a moment in our lives when we were bereft and in great need of comfort …. I think we will ALL of us at some point in our lives come to understand what the prodigal was taught, yes

  147. dee wrote:

    danci

    dee wrote:

    Ian wrote:
    There must be things which amount to sin. In the examples quoted, there have to be types of dancing, certain movies, and styles of dress which are off-limits for a Christian.
    I think those things are outlined in Scripture. One has to be careful in imposing one’s set of standards on how that is lived out. For example, what constitutes acceptable dress varies from cutter to culture.
    For example, some cultures coverup the female form under long dresses and head coverings. Others see no issue with skimpy dress. Just look at the beaches in the Middle East and compare them to the beaches of Brazil. Can you truly say one is godly and on is not?
    Some believe that women should only way “female” clothes. I am one who almost always wear pants and leggings albeit cute pants and leggings.
    Ian wrote:
    there also has to be a place for the church teaching on matters of conduct and lifestyle.
    This is a most difficult problem. Do you want to be the one to determine which R rated movies one can see? Do we really need lectures on not attending adult porno film festivals?
    Sovereign Grace Ministries, according to attendees, used to say how many buttons needed to be buttoned on a woman’s shirt. They even allegedly said that women should not wear cross body purses since they emphasized the breasts. Seriously? Women have breasts-get over it. Cross body purses are convenient for shopping and leaving hands free.
    I wold not want to be the one in charge of making up these rules. Would you?

    Hi Dee,

    The more “fundamentalist” groups do say that their views come from scripture – for example that God has created men and women differently, they should therefore dress differently, and the trend towards unisex dressing (ie women wearing pants!) comes from the world rejecting God’s design. Needless to say I disagree.

    And I obviously totally agree with you that cultural values play a huge part in this incredibly difficult area. The extent to which we should conform to the norms of both the local Christian community and the wider society is an interesting one.

    But isn’t it interesting how so much of this stuff is all about men making rules for women. Whether it’s ayatollahs in Tehran or SGM pastors in Louisville (!), the desire of men to control, subjugate, oppress, and even abuse women is clear for all to see.

  148. @ dee:

    Dee, my point in the analogy was not desire but inability. No one is ABLE to come to Jesus unless drawn to Him by the Father. The questions that should be asked are “why is a person not able?” And “what must change?” The natural man is a slave. For freedom Christ has set us free. He gives us a new nature. We do not change God’s mind. Rather God changes our mind. The gospel that Jesus taught was repent and believe. Repentance is an act of the will. And repentance somehow must be granted by God. He replaces our stony heart with a heart of flesh.

    Have you read Luther’s Bondage of the Will? Luther himself considered it to be his best writing.

  149. @ ZechZav:

    No, I am saying that the prophesies about those children at the time of their birth had nothing to do with ‘eternal life’ that being something that somebody has read into the story from a Christian perspective.

    Christianity reads a lot into OT stories. Whether or not Christianity is correct in doing that is a totally different question.

  150. @ ishy:

    It may sound harsh and even unloving, but I completely agree with your assessment of Neo-Calvinists.

  151. ishy wrote:

    the eternal subordination of the Son,

    This (perspective) is a raging debate right now in Calvinist circles, largely promoted by passages in the ESV supposedly mistranslated by Grudem, et al and reinforced by The Council on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood (I think it is called). This complementarian organization may now be defunct or at least discredited by the likes of Byrd, Pruitt, and Truman.) Wartburg Watch has commented on this topic.

  152. @ Christiane:

    What you have said, of course, is the traditional Christian understanding of the parable. What Amy-Jill is saying is the parable from a Jewish perspective.

    This issue between the Christian perspective on things and the Jewish perspective on things has been with us for a couple thousand years now and IMO will not go away. If you listen to why the Jews think that Jesus was just another failed messiah there is that to contrast with the Christian perspective.

    And then, of course there is the controversy about whether the young girl/ virgin prophesy in Isaiah was a messianic prophecy.

    People can and do get all hot and bothered about the fact that there are different ideas in play if they choose to do that, but I do not plan to let that deter me from listening to both perspectives. Especially since Israel is about to move center stage in certain world events right now. For example, what people do or do not think about Jerusalem, and who puts what embassy where for example, is quickly becoming as important to world events as it was during the crusades. IMO, we have to listen to these people, understand what they are saying, and all the while be as cool and collected as possible about it all.

    And if I understand (and I probably do not) what your current pope is saying about both Jews and Muslims is quite consistent with listening even when disagreeing. And I think you said that he said that you all would not be trying to convert them? So, I listen.

    But I do see how intensely some people feel about all this.

  153. Kemi wrote:

    If everything is predestined, God’s will from the beginning, why do you need a Holy Spirit?

    According to Tullian from his book quote above in the thread, the Holy spirit preaches the Gospel to you daily.

  154. ishy wrote:

    While many fundamentalists have a rigid view of the Bible, and are very legalistic (and miss the many points in the New Testament about our freedom in Christ), I believe they still hold a high view of Christ, His ministry, and His death and resurrection.

    That was my observation of baptist fundamentalism back in the day during my own close encounter with baptist fundamentalism. It was about much much more than just the pseudo-holiness rules and degrees of separation. I think that traditional baptist fundamentalists have been some of the most misunderstood people in this whole dust-up.

    In fact, if you read much on how to rear children who are ‘successful’ some of it almost sounds like religious fundamentalism what with extremely limited electronics time, hours of study/practice, choice of friends and schools and such. They both are saying program the brain and make certain disciplines habitual.

  155. okrapod wrote:

    This issue between the Christian perspective on things and the Jewish perspective on things has been with us for a couple thousand years now and IMO will not go away. If you listen to why the Jews think that Jesus was just another failed messiah there is that to contrast with the Christian perspective.

    There is another reason which includes what you mentioned earlier about Western Christianity reading into the OT. Some of that is the same for NT. It has more to do with understanding Hebrew practive and thinking than whether Jesus is Messiah, IMO. It’s as if suddenly in the NT all the Jews stopped being Jewish.

    Historically Western Christianity persecuted the Jews. The state church put them in ghettos, drove them out of nations and worse. The last thing the princes of the church were doing is seeking Hebrew understanding for translations or interpretations. A quick glaring example is the Christmas story and ‘no room at the inn” meaning.

    Another perspective is that much of Augustine’s doctrines would never have taken such root with a better understanding of the God of Abraham. Neither would Calvin or Luther and their various forms of determinism and fatalism.

  156. dee wrote:

    Former Fundy wrote:

    They’ve managed to throw off the weird rules about Bible versions, music, and dress . .

    Well, they are pretty big into the ESV. Boy do they ever have rulesThat is why I read TGC website every day to see what they have come up with now. The lice example was posted just a few days ago.

    Wait…the lice example? If that’s not a typo, I’ll have to investigate. I’ve been recently dealing with the little buggers on young scalps.

  157. @ Dale:
    If you are unable how do you know when you have been forced to be able? Since you are “unable”, how can you know?

    Dualism.

  158. For of His fullness we have all received, and grace upon grace.
    John 1:16 NASB

    Like George Muller, though a thief in his youth, became a benefactor of thousands, pulling orphans off the streets of England, and providing for them a new life. Muller died with the clothes on his back and a legacy of God’s grace to him and what he did for others.

  159. Lydia wrote:

    The last thing the princes of the church were doing is seeking Hebrew understanding for translations or interpretations. A quick glaring example is the Christmas story and ‘no room at the inn” meaning.

    I have not heard about the no room at the inn meaning. What’s that?

  160. Lydia wrote:

    The last thing the princes of the church were doing is seeking Hebrew understanding for translations or interpretations. A quick glaring example is the Christmas story and ‘no room at the inn” meaning.

    I saw this over the holidays and it seemed very strange.

  161. Lydia wrote:

    If you are unable how do you know when you have been forced to be able? Since you are “unable”, how can you know?

    I asked my parents that. I won’t tell the story again but I had the idea that God tapped some people for salvation but apparently not others. My parents kept telling me I was too young to understand (OK) and that when it was my time to understand (OK) then I would know (what??) But they never said how I would know or what exactly I would know or how I would recognize knowing if I saw it. I figured they did not know either or else it was some great secret.

    Is it any wonder to anybody that I question so much stuff. I was trained from diapers in systems which had insufficient answers even for children. And trained that way by a parent who was fluent in Greek and had an introductory knowledge of Hebrew, who was a baptist lay bible teacher, and who himself had more questions than answers.

    Which is one religious crisis that people can spare children with paedobaptism. Of course, the theology of all that needs considered.

  162. Lydia wrote:

    According to Tullian from his book quote above in the thread, the Holy spirit preaches the Gospel to you daily.

    Heehee. Whose/what “gospel,” and why? My. Word. “ProgJust” silliness?

  163. okrapod wrote:

    For instance, did Matthew who did grouping ever say that the reader should understand that not only the content itself had meaning but also there was another layer of meaning in how they were grouped. I know people do assume that-the lost coin, the lost son, the lost whatever-but I do not see where the gospel authors said that themselves.

    And matthew was writing later, and some thing his focus was on writing to the gentiles, iirc. So it’s interesting to compare his stuff (like the genealogy) to Luke’s…they have a different focus.

  164. And the new birth is a good thing. To equate it with God “forcing us to do something against our will” is to misunderstand grace. Praise God that He changed me from a blasphemous rebel into a devoted follower. There is no way a believer should say “How dare you change me!” to God.

  165. @ okrapod:
    Jewish practice. There is no way people of their tribe would turn them away and in the City of David! The design of most dwellings had a part of the space for the protection of animals. IOW, they made room. There is a lot more detail but I don’t have it in front of me. There is also some interesting information on the translation of “inn” which changes the perspective.

    Some translations have changed it to ‘no guest room’ available. That misses the point, too. As if there were guest rooms. :o) I won’t even get into the practice of childbirth.

    My thinking is subsequent translators did not understand Jewish practice/tradition.

  166. Lea wrote:

    And matthew was writing later, and some thing his focus was on writing to the gentiles, iirc. So it’s interesting to compare his stuff (like the genealogy) to Luke’s…they have a different focus.

    Comparing ‘adds’ to our understanding when something is examined from different perspectives and observations shared, yes.

    The problems come when people are unable to accept that their point of view is not the only perspective and that no one else but themselves has anything worth contributing to the understanding of what is being observed. The conversation then moves from a ‘dialogue’ into a ‘debate’ with a ‘winner’ and a ‘loser’ and the only real winner becomes the laws of dichotomy and dualism.

    Good thing the Body of Christ is not like that, but rather a gathering of people contributing their part to the whole, to build it up. Each person has something special to give that no one else can, and so it is said that ‘all are needed’ and that ‘no one is dispensible’.

    It’s kind of like that saying:
    ‘you can fool all of the people some of the time’ and ‘you can fool some of the people all of the time’
    but
    ‘you can’t fool all of the people all of the time’.

    There is a strength in the community of Christian people and in their collective wisdom which comes when they share their thoughts and their observations together ….. in time, if they have good will towards one another, and if they have called on the power of the Holy Spirit for guidance, some good will come , and the light is increased.

  167. @ okrapod:
    But isn’t it simple in some ways? You decided to believe at some point without all the questions answered.

    Dale is claiming he cannot (unable) respond or even think and choose to decide. God had to make him believe and when to do that in his life– since he was chosen even before God created the earth.

    I don’t see a big upside to padeo-baptism in this regard. The priest announces the baby’s salvation by means of church membership. Very 9 Marks in a way except with adults.

  168. ishy wrote:

    While many fundamentalists have a rigid view of the Bible, and are very legalistic (and miss the many points in the New Testament about our freedom in Christ), I believe they still hold a high view of Christ, His ministry, and His death and resurrection.

    I think that’s quite accurate – it’s a good description of many of the older people in the Baptist church of my youth. I think this approach was dominant until quite recently, and it’s still present to varying extents in most branches of evangelicalism.

    But we also have to acknowledge, as you rightly do, that these people are devout Christians who seek to please God in all areas of their lives. They are brother and sisters in the Lord and we must always love and honour them, even when we disagree.

  169. okrapod wrote:

    My parents kept telling me I was too young to understand (OK) and that when it was my time to understand (OK) then I would know (what??) But they never said how I would know or what exactly I would know or how I would recognize knowing if I saw it.

    Okra, that sounds like parents giving you “the sex talk”.

  170. One moment the thief on the cross is mocking Jesus. The next he is defending Jesus. His chooser was replaced. What he despised, he now cherished.

  171. Rhonda Montgomery wrote:

    ishy wrote:
    the eternal subordination of the Son,
    This (perspective) is a raging debate right now in Calvinist circles, largely promoted by passages in the ESV supposedly mistranslated by Grudem, et al and reinforced by The Council on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood (I think it is called). This complementarian organization may now be defunct or at least discredited by the likes of Byrd, Pruitt, and Truman.) Wartburg Watch has commented on this topic.

    It is still the accepted view of neo-Calvinists. There’s been no retraction of that belief on their side, and they still promote it. Even those like Mohler are hesitant to refute it. While they did back off on their silly “permanent” ESV, they have not backed off on the ESS theology.

    Evangelicals consider it discredited, but as I said, I do not consider neo-Calvinists Christians. They don’t make decisions based on other Calvinists or evangelicals.

  172. @ Dale:
    I fail to see any difference when it comes to inability. I have had these type convos for so long living at YRR ground zero, I should probably back out now before compatablism is brought up. :o)

  173. Dale wrote:

    One moment the thief on the cross is mocking Jesus. The next he is defending Jesus. His chooser was replaced. What he despised, he now cherished.

    I don’t understand this, Dale. Which thief are you talking about? St. Dismas?

  174. Lydia wrote:

    Debaters are not in the body of Christ!

    HA! That cracked me up.

    I have found in life that some people are capable of having intense roaring debates without ever truly being angry. And some are not.

  175. Lydia wrote:

    Kemi wrote:

    If everything is predestined, God’s will from the beginning, why do you need a Holy Spirit?

    According to Tullian from his book quote above in the thread, the Holy spirit preaches the Gospel to you daily.

    But why? According to them I have no personal agency. If God has already decided whether or not I’m going to heaven, why does the Holy Spirit have to be involved at all?

    And Why set up a system with a double confirmations? I’m either chosen or not before the foundations of the earth (according to them) why then in my predestined life does the Holy Spirit or Jesus have to do anything?

  176. ZechZav wrote:

    I think many Calvinists are so hung up about “God’s glory” and “God’s sovereignty” that they ignore his other attributes. I believe that God has all power and authority but the Bible also tells us that God is love, that he is just and that he is faithful and true.

    I think a natural human tendency is to go to extremes. We see it in how people view God. Calvinists are often fixated on the sovereignty of God, which means they don’t have to worry about contradictory concepts. I take the view that there is a tension presented in the Bible between the sovereignty of God and the free will of man. We have to struggle with this and accept that we can never fully understand it.

  177. Christiane wrote:

    Good thing the Body of Christ is not like that, but rather a gathering of people contributing their part to the whole, to build it up.

    Dialogue is collaborative; cooperative; multiple sides work toward a shared understanding.

    Debate is competitive and/or oppositional; two (or more) opposing sides try to prove each other wrong.

    Which one offers the most positive opportunity to build up the Body of Christ, when people are comparing their observations from their various points of view?

    Debate offers contrasts, but not shared ideas
    Dialogue offers areas of mutual understanding which affirm important differences in a respectful way, and also discover and state mutual shared ideas.

    The question I raise is what is the optimum way for people within the Body of Christ to bring their varied perspectives together for examination and mutual benefit? 🙂

    For some folks, I guess honest debate would be a step up from their ‘normal’, but there are other options that may, in the context of the Body of Christ, offer more to the Church and I suggest that DIALOGUE is such an option.

  178. Christiane wrote:

    I don’t understand this, Dale. Which thief are you talking about? St. Dismas?

    Mark 15:32 – “Those who were crucified with Him were also insulting Him.”
    Then, we read in Luke of one of the thieves, whom you call Dismas, having a “change of heart”!

  179. @ Christiane:

    I have no idea why you decided to go on a debate/dialogue rant because I mentioned Matthew and Luke, but I don’t agree. Sometimes you have different perspectives and debating it can be a very useful way of exploring a topic fully. We aren’t all going to have ‘shared’ ideas on every issue. Sometimes we are just going to disagree and that’s ok. Nothing about debating is going to be likely to reduce the amount of understanding we get on someone else’s perspective.

  180. Dale wrote:

    Mark 15:32 – “Those who were crucified with Him were also insulting Him.”
    Then, we read in Luke of one of the thieves, whom you call Dismas, having a “change of heart”!

    Perhaps the second thief also had a change of heart. The scripture doesn’t say how he reacted to his friend’s rebuke.

  181. NC Now wrote:

    (dee) The old time Baptist who had rules about dancing, movies, and dress codes

    (me) I find all this a difficult concept. There must be things which amount to sin. In the examples quoted, there have to be types of dancing, certain movies, and styles of dress which are off-limits for a Christian. So, to chose a non-contentious subject, I can’t imagine any Christian saying it’s OK to watch porn. But there are obviously lots of things which are more debatable – eg nudity and sex scenes in regular movies, violence, bad language, etc. Where do we draw the line? There has be a place for freedom of conscience – people deciding what is right and wrong for them – but there also has to be a place for the church teaching on matters of conduct and lifestyle.

    (me) In case people are wondering, I did grow up in a Baptist church, yes, an English one, but still Baptist

    (Now NC) Ahem. These are things that SOUTHERN Baptists had/have a rules. We somethings assume all Baptists are SBC, well, because if you’re not then you’re not really …
    Card playing is also on the list. Luck is depending on the devil to bring you good fortune. (Maybe playing Poker is ok, since many call it a game of skill. At least draw poker.)
    In the 60s don’t mow your yard or rake your leaves on Sunday.
    My wife and I know people who have stated that a good Christian will not watch an R rated movie. Because we all know the MPAA applies good Christian values in determining their rating.
    Rules make life easy. You don’t have to think. Nuff said.

    Now NC,

    I’m fully aware that Baptists are a diverse bunch, the SBC isn’t the only US Baptist group, and the picture of the average Baptist as someone who doesn’t drink, dance, or play cards, is nothing more that a stereotype.

    All I was trying to say, in a slightly humorous fashion, is that spending your formative years in a fairly conservative church does have a lasting influence on you, for better or worse. This may come across in my comments…

  182. Lea wrote:

    We aren’t all going to have ‘shared’ ideas on every issue. Sometimes we are just going to disagree and that’s ok. Nothing about debating is going to be likely to reduce the amount of understanding we get on someone else’s perspective.

    You are right in that ‘dialogue’ only is a superior way of arriving at understanding IF the participants are of good will and have respect for one another.

    Among people who have contempt for the ones they are communicating with, the ‘dialogue’ pattern is likely not going to work out at all.

    But nothing ventured ….. 🙂

    I was trained in formal debate in Catholic school. And a part of that training was to prepare for a ‘side’ and then at the last minute, the nun in charge would take our cards from us and ‘switch’ them with our ‘opponents’ cards, give us another fifteen minutes to prep, and then we had to defend the opposite point of view. Good training. Taught us a lot about the limitations of the debate format as well as its strengths. This training was in our civics class.

  183. @ Christiane:
    I understand your perspective. You come from a tradition that believes a mere human Pope is infallible, the Vicar of Christ and knows God’s will for the collective.

    The winner or loser in a debate is not by force or sugary syrup but ideas, facts, reason, etc. And besides, these days all debaters declare victory so it is a moot point. :o)

    Btw, I am the reigning queen of consensus. I spent most of my career facilitating it with groups. It is nice sometimes to simply disagree without being labeled. Oh if that were only possible these days.

  184. Dale wrote:

    Dale wrote:

    Mark 15:32 – “Those who were crucified with Him were also insulting Him.”
    Then, we read in Luke of one of the thieves, whom you call Dismas, having a “change of heart”!

    Perhaps the second thief also had a change of heart. The scripture doesn’t say how he reacted to his friend’s rebuke.

    Thanks, DALE
    yes, I see it. The change is also noted in the Holy Gospel of St. Matthew, and the Holy Gospel of St. Luke.
    You may be right about the ‘bad thief’ changing also, and we leave him to the mercy of God, yes, with the hope that he did come also to be affected by his proximity to the Presence of Our Lord. The Gospels also note how the centurion and those who crucified Our Lord were changed by Christ’s Presence, ‘course the earthquake helped a bit there also 🙂 ….
    “Now the centurion, and those who were with him keeping guard over Jesus, when they saw the earthquake and the things that were happening, became very frightened and said, “Truly this was the Son of God!”
    (St. Matthew 27:54)

  185. @ Dale:

    When one reads the descriptions of the trial and execution of Jesus one cannot help to notice significant discrepancies in the ways the story is told.

    So, one can say that these were first person accounts and observer differences are notorious including in courtroom testimony, or so I am told. That position has been made.

    Or, one can say that the story is told from different points of view. For example was Jesus silent before his accusers or did he reply to the Sanhedrin and to Pilate, and is the emphasis on silence in one narrative in order to relate it to one prophecy (the lamb dumb before his shearers) or not-that sort of thing. That position has been made.

    But one also has to ask where did the information come from if all the disciples except John fled and in fact were not personal observers of the events themselves. And if these are not first person accounts, and certainly Luke says his entire gospel was from research, how much importance one way or the other is actually to be attached to the details.

    Bart Ehrman makes a good point I think in saying that in concocting some harmony of the gospel stories people are actually writing the gospel according to themselves and are missing the diverse messages of the individual gospels.

  186. @ Christiane
    @ Lydia

    I am all for dialogue during the information gathering process. We absolutely have to hear and understand the other person’s position. But I am also all for debate during the decision making process if we are talking about law or religion or science or anything else for which there in fact may be some true or truer answers and some false or falser answers and when the decisions actually impact people’s lives.

    In the classroom ResidentEducator uses the dialogue method. In the courtroom ResidentProsecutor and his opponent put it all to the test as adversaries. Both approaches have their time and place.

  187. Lydia wrote:

    ” … consensus … It is nice sometimes to simply disagree without being labeled.”

    Within SBC ranks, national leadership has called for “unity” within the SBC on the issue of Calvinism. Southern Baptists have been challenged to agree to disagree, get along to go along, and allow theological diversity under one big tent … in order to protect the denomination from division. This debate has been raging for a number of years, in which arguing about theology has darn near replaced preaching the Gospel! After years of listening to this theological wrangling, I’m still left with the heart of the problem for me … can two distinctly different views of God’s plan of salvation ‘really’ coexist in a single denomination?! Regardless of where Al Mohler places “salvation” in his theological triage, that is essential doctrine for me which cannot be skipped over in the name of unity. It makes a difference to a lost world on who gets to define evangelism and mission going forward. And it makes a huge difference to the Kingdom of God on if/how Southern Baptists will fit in future years. This “debate” is significant!

  188. Ian wrote:

    I take the view that there is a tension presented in the Bible between the sovereignty of God and the free will of man. We have to struggle with this and accept that we can never fully understand it.

    There is much tension in the Bible. Think about the concept of the Trinity. Can we ever truly understand it or do we merely apprehend it? I am on the apprehend side of things. the Bible gives us enough to know what we don’t know.

  189. Max wrote:

    Within SBC ranks, national leadership has called for “unity” within the SBC on the issue of Calvinism. Southern Baptists have been challenged to agree to disagree, get along to go along, and allow theological diversity under one big tent … in order to protect the denomination from division.

    And also, I suspect, as a silencing tactic so they can continue the forced conversion of SBC churches to neo-Calvinist. While I think discussion and collaboration are important, sometimes you have to stand up for what you believe in and disagree, if even for both sides to be heard by third parties.

  190. Ian wrote:

    I take the view that there is a tension presented in the Bible between the sovereignty of God and the free will of man. We have to struggle with this and accept that we can never fully understand it.

    Scripture speaks a lot about God’s sovereignty. Scripture speaks a lot about man’s free will. It all works together in a way that is beyond human comprehension. To attempt to put the mind of God into a neat theological box through systems and doctrines (e.g., New Calvinism) is to stand in arrogance before Holy God.

  191. Dale wrote:

    God doesn’t force. He replaces. He births us anew.

    It does force is to change. It is irresistible grace. I agree that Calvinist theology believes that such a force is a good and the recipient is grateful. The person being regenerated has absolutely no choice in the matter since they are unable to even eat it to happen. There is no will of the recipient involved in the whole process.

    Look at the person who wishes to commit suicide. It is the role of police to stop someone from doing this. The person is unhappy that their will was thwarted. With good counseling, they, hopefully, will be glad that they were stopped.However, it was a forceable stop

  192. NJ wrote:

    he lice example? If that’s not a typo, I’ll have to investigate. I’ve been recently dealing with the little buggers on young scalps.

    God wanted your kids to have lice. My kids had this happen one time when they were very little and I do not think God caused it.

  193. ishy wrote:

    And also, I suspect, as a silencing tactic so they can continue the forced conversion of SBC churches to neo-Calvinist. While I think discussion and collaboration are important, sometimes you have to stand up for what you believe in and disagree, if even for both sides to be heard by third parties.

    Amen! The New Calvinists are using the high road of unity (via false humility) as a low road to accomplish their mission. The SBC non-Calvinst majority does not have strong enough leadership to knock Gen. Mohler and his lieutenants off the hill they have taken.

  194. Ian wrote:

    David, that is curious because all the Calvinists I’ve ever known stress the sovereignty of God and the doctrine of election. In other words, they would always say that no-one gets to chose their eternal destiny – it is determined for them by God.

    They do say that, and also going to hell is the default destination of everyone unless chosen for salvation.

  195. dee wrote:

    Think about the concept of the Trinity. Can we ever truly understand it or do we merely apprehend it?

    Or, in the case of the “Trinity”, have humans simply tried to put understanding and verbage around something that they do not understand, but simply think they do? The worst part about this is that people will divide over beliefs on “Trinity,” a word never uttered by God, Jesus, or the Holy Spirit. I often wonder if God laughs at our attempts to wrangle Him in.

  196. Dale wrote:

    No one is ABLE to come to Jesus

    It depends on what you mean by *able.* Once again, I believe that we can want to come to Jesus. I believe God has put this into our very being because he created us in his image.

    However, wanting is not the same thing as coming. I disagree that mankind cannot want in spite of Luther’s presentation. It is perfectly logical to believe that God could created us with this *possibility of want.* You take a different view which states that God *would not* do this. I say he can do this. I believe that this is necessary in order to create the tension between free will and God’s sovereignty.

    I believe that the work of the Holy Spirit in our lives is an example of this. The Holy Spirit does not force us to obey. It encourages us We live with the tension of our want to obey and our inability not to fully obey.

    For those who are concerned with this let me clarify. I believe that pedophiles, substance abusers, etc. can, with the work of the Holy Spirit, the punishment of society, the help of professionals and the encouragement of the church can control these urges.

    But, I do not believe that we can become sinless in this life. We are positionally holy in the eye of God thru Jesus yet we are functionally sinners still.

    It is important to emphasize that I do not believe that we can save ourselves. The want to be save and actually being saved are tow completely different things. Arminians DO NOT believe that they can save themselves in spite of the best effort of Calvinists to say that we do.

  197. @ dee:

    I cannot tell the details because I do no know who may be reading this, but it is a lice story. At one point in time we were having a serious and really serious intra-family problem regarding some of the children. We prayed earnestly that God would do something-intervene or whatever. Then one came home from school with lice which spread to the entire family in lightning speed. Everybody else ran like scared rabbits and during that time people cooled off and make reasonable compromises and everything got straightened out. We say that God answered our prayer with one of the plagues of Egypt, and it has become now a traditional family saying. We have a problem? Somebody will say be careful what you pray for unless you are good with one of the plagues of Egypt.

  198. @ Boston Lady:
    Gotcha. I recently saw an article in which a Calvinista has become an assistant pastor of Tremont Temple which is across the street from Park Street Church. I would love to hear from someone who is attending that church to see if there have been major changes.

  199. Max wrote:

    Lydia wrote:

    ” … consensus … It is nice sometimes to simply disagree without being labeled.”

    Within SBC ranks, national leadership has called for “unity” within the SBC on the issue of Calvinism. Southern Baptists have been challenged to agree to disagree, get along to go along, and allow theological diversity under one big tent … in order to protect the denomination from division. This debate has been raging for a number of years, in which arguing about theology has darn near replaced preaching the Gospel! After years of listening to this theological wrangling, I’m still left with the heart of the problem for me … can two distinctly different views of God’s plan of salvation ‘really’ coexist in a single denomination?! Regardless of where Al Mohler places “salvation” in his theological triage, that is essential doctrine for me which cannot be skipped over in the name of unity. It makes a difference to a lost world on who gets to define evangelism and mission going forward. And it makes a huge difference to the Kingdom of God on if/how Southern Baptists will fit in future years. This “debate” is significant!

    Correct me if I’m wrong but wasn’t the CBF formed initial as a group of like minded moderate Baptist within the SBC in the late 80’s whose goal it was to
    try and work out differences with the fundamentalist to keep unity in the SBC? If so, I don’t think that worked out so well either.

  200. Lane wrote:

    @ Lane:
    News to me that I’m know in Canada. Didn’t realize Canada annexed the USA. lol

    know —-> now

  201. Lane wrote:

    Correct me if I’m wrong but wasn’t the CBF formed initial as a group of like minded moderate Baptist within the SBC in the late 80’s whose goal it was to
    try and work out differences with the fundamentalist to keep unity in the SBC? If so, I don’t think that worked out so well

    How can anything work when men are subversive about their intents?

  202. dee wrote:

    David wrote:
    It is their fault because they choose to go there.
    I really liked how you structured your comment. For a long time, I would argue that predestination in regards to heaven was also predestination to hell. I would have Calvinists spin circles telling me that I was wrong since they chose to go there. So, I would bite my tongue. However, Roger Olson and the Arminian Society has helped me to understand that my argument is not stupid and that I understand the difficulty in the debate.

    I believe the explanation goes something like this: It is our nature to indulge sinful thoughts/actions, therefore we (subconciously?) desire to go to hell. It is our default destiny.

    I kinda get the reasoning, but I don’t quite agree with the conclusion. That’s because the vast majority of humans are religious. They know there is something bigger than themselves and that they attempt (some better than others) to follow a code of ethics and morality in hopes of a better life and a better eternity. Most, however, follow false religions which teach works righteousness and not salvation (only) by grace through (only) faith in Jesus Christ. They’ve either not heard of Christ, or reject Him for various cultural or intellectual reasons (ultimately by default from being a sinful human without the benefit of God’s irresistable grace). While they’re alive on earth, they benefit from “Common Grace” but in death, they suffer torment in hell for eternity.

    “You think that’s unfair?” the Reformed theologian, pastor or elder will say, eyes bulging in utter disbelief. If you nod in the affirmative, you get the father of all lectures about how everyone ultimately deserves to go to hell. 😛

  203. Ken F wrote:

    That verse does not say that we have a sin nature. It says that we are sinners.

    I’m convinced that while Adam was the first sinner (Romans 5), the result of generations of sinners was the exit from the garden of Eden. The entire passage of repercussions in Gen. 3 foretold the negative, adverse conditions that would ensue outside of the garden. The garden was a specially designed haven for the first couple where God walked and talked with them in a fellowship that was not available afterward in the same spiritual way.

    That happens when one is born again of the spirit and again in Revelation when God will once again dwell with mankind in the new earth as He did in Eden.

    The sending out of the garden is an epic event that is treated lightly imho as to the condition of life outside that venue.

    I’m focused on the inauguration at the moment so I hope I conveyed that kinda clearly. 🙂

  204. Bridget wrote:

    Lane wrote:

    Correct me if I’m wrong but wasn’t the CBF formed initial as a group of like minded moderate Baptist within the SBC in the late 80’s whose goal it was to
    try and work out differences with the fundamentalist to keep unity in the SBC? If so, I don’t think that worked out so well

    How can anything work when men are subversive about their intents?

    My thoughts exactly!

  205. Dale wrote:

    No one is ABLE to come to Jesus unless drawn to Him by the Father.

    Mat 7:7  “Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. 
    Mat 7:8  “For everyone who asks receives, and he who seeks finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened. 

  206. Nancy2 wrote:

    Does God ordain abortion on demand, too? What’s the diff?

    @ elastigirl:

    Let me try to explain this so you can see where they are coming from and why they think Arminians have a problem.

    I am going to assume that you all understand that there is a difference between allowing us to choose the consequence our actions (The Fall) and God making it happen in a specific way.

    I argue, regarding salvation: that if God has the capacity to save everybody and he chooses people to save not based on anything they have done then God is unfair and callous since one cannot choose fo or even want God due to their total depravity.

    I believe that Calvinists would argue that, if God is able to stop sin and suffering and chooses not to so, then He is a callous God. Therefore, he must a reason for everything that occurs and that we will understand this in heaven.

    I do not buy this perspective but I get it.

  207. dee wrote:

    There is no will of the recipient involved in the whole process.

    This is not what Calvinists teach, Dee. Unless you mean by “process” only the initiation of the quickening of the Holy Spirit. But quickening is not a process, it is an event. I like the way Tozer describes the process. It is akin to childbirth. The Holy Spirit’s quickening is an event, much like conception. We take no part in this event. The actual birth is a process – a gestation period. At the end of this process, be are born. We use our will to choose to repent and believe. So, yes we are intimately involved in the process of conversion. We use our will and choose. We just don’t initiate the process.

    Unlike MacArthur, Tozer did not believe that we are quickened by the Word. Quickening is not through a mediator. It is instantaneous and is the direct work of the Holy Spirit of God. This corresponds well with the parable of the soils.

    Catholicism also teaches that this quickening is all of grace and is an event – it occurs at baptism. But in Catholicism, the grace of quickening can be lost.

    The event of quickening is what is alluded to in John 1:13. Born from above. Not by the will of man, but of God.

  208. Victorious wrote:

    ’m focused on the inauguration at the moment so I hope I conveyed that kinda clearly.

    I just watched Michelle Obama come down those steps being her usual beautiful and elegant self, even smiling and chatting. Strength and poise.

  209. Dale wrote:

    The Holy Spirit’s quickening is an event, much like conception. We take no part in this event.

    I also do not think that we experience this event (quickening) in the manner of a “sensation.” So it is unlikely for someone to know when this event occurred (unless you are Catholic and believe it happened via baptism). I look back at the process of my conversion and I recognize the work of the Holy Spirit preparing me for the day when I would choose to repent and believe.

  210. ishy wrote:

    Max wrote:

    Within SBC ranks, national leadership has called for “unity” within the SBC on the issue of Calvinism. Southern Baptists have been challenged to agree to disagree, get along to go along, and allow theological diversity under one big tent … in order to protect the denomination from division.

    And also, I suspect, as a silencing tactic so they can continue the forced conversion of SBC churches to neo-Calvinist. While I think discussion and collaboration are important, sometimes you have to stand up for what you believe in and disagree, if even for both sides to be heard by third parties.

    Yes, unity often means conformity.

  211. @ Max:
    And it became politically incorrect to disagree. False unity based upon the arbiters of correct speech.

  212. Victorious wrote:

    The entire passage of repercussions in Gen. 3 foretold the negative, adverse conditions that would ensue outside of the garden. The garden was a specially designed haven for the first couple where God walked and talked with them in a fellowship that was not available afterward in the same spiritual way.

    I have read this from the allegorical perspective of relationahip with God and think it is worth considering.

  213. Max wrote:

    Within SBC ranks, national leadership has called for “unity” within the SBC on the issue of Calvinism. Southern Baptists have been challenged to agree to disagree, get along to go along, and allow theological diversity under one big tent … in order to protect the denomination from division. This debate has been raging for a number of years, in which arguing about theology has darn near replaced preaching the Gospel! After years of listening to this theological wrangling, I’m still left with the heart of the problem for me … can two distinctly different views of God’s plan of salvation ‘really’ coexist in a single denomination?! Regardless of where Al Mohler places “salvation” in his theological triage, that is essential doctrine for me which cannot be skipped over in the name of unity. It makes a difference to a lost world on who gets to define evangelism and mission going forward. And it makes a huge difference to the Kingdom of God on if/how Southern Baptists will fit in future years. This “debate” is significant!

    Max, remember the disagreement is not about salvation – Calvinists and Arminians both teach that people have to believe in Jesus to be saved, and they both support evangelism. The dispute is over the precise role of God and man in the way someone comes to faith.

    So I’m not sure it makes a difference to the “lost world” provided that the gospel is preached faithfully.

    As far as coexistence goes, it all depends on whether the majority group wants to get rid of the minority. At the moment, perhaps 1/3 of the SBC is Calvinist, and the remainder are probably more on the tolerant side. However, if the position ever got reversed and SBC became 2/3 Calvinist, it wouldn’t surprise me if they found a way of purging anyone who disagrees. Calvinists tend to be like that 🙁

  214. Bridget wrote:

    Or mourns over how easily we divide.

    Yes, and completely neglect the weightier matters, human kindness, and the bonds that all peoples can agree upon:
    We laugh the same laughs, bleed the same blood, and cry the same tears.

  215. dee wrote:

    Divorce Minister wrote:
    Yes, God freely and graciously extends the gift of eternal life through His Son. However, such a gift is useless unless we repent.
    The Reformed argument claims that we are unable to repent until God first changes us. So, only those who can repent are those chosen by God. There is no credence given tp the possibility that God created us with an ability to choose so that we can say it is freely chosen.
    This does not mean I am the author of my salvation. I can choose to be the Queen of England but I cannot make that happen. Choice does not equal saving myself. The salvation part is totally in the hands of God.

    This is the part where I DEpart from Reformed theology. Choice has to be free in a real sense, or God is responsible for evil. I don’t know how that all works out, but God is Sovereign, AND we are real agents in deciding things, not mere puppets.

    Methodists would point to prevenient grace, which I think looks better than a wooden fatalism that Reformed theology can tend towards.

    As a side note, I get the heebie jeebies when these TGC people talk grace. It feels fake like my former father in law talking about love for me while aiding his daughter in the divorce. Something feels really amiss when grace comes across as Law even while denying it as such.

  216. @ Ian:
    Ian, the ratios don’t matter. The NewCals control almost all the entities and resources. Since it has always been a stealth movement using deception to gain power and take over churches and entities, it is too late to reverse course. There are few seminary grads who are not determinists.

    Personally, I think Paige Patterson and AL Mohler deserve one another. :o)

  217. Lydia wrote:

    Yes, unity often means conformity.

    “in necessariis unitas, in dubiis libertas, in omnibus caritas”

  218. Dale wrote:

    This is not what Calvinists teach, Dee. Unless you mean by “process” only the initiation of the quickening of the Holy Spirit.

    I did mean that the will is not involved in the beginning- the regeneration. According to the Calvinists, men and women cannot want it until the Holy Spirit intervenes to regenerate the person. It is quite plain that Calvinists say that the will is unable to choose God The process that I refer to is the process of revelation.

    I do not believe that one can use the term *free will* when the will had to be changed by the Spirit. Of course their will agrees with God’s offer of salvation.

  219. Dale wrote:

    The event of quickening is what is alluded to in John 1:13. Born from above. Not by the will of man, but of God.

    This could also refer to the process of salvation that men and women cannot make happen. Only God does. This does not negate the will which wants to be saved. Remember, there is a reason that great theologians have disagreed on this point.

  220. Christiane wrote:

    Lydia wrote:

    Yes, unity often means conformity.

    “in necessariis unitas, in dubiis libertas, in omnibus caritas”

    Not everyone agrees with what is necessary. I certainly would not have agreed with quite a few things Augustine thought were necessary.

  221. Lydia wrote:

    @ Ian:
    Ian, the ratios don’t matter. The NewCals control almost all the entities and resources. Since it has always been a stealth movement using deception to gain power and take over churches and entities, it is too late to reverse course. There are few seminary grads who are not determinists.

    Personally, I think Paige Patterson and AL Mohler deserve one another. :o)

    The Neo-Cals have all the power and the money. The Non-Cals can just go ahead and say goodbye to the SBC. All they get to do is provide money and warm bodies.

  222. Ian wrote:

    In case people are wondering, I did grow up in a Baptist church, yes, an English one, but still Baptist

    A Spurgeon type Baptist? I am curious to know what affiliation. My Brit friends in the North looked up Baptist churches in their area to appease my curiosity. They are agnostics. There were not many but they ran the gamet of reformed, non reformed and more charismatic.

  223. David wrote:

    “You think that’s unfair?” the Reformed theologian, pastor or elder will say, eyes bulging in utter disbelief. If you nod in the affirmative, you get the father of all lectures about how everyone ultimately deserves to go to hell.

    Yes. I think it’s very unfair and violates everything a civilized society (and most human conscience) holds dear with regard to jurisprudence and fairness itself.

    Isaiah 55:8-9 is always Hueyed (helicoptered) out of context to shut down any objections that you (generic you) deserve hell for even minor infractions.

  224. Ian wrote:

    Calvinists and Arminians both teach that people have to believe in Jesus to be saved, and they both support evangelism

    In my 60+ year Christian journey as a Southern Baptist, I’ve witnessed “evangelism” inside both camps. I have not observed the same passion for lost souls among Calvinists, as among non-Calvinists (Southern Baptists are more Biblicist than Arminian from my experience). I think the lack of Calvinist passion (or misplaced passion perhaps) has a lot to do with their doctrines of predestination and limited atonement when they view a lost world. So the gospel presentation is distinctly different IMO. In SBC New Calvinist church plants in my area (I’ve visited several), there is never a clear presentation of the Cross of Christ for the salvation of souls (perhaps its just the young reformed pastors who have been dispatched to my area which preach that way).

  225. dee wrote:

    I believe that Calvinists would argue that, if God is able to stop sin and suffering and chooses not to so, then He is a callous God. Therefore, he must a reason for everything that occurs and that we will understand this in heaven.
    I do not buy this perspective but I get it.

    I don’t buy it, either. How do they decide where that dividing line is between wrong, mistaken,or evil choices/decisions/actions that people make/do, and God’s reasons for “ordaining” certain bad things to happen?

  226. Lydia wrote:

    unity often means conformity

    Unity or harmony? There’s a difference.

    According to my old Webster, “Unity” is a continuity of identity without deviation or change. “Harmony” is a pleasing arrangement of parts.

    Harmony says to the diverse parts “let’s try to get along, even if it means change.” Unity says to the primary identity “let’s stick together, lest we change.”

    I was young and now I’m old … and during my journey I’ve come to discern what genuine unity looks like. What is unfolding within SBC is a compromise for the sake of harmony, not unity. Majority Southern Baptists can’t afford to be harmonious, but unified.

  227. @ Max:

    When it becomes necessary in the course of human events to dissolve the …bonds…

    I just cannot see how it is right to choose either unity or harmony at the expense of certain things. Those things might be evidence in the case of the age of the earth, or freedom in the case of forced conformity, or scholarship in the case of biblical exegesis, or evangelism in the case of indifference, or missions in the case of aberrant theologies or practices, or any similar thing which ought not be sacrificed.

  228. Ian wrote:

    remember the disagreement is not about salvation – Calvinists and Arminians both teach that people have to believe in Jesus to be saved, and they both support evangelism. The dispute is over the precise role of God and man in the way someone comes to faith.
    So I’m not sure it makes a difference to the “lost world” provided that the gospel is preached faithfully.

    You are confusing neo-Calvinists with classical Calvinists. They do not believe the same things. Neo-Calvinists believe that someone is Elect because they attend a neo-Calvinist church. They hold a limited view of Jesus, and ignore nearly all of the gospels and Jesus’ ministry on earth except his atonement. So when Neo-Calvinists talk about the lost world, they mean planting neo-Calvinist churches, generally by taking over non-Neo-Calvinist churches, and tricking people into extreme membership covenants that they threaten to use like legal contracts if people try to leave.

    The words neo-Calvinists use are the same, but they have completely redefined them to mean something else.

  229. @ okrapod:
    Really? Will check it out. Whoever wrote it, I still have a tendency to analyze such platitudes. The Megas used that quote all the time to shut down thought.

  230. Muff Potter wrote:

    David wrote:
    “You think that’s unfair?” the Reformed theologian, pastor or elder will say, eyes bulging in utter disbelief. If you nod in the affirmative, you get the father of all lectures about how everyone ultimately deserves to go to hell.
    Yes. I think it’s very unfair and violates everything a civilized society (and most human conscience) holds dear with regard to jurisprudence and fairness itself.
    Isaiah 55:8-9 is always Hueyed (helicoptered) out of context to shut down any objections that you (generic you) deserve hell for even minor infractions.

    I always think of parents who are like that sort of god. Arbitrary, selective for no reason, seeking their own glory by their children’s sufferings, claiming they can never grow up and be “able” to make decisions or even know themselves, constantly focused on their power to control, etc, etc.

    the stuff of nightmares or an episode of Sherlock.

  231. ishy wrote:

    The words neo-Calvinists use are the same, but they have completely redefined them to mean something else.

    My Dear Wormwood:

    I refer you to my previous epistle on Semantics; specifically, the redefinition of words into their “diablolical meanings”.

    Your Ravenously Affectionate Uncle,
    Screwtape

    P.S. Nowhere do we corrupt so effectively as at the very foot of the altar!

  232. Lydia wrote:

    I always think of parents who are like that sort of god. Arbitrary, selective for no reason, seeking their own glory by their children’s sufferings, claiming they can never grow up and be “able” to make decisions or even know themselves, constantly focused on their power to control, etc, etc.

    Isn’t that usually called an Abusive parent? An ABUSER?

  233. mot wrote:

    The Neo-Cals have all the power and the money. The Non-Cals can just go ahead and say goodbye to the SBC. All they get to do is provide money and warm bodies.

    Bodies for the foundations of the Great Edifice:

    Human sacrifice has been practiced on a number of different occasions and in many different cultures. The various rationales behind human sacrifice are the same that motivate religious sacrifice in general. Human sacrifice is intended to bring good fortune and to pacify the gods, for example in the context of the dedication of a completed building like a temple or bridge. There is a Chinese legend that there are thousands of people entombed in the Great Wall of China.

    In ancient Japan, legends talk about hitobashira (“human pillar”), in which maidens were buried alive at the base or near some constructions to protect the buildings against disasters or enemy attacks,[5] and an almost identical trope/motif appears in the Serbian epic poem The Building of Skadar where a sacrifice of a young mother still nursing her child will keep the city of Skadar (today Shkodër in the northern tip of Albania) walls from an evil Vila.[6][7]

    For the re-consecration of the Great Pyramid of Tenochtitlan in 1487, the Aztecs reported that they killed about 80,400 prisoners over the course of four days. According to Ross Hassig, author of Aztec Warfare, “between 10,000 and 80,400 persons” were sacrificed in the ceremony.[8]
    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_sacrifice

  234. Ian wrote:

    As far as coexistence goes, it all depends on whether the majority group wants to get rid of the minority. At the moment, perhaps 1/3 of the SBC is Calvinist, and the remainder are probably more on the tolerant side. However, if the position ever got reversed and SBC became 2/3 Calvinist, it wouldn’t surprise me if they found a way of purging anyone who disagrees. Calvinists tend to be like that

    There’s a critical mass in such things somewhere around 80%.

    Once a consensus within a group reaches aroung 80%, Groupthink locks in and the 20% are Purged By Any Means Necessary.

  235. Lydia wrote:

    @ Max:
    And it became politically incorrect to disagree. False unity based upon the arbiters of correct speech.

    Hooray Hooray for the One True Way…

  236. David wrote:

    Ian wrote:
    David, that is curious because all the Calvinists I’ve ever known stress the sovereignty of God and the doctrine of election. In other words, they would always say that no-one gets to chose their eternal destiny – it is determined for them by God.

    They do say that, and also going to hell is the default destination of everyone unless chosen for salvation.

    “The one in a thousand Predestined to walk the grim, grey, hard, joyless path of Salvation.”
    — James Michener, Hawaii, describing the backstory of the New England Puritan missionaries to the islands

  237. dee wrote:

    It does force is to change. It is irresistible grace. I agree that Calvinist theology believes that such a force is a good and the recipient is grateful. The person being regenerated has absolutely no choice in the matter since they are unable to even eat it to happen. There is no will of the recipient involved in the whole process.

    And the Calvinists imitate their God.
    Their inferiors have absolutely no choice in the matter; only Feel the Whip and Praise those Who Hold the Whip.

  238. Dale wrote:

    We do not change God’s mind. Rather God changes our mind.

    Dale,
    I believe Calvinists come at this from the wrong starting point. It’s like they start from a legal or financial point of view and develop a theory on how the books get balanced. There is only so much sovereignty go go around, which means that if man can make free choices it somehow diminishes God’s sovereignty (I wrote about that above).

    A better starting point is from the perspective of rescue: Colossians 1:13 – “For He rescued us from the domain of darkness, and transferred us to the kingdom of His beloved Son.” People stranded in the ocean, in flood waters, in burning houses, etc., normally have on overpowering desire to escape, but complete inability to do so. They need a rescuer stronger than they who will enter into their bondage to free them. It’s not a matter of will at all – they want it but cannot do it themselves. When they get rescued they don’t claim the credit for it – all credit goes to the rescuer. We have a Lord who jumps in and gets wet with us, not one who arbitrarily changes our minds against our wills.

    To be fair, there are many people who don’t desire to be rescued because they don’t know that need it, or they don’t want to be rescued. This is not unlike people who are partying in a part of a building that has not yet been overcome by smoke and flames but will be. Some can be in denial about the danger even if they are told. But if they are told and refuse to listen this is still on them, not on the rescuer. They have the free will to be stupid.

  239. Calvinism is like putting a rat in a maze with one direction leading to rat joy and the other leading to rat torment, and then sealing off one path or the other and putting something rats detest over the barricade so that they would not want to approach the barricade even if they could defeat it. They end up “freely” choosing the only path available to them. This gives the Calvinist rationale to claim free will, even though it’s a complete illusion.

  240. Ken F wrote:

    . There is only so much sovereignty go go around, which means that if man can make free choices it somehow diminishes God’s sovereignty (I wrote about that above)

    good insight into neo-Cal thought ….. I think they also have a problem accepting the concept of God’s abundant love and mercy

  241. Dale wrote:

    No one is ABLE to come to Jesus unless drawn to Him by the Father.

    TULIP starts with the assumption that atonement equals salvation. But is this true?
    At the risk of proof-texting, here are some verses that sound like atonement is universal:
    John 12:32 – “And I, if I am lifted up from the earth, will draw all men to Myself.”
    Romans 5:19 – “For as through the one man’s disobedience the many were made sinners, even so through the obedience of the One the many will be made righteous.”
    Romans 11:32 – “For God has shut up all in disobedience so that He may show mercy to all.”
    1 Corinthians 15:22 – “For as in Adam all die, so also in Christ all will be made alive.

    Calvinists see that all are not saved, so they conclude that limited atonement must be true and that God saves some people against there will. Universalists see verses like the above and assume that all people are saved, whether they want to be or not. Calvinism and universalism are therefore two sides of the same coin – the only difference is how many people are saved against their will.

    But there is also the option that Jesus removed the sin problem for all humans (universal atonement) and that the only thing standing between us and “heaven” is our will. MANY Christians throughout history have believed something along this line. I encourage you to investigate the EO perspective on hell – it’s very different from RC and Protestant.

  242. okrapod wrote:

    When it becomes necessary in the course of human events to dissolve the …bonds…

    Charles Finney, great evangelist of the 19th century, spoke frankly about church disunity:

    “It is evident that many more Churches need to be divided. How many there are that hold together, and yet do no good, for the simple reason that they are not sufficiently agreed. They do not think alike, nor feel alike … and while this is so, they never can work together. Unless they can be brought to such a change of views and feelings as will unite them, they are only a hindrance to each other and to the work of God. In many cases they see and feel that this is so, and yet they keep together, conscientiously, for fear that a division should dishonor religion, when in fact the division that now exists may be making religion a by-word and a reproach. Far better would it be if they would agree to divide amicably, like Abraham and Lot. ‘If thou will take the left hand, then I will go to the right; or if thou depart to the right hand, I will go to the left.’ Let them separate, and each party work in its own way; and they may both enjoy the blessing.” (Charles G. Finney, Revivals of Religion, Lecture XVI: The Necessity and Effect of Union)

  243. okrapod wrote:

    As to what the meaning is, why would there need to be more meaning than what she said.

    Jesus himself claimed to speak in parables as a way of expressing a greater truth. There are MANY examples of allegory in the Bible, both in the OT and NT. To suggest that Luke strung together a collection of unrelated stories that contain no allegorical moral meanings or lessons is preposterous. It’s almost like a form of Gnosticism – only certain properly enlightened people are able recognize that the stories are mostly devoid of religious/spiritual meaning.

  244. Headless Unicorn Guy wrote:

    There’s a critical mass in such things somewhere around 80%.

    Once a consensus within a group reaches aroung 80%, Groupthink locks in and the 20% are Purged By Any Means Necessary.

    Once it reaches 80%, you will comply or else!

  245. Max wrote:

    I was young and now I’m old … and during my journey I’ve come to discern what genuine unity looks like. What is unfolding within SBC is a compromise for the sake of harmony, not unity. Majority Southern Baptists can’t afford to be harmonious, but unified.

    Excellent Max! I was once you and now I am old also. The majority of the SBC better act today before it is too late.

  246. Ken F wrote:

    Calvinists see that all are not saved, so they conclude that limited atonement must be true and that God saves some people against there will. Universalists see verses like the above and assume that all people are saved, whether they want to be or not. Calvinism and universalism are therefore two sides of the same coin – the only difference is how many people are saved against their will.
    But there is also the option that Jesus removed the sin problem for all humans (universal atonement) and that the only thing standing between us and “heaven” is our will. MANY Christians throughout history have believed something along this line.

    Good insight. Although I would not align myself completely with either Calvinism or Arminianism, I am much closer to the Arminian viewpoint. Arminius put it very well when he said something like “the atonement is SUFFICIENT for all but EFFICIENT only for those who believe”. In other words, Jesus died for every single human being who has ever lived but the gift of eternal life has to be received. This is the message of John 3:16-18 – he WHO BELIEVES has eternal life.

    Interestingly, John Calvin himself taught this in his commentary on Romans 5:18:

    “As by the offense of one we were made (constitute) sinners; so the righteousness of Christ is efficacious to justify us. He does not say the righteousness — δικαιοσύνην, but the justification — δικαίωμα, 173 of Christ, in order to remind us that he was not as an individual just for himself, but that the righteousness with which he was endued reached farther, in order that, by conferring this gift, he might enrich the faithful. He makes this favor common to all, because it is propounded to all, and not because it is in reality extended to all; for though Christ suffered for the sins of the whole world, and is offered through God’s benignity indiscriminately to all, yet all do not receive him.”

  247. Lydia wrote:

    Ian wrote:
    In case people are wondering, I did grow up in a Baptist church, yes, an English one, but still Baptist
    A Spurgeon type Baptist? I am curious to know what affiliation. My Brit friends in the North looked up Baptist churches in their area to appease my curiosity. They are agnostics. There were not many but they ran the gamet of reformed, non reformed and more charismatic.

    Hi Lydia,

    My old church was Baptist Union, also in the north of England. The Baptist Union is our largest Baptist grouping and is now called Baptists Together. I don’t think I’d call it a Spurgeon-type church – that sounds rather reformed – their influences were more the missionary movement and Billy Graham. But for various reasons, the culture in that church, particularly amongst the older generation, was very conservative a few decades ago.

    The Baptist Union, as I understand it, is fairly middle-of-the-road and broad-based. I don’t think many of our reformed Baptist churches are members – they’d regard it as too liberal for them. It has ordained women since the 1920s! We don’t have many reformed Baptists over here – some belong to a smaller grouping (Grace Baptists), others are independent.

  248. Headless Unicorn Guy wrote:
    “The one in a thousand Predestined to walk the grim, grey, hard, joyless path of Salvation.”
    — James Michener, Hawaii, describing the backstory of the New England Puritan missionaries to the islands
    That sounds like many of the Calvinists I’ve known – grim, grey, hard, and joyless !

    I can’t help contrast it to the myriad mentions of joy and rejoicing in the Bible. Hebrews 12:2 is one of my favourite verses.

  249. @ Ian:
    Thanks for the info! Are you familiar with Adrian Warnock in London? He seemed to fit in with the McArthur Baptists but more charismatic.. There are also many New Cal youth groups here going to Wales a lot because of some affiliations. . Beware. :o)

  250. Lydia wrote:

    I always think of parents who are like that sort of god. Arbitrary, selective for no reason, seeking their own glory by their children’s sufferings, claiming they can never grow up and be “able” to make decisions or even know themselves, constantly focused on their power to control, etc, etc.

    the stuff of nightmares or an episode of Sherlock.

    When you (generic you) really look at it, much of the Arminian camp teaches pretty much the same spiel. It’s not confined solely to the Neo-Cals. God has no interest in becoming your friend, you exist solely to aggrandize his glory. I know of what I speak, I spent nearly two decades in the Calvary Chapel cult. Dr. Fundy once said here that the two camps are kissin’ cousins, and I would agree, any ‘differences’ are largely cosmetic.

  251. Kemi wrote:

    And Why set up a system with a double confirmations? I’m either chosen or not before the foundations of the earth (according to them) why then in my predestined life does the Holy Spirit or Jesus have to do anything?

    I missed this earlier. Double confirmation! Never thought of it that way.

    I have had this Convo with so many YRR for so long. I always ask about the “regeneration activation” so you “can” believe. I mean, why wait to activate what has already been chosen for you before you are born. Did God wait, in our lifetime, for Grudem and AL Mohler? Just kidding!

    And I get your point and raise the pot– what is the point of Christ, the Cross and resurrection, at all? It was all decided before the foundation of the world. Add in PSA and, IMO, the whole thing comes periously close to Greek paganism and its fatalism and dualism.

  252. @ Muff Potter:
    Both camps are Protestant. That is the golden thread for cousinship, imo. I dont have a tribe so I adopted Pelagius since I have been called that by the YRR for the last 10 years.:o) I did some research on the guy and think he got a bad rap. Most of what we know about his beliefs is written by his very authoritatian detractors.

    I think all adults can choose to do good or evil sans the mentally deranged, sociopaths, psychopaths, etc. When Mahaney said he was the worst sinner he knew, we should have believed him. Same for Tullian who said he could do nothing good. Sigh.

  253. Lydia wrote:

    And I get your point and raise the pot– what is the point of Christ, the Cross and resurrection, at all? It was all decided before the foundation of the world. Add in PSA and, IMO, the whole thing comes periously close to Greek paganism and its fatalism and dualism.

    Taking it to the next level of understanding.

  254. Lydia wrote:

    . When Mahaney said he was the worst sinner he knew, we should have believed him. Same for Tullian who said he could do nothing good. Sigh.

    I’ve said it here before and I’ll say it again, their religion will not see the 22nd century. The availability of competing information (not seen since Gutenberg’s movable type printing press) even to the lowliest economic rungs of society via the world-wide web, has begun to seal their doom.

  255. This has some similarity to the way that “Love” has been redefined. In these same circles, “love” has often been defined as essentially synonymous with “truth”; As a result, the command to “speak the truth in love” is rendered meaningless and offending others is no longer a negative trait. I recall the TGC article last year which asked the question “How do you know if your pastor loves you?” Their answer was, “If he preaches correct doctrine.” I would say that preaching correct doctrine is merely the fulfillment of a pastor’s most basic job requirements and is not in itself evidence of a particular love for his congregants. So too with grace- if “grace” can be wielded as weapon of authoritarianism, it is not grace.

  256. dee wrote:

    Well, they are pretty big into the ESV. Boy do they ever have rulesThat is why I read TGC website every day to see what they have come up with now. The lice example was posted just a few days ago.

    You know, it might be amusing, just for grins and giggles, to go through the TGC website and collate all the rules they’ve promulgated on their site for their followers.

  257. Lydia wrote:

    And I get your point and raise the pot– what is the point of Christ, the Cross and resurrection, at all? It was all decided before the foundation of the world. Add in PSA and, IMO, the whole thing comes periously close to Greek paganism and its fatalism and dualism.

    This is what awakened me from my nearly fatal dip into Calvinism. After a rather long ordeal, and much study, thinking, praying, it was while talking to my Calvinist pastor that it hit me – if this stuff is true, there is no point to the cross. If God decided ahead of time who would be ‘saved’ then Jesus was needlessly play-acting – and what a horrible role he was assigned!

    If there is no choosing, there is no point in the cross. This, of course, is why Calvinism must turn salvation into a forensic legal transaction, rather than the beautiful act of loving mercy that it is. ‘Debt cancelled. Here is your get out of hell free card. Next.’ It is no wonder these people are as cold as ice. If they had any heart they might grieve for those their imitation god consigned to hell – for no reason other than to ‘get himself some glory’. They might have the ‘grace’ to not rejoice that at least they were chosen, and to hell with the rest – literally!

    Oh, I know their script – I can quote it. They have been well trained to never read their bibles without their distorting Calvinist lenes, to not think rationally, to not question even the most atrocious, immoral actions of their false god and to accept whatever their ‘authorities’ tell them, however hurtful or destructive to themselves or others.

    It really is the most brutal anti-Christ religion Satan could dream up.

  258. Lydia wrote:

    @ Ian:
    Thanks for the info! Are you familiar with Adrian Warnock in London? He seemed to fit in with the McArthur Baptists but more charismatic.. There are also many New Cal youth groups here going to Wales a lot because of some affiliations. . Beware. :o)

    Lydia,

    Yes, I’m familiar with Adrian Warnock. He’s a leader in a New Frontiers church. They are a “reformed charismatic” grouping that began with the house church movement 40-50 years ago. They are complementarian and have a reputation for being authoritarian. I think Dee and Deb have written about them – they did have an association with SGM and CJ Mahaney some time ago. New Frontiers does have some links to the neo-cals (possibly Piper) but I wouldn’t say they are part of that movement. I don’t think MacArthur is much of an influence on them as he is staunchly anti-charismatic.

    Can you say any more about Wales? The Christian demographic there is probably a bit different to England….

  259. dee wrote:

    As everyone know, I love Wade. He and I have discussed this in depth. But here is where I cannot jump over. I talk to Wade about the murder little Jessica Lunsford. It is gruesome and she suffered greatly

    I’m only marginally familiar with her story, but I read about little Victoria Martens a few months ago – something very similar as what happened to her happened about a month ago to another girl, by her foster mother.

    I don’t believe God foreordains any of that evil, and I have no idea how any one can possibly find it comforting to think that He is behind it.

  260. @ Jamie Carter:
    Thanks for mentioning all that.

    One thing that crossed my mind was similar to what you were raising.

    I was thinking even if there is some kind of rule about a son needing to be circumcised by day 8, I do not remember another rule saying that the boy’s MOTHER has to go WITH HIM to get the deed done.

    Maybe the boy’s father or grandfather took the kid in. I don’t think the text specifies that it has to be the mother (or does it? Been awhile since I’ve read that)

  261. Lea wrote:

    That example blew me away. There are a lot of women who I’m sure didn’t make it to temple, since they died in childbirth, or were probably too ill to come. And most women make it to the doctor in a week, but that doesn’t mean they need to be in church, and bringing a baby to soak up germs. (Someone over at SSB brought up a bible verse from somebody who stayed home to counteract that Mary one, too.) That whole thread just seemed ridiculous. We are talking about adults. They don’t need a sick note, they need to be left alone to make their own decisions.

    Something else just crossed my mind about this subject.

    The Old Testament also had a bunch of other rules, like, you shouldn’t do any work on the Sabbath. Well, when Jesus broke that rule to heal the sick lady on the Sabbath, the Pharisees had a fit. Jesus told them to stuff it because that woman was a daughter of God who had been in bondage to Satan for years. He said if any one of you had a donkey trapped in a well on the Sabbath, you’d yank it right out, so how much more do you think God would be OK with me healing this lady?

    So. Even if there was an OT rule that says “Women who just had a baby are required to attend services this weekend,” Jesus would probably be okay with overturning it, or bending the rules for some situations.

    Sometimes religious people misapply rules, and they overlook God’s intent for the rule.

  262. Headless Unicorn Guy wrote:

    mot wrote:

    The Neo-Cals have all the power and the money. The Non-Cals can just go ahead and say goodbye to the SBC. All they get to do is provide money and warm bodies.

    Bodies for the foundations of the Great Edifice:

    Human sacrifice has been practiced on a number of different occasions and in many different cultures. The various rationales behind human sacrifice are the same that motivate religious sacrifice in general. Human sacrifice is intended to bring good fortune and to pacify the gods, for example in the context of the dedication of a completed building like a temple or bridge. There is a Chinese legend that there are thousands of people entombed in the Great Wall of China.

    In ancient Japan, legends talk about hitobashira (“human pillar”), in which maidens were buried alive at the base or near some constructions to protect the buildings against disasters or enemy attacks,[5] and an almost identical trope/motif appears in the Serbian epic poem The Building of Skadar where a sacrifice of a young mother still nursing her child will keep the city of Skadar (today Shkodër in the northern tip of Albania) walls from an evil Vila.[6][7]

    For the re-consecration of the Great Pyramid of Tenochtitlan in 1487, the Aztecs reported that they killed about 80,400 prisoners over the course of four days. According to Ross Hassig, author of Aztec Warfare, “between 10,000 and 80,400 persons” were sacrificed in the ceremony.[8]
    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_sacrifice

    This movie scene is quite relevant:

    https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=AF-Lv_Q22ww

  263. truthseeker00 wrote:

    It really is the most brutal anti-Christ religion Satan could dream up.

    There, it’s as simple as that. RUN from it; there’s no life there.

  264. okrapod wrote:

    I am saying that the prophesies about those children at the time of their birth had nothing to do with ‘eternal life’ that being something that somebody has read into the story from a Christian perspective.
    Christianity reads a lot into OT stories. Whether or not Christianity is correct in doing that is a totally different question.

    Sorry I think I misunderstood your comment. I agree with what you say above. It is indeed true that Christianity reads a lot into the OT. This is one of the values of understanding the background of the Bible and the cultural context of the Bible.

  265. Christiane wrote:

    I think they also have a problem accepting the concept of God’s abundant love and mercy

    It’s because they don’t believe they are abundant. God only shows agape love and mercy for the elect. For all others he showers them with common grace, which lasts for only a brief lifetime, but he denies them the only grace that is truly important. Everything about their god is limited. They say he is unlimited, but the practical implications of their theology say otherwise.

  266. truthseeker00 wrote:

    If there is no choosing, there is no point in the cross. This, of course, is why Calvinism must turn salvation into a forensic legal transaction, rather than the beautiful act of loving mercy that it is. ‘Debt cancelled. Here is your get out of hell free card. Next.’ It is no wonder these people are as cold as ice. If they had any heart they might grieve for those their imitation god consigned to hell – for no reason other than to ‘get himself some glory’. They might have the ‘grace’ to not rejoice that at least they were chosen, and to hell with the rest – literally!

    No Calvinist I’ve ever met has been able to refute this, even the ones I respect. I’ve known some that have loved Jesus, but it seemed like it was at the expense of their theology, not because of it.

    I decided long ago that I felt a tension over this issue in the Bible, and unlike the Calvinists I know, I am fine with the tension. I don’t feel like I have to have an explanation for everything, and that God would impress answers on my heart if He felt I needed them. Expressing this to a few Calvinists nearly made them have heart attacks. So I wonder if many of the people who choose Calvinism as their theology are people who feel like everything must be black and white. In that they are most like fundamentalists, I think.

  267. Daisy wrote:

    It’s sung by Boy George and Culture Club. If we’re thinking of the same song.

    Daisy, yes, that’s the one! Whizz, I never knew that. But lemme be honest: I don’t like the song or the artists (30 seconds into the clip was ‘nough for me!) But, yes, that’s the song that reminds me of my so-called church.

    Hand on my heart, one young lady did bring her babies to church within 8 days (twice). My jaw simply dropped, as I was waiting for the little ones to stop breathing; they were so tiny, and the mom struggled to keep her composure, but her godly husband was in the godly band and the godly pastor made us all aware of their godly commitment and example to that godly church and said they’d be blessed extra. By God.

    Thanks, Daisy. Now I’m having flashbacks all over the place.

  268. ishy wrote:

    . So I wonder if many of the people who choose Calvinism as their theology are people who feel like everything must be black and white. In that they are most like fundamentalists, I think.

    They seem to have a heavy need for a sense of their own ‘righteousness’, position of being among the ‘elect’, and an assurance that nothing they do can ever change what was determined for their sake before they were created.

    Without that need being fed, they would be unable to point the finger at ‘the others’, they would be unable to have that deep contempt for other persons who are told to be ‘submissive’ to them (I still can’t BELIEVE that all SBC men have stooped so low), nor would they be able to ‘lord it’ over others, adding to the burdens of the others instead of helping them bear their burdens. Talk about making a ‘shipwreck’ of faith, a result of abandoning Our Lord in exchange for a pride so evil that it attacked the very Lordship of Christ and attempted to replace His point of view with their own male-headship ‘inerrant’ views of Scripture. And people have been injured? Is that a surprise?

  269. Ken F wrote:

    Everything about their god is limited.

    In my Church we have a phrase for such people: ‘they have such a small god’

  270. On the subject of ‘unity’, I think people get confused about how a unified people of faith can absorb diversity within their unity comfortably and to their benefit;

    but that IS the model of the Body of Christ,
    and that IS the model of the Holy Trinity

    Maybe people who don’t understand could take another look at ‘diversity’ in a more positive light.

    ‘Unity’ was never meant to be a lock-step thing with no expression of individuality; nor was it ever the opposite: a group of individuals who could not come together to have communion with one another in Christ.

    God did not make us identical robots. But He has created us for Himself. And He has, through the mystery of the Incarnation, come to be ‘with us’ for all eternity, having assumed our humanity into His Person.

    End of ‘rant’ 🙂

  271. ishy wrote:

    I wonder if many of the people who choose Calvinism as their theology are people who feel like everything must be black and white

    But they don’t choose it – they are elected and predestined to do so! And there is no grey area for discussion about this fact!

    On a more serious note, I agree with you about the tension. From the Bible I know that God is love, that he loved the whole world that he desires the salvation of all human beings, that he does not delight in the death of the wicked and that Jesus Christ died for the sins of everyone who has ever lived. I also know that God has all power, authority and knowledge and often suffers and permits things contrary to his love and will to happen. How it all interacts I do not know and cannot explain.

  272. @ Christiane:
    I thought the One True God was of one will. Not diverse wills. One of the challenges with ESS is the person’s of the Trinity often do the same thing. One example is, who raised Jesus from the dead. Scripture actually mentions all Three are involved.

  273. @ Lydia:
    your comment is not making sense

    did you not think that the Holy Trinity is a model of unity and diversity?

    what is your understanding of the unity and the diversity within the Holy Trinity???

    Hard to understand you, if I don’t know where you are coming from, no.

  274. mot wrote:

    The majority of the SBC better act today before it is too late.

    My father used to tell me that there are three types of people in the world: (1) those who plan to make things happen, (2) those who make things happen, and (3) those who wonder “What happened?!” Majority (non-Calvinist) Southern Baptists are in the latter category … with a too little-too late effort to stop Calvinization of their denomination.

  275. ZechZav wrote:

    ishy wrote:
    I wonder if many of the people who choose Calvinism as their theology are people who feel like everything must be black and white
    /
    But they don’t choose it – they are elected and predestined to do so! And there is no grey area for discussion about this fact!

    Yeah, well, I may have intentionally used the word “choose” there. 😉

  276. Christiane wrote:

    @ Lydia:
    your comment is not making sense
    did you not think that the Holy Trinity is a model of unity and diversity?
    what is your understanding of the unity and the diversity within the Holy Trinity???
    Hard to understand you, if I don’t know where you are coming from, no.

    I see the Trinity as total unity. One United Will. Not diverse wills. One Teue God. Not diversity in gods. I know that is not politically correct but so be it. ESS tries to make us believe the Trinity had diverse wills

  277. @ Lydia:
    maybe this (from the Creed of St. Athanasius) will help some:

    “Now the Catholic Faith is this; that we worship One God in Trinity, and Trinity in Unity. Neither confounding the Persons, nor dividing the substance.

    For there is one Person of the Father, another of the Son, another of the Holy Ghost. But the Godhead of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost, is all One; the Glory equal, the Majesty co-eternal.

    Such as the Father is, such is the Son, and such is the Holy Ghost. The Father uncreate, the Son uncreate, the Holy Ghost uncreate. The Father incomprehensible, the Son incomprehensible, and the Holy Ghost incomprehensible. The Father eternal, the Son eternal, and the Holy Ghost eternal. And yet they are not three eternals, but one eternal. As also they are not three uncreates, nor three incomprehensibles; but one uncreate, and one incomprehensible. In like manner the Father is almighty, the Son almighty, and the Holy Ghost almighty. And yet not three almighties, but one almighty.

    So the Father is God, the Son God, and the Holy Ghost God. And yet they are not three Gods, but one God. So likewise the Father is Lord, the Son is Lord, and the Holy Ghost is Lord. And yet they are not three Lords, but one Lord. For like as we are compelled by the Christian verity to acknowledge every Person by Himself to be God and Lord; so we are forbidden by the Catholic religion, to say there are three Gods, or three Lords.”

    http://catholicharboroffaithandmorals.com/Athanasius.html

  278. @ Christiane:

    You wrote earlier:

    “On the subject of ‘unity’, I think people get confused about how a unified people of faith can absorb diversity within their unity comfortably and to their benefit;
    but that IS the model of the Body of Christ,
    and that IS the model of the Holy Trinity”

    Thanks for the Anthanasius quote but I fail to see how it communicates “diversity” of will in the Trinity or communicates the Trinity “absorbing” diversity. I don’t see the Trinity modeling “diversity” for us. I see One True God. United in will.

  279. There is also not much “diversity” in the One True God coming In human form as a Male Jew. But there was a reason for it. :o)

    I think the concept of diversity being modeled by the Trinity really muddies the Trinitarian truth of One Divine Will.

    There are, however, a diversity of humans who belong to the One True God. The diversity in how they approach that might not be fully unified. Example, I could never be unified with the concept of a Pope, Vicar of Christ. . So what? You are free to be and I would stand up for your right to be. I will, however, “debate” the problems I see with it as I do with the 9 Marx approach, :o) For me, its one of the reasons never again to have a tribe I would feel the need to defend.

  280. Christiane wrote:

    nor was it ever the opposite: a group of individuals who could not come together to have communion with one another in Christ.

    Are you saying we should all be able to take communion together?

    I mean, I agree which is part of the reason I go to a church that has open communion, but since you don’t I’m not sure what you’re saying here.

  281. Lydia wrote:

    I don’t see the Trinity modeling “diversity” for us.

    the closest we come to the model of the Holy Trinity’s unity-diversity model is through Christ Himself

    we have our unity in Him as members of the Body of Christ, each bringing our diverse gifts to build up the Body of Christ …… we are individuals, yes, each with choice, but when and if we choose to kneel to the Lordship of Christ, then we become ‘one’ in Him and so we participate in the life of the sacred Trinity through Him

    diversity? must it always be defined as ‘different’? or ‘opposite’ …. as in some kind of dualism or dichotomy? or separation?

    maybe better to see it as ‘different gifts to be shared’ …. but still having the unity so that when one hurts, we all hurt … when one rejoices, we all are happy for them?

    but why did God make us individuals? well, I like this thought from Emerson’s essay ‘Self-Reliance’:

    “A man should learn to detect and watch that gleam of light which flashes across his mind from within ……. There is a time in every man’s education when he arrives at the conviction that envy is ignorance; that imitation is suicide; that he must take himself for better, for worse, as his portion; that though the wide universe is full of good, no kernel of nourishing corn can come to him but through his toil bestowed on that plot of ground which is given to him to till. The power which resides in him is new in nature, and none but he knows what that is which he can do, nor does he know until he has tried. Not for nothing one face, one character, one fact, makes much impression on him, and another none. This sculpture in the memory is not without pre-established harmony. The eye was placed where one ray should fall, that it might testify of that particular ray.”

    I like also the concept of Tikkun Olam … that God made each of us to discover that in the world that only each individual has the ability to repair

  282. @ Christiane:
    I admit, Christians, I find a lot of your comments over spiritualizing and platitudinal. But that’s just me. If we are changing definitions, midstream, of common words, I would prefer not to go down that road. Perhaps there is another link showing the spiritualuzation of ‘diversity’ I have missed in my poor education. Let’s us part disunified in our approach to the Trinity but in peace.

  283. truthseeker00 wrote:

    This, of course, is why Calvinism must turn salvation into a forensic legal transaction, rather than the beautiful act of loving mercy that it is. ‘Debt cancelled. Here is your get out of hell free card. Next.’

    And how is Arminianism any different other than cosmetic features? Both camps agree that because I (generic I) cannot be perfect, The Almighty had to sacrifice his beautiful son in order to assuage his anger and make me theoretically perfect. It’s not ‘good enough’ that I receive what the sower sows, terrace the rocky slope, and do the best with what I’ve got in the here and now in partnership and in friendship with him. Nope, unless I agree to be micro-managed, sign onto this, that, and the other stuff, I’m hell fodder.

  284. Lydia wrote:

    Perhaps there is another link showing the spiritualuzation of ‘diversity’ I have missed in my poor education.

    You might read something of Gregory of Nyssa, but he is a bit difficult to comprehend, I think.

    Surely if you read from among the three Cappadocian fathers, some clarity may come. It’s deep reading, so take an aspirin first and wear your reading glasses. 🙂

  285. @ Christiane:
    I was thinking of the current common usage of such words. This has been my recurring problem with the New Cals, too. They always refer me to old dead guys for definitions of common words– midstream. And you are right, I would probably not be able to comprehend it, anyway.

  286. Ken F wrote:

    Calvinists see that all are not saved, so they conclude that limited atonement must be true and that God saves some people against there will.

    Please quote one Calvinist to the effect that some people are saved against their will.

  287. It seems like what we are really debating here is the character of God. Is he a harsh, punitive God who creates sentient beings to purposely torment them for eternity for the sake of his own glory? Or is he a loving God?

    I think Calvinists have a hard time reconciling an all-powerful God who is unable to effect the salvation of all, if that is what he wants; it seems like a weakness or failure. Their focus is on power. I personally feel like once their concept of God goes through all their doctrine and comes out the other side, it is more like the god of this world…

    The rest of us live with the tension of believing that God is love but that he is okay with letting human beings make a choice to disbelieve him in spite of the fact that human beings are not very capable of making good decisions or understanding what the heck they are doing or thinking half the time.

    I believe that every manifestation of love in this world is a glimpse of the character of God.

  288. Lydia wrote:

    And you are right, I would probably not be able to comprehend it, anyway.

    oh I think you are smart enough, but by ‘deep’ reading, I mean it would try your patience …. like going back and reading something again, thinking about it, trying to connect it up with something familiar, etc. etc. ….. it can be tedious

  289. Muff Potter wrote:

    And how is Arminianism any different other than cosmetic features? Both camps agree that because I (generic I) cannot be perfect, The Almighty had to sacrifice his beautiful son in order to assuage his anger and make me theoretically perfect.

    What if it’s not so much ‘had to’ as ‘wanted to’? I don’t know, I’m always just exploring ideas. I come from much the same mindset as you, Muff.

  290. JeffB wrote:

    Please quote one Calvinist to the effect that some people are saved against their will.

    I wish it were that simple. The problem is that Calvinists speak out of both sides of their mouths. They hide behind the word salad they create. They say that all people, in their unregenerate state, freely choose to rebel against God. They are so totally depraved that they have no desire to know him and apart from God changing their will through regeneration, they will spend eternity in hell for God’s glory. But irresistible grace changes their will so that they now freely choose God. But how can it be free will if it is irresistible? To change their will is absolutely saving them against their will (by definition). It doesn’t mean it is a bad thing to be saved, but it’s what they all teach.

    The bottom line is they teach that no unregenerate person has the will to choose God. Everyone who believes does so because he first changes their will through regeneration. Since they teach that only some believe, it means that some people are saved against their will. No amount of word salad can change the fact that Calvinism teaches that people cannot will themselves to believe, God must change their wills.

    I will reverse the challenge – please quote one Calvinist to the effect that anyone can freely choose to become a Christian without God first changing their will.

  291. Christiane wrote:

    oh I think you are smart enough, but by ‘deep’ reading, I mean it would try your patience …. like going back and reading something again, thinking about it, trying to connect it up with something familiar, etc. etc. ….. it can be tedious

    I believe there’s also another hand to this:

    “One must be sane to think clearly, but one can think deeply and be quite insane.”
    — Nikola Tesla —

  292. Muff Potter wrote:

    “One must be sane to think clearly, but one can think deeply and be quite insane.”
    — Nikola Tesla —

    well that explains a LOT 🙂

  293. JeffB wrote:

    Please quote one Calvinist to the effect that some people are saved against their will.

    In addition to my earlier answer to your comment, what do you make of this assessment from Wikipedia’s statement from Luther: “No one can achieve salvation or redemption through their own choices—people do not choose between good or evil, because they are naturally dominated by evil, and salvation is simply the product of God unilaterally changing a person’s heart and turning them to good ends.” (see https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/On_the_Bondage_of_the_Will). Do you believe that this statement accurately reflects what Luther actually wrote in German?

    Was your concern with my statement focused on the aspect of God only saving some, or on the aspect of God saving people against their will? I think it’s pretty clear that Calvinists believe that God only saves some. And I think it’s also pretty clear that Calvinists teach that our wills must be changed by an irresistible (against the will) grace. Which makes me wonder what you wanted me to answer.

  294. Ken F wrote:

    “No one can achieve salvation or redemption through their own choices—people do not choose between good or evil, because they are naturally dominated by evil, and salvation is simply the product of God unilaterally changing a person’s heart and turning them to good ends.”

    Good ole Lootair (Luther), he and Erasmus went round and round on this one. And when Luther realized that he couldn’t bring Erasmus round’ to his way of thinking or enlist him in his cause, he turned on him like a rabid pit bull.

  295. Muff Potter wrote:

    “One must be sane to think clearly, but one can think deeply and be quite insane.”
    — Nikola Tesla —

    “Mysticism keeps men sane. As long as you have mystery you have health; when you destroy mystery you create morbidity. The ordinary man has always been sane because the ordinary man has always been a mystic. He has permitted the twilight. He has always had one foot in earth and the other in fairyland. He has always left himself free to doubt his gods; but (unlike the agnostic of to-day) free also to believe in them. He has always cared more for truth than for consistency. If he saw two truths that seemed to contradict each other, he would take the two truths and the contradiction along with them. His spiritual sight is stereoscopic, like his physical sight: he sees two different pictures at once and yet sees all the better for that.”
    — GK Chesterton —

  296. David wrote:

    I can still see the obvious inconsistencies. Ask those who preach unconditional election, limited atonement and irrestable grace why they believe people end up in hell, and the answer will usually be pretty simple: It is their fault because they choose to go there.
    This answer comes despite the fact that a sovereign God chose their existence, chose their birth, chose the circumstances of their life that shaped them into the person they became yet also chose not to elect them (meaning Christ’s sacrifice through His death, burial and resurrection wasn’t for them) and did not offer irresistable grace.

    I almost chuckled reading this but my anger caught up with me… Few things that change my blood pressure as much as this.

  297. siteseer wrote:

    It seems like what we are really debating here is the character of God. Is he a harsh, punitive God who creates sentient beings to purposely torment them for eternity for the sake of his own glory? Or is he a loving God?

    Well said! That really is the issue!

  298. @ Muslin, fka Dee Holmes & mirele:

    “You know, it might be amusing, just for grins and giggles, to go through the TGC website and collate all the rules they’ve promulgated on their site for their followers.”
    +++++++++++++++++

    it would be, dare i say, hilarious! in the sheer ridiculousness of it all.

    and illuminating. maybe even to the TGC folks themselves.

    how big of a job would this be? just how much material is there to wade through?

  299. @ Ken F:
    that quote from Chesterton reminds me of the work of C.S. Lewis and J.R.R. Tolkien …… I think it was Lewis who explained what he did as attempting to ‘sneak past those watchful dragons’.
    And Tolkien with his Rings trilogy: Catholicism presented anew amidst the weaving of ‘fairyland’ 🙂

    I suspect a lot of evangelicals find meaning in the tales of Lewis and Tolkien, and yet have no idea what it is they are connecting up with.

    Did God, when He sent us out of Eden, leave us bearing traces of its wonders encoded and hidden in our love of the victory of good over evil in legends and myths, so that when the time came, we could be ‘sleepers’ awakened again by the Light of Christ? 🙂

    Our poets have always know of this. Wordsworth in his famous ‘Tintern Abbey’, wrote:

    ” And I have felt
    A presence that disturbs me with the joy
    Of elevated thoughts; a sense sublime
    Of something far more deeply interfused,
    Whose dwelling is the light of setting suns,
    And the round ocean, and the living air,
    And the blue sky, and in the mind of man … ”

    Good on Chesterton for carrying the light forward. We all have within our souls an engraved need to return to the light.

  300. Ken F wrote:

    God saves some people against there will

    According to classical Calvinism (TULIP), men are so totally depraved that they have a total inability to choose God on their own. I’m certainly not defending their theology (as a non-Calvinist), but it’s not a matter of God saving some against their will – those that have been predestined will simply come to faith, since grace is irresistible to them. Of course, the reformed mind has to go through some gyrations of Scripture to come to that conclusion since the whole of Scripture does not support the tenets of reformed theology regarding the salvation of souls.

  301. @ Max:
    It is even more strange how Neo Cals side step the fact they have the ability to make lots of choices in life, and they do, but not when it comes to God. If it were only total depravity, they would make better choices AFTER their regeneration was activated, right? If not, why? Driscoll is an example. Why did he become increasingly worse after his regeneration activation? It’s weird.

  302. Muff Potter wrote:

    And when Luther realized that he couldn’t bring Erasmus round’ to his way of thinking or enlist him in his cause, he turned on him like a rabid pit bull.

    The Universe cannot have two Centers.
    Or two One True Ways.

    “Hooray, Hooray for the One True Way,
    The One True Way, the One True Way,
    Hooray, Hooray for the One True Way…”

  303. siteseer wrote:

    I think Calvinists have a hard time reconciling an all-powerful God who is unable to effect the salvation of all, if that is what he wants; it seems like a weakness or failure. Their focus is on power. I personally feel like once their concept of God goes through all their doctrine and comes out the other side, it is more like the god of this world…

    As JMJ/Christian Monist put it about Islam,
    “You end up with a God who is Omnipotent but not benevolent.”

  304. Muff Potter wrote:

    And how is Arminianism any different other than cosmetic features? Both camps agree that because I (generic I) cannot be perfect, The Almighty had to sacrifice his beautiful son in order to assuage his anger and make me theoretically perfect.

    Which is why as many abuse horror stories come out of anti-Calvinist Calvary Chapel as out of Neo-Cal churches.

  305. Christiane wrote:

    They seem to have a heavy need for a sense of their own ‘righteousness’, position of being among the ‘elect’, and an assurance that nothing they do can ever change what was determined for their sake before they were created.

    More like they’re always trying to PROVE to themselves that THEY are Truly the Elect.

    Once Proof of Election was getting rich (“Blessed”), and that fermented into the Prosperity Gospel by way of Robber Baron Capitalism.

    Now it’s Perfectly Parsed, Truly Reformed, More-Calvinist-than-Calvin THEOLOGY.

    All to PROVE I’m More Elect Than The Other Guy.

  306. truthseeker00 wrote:

    It is no wonder these people are as cold as ice. If they had any heart they might grieve for those their imitation god consigned to hell – for no reason other than to ‘get himself some glory’.

    “Pull up the ladders — I’M ABOARD!”

  307. Common thread in my last two comments:
    An Utter Selfishness worthy of Ayn Rand.

  308. Lydia wrote:

    @ Max:
    It is even more strange how Neo Cals side step the fact they have the ability to make lots of choices in life, and they do, but not when it comes to God. If it were only total depravity, they would make better choices AFTER their regeneration was activated, right? If not, why? Driscoll is an example. Why did he become increasingly worse after his regeneration activation? It’s weird.

    Not so weird.

    “I’M ELECT! I CAN ACT AS DEPRAVED AS I WANNA AND GOD STILL PUTS ME INTO HEAVEN! WIN-WIN!”

  309. @ Ken F:

    I was concerned with the aspect of God saving people against their wills. And not just with *you* saying it; over time, I’ve seen or heard many people saying that that is what Calvinists believe, without giving an example. I know the answer is, as you said, that there are none who have said it, and I know what you mean by “word salad.” The problem is that most people, I think, have an image of God dragging kicking and screaming people into heaven. As you know, that is not what Calvinists believe. You described accurately the process whereby God regenerates people so that their wills now gravitate toward choosing God. They choose God because they now *want* God.

    Admittedly, God changing people’s wills without their asking God to do this (although I think there are those who *do* ask this) does not seem compatible with human freedom. All anyone can do is read the Bible in good faith and try to see what is there even in the face of seeming contradictions. I write “seeming” because God may not see contradictions where we do. Ultimately , the existence of both God’s sovereignty and human freedom is a mystery. Your Chesterton quote is very apt to this discussion. I consider myself a Calvinist, but am annoyed when other Calvinists claim to see no ambiguity or mystery concerning the subject of election.

    I don’t read German, but that sentence from Wiki seems to me to be consistent with Luther’s thought in that book, although I doubt that Luther ever wrote that salvation is “simple” in any way.

  310. Headless Unicorn Guy wrote:

    Once Proof of Election was getting rich (“Blessed”), and that fermented into the Prosperity Gospel by way of Robber Baron Capitalism.

    I’ve always been amused at people who are YEC, and yet hold to robber-baron capitalism, which is actually a kind of Darwinian ‘survival of the fittest’

    a strange set of conflicted beliefs, I’d say 🙂

  311. truthseeker00 wrote:

    It is no wonder these people are as cold as ice. If they had any heart they might grieve for those their imitation god consigned to hell – for no reason other than to ‘get himself some glory’. They might have the ‘grace’ to not rejoice that at least they were chosen, and to hell with the rest – literally!

    I had this debate with a hyper-Calvinist once. She said that she was glad when Pilate and Judas sinned because that secured her salvation. I told her that her attitude was just purely selfish, and also that she was rejoicing in iniquity (see 1 Corinthians 13). She accepted the rebuke and said “I ought to feel sad for the unsaved”. But this then led on to something…is that sadness a reflection of God’s sadness over the lost? If it is, then is God conflicted within himself – he has determined to destroy them but is grieved at the same time? Or does that human sadness show that she is more righteous and compassionate than God? Her Calvinism led to all kinds of absurd implications!

  312. ZechZav wrote:

    It is no wonder these people are as cold as ice.

    On another note, I was at a complimentarian church over 10 years ago and the topic came up. One person said with great coldness “if God predestines your unsaved relatives to hell it’s his right to do that”. He later said “if the Bible is racist, sexist and homophobic so be it!” That came up in various discussions on Christian anti-semitism, opposition to women in leadership and the gay marriage debate. Others were complacent and smug in their view that God had chosen them. With this attitude it is no wonder that they can turn a blind eye and sell books by CJ Mahaney.

  313. Lydia wrote:

    If it were only total depravity, they would make better choices AFTER their regeneration was activated, right? If not, why? Driscoll is an example. Why did he become increasingly worse after his regeneration activation? It’s weird.

    Because he found that if he continued to act totally depraved as a preacher, he could attract a multitude of like-minded young men, who preferred a weird and perverted brand of religion rather than the real thing.

  314. Headless Unicorn Guy wrote:

    “I’M ELECT! I CAN ACT AS DEPRAVED AS I WANNA AND GOD STILL PUTS ME INTO HEAVEN! WIN-WIN!”

    Unfortunately HUG, there appears to be a lot of that sort of reasoning within New Calvinism.

  315. Max wrote:

    but it’s not a matter of God saving some against their will

    JeffB wrote:

    The problem is that most people, I think, have an image of God dragging kicking and screaming people into heaven.

    The inconsistent language of the confessions regarding free will make this a difficult topic to tackle. I’ll use the Westminster Confession of Faith (WCF) to show why I think Calvinism teaches that some (= all of the elect) people are saved against their will.

    Article 3.3: “By the decree of God, for the manifestation of His glory, some men and angels are predestinated unto everlasting life; and others foreordained to everlasting death.”
    This makes it clear that only “some” are saved. It also shows where people like Piper get their idea of double-predestination.

    Article 9.3: “Man, by his fall into a state of sin, has wholly lost all ability of will to any spiritual good accompanying salvation: so as, a natural man, being altogether averse from that good, and dead in sin, is not able, by his own strength, to convert himself, or to prepare himself thereunto.”
    This tells us that man’s unregenerate will is opposed to salvation. It’s not just that man cannot save himself, he is opposed to even wanting salvation.

    Article 10.1:“renewing their wills, and, by His almighty power, determining them to that which is good, and effectually drawing them to Jesus Christ.”
    Article 10.2: “This effectual call is of God’s free and special grace alone, not from anything at all foreseen in man, who is altogether passive therein, until, being quickened and renewed by the Holy Spirit, he is thereby enabled to answer this call, and to embrace the grace offered and conveyed in it.”
    This tells us that God changes a person’s will from not wanting to be saved to wanting to be saved. God’s free will is what matters, not man’s.

    The difficulty comes from the matter of perspective. Taken from the perspective of the unregenerate person, God changes their will against their will (but only for some – the elect). Before their regeneration they actually do kick and scream against God. Taken from the perspective of the regenerate, they are glad they are saved and feel like it is their own will to be saved (not kicking and screaming), but in reality they never would have made that choice other than by irresistible grace changing their will at a time when they still did not want to be saved. None of the regenerate can claim that it was their choice that caused them to be saved, it was God’s calling to which they had no option but to say yes. Of course they are overjoyed and rightly praise God for their salvation, but to say that their choice was free has no basis in the confessions.

    For those who can stomach it, this article is how Piper describes the bondage of the will per Martin Luther: http://www.desiringgod.org/messages/the-bondage-of-the-will-the-sovereignty-of-grace-and-the-glory-of-god. This one quote kind of sums it up:

    The power and pervasiveness of our bondage is such that God must create and decisively fulfill the act of faith and the pursuit of holiness.

    I hope this helps explain what I was trying to get at.

  316. JeffB wrote:

    I was concerned with the aspect of God saving people against their wills. And not just with *you* saying it; over time, I’ve seen or heard many people saying that that is what Calvinists believe, without giving an example. I know the answer is, as you said, that there are none who have said it, and I know what you mean by “word salad.”

    I don’t think you can say “All Calvinists believe this…” or “All Calvinists don’t believe this…” I’m sure there are Calvinists out there who believe people are saved against their will before they are quickened. And for many of us here at TWW who have encountered neo-Calvinists, we’ve met some of them.

    For many I’ve met, the reason for the word salad is that they believe you have to believe the entire framework or not, or you are disobedient to God. So they misunderstand parts because they never really bothered to study it, or they don’t want to be honest that is what they really believe. And sadly, there are a good number of Calvinist leaders out there, especially now the neo-Calvinists, who really work hard to emphasize that people shouldn’t question what they believe and just obey.

  317. JeffB wrote:

    I was concerned with the aspect of God saving people against their wills.

    Please check back later – I posted a reply with quotes from the WCF, but my comment is still in time-out.

    Everyone eventually appeals to mystery. It just depends on how far they get down the path before they do so. I once saw John MacArthur explain the doctrines of grace in detail. When asked how God decides whom to save he smugly answered, “Mystery.”

  318. dee wrote:

    cannot believe that God ordained that specific event. Wade is comfortable with that belief. He claims I have a problem with my perspective…

    And this is why I cannot read anything that he writes and why I cannot respect or trust him at all. He’s “comfortable with that belief.” Comfortable!

  319. ZechZav wrote:

    She said that she was glad when Pilate and Judas sinned because that secured her salvation.

    I could not understand why some took the view of Judas as a victim, Judas had no choice and was predestined to betray Jesus. Now I understand they likely had once held to this harsh determinist strain of Calvinist belief. That anyone would relegate such arbitrary and callous actions to a Creator that they would still follow mystifies me.

    If we are made in God’s image some must have projected He is as callous and unloving as they are.

  320. @ Bill M:
    when you see glee from some ‘saved’ ‘Christian’ that others are ‘going to hell’, you see a person in the throes of some serious trouble emotionally

  321. truthseeker00 wrote:

    If there is no choosing, there is no point in the cross. This, of course, is why Calvinism must turn salvation into a forensic legal transaction, rather than the beautiful act of loving mercy that it is. ‘Debt cancelled. Here is your get out of hell free card. Next.’ It is no wonder these people are as cold as ice. If they had any heart they might grieve for those their imitation god consigned to hell – for no reason other than to ‘get himself some glory’. They might have the ‘grace’ to not rejoice that at least they were chosen, and to hell with the rest – literally!
    Oh, I know their script – I can quote it. They have been well trained to never read their bibles without their distorting Calvinist lenes, to not think rationally, to not question even the most atrocious, immoral actions of their false god and to accept whatever their ‘authorities’ tell them, however hurtful or destructive to themselves or others.
    It really is the most brutal anti-Christ religion Satan could dream up.

    You have articulated this so perfectly for me (and I have to believe many others). God bless you!

  322. A. Stacy wrote:

    I almost chuckled reading this but my anger caught up with me… Few things that change my blood pressure as much as this.

    Same here!

  323. Debi Calvet wrote:

    And this is why I cannot read anything that he writes and why I cannot respect or trust him at all. He’s “comfortable with that belief.” Comfortable!

    Same here; simply can’t read one word of his. “Comfortable”? My word.

  324. Boston Lady wrote:

    Debi Calvet wrote:

    And this is why I cannot read anything that he writes and why I cannot respect or trust him at all. He’s “comfortable with that belief.” Comfortable!

    Same here; simply can’t read one word of his. “Comfortable”? My word.

    Usually they’re “Comfortable” because it wasn’t THEIR ass in the crosshairs.

    As long as God’s Omnipotent Sovereignty breaks their way…

  325. Christiane wrote:

    @ Bill M:
    when you see glee from some ‘saved’ ‘Christian’ that others are ‘going to hell’, you see a person in the throes of some serious trouble emotionally

    Again, it’s not MY ass getting beaten!

    “Ha! ha! ha! ha!
    Ho! ho! ho! ho!
    Chuckle chuckle chuckle chuckle!
    Snicker snicker snicker snicker!
    Guffaw Guffaw Guffaw Guffaw Guffaw Guffaw!
    Yuk! yuk! yuk! yuk!
    Yuk! yuk! yuk! yuk!
    Yuk! yuk! yuk! yuk!
    …”
    — Loudon Wainwright III, “Unrequited to the Nth Degree”

  326. dee wrote:

    I do not think God ordains each and every act of cruelty. Calvinist do.

    Calvinists are, of course, dead wrong in this view of God. Whether they appear civil in their discourse clean-shaven in a suit, or potty-mouths with spiky hair and skinny jeans, both Old and New Calvinists misrepresent the very character of God. God sovereignly acts in love, mercy, kindness, justice and truth. He does not ordain evil; He would never will acts of cruelty. To view God this way, while also preaching truth about God in other areas, is to cast a shadow on a pastor’s entire ministry. There are things that God cannot do (yep, I said that); He cannot use His sovereignty for evil.

    I realize that a Calvinist could come at you with Scripture to support their position on this, but text taken out of context of the whole of Scripture could never place God as one who ordains evil. Certainly, He has shown Himself in wrath against men and nations who live ungodly, but this is done to discipline in love that they might turn from their wicked ways. To believe that God would ordain abuse to come into the life of an innocent child, is to believe in a Calvinist God that is not the God of the Bible.

  327. Headless Unicorn Guy wrote:

    “I’M ELECT! I CAN ACT AS DEPRAVED AS I WANNA AND GOD STILL PUTS ME INTO HEAVEN! WIN-WIN!”

    I’m pretty sure this would have been considered ‘non-elect’ behavior by old school Calvinists. It makes no sense.

    Max wrote:

    I realize that a Calvinist could come at you with Scripture to support their position on this

    Here’s the thing, you can see where this is coming from. It’s not all out of context. It’s just that bible has multiple areas where two ideas are present and they may seem contradictory. You can come out with different ideas.

    My (old school Calvinist) pastor is doing a thing on evil soon and I’m interested to hear what he says.

  328. @ Headless Unicorn Guy:
    there seems an awful lot of hubris with ‘I’m saved, but they’re going to hell’ kind of thing ……. no concept of God’s mercy or the great power coming from the Paschal Event, no

    but ‘why’? maybe the need to feel superior? or ‘chosen’?
    but that doesn’t even begin to explain the glee over someone else in trouble ???
    I can’t sort it out in my head.

  329. Lea wrote:

    You can come out with different ideas.

    But not if the Holy Spirit is leading you to truth. As has been noted often on this blog and elsewhere, Calvinists talks a LOT about ‘God’, infrequently about Christ, and hardly a mention of the Holy Spirit.

  330. Max wrote:

    Calvinists talks a LOT about ‘God’, infrequently about Christ, and hardly a mention of the Holy Spirit.

    It is not christian doctrine that the Holy Spirit might lead in one direction, Christ in a different direction and God in yet a third direction. So what difference does it make what terminology they use since the three are the one God.

  331. okrapod wrote:

    So what difference does it make what terminology they use since the three are the one God.

    Orthodox Christians believe in a Trinity of one God in three persons, with equal power and authority. New Calvinists, in their Eternal Subordination of the Son doctrine, have diminished Jesus and the Holy Spirit. Christ, Himself, said the the Father would send the Holy Spirit to lead believers into all truth. Yet, New Calvinists have largely cut the Spirit out of the equation when it comes to interpreting Scripture. Instead of revelation by the Spirit, they prefer the teachings and traditions of men … and have put Calvin on the throne in that regard.

  332. Ken F wrote:

    That is a very common misconception. Nowhere does the Bible say we inherited a sin nature from Adam. It says we inherited mortality (“and so death spread to all men”). This is a big difference. Also, nowhere does the Bible say we have a sin nature. It says we have flesh (sarx in Greek). Some translations incorrectly translate sarx as sin nature.

    Great comment! I’ve come to the same conclusion since the turn of the century. Prior to that I would have never dared to think differently than what I was taught by others. So far as I can determine, Rabbinic thought acknowledges a propensity toward sin, but not ‘sin nature’ as the default condition, which is one of the corner stones of Augustinian theology.

  333. Max wrote:

    But not if the Holy Spirit is leading you to truth.

    None of us know for sure that we have the whole truth. I think I’m with paul, For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face: now I know in part; but then shall I know even as also I am known.

  334. okrapod wrote:

    Max wrote:
    Calvinists talks a LOT about ‘God’, infrequently about Christ, and hardly a mention of the Holy Spirit.
    It is not christian doctrine that the Holy Spirit might lead in one direction, Christ in a different direction and God in yet a third direction. So what difference does it make what terminology they use since the three are the one God.

    I often wondered about this too. But it was unsettling that God is the ONLY the focus and theme over and over, and Jesus gets a sort of sidelined, honorable mention in the Neo Cal world.

    “The Sovereignty of Jesus” just doesn’t have the same ring. Nor does, “Jesus chose you for salvation before the foundation of the world”. These things can be said but when we think of Jesus Christ and His message and methods, it is not as great a fit. I started to wonder if pew sitters of a younger variety might be confused that Jesus was a different god when I figured out what ESS was. Same for the Holy Spirit. I stopped taking for granted that when I mentioned God, people were thinking Trinity. Often they aren’t.

    When I was looking into all the Trinity stuff, one of the things that sort of surprised me was how little God is referred to as “Father” in the OT. Some of the few mentions are descriptors such as, Father of Israel and such. But not so much “God the Father” as in the Trinity. Yet, “God the Father” is all over the NT. And I think that is probably metaphorical for communication purposes in that time and era.

    Even the coming Messiah is referred to as “Everlasting Father” in Isaiah 9. Make of all that what you will. I agree the terminology should not be that big of a deal except perhaps when some segments of Christendom describe God as more like Allah than the God in the Flesh, Jesus Christ. Then I think it does create a problem and has created problems. Yet they are One True God of One Will.

    The distinctions make me uncomfortable to a certain degree. But that is personal after being around ESS guys for so long who sort of dis Jesus and keep the Holy Spirit for themselves. Jesus said, “I and the Father are One”. It caused the Pharisees to want to kill him. Its the whole Human/God thing we constantly try to grasp often emphasizing one over the other.

  335. Christiane wrote:

    but ‘why’? maybe the need to feel superior? or ‘chosen’?
    but that doesn’t even begin to explain the glee over someone else in trouble ???
    I can’t sort it out in my head.

    I think many of them are mentally ill.

  336. Ken F wrote:

    The inconsistent language of the confessions regarding free will make this a difficult topic to tackle. I’ll use the Westminster Confession of Faith (WCF) to show why I think Calvinism teaches that some (= all of the elect) people are saved against their will.

    You quoted some apt portions of the WCF, but left out, I think, the one most appertaining to the question of free will concerning choosing God for salvation. You quoted this part of 10:1 – “renewing their wills, and, by His almighty power, determining them to that which is good, and effectually drawing them to Jesus Christ.” But you left out what follows: “yet so, *as they come most freely*, being made willing by His grace.” The Scr. references include Ps 110:3, John 6:37, and Rom 6:16-18.

    We may not completely understand it, but there is an element of choice. That’s why I don’t think “kicking and screaming” is an accurate way of putting it.

    “I once saw John MacArthur explain the doctrines of grace in detail. When asked how God decides whom to save he smugly answered, ‘Mystery.'”

    What else could he have said? We can’t possibly know the answer.

  337. ishy wrote:

    I don’t think you can say “All Calvinists believe this…” or “All Calvinists don’t believe this…” I’m sure there are Calvinists out there who believe people are saved against their will before they are quickened. And for many of us here at TWW who have encountered neo-Calvinists, we’ve met some of them.

    For many I’ve met, the reason for the word salad is that they believe you have to believe the entire framework or not, or you are disobedient to God. So they misunderstand parts because they never really bothered to study it, or they don’t want to be honest that is what they really believe. And sadly, there are a good number of Calvinist leaders out there, especially now the neo-Calvinists, who really work hard to emphasize that people shouldn’t question what they believe and just obey.

    I should have made clear that by “Calvinists” I meant mainly those at around the time of the Reformation, not the so-called “Neo-Cals” of today, some of whom are blockheads, nor the Hyper-Cals.

  338. JeffB wrote:

    “I once saw John MacArthur explain the doctrines of grace in detail. When asked how God decides whom to save he smugly answered, ‘Mystery.’”

    What else could he have said? We can’t possibly know the answer.

    seems God gave the choice of whether to turn towards Him or not to turn towards Him to humankind, although He certainly calls people to Him but allows them that choice

    when people deny that God has given mankind ‘choice’, they enter into a very unusual can of worms …. very convoluted ‘reasoning’

  339. Lea wrote:

    None of us know for sure that we have the whole truth.

    Amen! But try telling that to a New Calvinist!

  340. Max wrote:

    To view God this way, while also preaching truth about God in other areas, is to cast a shadow on a pastor’s entire ministry. There are things that God cannot do (yep, I said that); He cannot use His sovereignty for evil.

    I’ve heard it said that the basic difference between Christianity and Islam is that Islam emphasizes the Omnipotent Soveriegnity of God and Christianity emphasizes the loving nature of God.

    “To view God this way” results in a God who is OMNIPOTENT but NOT Benevolent.
    A God of Raw POWER and POWER alone.

  341. Christiane wrote:

    @ Headless Unicorn Guy:
    there seems an awful lot of hubris with ‘I’m saved, but they’re going to hell’ kind of thing …….

    I’ve heard it called “The Abominable Fancy”, that Heaven includes endless watching and gloating over the Damned in Hell.

  342. Max wrote:

    Lea wrote:
    None of us know for sure that we have the whole truth.
    Amen! But try telling that to a New Calvinist!

    Who KNOW they DO have the whole truth —
    They have Calvin’s Institutes!
    God All Figured Out!

  343. Max wrote:

    There are things that God cannot do (yep, I said that); He cannot use His sovereignty for evil.

    That is correct. Paul said in one of his letters that “God cannot LIE”. That poses a problem for Calvinism too. If God tells us to go and preach the gospel to all creation when he has already decreed who will be saved, how can it be a sincere offer to the non-elect? Surely the offer of eternal life, salvation and forgiveness of sins is an offer in bad faith, knowing that they are programmed to reject it.

  344. JeffB wrote:

    But you left out what follows: “yet so, *as they come most freely*, being made willing by His grace.”

    I probably should have included that part of the quote because it does such a good job of illustrating the inconsistency I find in the Calvinists confessions. In some passages they make it abundantly clear that humans will not by their own will choose God until he gives then a new will. But then they insert the caveat that our will is actually free. But to me that kind of free will is just an illusion. Note that it says “being made willing.” The belief is that humans are so totally depraved that we don’t even have a willingness to turn to God until he irresistibly makes us willing by changing our will. That is not free will.

    I believe that Calvinists exaggerate the fall. They overestimate man’s initial state as perfection, and his fallen state as totally depraved and spiritually unresponsive. The Bible teaches that man’s initial state is innocence and immortality (not perfection), and his fallen state is non-innocence and death (not total depravity). As a consequence, they end up denying the ability of the Holy Spirit to regenerate us by convincing of of the truth. Instead, our wills have to be changed by an irresistible force outside of ourselves. How does that glorify God?

    As for MacArthur’s statement on mystery, I believe Calvinists go way too far before they finally appeal to it. They end up destroying lives and shipwrecking people’s faith while trying to explain mysteries, but they don’t really ever answer or explain anything. It’s like destroying an exquisite machine just to learn how it works, only in the end to not really knowing any more than you started with, but now the machine is useless. Calvinism, in my opinion, leaves people worse off than when they started.

    I probably am not able to see consistency in Calvinism because I am not one of the elect. If I was one of the elect it would all make sense to me.

  345. Muff Potter wrote:

    I’ve come to the same conclusion since the turn of the century. Prior to that I would have never dared to think differently than what I was taught by others

    I was first confronted with this thought when I read “Tired of Trying to Measure Up” by Jeff VanVonderen. That realization shook my foundations. I’m glad I learned about it – it was one of the first big blows to free me from what I was taught in my youth.

  346. Ken F wrote:

    fallen state is non-innocence and death

    Typo, I should have typed “mortal” instead of “death.” Our fallen state is non-innocence and mortal.

  347. ZechZav wrote:

    If God tells us to go and preach the gospel to all creation when he has already decreed who will be saved, how can it be a sincere offer to the non-elect? Surely the offer of eternal life, salvation and forgiveness of sins is an offer in bad faith, knowing that they are programmed to reject it.

    Wouldn’t you know it? They have a great answer for that question as well. They say it’s fair because no one knows who the elect are, so preaching the gospel to everyone is not really lying. More double-speak. And since the non-elect are going to reject it anyway, it even further justifies their eternal torment for rejecting a gospel that god never gave them the will to believe.

  348. Jack wrote:

    First, I do not think legalism is grace of any type. It sounds as though these churches are terrified that the woman might *gasp* get corrupted by having too much time away from the church. That’s pathological control, not grace.

    It’s almost as if they believe that salvation comes from hearing preaching about the Word (not the Word itself, mind, but the preaching, which has been said to be the “high point” of the worship service by some).

  349. ZechZav wrote:

    If God tells us to go and preach the gospel to all creation when he has already decreed who will be saved, how can it be a sincere offer to the non-elect?

    Exactly. And that is the primary concern I have with the Calvinization of a once-great Southern Baptist Convention. For over 150 years, SBC has carried a denominational gifting of evangelism around the world – preaching a Gospel of Christ which can save ALL people … whosoever will may come. That message and mission will change under New Calvinist leadership going forward. An “evangelism” aimed at harvesting the elect is different than reaching the lost in Jesus’ name. There is no passion for lost souls in reformed theology, since their determinist God has already predestined who will be saved and who will be damned. I wonder if these folks actually sit down and reason through their theology by comparing it with the whole of Scripture, rather than cherry-picked verses? Those who have are now non-Calvinists.

  350. Max wrote:

    ZechZav wrote:

    If God tells us to go and preach the gospel to all creation when he has already decreed who will be saved, how can it be a sincere offer to the non-elect?

    Exactly. And that is the primary concern I have with the Calvinization of a once-great Southern Baptist Convention. For over 150 years, SBC has carried a denominational gifting of evangelism around the world – preaching a Gospel of Christ which can save ALL people … whosoever will may come. That message and mission will change under New Calvinist leadership going forward. An “evangelism” aimed at harvesting the elect is different than reaching the lost in Jesus’ name. There is no passion for lost souls in reformed theology, since their determinist God has already predestined who will be saved and who will be damned. I wonder if these folks actually sit down and reason through their theology by comparing it with the whole of Scripture, rather than cherry-picked verses? Those who have are now non-Calvinists.

    This New Calvinism is pure insanity IMO.

  351. Ken F wrote:

    They say it’s fair because no one knows who the elect are, so preaching the gospel to everyone is not really lying. More double-speak.

    Well, I’ve been monitoring New Calvinist sermon podcasts in my area and I have yet to hear them preach the Gospel that Jesus saves, calling sinners to repentance and faith in Christ by pointing to His sacrifice for them on the Cross. They prefer teaching to preaching and teach what they hear New Calvinist celebrities saying, rather than delivering a “Thus saith the Lord” message to their congregations.

  352. mot wrote:

    This New Calvinism is pure insanity IMO.

    Yes, the tenets of reformed theology will drive you crazy after a while. New Calvinists are not in their right spiritual minds.

  353. Max wrote:

    mot wrote:

    This New Calvinism is pure insanity IMO.

    Yes, the tenets of reformed theology will drive you crazy after a while. New Calvinists are not in their right spiritual minds.

    Wonder if they will ever come to their senses?

  354. @ Max:
    Seven years ago from the NYT; http://nyti.ms/2klHArV

    Apparently this has been brewing for awhile, and the national secular press (in this case, the NYT) does not have its head in the sand, unlike some of the religious media.

    Thank God for TWW.

  355. From the post: “Those who are part of Wilkin’s tribe are full of all kinds of rules and regulations since we are are supposedly free.”

    Free to create more rules? Like how the Talmud was added to the Torah? And now the Gospel has morphed into multiple denominations?

  356. mot wrote:

    Wonder if they will ever come to their senses?

    Some are, Praise the Lord! They are finding new freedom in Christ! Free from aberrant teachings, free from authoritarian rule over their spiritual lives, free from patriarchal abuses, free to use their spiritual gifts regardless of gender.

  357. JYJames wrote:

    Seven years ago from the NYT; http://nyti.ms/2klHArV

    Thanks for the link, JY. The final sentence says it all: “New Calvinism underscores a curious fact: the doctrine of total human depravity has always had a funny way of emboldening, rather than humbling, its adherents.”

    There definitely is no shortage of arrogance (and depravity!) in New Calvinist ranks! While Driscoll has faded a bit from the scene since that article was written, his legacy lives on in the ministries of a multitude of Driscollites.

  358. Ken F wrote:

    They say it’s fair because no one knows who the elect are, so preaching the gospel to everyone is not really lying.

    As you say – it’s double-talk and deceptive. They should really change the message to: “we don’t know if Jesus died for you, but if you find yourself believing one day then you may have eternal life but you may not. We can’t tell you anything for definite!”

    John 3:16: God so loved the elect that they have eternal life before they are born and at some point they will believe in him.

  359. Max wrote:

    mot wrote:

    Wonder if they will ever come to their senses?

    Some are, Praise the Lord! They are finding new freedom in Christ! Free from aberrant teachings, free from authoritarian rule over their spiritual lives, free from patriarchal abuses, free to use their spiritual gifts regardless of gender.

    That is fantastic news, Max!

  360. I sometimes wonder if Dave Matthews came from a Calvinist background. The lyrics to “What Would You Say” seem to allude to it. He’s from South Africa and there’s certainly a strong Calvinist influence there.

  361. Guest wrote:

    Eric Davis’s selfish, thuggy, heartless, self important, know nothing misogyny is the reason I have not been to church since I was fifteen and find atheist men a million times more loving, respectful, and compassionate towards women and little girls.

    Because they’re not compelled to always be proving to their peers “How Righteous I Am”?

  362. Lydia wrote:

    Kemi wrote:
    If everything is predestined, God’s will from the beginning, why do you need a Holy Spirit?

    According to Tullian from his book quote above in the thread, the Holy spirit preaches the Gospel to you daily.

    The Holy Spirit is God’s 24/7/365 Propaganda Ministry?

  363. Christiane wrote:

    I’ve always been amused at people who are YEC, and yet hold to robber-baron capitalism, which is actually a kind of Darwinian ‘survival of the fittest’

    Mostly because they’re personally benefiting from that kind of Social Darwinism.

    When Darwin hit the big time, some more-Darwinist-than-Darwin fanboys were there to pick up his ideas and run with them. Social Darwinism was applying Darwin’s ideas (which were limited to physical biology) to social interactions; not surprisingly, those who advocated these always placed themselves as the ones on top. Social Darwinism shook down into three main types:

    * Yuppieism (robber-baron capitalism) — the original, cited for justification by various Captains of Induatry who would have made Ayn Rand proud. Competition for Survival of the Fittest is between individuals; winners on top, losers best to Die and Reduce the Surplus Population.
    * Communism — where the competing organisms are social classes and economic systems in a Hegelian either-or Dialectic. Of which Communism is the Natural Fittest to Survive and Absorb/Destroy the others — ask any Communist.
    * Naziism — where the competing organisms are Races, of which the superior-evolved Master Race (guess who) not only crowds out but actively wipes out all the Subhuman others. (If it weren’t for the example of the NSDAP acting on this to its logical conclusion, Eugenics and Master Race Theory would still be respectable mainstream science.)

    Aside: “Survival of the Fittest” does not mean the More Fit wipe out the Less Fit in some form of Natural Genocide. Darwin meant it in the context of relative reproductive success over time. (Just like Quiverfull and The 200-Year Plan, the “more fit” are those which are able to outbreed the others. The rationale behind Quiverfull is pure original Darwinism.)

  364. Hi I haven’t been here for over 8 years. It is too time consuming to read every post, due to my work schedule, but I’m laid up in injury so I came back.
    I read many comments on this thread..and I wanted to share my recent discoveries.
    I found a group of men who are ” rightly dividing”.. On YouTube.
    It’s been three months since I’ve been studying with them.
    It has answered many questions for me, many gray areas that some have mentioned here.
    Especially the programs God has..the gospels ..the kingdom, his people Israel.the church, the ” mystery”.. Now, the Jews and Gentiles..the ” church”.
    I would urge you to check out Rhodney beaulieu..his teaching in Romans 9 online.
    Also Richard Jordan.
    These guys have ” churches” of 20 to 30 people. Not huge followings IMO Vic it’s really truth.
    Another is Les Feldick, a former Midwest farmer who has been holding studies for over 30 years.
    I wonder why it took so long to find these teachings..thankfully for YouTube we San find them.
    They cross reference OT with Paul’s epistles in a way I have never done.
    Check them out.
    Rhodney is in Ct.
    I’m not here to be a troll. Just to share information.
    Now that I understand that the gospels were for the Jews at that time, awaiting the kingdom.. and not the ” church”, I’m not confused anymore.

  365. @ Hannah:

    I am sorry you’ve been injured and are recovering.

    I wanted to share with you that this makes you vulnerable to undue influence from others.

    What you’ve shared…isn’t a true understanding of The Gospel. Perhaps you should go to some more mainstream sources and churches.

    Check out Steve Hassan’s blog on the internet, his book, and other important work about undue influence. He’s also on youtube.

    What were you like before your injury? Were you searching? Lonely?

    Be careful.

    Praying for recovery.

  366. Velour

    I’ve been a believer 20 years. What issues do you have with what I shared.
    Specifically that is.
    Why should I be careful.
    You suppose I am under undue influence, so when you make that claim, I hope you can back it up with facts. What specifically do you have issues with.
    Searching, lonely?
    What ?
    I ought to know better than to share anything on a blog.

    Thank you

  367. Velour

    I quickly googled Steve Hassan
    Exactly what do you believe about What I shared makes them or I involved in a cult?
    That’s quite a harsh judgement.

  368. @ Hannah:

    Be careful, Hannah.

    They are steering you wrong. I didn’t say they were a cult. I don’t know about them.
    But what you posted is simply incorrect about the Gospel.