A “Bourgeois” Christian Longs for a Unifying Gospel

When was the last time you laughed for the sheer joy of your salvation? People are not attracted to somber doctrines. There is no persuasive power in a gloomy and morbid religion. Let the world see your joy and you won't be able to keep them away. To be filled with God is to be filled with joy. -Anonymous

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TWW received the following insightful comment from “memje.”

“I decided to go to a Reformed seminary because I wanted to learn more about God so I may be better equipped to serve. It was the closest and cheapest Christian college I knew so I signed up. Little did I know I would fall straight into the world of dogmatic Christians who flaunt their theology and focus on biblical obscurities and in doing so make division out of it. I would like to affirm your claims about “Calvinistas” as I have first hand experience with them. This isn’t to say they are all like this. There are many godly men and women in my seminary. But this “YRR” is a real issue.”

As most of you know, I, Dee, grew up in Salem, Massachusetts and came to the faith during an episode of Star Trek as a teen of 17. My conversion was a most unusual occurrence in my neck of the woods and I had a hard time finding a church. I eventually landed, by the grace of God, at the venerable Park Street Church in Boston. This church is located on the Freedom Trail off Boston Commons and is a major hub of evangelical Christian activity for much of the eastern part of Massachusetts. It drew college students from Harvard, MIT, BU, etc. It was not unusual for people to drive well over and hour to get there and they were glad to do so since, back then, it was difficult to find fellowship in that area.

People were so glad to be around other Christians and enjoyed the intellectual climate of the church. I was encouraged to read books by CS Lewis, Tozier, etc. We were regularly exposed to speakers such as John Stott, Corrie Ten Boom, etc. Founded in 1809, Park Street is a church filled with historic “firsts.  “America” (“My Country ‘Tis of Thee”) was first sung here in 1831 and William Lloyd Garrison delivered his first major public address in Boston against slavery in the church.

Park Street (which is Congregational-a polity that raises the ire of Calvinistas everywhere) gives 40% of its budget to missions and each Sunday has people from 59 nations who worship there. How many of the Calvinista churches do the same? I knew members who were baptized as infants, who were fully immersed as adults, who were Reformed, not Reformed, who had not trouble with alcohol consumption and others who did not imbibe. There was also a strong affiliation with Gordon Conwell Theological Seminary.

I grew used to people of differing doctrinal beliefs who all worshipped under one roof with wise pastors who knew how to major on the majors. Recently, Park Street commented favorable on the Biologos site, forever clenching the enmity of the likes of Ken Ham and his "biblical" buddies.

Today, however, I am regularly confronted by those who believe that, in order to be a “real” Christian one must believe in all sorts of doctrines such as 5 point Calvinism, adult baptism, young earth creationism, premillenial rapture, weekly communion, no alcohol, gender restrictions of all sorts, patriarchy, quiverfull, and on and on.

There is a crassness associated with these new mandates that is breathtaking. Here is a video by Perry Noble, a pastor who is adored by the Calvinistas and who preaches on the same level as Mark Driscoll, if you get my drift. He says that “you officially suck” if you don’t like the music that plays at his church. You Suck! How gospelesque. Special thanks to FBC Jax Watchdog for the video.

Perry Noble Tells Church Members: "You Officially Suck as a Human Being" If You Don't Like the Music from FBCJax Watchdog on Vimeo.

 

 

Christianity Today

Recently, I have read criticism leveled at a magazine that I love very much. I started subscribing to Christianity Today while a member of Park Street(which highly recommended it) and have found in it a balance that appealed to me. However, many of the critics claim that it has gone liberal (which is the equivalent of saying that it isn't a particular kind of Christian). To that charge, I say “baloney.” But, then again many of those same critics would probably say the same thing about me.

In an editorial written by the President of Christianity Today, January 2012, p.4, Harold Smith hints at the things of which I speak. Billy Graham, who founded this magazine, recently blessed the staff with a visit. Here is what Smith had to say.

“Graham wanted the magazine to showcase truth peaceably. He wanted Christianity Today to model a balanced, Christ-honoring Christianity that spoke truth with both conviction and love. Such a balanced approach remains one of the missing qualities of nearly every aspect of our culture, including the church. Paraphrasing sociologist Christian Smith from his new book, The Bible Made Impossible, every polemically expressed opinion of every blogger or personality du jour is presented as if it were dogma or doctrine. And even more worrisome, too many of us are willing and wanting to believe and blindly follow such opinion as “gospel truth.”
 

"Gospel Truth?"

There it is. “Gospel truth” Smith has hit it on the noggin. Better yet, that phrase is also tied to the “personality du jour.” The Calvinsta crowd wants us to believe that they have the “gospel truth” on gender roles. And their adored “personalities” write about patriarchy, ESS and the sin of letting women read Scripture in the pulpit. Others want us to believe they have the “gospel truth” on eschatology, creation, baptism, etc.

This means that all who do not agree with their position have violated “gospel truth.” And since the Gospel is the good news of our salvation via the sacrifice of Jesus this means that “you ain’t saved, baby.” These groups of people have co-opted the precious Gospel for their doctrinal mandates. So, the Gospel Coalition is not a coalition of those who believe the Gospel. It is a coalition of those who believe in Calvinism which is redefined as The Gospel. If you are not Reformed, you are not a member of their gospel club.

These groups have another word that they sometimes substitute for gospel and that is the word “biblical.” They know what the Bible says about baptism, creation, eschatology, etc. If you disagree with them, then you are not “biblical” which implies that you are in danger of the “fiery flames of hell.”

How does Ken Ham, one of Al Mohler’s friends, put it? Oh yeah, if you do not believe the earth was created in 6 literal days then you are in danger of “denying the doctrine of the atonement.” That means you do not believe in the Gospel and are, therefore, a heretic.

Whenever we write on certain subjects like creationism, we get a fair number of people who accuse us of denying the Bible. This gives credence to Smith’s statement that “And even more worrisome, too many of us are willing and wanting to believe and blindly follow such opinion as “gospel truth.”

Perhaps Mark Noll’s statement is sounding more and more true as each year passes. He said that “the scandal of the evangelical mind is that there is not much of an evangelical mind.” Today’s evangelical "minds" focuses on secondary issues, raising them to the level of primary issues. If you don't agree, these "intellectuals" then proclaim you are "in error" and don't read the Bible "properly."

And these guys are very, very sneaky in how they frame their questions. Here is an example of my own experience in this area. I went to see a former pastor about the over the top rancor I saw in church members who believed in young earth as an absolute essential. I read to him from Wayne Grudem’s Systematic Theology, using a book that he would respect, since he was a Calvinista. In that book, Grudem said that this issue causes great division and that there should be some latitude on the part of leadership. I then went onto explain that I believed that this was a secondary issue.

Here is what he said and it is most revealing. “Are you saying that creation is a secondary issue?” I had to smile and he noticed it. I knew exactly what he was doing. Of course God created everything, we affirm this in every creed known to the church. He subtly tried to make the age of the earth a part of the essentials of God as Creator. This is a logic error (or was it just playing a silly Calvinista game-I’m not sure).

What exists today

Unfortunately, I see far too many churches in which any expression of a minor difference is perceived as a threat to insecure men whose faith is based on their own pet interpretations of Scripture.

  • Andy Davis called those who disagreed with his view on women deacons “unregenerate” and had them read Bible verses about “wicked” people.
  • Ken Ham of Answers in Genesis has questioned the salvation of those who do not believe as he does.
  • Tim Challies does not allow women to read the Scriptures in the pulpit. There was even a man on one Calvinista site who declared that Challies did not go far enough. What next- a Christian court of women outside the sanctuary?
  • The Calvinistas question the salvation of those who do not adhere exactingly to their ”gospel truth.”
  • “Gospel driven leaders” are now questioning the salvation of CS Lewis and Martin Luther.
  • Some reject Christianity Today as a liberal “Christian” magazine.
  • Some even believe that Billy Graham isn’t saved.

Then there are the personalities du jour: Mark Driscoll, CJ Mahaney, Perry Noble, Ed Young Jr., etc. Look at these men. Are they truly worthy of idolatry? So many of there admirers defend these men as if they were Jesus. I am waiting for the book The Complete Encyclopedia of Hero Apologetics. Learn how to “prove” that Driscoll’s Song of Solomon sermon is the only “biblical” interpretation.

My hope

So where does that leave me? I want to fellowship with people who understand that secondary issues should not divide us.

  • I am looking for a fellowship of Calvinists and Aminianists who can worship in the same room instead of taking potshots at one another.
  • I look for churches that allow for those who were baptized as infants and as adults.
  • I love a church in which charismatics and cessationists worship side by side.
  • I long for churches that actually attract agnostics and atheists by not shoving legalistic doctrine down their throats and do not resort to Las Vegas style preaching.
  • I look for groups in which folks use the NIV, ESV, KJV, NASB, etc. and respect one another's choices.
  • I long for a church in which people can discuss differing views on eschatology without rancor.
  • I wish that the Gospel Coalition was truly made up of all those who profess the Gospel.
  • I dream of a church in which a woman is appointed as one of the pastors and those who disagree with it do not turn their back on her, call her names or walk out in a huff.
  • I dream of a seminary in which women, who are studying and called upon to present their work, do not find themselves in a class of men who turn their backs on them or walk out.

I know that this can be done. I saw it at Park Street so many years ago. I saw it at Pete Briscoe’s Bent Tree Bible Fellowship, in Wade Burleson’s Emmanuel Baptist Church and I have seen it elsewhere as well. It is a theology based on love that does not compromise the true Gospel.

Until then, I have this blog and a whole bunch of readers who get it. There are commenters like “memje” who understand the difference between being Reformed and being a legalist. I will also continue to read Christianity Today and I applaud their wish to stick to a well-rounded, evangelical point of view.

What do I mean when I say that I am a bourgeois Christian? It means that I believe that Jesus, alone, saves us. I do not introduce myself as a Calvinist or any other sort of “ist” when I am asked what I believe. Nothing else and no one else is necessary to be a card carrying, committed Christian-not a particular view of God’s soveregnity, not a belief in a 6,000 year earth and certainly not the ESV, ESS, CBMW, etc. I am a conservative, traditional, conventional, stick-in-the-mud evangelical and I defy anyone to question my salvation and commitment.

Here is a word picture of what I believe. This is a video of a flash mob at the Antwerp Rail Station in Belgium. In the midst of rushing about, in rather bleak surroundings, some commuters encounter a surprising group of people of all ages. God is like that. He takes a group of people like us, and tells us to go out and bring joy, in the form of a loving Savior, to this sometimes drab and lonely world. Watch the faces of the observers. They seem to wake up and notice the happiness. May we convey this joy as we present the true Gospel of Jesus Christ, not some drab, legalistic imitation. And may many, many more join in our dance.

Reread the quote at the top of this post. Memje-this one’s dedicated to you.

Lydia’s Corner:  Ecclesiastes 4:1-6:12 2 Corinthians 6:14-7:7 Psalm 47:1-9 Proverbs 22:16

Comments

A “Bourgeois” Christian Longs for a Unifying Gospel — 69 Comments

  1. Ah, the delicate and difficult balance between freedom of the believer without compromising Scripture being the inerrant Word of God.
    Satan’s attack never varies: “Has God really said…?”
    So you look for freedom but defend the sanctity and inerrancy of Scripture which is always and forever under attack.
    A delicate balance to say the least.

  2. If you want a seminary where women can present in class and not be scorned and walked out on, try Houston Graduate School of Theology in Houston TX, I and my husband just retired from the seminary after helping found it 25 years ago. We are Quakers, my husband is the lay pastor of a United Methodist Church, the president is Baptist and other former and present faculty include Evangelical Quakers, Episcopalians, Lutheran, Reformed, Disciples of Christ,and several varieties of Baptists. etc. We have had students of more than 30 denominations and 40 countries. I am a
    former woman faculty member and there are several others still teaching. Look us up at http://www.hgst.edu. Now that the commercial is over I have a helpful hint for determining a seminary’s openness to women. Look for women administrators and faculty in traditiona
    seminary disciplines such as theology, biblical studies, preaching and church administration. Often less women friendly institutions confine women to “lesser” disciplines such as music and religious education. There are women friendly seminaries. Contact the Association of Theological Schools(ATS) especially their women faculty organization for help. Good luck and God bless,Barbara

  3. Although this is a bit of a rabbit trail, Tri Delta was founded in the shadow of Park Street Church so it holds a special place in my heart as well. 🙂

    One denomination I haven’t seen mentioned on this blog that might interest some is the Evangelical Covenant Church (see here: http://www.covchurch.org/). They practice both modes of baptism and allow each family to make their own decision. It’s the only church I’ve ever been in that followed that policy. They are also very open to women serving in every way.

  4. Thanks Dee for a wonderful and refreshing article.

    I especially like your statement, “I am looking for a fellowship of Calvinists and Aminianists who can worship in the same room instead of taking potshots at one another.” It reminds me of how the church where I grew up was run…that is until some rather rigid types took over.

  5. So some people think CT is going “liberal”? My take is that it’s been leaning toward a far more “conservative” (not sure that’s the right word) slant than in recent years – there’s seemingly lots of room for people in the YRR crowd, even some who seem to endorse patriarchy and quiverfull, as well as some forms of dominionism.

    [shivers]

    I generally go to sites like Religion Dispatches these days, since there’s commentary from a great variety of beliefs and positions. If that makes me “liberal,” then so be it. 😉

  6. Dee,

    I love this post!

    I am grateful that the Christianity Today staff has addressed this issue, and I look forward to reading the article you referenced.

  7. Excellent post. The church my husband and I have settled in sounds a lot like Park Street. It’s part of the Evangelical Free Church of America, and the denominational leadership sponsors a ministerial forum every year in which both (or many, if such is the case) sides of a minor issue come together not to issue a position statement one way or the other, but to have a courteous and reasoned dialogue about it. So refreshing.

    Question for Barbara, and apologies for veering off topic a bit here:

    I was reading over ATS’s Standards of Accreditation earlier this week after posting about my experiences at SBTS in the late 90s. At that time, SBTS had probably a half dozen female faculty members in the CE, music, and counseling departments. Today there are only 3–one music instructor and 2 instructors in the fledgling “women’s leadership” department. There are only 2 African-American faculty members, in spite of all the lip service given by the SBC in the 90s to racial reconciliation. I’m generally not in favor of “enforced” diversity (quota systems, etc) and would prefer to see positions go to the best-qualified candidates, but this begins to look suspicious to me, especially in light of the ATS standards requiring member schools to “promote racial and ethnic diversity” and to “promote the leadership and participation of women.” There’s a potential escape clause in “within the framework of each school’s stated purposes and theological commitments,” but it seems to me that SBTS is upholding the letter of the standards instead of their spirit (no surprise here since that seems to be how they handle the Scriptures, too). Do you have any idea how big a red flag this will be when ATS reevaluates SBTS’s accreditation status next year? What about the alarming percentage (42, by my calculations) of “home-grown” faculty appointees who earned their doctorates at SBTS (cf. standard 6.1.3)? Just curious–I’m torn between wanting to see academic integrity and free inquiry upheld and wanting the degree I earned through blood, sweat, and many tears still count for something in the eyes of the rest of academia.

    I had heard rumors that the head-hunting had stopped at the seminary; I guess this is why–the faculty is now completely homogeneous.

  8. I assure you that Calvinists do not “adore” Perry Noble. There may be a Calvinist here or there that likes him (like James MacDonald), but his statements are typically Reformed blog fodder.

  9. Along with the rhetoric of Perry Noble getting mad, talking about how he doesn’t care if others are mad….relegating them to the hallway if they dare be late (which would further make me want to be late and still walk in the sanctuary despite what he would want), I hear the words Oh my God, and holy crap. What’s wrong with this picture in light of the passages on the fruit of the Spirit in Galatians and 1 Corinthians 13? Perry Noble, Matt Chandler etc. are so wrong on so many levels.

  10. A quick note about faculty quotas: One of my good friends is a the president of a very conservative seminary. They would KILL to have more black professors. Sadly, even minimally qualified, conservative black theologians are few and far between. You just can’t get them. They have their pick of the seminaries they could chose to teach at. Good luck in finding and hiring one.

  11. Scott

    Make sure you read “Calvinsita” for Noble. I invented that term for a reason. I have no beef with traditional Calvinists.

  12. Debbie
    Good pick up. I cannot understand the fascination with Perry Noble. He is one bizarre hombre. He, along with a couple of others, gives me the willies when I listen to him.I guess his popularity among the Driscollite types is due to his staunch belief in certain secondary doctrines held near and dear by a certain crowd. So, if one espouses the “correct” doctrine du jour, one can be profane and vulgar.

  13. I can’t think of any persons I’d rather listen to preach the “gospel” less than the Gospel Coalition. I get the cold sweats just thinking about the battleship chains these guys call the “gospel”.

    Dee, great post. A hard hitting one. Way to start the new year off, sister!

    Thanks for keeping up this kind of message. I feel that there are too many SGMers starting to fall back into a comfort zone. Back into the “SGM is fundamentally sound, like the other Calvinistas; they just need to iron out the kinks”…even on some of the other blogs. I feel a complacency setting in. This kind of post reminds me that one can never get complacent in the face of these oppressors.

  14. Reply for Amy.Since I’m retired, I don’t have much connection at ATS any more. What I would suggest is to contact an ATS accredited institution you admire and ask them what they hear. There is also some information on the website. The most current information would be from a seminary which itself is going through the reaccreditation process in the near future. Your example from SBTS proves my point beautifully,thank you.
    Thank you ladies for your great blog. It’s especially interesting to me since I take Christianity Today and was tempted to cancel my subscription since I, probably erroneously, perceived it as biased in favor of Calvinism which was way too much for this Wesleyan-Arminian.

  15. Seneca,
    Your problem is that you simply cannot or will not be clear in what you say. You speak through a muddy tongue, and I find this disturbing and manipulative. Honestly, your posts are fit for no useful purpose unless they are clear about what they are trying to say.

    You said: “Ah, the delicate and difficult balance between freedom of the believer without compromising Scripture being the inerrant Word of God.
    Satan’s attack never varies: “Has God really said…?”

    Are you saying that anytime one questions another person’s perspective on a secondary issue related to the Bible that they are being Satanic? That is, to question, for example, let’s say a pastor’s perspective that women should not work outside the home, or that to not believe in a literal six day creation is an actual demonic manifestation couched in an inquiry?

    You see everyone, this kind of overt abuse of scripture guised as benevolent religious thinking has been a tool of despots and blood-spillers in the name of Christianity for years. This is precisely the kind of argument the neo-Reformed and Calvinistas use to subdue their congregants. This is exactly why blogs like this can never let up in the fight.

  16. re: Christianity Today

    An alternative is Christian Century, which I find a useful alternative. We have switched our subscription there, with an overlap of more than a year. With the available websites, there is little risk of missing the important news and there are useful features in CC that are not in CT.

  17. I have to know how many of the Calvinistas have come forward to say that they are concerned that the likes of C.S. Lewis, Martin Luther, and Billy Graham aren’t saved? They are sounding more and more like the old school church of christ. You know, some of them don’t believe you can be saved unless you are baptized in church of christ. I know that isn’t the case for all of them but I have met a few.

  18. I have been reading here for a year. This post sums up what I have been thinking for several years as I watched several families that I love tear apart churches and each other apart with Calvinista/Arminian, Quiverfull, Gothardism, correct christianity dujour.

    Argo thank you for putting into words what I have lived. I was saved at 17 and am now 56. My mom who is a strong christian woman is also like this. I finally learned in my 40’s and have taught my daughter, to just go along when she does the passive agressive questions, that in actuallity (sp?) question your salvation or spiritual standing. These always come out when she does not agree with something you are saying/doing or if you do not immediately get interested or on the bandwagon with a certain teaching/issue she finds important. What is even worse is this has become my general MO with the church and other christians. I am a whimp for Jesus. 🙂

    This is why I really appreciate our always stylish and glamourous WW Blog Queens!!

    sorry i’m rambling…

  19. Today, however, I am regularly confronted by those who believe that, in order to be a “real” Christian one must believe in all sorts of doctrines such as 5 point Calvinism, adult baptism, young earth creationism, premillenial rapture, weekly communion, no alcohol, gender restrictions of all sorts, patriarchy, quiverfull, and on and on.

    Dee, you know what these guys keep reminding me of?

    Communist Party Ideologists. Purity of Ideology, Purity of Ideology, Purity of Ideology. And the same attitude towards Couterrrevolutionary Bourgeiose (i.e. anyone outside The Party) and what should be done with them.

  20. Thanks, Barbara and Seneca. I suspected that the situation that Seneca described might be the case, and I can’t imagine there would be many women who would jump at the chance to teach in such a hostile environment–I consider myself fairly thick-skinned, and I wouldn’t take a job there for anything. I’m still curious about the in-house Ph. D. angle, and wondering how common it is in other seminaries that are affiliated with specific denominations. I’ll have to look over my connections and see whom I could discreetly ask.

    End of rabbit trail. =)

  21. Eagle:”In a nutshell I believe many fundys have made doctrine an idol. That’s the problem…and whether it be YEC, or how women are to be treated their obsession with these issues shows that they have elevated it to a status of worship. Mark Driscoll, Tim Challis, and crowd are worshiping these items over Jesus. For them Jesus isn’t enough.”

    I completely agree…this is a profound but true thing you’ve said. Someone on another blog (maybe it was this one…I wish I could remember) said something equally as good. They said that the Calvinistas (or fundys, as you call them; or hyper-authoritarian tyrants as I call them) have made the Epistles of Paul the new Torah; where they elevate the new “law” over the well-being of our fellow human beings. I think this is completely accurate…and I think parallels nicely your “idolatry of doctrine” perspective. It’s not an idolatry of the Bible as some have suggested, but their own interpretations that they worship. In essence, if you follow this sick logic through it’s not long before you realize that they worship themselves…so not only is Jesus not enough, He really doesn’t factor into the equation at all. People’s salvation depends not on Christ, but on whatever doctrine any given despot decides to make the lynch-pin of his mega-church/para-church.

    Meet the new law…same as the old law.

  22. Eagle and Argo –

    I totally agree with what you both wrote. It is so sad to think that if Jesus walked the earth today he may well look at many of today’s Christian leaders and call them out as hypocrites.

    My first thoughts when viewing the video clip of Mr. Noble were:

    ..Is this what Jesus said about children?

    ..Did Jesus teach at a PG13 and above rating?

    ..When Jesus taught the 5000, were children sitting on the hills?

    ..Would the Good Shepherd say that the 99 were more important than the one?

    ..Does hearing the Gospel and salvation require sitting in Perry Noble’s church with no distractions nor interruptions from people going in and out or children making noise?

    ..Is God required to work in a way pleasing to Perry Noble and Matt Chandler or any human being?

    ..Did Jesus tell us that the only way to be saved from ignorance (no hope for me there-it’s not my intelligence that I’m concerned about any way) was listening to a pastor or elder?

    Jesus said when you see me you have seen the Father . . . He and the Father are one . . . God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world (Mr. Noble), but in order that the world might be saved through him.

    I hate to break it to the Calvanistas 🙁 but if they haven’t heard – Jesus didn’t hang out with the “In” crowd!

    This is what Jesus said, “You search the Scriptures because you think that in them you have eternal life; and it is they that bear witness about me, yet you refuse to come to me that you may have life. I do not receive glory from people. But I know that you do not have the love of God within you. I have come in my Father’s name, and you do not receive me. If another comes in his own name, you will receive him. How can you believe, when you receive glory from one another and do not seek the glory that comes from the only God? . . .” This is at the end of John 5.

    I am not questioning anyone’s salvation with these scriptures. I would NEVER do that. These are simply the words that Jesus spoke to the “keepers of the law.” I, personally, believe they are as applicable today as they were 2000 years ago.

    I think laws are easier than relationships for some of us. Relatioships can be messy and break hearts. Following laws keeps us distant and (mistakenly?) clean and safe.

    Jesus says his sheep will know (relationship) his voice.

    Finished with my ramblings.

    Eagle – please separate much of today’s “Christianity” from what Jesus Christ declared to the world about himself. Who knows – one day you may be sharing the Gospel “to” some of your former church friends! 🙂

  23. This was a fun post to read.

    I have never really like CT. I feel like it is to Christian magazines and journals what USA Today is to newspapers.

    I understand you desire for the type of church that you seek.

    I, too, don’t like bombastic people, and tire of many of the issues that you have mentioned.

    But let me add that there can be and are thousands of churches that come down on some of the issues that you seek to want no official position to be held.

    I understand your desire on these particular issues for the ideal church to have no official position so that people of every stripe can be in the same church together.

    Let me suggest that an equally good option (though it might not be preferred by you) is that a church does take a position on some of these issues (even ones that I disagree with), but they do so with Grace and they major on the major issues.

    Most denominations, for example, have denominational distinctives that Christians from other denominations would not agree with. So that would prohibit those Christians from being members in the same congregation. And I think that really is a good thing, so that different types of churches can keep order.

    But I also believe that convictions about these things should not keep fellow Christians from acknowledging their bond in Christ and enjoying deep fellowship.

    As an example, I am not a Charismatic. I don’t believe that I have a strict cessationist doctrine that is firmly found in scripture, but it is a type of modified cessaation (sort of) that I have deduced from a combination of scripture, logic, history and personal experience.

    I do not wish my Charismatic brothers ill. We share many things, and I admire their emphases on some aspects of the Christian life.

    But for us to be in a church together, run a church, worship together, do ministry and education together, that is really going to be unworkable.

    So, while I understand the longing that you have, I see that longing fulfilled in heaven when we will not even have the need for the answers to these issues.

    In the meantime, I believe it is a perfectly acceptable and God honoring option to attend a church of one’s choice that may hold positions on many issues that are not central to the Gospel, but they hold these positions with a sense of balance and charity.

    I am sure that you agree with this, too, but just thought I would share my perspective.

  24. As always Dee, you write an insightful post and bring to the forefront what many blogs in Christendom are reluctant to discuss.

    You’ll be pleased to know that I have just finished reading “The Abolition of Man” by C.S. Lewis. It’s the first C.S. Lewis work I’ve ever read. It can be tough going with its grad-school rigor & old school British venue, but if ya stick with it and do some digging you’ll get it.

    You wrote: “…Gospel driven leaders” are now questioning the salvation of CS Lewis and Martin Luther…”

    After reading Lewis’s appendix to “Abolition” which includes the analects of Confucius and the thoughts of non-Christian Western thinkers (Jewish & pagan), I can see why the Calvinista ideologues despise him. Lewis presents evidence that humans are not totally depraved but are also endowed by their Creator with a spark of divine, and with the volition to exercise it or to not exercise it.

    Francis Schaeffer and not Lewis is the great godfather of the YRR, because Schaeffer’s emphasis was on ideological purity in reformed thought, not pragmatism & practice for a general Christian populace. Schaeffer is to them what Chairman Mao’s little red book was to the cultural warriors of the People’s Republic back in the day.

  25. I would certainly disagree about the Schaeffer/Chairmn Mao link. Francis Schaeffer wrote 22 books about a wide variety of topics and as far as I know, he was not responsible for the death of 40 to 70 million people. He probably is responsible for saving, thru his writings/speeches, numerous infants who would otherwise have been aborted.

  26. Wiki – There are few academic sources discussing Mao’s private life, which was very secretive at the time of his rule. However, after Mao’s death, his personal physician Li Zhisui published a memoir of unique insight into Mao’s private life: The Private Life of Chairman Mao, which claims that Mao chain smoked cigarettes, never bathed or brushed his teeth, rarely got out of bed, was addicted to sleeping pills and had a large number of sexual partners from whom he contracted venereal disease.[113]

    Francis pretty much stuck exclusively to Mrs. Schaeffer; appears that he bathed, brushed his teeth, was generally out of bed, not addicted to illicit or licit substances and did not appear to suffer from veneral diseases.

  27. “This is what Jesus said, “You search the Scriptures because you think that in them you have eternal life; and it is they that bear witness about me, yet you refuse to come to me that you may have life. I do not receive glory from people. But I know that you do not have the love of God within you. I have come in my Father’s name, and you do not receive me. If another comes in his own name, you will receive him. How can you believe, when you receive glory from one another and do not seek the glory that comes from the only God? . . .” This is at the end of John 5.”

    Bridget2, thank you so much for posting this scripture. I had forgotten about it. Wow…excellent, and really eerily and utterly appropriate for how the calvinistas have made the new law the same as the old law. Thanks!

  28. Muff
    You picked one of Lewis’ most difficult books to read first! You have impressed me, once again. So, now you understand me just a little bit better.It is interesting to note that Schaeffer’s son, Frank Jr, has deserted the evangelical church and is now Russian Orthodox. If my Russian father were still alive, and knew this, he would be pressuring me to return to the orthodox faith.

  29. Anonymous

    So, the solution is to have a gazillion denominations and independent churches, each one firmly convinced that they are right? Something is wrong. I agree that it would be difficult to meld charismatics and cessationists, primarily because the order in the service is very, very different and not compatible. However, I think we can have people attend church together who view baptism, creation, eschatology and even the role of women differently. The reason that I say this is because I am a member of such a church.

    Christ emphasized that we are to be One body, unified. Looking at the church in America today, can you truthfully say that this is the case? Did Christ merely mean that we would be one, someday? i am not so sure.

  30. Bridget

    i cannot imagine Jesus telling the people that “you such as a human being” not can I imagine Him calling them idiots and dumb sheep.The only ones He seemed to get miffed at were the Pharisees and the moneychangers (users). Hmm…the shoe fits in this situation. I find this man obnoxious and a disgrace.

  31. Dee:

    I affirm you in your selection of churches.

    But I can also affirm others in their selection.

    It would be very hard for me to attend a church where the pastor made a conscious decision to take no position on what Baptism is – an act of the confessional believer that is symbolic of our burial and being raised to walk in newness of life – vs. the NT version of circumcision that is a sacrament and “a means of Grace”. I would have no problem whatsoever with a Presbyterian attending the church I attend, just so long as what I believe about Baptism is taught and I would want other members to agree with that so we would not have issues about the view of the congregation later.

    The same thing is true with polity. I would not want a Diocese or Presbytry ruling the congregation I was in from without. Or, in the Methodist context, having a Bishop overseeing our congregation and determining who will be our minister and for how long.

    Also, on the so-called “women” issue, it is fine with me if people with differing views worship together. But one view will be practiced, I suppose. So, one of the two sides in that issue will have to live with the practice adopted.

    I really don’t think that any of this dishonors Christ.

  32. Argo
    Wade Burleson talks about the theology of love. I am now anticipating our critics to jump in and say we are willing to compromise to be loving. Bah humbug (still coming down from Christmas). I believe that some of these guys emphasize secondary issues over love.Here is a question. When you think of John Piper, Tim Challies, etc, do the words “love” come to mind. Or do the words, “theological wonk” sound more descriptive? Now, think of Jesus. Did He spend a lot of time lecturing women not to read Scripture in the pulpit?

  33. Eagle
    There are some Calvinistas who are not YE. Those who are not believe they are walking “on the wild side.” I cannot wait for Mohler to begin the YE Inquisition. These guys are going to end up fighting with each other. Ought to be interesting.

  34. Eagle

    That has always been my problem. I ask lots and lots of questions which drove on particular pastor rather nuts. I have always sought church in which questions are answered and know that any pastor, who becomes irritated with questions, is a pastor with a thin skin and should be avoided like the plague.

  35. HUG

    You are right on the money. I actually have a picture one reader sent me in which a banner of Calvin, hung at a Calvinista conference, looked exactly like Lenin (red, goatee, etc.).

  36. mykingdom

    We are always stylish so that our readers can be assured that all comments about bloggers sitting in their pajamas in the mother’s basements do not ever refer to us!

    It is always wise to pick your battles. Ideologues will almost always become incensed if you question the basis of their beliefs. Many have not thought them through but come by their “mandates” because they follow a personality who they are sure is always correct. Once confronted with the weakness of their arguments, they become anxious because the basis of their belief is not founded in thoughtful contemplation but knee jerk reaction to the latest “thing.”
    Look at the number of people who perpetuate urban legends. These are the same people who will take anything that proceeds from the mouth of their idol as “gospel.”
    Thank you for reading the blog.

  37. Robin
    I need to keep track of those who say such things. I read them over at the typical blogs of the YRR crowd. I’ll start taking notes and one day do a post on who makes derogatory comments on these folks.

  38. Argo
    I am used to criticism when i bring up the idea of secondary issues. When I saw this in my former church, I was appalled and surprise, both at the same time. This blog was a way for me not to lose my mind! I needed to get this stuff off my chest and it has been cathartic. But, what has been a pleasant surprise is how many people out their sing our song. And that is our reason for being. There needs to be a place for the “rest of the story” which is told by commenters like you. We ain’t going anywhere (groans being heard in certain sectors).

  39. Seneca,

    The analogy was strictly rhetorical. A rhetorical analogy says nothing whatsoever about specific elements moral or otherwise being mapped into or out of the statement. Only that the main structure is similar. I could just as well have used some analogy to show that Lewis is the godfather of some non-reformed cleric or theologian.

  40. Dee,

    First off, you have used numerous Lewis quotes in starting off some of your discussion threads. Secondly, one of my favorite authors (Dean Koontz), starts off his “Frankenstein” series with Lewis quotes from “Abolition”. So I decided to investigate. (smiley face)

  41. Dee and Deb –

    I wonder if these men who distain bloggers ever wondered what the priests and pharisees thought of those lowly fishermen and ladies of the night who followed that carpenter about? No one would surely listen to any of them!? And then, bother of all bothers, that Pharisee of all Pharisees who was so well versed in the law. He had the nerve to convert and follow this carpenter, and Oh! My! he started writing letters and sending them all over the WORLD. Paul, Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John – WHAT WERE YOU THINKING writing all those books about Jesus? Don’t you know that you are not qualified to discuss the things of God? You’re just common folks living in your mothers’ homes. Many of you aren’t even married for goodness sake!!

    Do these silly men (who don’t even dress as nice as our Blog Queens) ever listen to their own words and compare them to what Jesus taught?

    My fun for the day 🙂

  42. Dee,
    I feel like these Calvinistas are like the Pharisees in this: they will look to God’s word for truth in guidance in any subject, any “doctrine” except the doctrine of the second greatest commandment: love your neighbor as yourself. That’s why I agree that they have made the New Testament, particularly the Epistles of Paul the new Torah. The law was made for man, not man for the law…which is why David could eat the consecrated bread; why Jesus could heal on the Sabbath; why His disciples could eat the wheat. But those men you mentioned–Piper, Challis, Mahaney–they do not do this. They say stay in your abusive marriage. Forbid women from having ambition to teach, preach, or work outside the home. All because they are so zealous for the LAW of the NT. This is precisely why they remind me of the Pharisees, not Jesus. When I think of those men you mentioned, I think “Oh my gosh! RUUUUNN!!!” or better “KHAAAAAAAN!”

    I read these blogs. I read my friends great book “God Loves the Freaks” and for the first time in YEARS I WANT to tell people about Jesus because I realize that they can actually lead a life of PEACE and acceptance through a God who doesn’t hate them but loves them…loves what they like, what they dream, what they wear, what their in to, what their ambitions are…they are not selfish tools to be themselves; he doesn’t love their SIN, of COURSE I don’t mean that…but they don’t have to change who they are to be saved, and thy don’t have to be afraid anymore; and they don’t have to listen to spiritual tyrants.

    Leaving SGM feels like I’ve just been paroled.

  43. Francis Schaeffer was more a pop culture critic and preacher than a person who formed the ideological backbone of what has become YRR. I don’t see YRR as having an ideologically stable foundation unless we’re “only” talking theonomists who would claim to go back to Rushdoony and then to Cornelius van Til (though it’s debatable whether van Til would have approved of where theonomists take some of his ideas). Carl MacIntyre arguably played a significant role in politically and theologically conservative Reformed land but I wonder how many folks remember him even by name.

    My Eastern Orthodox friends and relatives seem to agree they think Frank Schaeffer is an idiot and Orthodox-in-name-only. All Frank seems to do is sell books and articles where he pisses all over his dad’s legacy because that’s all he has. He’s not exactly distinguished himself as a novelist or film-maker to the point where people would know him for that work. Mediocrity in itself can be respectable but blogging that he predicted Christian right-wing terrorism days after Breivik was caught and this he predicted because his old man was advocating terrorism is positively mercenary. Anyone who actually read Crazy for God would ask Frank how on earth he keeps working to have it both ways. After saying Francis was very tolerant and lenient about homosexuals in one book one year he turns around and tries to sell his now dead old man as a founder of christian right-wing terrorist a la Breivik when Breivik’s actual beliefs put him at a far remove from anything Francis Schaeffer publicly advocated for for decades. I’ve come to have a lot of disagreements with Francis Schaeffer over the years but if Francis were alive today YRR’s would probably give him the boot just for Pollution and the Death of Man being too ecologically concerned. I think Frank was smoking crack when he imagined Francis Schaeffer could have been a hero of the Religious Left but Frank admitted he did at least some drugs.

  44. I actually have a picture one reader sent me in which a banner of Calvin, hung at a Calvinista conference, looked exactly like Lenin (red, goatee, etc.). — Dee

    As in this was actually done by Calvinistas as a genuine Icon and NOT as a joke? Because the “looked exactly like Lenin” done in the style of an old Soviet Icon is a common joke poster, usually showing someone you don’t like. And these Calvinistas actually did the same as homage?

  45. You wrote: “…Gospel driven leaders” are now questioning the salvation of CS Lewis and Martin Luther…” — Muff Potter

    And eventually of EVERYONE other than themselves.

  46. WTH

    Wow! You know a lot of Frankie Jr that I did not know. The more i read about this stuff, the more grateful I am for the grace of Jesus because we sure are a bunch of messed up people, aren’t we?

  47. HUG
    This was no joke. It was a background decoration from a conference. I have held onto the picture, deciding whetherr or not to post it but i think I may do so soon.

  48. HUG
    Oh, once they get rid of us, they will start going after each other. There is no end to the number of things they can make “orthodox” and necessary to be a real Christian. I am curious. Who will be the guy left standing?

  49. Argo
    You have been paroled. You can leave behind the book of regulations and participate in the concert of freedom. No more people giving you “observations.” No more pastors pretending they are the “worst sinner in the world” yet treat you like they know you are. No more half-baked theological concepts misapplied. No more beating you over the head, calling you a dumb, sinful sheep. Now, you get to discover the true immensity of the grace of Jesus.And actually enjoy it instead of feeling like a failure.

  50. Bridget2
    It really irks them off that a couple of women can be so disruptive to the status quo, even well-coiffed ones.

  51. Dee –

    Were they referring to you and Deb specifically in that clip, or just bloggers in general? Well I guess in their mind if you aren’t an ordained, male, pastor then you can’t share the Good News or study the scriptures in their original texts because your still under the curse and can’t possibly interpret what you read. Sigh 🙁 Their good news no longer sounds like the Good News.

  52. Longtime reader, 1st time poster. Thank you for your blog and for this article. We spent 21 years in 2 Calvinista churches and then God got us out, for which we will be eternally grateful.

    I concur with what others have said. There is no love, no respect, no cordiality, no manners, no grace, no boundaries, no common sense, no decency. Correct doctrine and their rules is their god. They’re right, you’re wrong and you don’t matter (I was told this once.) They don’t get along with anyone and hold their own people suspect. Bottom line, they have no love and have forgotten Christ.

  53. Irish
    Welcome. If ever there was a concise statement about the Calvinistas (or, as I like to refer to them as NAR- the Not so Young, Arrogant and Rude), yours sums it up in a nutshell!

    It bears repeating
    There is no love, no respect, no cordiality, no manners, no grace, no boundaries, no common sense, no decency. Correct doctrine and their rules is their god. They’re right, you’re wrong and you don’t matter (I was told this once.) They don’t get along with anyone and hold their own people suspect. Bottom line, they have no love and have forgotten Christ. Cue applause.

  54. Dee…you have mentioned you came to know Jesus during and episode of Star Trek…I loved the old series, am curious to know which episode?

  55. Goodwoman
    My answer may be somewhat of a disappointment. i was such a fan of sci fi, even as a kid. I grew up in a non-Christian home and was one of those kids that always asked why. Sci fi, for me, was a way to express that I knew there was something much more “out there.” So, I was watching Star Trek one evening. Spock and McCoy were having one of their humorous tiffs. Kirk was smiling. That is all i remember but I still picture it vivdly-the smells from the kitchen, my dad’s old leather chair that I was sitting in, the old console TV. At the same time, I was reading a Life Magazine article called The Groovy Christian of Rye, NY. It spoke of a religious conversion of teens in this town. One kid said “It isn’t a religions; it’s a relationship.

    At that moment, I knew what it was I was searching for- a relationship with the Creator of this unimaginable universe. I believed. I didn’t pray a sinner’s prayer. I didn’t know about such things. But I did finally know, in my being, the Creator wanted a relationship with me. I immediately understood Scripture when I read it. Funny thing, one of the first books I was given after my profession was the first book of CS Lewis’ Out of the Silent Planet-a space trilogy. Did God know me or what? i was thrilled. Christian could enjoy sci fi!

    if you notice, most of the pictures that I post are from space. To this day, space, sci fi, etc make me smile as I recall the first time I believed. I think I have read almost every Christian sci fi book, along with many others. I will do a post on it someday. Thanks for asking. It is my favorite subject.

  56. WTH – I loved Crazy for God; also two of Frank’s novels (Portofino and Saving Grandma). Not fond of Zermatt.

    I don’t feel comfortable with most of what Frank writes (or has written in the past), but Crazy for God helped me make sense of my time at Swiss L’Abri, back in the mid-70s. 9I didn’t know his family, although I heard both Udo and John preach and lead studies – John was wonderful).

    Swiss L’Abri is (or was) a very quirky place!

  57. I couldn’t agree with this post more, but I have to correct you on two points. First, about Perry Noble. I am no fan of him and neither are the YRR. Calvinistas do NOT adore him: They despise him as a pragmatic sellout who embraces the corporate model at the expense of true spirituality. See the elephant room: Chandler calls him out for saying that doctrine and evangelism are opposite extremes. Second, Perry Noble is clearly NOT saying that you suck as a human being if you don’t like the music (though I can hardly blame people for taking it that way). What he is rebuking is the attitude of, “If it doesn’t suit my fancy, I don’t show up and participate.” The man said he showed up late because he didn’t care for the music. His preference wasn’t met, so he won’t participate. Imagine a church full of parishioners whose participation was dependent upon their preferences being met. It would be impossible to get anything done, ever. I am a fan of very little Noble does, and especially the demeanor and terminology with which he addresses this issue, but he is right to shun the consumerist approach to church. (When he’s not appealing to it with AC/DC, that is…)

    As for what you would like to see in a church, there is a denomination (Evangelical Covenant Church) where both credobaptists and paedobaptists worship together and the preachers are required to teach both views. I find that commendable. Members of those churches can choose to have their babies either baptized or dedicated.

    I believe it is possible to take that approach on woman’s ordination. In fact, I believe some denominations have. Most denominations that allow women’s ordination do not require it, and to the extent that the local congregations have authority they are often allowed to refuse it if they are so convicted. I suppose that is a bad reflection on the complimentarian crowd that they insist on taking their proverbial ball and going home from that game.

  58. numo, I actually enjoyed reading Crazy for God (and I own it) because though I found a lot to like about Francis Schaeffer I still think he’s been given a halo effect by evangelicals who have used him as a shortcut for actually engaging the arts at any critical level. Instead of following Francis Schaeffer’s EXAMPLE of getting into the theater of the absurd or trying to wrap his head around the avant garde a lot of people used Francis Schaeffer’s work as an excuse to not arrive at any potentially independent assessment of the things he wrote about.

    I read Addicted to Mediocrity more than a decade ago and ultimately came to the conclusion that, unfortunately for Frank, a mediocrity complaining about American evangelicals being addicted to mediocrity was a problematic polemic. I admit that if Addicted to Mediocrity were a polemic written by Bob Dylan or Brad Bird instead of a Frank Schaeffer I would have a completely different reaction to such a polemic.

  59. WTH – I hear you! I was an art student when I went to L’Abri; F. Schaeffer’s openness to the arts made it a kind of necessary pilgrimage. *But* – it seemed like all anyone ever did was parrot either Schaeffer or Rookmaaker – me, too. (Even when I actually didn’t agree in their assessments of artists and their work.)

    While I was there, Frank’s movies were being screened down in the village (lots of locals were extras) and we were pretty much required to go and watch them. I just… well, lots of us thought they were amateurish at best, but it wasn’t something you could really say in public, if you get my drift.

    Scaheffer’s later books were really kind of a shock to me, since they were *so* far off from his earlier books, and very, very strident. (I didn’t read all of them; kind of stopped once I’d had time to digest How Shall we Then Live?, and didn’t know of his currency in right-wing political circles until many years later.) If anything, I’d guess that F.S. was starting to sound like Angry Young Man Frank…

    As for Addicted to Mediocrity, I’d probably like it if Bob Dylan had written it. (What a nifty idea!) But it struck me as really over the top, and then there was his “book” (more like an unedited rant, in late 90s) about art – not something I was supposed to bring up in conversation, I was told, by friends who worked at a school where Udo taught (here in the states) very briefly.

    Agreed in your assessment of F.S. as a “token intellectual” in many evangelical circles, though I think a lot of Americans deserve a bit of a pass when it comes to things like Theatre of the Absurd… it’s not right under most folks’ noses in the way it likely was in parts of Western Europe.

  60. yikes! typos in my lat post… Frank’s “art” book came out in the late 80s, for one.

    One thing to note – re. so many peoples’ criticism of Frank’s supposed airing dirty laundry about his family – is that pretty much everything he talks about is *not* news to anyone who read his mom’s books. As for people who’ve been to Swiss L’Abri, I think we all heard stories about Frank, and I’m sure he knows that. 😉

    One thing about Crazy for God that I found disheartening was Frank’s discussion of the splits with both Os Guinness and John. (I have no axe to grind re. Os; it’s just sad to see how he was acting about who should take over once F.S. retired; I heard rumors about John and was/am sorry to see how he was ousted from teaching, as he and Prisca are both sweet people and John is really a good teacher.)

  61. Miguel
    Thanks for commenting.

    Perry Noble is included with the Calvinistas in the Elephant Room. So, some seem to think he is part of this “elite group.”

    As for the music, let me tell you a true story. Did you know that some people with hearing aids have a very difficult time with loud or blaring music, especially bass pounding? I know several older folks who went to a music minister to discuss this issue with him, to try to reach a resolution. He refused to consider the possibility of a compromise-for example, one service in which it was turned down, a section within the church in which speakers were redirected, etc. He refused, they just came to church late. Well, actually a few just left.

    I have heard this about the ECC. It sounds as if they make a point of keeping some secondary issues, just that!

  62. Dee, the Elephant Room is not remotely a Calvinista Club. Noble, Furtik, and Greg Laurie are hard Wesleyans in their theology and revivalistic their methodology. That was the point of the elephant room, to a certain extent: bringing opposite views together to hash it out. The three churches those guys represent, one is a Calvary Chapel, are very large, and that is what “qualified” them for the event, NOT their brand of theology. Chandler and Driscoll were the only 5 point tulips there, to my knowledge.

    I’ve lived your music story, I am a music minister and I’ve dealt with this battle more times than I can count. I am a staunch advocate of compromise, sensitivity, and bending over backwards to get multiple generations singing together. But I think in this situation, the complaint was about style, not volume. Those are two separate issues that should not be confused (the loudest services I have been in were driven by a ginormous pipe organ – it rattled the air down my esophagus…). In your situation, there was a severe lack of sensitivity in the leadership. I don’t blame anyone for leaving a church that insists on causing physical discomfort. Perry seems to be addressing a situation where their niche genre isn’t being catered to. If so, he rightly opposes it. If they are showing up late because it is simply uncomfortably loud, well good for them, but at some point, is the church still worth going to? (The answer is no for a long list of reasons before this even came up!)

  63. Miguel: “Perry seems to be addressing a situation where their niche genre isn’t being catered to. If so, he rightly opposes it.”

    Puh-leeeze.
    When I read such tortured justifications I am almost brought to the point of despairing.
    Dee & Deb: How do you manage take it all and maintain your sanity?

  64. Ted, that is neither tortured or a justification. If you read my two comments in full, I clearly stated no one could be blamed for taking offense at that; Noble is tactless and forceful, and a textbook example of how not to respond to parishioners. But it is still shallow to attend church only when and where you like the music, and that’s what has him so riled up. He handled it poorly. The man clearly said to him, “I come late because I don’t like the music,” not, “this music is so loud it’s causing physical discomfort.” IMO, that attitude, and not just Noble’s behavior, is worth calling out. That being said, I abhor that church’s approach to music and would never attend.

  65. This was no joke. It was a background decoration from a conference. I have held onto the picture, deciding whetherr or not to post it but i think I may do so soon. — Dee

    Calvin as Lenin… No Joke…

    So the only difference between Calvinism and Communism is becoming which Party Line gets duckspeaked?

    Oh, once they get rid of us, they will start going after each other. There is no end to the number of things they can make “orthodox” and necessary to be a real Christian. I am curious. Who will be the guy left standing? — Dee

    What do predators eat after they’ve killed off all the prey?

  66. I am enjoying all this immensely and have been relieved to find out in the last several months that there are others who have come through a journey from nutty legalism to soft core legalism but who are now floundering a bit. There are good sites out there to read, though the ones that feature former extreme conservative Christians now proclaiming atheism make me sad.

    Your description of a church that accepts differences sounds wonderful to me, but here is what I am trying to think through…It seems that one of the big problems with what you call neo-Calvinists is that they make up their own rules and make demi gods out of their leaders. The traditional system of denominations seems to avoid this, because churches are basically controlled from afar. I am sure this leads to a whole n’other set of problems, though perhaps less hero-ization of any one pastor.

    So where is the middle ground? Doesn’t a more formal, less whimsical and vindictive type of church normally have a set of particular points of doctrine? Doesn’t that hamper the ability of Christians with varied ideas to mesh together?

    Maybe what is throwing me off is that what I’m looking at here as “doctrine” shouldn’t even be defined as such… I’m thinking of the hysterical adherence to Young Earth Creationism (been there somewhat) and all that. Also, the rapture issue, ordination of women… I guess the point here is that the “neo-Calvinists” elevate many things to an importance they should not have.

    I would love for anyone to share their thoughts. I just know as I am enjoying the realization of my liberty in Christ, I notice others in similar position heading back to more “traditional” churches from the Piper, Patriarch, McArthur models.

    Thanks for helping me sort this out.